Man Confesses to Murdering His Three Young Sons | Chad Doerman Case Analysis
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How sad to hate your spouse more than you love your children
Very tragic.
Deep
He didn't love those children. He's not cabable of love for anyone.
Good summary. That's exactly what's in play here.
Men relate to their children through the mom .I have seen this across cultures .
The danger of a 'wronged' narcissist with a gun is simply staggering.
US Sociologist Michael Kimmel says these types of violent actions are from aggrieved entitlement. Chad felt entitled to something to which there is no entitlement and is angry that he doesn’t have it.
This is psychopathy as well - not just 'muh narc' and leave that part out.
NPD cites grandiosity and aggression isn't part of the criteria.
@@natalier7204 So if he can't have something he feels entitled to, he'll take something from someone instead... Sad
I don’t consider myself anti gun but guys like this have no business being around guns at all. I don’t think that’s too much to ask.
@@thestraydog he’ll punish the person who he believes is withholding what he wants
I just saw an interview with a neighbor. Apparently Chad had been openly verbally abusive towards his wife and kids for awhile. This wasn’t a guy that “just snapped.”
They rarely "just snap". There is generally a long history of narcissistic/violent/psychopathic behaviours leading up to the final event.
The thought of that mom having her baby ripped out of her arms and shot in front of her is actually the most heart breaking thing I’ve ever heard. I cannot begin to imagine. Those three beautiful boys were so innocent they were supposed to be loved by their father not murdered.
The “mother” gave this psychopath baby after baby and kept them in danger day in and day out so that she could maintain her sex life- and you feel sorry for her?
imagine planning to kill your own sons and at the same time acting totally normal around them, that is really sinister.
True. Except normal was also bad.
Devoid of empathy, their lives snd deaths meant nothing to him. They were always pawns in his sick game.
That’s what Chris watts did although he was acting estranged and more distant than normal. I believe he was planning their murders while they were away with shannans family.
If I ever accidentally through no fault of my own hurt a kid I'd feel worse than terrible. So yeah this stuff I'll never understand
Sinister is a good adjective for this case.
Chasing down the child who got away, and dragging them back so he could execute the child in front of the mother..unfathomable. He had already caused to much damage at that point, but wanted to inflict maximum damage. This is so hard to begin to even understand why.
I can't understand why the monster wasn't shot dead on the spot for what he did.
Consider that he had the entire time he chased the kid down and dragged him back to reconsider, to come to his senses, and he still went through with it. I hope they put him in general population.
@@tristanthorndykesrocknroll3082Absolutely but Ohio HAS DEATH PENALTY which they need to use
@@janice576 I would rather they give him life but refuse him protective custody. That will cost the taxpayers less and they'll make sure it hurts way more than a lethal injection. If I had my way we would bring back public hangings for things like this.
he knew what he was doing. he planned these evil acts. he didnt kill himself, nor his wife because he wanted to make her suffer in the worst poasible way. this was not a fit of rage, nor insanity. if it was it would be more likely the wife would be dead and this would end in suicide.
One of the saddest and horrific stories. Being chased down by your own father is just unimaginable.
I know how those little boys felt. I've been held at gunpoint, many times, by a parent who I loved so very much. I know the terror, I know the pounding of your heart, the sound in your ears, the breathlessness, the begging, wetting yourself or nearly puking. And you're just a little kid.
I'm so very sorry for these poor babies. I can't imagine what the surviving daughter will have to go through in the years to come.
I'm a mother, my children are grown now. I can't fathom the terror, the rage and the pain that this mother has been through and will continue to live with. It's beyond understanding.
I'm just so very sorry.
It is awful that you had to experience this. I hope you have been able to get help in dealing with the aftermath.
My mom went through this when she was a little girl. My grandpa would hold her and her little brother and my grandma at gunpoint. Luckily he didn't kill them. When she told me this as I got older I couldn't believe it because for some reason she still had love for him and he was always so kind to me. But about a year before my dad basically drank himself to death a few years ago he did the same to me. He even pulled the trigger. Idk if it was loaded or not. And the worst part was I had a wonderful upbringing as a child my dad and I were thick as thieves. And when he started drinking after retirement he turned into a whole different person. I still love him.. and miss him every single day I tell myself that wasn't my dad who did the awful things he did his last year of life
But still North Americans want everybody to have access to lots of guns...Makes no sense....
Girl, I'm SO sorry 😞
I just wanted to say that I'm so sorry that happened to you an you have to be one of the most beautiful, Honest amazing, courageous, powerful,brave, fearless, Gusty, determined, confident , bold, strong-willed an Perfect Women ❤ An I pray that your life has been everything you deserved an that no weapon over you shall prosper 🙏
What that last boy went through sounds like horror movie material. Being chased down by someone he probably loved more than anything had to be terrifying. Rest In Peace
@@supme7558GTFO the only one to blame is the psycho dad
I doubt those boys loved their father who was clearly explosively yelling at everyone everyday. Yes to bad the mother couldn't chase Chad down and execute him
@@vanessahancock1436 at that age, I'm pretty sure at least the youngest still have an innocent love for their parents, no matter how evil they are. Even Gabriel Fernandez loved his mom up until his tragic death.
@@supme7558He had the whole family in terror. I’m certain she was doing, or waiting for her chance to do, whatever might save their lives. Just because a person is an adult, that does not mean they are in control of every situation!
@supme...U apparently doesnt know how abusive partner can do to you.easy talk,easy to judge.well done!blamed it to the vicitims,not the one who pulled the trigged.u can talk all the way you want from your comfort bed.
You can believe that as a vulnerable narcissist he had been emotionally and mentally tormenting the entire family for years
Vulnerable narcissists are often female and are dormant; basement dwellers etc... afraid to participate in the world or failing in attempts.
Psychopathy = aggression, homicide, lack of conscience etc... not just 'muh narc'
Jfc, everyone's new favorite (and misused, misunderstood) word: narcissist.
@@littlethuggiestop being such a narcissist 😂
The neighbor stated that he was always yelling at the kids.
@@littlethuggie who is jfc? Also since when was the word narcissist new?
My ex ran myself and my two boys into a tree, the car wasnt going fast enough and the boys had seat belts on so were safe. He wanted to kill us all. It was horrible, but it started my way to escape him. Made me realise how dangerous he was. Its very hard to understand how anyone could do such a thing.
That’s karma for going after Arthur Morgan, damn Pinkerton
I cannot imagine the pain the mother and the poor daughter are going through. This is horrible, absolutely horrible.
Chad could imagine it.
That’s the point, isn’t it. Evil man.
Honestly, That point I would off myself. What else do you live for? I believe the daughter alive is a Step-Daughter. Her three sons are dead. And there’s nothing she can do to chad that will bring them back. Nothing, no death penalty nothing. Damn this sucks so bad. Wow
It's a painful nightmare for the entire town. Can't even imagine what those boys' friends are experiencing -- or how their parents are going to console them.
Much, much farther down the road her daughter will be a blessing in bringing more love and happiness into her life. She doesn’t know it now but when the time comes, she’ll be more careful in picking someone to love and build a life with. A good man to love and marry her for love, a kind, strong, gentle man with a good heart for her to have a good life. With a good marriage her daughter could bring much happiness into their life’s. Her daughter and new son in law could bring her mother sweetness of life by having children of their own, which will bring much love to her mother as a grandmother. Grandchildren are such a different love, they would bring much joy to a broken heart. They give a new beginning. With God’s blessing and guidance as their life will be good for them. Much happiness will come back. The little boys are in the arms of Jesus and family, friends. Their home with the father, but they will know the happiness a life with little ones in it again, will be happy for their mom and step sister to find the happiness of love again.✝️
It makes me so angry to hear "Chad just snapped" when Chad admitted he planned their murders for MONTHS. He took pleasure in knowing how much their mother would suffer when he killed them. In the meantime he let his boys love and trust him, looked them in their eyes knowing he would kill them.
Chris Watts, inbred redneck version. Like Watts, he didn't care about the children. In this case, he only used them to punish his wife. These people can't be fixed... the death penalty is acceptable.
I'd like to see Chad's father charged with aiding and abetting a criminal for his cowardly, no balls, denial approach to his errant son's behaviors. Wtf
Indeed
Are you insane to insist on charging the grandfather in part for the crime that his son clearly committed. Before you type anymore dumbass opinions think about it and then just don't type it . Very unintelligent.
INDEED!!!!
@@2Bad4YOUuu Chad’s father remains me of Chris Watts ‘s mother . Her last statement at court it was just despicable and soo offensive . He killed his three kids ( Shanna was 5 months pregnant ) Pure narcissism in that family .
The police bodycam is unreal. He was so calm
Even with so many gruesome cases we hear about everyday this case manages to hurt me so deeply, I feel so horrible for those boys and the poor poor mother. I hope she'll be able to find peace one day.
That will never happen, we can only pray for mercy. The monster accomplished the deed. no one will ever be whole after this. There is no understanding this type of domestic war. Having experienced uncontrolled domestic violence, there is no recovery, it never goes away. Even after they pass away, you will never be a whole unscathed person. praying for mercy,
He was smiling when his wife was screaming as they were taking him down! He enjoyed hearing her grief and trauma! What a sicko
The idea that your own child has to die to exact revenge on someone who threatened your ego is so wrongheaded it nearly makes my head explode. Thanks for analyzing this for us Dr. Grande.
A close second is thinking you can screw over somebody through the court system with no repercussions and no fear
this happens a hundred thousands times all over the world, but only in your country everybody has a gun. simple as that
@@sino7282 That is not true. Everyone does NOT have a gun. More correctly, not everyone has a gun.
@@gcmusictchr omg ok, you're right, just half of the psychopaths in your country got a gun. nothing changes imo
@@gcmusictchr But @sino7282 isn't wrong about USA. I never had (nor wanted) a gun but could probably very easily get a gun. Heck, I'm a 56-yo woman and could probably just ask around and get a gun! And I've felt that way everywhere I've lived, all blue states with "better" rules and restrictions, but I've seen it. And I'm pretty middle-of-the-road white-bread. 😁 Moreso now that I'm older. 😂
This was well thought out and planned. He did not just SNAP. In his "deranged little mind", it will forever be his wife's fault.
You are always spot on Dr. Grande. Love your channel.
This case is so deeply disturbing and heartbreaking. I haven't felt right since I heard about it. It replays over and over in my mind. I'm a domestic violence survivor and my son's father was a violent narcissistic abuser and an alcoholic, so I can relate to what the mother was going through. When I was a teenager, I lived on Ireton Trees Road, which is about 3 minutes' drive from where the murders happened. For 5 years I lived out there and I graduated from New Richmond HS and that has made it even harder to deal with this in my mind. The whole world is devastated from this horrific crime, and I've been praying for the mom and the family. I think every narcissist has the potential to be violent and dangerous. If you're reading this and you're in a relationship with someone that you think is a narcissist and they're abusing you, PLEASE leave them when it's safe to do so and get a protection order against them. That's what I had to do and I'll never regret my decision to leave with my son. Rest in peace to the beautiful little guys :(
Calm down, were hear to remember the children. Dont make this about you.
@@bobbygalyon5580It’s “here”, not “hear”- genius.
As a father of three boys, and grandfather of three grandsons, this case has saddened me to the core. I cannot stop thinking of the terror, those three beautiful baby boys, must have felt. My heart is broken and I am grief stricken for them. Please, dear God, please bless the souls of those poor boys, and let them live forever, in joy, harmony and peace, in your kingdom. Amen.
AMEN ❤
Well, they certainly wouldn’t find joy, peace and harmony in this sick world.
@JonnyKay-co4xc I couldn’t agree more. I will be forever broken hearted and tormented by the horrendous deaths of those 3, completely innocent, little boys.
AMEN ❤️❤️❤️
@ Kingofcasamere, Amen !
I'll never understand why they set a bail for any amount for criminals like this. He's such a high risk to hurt someone else.
I know, right? It shouldn't be based on if you are rich or poor - it should be based on if you are dangerous or not
@@kumaridesilva3992it isn't based on if you are rich and poor. It's based on how much money is necessary to put up to guarantee that you appear in court.
He'd never raise it
@@Cinder_311exactly.
Politics are involved. Simply denying bail wouldn't give the judge or persecutor the opportunity to virtue-signal.
Be wary of domestic violence in all its forms. You can never tell when a person will lose control or how far they might go. My heart goes out to the mom and the sister of those beautiful boys.
Rest in peace little angels….
We always ask WHY in these scenarios, and you nailed it! the explanation about the dad and kids being a package deal, with him not wanting to be left behind if she took off with the kids, and that unfortunately they are a part of him. Plus him wanting to watch her suffer, to punish her. A narcissist with a fuming temper is a fatal combo! Thank you for the analysis, I really feel it explains everything, even if that explanation is a dark one.
The explanation couldn't be no other than a dark one when such evil is at play.
I lost my little girl. I can't even think what this mom is going through. God bless her.
I'm so very sorry 😢
Im sorry for your loss
The “mother” gave this psychopath baby after baby and kept them in danger day in and day out so that she could maintain her sex life- and you feel sorry for her?
People do not understand how very dangerous a vulnerable narcissist can be. Their rage can be explosive, given the right set of circumstances. This is every bit as horrific as the Chris Watts’ case. This is the stuff of nightmares.
It's HELL to live with a narcissist.
@@Only-me-observingAMEN! It's like living in a minefield most of the time. There are stretches where it's not as bad and you get a little comfy then outta nowhere they'll go off about absolutely nothing all directed at you...God save you if you try to defend or speak up for yourself...
@@Only-me-observing Ya so lets have 3 kids with him! I wish woman would stop enabling and spreading bad narc genes.
@@tomverlaine728it’s not genetic. No one is born a narcissist
I hate Chris Watts. Also this fruitfly.
The step sister who ran for help is going to have PTSD no doubt , her mom too and all the family members and the first responders will all be severely traumatized!
So senseless and cruel!
😢
I believe she is the half-sister of the boys, step-daughter of the killer, and yes. This is just so terrible for her and her mother.
Justice would have been for the police to shoot him on the spot with the reason that the mother and stepdaughter were still alive and he may have killed them too.
Half-sister.
The neighbor too 😢 they interviewed him and it was so sad. 😢
A totally shocking, cruel and unforgivable series of events.
I'm a mother of 3 sons..my oldest son passed away in 2016..there are no words to describe the pain I felt..it gets softer but it never gets easy..my heart hurts for the mother and all those who knew the boys..I pray for them to have strength and to experience their continued presence spiritually..
I’m so sorry for your loss. Hugs.
I'm so sorry. Do you mind if I ask how old your son was?
@@GAshoneybear it was 9 days after his 24th birthday
I also lost the youngest of 3 sons in 2016. I’m only just now getting distanced from the pain. My condolences to you my dear.
@@OnePalestine1948 and mine back 'atcha..it's a pain no mother should ever have to experience
As a parent your #1 job is to keep your kids safe. I cannot imagine how someone could do this to their young children.
yeah they were just objects to him@ least in that horrific moment. He was blessed w/ 3 little boys & he just snuffed out their lives. He just used them...incredulous
Congratulations on not being severely mentally ill.
Maybe they were not human to him. He looked at them like products he produced. I heard parents said I brought you into this world Ican take you out.
just a responsible father "teaching his kids about Gun Safety"
a true "American Patriot"
Yeah the mother really dropped the ball here . Poor kids
The police bodycam got to me with this. When they cuffed him, (this is mere minutes after he massacred the children), he was so subdued and accepting of it. He was content and almost happy. Some of these things go beyond mental illness, this is a bad soul.
He is a monster.
@@irene_f. Demon
I think he was in a state of euphoria. What he had been fantasizing about doing for months, he had accomplished. It took sitting in a jail cell overnight for it to set in the consequences of his actions.
When this first broke, I watched the video not understanding that this was the guy that did that.. I thought he was someone who witnessed it and that’s why he was so calm.. I just figured he knew he needed help and did nothing wrong. So seeing it with more of an idea what happened means this guy is beyond evil.
Wow Me too.and when he said " I'm not gonna hurt you" but that high came down when he realized he might die too
Prayers to the mom, stepdaughter and all families affected❤
Dr Grande is always is so calm, collected and composed when talking about complete craziness………….
What a pathetic person, those poor babies, that poor Mother! Thank you Dr. Grande for another informative video!
These murderers should receive the death penalty I believe. All who loved those children will never get over that, and will carry it with them the rest of their lives.😡
Also step daughter and family
But think about this... He will be kissed all over by the biggest jail rapist in town. They looooove child killers in prison. It's gonna get "REAL" for Chaddy in there.😂😅😢😊😂😢😅😊
The “mother” gave this psychopath baby after baby and kept them in danger day in and day out so that she could maintain her sex life- and you feel sorry for her?
When I heard about this case, I immediately thought that the couple was likely undergoing marital problems and this was his way of making his wife suffer. I'm thinking his wife had told him she was planning to divorce him and he wanted to do the most hurtful thing he could think of to her. She was only shot in the hand, reportedly trying to wrestle the gun away from him but if he wanted to kill her, he would have.
My dad was a vulnerable narcissist and an alcoholic. He also had a lot of guns, and would sometimes threaten to use them when upset.
Sadly, these boys were the grandchildren of my sister's best friend since middle school. We are all devastated 💔 😭 Praying everyday for their family.
It’s weird, his dad appears to think chad was a great guy, even though chad had strangled him before. What the heck is wrong with parents like this? His dad, like many parents whose adult children do terrible things, had to have witnessed a lifetime of terrible behavior, and ignored it.
more likely justified it and made excuses why he wasnt responsible for his actions
Now you can understand why he is the way he is,
These types of parents breed narcissists. Their "perfect child" is never held accountable NEVER, they immediately have to turn their head to any negative behavior and downplay abusive behavior their kid demonstrates.
Just like President Biden.
What does Chads mother have to say about all of this? Three grand babies dead.
The absolute epitome of evil. The fact that he decided to have not one not two but three children and then killed them is incomprehensible. These children deserved to be loved, treasured, and protected. They deserved a father who appreciated the precious moments that can only happen with one’s children. Rest in peace angels
She married and had three kids with the absolute epitome of evil. What does that say about her?
It's what the abortion lobby teaches. You own your child's life: you have the power to erase them. They have no right to exist without your permission, which can change at any time.
@@spinetingler-op6stNarcissists are superficially charming, until they have caught their “prey”, which is the only way you can describe the way they find a partner. After the partner is in a marriage, a game of attraction and rejection starts, which leaves the partner confused, but also keeps them hooked like a drug, “scoring” those moments of attraction. Narcissists choose their victims carefully; they have a nose for vulnerable people, who often come from a situation of (physical or mental) abuse or neglect.
I knew a woman who had been in a narcissistic marriage. Her younger brother committed suicede at sixteen, because a car accident left him disabled. Because she’s a vulnerable, insecure person and she and her brother were very close, this hit her very hard. The narcissist was very charming, but he only managed to keep up the pretence until they went home after the wedding reception.
After their divorce her ex manipulated child protection into believing the woman was a danger to herself and their child, so they helped him take the child from her. She, unfortunately, fell under the spell of another narcissist playing the attract-and-reject game. Fortunately he moved away from the area. But she’ll fall for the next one, should one come along.
It's probably for the best as those children carried his genes and had a high probability of expressing the same mental aberrations as Chad.
It was definitely not for the best. The best case scenario would have been for the children to be raised in a non chaotic environment where all of their needs were met. This is the absolute worst case scenario
Thank you for expressing so clearly what many of us were already thinking. It's so hard to put it into words. We appreciate you taking the time to lay it out so clearly.
One of the most awful and cruel murders I have ever heard. You, as always, explained the "reasons" very well.
This story was horrific. Those little boys looked absolutely adorable in the picture. How could that Father do such a thing. Whatever his feeble twisted motive was, he too will see his sons in his own head from prison until he dies.💔
Child murderers do not last in prison. They are soon taken care of.
I hope he’s in solitary confinement until death sentence.
But he sees through HIS lense.
@@mishaanton5436 Lenses change as we age.
A vulnerable narcissist doesn't see children as loved, cherished beings. They are merely props and occasionally useful to them just as they were in this horrific instance.
Chilling. Especially…..”there are so many vulnerable narcissists in the world that it’s hard to avoid them.”
Yep, any Tall or good looking guys are Narcissistic! I'd advise you to stay away from these men, but you Won't lol
I’m not sure if it’s that there are many, or if it’s more that just one in your circle can do so much damage. I do think attachment disorder, NPD, BPD, and ASPD may be more prevalent in societies where parenting and children are not valued, as well as parenting and early childhood education. There are needs for development which cannot be met, later in life…particularl early bonding.
Don’t date, marry or have kids with broken humans.
@@kellyyork3898 The problem is that people who grew up with constant abuse as children don't know that abuse is not normal, so they often end up with abusive partners and don't understand that they deserve better... or that there is anything wrong with their abusive partner. One of the main thing you learn growing up in a toxic environment, especially with parents who are narcissists, is that ''everything is your fault. always''.
@@kated3165 extremely good point. I had to seek therapy for this mindset. To those that need to hear it, nobody should be hitting you, screaming at you, berating you, etc. and vice versa. Safely cut out people or remove yourself from situations and seek professional help. It's life changing.
What a nightmare, and what a monster. It is sooo important to check, observe well, and make decisions, towards to who are we sharing our lives with.
Unfathomable. Those poor boys.
He hated his wife more than he loved his kids. They were a means to get revenge. He made sure she saw it all, and left her alive to live with what he wants her to believe she caused.
He did'nt love anyone but himself, and he did'nt love his kids, thats for sure!
He used the children as a weapon, as so often happens with immature parents. No excuse.
I’m a divorced dad, the mother and I both made our mistakes and things didn’t work out. I understand the hurt involved in that type of situation, but just can’t imagine doing anything like this. Inconceivable to me.
You must been the one who divorced her though or you both felt the same way for a long time and you had no love for her.
It's different in certain situations when you open up to a woman and then out of nowhere she either cheats on you or divorce you when you least expect it... then you feel betrayed. I understand what you mean but there's some different levels of divorce. Although none should come to murdering your own kids
@@SimplyTheBestCSGOleave it to you to blame the woman when you have no idea what happened here. You just made up that she must have cheated on him (a real bruise to his ego).
@@SimplyTheBestCSGO The emotional trauma of being divorce-raped often drives men to suicide or murder-suicide. It's very common. But this case is entirely unique. I have never heard of a guy killing his own sons to spite his wife. It is truly bizarre.
@@SimplyTheBestCSGO What a weird,. self absorbed response to give. Obviously you are actually arguing from your perspective.
@@SimplyTheBestCSGO weird. Breakups in life is bound to happen. Cope with it Divorce & cheating 99% of the chance are never when you least expect it. You are just ignorant or not observant enough of the changes that happened in your household. You are part of the problem.
This case is horrible, so heartbreaking 😭💔
This is so unbelievably heartbreaking. There was a similar case here in Australia, Robert Farquharson, who killed all three of his sons by driving them into a "dam," which is basically a big pond used for watering livestock. He did this on Father's Day 2005, same motivation. I can't imagine what this poor mother is going through. So much evil in this world.
I like everything you said up to your last sentence. I’ve met a lot of ultra bad people in my life, but I also equally met so many kind and compassionate people. Please keep positive. I’d give you a hug if I could. ❤️
@@glai5752I disagree with you. There is great evil in this world. More evil than good. We cannot ignore it. Thinking positive will not stop the pedophiles, the rapists, the thieves, the adulterers, the sexual degenerates, the serial killers and the father that lines up his tree sons to shoot them in order to hurt his wife.
God!! Look at him crying for himself!!! He couldn’t care less about those beautiful little boys and was unaffected and unemotional seconds after he murdered them. Sick soulless monster!!
Neither sick nor soulless. He's evil, a sociopath who will rot in hell when Ohio (hopefully 🤞) uses the death penalty to punish him for his unconscionable crimes.
Agreed 💯 %
Imagine what those kids must've went through, knowing your father lined you up to be shot. It's horrifying that the one kid managed to run, only to be brought back and killed in front of his mom.
Reprehensible. Beyond evil. RIP boys. I hope the family and friends of the survivors keep a close eye and provide support and comfort.
This is one of the most tragic, and heartbreaking cases I've ever heard of. This father hated his wife so much, that he took away the most important three people in her life.
The mother must be going through an unimaginable amount of sever trauma. Taking out the innocent kids who had no chance to defend themselves.. So horrible RIP
Those sweet little boys, just breaks my heart. He done this to hurt his wife she told him if he didn't stop the drinking and starting stuff with neighbors she wanted a divorce. Pitiful that a grown man cannot control his anger to the point of killing his children to get back at his wife
I wish people wud start realizing wen they r going to leave someone is wen they r @ the greatest danger point. People need to realize that unfortunately they can't mess arpund w/ it. If they want to leave someone they need to plan it in secret & not tell the person watsoever or they r literally putting their life in danger & the lives of their kids. I know it is easier said then done but people need to really start. realizing u can't be nonchalant about this subject matter
He totally deserves to be shunned by society without any forgiveness no matter how Christian someone is, to have done that to sweet extremely innocent little children it the worst a human can be, and for the reason you explained is just pure evil, I will always be sickened that humans have the capacity to do this! Worse than any sci fi monster I can ever imagine.
@@commonsense2680You know God will have the last word in this case
This happened a few miles from my house. Horrendous!
This happened 10 min from where I live. Drove past THE location earlier that morning on one of my aimless drives to let my 2 yr old sleep in the car. Wild story. I drove past again a couple nights after the murders out of morbid curiosity. There was a big tent up with tons of memorials people had placed at the scene. Very ominous and creepy. It’s literally next door to a fire station and almost across the street from a large cemetery. Death and crisis all around them smh
How old were the kids?
That has to be sureal
I cried watching the police cam video. Listening to that poor mom crying for her babies is heartbreaking.
I don’t think you can ever recover from something like this. Rest in peace and prayers to the family 🥺
You never recover, believe me.
Na never I'd be drugged up all the time or end it
The mom had to watch it happen in front of her eyes. Honestly I'm thankful that she still has her daughter... that's a gift from God for her in this devastating time. That daughter may save her life.
Forget your "Prayers" to the family. They have acouple of gofundme campaigns. Go donate to them instead of "Sending prayers" and "Actually" help them instead of just saying meaningless words that make you feel good about yourself without actually doing a damn thing.
@@bobbygalyon5580 maybe after I finish paying my $200,000 worth of student loans
The heartbreak these families will feel all their life. Just unimaginable.
This whole story leaves me without words, may those boys Forever Rest in Peace
It is my belief that individuals like this murderer are NOT mentally ill - they are just MONSTERS.
True evil is rarely born, but most often made. There are categories of Personality Disorders that are the very root of man made evil.
@@harleyquinn5774 Category B and can be hereditary, not from abuse.
if they're not mentally ill that means they're mentally sound 🤔🤔🤔
hideous rotten evil POS monstrosity if ever there was one
@@JJJettplanees you're correct. Cluster B personality disorders include antisocial, borderline, histrionic, and narcissistic. However the deadliest combo is antisocial + narcissism (disregard of others' rights + belief you are superior). One can have more than 1 personality disorder and/or traits. Personality disorders can come from genetics, trauma, brain structure, or environmental factors.
To chase the little boy down and bring him back only to kill him in front of the mother I mean that is just the coldest act I've seen. The boy must have been terrified and it's just something that cannot be comprehended. Heartbreaking to think of those children completely innocent only to be viciously killed by their own father. Beyond anything I have ever seen.
I can't even get threw your show Dr. Grande it's so painful! The thing that stands out more than anything is people's disregard for confronting mental health issues! The courts, the laws, the ignorance all contributed to letting this person fall through the cracks! People who can't see how important this is to guard against more of the same in the future!
I don't think I'll ever be able to understand the inherent psychopathy in some people, which lies dormant for a while and then one day suddenly explodes.
I'm familiar with "psychotic breaks", since I have schizophrenia, but never have I ever contemplated hurting my family or even strangers.
I suspect there were red flags. the wife had a order of protection on him.
He tried to strangle his own dad, it's been there.
@@user-xg3uy6hq9g Didn't he live there?
Not yet anyway.
Wonder how much mental disorders happen relating to toxin/ certain medication exposure in utero
I have literally been arguing with people about this on here. They keep blaming the mother. Why didn't she do more people are saying. How come she only got shot in the hand people are saying. The mother is a victim, may she get all the love she needs from the community. And the boy's big sister as well. Thank you so much for making this video. I hope more people watch it ❤
Of course people are blaming the mother. Misogyny is rife in our society. A man shoots 3 innocent children and yet it’s the mother’s fault. Classic.
because people dont use their brains , they ll use any opportunity to give their uneducated two cents, just look at the memes and jokes people are making about Titan s tragedy , all of a sudden people are experts on life quotes 🙄 do you think the families want to see that? people have no compassion or are just plain dumb .
It shouldn't shock me that the usual suspects come out of the woodwork so early on in the piece to already put blame on the mother, but it still does.
The Mom Chose this loser! If you don't do your due diligence on a potential partner, this stuff tends to happen. I'm sure there were lots of "nice guys" who wanted her, but she chose the Bad Boy
@@deemen7132 I bet women don't choose you either because you talk like you're entitled, hateful and sick, like this Chad dude. Atleast this man maybe knew how to hide it better than you do..
People who hurt children deserve a fate worse than death.
Sent them to a different country then, because in the US prison system he will live like a prince in a castle.
As soon as you have more insight on this man I will be eagerly waiting for your analysis
Some people really deserve “cruel and unusual punishment.”
If he was in another country he would get that, but not in comfortable and cushy American prison system with tv, tree hot meals a day, air-con, heating system and he can study and get a degree for free while others need to take out loans and be bankrupt before even joining the work force.
@@TeaCup1940 He'll probably be kept in solitary confinement, other inmates would kill him.
The cop annoyed and disgusted by him lol “you have the right to remain silent-f***ing use it”
Thank you for your clarification of this painful and horrific situation. Although the number of diseased are three, 5 people lost their lives that day. Mother and daughter will suffer this for the rest of their lives, probably unable to move away from these images. I am sure these experiences will be with them always as they try to resume their lives. 😢😢😢
Thanks for taking on such a difficult video Dr. G. Your background on this type of murder and the usual perpetrators was illuminating to say the least. I absolutely agree with your assessment. I'm sure millions will be following this trial, thanks for weighing in so soon. Cheers from Canada!
I can't imagine the terror those little ones must have experienced, especially the one who tried to escape but was hounded down, then brutally murdered. The man is a monster. And that's being kind.
Thank you for this Dr. Grande. You hit the nail on the head when you said "his sons were accepted, but he was rejected"
yeah that totally made sense.-- the package deal
your calm voice makes listening to these much easier. thank you!
So many people who shouldn't have & don't deserve kids... and then there's guy's like me who always dreamed of being a Dad and never got the chance. Such a messed up species, us humans.
I'm a Louisvillian, which is fairly close to Cincinnati, and this has taken a real toll on me, for so, so many reasons. 🥺😢
I can't fathom the whole thing. Any of it. The sheer cruelty of it.
Fillicide happens all too often now days. Every single day you hear at least one story like this from right here in our beloved country, and it sickens me, it maddens me, and saddens me to my core, especially being a woman who cannot have children myself.
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affected by my inability
my whole adult life. I
would give anything for
what these people
abuse, ignore, neglect
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It's so tragic. The poor mother of these poor precious boys. My God. I just can't imagine.
Thank you Dr. Grande, and as always, your opinions and assessments of the situation are superb!
This breaks my heart for these precious boys. Prayers and compassion to this mother, sister and loved ones. Tears are falling for their pain.
Dr. Grande, I think you hit the nail square on the head with your analysis!!!!
Your observations were spot on 👍. May these 3 precious angels rest in peace. My sincere condolences to the family. 💔🙏 .
I had the same theory as you when I heard the Mom and stepdaughter were left alive. I was married to a man with anti social personality disorder. I didn't know it at the time I met him but found out all too soon. He would threaten to kill me and my daughter if I tried to leave. If he was triggered he acted out in rage as well. The neighbor heard Doerman yelling at his wife and the kids a lot. She was probably fed up and going to leave him so her punishment was to kill what she valued most and watch her suffer. Just as you stated. After I got away from my abuser I volunteered in a women's shelter and so many women have the same story. Fortunately most get out without losing their kids or dying by getting to the safety of the shelter. You are correct there must be many of this type of abuser out there. Women need to be careful to see the warning signs in relationships because the real personality will show itself the fake mask will begin to crack. Get out while you still can.
So what did the neighbor do if he heard this day in and day out?
Agree - they don't "grow out of it" - the older they get the worse it gets ...
Great analysis. This man wanted his wife to suffer for the rest of her life, too many babies are used as pawns. These four beautiful babies were sacrificed for his insane revenge. 💔💔💔
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@@Cinder_311 You don’t think the daughter & mother are victims? Maybe it should be 5?
I completely agree with your theory as these were my first thoughts after seeing it on the news. It was his behavior afterwards that drew me to this conclusion as well. Thank you for the video!
Perfect. Thanks for coverage.
I agree on your theory on why Chad did this. In another video I watched her friend said that the wife told him if he gets in trouble with the police again she would leave him. I believe he was extremely vengeful and shot there kids while she watched to torture her for the rest of her life. God be with her. I lost one child and it almost killed me.
I hears he had an order of protection
I’m so sorry for your loss. I couldn’t begin to imagine 😢
Deepest sympathy for your loss ❤
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i'm so sorry for your loss❤️
How horrible. My heart goes out to the mother as well as the boys' stepsister.
I think she would be their half-sister. They all had the same mother I believe. So, they were her blood brothers.
@@stardust4225 Oh ok. I just feel so bad for them. Very heart breaking story.
@@Witchy_Woman absolutely and I didn't mean to diminish what you were saying at all. I was kind of asking really. I only saw one newsclip that referred to her and I seemed to think they referred to her as his stepdaughter. Also, if someone didn't grow up in a really dysfunctional family that married many times they may not realize the difference lol I have friends that don't realize the difference between a step or a half.
@@Witchy_Woman and you are right it is just unbelievable that someone could do that. I can't imagine what they are going through.
@@stardust4225 No worries. I didn't take it that way. ❤ Yes, I can imagine it can be confusing sometimes.
Very informative.Thank you for all you share .Beverly
How devastating to go from a mom and family of 6 to 2... I can't imagine the pain the family and friends are going through... Just leave if you're not happy or thinking wrong.
It’s depressing that I could guess the motivation/circumstances surrounding these murders before even reading past the headlines. I hate the monster parents who do this to their children. Evil piece of s***
Sounds like you Pick horrible men as well lol
I don't know how this mother and daughter will ever be able to move forward after such a horrible evil act of watching the murder of the boys. So incredibly sad for all that loved these boys.
Life, uh, uh, finds a way.
Thank you Dr. Your answers & analysis are always informative & well done.
Thx for very informative info on this case
This is beyond heart breaking. Those poor wee mites and their mother. Thanks, Dr G. Summed that up perfectly.
You hit the nail on the head. It’s shocking that a parent could be so selfish.
This is beyond selfish. Selfish would have been abandoning the family. This is pure evil.
Love how Dr Grande broke thos down and shared his theory of why it happened!!!! Brilliant.
Thank you Dr. Grande for this analysis. My mind is always blown when I watch your videos. Thank you.
When you think it cant get worse than Chris Watts, the world brings us this guy. He left the mother alive to have suffer in torment for life. How messed up. At least Shanann doesnt have to live with her pain.
As a mother, I totally agree with OP.
There's more killings like this but they don't show them all in the media. They don't want to portray this as a white crime. So they show 1 here and there. If this was so rare as the media make it seem they wouldn't have a profile of the type who does this. So most stay on local news.
@@dammar117 Thank you. Anybody that had a child will understand what I'm saying. If you are a mother and lose a child, it would be doing me a favor to not have to live with that pain.
@@MajorTomGroundControl The fact that you DONT understand what I'm saying makes you heartless.
Yes...and the mom's teen daughter...:(
This happened not far from where I live and when I say it has shaken up the Cincinnati area, that would be an understatement. And watching him cry during his bond hearing made me sick. He doesn't deserve to cry for the rest of his life. Cowardly and pathetic.
He’s crying because he’s facing the death penalty, not for his 3 kids.
Hope this fuck gets shived in prison
I hope he suffers in jail/prison for a loong time. or, gets killed in the first year by prison mates ?? I think (for him) being alive is more of a torture, than a quick death. I don't know anything about prisons, how are child killers protected from the rest of the population?
This plus the random murder of the groundskeeper in corryville that also happened recently 😢 the one happened two streets away from me
He deserves to suffer in agony and pain for the rest of his life until he dies. Jail/prison is too easy and good for him. Waterboarding however sounds good as far as I am concerned. Or putting things under the fingernails or other horrible ways to torture. Then ask him was it worth it? Bet you get a different answer then.
I think he was crying for himself. At the end he mumbled something suggesting he was begging for protective custody (CC2O or? can't remember exactly). Baby killers don't fare well in prisons/jails.
Thanks for expanding my knowledge of Psychology. It's tragic when children suffer at the hands of such individuals as this person. It makes me so 😔😪😪🤧😪😪
For the police to maintain their composure through all of this, is beyond me.
This is a nightmare!! I can’t imagine what the boys mother is going through or the pain she will endure.