Thank you so much for the support on this edit. I’ve seen some comments saying that they are disappointed that the girls aren’t fighting back and at first I had planned to have more fighting back scenes but then I thought, I wanted to show how reality looks like. Hope you guys understand my intention❤️
I think it made all woman and girls sad who are watching this but for me it’s like you are showing what could happen if we don’t try to fight back I’m writing this while crying ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️just because we aren’t boys doesn’t mean we are weak people look down on us but most of them are weak too they just don’t want to show it ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
RIGHT And when WOMEN wear make up they say "Why do girls wear make up when we think they are more prettier without it" LIKE THE FCK WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE? Are they really that dumb to think We wear make up FOR THEM?
@@user-qn3kl4cu9v Totally agree.I have a safety app and a self defense and surviving kit on me everyday.Im Traumatised It ain't funny all day to be a woman.
Ikr... The fact that we don't have guarantee to be safe after defending ourselves or being saved by some heroes like in those dramas really terrifies me.
If a woman is saying “I’m wary of men because I’ve had bad experiences before” it is not a moment for men to say “not all men”. It is a moment to listen.
“You’re overreacting” “don’t be like that you make me looks like a bad person” “I just want your number” “I’ll treat you, let’s go out with me” (stranger) But they don’t stop when I clearly look uncomfortable or pretend to not hear them
“Why are you all dressed up dont you already have a boyfriend who are you trying to impress?” “Don’t be a bitch” “You are so pretty you deserve way more” “You’re showing too much skin be careful” And don’t even get me started with those assholes on Instagram who think Instagram is Tinder and all women are available for them. We go through so much, I’m sorry to hear what you went through too
"But not all men are like that" *"Yeah but when we are walking down the street and some man is following us, we don't have time to think if he's one of those men or not"* ~someone's comment I saw on youtube a while back
In my school, there was this one guy who would leer at me everytime I walked past him and loudly announce that he'd give me a chance even though I was flat-chested. I complained about it but everyone just said that he just didn't know how to tell me he liked me. I knew that it wasn't that he liked me, he just got off on being able to say such things without anyone rebuking him. So if no one was going to tell him off, I would. One day he said it to me and I said that my boobs could be fixed with a pushup bra, but there's no fix for being a loser who has to call out to girls to get some attention. You should have seen all his friends fall quiet. Some were clearly incredulous that a girl talked back, some looked ashamed, some pretended they didn't hear. The guy himself was shocked and stuttering with rage. Goddamn it felt good to shut them all up. I wish all girls could do that but we can't always because of fear of violence and society's judgement. Even so, when I feel cowed or afraid, I just think of that moment. I don't care how bitchy they said I was, or how many tables I had to scrub during detention as punishment. Guys like that have never experienced a girl having agency. And personally, I don't think I could see myself in the same way if I let something like that go. I wish we lived in a world where we could speak up for ourselves without fear, or better yet, a world where such harassment didn't exist.
@@micag1948 I go to a private school on scholarship, and the guy's father was a huge sponsor for the school, so I knew what would happen. Still, he never harassed me again, and that's a result I'm happy with.
@@veerzara3137 it did take considerable courage to speak up, but many women can't do the same because of their circumstances. This happened in a school setting, where I was relatively protected, and I didn't have to fear violence from those guys. If it happened in a dark alley or crowded bar I might not have done the same. There's a difference between bravery and foolishness. That's why I've set up a neighbourhood watch program with my friends to help women in such situations, because no matter how strong you are sometimes you just can't fight back alone.
I love the line “but girls will be women” because it’s about how girls are held responsible for the behaviour of boys even as children and are taught from an early age to be wary of men/boys
That’s like saying “I’m wary of black people because I’ve had bad experiences” It’s offensive and sexist for women to say this and you know it. It is also offensive and racist for white people to say what I just did
honestly the scenes where they put those trashbins in their places makes me tear up sometimes, girls go through so much and are told to let it go because 'boys will be boys'
@@mr.bahng101 Bruh as a boy I understand what your trying to say but not all boys are bad damn ur comment hit me hard it's fine though it's not like its completely false
@@nihan4615 Why do you think that your hurt feelings are just as important as the women who are killed and assaulted because men don’t hold each other accountable?
@@nihan4615 listen I've seen a lot of men commenting on such videos saying 'not all men', dude we aren't saying all men are bad but those who falls into the category of 'not all men', what have u done to make theses things don't happen? and your saying not all men doesn't solve the problem so stop saying it, instead of understanding us you are defending yourself for which we didn't ask. Try to think from our pov , maybe you'll understand
Exactly. They make the female leads look weak and dependable to the male species. That's why I'm really happy bcs more kdramas these days are portraying a more feisty and independent female leads. Those kinds that no need saving and actually the ones doing the saving to the male species.
Exactly cuz The society think Girls are weak and Needs A Boy to save them Like they also use "Girl" as a Insult example: "You run like a girl." - Run like a girl means trip and flail your arms around. "You fight like a girl" Fight like a girl means slapping someone with weak wrists.
It's also almost romanticized this way: The whole purpose of such a scene seems to be showing how great the male lead is, without taking into account the aftermath the girl has to go through...
They put that in a romantic way, not in a moral way... It’s nice and romantic when a boy save girl or help her or smth, cute and romantic is a concept of kdrama... They probably don’t have “Let’s make girls look weak...” thoughts when they’re making scene
It's a *rare* moment to find a women who's never been sexually harrassed or touched without consent. And I think that tells every damn thing about the society and their sick minds.
I am trying to impress someone. My friends and siblings or just wanna feel pretty for myself. Not some random man. I don't give a damm about their opinion cause it's irrelevant to me
@@ines1084 WHY DON'T THEY UNDERSTAND THIS ISTG THEY ALWAYS THINK WE'RE TRYING TO IMPRESS THEM JUST BC WE WANT TO MAKE OURSELVES PRESENTABLE ( guys w manners & respect is not included
Yes definitely.... I jst have a question when somebody wears something nice or not..anything.. Why others think it's like they wanna impress someone... Ok even if they want to.. What u have to do with it.. It's their mood they wanna wear nice they will do it.
I really like the scenes where these women put these men in their places. A lot of ppl say that these scenes are chessy and are just their to show some cheap instances of 'GIRL POWER' but to me they give a sense of relief because in reality a lot of women are not able to speak out during these events, and that makes me so sadand angry at the same time. ALL THE MORE POWER TO ALL THE GIRLS WHO NEED IT, and also grt video 👍👍 as always.
@@bangpinkdomination4993 You know, being feminist only means that you want gender equality. There's nothing wrong with it, so if someone tells you otherwise it just means that they don't want equality and they should be the one who is ashamed.
@@bangpinkdomination4993 I’m don’t know why ppl use feminism as an insult, and I definitely wouldn’t be offended if someone called me a feminist. If someone tried to insult me by calling me a feminist, I’d just say “yes, I do in fact support gender equality.”
@@bangpinkdomination4993 there’s absolutely nothing wrong with being labeled a feminist if anything its great that people label you as one, to be a feminist is to want gender equality, fairness between men and women (other genders as well) of all sexual orientations and ethnicity/race. don’t listen to those who say feminists only want things for women and not for all because that’s just bs.
2 sad facts: 1. most of these women were looking around for someone to step in and no one did 2. most of these male bystanders didn't step in because they enjoyed the show, not because they were cowards
@@oneboi1580 for 1: they all looked around and their faces fell when no one did anything for 2: the other guys were laughing. they were clearly enjoying the "show"
@@somepotatowithaface6096 go and google the meaning of the word 'most' and come back when you've realised what a fool you just made of yourself with your 'not all men' comment
@@cjng7340 I think, SaNd HaNiTiSeR means that its obviously "not all boys" and it would be better to try understand why there is this problem in the first place. No one would say "not all people are thiefs" but we are still careful anyway because of the few existing ones.
@WildChild still doesn't make sense to generalize men. If lots of men and women says not all men, it means you are wording to make it seem all men are bad.
we only say not all men if girls generalize and act like all men are bad, but most of us still symphatize with you cause its morally right, if i were harrased by a girl youd think she was flirting and doesn't have bad intentions how tf should i know that then, see how double standards are? also if a man actually just says "not all men" without being triggered he is probably toxic if so fuck him
@@redacted2086 but that would make you just as bad as the generalizer, you’re just doing what made you annoyed at them in the first place. if that’s what you think works then go ahead ig i just think it’s better to tell them to cut it out
“not all men” not all cars crash but we still wear seatbelts. (This is getting out of hand so, I need to say this, I know it's not all men. We all know it's not all men, but what we don't know is which men. It's literally like playing Russian roulette. yea, you may get an empty chamber, but you might also get the bullet. why take an unnecessary risk when you can take steps to avoid it? also im surprised that i need to mention this but please stop brushing off sexual harassment to "a guy looking at you for .00002 seconds". Sexual harassment is a serious offense, and we should start acting that way.)
To avoid wars, I'm just gonna edit this aand just say "We know it's not all men, but we don't know WHICH men". (Btw for those who are mad, there's actually a history behind the "not all men" thing, read articles about it)
Reminds me when I walked into a bar that happened to be full of men and I was wearing a skirt... Everyone looked at me and someone even whistled while another asked if I wanted to drink with him. I was 14. And most of those men were clearly in their 30s/40s ugh that's so disgusting.
@@zadie565 Yeah... Hopefully my dad came after to pick me up, but I'm still uncomfortable everytime I see a group of men or I have to wear a skirt in public..
Be thankfully you’ve never experienced construction workers whistling at you when you’re walking home from the gym in a tshirt and shorts... and I was 12.
I slapped a creep once and was told to apologize the next time I saw him when I told my mom about it. She was more upset that I(12 at the time) slapped him(15), than the fact that he blocked and tried to intimidate me. Let’s not forget that he was easily twice my size too. Never apologized to him.
You do understand that this is the same argument racists use to justify their racism? Not to dismiss the issue at hand, but this is an absolutely wrong mindset to have.
I love how people will be like “not all men” but at the same time they say all women are bad drivers. All women are moody. All women are emotional. All women are babies. All women are weak. All women cry easily. All women are girly. All women are obsessed with makeup and hair. All women are obsessed with men. But don’t you dare generalize men that is “unfair”.
@Bloodwolf Ofcors I know what a joke is but I just don't understand why you guys can generalize women all the time and half the time not being joking and people get away with it. But when people talk about how 97 percent of women are hurt by men we are suddenly bad and it's not all men. But yes I can take a joke.
@@bloodwolf3683 Since men like to joke on women then women can also make some jokes on them right? It shouldn't hurt their feelings if they happen to have any. So chill becoz men definitely can appreciate good jokes afterall you certainly seem to know what a joke is , don't you?
Tbh kdramas are misogynistic even without the creepy flashing weirdos that appear in some of them. The lead guy is usually the worst of them all. The second lead is usually kinder and more gentlemanly but gets friendzoned. The arm grabbing when she doesn’t want to talk, the overbearing “jealousy” that happens when the lead and the poor girl begin to date, the lead telling her to wear different, more conservative clothes because he doesn’t want other guys looking at her legs, etc is what made me stop watching kdramas years ago. I started to think this was romantic and started wanting this in relationships. Only then did I see that this isn’t sweet at all. I know it’s all fictional, but it makes you rethink what romance should be like.
I think a part of that also lies behind how Asian countries treat woman. Its a bit more sexist, especially in regards to woman's clothes. Assault is common in some places (Japan is notorious for that) when woman wear skirts and are groped in busy trains or photos are taken beneath their skirts. Showing a lot of skin can be seen as being a bad thing. I don't agree with it at all but it's definitely something I've been noticing in a lot of Asian dramas in general. Same for kissing scenes where the female doesn't kiss back and just looks forced, OR when the male love interest kisses her and she tries to pull away. Makes me uncomfy.
This! I know exactly what you mean, not only in K-dramas but in Chinese dramas or overall many dramas, it's just like the main female lead is bad at studies, the male lead is reallly good at it and the second male lead is like the female lead. The love triangle gets so annoying at a point that I stop watching it or watch it after like 2 months. It's so weird for me nowadays 😐
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We always tell the girls : *"don't wear short skirts"* *"Don't go out alone at night"* But did we ever tell the boys : *"Look respectfully son"* *"Go but don't trouble anyone"* ? Edit : there are some insecure little men in the comments so don't read if u have bad temper thanku sm. At this point this seems like the same situation when Joy, a member of Red Velvet, wore a shirt which said "feminism" and got "hate" for it 🙄🙄 These ppl can't just tolerate women being finally able to stand up for themselves, these narrow minded ppl just want them to live a scared, a life which isn't free of freedom and controlled by other ppl's point of view. If the girls want to wear short dresses and live lives freely, it's our wish! We don't stop boys from openly moving around the cities in a just underwear, do we? If the boys can live their lives up to their full extent, then why do only girls have to think sm and contemplate sm, just for a different choice of clothing and proper freedom which every citizen should have? These narrow minded ppl just come in such videos, comments the same "not all men", and then more negative comments that's it. Edit 2 : ok so I took 2 hours to go through all the comments and tried to look through this by both point of views and here's the thing, to all the dear educated gentlemen, tysm for ur maturity. I hope more ppl like y'all are there in this world. I've also been a victim of sexual harassment alot of times, even though I'm still a teenager, it's quite difficult nowadays to find women who haven't been through any teasing or smth like that. Nasty ppl exist everywhere in this world. So to all the gentlemen here in the replies or the comments, sorry but now we have trust issues. We can easily see a man as a creep, but not one as a gentleman in the current society, it's difficult. After so many incidents, it's hard to trust someone being good now. And this is also not our fault, it's the society's. There's a saying that one dirty fish pollutes the entire pond, this is exactly the issue here. Just bcoz of a few creeps we can't trust anyone to be good human atomatically now. So if u are a gentleman and reading this, ty for adding a little sense of comfort in our hearts, u ppl only make us think that there are still good ppl left in this world. And if ur still stubborn or "pissed" or angry, then just listen to the song used in this video and see the lyrics, u'll see what we go through. The song's "Boys will be boys" obv.
Underrated point and very valid and true And unfortunately even some women swallow this double standard bs...one woman actually told me we shouldn't morally have same expectation from men coz the are men ...but women need to be more realistic and practicle🙄
I feel sorry for that mother 😔.. As for me if ever I have a son.. first thing I will do is to make him understand the importance of respect for others.. especially women.. I wanna teach him to support his sister or girlfriends for girls bieng independent and self protected in all situations.. not just to protect them..
I always feel like these people who have these kind of children would always feel like they've failed as parents and honestly, they have. They've failed to raise a decent human being.
the issue is that it can hurt when someone thinks your a sex predator that's in my opinion why some men become defensive around this mentality, now given that the victim is probably far less comfortable the emphasis is on the other person to act but its still a bad situation for everyone involved.
when you're watching a kdrama and the female lead is so brave and badass and they easily fight back and beat the guy, that's not how it is in real life. it's way scarier in real like than kdramas or movies make it to be. if you call the person out for sexually harassing you they're going to go 'it was a friendly touch' 'it was a joke' 'chill, I didn't even do anything' 'are you suspecting me?' 'are you scared of me?' 'do you not trust me' and even when they're literally sexually assaulting you they act like they're not, like it's consensual. but don't ever let them tell you that it is, because it isn't. sexual assault isn't sexual assault if consent was given. you're clearly uncomfortable, and they're not stopping. stick up for yourself. you have nothing to lose, who cares about image? you don't live for people, you live for yourself. so make your life unregrettable. don't lay on your death bed wishing you'd let out how you were sexually assaulted and couldn't say anything about it because you were too scared.
@@pourianggonmei653 From what I've seen, the video shows what women suffer every day in public. As much as EVERYONE deserves respect, the video is showing the lack of respect of MEN towards WOMEN. And all of this was shaped by society. I'm not saying that if a woman is attacking you, you have no right to fight back. The problems presented in the video will never be from woman to man, but from man to woman (in the GREAT majority of cases). :)
"If you never been told how you gotta be What you gotta wear, how you gotta speak If you never shouted to be heard You ain't lived in a woman's world." - Little Mix
Not y'all morons in the replies. They are talking about the struggles almost every women has faced, it's not a time for you to say 'MeN hAvE tOo', it's a time to listen and appreciate the struggle women have went through to just exist.
@@Purple_has_Sunshinedo women even listen to the pain of men, all this gender fight for what... When nothing will gonna change, we all know there are some men who hate women and obviously there are some women too who genuinely hates the men... Even if some try to understand eachother the rest will gonna Gaslight them against other gender because this is how it works Instead of this, we should change the society and the fundamental view of people in society... Because of some STANDARDS of women, men are judged and because of some STANDARDS of men, women does We should change that nothing will gonna change if you directly blame or force anyone to listen you when he or she is broken by society We should stand against the society and government We need a revolution
I don’t get why men think makeup and etc is for them. If anything, we get dressed up for our female friends because we know they’ll appreciate the effort.
They say things like "one wipe and its all gone" but don't even take a minute to look at the mirror and think that maybe they're the one who needs to put on some makeup
But then I see women complaining that they had to wear makeup and dress well and all that whenever their in a date ? And then they say the guy should pay for that reason ?
@@zorlockts5744 What does that have to do with this?? This is about those men who shame on women for being themselves like for example when a girl wears makeup they will say things like "one wipe and it's all gone" or "why are you wearing makeup? Don't u know that boys like girls without makeup better?" something like that. Your comment literally had nothing to do with this :/
@@zorlockts5744 Women do typically put more effort into their appearance than men. Wearing makeup to a date can serve several purposes: make a woman feel more confident, look better to impress the guy etc. But I don’t even believe in the idea that men pay for dates because of the effort women put to dress for it. Men pay because they’re usually the ones asking for a date. If you ask someone out, you should be prepared to pay for them.
Remember when we would all go home and tell our parents how the boys were being mean to us and they'd say "That means they like you" Edit: thank you to all the people sharing your stories and experiences in the replies. You are all so strong and I am here to talk if any of you need anything
@ I am so sorry that happened to you, that is considered bullying and I am so sorry that when you reached out to an adult you trusted that they ignored you asking for help to get out of a situation that was clearly harmful to you both mentally and phisically.
I'm so glad my parents never did that. Though they are a little old fashioned in most things, they never talked about rape to me as if they were blaming the victim. I was brought up to believe that people who committed sexual harassment were the ones at fault.
I felt my blood boiling while watching this video . " Boys will be boys " is one of the top three quotes I absolutely hate . Including " Everything is fair in love and war " and " You can't do this because you're a woman ."
I was reading a book on running a while back and there was a whole chapter on women so I went to check it out, thinking it was about girl things like picking the right sports bra or a debate on tampons, pads or a menstrual cup. But to my horror it was saying don't run with earbuds in - you can't hear someone come up behind you. Don't wear revealing clothing. Run with a MALE companion or a dog. Change your route every time you go out. Cary an alarm or pepper spray with you at all times. If someone asks for directions say no and walk away. Let someone know where you are all times. At ten years old this did not sit right with me - it still doesn't.
Why do we women have to live like a sacred cats, we really don't have freedom and it's just like have to live like a dead body, and not even a dead body of a women is safe, I feel so bad 😢
i hope in the future, parents will start to teach their boys to be respectful and not scold their daughters for wearing a skirt, dress, “revealing clothes”.
Who says ...accuse some boys falsely society will blindly accept you are right ...and ruin the life of innocent ones...this happening all over the world.... People here are keyboard warrior .....if you want to change it in real life.....and yes you are the most privileged gender.... Even men have to work hard to get his privileges unless like you women where everything is given to you without asking......
They way you believe men got these privilege bcs they worked for it but women got everything like on silver plater lol. women had to fight for it they still has to.
When I was 10 I was sexually harassed for the first time, the next two times were in the same year. I think that was the point in my life when I realized that the world doesn't care about it happening to children because boys will be boys and the fact that I genuinely know that hurts.
TW: Sexual Harassment Hello! Thought I should share a story of mine here. In my freshman year of high school I was consistently harassed every day by the same guy, one time going as far as almost kissing me. Going to the class I had with him was stressful and knowing that people were seeing what he was doing but didn’t stop him made me feel like I wasn’t safe because I couldn’t even depend on people speaking up and helping me. I never reported him with the mindset that he was young and had his life ahead of him because that’s how I was taught to feel (I’d like to clarify, my parents always taught me to speak up, it was society that made me fearful). Not once was I told to think of myself. Not once was I listened to when I told him to stop. Not once did someone speak up for me and get me help. He has never apologized and I’m entering my senior year in a few months. I do not hate men, but I have a lot of trauma the streams from men and being touched, while I have a boyfriend he’s been extremely patient with me to not push any boundaries. Yes, it’s not all men who do this, but it’s almost all women who suffer. And you saying to me, and many other victims that you’re not like that doesn’t help us. Standing up helps, holding bad men accountable helps, being a good friend helps, not speaking over female victims but instead speaking with female victims helps. Stop trying to make an excuse for a portion of your gender and help us solve the problem. (Also male victims and are just as valid. Anyone can be an abuser and a victim, but the reason I am speaking about women is because that is the topic and what I relate to, thank you.) Stay safe everyone💕
This just ALL of this. Thank you, and I'm sorry you went through that. I have a fear of men because of PTSD because I went through a lot from birth until I was 20. (I'm 23 now for reference) I have a fiance and hes very patient and doesn't push boundaries either. He gets that women aren't accusing all men and he feels horrible for all the women who have been through hell and back. He is someone who always steps in when other men are harassing women. He never has been offended when someone speaks of their experience because he knows he has nothing to defend because he isn't one of them. Instead he offers a shoulder and an ear and just acts like a friend. Which I think is something all of us sorely need. For people to just act with some sympathy, Male or female, to abuse.
This type of incident happened to me twice and it took me almost 9 months to overcome it. No one helped me at that time even my mom. That moment I realised no one will be there for you at your hardtimes except you. So I learnt martial arts. I feel you.
I didn’t even need the captions. I could see the pain and fear in the girls’ faces so easily and it pained me so incredibly much. Sadly, those awful men couldn’t even recognize that they were the slightest bit of uncomfortable.
My mum teaches this to my brother every time he go out! My mum's some dialogues she oftenly says to my brother:- 1) don't treat any girl like those jerks from k-drama...this is reality! 2) help if you are capable but with maintaining your and her respect! 3) maintain a social distance from girls and don't make them uncomfortable in any way! 4) always try to make girls nearby feel free and safe... 5) don't stare any girl with your artistic eyes, this may make them feel uncomfortable! So let your inner artist stay inside you only! Got it... And if you really wanna draw someone ask for their permission first! (As he is an awesome artist he draws anything which attracts him) 6) every random girl can't be your girlfriend so see them and protect as your sister until she confess to you. She's a good mum I guess
Just seeing this after myself and another girl made a petition for girls at my school to be treated with fairness. If we wear shorts, ripped jeans or a jumper that shows (heaven forbid) our shoulders, we get a uniform card but boys can wear short shorts, wear tank tops and show skin but aren't punished. we need to start addressing these double standards people. Periodt.
Yes! My friend group and I just started a petition to get our dress code fixed but I was annoying that the boys can where whatever but is girls can’t? And what really made me mad was a *male* teacher dress coded my friend friend(she was literally in dress code) and said “You might want to change, or I will have to dress code you” while looking her UP AND DOWN.
Commenting from my gf's account: While it's unfair to punish girls for clothing the way they want, there's a difference between boys and girls. A girl would never wander around with her upper body naked. Boys do. Furthermore, the female body is considered to be erotic. An unwanted trait in school, an environment designed for learning. The male body is not considered erotic.
@@lisaholzmann7707 yes that is true but I have girls in my class getting yelled at because they showed the slightest bit of shoulder or knee and it’s annoying that these boys will get away with that kind of stuff. And it doesn’t help when you tell someone this because I have and they just said “Well your body is different and we don’t want the boys to be distracted” like what the hell does that mean? Parents need to teach their sons better manners
I was greateful that all my years of school we never had a dress code for guys or girls. Literally girls could wear pretty much anything and so could the guys. Although the freedom was nice to have, it made the ability for guys to judge girls easier. But the bottom line is that girls were able to wear what they wanted freely and not get dress coded every 5 seconds. I hope your petition was successful!!!
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Exactly like for so long I’ve been told by society that “cat calling is just compliments and I should appreciate them” so whenever it happened even when it made me feel bad I didn’t do anything about it because I thought I was being dramatic
Yeah same. I only once saw "cat calling" being respectful and nice. The man said that my sister is beutiful and wished us a nice day and drove off. Expected worse when they called out for us lol
@@everythingdoesntlastforver1533 if you walk away he'll just do this to a different woman. I think insulting him was probably one of the best things to do.
@@poingucac ok sure he would but imagine if every women do this? Yea they would stop cause they ain't getting the attention they want, if you lash out back at them, it would just lead to more insults
I hate when schools have restrictions on what girls can wear to show off anything but they don’t tell the boys how to be respectful - - And for people who say boys also have many restrictions, that is also true and quite honestly you shouldn’t have to follow all these restrictions. For both boys and girls, instead of trying to solve the problem from the surface with clothing restrictions, find the deeper cause and try to help both genders with understanding respect to each other.
Yeahhh same. Like i was in 3rd when a girl in my class got jugded by her dress Her skirt was like bit short That's why teacher told her to wear long skirts and boys were also judging her. Seriously i was extremely disappointed on that day
my school made wont let us show our above our knee, shoulder, or collarbone, bc it's "distracting" I got into a debate abt it with a guy, i said if it's so distracting, DONT LOOK
There was someone who told me that if a man is in a room full of woman, he is in heaven and when a woman is in a room full of men she is in hell... I felt that😔 edit: I just want to clarify that it is not about all men, but about most women Not many woman are comfortable sitting in a room full of men edit: Can y'all stop fighting in the comment section, I didn't mean to bring men down with it, I just wanted to show how many women have trouble to be with men, what doesn't mean that men are always comfortable around women. My goodness🙄🌸
this wasn’t too long ago. i was wearing a skirt. on the way home a man was following me. he asked me where i was on my way to and i tried to ignore him but he kept coming closer to me and even grabbed my shoulder. i was so fucking terrified i didn’t know what to say so i just told him i was going to the city. he was following along my way, in the bus and the train. at that point i had called my mom just so i felt somewhat safer. eventually i arrived in the city and somehow lost him so that was a relief but then later a man in a car stopped by me while i was walking to my house and honked. he yelled something towards my direction and i tried to ignore it once again but i was literally at the verge of crying. while walking a bunch of other men were staring me down and my anxiety was shooting up the roof. thank god i arrived home safely. i’m 13. p.s.: i know this isn’t the worst situation out there, but this is my story and everyone has their own
when I was 13 or 12 I guess ....me and my bestie was coming together from a deserted street we saw too guys coming from bike we both were wearing short jeans ..both of them look at us in weird way and smile and they was be like ahhh..Hoya i was became out of my temper and i repeat the same thing very loudly ahhh...Hoya.. and my bestie screamed 'babra hora kay' which mean are you being crazy they both stop there bike and come towards us we both always keep pepper spray with us and we keep them on hand when we go from any deserted area when they come toward us we both spray my bestie kick one of them where you would know they both started cursing (we were purple belt on that time in karate)and we run we told everything to our parents and both of them also got arrested you should always keep a pepper spray and a something like knife from which you can just stab someone for defences I have many many situation where I feel uncomfortable I feel anxious well everybody feel that way and that okay it's a part of our life it's a test how you handle it always remember you just gotta be brave you are stronger then you think you can do anything thing stay strong gurl you are the best😃👍
Not saying that boys don't go through things, but it seems like girls get judged for breathing and doing things any normal human would do. Thank you so much for this, CakeVelvet. It shows that the strength of women doesn't lie in physicality alone, but strength of mind as well. Edit : OOF, I'm stanning this respectful discussion in the replies. Are we K-drama lovers peaceful or what? Edit 2: Okay, I take it back. Edit 3: Okay, Harleen was crafted by gods.
Yes, but the song is not even about women. The song is to degrade men. The good men who do listen will hear this and will be hurt. i'm so agaisnt the toxic feministic concept.
@@sam-gx1dk well 43% of men in the world has gone through sexual harassment by females and 11% of men has undergone sexual harassment by males and it is not like girls don't sexually harass boys ok get ur facts right
@@locket.4293 You completly missunderstood what i said. I pointed out that i indeed see boys will be boys as an insult everytime someone says it. Because that labels an entire gender. And i get that they mean a small part of men. But noone ever cares to specify that. They all just keep hating so i'm out here trying to treat everyone equal but all i get is always hate. Do you get me?
It's like they judge on every single thing we do whether it's clothes to your dreams, they have an opinion on everything Sometimes , I am like LET GIRLS BREATHE !
Literally my dad, like he always opponent everything I want to do.LITERALLY EVERYTHING. This is why I don't like speak with him. Feels like enemy rather than your parents
It is funny how in schools they teach us girls that we mature faster therefore we have to act responsibly but once we are at a work space we are the unreasonable impossible creatures that causes troubles..
It's funny what ppl tells us is facts, this crap they try to pretend is facts, the childish games ppl play, the way ppl tell themselves they're more clever than not, doing things at the expense of others purely based on their own fragile egos & overcompensating pride, the ppl who argue opinions w/ you all day knowing damn well they don't look up anything, the liars, or the few that do actually have the nerve to say bs to "ur face"... Honestly, I had a pt but I lost it. But there's this this 1 dude tho. & He does alotta bouncies in the middle of the night... sometimes he loves hiding under the blankets & gets in his silly positions. I think he tries to look for left over snacks sometimes... Sometimes he's out in the open w/ his silly positions but he prefers "the lazy superman." Or he just plops over to his side & has no shame. Like when he uses the bathroom. He's a bit territorial & possessive but he's pretty loyal. Adventurous, fearless, suspicious & curious. He sometimes flexs his physical strength. Sometimes he stomps his feet out of aggression like some kid throwing a tantrum. But he's super loving, cuddly, affectionate, & loves attention. I love my bunny so much 😍.
I loved the scene where the women was like "gee, that is so small". What I liked about that clip, was that you could hear the tremor in the voice of the actress. You could see that she was so shaken by it but still she wanted to fight back. That is a very important takeaway. You can be courageous even in the face of danger, you don't always have to fearless to speak up for yourself.
i've watched so many edits of this song with English shows and it never fails to disturb/disgust/scare me. it's so sad that this is an actual reality for women all over the world. I'm so glad you tackled this topic, instead of making a normal edit!
@Mystic Clover If a teenage girl is walking home and is harassed by, say, 3 men, she can't rely on herself. She's young, she's weak, she doesn't have any way to defend herself. Sure, self reliance is important, but sometimes one does need help. Sometimes one can't fight for oneself, for whatever reason, and no one does help. That's the point.
@@lxnatic6561 search if you want do you think all women are angels I don't think so I'm from india about 53% of the cases where fake and in this month there was 4 fake cases that was a big issue in the news you can search if you want the lucknow girl case Zomato guys and a 18 year old boy was put in jail for fake case in all these cases the women was not punished one left the country one is said to be mentally ill one is a feminist 🥴 and how can someone say who is lying
@@lxnatic6561 I dosnt want to prove it to you who thinks all women are angels I don't think so there are as many women who destroys men's like men who destroys women's that's why I said that now see the world instead of sitting in your room and commenting shit
@@zainirubabi1363 I think the main reason women or others say that boys are the problem is that yeah, they are. But it's not all boys. The hard thing for women is that we don't know which 'boys' are the problem.
I agree, but I wouldn't respect anybody who is insulting, rude, or constantly trying to bring me down for doing nothing. (some women in this comments section who are targeting all men.
I'm watching this while crying, I've been in some many uncomfortable situation with man, I have a friendly personality which often leads me with trouble with boys bc they think I want something else, aside from that, I've been in some shameful situation even with strangers, once I was going home and took the bus it was around 11pm and one guy sit on my side and started masturbating, I didn't scream or say a thing I just run B4 and go out of the bus, I never had the courage to talk abt his to anyone I know, once of my classmates trying to kiss me by force when i took elevator, once again I never spoke abt it, and those are not the only situation, things like this keeps happening, yes I know I'm a coward but I not strong enough to talk about it with someone, I feel shameful, wrong and afraid, that's why I dont go out alone and everytime I see a man on the streets when I'm by myself I freeze and once I even had a panic attack where I couldn't breathe, I honestly hope this stop someday, I don't know why I did wrong, I'm not exactly pretty and attractive so I don't know why man do this to me, I know there's a lot of girls out there like me and this is what's scares me the most I'm sorry for sharing my story like this but I just had to, seeing this video reminds me of a lot of things
you are strong I am sorry to hear that I think you just gotta do it for yourself plzz I know it's hard yea but you can take little steps like first you gotta be strong I think you should watch motivation videos that will make you mentally strong I am doing it I am 17 I also felt the same but then I am doing it all for my self I started to watch motivation videos and started to do gym and exercise for becoming strong now I am not that anxious as before I think you should also do the same I don't know my word meant to you or not but I tell you this bcoz I have gone through same situation I can feel the pain.
Start by not being ashamed or apologizing for things you did not do wrong.. These kinds of people rely on the strong sense of shame women have been taught to feel. For my own comfort I always make sure to have my own personal space.
I'm really sorry for you. It' s okay if you don't like to share this to anyone .But you should react on that situation immediately . Give a complaint on that guy or attack him . Don' t be afraid otherwise this kind of situation will happen again and again. Almost all the girls experience this situation. Learn self defence , it will also make you bolder. Always be brave and with hope . Your life will change.
First im really sorry that u had to go through that AND girl pls dont say that ur not pretty, UR pretty inside and out. Dont let those jerks scare u. I know u can come over your trauma, best of luck, i wish u be safe and healthy. Love uh. 😉😙 And uh should love urself too 😊
@@amityblight2798 You didn't really specify it but we are also taught to not interact with boys like this like that blah blah, its just the girls who are extremely messed up would go and do that.
Saying 'not all men' when talking about woman being harassed is like saying 'all lives matter' at a black lives matter movement. True but irrelevant Edit : I meant to compare these metaphorically. I'm not saying these are the same.
I feel that, its important to raise awareness for issues, but how can we (the "boys") help fixing it when its not us or our friends or at our workplace? i want to know what i can do but i dont wanna see an entire gender be called the issue.
@@behising5193 I don't think this is something that will be fixed immediately. I personally think that it all comes down to educating future generations to be respectful towards other people's boundaries. Teaching your nephews, sons, or anyone else at a young age to be nice to others, keep their hands to themselves, and to not make creepy comments towards women because it is extremely uncomfortable. And if you see it happening, please try to step in or help the girl out. I think we should also stop doing the whole "Oh, he only picks on you because he likes you", "Well, he kept looking at you because of how you dress", "If she told you no when you asked her out, keep trying! She's just playing hard to get." If a girl tells you no, immediately stop. I can understand looking at someone who wears revealing clothing, but one shouldn't do more than that. Don't catcall, don't follow them, don't keep staring either; Just look away and leave them alone.
Thank you so much for keeping it so realistic. It's quite relatable. Otherwise,anyone else would've made it about unrealistic fights of Girls against those large gangs of men.
this might seem random, but i’m genuinely curious to know how the males in these dramas felt when they acted those characters. like, ofc they’re way better than the characters they acted, but i wonder if they felt disgusted acting like that? they’re good at acting to be able to hide their resentment towards those characters while acting as them.
@@nihan4615 as a girl, i would like to thank you for understanding our fight ! ^^ and you don't have to apologize for some people's actions even if you are a boy, we know boys are not all the same, luckily ! :')
us women shouldn't be treated as toys. we should be treated like the women we are, sometimes we might be just to shy to speak out. but that doesn't give anyone the right to treat us horrible. we are all strong in our own ways. but sometimes other people might not realize that. GO WOMEN!!!!
I was raised by a amazing family. My parents have properly educated my FIVE big brother's and they have told me to be respectful, but when someone harasses me I need to bite back. They have also taught me to wear whatever I want, and my dad has taught me how to box from a young age (he is a boxer, and I LOVED and still love boxing) They have taught my brother's to respect women and to help them in tough situations and so many more, so let me tell you if my family finds out that I get harassed all the time they would FLIP OUT, but I don't tell them (if it's not SERIOUS SERIOUS) cuz I know how to properly handle myself. But if anything happens to you, please tell someone or don't be afraid to bite back, just be careful if u don't know how to fight💖
Just a quick question, dont take it serious or anything but, what do you think about people saying men "HAVE" to be respectful to women, and what do "men being respectful to women" mean to you?
I’m only 12, but a few weeks ago a man was walking behind me as I was going back to my house after visiting a friend. He looked kinda sketchy so I picked up my speed and made sure he knew I knew he was behind me. I guess he realized that I was scared because I was waking fast, but he just looked at me and said “I’m going to my car.” He ended up walking past me, and to his car. I don’t think he was trying to do anything, but it still scared me to death. I’m not even a teenager yet but this is my main issue. It’s so sad that girls my age (or maybe younger) have to go through this. It’s horrifying to know that your life could be in danger just because of your gender and age. (I’m not saying this doesn’t happen to boys as well, because it does. And that’s horrible. But it’s more common for a female to be the target) There’s something wrong with this world if children are worried about things like this.
This is because society has created an image of men are always bad. Society never appreciates men for what they do to keep functioning the society itself. But almost every women are appreciated for small things they do. Society would say look she's a women and still managed to do it while men couldn't. As a society men and women should work together not get into competition
you are definitely right about the end part . it doez happen to all of us but you know infemales or girls it is more common. not a single girl i know havnt been harrassed or raped and you know that i was only 7 when i was rapped . and it still sends shivers down my spine now that i am older (13) i am more stronger and i can beat people.up but still
@@whyrwehere hey bud, idk if your replies notification is still turned on or not, just remember you are a good human. I saw u in many of the comment's replies, and I respect you a lot. No need to feel bad for something you didn't do. have a good day :)
“Not all men” Is not an excuse to dehumanize and shame the victim when they can’t face men after what happened. “He’s a man” Is not an excuse to pretend like men aren’t victims just because of their gender “What were they wearing” Is not an excuse for sexual violence against the victim.
@@psionicstorm3961 The victim can't even breathe in peace without having panic and trauma when seeing a man and you tell her "not all men. Think about the men in your life" ?
No matter how much I watch this, no matter how much I listen to this song, it never fails to make tears fall The fact that this is reality really frustrates me. No matter how much we as females stand up, due to society being so male dominated, it’s so hard But no matter what, fight. Always fight, because we can’t let them get their way We need to teach everyone from young that we are equals. That sexual harassment is not ok. That females are not objects, and that it isn’t right for us to be sexualised. No matter what comes our way, we shall fight, not stand down. If we stand down, we show weakness, so it’s time we stand up and make fellow females see that they too, can be strong!
I got sexually harassed the first time at 12 years old by a group of guys in a car driving by. I was sexually assaulted at 14 by a classmate of mine on a bus, and later that year I was groomed by an 18-year-old who told me I was "mature for my age." You know what happened? Nothing. When I told my parents what happened at 12, they told me it was a compliment that I was getting male attention. When I told (now ex-)friends I was sexually assaulted, they told me he had a crush on me and "just doesn't know how to express it." When I started hanging out with the 18-year-old, I was encouraged and told I was lucky for getting the attention of someone that much older than me. That's messed up. Thankful to say now I have friends who will gladly cuss out a catcaller. The ex-best friend of my assaulter told me that he's sorry he didn't step in to help me and that it was wrong of his friend to do. He also offered to be a shoulder to lean on whenever I needed it. And my friends and siblings remind me every so often how messed up it was that someone 4 years older than me tried to get in my pants.
I've never been one to comment but I want to share a bit of my story.. I was the only female in my group of friends and the guys treated me as one of the boys while keeping a respectful boundary when it came to close contact. Most of us were fine hugging and shoving but they would never touch me in a way they wouldn't be touched. And I loved them for it. But we had this one guy join our group, we're not sure how but he started joining us and he would touch me when the others weren't looking. This wasn't my first time dealing with these things but it was the first time I spoke up since my friends gave me a space spot from my past and for it to suddenly happen again... I felt a bit braver in speaking out to a teacher when the boy wouldn't stop. Now, I was 15 and my friends had always been brothers to me so I never had issues with them. But the teacher reply when I told her about that one boy and how I've tried telling him no .. her reply was "What did you expect from hanging out with boys". She pulled me away from my friends for the whole week when I wasn't backing down on this and the boy never got spoken too or delt with either. Apparently if I'm going to hang out with the opposite gender I should accept the risks. But my friends were Angel's, they new of my passed sexual harassment and tried giving me a safer and happier place to live. Why should a girl be sexually harassed in high school and blamed for it happening just because her friends are males. If my friends didn't touch me like he did then why couldn't he keep his hands to himself either
“Not all men” But it’s enough men for us to feel dress code when not in school or work. “Not all men” But it’s enough men that I have to carry my keys like knifes.
That's a very inefficient defense strategy to use your keys like that. You're more likely to break them than to actually hurt the other person. The same goes for having things in your fist when punching someone. You'll break your fingers and likely do no damage.
Whenever we look for Kdrama edits....we like looking at the cute ones....but for me this one stays my all time favourite......it motivates me to go on fighting. This video provides me strength to continue being the way I am.....cause BOYS R GONNA BE BOYS !!! PROUD of this edit 👏👏👏👏
Stop putting the whole gender in one category. It's like saying all woman are housewives, or saying not all women are housewives, but enough are. Boys can also suffer though sexual harassment but when they try to speak about it they're called pussies, or people say that because they're men they should go thought it alone.
@@jssed ppl like you are the problem lol. Nobody at all is saying that men don’t go through the same, sometimes worse, shit like women, it’s just that women are much more likely to be affected. Women go through this shit every day and so people want to bring attention to that. Doesn’t mean we should ignore men that have been s*xually harassed or assaulted it just means we should fix the problems women are having first. Secondly, women have been facing this for years and we have always been told that it is our fault. This needs to end. All men are not bad but we MUST talk about the ones that are, which is a big chunk of men. By saying that “not all men” you are ignoring what many men do. It’s the same as saying boys will be boys.
Thank you so much for the support on this edit. I’ve seen some comments saying that they are disappointed that the girls aren’t fighting back and at first I had planned to have more fighting back scenes but then I thought, I wanted to show how reality looks like. Hope you guys understand my intention❤️
This is the best edit I ever watched
thanks forthis edit and make it as real as possible of course girls and women are scared and humuliated by such awful action
I think it made all woman and girls sad who are watching this but for me it’s like you are showing what could happen if we don’t try to fight back I’m writing this while crying ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️just because we aren’t boys doesn’t mean we are weak people look down on us but most of them are weak too they just don’t want to show it ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
"Not many girls fight back" after experiencing this firsthand I know what it feels like.
U r absolutely right...
0:33 I hate when people assume that if you are dressed up ur doing it to impress somebody
RIGHT And when WOMEN wear make up they say "Why do girls wear make up when we think they are more prettier without it" LIKE THE FCK WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE? Are they really that dumb to think We wear make up FOR THEM?
So true, like we do make up or dress up because we want to it is for our own satisfaction
@@user-vl1vt9pn7y TRUE. We wear make up for ourselves, because we want to, because it's our body and it's none of your business.
Only dressing up to impress myself
I hate if some men think that i got crush on them because my polite and friendly manner to them
This was disturbing and heartbreaking to watch but it's the truth and it's a 100 times worse
Definitely!
Now many women are scared to go out because of "boys"
Disturbing
@@user-qn3kl4cu9v Totally agree.I have a safety app and a self defense and surviving kit on me everyday.Im Traumatised
It ain't funny all day to be a woman.
Ikr...
The fact that we don't have guarantee to be safe after defending ourselves or being saved by some heroes like in those dramas really terrifies me.
its not fair.
If a woman is saying “I’m wary of men because I’ve had bad experiences before” it is not a moment for men to say “not all men”. It is a moment to listen.
Finally someone said this
Exactly
Wise words
Finally someone understand , SAY IT LOUDER SIS!! 🥺🙏🏻
THANK YOU❤️
LOUDER FOR THE PPL IN THE BACK
"If they treat you like a doll,be Annabelle."
- Unknown
Woww I stan you 😉 for writing this comment.
And the doll from Squid Game
@@creamsandsummmer 😂👍
Aight, i love white dress
@@creamsandsummmer they both cool
they both deadly
“You’re overreacting”
“don’t be like that you make me looks like a bad person”
“I just want your number”
“I’ll treat you, let’s go out with me” (stranger)
But they don’t stop when I clearly look uncomfortable or pretend to not hear them
i’m so sorry
@@samiasegero5484 thank you😊
“Why are you all dressed up dont you already have a boyfriend who are you trying to impress?”
“Don’t be a bitch”
“You are so pretty you deserve way more”
“You’re showing too much skin be careful”
And don’t even get me started with those assholes on Instagram who think Instagram is Tinder and all women are available for them. We go through so much, I’m sorry to hear what you went through too
Sending virtual hugs to you all ❤️
“Don’t be like that, you’re making me look like a bad person”
Did I really do that? Or are you just a bad person
"But not all men are like that"
*"Yeah but when we are walking down the street and some man is following us, we don't have time to think if he's one of those men or not"*
~someone's comment I saw on youtube a while back
Yea
Screenshotted. I need to use this next time some ignorant asshat tries the "not all men" argument on me
@@gracienoble2880 yes QUEEN, periodt 😌💗
Not all men do it
@@manwithnoname8229 yeah and?
In my school, there was this one guy who would leer at me everytime I walked past him and loudly announce that he'd give me a chance even though I was flat-chested. I complained about it but everyone just said that he just didn't know how to tell me he liked me. I knew that it wasn't that he liked me, he just got off on being able to say such things without anyone rebuking him. So if no one was going to tell him off, I would. One day he said it to me and I said that my boobs could be fixed with a pushup bra, but there's no fix for being a loser who has to call out to girls to get some attention. You should have seen all his friends fall quiet. Some were clearly incredulous that a girl talked back, some looked ashamed, some pretended they didn't hear. The guy himself was shocked and stuttering with rage. Goddamn it felt good to shut them all up. I wish all girls could do that but we can't always because of fear of violence and society's judgement. Even so, when I feel cowed or afraid, I just think of that moment. I don't care how bitchy they said I was, or how many tables I had to scrub during detention as punishment. Guys like that have never experienced a girl having agency. And personally, I don't think I could see myself in the same way if I let something like that go. I wish we lived in a world where we could speak up for ourselves without fear, or better yet, a world where such harassment didn't exist.
Your soooo strong! I hope you know that.
You got punished for speaking up? I'm so sorry, stay strong queen.
You do you, girl. 💪
@@micag1948 I go to a private school on scholarship, and the guy's father was a huge sponsor for the school, so I knew what would happen. Still, he never harassed me again, and that's a result I'm happy with.
@@veerzara3137 it did take considerable courage to speak up, but many women can't do the same because of their circumstances. This happened in a school setting, where I was relatively protected, and I didn't have to fear violence from those guys. If it happened in a dark alley or crowded bar I might not have done the same. There's a difference between bravery and foolishness. That's why I've set up a neighbourhood watch program with my friends to help women in such situations, because no matter how strong you are sometimes you just can't fight back alone.
I love the line “but girls will be women” because it’s about how girls are held responsible for the behaviour of boys even as children and are taught from an early age to be wary of men/boys
Bulshit
That’s like saying “I’m wary of black people because I’ve had bad experiences”
It’s offensive and sexist for women to say this and you know it. It is also offensive and racist for white people to say what I just did
Can u please tell me the name of the drama at 0:24 pls pls pls pls pls
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Holy heck, you are really delusional, lmao,
honestly the scenes where they put those trashbins in their places makes me tear up sometimes, girls go through so much and are told to let it go because 'boys will be boys'
True but boys will be trash too I can't even say animals bc I'm bringing animals down
@@mr.bahng101 Bruh as a boy I understand what your trying to say but not all boys are bad damn ur comment hit me hard it's fine though it's not like its completely false
@@nihan4615
Why do you think that your hurt feelings are just as important as the women who are killed and assaulted because men don’t hold each other accountable?
@@nihan4615 listen I've seen a lot of men commenting on such videos saying 'not all men', dude we aren't saying all men are bad but those who falls into the category of 'not all men', what have u done to make theses things don't happen? and your saying not all men doesn't solve the problem so stop saying it, instead of understanding us you are defending yourself for which we didn't ask. Try to think from our pov , maybe you'll understand
ugh i hate boys so much
I'm so glad that you included Youth of may. It's such a great drama, even tho there is only two episodes.
ikr!!
Agreed
I Strongly agree
Right!!!
I swearrrrr!!!!!
one thing that irritates me in most doramas is when the girl is harassed and the man comes to save her, most of the time it is like this
Exactly. They make the female leads look weak and dependable to the male species. That's why I'm really happy bcs more kdramas these days are portraying a more feisty and independent female leads. Those kinds that no need saving and actually the ones doing the saving to the male species.
Exactly cuz The society think Girls are weak and Needs A Boy to save them
Like they also use "Girl" as a Insult example:
"You run like a girl." - Run like a girl means trip and flail your arms around.
"You fight like a girl" Fight like a girl means slapping someone with weak wrists.
It's also almost romanticized this way: The whole purpose of such a scene seems to be showing how great the male lead is, without taking into account the aftermath the girl has to go through...
They put that in a romantic way, not in a moral way... It’s nice and romantic when a boy save girl or help her or smth, cute and romantic is a concept of kdrama...
They probably don’t have “Let’s make girls look weak...” thoughts when they’re making scene
exactly when she is totally capable of saving herself esp if that's what she's been doing her entire life anyways
It's a *rare* moment to find a women who's never been sexually harrassed or touched without consent.
And I think that tells every damn thing about the society and their sick minds.
Here is a message: Every time a girl/boy dresses up to go outside doesn’t mean they are trying to impress somebody. Just let them love there body.
Facts !
I am trying to impress someone. My friends and siblings or just wanna feel pretty for myself.
Not some random man. I don't give a damm about their opinion cause it's irrelevant to me
@@ines1084 WHY DON'T THEY UNDERSTAND THIS ISTG THEY ALWAYS THINK WE'RE TRYING TO IMPRESS THEM JUST BC WE WANT TO MAKE OURSELVES PRESENTABLE ( guys w manners & respect is not included
Yes definitely.... I jst have a question when somebody wears something nice or not..anything.. Why others think it's like they wanna impress someone... Ok even if they want to.. What u have to do with it.. It's their mood they wanna wear nice they will do it.
I like the fact that u said girl or boy.
I really like the scenes where these women put these men in their places. A lot of ppl say that these scenes are chessy and are just their to show some cheap instances of 'GIRL POWER' but to me they give a sense of relief because in reality a lot of women are not able to speak out during these events, and that makes me so sadand angry at the same time. ALL THE MORE POWER TO ALL THE GIRLS WHO NEED IT, and also grt video 👍👍 as always.
I totally like those scenes and if I tell them to someone they label me as a feminist like wtf😑
@@bangpinkdomination4993 You know, being feminist only means that you want gender equality. There's nothing wrong with it, so if someone tells you otherwise it just means that they don't want equality and they should be the one who is ashamed.
@@bangpinkdomination4993 I’m don’t know why ppl use feminism as an insult, and I definitely wouldn’t be offended if someone called me a feminist. If someone tried to insult me by calling me a feminist, I’d just say “yes, I do in fact support gender equality.”
@@bangpinkdomination4993 there’s absolutely nothing wrong with being labeled a feminist if anything its great that people label you as one, to be a feminist is to want gender equality, fairness between men and women (other genders as well) of all sexual orientations and ethnicity/race. don’t listen to those who say feminists only want things for women and not for all because that’s just bs.
When the girl slapped the boy...that was the best feeling ever
2 sad facts:
1. most of these women were looking around for someone to step in and no one did
2. most of these male bystanders didn't step in because they enjoyed the show, not because they were cowards
how do you know that?
@@oneboi1580 for 1: they all looked around and their faces fell when no one did anything
for 2: the other guys were laughing. they were clearly enjoying the "show"
@@samcarmen you dont know that
@@samcarmen they could have been scared... stop saying things you aren't sure of. Not all men are like that.
@@somepotatowithaface6096 go and google the meaning of the word 'most' and come back when you've realised what a fool you just made of yourself with your 'not all men' comment
"Not all boys"
The fact y'all watch this and this is the first thing that comes to your mind is just unbelievable.
I fucking know right!!!!
So we should say all boys are sexual harrasser and rap*st instead of saying not all boys ???
@@cjng7340 I think, SaNd HaNiTiSeR means that its obviously "not all boys" and it would be better to try understand why there is this problem in the first place. No one would say "not all people are thiefs" but we are still careful anyway because of the few existing ones.
Why not? If girls shit into our lives, thata the first thing we hear, that you are not bad and its just one bad person, why cant we defend ourself?
@WildChild still doesn't make sense to generalize men. If lots of men and women says not all men, it means you are wording to make it seem all men are bad.
For those who say "not all men" : *Not everyone is thief but we still lock our doors and windows at night*
period
all i can say is period u should have had more likes
we only say not all men if girls generalize and act like all men are bad, but most of us still symphatize with you cause its morally right, if i were harrased by a girl youd think she was flirting and doesn't have bad intentions how tf should i know that then, see how double standards are? also if a man actually just says "not all men" without being triggered he is probably toxic if so fuck him
honestly. i hate generalizers so much.
@@redacted2086 but that would make you just as bad as the generalizer, you’re just doing what made you annoyed at them in the first place. if that’s what you think works then go ahead ig i just think it’s better to tell them to cut it out
“not all men”
not all cars crash but we still wear seatbelts.
(This is getting out of hand so, I need to say this, I know it's not all men. We all know it's not all men, but what we don't know is which men. It's literally like playing Russian roulette. yea, you may get an empty chamber, but you might also get the bullet.
why take an unnecessary risk when you can take steps to avoid it? also im surprised that i need to mention this but please stop brushing off sexual harassment to "a guy looking at you for .00002 seconds". Sexual harassment is a serious offense, and we should start acting that way.)
THE QUOTE OF THE CENTURY
underrated
YASSSSS
To avoid wars, I'm just gonna edit this aand just say "We know it's not all men, but we don't know WHICH men". (Btw for those who are mad, there's actually a history behind the "not all men" thing, read articles about it)
Truee
Reminds me when I walked into a bar that happened to be full of men and I was wearing a skirt... Everyone looked at me and someone even whistled while another asked if I wanted to drink with him.
I was 14. And most of those men were clearly in their 30s/40s ugh that's so disgusting.
@@zadie565 Yeah... Hopefully my dad came after to pick me up, but I'm still uncomfortable everytime I see a group of men or I have to wear a skirt in public..
Be thankfully you’ve never experienced construction workers whistling at you when you’re walking home from the gym in a tshirt and shorts... and I was 12.
@@sofiaguerrero0969 That's sucks. Why the hell are these men whistling at you without realizing you were a child??
What where u doing at a bar when you’re 14?
@@zadie565 listen dude I didn’t say what those mofos did was correct, and i am not tryna shame her just asking what she was doing at a bar at 14.
"if you're boy and you're in the room filled with girls , it's heaven while if you're girl in the room filled with boys it's terrifying "
Not all men
Edit:
Also 1 boy in a room filled with girls isn't heaven even for a pervert, I promise u it's not 😂😂😂
No it will be also terrifying for a man if he was good looking cause rape against man happen too remember that
Facts ❤
That's so sad
say that to reverse harem...
I slapped a creep once and was told to apologize the next time I saw him when I told my mom about it. She was more upset that I(12 at the time) slapped him(15), than the fact that he blocked and tried to intimidate me. Let’s not forget that he was easily twice my size too. Never apologized to him.
as you should. go off
never apologized hes a creepy jackass who will live a horrible life. While u will live a marvelous life
I'm sorry but why should you apologise.. if anybody have to apologise it's that disgusting sickening pervert 😬 🙄...
he was in the wrong, your fine babes
You did the right thing. Your mother is wrong
Out of a dozen cupcakes, 1 is poisoned. You’d still be cautious of all of the cupcakes right?
Great analogy. Exactly not everyone bad but you still like to be cautious as you don’t know. Thank you for putting it in a nutshell
Its like a russian roulette
That is such a good explanation on that omg. This comment needs more attention.
You do understand that this is the same argument racists use to justify their racism? Not to dismiss the issue at hand, but this is an absolutely wrong mindset to have.
@@bbproductions8975 but we don't know if the guy sitting next to me is that type of men
I love how people will be like “not all men” but at the same time they say all women are bad drivers. All women are moody. All women are emotional. All women are babies. All women are weak. All women cry easily. All women are girly. All women are obsessed with makeup and hair. All women are obsessed with men. But don’t you dare generalize men that is “unfair”.
true
This should be the top comment👏👏👏👏
You dont know what a Joke is, do you?
@Bloodwolf Ofcors I know what a joke is but I just don't understand why you guys can generalize women all the time and half the time not being joking and people get away with it. But when people talk about how 97 percent of women are hurt by men we are suddenly bad and it's not all men. But yes I can take a joke.
@@bloodwolf3683 Since men like to joke on women then women can also make some jokes on them right? It shouldn't hurt their feelings if they happen to have any. So chill becoz men definitely can appreciate good jokes afterall you certainly seem to know what a joke is , don't you?
"Its so damn small. Theres nothing to look at" love that comeback🤣
Tbh kdramas are misogynistic even without the creepy flashing weirdos that appear in some of them. The lead guy is usually the worst of them all. The second lead is usually kinder and more gentlemanly but gets friendzoned. The arm grabbing when she doesn’t want to talk, the overbearing “jealousy” that happens when the lead and the poor girl begin to date, the lead telling her to wear different, more conservative clothes because he doesn’t want other guys looking at her legs, etc is what made me stop watching kdramas years ago. I started to think this was romantic and started wanting this in relationships. Only then did I see that this isn’t sweet at all. I know it’s all fictional, but it makes you rethink what romance should be like.
I don't even watch Movies dfkjhdhfgbjd 💀💀💀
I think a part of that also lies behind how Asian countries treat woman. Its a bit more sexist, especially in regards to woman's clothes. Assault is common in some places (Japan is notorious for that) when woman wear skirts and are groped in busy trains or photos are taken beneath their skirts.
Showing a lot of skin can be seen as being a bad thing. I don't agree with it at all but it's definitely something I've been noticing in a lot of Asian dramas in general. Same for kissing scenes where the female doesn't kiss back and just looks forced, OR when the male love interest kisses her and she tries to pull away. Makes me uncomfy.
@@BooksToAshes yup. It makes me uncomfy too! 😬
This! I know exactly what you mean, not only in K-dramas but in Chinese dramas or overall many dramas, it's just like the main female lead is bad at studies, the male lead is reallly good at it and the second male lead is like the female lead. The love triangle gets so annoying at a point that I stop watching it or watch it after like 2 months. It's so weird for me nowadays 😐
OMG FR I CONSTANTY CHEER FOR THE SECOND GUY WHO ACTUALLY HAS REPSECT AND EMPATHY AND TREATS HER RIGHT BUT HE GETS FRIENDZONED AND THE MAKN GIRL GOES FOR THE ASSHOLE MAIN GUY WHO ACTS LIKE AN ABSOLUTE WUSS ARE YOU KDIDING ME NOT COOOL L LCJSJSJSJSJSBJQKQKWLWAAP
We always tell the girls :
*"don't wear short skirts"*
*"Don't go out alone at night"*
But did we ever tell the boys :
*"Look respectfully son"*
*"Go but don't trouble anyone"*
?
Edit : there are some insecure little men in the comments so don't read if u have bad temper thanku sm. At this point this seems like the same situation when Joy, a member of Red Velvet, wore a shirt which said "feminism" and got "hate" for it 🙄🙄
These ppl can't just tolerate women being finally able to stand up for themselves, these narrow minded ppl just want them to live a scared, a life which isn't free of freedom and controlled by other ppl's point of view. If the girls want to wear short dresses and live lives freely, it's our wish! We don't stop boys from openly moving around the cities in a just underwear, do we? If the boys can live their lives up to their full extent, then why do only girls have to think sm and contemplate sm, just for a different choice of clothing and proper freedom which every citizen should have? These narrow minded ppl just come in such videos, comments the same "not all men", and then more negative comments that's it.
Edit 2 : ok so I took 2 hours to go through all the comments and tried to look through this by both point of views and here's the thing, to all the dear educated gentlemen, tysm for ur maturity. I hope more ppl like y'all are there in this world.
I've also been a victim of sexual harassment alot of times, even though I'm still a teenager, it's quite difficult nowadays to find women who haven't been through any teasing or smth like that. Nasty ppl exist everywhere in this world. So to all the gentlemen here in the replies or the comments, sorry but now we have trust issues. We can easily see a man as a creep, but not one as a gentleman in the current society, it's difficult. After so many incidents, it's hard to trust someone being good now. And this is also not our fault, it's the society's. There's a saying that one dirty fish pollutes the entire pond, this is exactly the issue here. Just bcoz of a few creeps we can't trust anyone to be good human atomatically now. So if u are a gentleman and reading this, ty for adding a little sense of comfort in our hearts, u ppl only make us think that there are still good ppl left in this world.
And if ur still stubborn or "pissed" or angry, then just listen to the song used in this video and see the lyrics, u'll see what we go through. The song's "Boys will be boys" obv.
I wish this was a top comment
@@kittytoebeans77 heh thanx 😭
THIS DESERVES TO BE THE TOP COMMENT
@@mikasasratt3508 oof
Underrated point and very valid and true
And unfortunately even some women swallow this double standard bs...one woman actually told me we shouldn't morally have same expectation from men coz the are men ...but women need to be more realistic and practicle🙄
Imagine going through child birth and then your son ends up like this..
edit- lads stop replyin nobody cares
So true!
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I feel sorry for that mother 😔..
As for me if ever I have a son.. first thing I will do is to make him understand the importance of respect for others.. especially women..
I wanna teach him to support his sister or girlfriends for girls bieng independent and self protected in all situations.. not just to protect them..
ikr...
I always feel like these people who have these kind of children would always feel like they've failed as parents and honestly, they have. They've failed to raise a decent human being.
“It’s not all men.” I understand but not all people are robbers and yet you still lock your doors at night.
goes both ways
the issue is that it can hurt when someone thinks your a sex predator that's in my opinion why some men become defensive around this mentality, now given that the victim is probably far less comfortable the emphasis is on the other person to act but its still a bad situation for everyone involved.
i dont
@@yumad555 that's obvious.
@@mansisampat4202 ik
when you're watching a kdrama and the female lead is so brave and badass and they easily fight back and beat the guy, that's not how it is in real life. it's way scarier in real like than kdramas or movies make it to be. if you call the person out for sexually harassing you they're going to go 'it was a friendly touch' 'it was a joke' 'chill, I didn't even do anything' 'are you suspecting me?' 'are you scared of me?' 'do you not trust me' and even when they're literally sexually assaulting you they act like they're not, like it's consensual. but don't ever let them tell you that it is, because it isn't. sexual assault isn't sexual assault if consent was given. you're clearly uncomfortable, and they're not stopping. stick up for yourself. you have nothing to lose, who cares about image? you don't live for people, you live for yourself. so make your life unregrettable. don't lay on your death bed wishing you'd let out how you were sexually assaulted and couldn't say anything about it because you were too scared.
THIS👏👏👏👏👏👏
Honestly!!
I LOVE THIS COMMENT ❤❤
if you are a boy/man who respects women's rights...
Congratulations! you are a worthy *human*
@Lennon. True. Basic decency.
@@pourianggonmei653 👏 that's the point you can't respect anyone with gender and you will not become a human helping a bad women
careful, they might call him a simp
@I am BAD correct reply
@@pourianggonmei653 From what I've seen, the video shows what women suffer every day in public.
As much as EVERYONE deserves respect, the video is showing the lack of respect of MEN towards WOMEN.
And all of this was shaped by society.
I'm not saying that if a woman is attacking you, you have no right to fight back.
The problems presented in the video will never be from woman to man, but from man to woman (in the GREAT majority of cases).
:)
The fact that almost every single woman in this planet has been sexually assaulted at least once is just heartbreaking
I guess I'm that 20% or something that was never assaulted
@@-castus- I think they mean harassed but I don’t know
💔
@@-castus- you are so lucky i wish i will never get harassed.
3% haven’t
"If you never been told how you gotta be
What you gotta wear, how you gotta speak
If you never shouted to be heard
You ain't lived in a woman's world."
- Little Mix
As a man I experienced all of that actually, specially if I want to use purple clothing
I’m a man and I’ve experienced those
Think everybody has lol
Not y'all morons in the replies. They are talking about the struggles almost every women has faced, it's not a time for you to say 'MeN hAvE tOo', it's a time to listen and appreciate the struggle women have went through to just exist.
@@Purple_has_Sunshinedo women even listen to the pain of men, all this gender fight for what... When nothing will gonna change, we all know there are some men who hate women and obviously there are some women too who genuinely hates the men...
Even if some try to understand eachother the rest will gonna Gaslight them against other gender because this is how it works
Instead of this, we should change the society and the fundamental view of people in society...
Because of some STANDARDS of women, men are judged and because of some STANDARDS of men, women does
We should change that nothing will gonna change if you directly blame or force anyone to listen you when he or she is broken by society
We should stand against the society and government
We need a revolution
I don’t get why men think makeup and etc is for them. If anything, we get dressed up for our female friends because we know they’ll appreciate the effort.
or for ourselves
They say things like "one wipe and its all gone" but don't even take a minute to look at the mirror and think that maybe they're the one who needs to put on some makeup
But then I see women complaining that they had to wear makeup and dress well and all that whenever their in a date ? And then they say the guy should pay for that reason ?
@@zorlockts5744 What does that have to do with this?? This is about those men who shame on women for being themselves like for example when a girl wears makeup they will say things like "one wipe and it's all gone" or "why are you wearing makeup? Don't u know that boys like girls without makeup better?" something like that. Your comment literally had nothing to do with this :/
@@zorlockts5744 Women do typically put more effort into their appearance than men. Wearing makeup to a date can serve several purposes: make a woman feel more confident, look better to impress the guy etc. But I don’t even believe in the idea that men pay for dates because of the effort women put to dress for it. Men pay because they’re usually the ones asking for a date. If you ask someone out, you should be prepared to pay for them.
Remember when we would all go home and tell our parents how the boys were being mean to us and they'd say "That means they like you"
Edit: thank you to all the people sharing your stories and experiences in the replies. You are all so strong and I am here to talk if any of you need anything
@ I am so sorry that happened to you, that is considered bullying and I am so sorry that when you reached out to an adult you trusted that they ignored you asking for help to get out of a situation that was clearly harmful to you both mentally and phisically.
OMYGOD YES LIKE WTF
YAS OMGGG DISGUSTING
I'm so glad my parents never did that. Though they are a little old fashioned in most things, they never talked about rape to me as if they were blaming the victim. I was brought up to believe that people who committed sexual harassment were the ones at fault.
@@qwertyuiopasdfghjklzxcvbnm3093 And that's how it always should be
I felt my blood boiling while watching this video . " Boys will be boys " is one of the top three quotes I absolutely hate . Including " Everything is fair in love and war " and " You can't do this because you're a woman ."
Exactly!!! 😡😡😡😡😡
Let's talk about the worst and real problem "real men do..." ¿why? This is extremly harmful to men and women
I only use 'Everything is fair In love and war' when I use a red shell last second in Mario kart so I can get 1st place.
@@kiyoko5474 that's fair xD
Why do you hate everything is fair in Love and War
I was reading a book on running a while back and there was a whole chapter on women so I went to check it out, thinking it was about girl things like picking the right sports bra or a debate on tampons, pads or a menstrual cup. But to my horror it was saying don't run with earbuds in - you can't hear someone come up behind you. Don't wear revealing clothing. Run with a MALE companion or a dog. Change your route every time you go out. Cary an alarm or pepper spray with you at all times. If someone asks for directions say no and walk away. Let someone know where you are all times. At ten years old this did not sit right with me - it still doesn't.
Why do we women have to live like a sacred cats, we really don't have freedom and it's just like have to live like a dead body, and not even a dead body of a women is safe, I feel so bad 😢
Our society always judge women but don't judge boys for doing such bad things
This video speaks it all
i hope in the future, parents will start to teach their boys to be respectful and not scold their daughters for wearing a skirt, dress, “revealing clothes”.
Who says ...accuse some boys falsely society will blindly accept you are right ...and ruin the life of innocent ones...this happening all over the world....
People here are keyboard warrior .....if you want to change it in real life.....and yes you are the most privileged gender....
Even men have to work hard to get his privileges unless like you women where everything is given to you without asking......
@@gameplayer678 Yes, we know not all men and it also happens to some women but happens to _all women_ , kay? Don't be an asshole now.
@@gameplayer678 What most privileged gender? Getting harassed, raped and killed just for being a women is privileged, huh?
They way you believe men got these privilege bcs they worked for it but women got everything like on silver plater lol. women had to fight for it they still has to.
"We're not as scary as we look"
Nah, you're probably more
feminist
@@kyandehaan6306 whats wrong with being a feminist
@@kyandehaan6306 whats wrong with respecting people?
@@kyandehaan6306 whats So wrong on believing equality ?
@@kyandehaan6306 What's wrong with not being an asshole?
When I was 10 I was sexually harassed for the first time, the next two times were in the same year. I think that was the point in my life when I realized that the world doesn't care about it happening to children because boys will be boys and the fact that I genuinely know that hurts.
I'm sorry that I'm the reason you've been hurt like that.
Wait why boys will be boy weren’t they gonna become men?
@@whyrwehere ] And here, ladies and gentlemen is what we call “Guilt tripping”, “Gaslighting” and “projecting” :D Stay Away from people like this.
@@whyrwehere Wow. So nice of you to gas light a person who has been sexually harrassed.
@@eloisarriane Preach
As a woman who’s had several korean male boomer to gen x bosses-- trust me, they really had no boundaries.
Korean man are only good in k drama but in real life complete opposite
@@shaktimishra9710 haan
TW: Sexual Harassment
Hello! Thought I should share a story of mine here. In my freshman year of high school I was consistently harassed every day by the same guy, one time going as far as almost kissing me. Going to the class I had with him was stressful and knowing that people were seeing what he was doing but didn’t stop him made me feel like I wasn’t safe because I couldn’t even depend on people speaking up and helping me. I never reported him with the mindset that he was young and had his life ahead of him because that’s how I was taught to feel (I’d like to clarify, my parents always taught me to speak up, it was society that made me fearful). Not once was I told to think of myself. Not once was I listened to when I told him to stop. Not once did someone speak up for me and get me help. He has never apologized and I’m entering my senior year in a few months. I do not hate men, but I have a lot of trauma the streams from men and being touched, while I have a boyfriend he’s been extremely patient with me to not push any boundaries.
Yes, it’s not all men who do this, but it’s almost all women who suffer. And you saying to me, and many other victims that you’re not like that doesn’t help us. Standing up helps, holding bad men accountable helps, being a good friend helps, not speaking over female victims but instead speaking with female victims helps. Stop trying to make an excuse for a portion of your gender and help us solve the problem. (Also male victims and are just as valid. Anyone can be an abuser and a victim, but the reason I am speaking about women is because that is the topic and what I relate to, thank you.)
Stay safe everyone💕
This just ALL of this. Thank you, and I'm sorry you went through that.
I have a fear of men because of PTSD because I went through a lot from birth until I was 20.
(I'm 23 now for reference) I have a fiance and hes very patient and doesn't push boundaries either.
He gets that women aren't accusing all men and he feels horrible for all the women who have been through hell and back.
He is someone who always steps in when other men are harassing women.
He never has been offended when someone speaks of their experience because he knows he has nothing to defend because he isn't one of them.
Instead he offers a shoulder and an ear and just acts like a friend.
Which I think is something all of us sorely need. For people to just act with some sympathy, Male or female, to abuse.
im so sorry for you, i hope he learns his lesson very soon ):
May God Bless you in the future
@Zulfiqar Jamali God bless you :(
This type of incident happened to me twice and it took me almost 9 months to overcome it. No one helped me at that time even my mom. That moment I realised no one will be there for you at your hardtimes except you. So I learnt martial arts. I feel you.
The slap at 1:45 is sooooooo satisfying
like you can TELL there was skin to skin contact lmao
I'm watching that series on netflix right now. It's called "Help Me".
Ikr seo ye ji is such a queen in every drama of her I've seen
The best shot 👌
I played it like 20 times💀
" the devil is in YOUR HEAD, NOT in a woman's body "
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Well said.
Say it louder for the muslims who force girls to cover their entire body
@@4ye5h45 lmao exactly
Clothes are not the problem
I didn’t even need the captions. I could see the pain and fear in the girls’ faces so easily and it pained me so incredibly much. Sadly, those awful men couldn’t even recognize that they were the slightest bit of uncomfortable.
My mum teaches this to my brother every time he go out!
My mum's some dialogues she oftenly says to my brother:-
1) don't treat any girl like those jerks from k-drama...this is reality!
2) help if you are capable but with maintaining your and her respect!
3) maintain a social distance from girls and don't make them uncomfortable in any way!
4) always try to make girls nearby feel free and safe...
5) don't stare any girl with your artistic eyes, this may make them feel uncomfortable! So let your inner artist stay inside you only! Got it... And if you really wanna draw someone ask for their permission first! (As he is an awesome artist he draws anything which attracts him)
6) every random girl can't be your girlfriend so see them and protect as your sister until she confess to you.
She's a good mum I guess
Don't guess.. she's absolutely a great mom....
Well good moral but idk y I feel like u made up a story😅😅
My mother doesn't.
EXACTLY
Don't see girls as a potienal girlfriend when you protect Them, instead, see them as sisters, it's so easy like damn
@@kookiecat1627 I’m so sorry love.
Just seeing this after myself and another girl made a petition for girls at my school to be treated with fairness. If we wear shorts, ripped jeans or a jumper that shows (heaven forbid) our shoulders, we get a uniform card but boys can wear short shorts, wear tank tops and show skin but aren't punished. we need to start addressing these double standards people. Periodt.
Preach sis!
Yes! My friend group and I just started a petition to get our dress code fixed but I was annoying that the boys can where whatever but is girls can’t? And what really made me mad was a *male* teacher dress coded my friend friend(she was literally in dress code) and said “You might want to change, or I will have to dress code you” while looking her UP AND DOWN.
Commenting from my gf's account:
While it's unfair to punish girls for clothing the way they want, there's a difference between boys and girls. A girl would never wander around with her upper body naked. Boys do. Furthermore, the female body is considered to be erotic. An unwanted trait in school, an environment designed for learning. The male body is not considered erotic.
@@lisaholzmann7707 yes that is true but I have girls in my class getting yelled at because they showed the slightest bit of shoulder or knee and it’s annoying that these boys will get away with that kind of stuff. And it doesn’t help when you tell someone this because I have and they just said “Well your body is different and we don’t want the boys to be distracted” like what the hell does that mean? Parents need to teach their sons better manners
I was greateful that all my years of school we never had a dress code for guys or girls. Literally girls could wear pretty much anything and so could the guys. Although the freedom was nice to have, it made the ability for guys to judge girls easier. But the bottom line is that girls were able to wear what they wanted freely and not get dress coded every 5 seconds. I hope your petition was successful!!!
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Hello! Thank you for time coding the vid! Do you how named is the last one? Where the girl says "this is sexual harassment"? Thank you !
@@annec6102 It's Ok to be sensitive...This series is on TH-cam itself
@@shivanig9722 thank you so much!!!
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Can you please tell which drama is at 2:39 ??
“Boys will be boys but girls will be women-“
I literally love this so much for no reason at all ❤️❤️
I don't think some men realize cat calling is sexual harassment and makes girls not like you and scared even more
Exactly like for so long I’ve been told by society that “cat calling is just compliments and I should appreciate them” so whenever it happened even when it made me feel bad I didn’t do anything about it because I thought I was being dramatic
@@juliette14 omg that's awful
@BTS Army girl’s edits yes of course!
Yeah same. I only once saw "cat calling" being respectful and nice. The man said that my sister is beutiful and wished us a nice day and drove off. Expected worse when they called out for us lol
@@ines1084 omg thats good, it can be really scary out there wish you the best!
"its so damn small, theres nothing to look at" one sentence but it can crush an evil man's self confidence
Effective, but not the best way to settle an arguement
@@everythingdoesntlastforver1533 what else was she supposed to do?
@@poingucac the best way would be to walk away, you don't have to waste your time on people who insult other people to make themselves feel better
@@everythingdoesntlastforver1533 if you walk away he'll just do this to a different woman. I think insulting him was probably one of the best things to do.
@@poingucac ok sure he would but imagine if every women do this? Yea they would stop cause they ain't getting the attention they want, if you lash out back at them, it would just lead to more insults
I hate when schools have restrictions on what girls can wear to show off anything but they don’t tell the boys how to be respectful
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And for people who say boys also have many restrictions, that is also true and quite honestly you shouldn’t have to follow all these restrictions. For both boys and girls, instead of trying to solve the problem from the surface with clothing restrictions, find the deeper cause and try to help both genders with understanding respect to each other.
Not just schools, it starts right in our homes.😐
Truee
damn it should be boys that should learn to control their damn minds, not us, what the hell
Yeahhh same. Like i was in 3rd when a girl in my class got jugded by her dress
Her skirt was like bit short That's why teacher told her to wear long skirts and boys were also judging her. Seriously i was extremely disappointed on that day
my school made wont let us show our above our knee, shoulder, or collarbone, bc it's "distracting" I got into a debate abt it with a guy, i said if it's so distracting, DONT LOOK
Can we appreciate how powerful this song of Dua Lipa?
It's so powerful yet so underrated.
Humans are really scared of the truth.
There was someone who told me that if a man is in a room full of woman, he is in heaven and when a woman is in a room full of men she is in hell... I felt that😔
edit: I just want to clarify that it is not about all men, but about most women
Not many woman are comfortable sitting in a room full of men
edit: Can y'all stop fighting in the comment section, I didn't mean to bring men down with it, I just wanted to show how many women have trouble to be with men, what doesn't mean that men are always comfortable around women. My goodness🙄🌸
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Ik right
Never thought about it like that but... straight facts
Well depends on the room.
Facts.
Let me tell you I cheered when one woman slapped that man so hard he fell
It's called "save me"
I had to replay it so i can like...really feel that smack
It can only happen in movies and if the man will slap woman will be fai ted
this wasn’t too long ago. i was wearing a skirt. on the way home a man was following me. he asked me where i was on my way to and i tried to ignore him but he kept coming closer to me and even grabbed my shoulder. i was so fucking terrified i didn’t know what to say so i just told him i was going to the city. he was following along my way, in the bus and the train. at that point i had called my mom just so i felt somewhat safer. eventually i arrived in the city and somehow lost him so that was a relief but then later a man in a car stopped by me while i was walking to my house and honked. he yelled something towards my direction and i tried to ignore it once again but i was literally at the verge of crying. while walking a bunch of other men were staring me down and my anxiety was shooting up the roof. thank god i arrived home safely. i’m 13.
p.s.: i know this isn’t the worst situation out there, but this is my story and everyone has their own
Omg I’m so sorry I’m about the same age as you and I’ve had things like this happen to me but not that extreme stay strong ❤️
I'm so sorry to hear that! I hope it doesn't happen again
when I was 13 or 12 I guess ....me and my bestie was coming together from a deserted street we saw too guys coming from bike we both were wearing short jeans ..both of them look at us in weird way and smile and they was be like ahhh..Hoya i was became out of my temper and i repeat the same thing very loudly ahhh...Hoya.. and my bestie screamed 'babra hora kay' which mean are you being crazy they both stop there bike and come towards us we both always keep pepper spray with us and we keep them on hand when we go from any deserted area when they come toward us we both spray my bestie kick one of them where you would know they both started cursing (we were purple belt on that time in karate)and we run we told everything to our parents and both of them also got arrested
you should always keep a pepper spray and a something like knife from which you can just stab someone for defences I have many many situation where I feel uncomfortable I feel anxious well everybody feel that way and that okay it's a part of our life it's a test how you handle it always remember you just gotta be brave you are stronger then you think you can do anything thing stay strong gurl you are the best😃👍
I don't have any stories lol
@@-castus- then you're lucky hopefully it stays that way
I may not be able to fully understand what they are saying but the looks on the guys faces when the women stand up for themselves makes me smile.
Not saying that boys don't go through things, but it seems like girls get judged for breathing and doing things any normal human would do. Thank you so much for this, CakeVelvet. It shows that the strength of women doesn't lie in physicality alone, but strength of mind as well.
Edit : OOF, I'm stanning this respectful discussion in the replies. Are we K-drama lovers peaceful or what?
Edit 2: Okay, I take it back.
Edit 3: Okay, Harleen was crafted by gods.
My gosh, tell me about it. Indian girls especially, ugh
@@irenethomson3159 fact.
Yes, but the song is not even about women. The song is to degrade men. The good men who do listen will hear this and will be hurt. i'm so agaisnt the toxic feministic concept.
@@_roess_yt190 same
So true and let’s be honest boys have it easy compared to girls. They don’t have to worry about harassment.
Guys weather boy or girl: we are still humans and we need to respect each other’s. Who agrees?
I am a boy
@Devishi Sah we know
@@Zainfa4 ok
@Devishi Sah Well but 81%+ of the women in the world have gone through sexual harrasment. We are selfish but we don't sexually harrass guys
@@sam-gx1dk well 43% of men in the world has gone through sexual harassment by females and 11% of men has undergone sexual harassment by males and it is not like girls don't sexually harass boys ok get ur facts right
When they say "boys will be boys" that means there is no place for improvement and they should start taking this as an insult
THIS! I swear, i hope EVERY BOYS sees this.
They bassically say we cant do good so why should we try. lets just stop trying. i'm gay but i can start being a dickhead if people want me to.
@@_roess_yt190 surprise! being gay doesn't make you a good person and be a baddie if you want, no one cares... people always react the wrong way smh
"Boys will be boys" sounds so stupid lol..
@@locket.4293 You completly missunderstood what i said. I pointed out that i indeed see boys will be boys as an insult everytime someone says it. Because that labels an entire gender. And i get that they mean a small part of men. But noone ever cares to specify that. They all just keep hating so i'm out here trying to treat everyone equal but all i get is always hate. Do you get me?
“It’s not all men,” but its enough. It is enough to make women wary of all men.
It's like they judge on every single thing we do whether it's clothes to your dreams, they have an opinion on everything
Sometimes , I am like LET GIRLS BREATHE !
They have an opinion on females breathing too 💀🤚
@@pretty_rythm true that!!
Literally my dad, like he always opponent everything I want to do.LITERALLY EVERYTHING. This is why I don't like speak with him. Feels like enemy rather than your parents
@@pretty_rythm Im going to stop breathing then
Your edits speak to the soul
It is funny how in schools they teach us girls that we mature faster therefore we have to act responsibly but once we are at a work space we are the unreasonable impossible creatures that causes troubles..
It's funny what ppl tells us is facts, this crap they try to pretend is facts, the childish games ppl play, the way ppl tell themselves they're more clever than not, doing things at the expense of others purely based on their own fragile egos & overcompensating pride, the ppl who argue opinions w/ you all day knowing damn well they don't look up anything, the liars, or the few that do actually have the nerve to say bs to "ur face"...
Honestly, I had a pt but I lost it.
But there's this this 1 dude tho. & He does alotta bouncies in the middle of the night... sometimes he loves hiding under the blankets & gets in his silly positions. I think he tries to look for left over snacks sometimes... Sometimes he's out in the open w/ his silly positions but he prefers "the lazy superman." Or he just plops over to his side & has no shame. Like when he uses the bathroom. He's a bit territorial & possessive but he's pretty loyal. Adventurous, fearless, suspicious & curious. He sometimes flexs his physical strength. Sometimes he stomps his feet out of aggression like some kid throwing a tantrum. But he's super loving, cuddly, affectionate, & loves attention. I love my bunny so much 😍.
something every lady goes through on a daily basis, to all my lovely women out there, don't forget your worth, you are amazing my friend!
thank u queen/king
I loved the scene where the women was like "gee, that is so small".
What I liked about that clip, was that you could hear the tremor in the voice of the actress. You could see that she was so shaken by it but still she wanted to fight back.
That is a very important takeaway. You can be courageous even in the face of danger, you don't always have to fearless to speak up for yourself.
i've watched so many edits of this song with English shows and it never fails to disturb/disgust/scare me. it's so sad that this is an actual reality for women all over the world. I'm so glad you tackled this topic, instead of making a normal edit!
I just want to say that women are amazing, every time i see how smart, strong and determined we are i feel proud 💖
And what makes situations like these even worse is a lot of time people won’t help you even if you make it very obvious you need it
@Mystic Clover If a teenage girl is walking home and is harassed by, say, 3 men, she can't rely on herself. She's young, she's weak, she doesn't have any way to defend herself. Sure, self reliance is important, but sometimes one does need help. Sometimes one can't fight for oneself, for whatever reason, and no one does help. That's the point.
Because most of the cases women put are fake so how can the know that it is fake or true just like you react when men say just not all men
@@gigachad-nd2no do you have actual statistics or are you just talking out of your ass?
@@lxnatic6561 search if you want do you think all women are angels I don't think so I'm from india about 53% of the cases where fake and in this month there was 4 fake cases that was a big issue in the news you can search if you want the lucknow girl case Zomato guys and a 18 year old boy was put in jail for fake case in all these cases the women was not punished one left the country one is said to be mentally ill one is a feminist 🥴 and how can someone say who is lying
@@lxnatic6561 I dosnt want to prove it to you who thinks all women are angels I don't think so there are as many women who destroys men's like men who destroys women's that's why I said that now see the world instead of sitting in your room and commenting shit
People who disliked this are men who are just like men from these dramas. Or should I say, boys.
Call them offenders or predators
Shut up.. My younger brother loves this song and sing it in the breakfast without knowing the lyrics..
*oR i sHoULd SAy, bOys*
@KIERA SHANDHIRI LIM TAO JING I'm not mad I'm just telling him that we shouldn't disrespect all boys.
@@zainirubabi1363 I think the main reason women or others say that boys are the problem is that yeah, they are. But it's not all boys. The hard thing for women is that we don't know which 'boys' are the problem.
@@zainirubabi1363 why do you care more about disrespecting boys than women getting harassed
the most manly thing a man can do is respect woman.
I agree, but I wouldn't respect anybody who is insulting, rude, or constantly trying to bring me down for doing nothing. (some women in this comments section who are targeting all men.
the opposite
@@monkjamster4266it's more like they ignore you, lol
@@monkjamster4266 umm it clearly looks like they ignore you, try harder lol
@@monkjamster4266 okay lol immature
'Its so damn small!'
'Theres nothing to look at'
THATS A SLAP GURLL
Ikr
I'm watching this while crying, I've been in some many uncomfortable situation with man, I have a friendly personality which often leads me with trouble with boys bc they think I want something else, aside from that, I've been in some shameful situation even with strangers, once I was going home and took the bus it was around 11pm and one guy sit on my side and started masturbating, I didn't scream or say a thing I just run B4 and go out of the bus, I never had the courage to talk abt his to anyone I know, once of my classmates trying to kiss me by force when i took elevator, once again I never spoke abt it, and those are not the only situation, things like this keeps happening, yes I know I'm a coward but I not strong enough to talk about it with someone, I feel shameful, wrong and afraid, that's why I dont go out alone and everytime I see a man on the streets when I'm by myself I freeze and once I even had a panic attack where I couldn't breathe, I honestly hope this stop someday, I don't know why I did wrong, I'm not exactly pretty and attractive so I don't know why man do this to me, I know there's a lot of girls out there like me and this is what's scares me the most
I'm sorry for sharing my story like this but I just had to, seeing this video reminds me of a lot of things
you are strong I am sorry to hear that I think you just gotta do it for yourself plzz I know it's hard yea but you can take little steps like first you gotta be strong I think you should watch motivation videos that will make you mentally strong I am doing it I am 17 I also felt the same but then I am doing it all for my self I started to watch motivation videos and started to do gym and exercise for becoming strong now I am not that anxious as before I think you should also do the same I don't know my word meant to you or not but I tell you this bcoz I have gone through same situation I can feel the pain.
Start by not being ashamed or apologizing for things you did not do wrong.. These kinds of people rely on the strong sense of shame women have been taught to feel. For my own comfort I always make sure to have my own personal space.
I'm really sorry for you. It' s okay if you don't like to share this to anyone .But you should react on that situation immediately . Give a complaint on that guy or attack him . Don' t be afraid otherwise this kind of situation will happen again and again. Almost all the girls experience this situation. Learn self defence , it will also make you bolder. Always be brave and with hope . Your life will change.
First im really sorry that u had to go through that AND girl pls dont say that ur not pretty, UR pretty inside and out. Dont let those jerks scare u. I know u can come over your trauma, best of luck, i wish u be safe and healthy. Love uh. 😉😙
And uh should love urself too 😊
no dont do that to ur self and saying that ur exactly not pretty im sorry for the stuff u went through ,thank u for sharing
“Girls should not be outside at night alone”
Why? Can the boys ever grow up!? Why don’t people teach their sons how to behave?!
I mean its not good going outside at night alone anyways lol but you are right :D
Also teach their daughters how to behave
@@amityblight2798 we've always been told to behave or we will be in trouble. Its never the guys.
@@quickly05 thats not what i mean i was abused by a female so i said that women should behave toodo you get it now
@@amityblight2798 You didn't really specify it but we are also taught to not interact with boys like this like that blah blah, its just the girls who are extremely messed up would go and do that.
Saying 'not all men' when talking about woman being harassed is like saying 'all lives matter' at a black lives matter movement. True but irrelevant
Edit : I meant to compare these metaphorically. I'm not saying these are the same.
Exactly. And all lives will matter when black lives matter.
I feel that, its important to raise awareness for issues, but how can we (the "boys") help fixing it when its not us or our friends or at our workplace? i want to know what i can do but i dont wanna see an entire gender be called the issue.
Exactly
@@behising5193 I don't think this is something that will be fixed immediately. I personally think that it all comes down to educating future generations to be respectful towards other people's boundaries. Teaching your nephews, sons, or anyone else at a young age to be nice to others, keep their hands to themselves, and to not make creepy comments towards women because it is extremely uncomfortable. And if you see it happening, please try to step in or help the girl out.
I think we should also stop doing the whole "Oh, he only picks on you because he likes you", "Well, he kept looking at you because of how you dress", "If she told you no when you asked her out, keep trying! She's just playing hard to get." If a girl tells you no, immediately stop. I can understand looking at someone who wears revealing clothing, but one shouldn't do more than that. Don't catcall, don't follow them, don't keep staring either; Just look away and leave them alone.
It's kinda relaxing to see this comment didn't start a 500 fight relpy thread
Thank you so much for keeping it so realistic. It's quite relatable. Otherwise,anyone else would've made it about unrealistic fights of Girls against those large gangs of men.
this might seem random, but i’m genuinely curious to know how the males in these dramas felt when they acted those characters. like, ofc they’re way better than the characters they acted, but i wonder if they felt disgusted acting like that? they’re good at acting to be able to hide their resentment towards those characters while acting as them.
As a feminist I was stressed for the first half of the video , I even got teary-mad ugh seriously
I love your edits ❤️❤️
Yeah..
Proud to be a feminist
I know, it's all so relatable.
@@saberasurovy2984 a lot
As a boy, I would like to sincerely apologize to you guys.
@@nihan4615 as a girl, i would like to thank you for understanding our fight ! ^^ and you don't have to apologize for some people's actions even if you are a boy, we know boys are not all the same, luckily ! :')
This really deserves more appreciation then 80% of the content produced on TH-cam today.
us women shouldn't be treated as toys. we should be treated like the women we are, sometimes we might be just to shy to speak out. but that doesn't give anyone the right to treat us horrible. we are all strong in our own ways. but sometimes other people might not realize that. GO WOMEN!!!!
YESS THE QUEEN HERSELF POSTED I PAUSED MY NETFLIX FOR THIS AND I ALREADY KNOW IM NOT REGETTING THAT🤍🤍🤍
Woo I did that too
I was raised by a amazing family.
My parents have properly educated my FIVE big brother's and they have told me to be respectful, but when someone harasses me I need to bite back.
They have also taught me to wear whatever I want, and my dad has taught me how to box from a young age (he is a boxer, and I LOVED and still love boxing)
They have taught my brother's to respect women and to help them in tough situations and so many more, so let me tell you if my family finds out that I get harassed all the time they would FLIP OUT, but I don't tell them (if it's not SERIOUS SERIOUS) cuz I know how to properly handle myself.
But if anything happens to you, please tell someone or don't be afraid to bite back, just be careful if u don't know how to fight💖
Just a quick question, dont take it serious or anything but, what do you think about people saying men "HAVE" to be respectful to women, and what do "men being respectful to women" mean to you?
I’m only 12, but a few weeks ago a man was walking behind me as I was going back to my house after visiting a friend. He looked kinda sketchy so I picked up my speed and made sure he knew I knew he was behind me. I guess he realized that I was scared because I was waking fast, but he just looked at me and said “I’m going to my car.” He ended up walking past me, and to his car. I don’t think he was trying to do anything, but it still scared me to death.
I’m not even a teenager yet but this is my main issue. It’s so sad that girls my age (or maybe younger) have to go through this. It’s horrifying to know that your life could be in danger just because of your gender and age. (I’m not saying this doesn’t happen to boys as well, because it does. And that’s horrible. But it’s more common for a female to be the target)
There’s something wrong with this world if children are worried about things like this.
I too have trust issues because of this generation
Be careful young lady
Never every get into situation like that 💜
This is because society has created an image of men are always bad. Society never appreciates men for what they do to keep functioning the society itself. But almost every women are appreciated for small things they do. Society would say look she's a women and still managed to do it while men couldn't. As a society men and women should work together not get into competition
you are definitely right about the end part . it doez happen to all of us but you know infemales or girls it is more common. not a single girl i know havnt been harrassed or raped and you know that i was only 7 when i was rapped . and it still sends shivers down my spine
now that i am older (13) i am more stronger and i can beat people.up but still
@SimplyCloudyy• no, what you said is completely wrong.
I am so happy that comment section is backing in their sense
When strangers on the internet understand you more than your parent... Ty, strangers
I feel it often
😎👌yw, keep going!
This breaks my heart that women,teens and girls have to go through thing like this.
It saddens me even more knowing I'm the reason for this.
@@whyrwehere hey bud, idk if your replies notification is still turned on or not, just remember you are a good human. I saw u in many of the comment's replies, and I respect you a lot. No need to feel bad for something you didn't do. have a good day :)
“Not all men”
Is not an excuse to dehumanize and shame the victim when they can’t face men after what happened.
“He’s a man”
Is not an excuse to pretend like men aren’t victims just because of their gender
“What were they wearing”
Is not an excuse for sexual violence against the victim.
Your right
this should be the top comment
“A skirt is not an invitation” -Anne with an e
nobody is shaming them, rather trying to reason with them on their mentality. think about the men in your life.
@@psionicstorm3961 The victim can't even breathe in peace without having panic and trauma when seeing a man and you tell her "not all men. Think about the men in your life"
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No matter how much I watch this, no matter how much I listen to this song, it never fails to make tears fall
The fact that this is reality really frustrates me. No matter how much we as females stand up, due to society being so male dominated, it’s so hard
But no matter what, fight. Always fight, because we can’t let them get their way
We need to teach everyone from young that we are equals. That sexual harassment is not ok. That females are not objects, and that it isn’t right for us to be sexualised.
No matter what comes our way, we shall fight, not stand down. If we stand down, we show weakness, so it’s time we stand up and make fellow females see that they too, can be strong!
The Reply 1988 scene is heartbreaking. Dukseon acted sarcastic and strong even when was so scared and hurted.
do you remember what episode it was?
I got sexually harassed the first time at 12 years old by a group of guys in a car driving by. I was sexually assaulted at 14 by a classmate of mine on a bus, and later that year I was groomed by an 18-year-old who told me I was "mature for my age."
You know what happened? Nothing. When I told my parents what happened at 12, they told me it was a compliment that I was getting male attention. When I told (now ex-)friends I was sexually assaulted, they told me he had a crush on me and "just doesn't know how to express it." When I started hanging out with the 18-year-old, I was encouraged and told I was lucky for getting the attention of someone that much older than me. That's messed up.
Thankful to say now I have friends who will gladly cuss out a catcaller. The ex-best friend of my assaulter told me that he's sorry he didn't step in to help me and that it was wrong of his friend to do. He also offered to be a shoulder to lean on whenever I needed it. And my friends and siblings remind me every so often how messed up it was that someone 4 years older than me tried to get in my pants.
Take those experiences on how people can show a face but act differently.
LMAOOO the last scene where he says "huh" is my when I see how boys in kdrama think they will survive after being rude or worst to girls
Women have to go through so much, from being cat called to being harassed yet these men still have the guts to say “not all men”.
If only a female body had male brain. Then you'd privileged
I've never been one to comment but I want to share a bit of my story..
I was the only female in my group of friends and the guys treated me as one of the boys while keeping a respectful boundary when it came to close contact. Most of us were fine hugging and shoving but they would never touch me in a way they wouldn't be touched. And I loved them for it.
But we had this one guy join our group, we're not sure how but he started joining us and he would touch me when the others weren't looking.
This wasn't my first time dealing with these things but it was the first time I spoke up since my friends gave me a space spot from my past and for it to suddenly happen again... I felt a bit braver in speaking out to a teacher when the boy wouldn't stop.
Now, I was 15 and my friends had always been brothers to me so I never had issues with them.
But the teacher reply when I told her about that one boy and how I've tried telling him no .. her reply was "What did you expect from hanging out with boys".
She pulled me away from my friends for the whole week when I wasn't backing down on this and the boy never got spoken too or delt with either.
Apparently if I'm going to hang out with the opposite gender I should accept the risks. But my friends were Angel's, they new of my passed sexual harassment and tried giving me a safer and happier place to live.
Why should a girl be sexually harassed in high school and blamed for it happening just because her friends are males.
If my friends didn't touch me like he did then why couldn't he keep his hands to himself either
“Not all men”
But it’s enough men for us to feel dress code when not in school or work.
“Not all men”
But it’s enough men that I have to carry my keys like knifes.
That's a very inefficient defense strategy to use your keys like that. You're more likely to break them than to actually hurt the other person.
The same goes for having things in your fist when punching someone. You'll break your fingers and likely do no damage.
you know men are more likely to be murdered right?
@@oneboi1580 You know this isn't always about you right?
@@saccharine1452 quit acting like you have it the worst
@@oneboi1580 how?
DO: protect your daughters
DO: EDUCATE YOUR SONS
Same thing goes for either side
goes both ways
I feel like you should still protect your daughters bc that’s being a parent
@@blondi31989 and as I said goes both ways you should protect you daughter's and your sons
It's both. If u don't protect your daughter then things will go the opposite.
Whenever we look for Kdrama edits....we like looking at the cute ones....but for me this one stays my all time favourite......it motivates me to go on fighting. This video provides me strength to continue being the way I am.....cause BOYS R GONNA BE BOYS !!! PROUD of this edit 👏👏👏👏
Girls aren’t weak. Girls should be able to go out alone and be fine without anyone saying anything. Why is our world like this..
Every boy said that all mens are not the same but every year almost 98% woman suffer these types of things
I don't get it 😅 were they wrong? I mean, not every man is the same...
@@cutepsycho1224 not all of them but %90 is like that
Stop putting the whole gender in one category.
It's like saying all woman are housewives, or saying not all women are housewives, but enough are.
Boys can also suffer though sexual harassment but when they try to speak about it they're called pussies, or people say that because they're men they should go thought it alone.
@@jssed ppl like you are the problem lol. Nobody at all is saying that men don’t go through the same, sometimes worse, shit like women, it’s just that women are much more likely to be affected. Women go through this shit every day and so people want to bring attention to that. Doesn’t mean we should ignore men that have been s*xually harassed or assaulted it just means we should fix the problems women are having first. Secondly, women have been facing this for years and we have always been told that it is our fault. This needs to end. All men are not bad but we MUST talk about the ones that are, which is a big chunk of men. By saying that “not all men” you are ignoring what many men do. It’s the same as saying boys will be boys.
Instead of working against each other, men and women affected by s*exual assault or harassment should stick together and fight for its end.
"Not all men are lik-" GUNSHOT
Lol
Lmao
Lmfao
Its true tho, I dont hate men
I’m a men I think it’s a right for women to be scared of men
Dont Be A Princess, Be A Pretty Witch ~ Moon Ko Young