Do not condemn parents who are trying to do their very best to discipline and teach their children right conduct. Most children/ teens are accountable to their "own actions" children are critical thinkers at school age so they surely know what's right from wrong. This generation as well provide alot of youtube videos to know what should right thing to do. So, YOU shouldn't 100% blame to parents. Parents can only guide their children but the action will be the child's choice and that child should be accountable with those choices.
Some parent's do, you try to teach your kid to be nice, have manners, be respectful and send them to a school like this where they're chewed up and spit out and not only by students as we heard in this video. Public school placement isn't for every single student that walks through the door, it's not a one size fits all. If the student is a behavioral problem, or has needs that can't be met in the public school they need a more appropriate placement. If they're a danger to themselves or others they don't belong in a public school.
I don't think you know what accountable means. Also, I've seen the way my children behave after having good teachers. It's a shame that good preschools are so hard to get into. Also schools these days have kids watch TV instead of playing checkers or blocks. Kids never learn to play and never learn empathy for each other. It's TV and computer at school and TV and computer at home. Idiocracy (the movie) is coming true.
The kids I went to school with in the 70's are parents and grandparents now. Some of the bullies back then are still idiots to this day. This is home grown. Make parents accountable and the kids will act different in a generation or three. Rest in Peace
I got jumped by 5 girls in middle school while I was walking home. I didn’t even know the girls and guess who got suspended..I did. People like this need to get punished
I was also beaten up by 4 cheerleaders. They were only reprimanded. If they had been suspended they wouldn't have been allowed to stay in the cheer squad, so they got off with nothing but a talking to.
These bully students should go to jail. They are not children anymore. They are high school students who know already the right and the wrong. The assailants should be put to jail because what they did ain't just simple bullying, that's physical assault on a defenseless woman. If these high school students are protected by the "law" for being "under 18", then punish the parents instead.
this is how bad it get & worst the worst thing going to school with bad kid's as a bully to other worst thing new type of bully going to hate to but there so one do help of other student but the teacher they lazy jerk Don't wanted help/but some teacher do help the student if you have a kid's ask them get to high is the worst thing go to....
She’s gotten me involved with these protests. Danielle is one amazing kid. I’m glad she and her friends have put this out there. I can’t put into words how upset I am that my daughter and her friends have to continue to go to this horrible school. “No culture of violence”my left butt cheek. Story time, I went to this school from 1988-1990. Last day of eighth grade kids had a fight in the stairwell after end of day bell rang, 9th grade, fights every single day. But there’s no culture of violence. There’s still fighting everyday but again no culture of violence. Mr Corbett ( doesn’t deserve the title of Dr.) is blind. All he did that night was make himself Mr. P. (again doesn’t deserve the title Dr.) and the rest of the board look like idiots. We are not happy campers😊
It’s been nearly 13 years since I graduated high school and it breaks my heart seeing s*** like this still going on. I went through what Ariana went through as well. I needed so much therapy after my experience, and I’m still healing. There needs to be radical change, so much of it.
I hope you find your strength and peace in this life 🙏🏻 nobody deserves that let alone a child!! These teachers need to reprimand their students for any type of bullying! Take it seriously! 😡
The only way harsh bully and harassment can immediately end is by charging school staff and faculties for carelessly ignoring students when they are bullied. However, we live in a society, so making campus safe for students is not in the government or school priority. The priority is making money, which is why they haven't solved bully or harassment in schools for all these years/decades (that just don't make money).
Unfortunately every high school has a bullying problem because nobody wants to take any action and accept responsibility unless someone commits suicide and then it ruins the school's reputation and that's something they don't want and then sadly they'll finally take action to save themselves!!!! I bet you if any people on that school board had kids going to that school getting bullied they would immediately take action I would bet thousands of dollars that's the case but anyway hope you get therapy because nobody should be treated like this it truly makes me sick to my stomach
Been 30 years for me, and it's been since school became a mandate by the government. Which precedes me by a good 70ish years. There's a whole genre of shows and movies based on this, also preceding Mean Girls. John Hughes made tons of money off of this model in the 80's. You can also see reflections of this in Stranger Things. Because it also affected us, as genexers and millenials, and we tried and many of us are STILL TRYING. But they didn't listen to us either. And any attempts school districts make, are lukewarm, because we have made school boards political. My heart breaks for Daniella and everyone else going through this.
They should of made those bullies parents sit front row and listen to every single word those people said to the school board. They should also be made to sit and have victim statements addressed to them and face each person and look them in the eye. Very heartbreaking to hear all of this 💔
@@odoylerules4503 One also assumes that bullies know they're bullies. Majority of bullies/mean people, don't walk around knowing or thinking they're mean. It's the people that do know, that are scary.
You know what this is not a bad idea. To get their parents involved criminally or noncriminally. Parents have to biggest responsibility over underage criminals.
@Alex Lee Not against ages like this. You can see in all types of media that teenagers are all rebellious and submitting to conformity to be "cool." Unless the parents have lasting abuse that traumatizes the kid, there is no reason that the parents are to be blamed.
One of the moms of the girls who beat her up is actively on social media insisting she didn’t have anything to do with her offing herself & saying people need to leave her kid alone 🤮🤮
@kelly kennedy not defending them or anything, but if that was your child, what would you do? You see descriptions of a mother's never-ending love everywhere.
That’s not bullying…that’s aggravated assault by thugs. And all these nice kids are being assaulted by criminals. It’s a hate crime. Let me explain what I mean by a hate crime. It seems to me that these teens are being assaulted by other other teens based on looks, how they act, and the way they live their lives. i.e. people they consider “nerds” or band members, or people that are otherwise different.
No it’s bullying. You’re minimizing bullying. When it happens to a boy you make excuses and justify it. When it’s a girl you suddenly care and want change
@@alchemicalvisionstudios3969 It isn't enough to call it bullying because that word brings to mind minor childish schoolyard tiffs or "boys will be boys" or other stupid justifications. We need to change the dialogue, and charge perpetrators with harassment and assault instead of just calling them bullies.
I attended 34 schools in my early years being exposed to every bully in every school as the "new kid." What the bullies didn't know is that I had the experience of hundreds of fights in self defense and became a consummate expert at fighting. Single handedly, I cleared school after school after school of bullies. They knew if I caught them bullying someone, they'd have to pay the piper. I bullied the bullies and was brutal at it. The other kids adored me. The bullies, not so much. The teachers and staff remained quiet. They apparently liked my ability to do what they couldn't, legally. Today however, schools shouldn't have to rely on the small chance a bully destroyer might someday come to their school. They should have by now fixed this issue themselves. It's past time to take action. Bullies need to be charged criminally so they learn a valuable lesson in life before they become adult bullies which are then defined as criminals.
Look at how adults behave online and in the workplace Bullying is everywhere Hate breeds hate Until we change the culture and how these kids are raised this is going to keep happening
I was bullied so badly in middle school (back in 2014) and the school that I went to didn’t do anything at all. I stand with everyone who is going up against this school because bullying needs to stop it’s getting out of hand!
Thank you Danielle for speaking out!! Sending love from Florida. These idiots at your high school are awful. I'm so sorry you are being bullied. You deserve so much more.
As a high school student during the 1980s, the extent of bullying was playful name calling. What is happening in schools around the country today is a national crisis. Todays kids have lost a sense of humanity.
I also hope these parents see this report and see the comments. They are an embarrassment and they should not think anything otherwise. To allow your children to treat others that way deserves no sympathy. I truly hope the community knows them and maybe their employers should think twice about having people like that in their staff. Make the parents as much as the students, accountable because they are just as much to blame as their kids. 🤦♀️💔
I was especially worried about the kid at 4:03 Usually whenever a victim gets emotional, the bully will just laugh at them. And make fun of them for being "triggered."
I work with kids from a marginalized community, and they all tell me how they have been bullied in school. Yelled at, called names, and pushed around, and I see it happen every day outside of school when I go to pick them up for our program. Watching this, I am terrified of what on of my students might think about doing when there is no hope.
I work with teenagers, and this is how 95% of them feel at school nowadays. 100% of them have felt suicidal. Teachers don’t do anything, and honestly, I cannot blame them. They have to fear for their lives every day as well. Parents need to be help responsible. Kids learn these behaviors from somewhere. I raised my son to be kind to everyone and not to speak badly to anyone. But now that he’s a teen, I’m having to teach him how to stand up for himself. It is absolutely heartbreaking. Praying for this world daily.
I was bullied every. single. day. through middle school by the classic 'mean girls'. When my parents tried to talk to their parents guess what? Their parents were bullying jerks too. It starts at home. My life was made so miserable if I'd had access to a gun back then I don't know how things would have turned out. My heart really breaks for this poor girl, her parents, and all the kids STILL being treated like this today. The emotional scars never go away.
I don't even want to send my kids to middle school. The system writes them off and nut jobs that are incapable of learning. And even if you are at a high-achieving school they just give you more pressure with busy work and 7-page papers, rather than interesting content. I got bullied in the 7th grade. My teacher called me "Slow Ed". Even my best friend found out about it despite being in a different session. My algebra teacher would constantly punish the skater kid for talking despite the fact that she would speak and laugh loudly with all the preppy kids. Eventually, the preppy kids started showing him how to dress. At least the kids were nice about it.
I’m a former public school teacher and principal. The middle school where I was principal was a fairly tough place. When I arrived there was at least one fight every day, some days as many as 7 or 8. One of the reasons that students weren’t afraid to fight in school was because the consequences were a slap on the wrist. 3-5 days at home suspension was what the code of conduct instructed. I immediately joined up with two other principals and we totally ripped up the code of conduct and developed a new one. A point system that was much like points on a drivers license for traffic infractions. Each violation of the code of conduct has a specific number of points associated with it. As students accumulated points the at home suspension got longer and longer. The big one was that a fight was an automatic 10 points and a 30 day at home suspension. That was was 30 school days, not 30 calendar days. So a fighting suspension on average last about 6 weeks. If it was near the holiday season, Thanksgiving through Christmas, the suspension could last as long as 8 weeks. At first the students didn’t think we were serious. They found out after the first fight which took only 2 days that we wouldn’t back down from the 30 day suspension for fighting. After that I went from averaging at least one fight per day to one fight every 4-6 weeks which was a huge change. We also implemented a self defense rule where if a student was trying to start a fight they both had the option of walking away. But if one student trapped the other in a physical location where they were prevented from walking away they were allowed to defend themselves without consequences. The aggressor still got 30 days. Also if a student were jumped, surprise attacked and prevented from walking away only the aggressor was suspended. It made a huge difference in the culture of the school and curbing the violence.
When I was in high school, there was a guy who loved to belittle and pick on anyone who deemed below him. Since he was a star athlete, everything he did was thrown under the rug. One day a poor soul got brave and reported him to the principal's office. What did they do? They actually told the bully WHO reported him and confronted them both in the office. A week later the bullied kid ended up in the hospital from a revenge beating. Yet the bully was never a suspect and went on to receive a full paid Soccer scholarship to a good university. 🤷♂️
Omg this makes my blood boil. I was bullied. So as a parent i made sure my kids knew very well that they better not ever treat another human being like this, i also taught them to stand up for them selves and not be intimidated.
Thank you for this compassionate story. I would like to share my story about my 11 y/o daughter struggling with bullying and what her school district failed to do.
Bullying will always exist. We should always call it out and try to improve the situation, but it will never completely go away. For those who are being bullied like your daughter, and the school and teachers aren't helping you... you will have to teach her to fight back. It's scary, but she'll learn that she's tougher than she thinks 👍🏿💯
Nobody knows bullying more than me, I was bullied in elementary school all through my freshman yr of high school. The parents of bullies should be held accountable too. Like heavy fines and jail time in my opinion ..
I was bullied in high school, I got the “well if you tried to blend in more, then you won’t get bullied”, nothing was done to the guy who bullied me, that was when I learned the term gaslighting…
I'm 19 now, back in middle school my "friends' took private photos of me & blasted them on social media. Bullying is evolving & becoming easier, & much worse.
Hit the schoolboard in the pocket book & start jailing the bullies to stop the problem. I am so sorry this beautiful young girl thought she could get no help! 😥😥 Congrats to Mallory's Army!!
You won’t be hitting the school board with anything. You would be hitting the school district that will take more funding away from the schools that need them.
I was homeschooled in middle school as well 😮😮😮 I couldn’t handle all the bullying and insults from people in class. But then once high school started i was done with middle school homeschooling so i went back to public school ready for a new fun experience and let me tell you the horrible sad truth nobody changed from middle school or acted different they all were still bullies and i made barely any friends they completely ruined my high school experience i can’t believe I thought if was gonna be a nice fresh start it made no difference going back to public school… all I’m gonna say is be happy you didn’t go to high school because it’s definitely as bad as you think it is, I literally experienced the horrors in high school
My heart goes out to these victims and families. Imagine living for decades after losing a child from something so despicable and unwarranted. These girls have so much to offer. Parents need to take their children seriously if they talk about bullying, because schools are not safe anymore.
That girl got slammed up against lockers and somebody cared enough to record it for entertainment purposes. I'm literally shaking my head at this. This never should have happened. 😢
Some of my grade school bullies ARE 6 feet under. They were jealous. I was bullied but not to the degree of Adriana. RIP dear Adriana. Wake up school districts!! Horrible shame!
This is DISGUSTING. ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTING. The school is 1000% responsible for not doing anything when she was being dragged. They just sit there. It is extremely terrifying to know that this is happening to kids of our generation due to bullying. And how do you just stand there and laugh at someone getting bullied and not doing anything about it?
This is heartbreaking and it has been happening forever! Schools act like ignoring it will make it go away. They are responsible, if they weren’t, it wouldn’t be mandatory for kids to go to their place of business!
People are way too comfortable bullying people and then are surprised at the rates of violence, suicide and mass shootings in schools and society! We’re supposed to protect kids while preparing them for the world. No child should feel unprotected at school and no one should feel they can get away with assaulting anyone at school because they won’t in the real world! It should be one and done and charges immediately pressed! This is getting ridiculous!
I agree with you, except for the part about mass shootings. I can understand that for suicide it is defnitely causal, but surprisingly a lot more school shooters have a history of bullying other students themselves moreso than being victims of bullying.
I was bullied and attacked in middle school..bruises,beatings, things thrown at me etc. Some teachers were good and dealt with bulkies bug then igbonly escalated so i stayed silent. I hate to think how damaging it would be with social media and phones involved. Home should be a safe space 😢 this should not still be going on! Charges for assault should be enforced. On a team and a bully..suspended..parents should be involved. This is awful 😢
I think bullying is very dangerous, because it can damage someone mentally and cause trauma, and can even endanger their lives. Therefore, we must fight bullying so that there are no more victims like this, hope no one bullies like this again. I'm mouring about this incident, I hope it doesn't happen again..
I had a couple of schools in my pre-teens where I was bullied, my mom would send my brother to take care of it telling them to leave his sister alone. Once a woman said all the kids were afraid of my brother! I hope I didn't turn him into a bully to protect me!
That sounds like a problem from the federal government. The school system needs a drastic reform where school staff can punish violent students, and the government charges school staff/faculties if they ignore students being harassed.
I wasn't raised when corporal punishment was a thing, but I wish I was. Would've loved to see the loud annoying kids back in school get a ruler to the hand or back of the neck. Might've actually got some work done.
Last year in school I told on my bully for hurting me. Now I’m scared to go to school the next year because she said she is going to make my life miserable.
The anger pain frustration. I felt it in these students and parents. That girl should still be here the fact that she's not and their lack of action makes me so angry and upset. This is preventable. They need to hold people accountable.
You’d think bullying would be a much rarer occurrence but this just shows the world will always be mean and people won’t stop it unless it benefits them.
The parents of the bully needs to be held accountable !! The schools broad and schools district should be held for not having a solid bullying program and help for these kids . And for not stop and preventing it !
This is maddening!! We live in a twisted society where if this kid defended herself, she would have been in trouble. It is so insane the mentality that exists in school districts. They said they followed the state laws....that's the problem!!
This hit home I quit school because of being bullied 😢 Got my GED but lost the experience and that’s sad Class of 2000 and it’s unsettling that its happening today .
A lot of what is happening is systemic…dysfunctional homes, lack of community, too much focus on testing, and not enough focus on mental health efforts in all schools. As a high school teacher, I can tell you that there are way too many fights happening at school. In terms of bullying, there needs to be more people on their feet. We’re catching some of it, but the more hidden, subtle forms are hard to detect until it’s too late. We all need to get involved all day every day. Showing up at a school board meeting with this type of energy is applaudable, but it doesn’t affect lasting change.
Parents, please talk to your kids about bullying. Not only about how to handle a bully but to recognize whether they, themselves, are being bullies. If we taught our kids to recognize bullying behaviour, more kids would step in to stop it.
I never got beat up physically like that but in my school (in middle school) high school was not so bad but in middle school people thought I had a contagious disease and they didn’t want to touch my stuff. They didn’t want to eat anything I brought they didn’t wanna sit near me or be my partners or whatever and just them saying of things like that by people who weren’t my friends of course, it was hard. But it’s nothing like the kids today have to deal with because that was 1993 and 1994. I didn’t have all this social media bullying and TH-cam and all that stuff so I mean I didn’t have it nearly as bad as the kids today but it was still hard
I dont feel this will ever change, old enough now to see in hindsight that despite what teachers said about bullying and helping kids, it was never anything but lip service. They dont really care what happens to the students who get picked on. So many of the people who should be taking care of our kids are complicit in their suffering.
Parents need to listen and reach out to their children more,schools are absolutely disgusting they are usually aware I want to say of about 99.999% of all bullying that's going on schools don't care and y'all teens and kids going through any of this please please don't keep it to yourself it's not your burden to bare alone.
I saw my daughter in Daniella and a young me😢She deserves to be safe at school! This lovely extremely intelligent girl. Teachers stand up for these students!!! When they're in the hallway stop them from bullying other students. Adults in the hallways between classes. Teachers or parent volunteers. When they do bully consequences for them to not reoffend!!!
That’s not how it works. Even teachers are people. And adults have bullying too. They always blame the victim for being a pushover, and they wait for them to kill thesmelbves. People are bad, even adults think of life as a kill or be killed policy.
⚠️PLEASE PIN THIS SO EVERYONE CAN SEE IT, ALSO READ THIS ITS IMPORTANT ⚠️ Last week. At my school. A girl named Virginia. She was bullied a lot, for having depression, and she dyed her hair a lot. She got bullied for many reasons. Last Thursday, we got a school email saying Virginia had committed suicide, because of bullying. Everyone that knew her broke down in tears. We all felt so bad for her parents, family, and close friends. Virginia was a sweet girl, she hid her depression. And put a smile on her face. I just wanted to let people know bullying doesn’t just change people. It can also hurt them. Mentally, and physically. My best friend thought about committing suicide once. It was heart breaking. So please don’t bully, even if it was just a joke. A joke can go a long way, like committing suicide. Bullying, is one of the worse things that can happen to a person. It can hurt them mentally. For most people, it’s physically. Half the people that have committed suicide is from bullying. And if you someone who bullies, or makes offensive jokes even thought you don’t mean it to take offense, just know your hurting those people physically, and mentally. So please stop. If they committed suicide, because of *you*, how would that make you feel? That you did that to someone. Probably wouldn’t feel all so great, would it? Please spread this around TH-cam and stop bullying! Also if you do copy and paste this put that it’s not yours on the bottom. Thank you for reading this important message. btw this is not mine!! i'm spreading the message. the original person is ρяєρρу_α∂νι¢є. please give credit to them, and not me. STOP THE BULLYING AND SPREAD THIS MESSAGE!!! ❤
I’m 27 now but when I was 13 I got bullied as well. I was terrified of my bullies. They locked me in the restroom an entire 30 minutes and now I’m claustrophobic because of it. They would stand in a circle with me in the middle and push me around like a rag doll. Till I got badly beat up after school one day and I still have a scar from that fight …
I am Danielle’s mother and I’ve been a victim of bullying at this school as well. Not a culture of violence my left butt cheek. Both my daughters and I have all been bullied and no one did a damn thing. I shared with Phil that I had an uncle who had just graduated when I was coming in. I was proud of my uncle he was a baseball player at the school. My aunt who is 10 years older than me was on the softball team and another uncle was on track and in chorus. My aunt was in school with Al Leiter. Anyway, I told the gym teacher who my uncle was. He told me he couldn’t be my uncle because my uncle took gym. I wasn’t comfortable changing clothes at all in front of people and would avoid it all costs. I told to show my green card. I was born and raised in New Jersey. Same year there was a fight on one of the main stairways where a kid was thrown down the stairs. This was in the middle school. Freshman year I was petrified everyday. There were fights every day and some blocking the only way to different rooms. There was one that was so horrifying. I was in lunch and we were going back to class and a fight broke out. The antagonizer stomped on the other kids head. While the one kid was in the hospital for months the other kid was suspended for 2 weeks. I was threatened when I was in class. This guy was mad I ratted him out. The entire class was mad too. I wasn’t getting suspended for doing nothing. He comes back in and turns to me and says he’s going to get people after me. After he said that everyone was upset. He got sent down to the office for that. As I was transferring out of school I bumped into him in one of the classes. He tries telling people that I got him suspended. I told him he got himself suspended. I was also bullied on busses, but please Mr. Corbett (he has an undeserved phd in education therefore I won’t be calling by that title) explain how there’s no culture of violence.
The schools and teachers need to step it up. It’s disgraceful how easily these occurrences are brushed aside. I was ridiculed and humiliated in junior high school by a teacher and that would be the beginning of a depression that I fought for years.
I feel your pain girls, my heart aches along with you. Fight back, fight back hard. Learn about sociopaths, they're the ones that bully and cause so much pain. They feed off your suffering. They pick on those with a warm loving heart. School officials need to protect you kids against the sociopath. Scream, make noise, never stop, have a voice, fight back and stay STRONG.
Having an, intelligent, beautiful, talented daughter who has experienced this as well, the schools do not do what is needed. The bullies are protected for one reason. Their parents are bullies too. It’s pathetic and the parents of these kids who bully are just as guilty as the school.
Social Media companies spread falsehoods and rage-inducing fake-news because it gives them 'engagement'. Bullying is just 'engagement' to their AI so they keep on perpetuating falsehoods, making people paranoid and delusional about other people. We need legislation like the European Union is doing to protect its citizens.
My son is paranoid about having a stripe on the toes of his socks because "What if someone asks why?" I really hope he doesn't end up online like that. I need a plan of how to watch his social media.
All through school I found it kind of weird that there was a rule against filming fights. Supposedly if you were caught filming a fight you were supposed to get the same punishment as the people in the fight. I was thought about it as a consensual fight in most cases and I'd never thought about anyone feeling bad that they got beat. And now that I'm older even if I think about it even if it was a consensual fight nobody wants it online that they were beat up. But it's even worse for the people who were jumped and now their faces plastered over the Internet for being jumped.
As a parent I always teach my kids about respect and being kind but also learn to stand up for themselves if get bullied. Parents and school should not tolerate these bullies bad behaviors period. These need to stop.
I’m here to tell you, no matter how many measures you put in place, you can’t stop bullying. You can’t dictate people, people have to want to change, you can’t force these changes you want, we all want. Cases like this are money makers for the campaigns, and the owners of these campaigns, not to end bullying, but to start profit margins. People need to understand that bullying hasn’t gotten worse, it’s how people can express it is what’s changed. People have always been asses, nothings changed over the years. It shouldn’t be about how to stop bullying, because that brings in more attention for people to question what else can’t be done. Telling people that they can’t do something will lead to people questioning what’s being dictated. It should be about how to manage these problems, and for some campaigns just banning it causes more separation between the youth, of who will become the adults of tomorrow. My point is, you can’t dictate what someone says, if they’re assholes, let them be them, and allow the world to see it too. Not banning bullying, cuz it’s never gonna work
@@QwertyS3 Oh it’s definitely an epidemic, cuz everyone’s a victim, you got the internet to thank for that. But as I said, you can’t change someone’s mind to stop bullying, it’s a choice. I could bully the kid down my street, but I wouldn’t do that cuz I have respect
This is shocking! At the same time this is of no surprise to me. Adults sometimes don’t have the guts to do the right thing. Victims also need help to protect themselves.
This story is tragic, but I think it might be important to ask ourselves, Is ABC exploiting this girl's death? I just stopped the video at 4:05 after the journalist just asked a teen on camera if she'd ever thought about suicide. He is not her therapist or a grief counselor, why is he asking that question? to get a reaction that will be gold for the cameras? suicide is still something we don't quite understand fully but what we do know is that these type of news stories that turn the deceased into posthumous celebrities (not quite the same but similar to the 13 reasons why effect) may not be healthy for viewers or the grieving community. The way we cover mass shootings also have that effect on viewers. Maybe this should have been a community issue for the community to deal with? idk, I'm just questioning intention here. something feels off, but regardless of my critique, I'm wishing her family and friends heal from this.
In the words of Dr. Robert Block, the former President of the American Academy of Pediatrics, "Adverse childhood experiences are the single greatest unaddressed public health threat facing our nation today." It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men. -Frederick Douglass
If the bullied kid retaliates and say punches the bully in the nose and fights back,then he or she is the one who gets in trouble,not the bully who started it,but bullies are cowards,they can't go it alone but rather need someone there to have thier back.
Parents are 100% accountable. Teach your children basic human respect and manners!!
Do not condemn parents who are trying to do their very best to discipline and teach their children right conduct. Most children/ teens are accountable to their "own actions" children are critical thinkers at school age so they surely know what's right from wrong. This generation as well provide alot of youtube videos to know what should right thing to do. So, YOU shouldn't 100% blame to parents.
Parents can only guide their children but the action will be the child's choice and that child should be accountable with those choices.
@@Channel-ul8mh One of the parents is defending their kid's actions on TikTok. So for at least that parent, they did not do their very best.
@@Channel-ul8mh shut up you no good cowardly inmate from hell
Some parent's do, you try to teach your kid to be nice, have manners, be respectful and send them to a school like this where they're chewed up and spit out and not only by students as we heard in this video. Public school placement isn't for every single student that walks through the door, it's not a one size fits all. If the student is a behavioral problem, or has needs that can't be met in the public school they need a more appropriate placement. If they're a danger to themselves or others they don't belong in a public school.
I don't think you know what accountable means.
Also, I've seen the way my children behave after having good teachers. It's a shame that good preschools are so hard to get into.
Also schools these days have kids watch TV instead of playing checkers or blocks. Kids never learn to play and never learn empathy for each other.
It's TV and computer at school and TV and computer at home. Idiocracy (the movie) is coming true.
The kids I went to school with in the 70's are parents and grandparents now. Some of the bullies back then are still idiots to this day. This is home grown. Make parents accountable and the kids will act different in a generation or three. Rest in Peace
The bullies become police
Without a doubt,… The homestead is the culprit; role modelling and/or negligence are equally, if not more, responsible 😡
Yep, the parents in my neighborhood encouraged bullying
i'm glad to say that some of the worst bullies did grow up and are decent people.
The average person is stupid and doesn’t deserve any thing in life
I got jumped by 5 girls in middle school while I was walking home. I didn’t even know the girls and guess who got suspended..I did. People like this need to get punished
Jesus. What was the official reason of you being suspended?
That's not fair! What did your parents say?
I was also beaten up by 4 cheerleaders. They were only reprimanded. If they had been suspended they wouldn't have been allowed to stay in the cheer squad, so they got off with nothing but a talking to.
@gabriellasanz6378 WHAT THE HELL KIND OF PUNISHMENT IS THAT! I feel so bad for you!!
Oh my Goodness what was the Bullies punishment?
These bully students should go to jail. They are not children anymore. They are high school students who know already the right and the wrong. The assailants should be put to jail because what they did ain't just simple bullying, that's physical assault on a defenseless woman. If these high school students are protected by the "law" for being "under 18", then punish the parents instead.
Yes, young people don't know that. We must explain behavior in our school.
@Cerceifywe need pepole like frank castle
I agree. They should be charged.
Yes, bullying should be a crime.
What's messed up is no one tried to help her. They kept recording. Beautiful angel lost her life.
Sad
Ngl I'm not about to get jumped by those gremlins no cap
And the adults who saved her for the beating didn’t ask the bullies to delete the recording……wtf……
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this is how bad it get & worst
the worst thing going to school with bad kid's as a bully to
other worst thing new type of bully going to hate to
but there so one do help of other student
but the teacher they lazy jerk Don't wanted help/but some teacher do help the student
if you have a kid's ask them get to high is the worst thing go to....
This little girl at 4:22 made me cry. You're beautiful and powerful and strong! Keep speaking out!
She’s gotten me involved with these protests.
Danielle is one amazing kid. I’m glad she and her friends have put this out there. I can’t put into words how upset I am that my daughter and her friends have to continue to go to this horrible school.
“No culture of violence”my left butt cheek. Story time, I went to this school from 1988-1990. Last day of eighth grade kids had a fight in the stairwell after end of day bell rang, 9th grade, fights every single day. But there’s no culture of violence. There’s still fighting everyday but again no culture of violence. Mr Corbett ( doesn’t deserve the title of Dr.) is blind. All he did that night was make himself Mr. P. (again doesn’t deserve the title Dr.) and the rest of the board look like idiots. We are not happy campers😊
It’s been nearly 13 years since I graduated high school and it breaks my heart seeing s*** like this still going on. I went through what Ariana went through as well. I needed so much therapy after my experience, and I’m still healing. There needs to be radical change, so much of it.
I hope you find your strength and peace in this life 🙏🏻 nobody deserves that let alone a child!! These teachers need to reprimand their students for any type of bullying! Take it seriously! 😡
The only way harsh bully and harassment can immediately end is by charging school staff and faculties for carelessly ignoring students when they are bullied.
However, we live in a society, so making campus safe for students is not in the government or school priority. The priority is making money, which is why they haven't solved bully or harassment in schools for all these years/decades (that just don't make money).
Unfortunately every high school has a bullying problem because nobody wants to take any action and accept responsibility unless someone commits suicide and then it ruins the school's reputation and that's something they don't want and then sadly they'll finally take action to save themselves!!!! I bet you if any people on that school board had kids going to that school getting bullied they would immediately take action I would bet thousands of dollars that's the case but anyway hope you get therapy because nobody should be treated like this it truly makes me sick to my stomach
If i can ask how come you just ain’t fight them?
Been 30 years for me, and it's been since school became a mandate by the government. Which precedes me by a good 70ish years. There's a whole genre of shows and movies based on this, also preceding Mean Girls. John Hughes made tons of money off of this model in the 80's. You can also see reflections of this in Stranger Things. Because it also affected us, as genexers and millenials, and we tried and many of us are STILL TRYING. But they didn't listen to us either. And any attempts school districts make, are lukewarm, because we have made school boards political. My heart breaks for Daniella and everyone else going through this.
They should of made those bullies parents sit front row and listen to every single word those people said to the school board. They should also be made to sit and have victim statements addressed to them and face each person and look them in the eye. Very heartbreaking to hear all of this 💔
you're assuming that would have any effect on someone who raises bullies
@@odoylerules4503 One also assumes that bullies know they're bullies. Majority of bullies/mean people, don't walk around knowing or thinking they're mean. It's the people that do know, that are scary.
@@odoylerules4503 Some are ignorant of their child's bullying behavior and others don't care to address it, so it might have an effect
@@Adventurer-te8fl Many parents of bullies are bullies themselves
But what about the parents of the bullies? Empathy and respect for others is learned first and foremost from parents and family.
You know what this is not a bad idea. To get their parents involved criminally or noncriminally. Parents have to biggest responsibility over underage criminals.
@Alex Lee Not against ages like this. You can see in all types of media that teenagers are all rebellious and submitting to conformity to be "cool." Unless the parents have lasting abuse that traumatizes the kid, there is no reason that the parents are to be blamed.
One of the moms of the girls who beat her up is actively on social media insisting she didn’t have anything to do with her offing herself & saying people need to leave her kid alone 🤮🤮
@kelly kennedy not defending them or anything, but if that was your child, what would you do? You see descriptions of a mother's never-ending love everywhere.
@@alexlee8050 Maybe theses teens are offspring of racist🤷♂️
Not only teens girls, boys too. This is so heart breaking, the adults in the school didn't do anything.
Exactly the school just let the bullying continue or join in . Damn shame !
That’s not bullying…that’s aggravated assault by thugs. And all these nice kids are being assaulted by criminals. It’s a hate crime. Let me explain what I mean by a hate crime. It seems to me that these teens are being assaulted by other other teens based on looks, how they act, and the way they live their lives. i.e. people they consider “nerds” or band members, or people that are otherwise different.
It starts in their homes, they were hurt so they hurt people too, This is learned behavior
No it’s bullying. You’re minimizing bullying. When it happens to a boy you make excuses and justify it. When it’s a girl you suddenly care and want change
is it a hate crime because two boys beat her up?
@@alchemicalvisionstudios3969 exactly, the comments would go something like "he must have said the n word" or some other illegit justification.
@@alchemicalvisionstudios3969 It isn't enough to call it bullying because that word brings to mind minor childish schoolyard tiffs or "boys will be boys" or other stupid justifications. We need to change the dialogue, and charge perpetrators with harassment and assault instead of just calling them bullies.
I attended 34 schools in my early years being exposed to every bully in every school as the "new kid." What the bullies didn't know is that I had the experience of hundreds of fights in self defense and became a consummate expert at fighting.
Single handedly, I cleared school after school after school of bullies. They knew if I caught them bullying someone, they'd have to pay the piper. I bullied the bullies and was brutal at it. The other kids adored me. The bullies, not so much. The teachers and staff remained quiet. They apparently liked my ability to do what they couldn't, legally.
Today however, schools shouldn't have to rely on the small chance a bully destroyer might someday come to their school. They should have by now fixed this issue themselves. It's past time to take action.
Bullies need to be charged criminally so they learn a valuable lesson in life before they become adult bullies which are then defined as criminals.
Thank you for your service. Bullies change their tune real quick when they realize there are people who will smack them in the mouth.
And then everybody clapped?
@@johnnypickle2253 They all came together and erected a monument of Cole's pole.
Thank you
Bro is living ina movie wtfff 💀
Look at how adults behave online and in the workplace
Bullying is everywhere
Hate breeds hate
Until we change the culture and how these kids are raised this is going to keep happening
I was bullied so badly in middle school (back in 2014) and the school that I went to didn’t do anything at all. I stand with everyone who is going up against this school because bullying needs to stop it’s getting out of hand!
Being bullied is terrible. It never should escalate to physical attacks at school.
How does a girl get dragged down the hallway loudly and not one teacher does a damn thing. Shame on you.
Thank you Danielle for speaking out!! Sending love from Florida.
These idiots at your high school are awful. I'm so sorry you are being bullied. You deserve so much more.
Danielle is a fighter. I’m so unbelievably proud of her and her friends.
I feel so sad for her and her family. I was bullied but when I went home there was relief. No social media attacks.
Bullying should be treated as a felony
As a high school student during the 1980s, the extent of bullying was playful name calling. What is happening in schools around the country today is a national crisis. Todays kids have lost a sense of humanity.
I was fortunate enough to never get bullied, or seen it at my school. Just bc I wasn’t around it doesn’t mean it’s not an issue.
I also hope these parents see this report and see the comments. They are an embarrassment and they should not think anything otherwise. To allow your children to treat others that way deserves no sympathy. I truly hope the community knows them and maybe their employers should think twice about having people like that in their staff. Make the parents as much as the students, accountable because they are just as much to blame as their kids. 🤦♀️💔
Couldn't agree more... if kids behaved this way in my daughters school the whole town would shun them.
One of the parents is on TikTok and is defending their kid's behavior, its so dumb
Beautiful kids finally using their voice. I can’t believe we lost this girl, god I know this isn’t right.
I was especially worried about the kid at 4:03
Usually whenever a victim gets emotional, the bully will just laugh at them. And make fun of them for being "triggered."
I work with kids from a marginalized community, and they all tell me how they have been bullied in school. Yelled at, called names, and pushed around, and I see it happen every day outside of school when I go to pick them up for our program. Watching this, I am terrified of what on of my students might think about doing when there is no hope.
I work with teenagers, and this is how 95% of them feel at school nowadays. 100% of them have felt suicidal. Teachers don’t do anything, and honestly, I cannot blame them. They have to fear for their lives every day as well. Parents need to be help responsible. Kids learn these behaviors from somewhere. I raised my son to be kind to everyone and not to speak badly to anyone. But now that he’s a teen, I’m having to teach him how to stand up for himself. It is absolutely heartbreaking. Praying for this world daily.
I was bullied every. single. day. through middle school by the classic 'mean girls'. When my parents tried to talk to their parents guess what? Their parents were bullying jerks too. It starts at home. My life was made so miserable if I'd had access to a gun back then I don't know how things would have turned out. My heart really breaks for this poor girl, her parents, and all the kids STILL being treated like this today. The emotional scars never go away.
I don't even want to send my kids to middle school. The system writes them off and nut jobs that are incapable of learning. And even if you are at a high-achieving school they just give you more pressure with busy work and 7-page papers, rather than interesting content.
I got bullied in the 7th grade. My teacher called me "Slow Ed". Even my best friend found out about it despite being in a different session.
My algebra teacher would constantly punish the skater kid for talking despite the fact that she would speak and laugh loudly with all the preppy kids. Eventually, the preppy kids started showing him how to dress. At least the kids were nice about it.
Same 😢
I’m a former public school teacher and principal. The middle school where I was principal was a fairly tough place. When I arrived there was at least one fight every day, some days as many as 7 or 8. One of the reasons that students weren’t afraid to fight in school was because the consequences were a slap on the wrist. 3-5 days at home suspension was what the code of conduct instructed. I immediately joined up with two other principals and we totally ripped up the code of conduct and developed a new one. A point system that was much like points on a drivers license for traffic infractions. Each violation of the code of conduct has a specific number of points associated with it. As students accumulated points the at home suspension got longer and longer. The big one was that a fight was an automatic 10 points and a 30 day at home suspension. That was was 30 school days, not 30 calendar days. So a fighting suspension on average last about 6 weeks. If it was near the holiday season, Thanksgiving through Christmas, the suspension could last as long as 8 weeks. At first the students didn’t think we were serious. They found out after the first fight which took only 2 days that we wouldn’t back down from the 30 day suspension for fighting. After that I went from averaging at least one fight per day to one fight every 4-6 weeks which was a huge change. We also implemented a self defense rule where if a student was trying to start a fight they both had the option of walking away. But if one student trapped the other in a physical location where they were prevented from walking away they were allowed to defend themselves without consequences. The aggressor still got 30 days. Also if a student were jumped, surprise attacked and prevented from walking away only the aggressor was suspended. It made a huge difference in the culture of the school and curbing the violence.
That is AMAZING! You and your team are HEROES!
When I was in high school, there was a guy who loved to belittle and pick on anyone who deemed below him. Since he was a star athlete, everything he did was thrown under the rug. One day a poor soul got brave and reported him to the principal's office. What did they do? They actually told the bully WHO reported him and confronted them both in the office. A week later the bullied kid ended up in the hospital from a revenge beating. Yet the bully was never a suspect and went on to receive a full paid Soccer scholarship to a good university. 🤷♂️
As a mother of a middle aged daughter I truly feel like middle school is horrible for my child's mental health. I constantly worry.
"You are here to protect the students, but the students do not feel protected." No true words have ever been spoken.
Omg this makes my blood boil. I was bullied. So as a parent i made sure my kids knew very well that they better not ever treat another human being like this, i also taught them to stand up for them selves and not be intimidated.
Being beat up after school is terrible.
This is serious. Other people make fun of you, and then they think you're crazy until someone ends up like her.
Thank you for this compassionate story. I would like to share my story about my 11 y/o daughter struggling with bullying and what her school district failed to do.
Why don´t you get her out of school instead!!! Look for options for goodness sake!
Bullying will always exist. We should always call it out and try to improve the situation, but it will never completely go away. For those who are being bullied like your daughter, and the school and teachers aren't helping you... you will have to teach her to fight back. It's scary, but she'll learn that she's tougher than she thinks 👍🏿💯
@luxetveritas4633 there is no other options....The girl needs the education. The only thing is moving out and suing the district of what they got!
This is very sad! Parents of those bullies should take responsibility for not teaching them empathy. They should be punished too.
Nobody knows bullying more than me, I was bullied in elementary school all through my freshman yr of high school. The parents of bullies should be held accountable too. Like heavy fines and jail time in my opinion ..
I was bullied in high school, I got the “well if you tried to blend in more, then you won’t get bullied”, nothing was done to the guy who bullied me, that was when I learned the term gaslighting…
I just recently learned what gaslighting meant, I wish I had known sooner.
Kudos to the children for speaking up! Great job kids! This should have never happened. Prayers to all of you.
It's so sad that schools turn a blind eye to bullying then they wonder why stuff like this happens 😢
Right good point sad but true ❤
I'm 19 now, back in middle school my "friends' took private photos of me & blasted them on social media. Bullying is evolving & becoming easier, & much worse.
Hit the schoolboard in the pocket book & start jailing the bullies to stop the problem. I am so sorry this beautiful young girl thought she could get no help! 😥😥 Congrats to Mallory's Army!!
I remember going to a field trip/assembly about it. It was such a sad story
You won’t be hitting the school board with anything. You would be hitting the school district that will take more funding away from the schools that need them.
And jail any faculty who could’ve helped but did nothing. They’re accomplices.
I have Aspergers and was bullied in elementary school. I was homeschooled from middle school on. This breaks my heart
I was homeschooled in middle school as well 😮😮😮 I couldn’t handle all the bullying and insults from people in class. But then once high school started i was done with middle school homeschooling so i went back to public school ready for a new fun experience and let me tell you the horrible sad truth nobody changed from middle school or acted different they all were still bullies and i made barely any friends they completely ruined my high school experience i can’t believe I thought if was gonna be a nice fresh start it made no difference going back to public school… all I’m gonna say is be happy you didn’t go to high school because it’s definitely as bad as you think it is, I literally experienced the horrors in high school
My heart goes out to these victims and families. Imagine living for decades after losing a child from something so despicable and unwarranted. These girls have so much to offer. Parents need to take their children seriously if they talk about bullying, because schools are not safe anymore.
That girl got slammed up against lockers and somebody cared enough to record it for entertainment purposes. I'm literally shaking my head at this. This never should have happened. 😢
What a beautiful girl. Bullys always take their anger out on the next person. This is so tragic.
Some of my grade school bullies ARE 6 feet under. They were jealous. I was bullied but not to the degree of Adriana. RIP dear Adriana. Wake up school districts!! Horrible shame!
Me too 😢
This is DISGUSTING. ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTING. The school is 1000% responsible for not doing anything when she was being dragged. They just sit there. It is extremely terrifying to know that this is happening to kids of our generation due to bullying. And how do you just stand there and laugh at someone getting bullied and not doing anything about it?
This is heartbreaking and it has been happening forever! Schools act like ignoring it will make it go away. They are responsible, if they weren’t, it wouldn’t be mandatory for kids to go to their place of business!
People are way too comfortable bullying people and then are surprised at the rates of violence, suicide and mass shootings in schools and society! We’re supposed to protect kids while preparing them for the world. No child should feel unprotected at school and no one should feel they can get away with assaulting anyone at school because they won’t in the real world! It should be one and done and charges immediately pressed! This is getting ridiculous!
I agree with you, except for the part about mass shootings. I can understand that for suicide it is defnitely causal, but surprisingly a lot more school shooters have a history of bullying other students themselves moreso than being victims of bullying.
I was bullied and attacked in middle school..bruises,beatings, things thrown at me etc. Some teachers were good and dealt with bulkies bug then igbonly escalated so i stayed silent. I hate to think how damaging it would be with social media and phones involved. Home should be a safe space 😢 this should not still be going on! Charges for assault should be enforced. On a team and a bully..suspended..parents should be involved.
This is awful 😢
I think bullying is very dangerous, because it can damage someone mentally and cause trauma, and can even endanger their lives. Therefore, we must fight bullying so that there are no more victims like this, hope no one bullies like this again. I'm mouring about this incident, I hope it doesn't happen again..
I had a couple of schools in my pre-teens where I was bullied, my mom would send my brother to take care of it telling them to leave his sister alone. Once a woman said all the kids were afraid of my brother! I hope I didn't turn him into a bully to protect me!
Unfortunately bullying is everywhere 🤦🏻♂️. No one should bully at school, work, home or anywhere.
The problem is schools are afraid to punish students like back in the day because of lawsuits.
Teachers and schools are absolute trash and now you want to hit kids yeah buddy okay
Bring back Mr.Paddle🔥
That sounds like a problem from the federal government.
The school system needs a drastic reform where school staff can punish violent students, and the government charges school staff/faculties if they ignore students being harassed.
I wasn't raised when corporal punishment was a thing, but I wish I was. Would've loved to see the loud annoying kids back in school get a ruler to the hand or back of the neck. Might've actually got some work done.
The government needs the paddle.
Last year in school I told on my bully for hurting me. Now I’m scared to go to school the next year because she said she is going to make my life miserable.
The anger pain frustration. I felt it in these students and parents. That girl should still be here the fact that she's not and their lack of action makes me so angry and upset. This is preventable. They need to hold people accountable.
And the classmates who did it???? Their parents?????????
You’d think bullying would be a much rarer occurrence but this just shows the world will always be mean and people won’t stop it unless it benefits them.
The parents of the bully needs to be held accountable !! The schools broad and schools district should be held for not having a solid bullying program and help for these kids . And for not stop and preventing it !
This is maddening!! We live in a twisted society where if this kid defended herself, she would have been in trouble. It is so insane the mentality that exists in school districts. They said they followed the state laws....that's the problem!!
I'm glad that I'm not in school anymore
This hit home I quit school because of being bullied 😢 Got my GED but lost the experience and that’s sad Class of 2000 and it’s unsettling that its happening today .
Parents are 100% to blame. Empathy isn’t innate, it has to be taught at an early age
A lot of what is happening is systemic…dysfunctional homes, lack of community, too much focus on testing, and not enough focus on mental health efforts in all schools. As a high school teacher, I can tell you that there are way too many fights happening at school. In terms of bullying, there needs to be more people on their feet. We’re catching some of it, but the more hidden, subtle forms are hard to detect until it’s too late. We all need to get involved all day every day. Showing up at a school board meeting with this type of energy is applaudable, but it doesn’t affect lasting change.
Parents, please talk to your kids about bullying. Not only about how to handle a bully but to recognize whether they, themselves, are being bullies. If we taught our kids to recognize bullying behaviour, more kids would step in to stop it.
I never got beat up physically like that but in my school (in middle school) high school was not so bad but in middle school people thought I had a contagious disease and they didn’t want to touch my stuff. They didn’t want to eat anything I brought they didn’t wanna sit near me or be my partners or whatever and just them saying of things like that by people who weren’t my friends of course, it was hard. But it’s nothing like the kids today have to deal with because that was 1993 and 1994. I didn’t have all this social media bullying and TH-cam and all that stuff so I mean I didn’t have it nearly as bad as the kids today but it was still hard
I dont feel this will ever change, old enough now to see in hindsight that despite what teachers said about bullying and helping kids, it was never anything but lip service. They dont really care what happens to the students who get picked on. So many of the people who should be taking care of our kids are complicit in their suffering.
Parents need to listen and reach out to their children more,schools are absolutely disgusting they are usually aware I want to say of about 99.999% of all bullying that's going on schools don't care and y'all teens and kids going through any of this please please don't keep it to yourself it's not your burden to bare alone.
I hope they hold the school financially and criminally accountable. This is utterly unacceptable and despicable.
I saw my daughter in Daniella and a young me😢She deserves to be safe at school! This lovely extremely intelligent girl. Teachers stand up for these students!!! When they're in the hallway stop them from bullying other students. Adults in the hallways between classes. Teachers or parent volunteers. When they do bully consequences for them to not reoffend!!!
That’s not how it works. Even teachers are people. And adults have bullying too. They always blame the victim for being a pushover, and they wait for them to kill thesmelbves. People are bad, even adults think of life as a kill or be killed policy.
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Last week. At my school. A girl named Virginia. She was bullied a lot, for having depression, and she dyed her hair a lot. She got bullied for many reasons. Last Thursday, we got a school email saying Virginia had committed suicide, because of bullying. Everyone that knew her broke down in tears. We all felt so bad for her parents, family, and close friends. Virginia was a sweet girl, she hid her depression. And put a smile on her face. I just wanted to let people know bullying doesn’t just change people. It can also hurt them. Mentally, and physically. My best friend thought about committing suicide once. It was heart breaking. So please don’t bully, even if it was just a joke. A joke can go a long way, like committing suicide. Bullying, is one of the worse things that can happen to a person. It can hurt them mentally. For most people, it’s physically. Half the people that have committed suicide is from bullying. And if you someone who bullies, or makes offensive jokes even thought you don’t mean it to take offense, just know your hurting those people physically, and mentally. So please stop. If they committed suicide, because of *you*, how would that make you feel? That you did that to someone. Probably wouldn’t feel all so great, would it? Please spread this around TH-cam and stop bullying! Also if you do copy and paste this put that it’s not yours on the bottom. Thank you for reading this important message.
btw this is not mine!! i'm spreading the message. the original person is ρяєρρу_α∂νι¢є. please give credit to them, and not me. STOP THE BULLYING AND SPREAD THIS MESSAGE!!! ❤
I’m 27 now but when I was 13 I got bullied as well. I was terrified of my bullies. They locked me in the restroom an entire 30 minutes and now I’m claustrophobic because of it. They would stand in a circle with me in the middle and push me around like a rag doll. Till I got badly beat up after school one day and I still have a scar from that fight …
I am Danielle’s mother and I’ve been a victim of bullying at this school as well. Not a culture of violence my left butt cheek. Both my daughters and I have all been bullied and no one did a damn thing. I shared with Phil that I had an uncle who had just graduated when I was coming in. I was proud of my uncle he was a baseball player at the school. My aunt who is 10 years older than me was on the softball team and another uncle was on track and in chorus. My aunt was in school with Al Leiter. Anyway, I told the gym teacher who my uncle was. He told me he couldn’t be my uncle because my uncle took gym. I wasn’t comfortable changing clothes at all in front of people and would avoid it all costs. I told to show my green card. I was born and raised in New Jersey. Same year there was a fight on one of the main stairways where a kid was thrown down the stairs. This was in the middle school. Freshman year I was petrified everyday. There were fights every day and some blocking the only way to different rooms. There was one that was so horrifying. I was in lunch and we were going back to class and a fight broke out. The antagonizer stomped on the other kids head. While the one kid was in the hospital for months the other kid was suspended for 2 weeks. I was threatened when I was in class. This guy was mad I ratted him out. The entire class was mad too. I wasn’t getting suspended for doing nothing. He comes back in and turns to me and says he’s going to get people after me. After he said that everyone was upset. He got sent down to the office for that. As I was transferring out of school I bumped into him in one of the classes. He tries telling people that I got him suspended. I told him he got himself suspended. I was also bullied on busses, but please Mr. Corbett (he has an undeserved phd in education therefore I won’t be calling by that title) explain how there’s no culture of violence.
You raised a virtuous daughter. I hope you're proud of her for speaking up! My mama was bullied as a kid, and so was I. I understand this.
Those bullies need to be arrested
The schools and teachers need to step it up. It’s disgraceful how easily these occurrences are brushed aside. I was ridiculed and humiliated in junior high school by a teacher and that would be the beginning of a depression that I fought for years.
I feel your pain girls, my heart aches along with you. Fight back, fight back hard. Learn about sociopaths, they're the ones that bully and cause so much pain. They feed off your suffering. They pick on those with a warm loving heart. School officials need to protect you kids against the sociopath. Scream, make noise, never stop, have a voice, fight back and stay STRONG.
Adriana would still be alive if she wouldn’t been bullied like that. It’s disgusting 🤮 and it’s wrong.
My son is going through it and now I’ve had to remove him from school.. it’s got worse 2024
this is so upsetting.
Having an, intelligent, beautiful, talented daughter who has experienced this as well, the schools do not do what is needed. The bullies are protected for one reason. Their parents are bullies too. It’s pathetic and the parents of these kids who bully are just as guilty as the school.
Social media has become the monster of Frankenstein of the 21st century.
Social Media companies spread falsehoods and rage-inducing fake-news because it gives them 'engagement'. Bullying is just 'engagement' to their AI so they keep on perpetuating falsehoods, making people paranoid and delusional about other people.
We need legislation like the European Union is doing to protect its citizens.
It definitely has sadly
My son is paranoid about having a stripe on the toes of his socks because "What if someone asks why?"
I really hope he doesn't end up online like that. I need a plan of how to watch his social media.
I defiantly feel like I failed as a parent if my child was a bully
Every person who shared the video should be held accountable
This is so sad, the parents of these monsters should be held liable
Damn shame children are made to feel they don't belong by their peers 😔
All through school I found it kind of weird that there was a rule against filming fights. Supposedly if you were caught filming a fight you were supposed to get the same punishment as the people in the fight.
I was thought about it as a consensual fight in most cases and I'd never thought about anyone feeling bad that they got beat. And now that I'm older even if I think about it even if it was a consensual fight nobody wants it online that they were beat up.
But it's even worse for the people who were jumped and now their faces plastered over the Internet for being jumped.
As a parent I always teach my kids about respect and being kind but also learn to stand up for themselves if get bullied. Parents and school should not tolerate these bullies bad behaviors period. These need to stop.
I’m here to tell you, no matter how many measures you put in place, you can’t stop bullying. You can’t dictate people, people have to want to change, you can’t force these changes you want, we all want.
Cases like this are money makers for the campaigns, and the owners of these campaigns, not to end bullying, but to start profit margins.
People need to understand that bullying hasn’t gotten worse, it’s how people can express it is what’s changed. People have always been asses, nothings changed over the years.
It shouldn’t be about how to stop bullying, because that brings in more attention for people to question what else can’t be done. Telling people that they can’t do something will lead to people questioning what’s being dictated.
It should be about how to manage these problems, and for some campaigns just banning it causes more separation between the youth, of who will become the adults of tomorrow.
My point is, you can’t dictate what someone says, if they’re assholes, let them be them, and allow the world to see it too. Not banning bullying, cuz it’s never gonna work
@@QwertyS3 Oh it’s definitely an epidemic, cuz everyone’s a victim, you got the internet to thank for that. But as I said, you can’t change someone’s mind to stop bullying, it’s a choice. I could bully the kid down my street, but I wouldn’t do that cuz I have respect
I feel you be strong stay true to you. You are not alone.
I hope this poor Dad sues the School and the Parents.
Won't bring his girl back.
@@munn34 no it won’t but an example needs to be made to prevent this happening again to someone else.
What's going on in America if not shootings, there is constant bullying in schools and it happens at the same time
right
Same thing that's happening in many other countries.
@AngelicoCiudad No school shootings in UK. And bullying is definitely more rampant in the US based on the statistics
This is shocking! At the same time this is of no surprise to me. Adults sometimes don’t have the guts to do the right thing. Victims also need help to protect themselves.
When I was in middle school, it was the teachers that were the bullies.
I hope people are watching this. This I a Nationwide problem. When kids think they're PROTECTED, that's when crap like this continues..
Schools should do more for kids.
Parents of bullies and their bad kids shouldn't be allowed in a school.
That's so sad and I been bullyed in my entie life too and I am still in school because I am 14
This story is tragic, but I think it might be important to ask ourselves, Is ABC exploiting this girl's death? I just stopped the video at 4:05 after the journalist just asked a teen on camera if she'd ever thought about suicide. He is not her therapist or a grief counselor, why is he asking that question? to get a reaction that will be gold for the cameras? suicide is still something we don't quite understand fully but what we do know is that these type of news stories that turn the deceased into posthumous celebrities (not quite the same but similar to the 13 reasons why effect) may not be healthy for viewers or the grieving community. The way we cover mass shootings also have that effect on viewers. Maybe this should have been a community issue for the community to deal with? idk, I'm just questioning intention here. something feels off, but regardless of my critique, I'm wishing her family and friends heal from this.
In the words of Dr. Robert Block, the former President of the American Academy of Pediatrics, "Adverse childhood experiences are the single greatest unaddressed public health threat facing our nation today."
It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men. -Frederick Douglass
This is sad...these kids and parents are so right
Bullying is unacceptable
If the bullied kid retaliates and say punches the bully in the nose and fights back,then he or she is the one who gets in trouble,not the bully who started it,but bullies are cowards,they can't go it alone but rather need someone there to have thier back.
I am so sorry to her family and friends who have to live without her. No child should have to live in fear at school.