Hello friends! Thank you for enjoying my edit, a part two is coming up soon with newer dramas. If you're looking for *which dramas* I used, I've added them in *subtitles* ! Happy watching and stay strong and fierce, you're all wonders! 💗
"Walk with your keys between your knuckles", "be careful when comin' back home at night" and "always defend yourself if a boy tries to touch you without permission" are sentences I heard from my mom since I was really young, and I bet all women go throught it as well. I've never seen anything sadder than the look in her eyes while she was telling me that. People shouldn't be protecting their daughters, they should be teaching their sons how to act like civilized people, not uncontrollable animals.
word. Even tho I personally never experienced something horrible, the fact that little girls (or anyone assigned female at birth) have to know this to protect themselves is too much. The fact that it's so hard to be safe, it's impossible
''you can dress up and wear eyeliner too'' LOL I love that line! Ofcourse the message is most important with this video, but the great editing should not be ignored :D
"If she's asking for it, she can just ask for it." ~ Vir Das (an intellectual comedian) Not all men, but 97% women. For me personally (i'm a little comfortable saying this behind this anonymous screen) it happened to me when i was 6, then again when i was 8. It's not all men. We know that. But its 97% women. And in some places still taken as a joke. previous and current generations had to deal with this crap, let's all be human and teach the future generations about respect. Respect for gender, respect for race, respect for culture, respect for religion, and respect for different societal classes. "Boys wont be boys, boys will be what we teach them to be." For anyone who doesn't know about the code: If a girl comes up to you pretending to know you and sticking close, check around to see if there is anyone suspicious nearby, most likely she's trying to shake off a creep. Don't act weirded out just ask her in secret and act like you guys know each other, it's surprising how most ppl just act shocked and just shake them off thinking they are weird. Also this happens to men too (even if its not as common), so if there are any signs that males are getting harrassed don't ignore it please. We all need to protect each other the best way we can :) Have a good day :D (edit) Thanks for all the positivity in the comment section, i hope you guys are doing better than what you had to go through, you are never alone and there will always be an army behind you to support you even if they are not physically there! Stay strong you are doing great!! :)
I'm so sorry, you were really young, I hate this society... Then they say we are all crazy and make everything up... Sigh I hope we can support each other and that way advance as a society.
@@sriyachikate2592 well I was talking about women supporting each other, sorority. I think it didn't sounded like that. I think this gen of men are already corrupted and we have to teach the next gen bc they already made their mind about us...
"Hey gorgeous" I remember reading this text message I got from my older brother's former private tutor. I was only 10 y/o. And what was even worse is that I blamed myself for walking and jumping around the house wearing miniskirts and shorts. I thought it was MY fault that he texted me something so disgusting;but I realized while growing up that it never was my fault to begin with. Many of us have grown up to believing that sexual assault is OUR fault,it's because WE were wearing SHORT SKIRTS, AND TIGHT CLOTHES. But,it isn't. THOSE IDIOTS WHO TALK SHIT AND FORCE THEMSELVES ON WOMEN ARE THE ONES AT FAULT.
It's never the clothes. If women in burkhas get sexually assaulted then how do tight clothes do anything at all here? Hell even babies get raped, so then does that mean such men get turned on by diapers?🙄
I really love Mianmian for not accepting others' bullshit, defending and trusting Wei Ying when the majority of the clans were against him, leaving the Jin Clan in the most badass way possible and doing so in front of many other people, including the said sect leader himself. Queen behavior.
My best friend and me were both sexually assaulted before getting out of middle school… my middle school graduation is tomorrow. Still hurts knowing me and her were not able to do anything to stop it. That’s why she doesn’t wear skirts and I don’t wear tight clothes. Both of our voices change when we talk about it because we are so angry we have to put up with it for the rest of our lives. I almost got kidnapped, I’ve been touched inappropriately, and gotten starred at. My bestie had it worse sadly. So now I carry pepper spray at all times and have a softball bat beside my bed. This sucks and I can’t do much about it other than lose weight in my hips/butt/boob area and wear extra loose clothing. If I talk back I get hurt, if I don’t talk back I get hurt, if I walk away I get hurt. There is no winning for women.
Sweety, who said there's no winning for women?! you will never find a way out if you think this way/ believe in this. LISTEN, YOU are the SOLUTION. YOU are the WAY OUT. HOW? by making yourself stronger, by empowering yourself. LEARN MARTIAL ARTS or KICKBOXING so you can defend yourself in the worst-case situation ( God forbid) I'm not saying go, beat people, no... but learning how to defend yourself, knowing you CAN DEFEND/ PROTECT yourself will empower you... you will feel safe...you will be safe... you will not walk away hurt or in shame... but remember to choose your battles wisely... I'm telling you this from experience, I went through hell and beyond but I never gave up on myself. I always believed that we women are the real deal. we are the winners in this life coz we are WARRIORS. So, take a step back, reflect on your life, think about what do you want to be in the future, how do you want to be treated, set your goals, make a plan, stick to it. and remember to take baby steps, believe me, I've been there, I've seen it all but I made it. now I can proudly say I'm a warrior sweety, if I did it you can do it too. It's in our genes. Remember, we are warriors, we never give up on ourselves. Take good care of yourself, love. P.S be a crazy woman.. it sometimes helps too ;) ;)
You have a right to be hurt, you have a right to be angry, and you have a right to feel lost. Everything that happened to you is fucked up and full of injustice. It's my worst nightmare, so bad I can't even begin to imagine it. I can only sympathize for now. Still, I think that you're incredibly brave and amazing for continuing on no matter how you continue on, and maybe that much can be winning too. That much is a statement. I wish the absolute best for you and that it gets better from here
Jz ....make sure to ....always protect. ..yourself no matter what ..stand for yourself no matter what ...and ..have power in yourself ...to hit ..tht person with all your power .....never ....ever .....hide anything ..any ..bad ... behaviour ..jz .make sure ..tht they should get their cup of tea ...
I'm so sorry this happened to you and your friend. It still doesn't sound like you're in a safe situation. Are you able to get to a safe place? I know it's scary, I ran away from home at 14. But there are safe places you can try to go, such as Salvation Army shelters, to get away from the violence you have encountered. There are also safe houses for women and children. Maybe your school counselor can guide you. I hope you get the resources you need. If someone doesn't help you, ask someone else, until you do get the help you need. Everyone deserves to be safe. Much love.
@@sarahjohnson7753 I am very safe I’m living with my bestie as of right now. And my parents are getting the help they need. So I am safe I just have trauma. Much love from me too. Thank you for caring tho. It’s just the area we live in so yeah. I actually moved out at 13 to my grandmothers house because it was safer for me. But thank you for the information you gave me.
In our school we have girls section where boys cannot be and boys section too in one school. We used to play basketball for our PE class I remember the girls saying that boys were peeking between the doors. I slammed the basketball on the door and I could hear screams and the boys back off. Honestly one of the most satisfying memories 😂😂💔 makes me laigh every time.
in my country the boys have their own schools just as girls and boys always try to get to our school to take pics of girls so one time i was watching them from the window while they were trying to get in i took a pics of them and them scream at them saying get the hell out they get scared and run they even left their friend who get in😂 then i give their pics to the teacher and she talked to the police after a day my brother says that they were They have been suspended from school forever and i think what you did is so funny and cool tho
After seeing all the sexual harassments on other girls,i came to realization that it happened to me too. I was 10 years old that time,we were going to travel because it was summer holidays by train. My father met a young man, befriended with him cz he was a local of that place. During the traveling days,he always came to the place where we sit,talk with my parents. He was super sweet,just like a brother. But his intension was something else. During the 2nd day on the train,I was asking my older brother for the mobile to play games,but he refused. Then that man came sit with me,he told my brother to give his phone to me and he did. As I was playing games,I felt something on my waist,when I turn around to see he moved his hand. First I didn't notice anything and I was unaware of that. Then he slowly touched my thighs and tried to touch my private part. I felt really weird and when I looked at him,he was dumbfounded. Then I stood up and went to sit beside my brother. Idk if my brother noticed or not but he told me to sleep in his sit and he'll be awake to keep an eye on me. And since that time,that man didn't came to us anymore. Even my mom said that he didn't feel good,he was kinda creepy. And years later,I found what happened that day. I felt really hurt and broken,I cried for many hours. After reading some of the comments,I tried to open up my mind. Stay safe girls from all over the world. And boys too.
@random guy1 do you guys tremble in fear when you walk past a group of guys? do you guys have to worry about a stranger assaulting you simply for being a woman on your way back home? when your only argument on a video meant to raise awareness about the injustice and discrimination women experience, you know you are part of the problem
@random guy1 first of all,I never said that. Boys too face this type of sexual harassments. And second thing, sexual harassments on women are high than on men. And I'm just here sharing my story, I'm definitely a VICTIM! I'm not doing this to get sympathy or anything. So please don't comment this type of thing anywhere. Think before you write something. Everything is easy behind the screens. You'll also feel the same if something like this happen with you too. I don't want to create offensive thing so please don't ever think to reply again.
@random guy1 I’ve seen you, with the exact same bloody comment, in various different threads here. Firstly, if you’re using the minuscule number of men (compared to the women that is) being sexually harassed, and most of that too being done by other men, to try and erase our suffering Then you don’t give a shit about men’s rights. Women come here, assuming that this is a safe space where they can talk about their feelings and experiences and douchebags like you come here to try and erase their strife like it never existed. Do you not realise that this is what feminism is for you idiot? It is to get rid of gender roles and discrimination and to achieve gender equality. It is to get rid of how Men And Women are treated differently based on their gender. I am not saying that men’s rights should be vanquished all together, I’m just telling you to stop trying to steal the limelight from what/who actually needs it. The female struggle is larger, more problematic and more widespread than the struggle of men. We’re just trying to fix it before it gets worse because of people like you.
This really hit hard. It reminds me of the one time a boy at school didn't want to stand next to me or my sisters because we were girls. He also didn't want to be near the female teacher either. He didn't like us because we were women, as he kept saying "ew a woman", "I don't want to stand next to women", stuff like that. It really offended me, because we were literally doing nothing. My sisters also didn't like it as they told him to stop as well. It really hurt my feelings and set me off immediately after he kept saying those things. His friends tried pushing him trying to get him to stand next to us, and he kept refusing, pushing back. When I first heard him, I was like "excuse me? I am offended, that's so discriminating" and he continued, as I kept telling him to stop and that it was offensive, but he didn't. Then one time he did it again, and I basically just lost it, so done, yelling at him and telling him not to say those things at it was so rude. Then he said "sorrryy, it's just a joke" rolling his eyes. Later, he kept apologizing, saying how sorry he was. I made him regret everything he did. That's why you don't discriminate people just because of their gender. It's very disrespectful and not funny at all. It really sucks that people are still like this
@KPOP LOVER Omg, I'm so sorry that happened to you! Yeah, boys can be real jerks. I hate when they discriminate us just because we are girls. May I ask, what exactly happened where they made you guys apologize and what did they do wrong?
@random guy1 I’ve seen you, with the exact same bloody comment, in various different threads here. Firstly, if you’re using the minuscule number of men (compared to the women that is) being sexually harassed, and most of that too being done by other men, to try and erase our suffering Then you don’t give a shit about men’s rights. Women come here, assuming that this is a safe space where they can talk about their feelings and experiences and douchebags like you come here to try and erase their strife like it never existed. Do you not realise that this is what feminism is for you idiot? It is to get rid of gender roles and discrimination and to achieve gender equality. It is to get rid of how Men And Women are treated differently based on their gender. I am not saying that men’s rights should be vanquished all together, I’m just telling you to stop trying to steal the limelight from what/who actually needs it. The female struggle is larger, more problematic and more widespread than the struggle of men. We’re just trying to fix it before it gets worse because of people like you. Good. Day.
@KPOP LOVER oh my..that seems like such a messy situation. Exactly, why would you apologize for their behavior towards you that you clearly are irritated by. Those boys just suck. And they will forever be little boys. Only real men respect women
I remember a lot of times my mom has told me to stay away from boys and don't ever do anything that makes us ashamed but she never told my brother to not to look at any girl with bad intension
I'd love to share my experience too.At the age of 8 I was sexually harassed by one of my relative. He touched me in my private parts & did a lot while I was alone & playing on my own. I didn't even know what he did to me. After some months I realised what really happened. I was broken & lost. I couldn't concentrate on my studies & I even took counciling classes.That's an intolerable pain. I'm still uncomfortable when my brothers/cousins touch me. I became a coward & couldn't face men. I started to hate all men.I had breakup because of that. It took more than10 years to heal that scar. Even though I have discomforts I have some male friends now. I'm now in medical college. I started to open up about my experience. I have really supportive people around me. When I opened up my friends didn't even get bothered. They just loved me like before. So what I'm trying to say is if you got harassed don't think that your life is lost. You have a long way to go. If you don't have a good environment make yourself one. You are your biggest friend P. S. sorry for my English guys. If anyone out there like me here is a virtual hug from me ❤️
@@armyneedhobiwater2036 I can understand that dear. Please don't worry. Your words reflect how stronger you are. You always have army besides you because we are a family. I swear you're gonna have a beautiful future. Saranghae
@@armyneedhobiwater2036 I strongly believe that they'll support.Well it wasn't our fault. We don't have think like that. Anyhow I think I have less chances to meet them in future.
To every girl here... motivate yourself everyday to become stronger and powerful physically, mentally and emotionally... the world ain't fair and if you are a girl .. the more you grow the more cruelty you will face at every step you take in life.. weather its friends, family, work, school and public incidents.. so become stronger because you will have to protect yourself
I have notice in some movies , shows and real life guy’s bet on if a girl will talk to them or do more for them. I’ve never heard in my life a girl bet if they will be with a guy or not what’s with that that’s weird.We are more than just a number on your scoreboard.
When we reach our downfall: *"I've been hurt enough. Keep fighting."* When we reach our warrior mood: *"The world is filled with crazy women who work really hard to succeed on their own."* PS truly impressive, those quotes in the clip are what stood out to me 💜💜👑👑
You have the power to tell someone "NO" it's in the matter of question whether you are going to stand your ground and fight for your "Human Rights." you are more special than the one telling you are not.
This reminds me so much of when I was in class 6, while being in a school bus my hand hit a senior boy by error and he freakin hit me on my arm hard while laughing with his friends. I cried after going home coz it wasn't even my fault and I was shocked and it was practically the first time someone other than my family hit me. I just wish I had actually hit him again after he hit me.
@random guy1 Umm its not a very good strategy to leave your misogynistic comments under every female empowering video if you want the replies to stop, you are saying its bias cause everybody is not siding with you for once?. Maybe delete them or I suggest turn of the reply notifications. Hope it helps. Also It's not biased if all you want is to step on women and the women saying its not right. If you want your fellow misogynists there are plenty of those on the internet. Stay there with them and be happy instead of trying to force girls to stop raising voices.
I cannot watch edits with this skng without shedding tears. Why do we have to struggle so much just bc we are women. Last weekend I was walking home with my friends and we were talking about how unusual it was that we hadn't been catcalled yet as we were wearing revealing clothes (it was hot af). And literally that moment a car drive by and some men yelled at us. Can't make this shit up...
I really feel so pathetic that my brother started discriminating people because of toxic relatives... I feel helpless.. he doesn't even tries to understand....
I used to work in a supermarket chain in my country. And I’m the only teenage girl working there…others are all middle aged women and older men. This old man started to make conversation with me slowly…I thought he was just being nice. So I was nice to him too. Once he told me that I could come to his house when we are both off to have tea. I thought it was so nice of him cz he wanted me to meet his family. But he said that he lives alone and he gave me a wink and hugged me (I was sitting and he was standing). The shock I got at that time was so intense, I couldn’t speak or move for a while. Nothing even happened but the disgust I felt and me understanding his intentions. These women who act right at that moment are really strong. He also gave me a slice of cake that he made. He put it on a plate and gave me a fork and told me to eat it. He left and I didn’t even touch it. He came after 5 mins and saw that I haven’t eaten it and he got mad at me?! I threw it away after he left and went back home. I was luckily transferred to another location and I never saw him again.
Omg this is absolutely beautiful...I love the voiceovers on point...n damn scene selection is on point, you picked the best...just stunning creation 😭😍
I really appreciate you used clips from Meteor Garden! (the scene where Shancai gets hit with food). Although this drama aims to be wholesome and cute there are a few moments where I couldn't believe how main male lead forces himself on main female. If I am not mistaken there is a scene where he tries to kiss her and at the same time he punched a wall or was it that she was crying cause of him and he still wanted to kiss her? It was so long ago that I might forget it how it was..Or this particular scene when he smashed food on her. I just couldn't belive how after this they could be together and why it was potrayed as 'romantic'.
@@ugotnojams2746 right? A few days ago I watched a video on youtube 'Abusive behaviours in Korean Drama' and as I am new to the topic (since I became interested in kpop and Korean culture not long ago) I was appaled by this romantic drama called Boys over flowers. Like, I get it that sometimes we shouldn't judge past trends or what society thought back in time through our modern view but I just cringed at every interaction beetwen main protagonists. Then I wanted to check some info about Meteor Garden and I found out that this drama was basen on Boys over flowers T _ T like it is chineese version of japaneese manga. Then everything added up why i didn't like both dramas :'D But you know even when I don't want to judge past 'trends' or tropes in manga/drama etc. I still can't wrap my head around why so many people liked those forced interactions..its just uncomfortable o-O Anyway..I just hope that even back then there were people who still didn't like it completely...or maybe I am delusional
@@ugotnojams2746exactly That scene in meteor garden where he forcefully kissed the main female lead and punched the wall and then apologize reminds me of how abusers are in abusive relationships. They scream,hit etc and then apologize that's toxic and I hate the fact that it kinda of promotes it.
Reading the comments made me realised that all of us has been through the bad touch scene and worse than that. But lemme tell you girls, it WASN'T our fault. We were kids and unaware of those hungry animals. To the girls who has went through that rough phase, you guys are really strong. And again, it wasn't your fault.
I´m glad I got to watch this video today. When I was going home today from school two boys were heading towards me and my classmate. One of them didn´t even try to avoid us and went straight towards us with stretched hand (so he would touch our legs while passing). I managed to avoid him somehow but my classmate who was wearing a skirt didn´t and he slightly lifted her skirt. I shouted something but they both just laughed. This is not the first time that something like this happened to me and to be honest it took very much self control not to go and punch him. I really wanted to get this off my chest. Thank you for alowing me that.
I remember this about my cousin brother. I was 11 and i was at a family function...so we were in his house. There were a lot of people...then he called me into his room so we can play video games. I was dumb and followed him into his room, it was upstairs and there were not many people. So i was sitting in his bed with him playing games. Then he stopped and told me he was bored, so i asked him what we should do next. Then he stood up and locked the door,and he sat next to me...right then i felt his hand on my thighs and he moved it higher and was about to touch my private part. I pushed him and ran out of the room, I was so disgusted and thought it was my fault cause i was wearing a miniskirt....i never went near him after that. I felt stupid for following him into his room. I've never told this to anyone before...but i feel safe sharing this anonymously behind the screen... I hope in one else will go through it GIRLS BE SAFE...💕💕
This reminds of what happened last year in 7th grade a new boy joined our class in the beginning of the second semester he always looked at me weirdly and he makes me really uncomfortable weeks later he texted me and told me he likes me and asked if liked him too but i said no he said it's okay but remember you are gonna be mine then the next day i went to school and i was really nervous and scared and guess what? Two of my other friends said that he told them the exact same thing and we told his friends at the beginning they were defending us and didn't talk to him for a while because he plays with girls emotions but after a couple weeks they started teasing us as well and it became even worse they tried to rape us especially me and they touched us inappropriately and whenever we talk to them about it they say we're just joking once they took photos of us and selled them to boys and old mens and they also made a video with them and shared it on TikTok and got credit for it plus they shared our phone numbers with strangers Ever since this happened i tried to not talk to boys or even be close to them
The fact that literally almost all girl have experience something in their life for me it was once my cousin who is 15+ year older than me tried to touch me inappropriately the first time when I felt uncomfortable was when I was 9 he was touching my thighs and when I asked him what he was doing he just tried to make it a joke and tried to massage as a joke I was young I did felt uncomfortable but I thought that he's my cousin and I'm just overthinking so I just ignored it and there are many time he tried to touch me inappropriately but I ignored it and after some time I just started to feel uncomfortable around him I didn't understood why I felt like that and then when I was 11 he tried to touch my chest that time I understood that why I was feeling so uncomfortable around him and I'm just so disgusted that he literally used to call me his sister and he was still doing it
This work is so amazing!! I enjoyed every part of it~ Even had goosebumps in some moments. The voiceovers was so on the point. And for sure those female characters, amazing!! In love with this work ❤️❤️❤️
For all the people who pressed the thumbs down button and wrote hate comments. Congratulations you are officially discriminative low lives who shouldn't be on this social media platform.
i got so happy seeing mianmian in this vid 🥺…she’s one of my favorite female characters in the untamed. love her for not standing with the wrong people even if it meant she was going to be judged, hated, and threatened (for her job).
I hate how men expect us to be golden standards yet we have to settle for whatever we can scrabble for. I heard to boys in my class fighting, the highlight being “it’s not attractive to be skinny” to one of the boys and to the other “it’s not attractive to be fat” and it made me angry yet filled me with some kind of rueful fulfillment that it isn’t only females.
some ppl in the coments are saying ''Not All Men🙄'' "Not all men" if I give you a box of chocolates and tell you that one of them is poisoned, will you eat it? You will naturally think that all the chocolates are poisoned because you dont know which one you can pick. That's the same thing with men. When we're walking on the street and see a man coming closer, our first instinct is to assume that he means harm because of what horrendous acts men have done.(p.s this is coppied but i hope u get the msg)
Stop playing victim. One of the most depressing things about life is women are always playing victim. I am male and this world is hard for everyone. You saying stuff like this is one of the many reasons I celebrate when a woman misscarry. People need to stop having kids. I never wanted to be born...
It happened with me when I was 14 even though I'm a boy I'm writting this anonymously behind the screen but there this guy who was once my friend. He did that because he broke up with his girlfriend and he didn't had anybody to do that. I still don't talk him and I think that's the reason I always feel uncomfortable around my friend's friends But now I'm okay and I think it'll take sometime for me to be comfortable around new people (Sorry my English is not that great it's my 3rd language)
That is disgusting. I hope you're in a better place now, and know that it was wrong of him to try to do that to you. If you don't mind me asking, are you doing alright? Have you told anyone else about this?
I was in the same situation- this guy I use to be close friends with sexually assaulted me after his gf which was one of my friends broke up with him because he sexually assaulted her as well. It was messed up in so many ways
If its has p2,I hope you put ye seul from law school in, she stood up defending herself against her f^cking toxic boyfriend in her trial after her mental breakdown of his assaultment
i really love this video bcoz u mentioned every drama and even the song name (T^T) people dont even understand how much we want to know the song name or drama name that's usually mentioned........I LOVE YOU
While watching these videos I think that I want to have some bullies and action scenes in my real life.........but 23 seconds later-- *O wait you have bullies but you are too damn weak to face them*
If a woman is saying ' I'm wary of men because I've had bad experience before' it is not a moment for men to say ' not all men' . It is a moment to listen. - some mind-blowing person with all the brains in the world
My mom says always don't go anywhere don't do this you're girl don't do this don't go don't don't i am done with this thing i want freedom why i can't go anywhere why everything for me i think girl see so much issues but judging never Stop
@@giornogiovanno8675 no my mean is when boys will become uncle they'll become weak But when a girl becomes women she becomes the strongest ever and I'm a girl too
doesn't really count as a man, but I hate men's way of thinking!! As someone transgender I was always mistook as a female (I still am) but as a kid used to love wearing miniskirts and shorts and would frequently get sexually harassed. Even though they were very small things like getting smacked in the ass or held around the waist I always thought it was my fault because my parents told me it was!! I grew up and covered my body completely, even in the middle of summer!! I was scared of what would happen if I showed skin. So I covered up all the time. Then I realised it wasn't my clothes because on the street I was catcalled and told I had a 'great body' or a 'sexy ass'. I was a 7 year old and all I did was cry and complain to my mum. She would say it was my fault so I just didn't know what to do. I just accepted that as my life and now I'm realising it wasn't me but them!! I agree with yall, not all men but still 97%???
"not all men" true but if not all cars crash, why do we still wear seatbelts? we know its not all men but the issue is we cant tell what men have bad intentions until its too late
hi, since poeple are talking a lot about this topic in the comments, i want to share it too, it didn't happen with a guy, but with a girl, when i was 9, i knew a girl that was 8, her mother was my baby sitter, she was doing chores in muy house and you know, that, she let me stay at her house sometimes, where she had 2 big sons and a daughter, i was friends with her, close friends....way too close?? without my consent? LOOK...the thing is that i got bullied a lot in school, i had bruises for being hit with school chairs in the face, and a lot of more things, so i never really had any friend, she was my first and only friends, so i wanted to do everything to satisfy her, i was scared of her leaving me, of losing my only friend, the only one who stayed for me, so i could've done anything to make her stay, she knew it, and she manipulated me with it, she told me to take my clothes off, and to do some things, i was shoked, i said "WHAT?? WHO TEACHED YOU THAT!?!? WE ARE TO LITTLE, WHY?" she told me to shut up, you know...that stupid line of "shut up, or someone could hear us" to manipulate me and make me do what she says, then she said "if you don't do it, we aren't friends anymore" i felt like i had nothing more to do, i apologized and did what she said, i don't think i even felt something, i just wanted to cry, i was so concentrated of not crying, i was so in fear and shoked, that i just layed there down, doing what she told me to do, i had a crying face, she asked me why i was crying, i told her that i was crying because i was happy, that's what i wanted to believe at the moment, because i felt like if i told her the truth, and that i didn't want to, she would hate me, and i would lose her, then it was an habit, we did those things everyday, and everytime i felt scared and like an horrible person for doing that, then her mom got fired, she stopped comming at my house, and i stopped comming at her house, i wanted to stay and i cried, because i knew that if that happened, i wouldn't see my "friend" ever again, after some years, i got over it, but i still remember it and i feel dissapointed and sad, after years, i told my mom, she was shoked, she hugged me while she was crying, repeating "sorry, sorry sorry, it was my fault" i wanted to cry, but i didn't, i just closed my eyes and hugged my mom back, now i wish everything was just a dream, that it didn't happen, wish it was a nightmare, but it wasn't, and i keep thinking it was my fault for not being able to stop her, for being so scared, if you made it here, thanks i guess, por reading, i feel good at saying this like an anon, i can finally get over it a little more, thx and bye :)
@@cohlinegarnet8313 oh, i didn't expect someone to read it! thx for answering xd, and yeah, i'm better now, i'm getting therapy and it's helping me a lot, for now, i've never saw her again, and i'm more confident about myself, now i can say "no" to people who wants to do something i don't want to, thx for caring :3
@@cohlinegarnet8313 thanks for caring again! i've been kinda alone on this and no so long ago i told my family, they are being supportive and helping me a lot! thank you, you made my day better :3
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Hello friends! Thank you for enjoying my edit, a part two is coming up soon with newer dramas. If you're looking for *which dramas* I used, I've added them in *subtitles* ! Happy watching and stay strong and fierce, you're all wonders! 💗
I THOUGHT YOU WERE ACTUALLY SHARING A MESSAGE- AND I GOT SO CONFUSED AS TO WHAT IT MEANT 😭😭
Thank u and my love from a lonely girl
"Walk with your keys between your knuckles", "be careful when comin' back home at night" and "always defend yourself if a boy tries to touch you without permission" are sentences I heard from my mom since I was really young, and I bet all women go throught it as well. I've never seen anything sadder than the look in her eyes while she was telling me that. People shouldn't be protecting their daughters, they should be teaching their sons how to act like civilized people, not uncontrollable animals.
word. Even tho I personally never experienced something horrible, the fact that little girls (or anyone assigned female at birth) have to know this to protect themselves is too much. The fact that it's so hard to be safe, it's impossible
My mum made me take taekwondo cIasses for 7-8 years just so that I couId defend myseIf if I ever do get in a situation Iike that
Sad truth indeed 😔its like our right to live properly is being taken away from us.
I changed rapunzel
👏👏👏👏👏👏
"not all men" yes, not all are robbers but we still lock the doors
THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Oh that's a good one
Oh my
This is true
Not all planes crash but more die in plan crashes then killed by men in a single year
Great example...
''you can dress up and wear eyeliner too'' LOL I love that line! Ofcourse the message is most important with this video, but the great editing should not be ignored :D
Hihi thank yooou ♥️ I love that line too!! It had to be in there 😂
What is the title of that drama?
Drama name?
@@cilla3389 The King: Eternal Monarch
@@mess7990 The King: Eternal Monarch
"If she's asking for it, she can just ask for it." ~ Vir Das (an intellectual comedian)
Not all men, but 97% women. For me personally (i'm a little comfortable saying this behind this anonymous screen) it happened to me when i was 6, then again when i was 8. It's not all men. We know that. But its 97% women. And in some places still taken as a joke. previous and current generations had to deal with this crap, let's all be human and teach the future generations about respect. Respect for gender, respect for race, respect for culture, respect for religion, and respect for different societal classes.
"Boys wont be boys, boys will be what we teach them to be."
For anyone who doesn't know about the code: If a girl comes up to you pretending to know you and sticking close, check around to see if there is anyone suspicious nearby, most likely she's trying to shake off a creep. Don't act weirded out just ask her in secret and act like you guys know each other, it's surprising how most ppl just act shocked and just shake them off thinking they are weird.
Also this happens to men too (even if its not as common), so if there are any signs that males are getting harrassed don't ignore it please. We all need to protect each other the best way we can :)
Have a good day :D
(edit) Thanks for all the positivity in the comment section, i hope you guys are doing better than what you had to go through, you are never alone and there will always be an army behind you to support you even if they are not physically there! Stay strong you are doing great!! :)
True
I'm so sorry, you were really young, I hate this society... Then they say we are all crazy and make everything up... Sigh I hope we can support each other and that way advance as a society.
@@saraybriones3410 yup I wish men and women work together on this issue.. If this happens someday...we will see heaven on earth.. No?😁
@@sriyachikate2592 well I was talking about women supporting each other, sorority. I think it didn't sounded like that. I think this gen of men are already corrupted and we have to teach the next gen bc they already made their mind about us...
@@saraybriones3410 these boys are quite awful actually. Full of toxic masculinity. It must be so suffocating to be filled with all that hatred.
Congrats to me I knew many of the kdramas here and the c drama too. And it's okay to be not okay and weight lifting fairy is one of my faves
Yeah I also know most of them
Saamee
Dataso amiga, casi te pregunto
The Thai one too? 'The Judgement' honestly made me cry.
@@guilro6754 I only undertook that at last you said welcome 🤚🏽🗿
"Hey gorgeous"
I remember reading this text message I got from my older brother's former private tutor. I was only 10 y/o. And what was even worse is that I blamed myself for walking and jumping around the house wearing miniskirts and shorts. I thought it was MY fault that he texted me something so disgusting;but I realized while growing up that it never was my fault to begin with. Many of us have grown up to believing that sexual assault is OUR fault,it's because WE were wearing SHORT SKIRTS, AND TIGHT CLOTHES. But,it isn't. THOSE IDIOTS WHO TALK SHIT AND FORCE THEMSELVES ON WOMEN ARE THE ONES AT FAULT.
Aww I feel so bad for you 😭
“ A skirt is not an invite!”
- Anne with an E
this is facts tho
YESS GIRL YOU PREACH you're such a queen i love that you learned not to blame yourself 😭😭
He did other stuff to me but I won’t discuss it.
It's never the clothes. If women in burkhas get sexually assaulted then how do tight clothes do anything at all here? Hell even babies get raped, so then does that mean such men get turned on by diapers?🙄
The woman who hit the guy in the head with a soda can is a badass. Damn. Also, amazing edit! You did so well with the song and the clips you used!
she really is. i absoloutely love her
It's Ko Moon Young in "It's Okay to not be Okay". And yeah, she's so badass, I like her so much.
that drama is so lit
my dream is to be lke that
Yup 100%
I really love Mianmian for not accepting others' bullshit, defending and trusting Wei Ying when the majority of the clans were against him, leaving the Jin Clan in the most badass way possible and doing so in front of many other people, including the said sect leader himself. Queen behavior.
I love how she stood up for someone who helped her only once, how she was ready to give her everything just because wei Ying only helped her once.
My best friend and me were both sexually assaulted before getting out of middle school… my middle school graduation is tomorrow. Still hurts knowing me and her were not able to do anything to stop it. That’s why she doesn’t wear skirts and I don’t wear tight clothes. Both of our voices change when we talk about it because we are so angry we have to put up with it for the rest of our lives. I almost got kidnapped, I’ve been touched inappropriately, and gotten starred at. My bestie had it worse sadly. So now I carry pepper spray at all times and have a softball bat beside my bed. This sucks and I can’t do much about it other than lose weight in my hips/butt/boob area and wear extra loose clothing. If I talk back I get hurt, if I don’t talk back I get hurt, if I walk away I get hurt. There is no winning for women.
Sweety, who said there's no winning for women?! you will never find a way out if you think this way/ believe in this. LISTEN, YOU are the SOLUTION. YOU are the WAY OUT. HOW? by making yourself stronger, by empowering yourself. LEARN MARTIAL ARTS or KICKBOXING so you can defend yourself in the worst-case situation ( God forbid) I'm not saying go, beat people, no... but learning how to defend yourself, knowing you CAN DEFEND/ PROTECT yourself will empower you... you will feel safe...you will be safe... you will not walk away hurt or in shame... but remember to choose your battles wisely... I'm telling you this from experience, I went through hell and beyond but I never gave up on myself. I always believed that we women are the real deal. we are the winners in this life coz we are WARRIORS. So, take a step back, reflect on your life, think about what do you want to be in the future, how do you want to be treated, set your goals, make a plan, stick to it. and remember to take baby steps, believe me, I've been there, I've seen it all but I made it. now I can proudly say I'm a warrior
sweety, if I did it you can do it too. It's in our genes. Remember, we are warriors, we never give up on ourselves.
Take good care of yourself, love.
P.S be a crazy woman.. it sometimes helps too ;) ;)
You have a right to be hurt, you have a right to be angry, and you have a right to feel lost. Everything that happened to you is fucked up and full of injustice. It's my worst nightmare, so bad I can't even begin to imagine it. I can only sympathize for now. Still, I think that you're incredibly brave and amazing for continuing on no matter how you continue on, and maybe that much can be winning too. That much is a statement. I wish the absolute best for you and that it gets better from here
Jz ....make sure to ....always protect. ..yourself no matter what ..stand for yourself no matter what ...and ..have power in yourself ...to hit ..tht person with all your power .....never ....ever .....hide anything ..any ..bad ... behaviour ..jz .make sure ..tht they should get their cup of tea ...
I'm so sorry this happened to you and your friend. It still doesn't sound like you're in a safe situation. Are you able to get to a safe place? I know it's scary, I ran away from home at 14. But there are safe places you can try to go, such as Salvation Army shelters, to get away from the violence you have encountered. There are also safe houses for women and children. Maybe your school counselor can guide you. I hope you get the resources you need. If someone doesn't help you, ask someone else, until you do get the help you need. Everyone deserves to be safe. Much love.
@@sarahjohnson7753 I am very safe I’m living with my bestie as of right now. And my parents are getting the help they need. So I am safe I just have trauma. Much love from me too. Thank you for caring tho. It’s just the area we live in so yeah. I actually moved out at 13 to my grandmothers house because it was safer for me. But thank you for the information you gave me.
In our school we have girls section where boys cannot be and boys section too in one school.
We used to play basketball for our PE class I remember the girls saying that boys were peeking between the doors. I slammed the basketball on the door and I could hear screams and the boys back off.
Honestly one of the most satisfying memories 😂😂💔 makes me laigh every time.
in my country the boys have their own schools just as girls and boys always try to get to our school to take pics of girls so one time i was watching them from the window while they were trying to get in i took a pics of them and them scream at them saying get the hell out they get scared and run they even left their friend who get in😂
then i give their pics to the teacher and she talked to the police after a day my brother says that they were They have been suspended from school forever
and i think what you did is so funny and cool tho
After seeing all the sexual harassments on other girls,i came to realization that it happened to me too. I was 10 years old that time,we were going to travel because it was summer holidays by train. My father met a young man, befriended with him cz he was a local of that place. During the traveling days,he always came to the place where we sit,talk with my parents. He was super sweet,just like a brother. But his intension was something else. During the 2nd day on the train,I was asking my older brother for the mobile to play games,but he refused. Then that man came sit with me,he told my brother to give his phone to me and he did. As I was playing games,I felt something on my waist,when I turn around to see he moved his hand. First I didn't notice anything and I was unaware of that. Then he slowly touched my thighs and tried to touch my private part. I felt really weird and when I looked at him,he was dumbfounded. Then I stood up and went to sit beside my brother. Idk if my brother noticed or not but he told me to sleep in his sit and he'll be awake to keep an eye on me. And since that time,that man didn't came to us anymore. Even my mom said that he didn't feel good,he was kinda creepy. And years later,I found what happened that day. I felt really hurt and broken,I cried for many hours. After reading some of the comments,I tried to open up my mind. Stay safe girls from all over the world. And boys too.
@random guy1 do you guys tremble in fear when you walk past a group of guys? do you guys have to worry about a stranger assaulting you simply for being a woman on your way back home? when your only argument on a video meant to raise awareness about the injustice and discrimination women experience, you know you are part of the problem
OP, i’m so sorry that happened to you. none of your fault at all and i’m glad your family cut off contact with that creep. stay safe always!
@random guy1 first of all,I never said that. Boys too face this type of sexual harassments. And second thing, sexual harassments on women are high than on men. And I'm just here sharing my story, I'm definitely a VICTIM! I'm not doing this to get sympathy or anything. So please don't comment this type of thing anywhere. Think before you write something. Everything is easy behind the screens. You'll also feel the same if something like this happen with you too. I don't want to create offensive thing so please don't ever think to reply again.
@@luna-di3wr thank you. Ikr the feeling is horrible. Stay safe you too.
@random guy1
I’ve seen you, with the exact same bloody comment, in various different threads here.
Firstly, if you’re using the minuscule number of men (compared to the women that is) being sexually harassed, and most of that too being done by other men, to try and erase our suffering
Then you don’t give a shit about men’s rights.
Women come here, assuming that this is a safe space where they can talk about their feelings and experiences and douchebags like you come here to try and erase their strife like it never existed.
Do you not realise that this is what feminism is for you idiot? It is to get rid of gender roles and discrimination and to achieve gender equality.
It is to get rid of how Men And Women are treated differently based on their gender.
I am not saying that men’s rights should be vanquished all together, I’m just telling you to stop trying to steal the limelight from what/who actually needs it. The female struggle is larger, more problematic and more widespread than the struggle of men. We’re just trying to fix it before it gets worse because of people like you.
This really hit hard. It reminds me of the one time a boy at school didn't want to stand next to me or my sisters because we were girls. He also didn't want to be near the female teacher either. He didn't like us because we were women, as he kept saying "ew a woman", "I don't want to stand next to women", stuff like that. It really offended me, because we were literally doing nothing. My sisters also didn't like it as they told him to stop as well. It really hurt my feelings and set me off immediately after he kept saying those things. His friends tried pushing him trying to get him to stand next to us, and he kept refusing, pushing back. When I first heard him, I was like "excuse me? I am offended, that's so discriminating" and he continued, as I kept telling him to stop and that it was offensive, but he didn't. Then one time he did it again, and I basically just lost it, so done, yelling at him and telling him not to say those things at it was so rude. Then he said "sorrryy, it's just a joke" rolling his eyes. Later, he kept apologizing, saying how sorry he was. I made him regret everything he did. That's why you don't discriminate people just because of their gender. It's very disrespectful and not funny at all. It really sucks that people are still like this
@KPOP LOVER Omg, I'm so sorry that happened to you! Yeah, boys can be real jerks. I hate when they discriminate us just because we are girls. May I ask, what exactly happened where they made you guys apologize and what did they do wrong?
@random guy1
I’ve seen you, with the exact same bloody comment, in various different threads here.
Firstly, if you’re using the minuscule number of men (compared to the women that is) being sexually harassed, and most of that too being done by other men, to try and erase our suffering
Then you don’t give a shit about men’s rights.
Women come here, assuming that this is a safe space where they can talk about their feelings and experiences and douchebags like you come here to try and erase their strife like it never existed.
Do you not realise that this is what feminism is for you idiot? It is to get rid of gender roles and discrimination and to achieve gender equality.
It is to get rid of how Men And Women are treated differently based on their gender.
I am not saying that men’s rights should be vanquished all together, I’m just telling you to stop trying to steal the limelight from what/who actually needs it. The female struggle is larger, more problematic and more widespread than the struggle of men. We’re just trying to fix it before it gets worse because of people like you.
Good. Day.
@random guy1 not all girls
@KPOP LOVER oh my..that seems like such a messy situation. Exactly, why would you apologize for their behavior towards you that you clearly are irritated by. Those boys just suck. And they will forever be little boys. Only real men respect women
@@sisandbroepicgaming2687 LMAO YESSS that would've been a great comeback
I remember a lot of times my mom has told me to stay away from boys and don't ever do anything that makes us ashamed but she never told my brother to not to look at any girl with bad intension
She even don't taught you to respect boys
I'd love to share my experience too.At the age of 8 I was sexually harassed by one of my relative. He touched me in my private parts & did a lot while I was alone & playing on my own. I didn't even know what he did to me. After some months I realised what really happened. I was broken & lost. I couldn't concentrate on my studies & I even took counciling classes.That's an intolerable pain. I'm still uncomfortable when my brothers/cousins touch me. I became a coward & couldn't face men. I started to hate all men.I had breakup because of that. It took more than10 years to heal that scar. Even though I have discomforts I have some male friends now. I'm now in medical college. I started to open up about my experience. I have really supportive people around me. When I opened up my friends didn't even get bothered. They just loved me like before. So what I'm trying to say is if you got harassed don't think that your life is lost. You have a long way to go. If you don't have a good environment make yourself one. You are your biggest friend
P. S. sorry for my English guys. If anyone out there like me here is a virtual hug from me ❤️
@@armyneedhobiwater2036 I can understand that dear. Please don't worry. Your words reflect how stronger you are. You always have army besides you because we are a family. I swear you're gonna have a beautiful future. Saranghae
@@armyneedhobiwater2036 I strongly believe that they'll support.Well it wasn't our fault. We don't have think like that. Anyhow I think I have less chances to meet them in future.
@random guy1 poda dai
@@armyneedhobiwater2036 it means 'hey go away' in my mother tongue. We use this to boys
@@armyneedhobiwater2036 no no I'm from SriLanka
To every girl here... motivate yourself everyday to become stronger and powerful physically, mentally and emotionally... the world ain't fair and if you are a girl .. the more you grow the more cruelty you will face at every step you take in life.. weather its friends, family, work, school and public incidents.. so become stronger because you will have to protect yourself
The fact that she gave all the names of dramas are incredible and the song, editing, its beautiful
Teach your sons to behave like a human
@random guy1 not every girl is gold digger u know ?? And girls are strong too .
@random guy1 but the majority of all women have had at least one experience of sexual harassment or the like.
@random guy1 cheap
@random guy1 Men like you get mad when people object “not all men”. While rejoice when watching staged videos of gold digging women, and bully them.
I have notice in some movies , shows and real life guy’s bet on if a girl will talk to them or do more for them. I’ve never heard in my life a girl bet if they will be with a guy or not what’s with that that’s weird.We are more than just a number on your scoreboard.
You probably have never been to the west. Girls like that are everywhere here and they also feel extremely entitled
When we reach our downfall: *"I've been hurt enough. Keep fighting."*
When we reach our warrior mood: *"The world is filled with crazy women who work really hard to succeed on their own."*
PS truly impressive, those quotes in the clip are what stood out to me 💜💜👑👑
the girl wo hit the can trying to slap another girl with a can was iconic and when she called him a trash can i was impressed
God, I love being a Woman!
anne with an e🥺💓
@@heydorotheaa Yesss!
You have the power to tell someone "NO" it's in the matter of question whether you are going to stand your ground and fight for your "Human Rights." you are more special than the one telling you are not.
This reminds me so much of when I was in class 6, while being in a school bus my hand hit a senior boy by error and he freakin hit me on my arm hard while laughing with his friends. I cried after going home coz it wasn't even my fault and I was shocked and it was practically the first time someone other than my family hit me. I just wish I had actually hit him again after he hit me.
Girls should protect together and fight together not eachother ❤️ we need peace
@random guy1 sir why are going under every women empowering video and trolling? What is it gonna do besides people thinking you are triggered? ;-;
@random guy1 Umm its not a very good strategy to leave your misogynistic comments under every female empowering video if you want the replies to stop, you are saying its bias cause everybody is not siding with you for once?. Maybe delete them or I suggest turn of the reply notifications. Hope it helps.
Also It's not biased if all you want is to step on women and the women saying its not right. If you want your fellow misogynists there are plenty of those on the internet. Stay there with them and be happy instead of trying to force girls to stop raising voices.
@random guy1 or 10 teenage males would die
@@sam-zn4xw pseudofeminist found
I cannot watch edits with this skng without shedding tears. Why do we have to struggle so much just bc we are women. Last weekend I was walking home with my friends and we were talking about how unusual it was that we hadn't been catcalled yet as we were wearing revealing clothes (it was hot af). And literally that moment a car drive by and some men yelled at us. Can't make this shit up...
Finally someone who adds other moment of dramas
I really feel so pathetic that my brother started discriminating people because of toxic relatives... I feel helpless.. he doesn't even tries to understand....
I used to work in a supermarket chain in my country. And I’m the only teenage girl working there…others are all middle aged women and older men. This old man started to make conversation with me slowly…I thought he was just being nice. So I was nice to him too. Once he told me that I could come to his house when we are both off to have tea. I thought it was so nice of him cz he wanted me to meet his family. But he said that he lives alone and he gave me a wink and hugged me (I was sitting and he was standing). The shock I got at that time was so intense, I couldn’t speak or move for a while. Nothing even happened but the disgust I felt and me understanding his intentions. These women who act right at that moment are really strong. He also gave me a slice of cake that he made. He put it on a plate and gave me a fork and told me to eat it. He left and I didn’t even touch it. He came after 5 mins and saw that I haven’t eaten it and he got mad at me?! I threw it away after he left and went back home. I was luckily transferred to another location and I never saw him again.
Omg this is absolutely beautiful...I love the voiceovers on point...n damn scene selection is on point, you picked the best...just stunning creation 😭😍
Stoppp 🤧 thank you so much !! ♥️
I really appreciate you used clips from Meteor Garden! (the scene where Shancai gets hit with food). Although this drama aims to be wholesome and cute there are a few moments where I couldn't believe how main male lead forces himself on main female. If I am not mistaken there is a scene where he tries to kiss her and at the same time he punched a wall or was it that she was crying cause of him and he still wanted to kiss her? It was so long ago that I might forget it how it was..Or this particular scene when he smashed food on her. I just couldn't belive how after this they could be together and why it was potrayed as 'romantic'.
That drama was toxic asf-
@@ugotnojams2746 right? A few days ago I watched a video on youtube 'Abusive behaviours in Korean Drama' and as I am new to the topic (since I became interested in kpop and Korean culture not long ago) I was appaled by this romantic drama called Boys over flowers. Like, I get it that sometimes we shouldn't judge past trends or what society thought back in time through our modern view but I just cringed at every interaction beetwen main protagonists. Then I wanted to check some info about Meteor Garden and I found out that this drama was basen on Boys over flowers T _ T like it is chineese version of japaneese manga. Then everything added up why i didn't like both dramas :'D But you know even when I don't want to judge past 'trends' or tropes in manga/drama etc. I still can't wrap my head around why so many people liked those forced interactions..its just uncomfortable o-O Anyway..I just hope that even back then there were people who still didn't like it completely...or maybe I am delusional
@@ugotnojams2746exactly
That scene in meteor garden where he forcefully kissed the main female lead and punched the wall and then apologize reminds me of how abusers are in abusive relationships.
They scream,hit etc and then apologize that's toxic and I hate the fact that it kinda of promotes it.
yeah that is right the fact that they think Insulting women is a romantic thing. It is an annoying thing that happens in a lot of dramas
thanks to directors and staff in kdrama and cdrama because nowadays they show women as main lead role in the story are strong enough :^)
Amazing video! You've done an outstanding job on this!!
Reading the comments made me realised that all of us has been through the bad touch scene and worse than that. But lemme tell you girls, it WASN'T our fault. We were kids and unaware of those hungry animals. To the girls who has went through that rough phase, you guys are really strong. And again, it wasn't your fault.
I like how the untamed was also in there it's a great show I recommend
This song is finally getting recognised by the kdrama family!
I´m glad I got to watch this video today. When I was going home today from school two boys were heading towards me and my classmate. One of them didn´t even try to avoid us and went straight towards us with stretched hand (so he would touch our legs while passing). I managed to avoid him somehow but my classmate who was wearing a skirt didn´t and he slightly lifted her skirt. I shouted something but they both just laughed.
This is not the first time that something like this happened to me and to be honest it took very much self control not to go and punch him.
I really wanted to get this off my chest.
Thank you for alowing me that.
I remember this about my cousin brother. I was 11 and i was at a family function...so we were in his house. There were a lot of people...then he called me into his room so we can play video games. I was dumb and followed him into his room, it was upstairs and there were not many people. So i was sitting in his bed with him playing games. Then he stopped and told me he was bored, so i asked him what we should do next. Then he stood up and locked the door,and he sat next to me...right then i felt his hand on my thighs and he moved it higher and was about to touch my private part. I pushed him and ran out of the room, I was so disgusted and thought it was my fault cause i was wearing a miniskirt....i never went near him after that. I felt stupid for following him into his room.
I've never told this to anyone before...but i feel safe sharing this anonymously behind the screen...
I hope in one else will go through it
GIRLS BE SAFE...💕💕
You are not your body 💜
I promise you that you are so much more than what they make you out to be.
You are you and this world is gifted to have you 💜
This reminds of what happened last year in 7th grade a new boy joined our class in the beginning of the second semester he always looked at me weirdly and he makes me really uncomfortable weeks later he texted me and told me he likes me and asked if liked him too but i said no he said it's okay but remember you are gonna be mine then the next day i went to school and i was really nervous and scared and guess what?
Two of my other friends said that he told them the exact same thing and we told his friends at the beginning they were defending us and didn't talk to him for a while because he plays with girls emotions but after a couple weeks they started teasing us as well and it became even worse they tried to rape us especially me and they touched us inappropriately and whenever we talk to them about it they say we're just joking once they took photos of us and selled them to boys and old mens and they also made a video with them and shared it on TikTok and got credit for it plus they shared our phone numbers with strangers
Ever since this happened i tried to not talk to boys or even be close to them
😭
The fact that literally almost all girl have experience something in their life for me it was once my cousin who is 15+ year older than me tried to touch me inappropriately the first time when I felt uncomfortable was when I was 9 he was touching my thighs and when I asked him what he was doing he just tried to make it a joke and tried to massage as a joke I was young I did felt uncomfortable but I thought that he's my cousin and I'm just overthinking so I just ignored it and there are many time he tried to touch me inappropriately but I ignored it and after some time I just started to feel uncomfortable around him I didn't understood why I felt like that and then when I was 11 he tried to touch my chest that time I understood that why I was feeling so uncomfortable around him and I'm just so disgusted that he literally used to call me his sister and he was still doing it
This work is so amazing!! I enjoyed every part of it~ Even had goosebumps in some moments. The voiceovers was so on the point. And for sure those female characters, amazing!! In love with this work ❤️❤️❤️
Oh my 😭 thank you so so much ♥️♥️♥️♥️
I love how you included a variety of dramas in this video! ❤
Girls and women are seriously so strong 🙌
For all the people who pressed the thumbs down button and wrote hate comments.
Congratulations you are officially discriminative low lives who shouldn't be on this social media platform.
Beautiful edit and great choice of music♡ This deserves way more attention!
worst part of this is when you've experienced to be sexual assaulted by your own male relatives.
i got so happy seeing mianmian in this vid 🥺…she’s one of my favorite female characters in the untamed. love her for not standing with the wrong people even if it meant she was going to be judged, hated, and threatened (for her job).
I just wanna say
U did such a great job
first time i see that they put "the judgement" and i love it, that series deserves much more recognition. it has a very strong story but it's worth it
This is so beautifully edited, I love these Queens 💜
I hate how men expect us to be golden standards yet we have to settle for whatever we can scrabble for. I heard to boys in my class fighting, the highlight being “it’s not attractive to be skinny” to one of the boys and to the other “it’s not attractive to be fat” and it made me angry yet filled me with some kind of rueful fulfillment that it isn’t only females.
this hits hard when ur one of them the 97% of the women uhh i Know its. NOT ALL MEN .. BUT ITS (MOST) AGAIN MOST ALMOST ALL WOMEN
some ppl in the coments are saying ''Not All Men🙄'' "Not all men" if I give you a box of chocolates and tell you that one of them is poisoned, will you eat it? You will naturally think that all the chocolates are poisoned because you dont know which one you can pick. That's the same thing with men. When we're walking on the street and see a man coming closer, our first instinct is to assume that he means harm because of what horrendous acts men have done.(p.s this is coppied but i hope u get the msg)
Stop playing victim. One of the most depressing things about life is women are always playing victim. I am male and this world is hard for everyone. You saying stuff like this is one of the many reasons I celebrate when a woman misscarry. People need to stop having kids. I never wanted to be born...
Thai is such a strong language it carries so much emotion
You should continue. Great works👍
It happened with me when I was 14 even though I'm a boy I'm writting this anonymously behind the screen but there this guy who was once my friend. He did that because he broke up with his girlfriend and he didn't had anybody to do that. I still don't talk him and I think that's the reason I always feel uncomfortable around my friend's friends
But now I'm okay and I think it'll take sometime for me to be comfortable around new people
(Sorry my English is not that great it's my 3rd language)
I am sorry but what he did to u
Sorry if u felt offended but I am just asking .....
@@armyneedhobiwater2036 actually he tried to rape me but I'm ok now ☺️ it was 3 years ago
@@Hehehehehehehehehheheheheehhe o my I am so sorry I am glad u okay now .....pls be happy 😁😁
That is disgusting. I hope you're in a better place now, and know that it was wrong of him to try to do that to you. If you don't mind me asking, are you doing alright? Have you told anyone else about this?
I was in the same situation- this guy I use to be close friends with sexually assaulted me after his gf which was one of my friends broke up with him because he sexually assaulted her as well. It was messed up in so many ways
I saw Kim Bok Joo In the Preview and HELL YES
right !
this is so good !!
Can you make one with woman's world by Little mix? your editing is amazing!
finally run onnn😭😭 btw i luv ur edittss💜
boys will be boys, but girls will be women.....
This caption is unbelievable to understand a girl 😈
Amaziiiing, I love it 💖💖
Thank yooou ♥️🥰
I love the song great edit there are some kdramas I haven't watch. I love the voiceover
1:04 the untamed 💞💞💞💞💞💞💞
1 upvote for the title
If its has p2,I hope you put ye seul from law school in, she stood up defending herself against her f^cking toxic boyfriend in her trial after her mental breakdown of his assaultment
No the kids in alright
i really love this video bcoz u mentioned every drama and even the song name (T^T)
people dont even understand how much we want to know the song name or drama name that's usually mentioned........I LOVE YOU
Amazing work!
Thank you !! ♥️
While watching these videos I think that I want to have some bullies and action scenes in my real life.........but 23 seconds later--
*O wait you have bullies but you are too damn weak to face them*
Aaaaa untamed scene
If a woman is saying ' I'm wary of men because I've had bad experience before' it is not a moment for men to say ' not all men' . It is a moment to listen.
- some mind-blowing person with all the brains in the world
They listened to Amber Heard and poor Johnny Depp suffered because of that
My mom says always don't go anywhere don't do this you're girl don't do this don't go don't don't i am done with this thing i want freedom why i can't go anywhere why everything for me i think girl see so much issues but judging never Stop
Girls will be women and boys will be UNCLE.
stop it toxic
you mean to say boys will become harassers? stop it toxic
@@giornogiovanno8675 no my mean is when boys will become uncle they'll become weak
But when a girl becomes women she becomes the strongest ever and I'm a girl too
@@Anshikasingh0507 ~ toxic ~
Stop
doesn't really count as a man, but I hate men's way of thinking!! As someone transgender I was always mistook as a female (I still am) but as a kid used to love wearing miniskirts and shorts and would frequently get sexually harassed. Even though they were very small things like getting smacked in the ass or held around the waist I always thought it was my fault because my parents told me it was!! I grew up and covered my body completely, even in the middle of summer!! I was scared of what would happen if I showed skin. So I covered up all the time. Then I realised it wasn't my clothes because on the street I was catcalled and told I had a 'great body' or a 'sexy ass'. I was a 7 year old and all I did was cry and complain to my mum. She would say it was my fault so I just didn't know what to do. I just accepted that as my life and now I'm realising it wasn't me but them!! I agree with yall, not all men but still 97%???
@Dapper23 yepyep tbh false infro is going round so fast these days, everyone's so dumb🙄🙄
"not all men" true but if not all cars crash, why do we still wear seatbelts? we know its not all men but the issue is we cant tell what men have bad intentions until its too late
It’s a good argument, you’re the stupid one who can’t realise that
@random guy1 dumb people won't understand
Even it is happened to me
0:17 is the man in the black hoodie in squid games?
"Sorry I thought you were a trashcan"
Dont make your life mess by messing with a women
You know what to do (👌👌👌👌👌💅🏼😭🖐🏽😩🤧❤️❤️❤️❤️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽)
How you add this song without getting copyright claim can you explain it.
0:35 please someone tell who's this GURL I love her what k-drama did she act in ? 😍
"It's okay to not be okay"
You can wacht on Netflix
Geovanna Machado sorry for the late reply and tys it's so good !
Boy will always be kid
And Men always be men
Ok, but I still love boys
Can you tell me which are the must watch kdramas ???😁💜💜❤
Run on!!!
Law school is definitely worth watching
Here is the boy comment if anyone is looking😅
Yeah
hmmm i sense no bias here C:
what drama is 0:17 and 0:21 and 0:56 / 1:37 and 1:09 and 1:11
1:09 rey monarca and 0:17 0:56 1:37 kill it
1:11 run on
What is the name of the historical drama that has scene's in this video
Tell me pls
It's a message for u boys to keep it in ur pants ok and also try get with reality
It's called the untamed
Can some one tell all drama names
hi, since poeple are talking a lot about this topic in the comments, i want to share it too, it didn't happen with a guy, but with a girl, when i was 9, i knew a girl that was 8, her mother was my baby sitter, she was doing chores in muy house and you know, that, she let me stay at her house sometimes, where she had 2 big sons and a daughter, i was friends with her, close friends....way too close?? without my consent? LOOK...the thing is that i got bullied a lot in school, i had bruises for being hit with school chairs in the face, and a lot of more things, so i never really had any friend, she was my first and only friends, so i wanted to do everything to satisfy her, i was scared of her leaving me, of losing my only friend, the only one who stayed for me, so i could've done anything to make her stay, she knew it, and she manipulated me with it, she told me to take my clothes off, and to do some things, i was shoked, i said "WHAT?? WHO TEACHED YOU THAT!?!? WE ARE TO LITTLE, WHY?" she told me to shut up, you know...that stupid line of "shut up, or someone could hear us" to manipulate me and make me do what she says, then she said "if you don't do it, we aren't friends anymore" i felt like i had nothing more to do, i apologized and did what she said, i don't think i even felt something, i just wanted to cry, i was so concentrated of not crying, i was so in fear and shoked, that i just layed there down, doing what she told me to do, i had a crying face, she asked me why i was crying, i told her that i was crying because i was happy, that's what i wanted to believe at the moment, because i felt like if i told her the truth, and that i didn't want to, she would hate me, and i would lose her, then it was an habit, we did those things everyday, and everytime i felt scared and like an horrible person for doing that, then her mom got fired, she stopped comming at my house, and i stopped comming at her house, i wanted to stay and i cried, because i knew that if that happened, i wouldn't see my "friend" ever again, after some years, i got over it, but i still remember it and i feel dissapointed and sad, after years, i told my mom, she was shoked, she hugged me while she was crying, repeating "sorry, sorry sorry, it was my fault" i wanted to cry, but i didn't, i just closed my eyes and hugged my mom back, now i wish everything was just a dream, that it didn't happen, wish it was a nightmare, but it wasn't, and i keep thinking it was my fault for not being able to stop her, for being so scared, if you made it here, thanks i guess, por reading, i feel good at saying this like an anon, i can finally get over it a little more, thx and bye :)
I am sorry you had to go through that. Are you in a better place now?
@@cohlinegarnet8313 oh, i didn't expect someone to read it! thx for answering xd, and yeah, i'm better now, i'm getting therapy and it's helping me a lot, for now, i've never saw her again, and i'm more confident about myself, now i can say "no" to people who wants to do something i don't want to, thx for caring :3
@@suikatt3481 I'm so glad you are in a better place. It's great that you're learning how to say no! Thank you for responding.
@@cohlinegarnet8313 thanks for caring again! i've been kinda alone on this and no so long ago i told my family, they are being supportive and helping me a lot! thank you, you made my day better :3
@@suikatt3481 I'm glad I did! If you ever wanna talk again, you can definitely find me again under this comment.
Watched.
Dpes anyone know what the title for the part where the woman is a prime minister?
@Joo-Zyn thank you so much!!!!!
2:28 what drama is this you guys? Btw great edit.
Search: www
@@ninijensi thank youuuu 💕
@@lizyu3671 np
Please what is the Chinese historical drama
I think its "the untamed"
At 1.15 can you please tell me the thai drama name
2:35 drama name
Fight for my way
1:11 what ep of Run On Kdrama was this scene from?
The first episode
2:02 - what is the tittle of this movie/drama?
The King: Eternal Monarch
@@gunaysemedzade4900 thank you