Stranger grabs 8-year-old child in Ocean Beach leaving him traumatized
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 27 ต.ค. 2024
- A father is concerned about safety in Ocean Beach after surveillance video showed a man trying to kidnap his son.
The incident was captured on video on Friday night in front of the father while the family was finishing dinner outside the new deli they just opened on Newport Avenue.
Adrian Villanueva says that he and his family were on the patio enjoying dinner and his eight-year-old son was playing on the sidewalk when a man came up from behind the boy, grabbed him and tried to pull him across the street.
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You MUST press charges. I thought the state could do that, as kidnapping is illegal.
The thing is, it's California
@@mozzarellamaniac6300 I thought this only happens in third world country. Oh, California is already a Third World Country/State.
@@anodize1 I'm afraid things will get worse if nothing is done
The father said he will be pressing charges to protect the people from that unhinged, dangerous man. 2:37
@@anodize1Thanks to Governor Nuisance
This clearly isn't his first victim. He should be in prison.
@@stumpel54 shut up democrat pedo.
You spelled dead wrong
@@stumpel54 bet it's not your first time either.
Why is this clearly not his first victim? He did not exactly look like a kidnapping expert.
That makes no sense.
Stop having compassion for these strange people ...
He wasn’t a pervert, he was a retailer of children, huge distinction. I’d dare say a seller of kids is worse.
@@blak3brutus229He's probably both!!
He's white so you have to tread carefully with the labels. He'll be out in a few days anyway, typical.
This is the democratic mind and they can't hide it. These people will all empathize with the criminal.
And you really believe that? Lmao holy shit society is doomed. @@blak3brutus229
That bystander is gold. He is not playing.
He faught harder than the boys dad!
Yeah that was really weird and then dads first inclination is to Not press charges….turn your dad card in@@lawannalw
@@lawannalwexactly what I was thinking
SAN DIEGO DONT PLAY WITH THIS SHXT
@@BlackShinobi.no where plays that shit not even in the middle of buttfk no where
They are brazen. Child trafficking is rampant. Do not excuse anyone who attempts child abduction.
Sad part is he will likely be let go anyway
SAD 😞 BUT SO TRUE.🤬🫣🫨😵💫
Exactly!! Look at Hillary Clinton, Obama, Oprah and most celebrities. Be careful everyone and protect your children. The media is not talking about the thousands of children being abducted just look at what they did in Hawaii. The media stopped covering that story
Like Hillary! Be careful
@@javiruiz8365🤡
The state MUST press charges because child is a MINOR !! And the kidnapper did NOT surrender easily !! HUGE threat to us all !!!!
He did press charges
Let’s say he didn’t press charges the kidnapper would still be charged by the state. So no matter what kidnapper is going to jail for a long time. But this lender is so fuckin stupid, he just tried to kidnap your son and had bad intentions with him and you wouldn’t press charges, good prime can be really fuckin stupid to
the state is involved at the highest level, watch the doco called Imperium (2018) on child sex trafficking. hillary clinton is one of them
If charges are not filed that means this was sick publicly for his business.
It's California, they'll probably drop all the charges, the guy probably didn't even go to jail, and the bystanders that restrained him will get sued and lose in civil court.
Shout out to bystander passing by and immediately turned to help get the boy. ❤
Bystanders
Why does the father have the decision to file charges? It is VERY clear that this is an attempted kidnapping and assault with intent etc. charge. Why aren't the Police charging this predator?
Charges were laid.
Civil matter since thankfully father was right there. He is pressing charges. My question is if he's wanted by Fugitive Task Force on felonies.. why didn't they just take him. Maybe they did? Gotta love partial stories put out by news
He doesn’t. The state does. But people think they have to press charges for them to stick so that’s why cops ask. It’s really just asking if you want to cooperate as a witness. Without witness cooperation, cases fall through. That’s why R. Kelly didn’t go to jail back in 2006, because the girl he peed on refused to testify.
@cjd5255 lmao it's not a civil matter.
@@cjd5255 It's not a civil matter. It's a criminal matter. A criminal matter involves some type of harmful actions. A kidnapping is a harmful action, therefore it's a criminal matter.
As to the previous felonies, the video clearly says that was in 2018 and that he was captured for that in the past. After being captured, he no longer would have been wanted.
Your human side is WRONG! that guy needs to be jailed
if you watched the full video he said hes pressing charges cuz the kid was scared "today was my kid tomorrow could be someone elses"
@@wiifii5.071correct but initially he said he didn’t want to press
charges
A real dad would switch to beast mode quick. 😂
@@Shooter2314 But isn't that human? TO have different conflicted feelings? People are not just born lucky into the correct positions. I would rather people rationalize themselves into the conclusion that they have.
@@yolooo5081 please stop you tool. Go fly a rainbow flag
That guy was not missing his children, he’s a child predator.
So called MAPs (because calling them predators or p3d0s hurts their feelings) are a protected and celebrated class in CA.
He wasn’t a pervert, he was a retailer of children, huge distinction. I’d dare say a seller of kids is worse.
@EazyAhworukuh He wasn’t a pervert, he was a retailer of children, huge distinction. I’d dare say a seller of kids is worse.
🤦♂️ ~ Why is it that the comment section is filled with extremely simplistic people? The most probable answer is not that he is a trafficker or even a predator, it’s probably that he’s insane it was going through some delusion that he was a family man. When I see people in the comment section saying maybe he’s a trafficker, who is obviously so bad at his job that he tried to kidnap a kid that’s old enough to scream right in front of several adults, That’s being pretty bad at the job.b
Or he works with people that are child trafficking
This guy is nuts if he thinks that man didn't have vile intentions for that boy
Seriously 😳
I agree!! That is nuts they believed that predator
How do you choose the guy who grabbed your kid over your own kid? What??
Slow father to say the least! 🤦🏽♀️
The kid understood the intention behind what happened. His instinct tells him he doesn't want to return to the area & be preyed upon again. Understanding the threat is Not PTSD, it's self-preservation.
He attempted a kidnapping out in the open around the child's family. That's bold af. The police need to interview him extensively because he knows where some missing kids are located for sure.
That's what I'm saying. It's wild .u know he crazy .did that right in front of them like it wasn't nothing at all.
Im sure it was hust opportunity. He probably didnt know. Thats why he said this is ny kid. So people would back off. But yes still very bold
I love the random guy who stepped in to help the dad, God Bless him.
At least three people stepped in. Counting is hard!
PRESS CHARGES!!! This man had vile intentions…do not listen to a FALSEHOOD. You’re definitely helping prevent another family and child he could target later. I appreciate seeing other community members STOP 🛑 him. 🤔⚖️
The same God who blesses the 1,000 children who die everyday from starvation? Or a different one?
@@Adelicows The comment refers specifically to the first random guy who stepped in before anyone else. Reading comprehension is hard for some people.
@@AdelicowsNo one can count, but you. You got 'em. Or, you're being pedantic.
Thank you for all the people who helped them.
My city ❤
And let him go to continue offending...
@@SundayCookingRemixYour city promotes pedophilia? Wow. You're so proud, or full of PRIDE? SICK.
Spanish people. They don't play with theirs 😂
@@RockyIsMenobody plays with theirs...
Imagine your own father not pressing charges on the man who tried to kidnap you. Glad he changed his mind in the end.
That was shocking. Not pressing charges, or talking a child out of pressing charges, is betrayal. A parent is supposed to protect you, stand up for you, be in your corner. My ex husband's sister was molested as an adolescent/early teen. The offender admitted it to the police and they were charging him for what he did to her and one of her cousins. My ex father in law talked her into dropping charges because the offender had married into the family. I will forever remember my stomach turning when my ex FIL justified it to me, right to my face, "he's family". My ex SIL was already suffering from mental health issues due to the molestation, but when her father pressured her to drop charges, it did a number on her head and she spent many months in the psych hospital. She's never really recovered. Apparently the family applied the same pressure to her cousin, who wound up in even worse shape mentally. Awful family; basically the eat their own type. One of the reasons I'm divorced was to keep my daughter away from them.
The way the father responded to his child being picked up and almost kidnapped was very odd. He seemed hesitant to react smh.
lol wth y’all talking about? He clearly says he’s pressing charges
@@urahara_card_shop and they clearly said they’re glad he changed his mind!!!! READ ffs
@@mahoganysoulll reading is overrated 😊
stay home all day everyday. problem solved.
That’s what kids already have to do and it’s really pissing me off that this is the number one reason why this generation pretty much have to be the way they are now 🤦🏾♂️ mfs shouldn’t have to worry about these people and I know it’s not all kids that are staying inside I know that but a lot of kids can’t experience what we did growing up but of bs like this 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
Well said fellow NEET, lmao
@@oluwasanmiorekunrin8882stuff like this was happening back in the day as well.
@@jkeelin1_ I’d think it’s more prominent now then back then I feel like back then it was way easier it but it happened way more now
@@oluwasanmiorekunrin8882 kidnappings with children have actually decreased in recent years. I think people only feel like it’s more prominent now because of videos like this we see on social media.
Damn, so many people actually helped! This restores some of my faith in humanity. You see so many videos of bad things happening to people and no one helping.
Yeah it’s great ppl help & all but then feeling sorry for the criminal trying to steal you child??? Wtf dude. Also why you letting him play on a busy sidewalk when you’re supposed to be eating???
Ikr😢. Am so happy. But more people should show such support ❤ when someone is in trouble
🤣
@itsdtxjd California sucks so bad but San Diego is very community based. It’s because people from all over the United States and other countries have transplanted there, so everyone looks out for each other. If I were to ever move back to California, that’s the only place I would live. It’s so different than the rest of the state ❤️
What person "misses" their kids so much that they decide to kidnap someone else's child??
A predator looking for a easy mark.
I had someone use this line on my kids' dad and I 30 years ago! My twins were two at the time and we decided to take them to their first movie. We went during a time of day when there wouldn't be many people there. The boys were a bit restless, but stayed well behaved. I think there were maybe three other people there. There was a man there who was alone and he came and sat just a couple of seats away, which seemed weird to me. Within a couple of minutes he started asking if he could help us out by holding one of the babies. I said no, of course. Then he used this line, that he missed his family. My first husband was a very big, tall man and he stood up and told the guy to leave. He listened and left. We were very young and the whole thing scared us to death. It's shocking how brazen these people can be!
A lying manipulator!!!
La Llorona, especially in that area because there is a lot of water. Aside from a mythical ghost, a disgusting low life sicko!
this happens.... and remember they made a whole marvel movie about this.
Easy mark??? The dude tried to take him in a public area in front of his parents. The dude was obviously not well in the head and I love that this man saw that and decided not to press charges
Don't feel sorry for him. People need to put their emotions aside and use common sense.
he's an illegal alien
liberals dont have any, "truth over facts" JoKKKE BiDumb
If you finish the video, he says he decided to press charges cause he didn’t want it to happen to someone else’s kid…
@@Luther_Luvin_Brad Right and good but his first reaction was to let this creep go. You can feel sorry for him, sure, maybe we should because his life ain't gonna be a happy one, that's for sure.
@throwaway3873it happens a plenty of CVC grounds to put criminals law sue
The lady who jumped in while taking off her jacket speaks volumes of a mother’s love. She was ready to throw down!
Who?
@arianamontenegro5528 Just some random lady taking her sweater off while helping lmfao this dude needs to write a book cause he made that scene more then it is.
That's what I noticed too! Haha she took off her jacket in case she was covered in dudes blood. I was wondering if it was mother or an auntie. She was ready to go hard. I know this is Cali but that's Brooklyn style street fighting!
Simping I see🚨
@@jrsantoyo9028I can waist on pointless script writing with brain dead scenes
What a pervert. He was not trying to kidnap the boy because he missed his family.
...if they fall for that story they ought to get a lifetime supply of dum-dum suckers.
Definitely not on the family thing. If he did miss his family or is lonely then why not go work with kids or the elderly if he isn’t a pred. Idc if he’s mentally ill or not….he would did something bad to that kid had he been successful.
He should never be let out of prison cause it’s too risky.
He wasn’t a pervert, he was a retailer of children, huge distinction. I’d dare say a seller of kids is worse.
@@blak3brutus229. I think that’s probably it, he’s selling to human traffickers.
Not that I believe him, but if that's what missing his family makes him do, he has more victims at home.
Thank goodness for the other people helping getting the child back, they did what was needed
Yea because the dad was barely doing anything😒
The useless dad felt sorry for the man that was about to traffic his son half way across the world to sell to some rich Cuban diplomat
@@budgonstopCANELOthat Dad is pathetic he barely even put any effort into grabbing his kid and he had sympathy for a guy that possibly could have assaulted and murdered his son. What the hell is wrong with this so-called father?
Bottom Line is You Don't Touch Other People's Children. Period.
The dad clearly needed their help I would’ve dealt with that man myself if I were a father and that happened in front of me he wouldn’t live to have charges pressed on him
He has more compassion than sense.
thats not compassion. its stupidity and puts other ppl, in this case other kids, at risk.
Amen
At the end of the video, he stated that he was pressing charges!
That’s the definition of a Californian
You try to take my child? You just lost your “being able to walk” privileges.
More like bieng able to live privileges ☠️ I'm not even close to exaggerating either. 100% facks
but the kidnapper white person so maybe he run to israel,pedophile haven,u know,white have privelege to free from crime and most of them run to israel for protection
More like losing your life privileges I'd say 🤷🏻♀️
@gavinhaynes5632 sure Rambo.
Lol another "if this were me, I'd go full Rambo".
Weird how IRL this never happens. Weird how tough guys like you ONLY exist in anonymous comment boards lol.
THANK YOU to the bystanders who helped him get his son back!!!
If it was my son, that kidnapper would have needed an ambulance.., or a coroner.
Father of the year
Coroner.
Yeah well then you would be taken from your kid's side because in places like CA it is illegal to fight back. Criminals in CA have more rights than any law abiding citizen. If you show the willingness to protect your children you will be dealt with by the state in the most sever of fashions.
@@drtonyfoochie4895 You are so pathetic. You parrots all say the same thing and don't know 💩You probably aren't even from here, weirdo.
@@drtonyfoochie4895 that's why I'll never live on the West Coast haha, or down south
I'm glad that the bystanders were there to help because the father wasn't giving much of a fight to free his son.
Yeah, it was rather lackluster. All I could think of is that the guy was actually handling the kid rather nicely so maybe the father thought he was just playing.
right?? wtf was that poor attempt
Or it wasn't real.
When your suddenly in a situation like that sometimes your mind just doesn't accept the worst possible thing is happening in front of you and you don't react the way you wish you should have. People often forget that as well as Fight or Flight there is also Friend or Freeze.
@@MsSarahJosephineThank for being the adult in the thread. 🙏🏿🙌🏾
Loved how quickly people jumped in to help.
Give that kid some counseling, hand combat lessons, and lots of hugs
yes love your comment
Hand combat lessons won't do shit against some 60kg heavier than you
@@kromysol2189Couldn’t hurt
And also give the father some testosterone supplements. Christ...
@kromysol2189 at the least it will boost the kids confidence while recovering from this.
Adrian Villanueva - Today it was my kid, Tomorrow it could be someone else's kid that's why I'm pressing charges. Best quote I've heard in a long time keep him locked up keep your hands off children you leave 'em alone
It was lame. It should have been, "He's a predator and tried to kidnap my child right in front of me and he needs to be in prison.".
@@Five0Five literally the same thing he said.
The saddest part of this story is this guy will slip through the system and be out in a couple years...if he even serves any time. He'll be back on the streets and back to hunting because *this type of guy doesn't change...nor will he stop* because our legal system allows him to continue...the system is broken with zero hope of it ever being fixed.
@@LifesPeachy321 this is why the world is in more and more chaotic state now 💔
@@oluwasanmiorekunrin8882 Agree!
That guy has a long rap sheet and if he’s released he could target someone else’s kid. As a repeat offender and known felon he needs to be locked up in prison for life 🤨
His criminal days go back to 2016.
@@corgising5606 That's only what's documented! A guy like this has been trouble his whole life!
@@thethrillofpattaya8404exactly
i hate living in a world where criminals have more rights than everyone else
FACTS!!!💯🙌👍👏🤬🫵🏻🤬🫵🏻🤬🫵🏻🤬🫵🏻
Im so glad by standers helped! Im glad hes pressing charges. No one deserves a free pass when trying to kidnap a child.
The people that helped are really heroes. That first man tried to fight him and the woman took off her jacket and went in wow! Im so glad the boy wasnt taken. God is good!
"i miss my kid"
You actually feel for that? Criminals are slick.
this kidnapper was smart
He did in in front of a camera and witnesses without a mask or sunglasses on. He's not smart.@@dangzero
@@JosephSneep my neighbors been waking me up lately, I'm a little slow right now.
Yes like WTF
And people are stupid.
Props to the first man who helped
The dad was so calmed the whole time, thank god the other dude didn't hesistate.
Props to the guy walking by in the black jacket. If the father was alone he would have had a problem defending his family.
Exactly.
Thank you all the people that stepped up instead of just watching or filming 👏
I am glad the kid is not taken. Kudos to the bystanders who helped save this family.
Bro, he's too nice. I'm glad he's pressing the charges
He said he not pressing charges , where does it say he is
@@Sook995At the end of the video
Naahhhh even a very nice person not gonna let this slide. Use common sense.
Seems the bystanders were fighting harder for the child than Dad was. If it were my kid, that predators face would have looked a lot different in his mugshot than what it did.
Imagine if the helpful bystanders did not step in, father looked like he would've let it all happen...he would've been seen as more criminal than the criminal...if I was the kid, not going anywhere with Dad anymore.
Part 2
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I mean he wasn't moving like an action star but he also was one of the first to leave the view of the camera in pursuit
Were you not paying attention?? That was an old mugshot.
What else did you miss when passing your judgement
@@TheBinklemNetworkexactly 💯
We see several heroes rise to the occasion. Thank you for being selfless and protecting your community!
Vig-ilante(s), not heroes. They had no authority to hold him any more than those homeowners had the authority to hold Ahmawd Arbery
@@whodoesntlikesurfingEver heard of citizen's arrest? Maybe do a little reading and educate yourself before commenting. 🤷♀️
@@whodoesntlikesurfing If some strangers rescued my child from a snatcher they are heroes in my book.
@@Autumnal78 There's no such thing. How'd "citizen's arrest" work out for Hannah Payne? Why is she still behind bars if citizen's arrest is legal? And there's no law against defending yourself from a citizen's arrest, just an FYI. "Good Samaritans" have no police authority or police protections, period. No one can stop you but sworn law enforcement
@@Autumnal78 There's no such thing. Look at how "citizen's arrest" worked out for Ahmawd Arbery's subduers. I love when people use "citizen's arrest" as a justification for violence
Ugh how blatant this creep was. Thank you all who stepped in to protect the kid and save him!!
Power in number, bystanders helping makes a world of a difference.
If that was my son
That man would never walk again. Thank God you were there Dad !
For sure! If that were my son the guy would have been in bad shape by the time police arrived.
You forget what state this happened? The father is LUCKY they didn’t give this guy a beat down; by now, the district attorney would be looking to press charges on the FATHER for use excessive force and unlawful detention of a ‘minor attracted person’‼️🤨😂
@@myownboss1 San Diego thankfully is (still) a little less woke than that. We were fully Red until a couple of elections ago. We're now purple (with the main city part being blue).
you spelled breathe wrong
@@myownboss1well suspects shouldn't be treated with more force than is necessary to subdue them. That's true for law enforcement and civilians. Once someone is no longer a threat any further force is excessive. It's not up to civilians, cops, or security guards to be judge jury and executioner.
Death penalty is now law for convicted sex offenders of children 12 years old and under in Florida. Remember that.
Thank you.
As it should be federally.
Perfect. That needs to be implemented in every state
Nice
What?! Is this something they just recently passed? I'm from Florida as well and I just haven't heard this yet. I know our governor has been passing a lot of laws lately but I haven't seen this one yet. I've been saying they need to do this for years now
Good on the dad for pressing charges. That man was clearly disturbed.
Its doesn’t matter if he’s disturbed. He must be handled accordingly.
@@alf4foyes he did........
The father said he wasn't going to press charges. Smh.
Typical Californian and typical democrat voter.
Yeah, and prison is definetly going to help him get the mental health assistance he needs -_-
I am so fed up with Crazies being allowed to roam the streets here.
That father went A LOT easier on that guy than I would have. That dude would have been lucky if the hospital could help him after he tried to take my kid
Same mind. They empathize with each other. The father is probably also a pervert.
@@AvoidThem-l1w jesus... he said he pressed charges at the end because he doesn't want him to do that to another child. what an insane accusation you just made
@@indieMo5952 He must be a Right Wing religious nutcase trying to get some rush by spreading hate towards minorities by accusing them of being peedos.
The dad is a covert narc, small slights like this over and over again is death by 1000 covert cuts to his own child. Statements and attitudes like this, even when they "change their mind later" are absolutely picked up on by the child. It profoundly undermines their sense of esteem and self worth. Leads to suicides, serious health issues and huge social issues and more trauma down the road. This is what it's like to be raised by a covert narc parent.
Why would you not press charges ? Now someone else’s kid will be in danger.
The dad is a covert narc, small slights like this over and over again is death by 1000 covert cuts to his own child. Statements and attitudes like this, even when they "change their mind later" are absolutely picked up on by the child. It profoundly undermines their sense of esteem and self worth. Leads to suicides, serious health issues and huge social issues and more trauma down the road. This is what it's like to be raised by a covert narc parent.
he did press charges did you even finish watching the video
@@Jessica-yx5wushut up, stop copy pasting this same nonsense comment everywhere, it's stupid.
@@Jessica-yx5wudang. wtf happen in your life to end up like this
@@Jessica-yx5wu You are insane.
The fact that he tried to do it in front of strangers is crazy. Especially not assuming that man and woman might be his parents.
Drugs
@@microbios8586drugs and he's a child predator 😢
Drugs
The stranger had a better reaction and call to action then the actual father.
Props to the concerned citizens stepping in
The white girl took off her Jean jacket! I knew shit was gonna get real! Great job everyone!
They should mind their own business instead of attacking the guy, if police officers swarmed someone like that you'd say it's brutality. Let the father and police take care of the suspect, no need to take the law into your own hands
Why are you defending the perv? He woulda got away if it wasn't for the concerned citizens stepping in. @@whodoesntlikesurfing
Oh brother 🙄@@whodoesntlikesurfing
Found the pedophilia: @@whodoesntlikesurfing
He felt sorry for the man who grabbed his son, and considered not pressing charges
That’s insane
Because he is naive, and didn't grasp the depravity of the suspect and real intentions.
He needs to think of others and definitely press charges
Because the father is probably also a pervert. I found that in San Diego. Even the families bring predators into their homes.
@bestypower7850, sorry but your hearing is defective…..he said that “ he wants his son to feel safe this is why he WILL BE PRESSING charges”.
I know he has an accent but sheesh , put your ears to the SPEAKER and LISTEN. Americans unable to comprehend simple English 🙄.
If the courts won't fix these people the public needs to help out.
He felt compassion for someone who was going to take away his child from him forever. His child would have been hurt and either abandoned or killed.
One has to wonder, how many other children have been victimized by this man. Thank God the child is safe, yet sadly traumatized.
It's crazy to have EMPATHY for someone who would take your child in front of you. 😮
He wasn’t a pervert, he was a retailer of children, huge distinction. I’d dare say a seller of kids is worse. 1:57
The dad is a covert narc, small slights like this over and over again is death by 1000 covert cuts to his own child. Statements and attitudes like this, even when they "change their mind later" are absolutely picked up on by the child. It profoundly undermines their sense of esteem and self worth. Leads to suicides, serious health issues and huge social issues and more trauma down the road. This is what it's like to be raised by a covert narc parent.
@@Jessica-yx5wu you drunk?
Once a predator always a predator!
yup, we gotta make a stand or this will keep happening. Soon it will be someone you care for.... if it doesn't change.
Remember Jeffery Dahmer
And Gase
White
Males ☕️☕️☕️☕️☕️☕️
People can repent, but this guy isn’t innocent.
Props to the man with the jacket and hat who was just walking by and turned back to help the father out to get the child!!!! 💪🏼🙌🏼👏🏼
That dude would have been in terrible shape by the time cops arrived...
💯💯💯🙈🙊🙉✌️✌️
Cops cannot be everywhere and always there at the right place and at the right time.
This is the perfect example of white male privilege if that kidnapper child predator would have been black or brown he probably would have not gotten out of that one alive no matter how much he cried about missing his family only white males can get away with that
You can defend yourself from a citizen's arrest, only reason that guy didn't was because he was a tweaker, you could tell he was under the influence and not thinking properly
@@whodoesntlikesurfing
A citizen can legally end the perp on the spot, cops cannot.
Thank you so much for pressing charges. You are saving another kid.
HOW YOU FEEL SORRY FOR A KIDNAPPER?
Poor kid, he's got a soft fruitcake for a father.
You don't know what someone is actually going through. The man might truly be mentally ill. Of course, in that case you have to press charges so the guy can get a court ordered mental health evaluation.
@@damienmitchell1637 So What?? He Tried to Kidnap a Child!! He Needs to go to Prison!! Duh!! 😠😠😠😠😠
I think he was a tweaker, he wasn't trying to hold the kid hostage like you see in movies, the guy just needed some cash and thought the father would give him money in order to let the kid go, he obviously wasn't thinking straight. So charge the suspect of course, but no need for lifelong imprisonment like people want him to go to prison for
@@damienmitchell1637idiot.
That poor child!😢 thank you to those who helped the dad ❤
Can't even enjoy dinner out anymore. Poor child. I hope he gets therapy.
I AGREE! 😭 SO SAD!! My kids are adults now but this is EXACTLY WHY I STAY HOME AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE!! CRAZY TOWN IS EVERYWHERE TODAY!!🤬🙄🫣🫨😵💫👿
We love going in San Diego, it’s very safe. Of course there’s instances like this, it’s a messed up world, but not going to keep my family locked up indoors or afraid to go out this is the life we’re dealt. Could be much worse
How the F could you even consider not pressing charges?
Liberal
At 2:40 he says he is pressing charges.
He might be illegal.
@@Thaddeus-ml8if he owns a business i don't think he is lol
Illegals helping illegals even if they're criminals
Glad he changed his mind about pressing charges. Don’t fall for these sob stories, people.
it happens believe it or not its just people like you that automatically think nasty thoughts homeless people have or had families to...
@@wiifii5.071Who says he’s homeless?
@@wiifii5.071 the heck? Thats too damn bad. My nieces and nephews are all “grown now” and i miss them too, doesnt mean i go around trying to steal children.
@@corgising5606 he looks homeless but idk no one said he is or is not but i made my comment based on what the perp was saying most females who try n kidnapp like this also claim something similar and were also homeless so i kind of believe hes more screwed in the head over losing his family and being homeless probably doesnt help... but thats just my 2 cents
@@wiifii5.071 I understand what you’re saying, but he has been arrested before, starting in 2016. And also, since I’ve been lied to in the past by people attempting to steal from me or someone else, I never trust a thief.
Who tf even hesitates pressing charges on someone who tried to kidnap their child?! Being too soft on criminals will be very bad for normal society.
So he felt sorry for the man who tried to kidnap his son? Didn't want to press charges, because the poor kidnapper "missed his family"? Now, when the kidnapper steals someone else's child and does unspeakable things before un-aliving them, it's on him. His poor kid is traumatized, but he felt sorry for the guy who would potentially murder his child.
...Seriously? Did you even bother watching to the end?
He ended up pressing charges, for essentially the same reason you mentioned. So... Yeah.
@@ticklemebreathless1394The fact he even considered not doing so is incredibly disturbing.
Dad was a pendjeo to think about not charging
@@JakeTurbineyou clearly don't own a dictionary, its not disturbing its called human emotions.
@@JakeTurbineExcuse me, but the father, an immigrant, has more human decency in his little toe than you, or any of the 21(so far) that have liked this comment, have in your small-brained bodies. You could learn something from that father. He looks for the good in people, and you persecute him for that? You are why this country is going to hell.
I'm baffled. As a mom, that predator is getting punched in the face immediately! Dad had a clear shot!!!
He was in shock that it was even happening.
If you've never been in that position yourself, you can't really say definitively what you would do.
Hindsight in 20/20 and you're looking at it from an outside point of view.
@@x_Punisher_x I have been in a similar situation, and acted quickly. As a parent aware of the multitude of possible dangers, you must be on alert for your child's safety.
EXACTLY!!
He looks older and like he can’t move well maybe he’s injured
Stomped to critical condition for sure.
Something is wrong with this man for even taking 1 second to consider pressing charges or not. If not for your own kid, which should be priority number one, for the sake of the community in general. Not to mention he was moving way too slow and with way too little energy in attempt of saving his kid. It shouldnt even be up to him to file charges or not. How tf does attempted kidnapping of a child not get you automatically charged. Absolutely insane
The dad is a covert narc, small slights like this over and over again is death by 1000 covert cuts to his own child. Statements and attitudes like this, even when they "change their mind later" are absolutely picked up on by the child. It profoundly undermines their sense of esteem and self worth. Leads to suicides, serious health issues and huge social issues and more trauma down the road. This is what it's like to be raised by a covert narc parent.
@@Jessica-yx5wucovert narc?
Unfortunately it's up to the individual harmed to report and press charges. The government isn't your friend or daddy. It doesn't care about anyone.
You know, at first I had compassion for him (the dad, NOT the kidnapper). Thought well maybe he was in shock and that everybody was being a little too hard on him. Then I thought about if it was my daughter in the situation and I wouldn't think twice before jumping on the guy and fighting til my child was safe. And I'm a 100 pound woman. And the thought of not pressing charges would have never crossed my mind. Something definitely off about him. And I hate to say that because he's a victim here, but idk just such a weird reaction.
He was more scared than anything. Worthless
I hate this father so much!
That he was ever considering even not pressing charges for a moment is just the epitome of weakness and bad fatherhood.
I salute the brave souls who helped instead of recording!
God Bless you
So it's okay to take the law into your own hands? Two wrongs make a right?
@@whodoesntlikesurfing
Yeah it's ok to STOP A KIDNAPPING YA FREAKING MORON
Did he not see the footage of him grabbing his son?? He groped his sons privates.. u can see him slide his hand down the front of him. He wasn’t missing his son… he was thinking the worst. Pls press charges against this child predator!!!
Hold your statements before finishing the vid, its only 2 minutes long. He went ahead with pressing charges…
He was trying to kiss poor boy
Thank God for people willing to help. Glad your son is safe.
That creep needs to be in prison before he hurts a child! Glad your son is safe!
Kidnapping of children should have a sentence of capital punishment.
You cannot have compassion on child predators.
No one tries to kidnap a child because they miss their family. He’s obviously lying to convince everyone that he’s not a predator. HE IS A LYING PREDATOR!!!
It’s very likely he was lying. I don’t doubt he was high on something or even mentally I’ll though
What if its a parent kidnapping his own kid because his ex won't let them see their kid. Thats 1 way. Im notcsaying its the case here just saying there are certain times some1 does kidnap a kid because they miss them
@@juanorozco1971oh stop.
@@juanorozco1971Do you think they would brainstorm first if he is lying or not, get tf out
That's true
I’m so glad bystanders took action. I hope they get the kid some therapy.
I really don't understand this father. And who cares if he wants to press charges or not. This is a crime that the state needs to step up and take over. This is a federal offense.
That man should press charges. He didn't try kidnapping him because he missed his own child
Aint no such thing as kidnapping a kid because you miss your family. He doesn't deserve the fathers sympathy.
Thank you good people of OB for stepping in!
Good job Liberal Woke OB residents? Look around its a crime infested toilet! Vote Blue and hope for the Best!
So it's okay to take the law into your own hands and "step in"? When homeowners tried to stop Ahmawd Arbery, people said it was wrong and that they should wait for the police.
@@whodoesntlikesurfing You manufactured hysteria is laughable. They stopped a kidnapping and there is no correlation between that and a murder of an innocent man.
@@genewest8426 So in other words, you enjoy cherry picking when it's okay for self-proclaimed Karen(s) to go around "stopping" people (aka attacking them) instead of letting the police deal with it, good to know. That shows your manufactured hysteria about the Ahmawd Arbery case was just that....politics. Not actual outrage
@@whodoesntlikesurfing Kid,run along, there are adults in the thread . You seem to be lacking critical thinking skills.There's no correlation between the two subjects,none whatsoever. Now go bother someone else with your poseur diatribe. Life is too short for me to deal with bs, I am sure you will respond, but I won't even look,it appears you are a kook shoulder hopper thinking you matter,nope!
The lack of urgency on the dads part has me infuriated.
That's shock his mind is busy saying "what the f£%&" for his body to act. Plus it's right there in the middle of the street that guy (kidnapper)wasn't getting far, which shows he wasn't rational in making that choice. Plus what happens if the kidnapper has a knife ready then the kids in more danger of the irrational kidnapper panics.
So you had a lot more to say to the dad than the kidnapper. Your morals are reversed.
@@RejectHumanityReturn2Monke isnt that right to support and possibly explain to Someone else claiming how they would of dealt with the situation, when its AFTER the fact you don't KNOW how you would react during it. i was speaking to the actions of a father over the kidnapper who you cant predict. and why should i put more effort into a creep that hopefully finds himself in a tiny room alone for a very long time..
Thank those bystanders for jumping in to help rescue the boy, a lot of people nowadays are too quick to open their phone and record for social media...
Lucky the dad was right there
Imagine times you are busy for a second and you're not paying attention.... Scary shit. It happens to all parents. We gotta end this in the country. LIFE in prison for attempted and full kidnapping.
No he is lucky the bystanders came to help the dad didn’t even try to fight him or hold onto him.
@@BlazedBob yeah that's right. What if you left for 30 seconds to wash your hands or quickly get a drink? It's too late then isn't it. I remember when I lost my youngest son in the mall one day. Boy did I freak out! I went straight into the men's bathroom and searched for him, I didn't care what they thought, it was an emergency. Turns out he was doing some shopping of his own - the security guard found him in a book store thank God. The 3 minutes he was gone felt like 3 hours
@@BlazedBobu do realize the government u vote for has been supporting the sex slave so trying to get rid of people like this is impossible when they run you and everyone in this damn world
Usually Suspects
I’m glad everyone came together
Diabolical , God Bless that parent for being there and saving his son.
What if the father was on his phone or stepped away? Blessed reminder to all... Watch yr children not your phone! This is a good parent.
Disgusting. No, he wasn't missing his family. Who in their right mind grabs someone else's kid like that???
Even IF his story is true, he shouldn’t be out on the street if he’s that delusional (although, it sounds like bullshit.)
Thank God for those who jumped in to help.
Praying for your son. He will be fine. With a loving, reassuring, and protective dad he will overcome this. Keep doing what you are doing, dad. He will learn that although there are scary people in this world, he has people that are there to make sure he is safe. Parents keep your little ones near you! This world is not getting any safer 😢
I commend the father for his compassion, but just because the man said he misses his son, you can't be so quick to believe that!! He could be lying to win sympathy or he could be missing a son because he's an abuser to his own son!
The way everyone helped awe
Why wouldn’t you press charges? That was dumb
He did press charges.
Were we not watching the report where this man was sympathizing with the assailant and only pressed charges AFTER his son asked and was traumatized.
WHAT@@mims4085
@@mims4085you miss the point of the comment. Why wouldn’t you press charges regardless even if his kid wasn’t traumatized? It is kidnapping for Pete’s sake! Who wants to pity a kidnapper????
@@cheynebutler6123I assume they thought the man was mentally ill or just a homeless crazy person and not an actual kidnapper etc. Sort of like how the crazies who punch people in the face aren’t actual boxers or fighters. But either way I’m glad he pressed charges. We need asylums opened again.
Me checking the contents to see who else is talking about the calmness of the father
To even think about not pressing charges? HELL NO!!!
It's great to see how everybody got involved to help protect the kid.
His reaction was so delayed 🤦🏻♂️. I was getting anxiety just watching act like it wasn’t that bad.
He was taking his time, as if he having small argument with him rather than his son being taken away
The dad is a covert narc, small slights like this over and over again is death by 1000 covert cuts to his own child. Statements and attitudes like this, even when they "change their mind later" are absolutely picked up on by the child. It profoundly undermines their sense of esteem and self worth. Leads to suicides, serious health issues and huge social issues and more trauma down the road. This is what it's like to be raised by a covert narc parent.
That guy was lucky all of the people involved were compassionate. I would have freaked out if that was my son. That was purely disgusting and that guy will do it again if he gets the chance.