You Took It, You Pay
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 6 ต.ค. 2024
- The plaintiff says she dated and lived with the defendant until she discovered he was actually married when his wife - the co-defendant - reached out and called her a homewrecker. She’s suing her ex and his wife for property and emotional distress. The defendants claim they were separated but later reconciled. They’re countersuing for storage fees and emotional distress.
Look at him standing there looking stupid 🙄😂
@Elle Amarí 😂
😂🤣😂🤣 I needed that laugh. Thank you!
You took the words right out of my mouth! 😂😂😂
AF
Hahaha I'm laughing so hard right now.This comment had me on the floor
Them hugging at the end shows how fed up they are with this man's mess 😂
😂😂😂😂😂
What man? I didn’t see one.
@@NC-wf4ki that’s why military let him go, they couldn’t make him a man 😆
@@NC-wf4ki 🎯🎯indeed!
And it wasnt a quick hug. The wife had an embracing moment. The wife is fed up! It could be she saw tge light!
Baby your HUSBAND did this to you. That woman didn’t do shit to you. That hug was respectable though
Yes but did see her eyes shift?
Glad they see its him, and don't even waste yall time fighting over him
Chile I wouldn't couldn't . I saw that shift in them eyes to
Sho was! Very respectful and noble.
I thought the hug was creepy but maybe they needed that.
He didn’t want his family back he ain’t have no where to go
exactly
Big facts! He was whack!!
Exactlllllyyyyyyy! Got kicked out of the military..things went wrong with the jump off now you want your family back...gtfoh
That part
Facts.
LMMFAO! when ol boy said "he realized he wanted his family" and judge Mathis said "let's realize about her furniture first"😂😂😂bruuuuuuh that shit had me rolling💀💀
I love judge mathis I wish judge mathis would clowned his ass
🤣🤣🤣
Hell yeah had to let my wife hear tht 😂
They always realize when they fall down and need help🙄🙄
Lol 😂
Whole time his ass was scared to talk because he know he had been lying to his wife too!! Stuttering & shit🤣
U caught that too
Lmao right
😂
She should have socked his ass in the face right there... judge Mathis probably would have let her🤣🤣🤣
I could not do court I stutter tryna say a riddle lol
So the women hugged it out but he stood there like he was suffering from stupid. Great job judge Mathis.
she's also the one who did all the talking at the end lmaooo!
Suffering from stupid. 😂🤣😂.
I’m stealing that expression!😂🤣😭
Suffering from stupid🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 the way I hollered🤣🤣🤣I can’t wait to use this phrase on somebody🤦🏾♀️. Just hope I don’t mess it up by laughing.
I’m with Judge Mathis he would be there standing alone, that’s his mess he created! Dogs love to roam then come back home
Ok 👍
That's an insult to dogs though,...at least dogs are loyal. ;)
Right
Truff
Don't forget she got a baby by another man so she's just as messy and nasty....and fat
This man doesn’t deserve either one of these ladies.
Agreed!!!
After that handshake and hug, he might get hella lucky!
Both ladies were 100 and he is a 0.
*Perfectly stated!*
😳😳😳😳😳😳😳
Doyle said “That should have been a sign for her,The military didn’t want him” He hit the nail on the head with that comment!!
Right Doyle got some black power in him, he always says the right statement.😀
I laughed my tongue out 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I gaaaaaaaaagggggged! 😂😂
He was mad about that too 3:09 😂😂
+he's a dishonorable discharge will bar him from good federal government careers, & sometimes the after life of the VA & all affiliates including; education, VHA $$ for homes, home improvement, & GOD fearing Homegoing Celebration whenever you pass away!!
This man is so damn trifling and he’s stuttering clearly he’s a liar.
Some people stutter
@@mychannel9403 agreed my son stutters but he was trying to lie
Definitely trifling. Laying down with women who look like that 😂
@@queenofthreeprinces854 everyone who stutters aren't lying. We're excited. Are blood races when talking fast. We just need to calm down.
@@54601nina nah yall be lying lmao
Every home wrecking husband need to see this. They create drama and run and hide and have the wife fight the battle. Disgusting. Grow the eff up. The ending made me very proud.
You better say that!!! Have the wife looking stupid because of his lies, then BAM out come receipts! Smh
Stop playing all parties knew what was going on. Neither of these women have self-respect. They keep playing around with boys instead of looking for a real man. And it’s hard for them to find a real man because they don’t attract real men because they have no self-respect.
Soon as women quit dealing with clowns like this instead of getting damaged further these would stop…they hugged it out but back with his ass 😒
Did you miss the part where the girl said his wife got pregnant by another man? I’m not sure but that had to be a reason why they wasn’t together and after all his mess she still stayed by his side. It’s reasons for that not always on the husbands lady’s
@@SuperBRIANWILSON accountability a mf
The worst breakups are the ones where you take a financial loss when it's over. If you dont want me, fine, but don't leave me with less than I had before I met you.
That part
💯💯🙌🏽
Wisdom
Facts 💯
Well put
This man should be ashamed of himself he's just trifling
Military DOOOGGSSS!
Yea, for dating women who look like that 😂
@@DetroitsProduct Really?? Wow, that was a crappy thing to say.
@@mbrn3441 ignore the comment dweller
he's been in multiple comments on these videos starting shit lol
@@simplistikitty yes and by the looks of that pic of his 😬 lol
He was using her he should be ashamed of himself.
Ain't as slick as he thought,
He’s trying to lie to Judge Mathis like he lies to his wife...wrong move homie, LOL
".......I'm not dealing with YOU on this, ma'am! You deal with HIM at HOME" spoken like a REAL man and HUSBAND! I not ONLY love Judge Mathis but I have THE upmost respect for him!
Utmost...
He realized that he wanted his family after he got kicked out of the military
Cause he had no where to go.
Exactly!
The ending gave me HOPE that the wife got a full picture of her husband and his nonsense and will soon be gone....THAT I WANNA HUG YOU AND SHAKE YOUR HAND SHOWED THE POWER THESE WOMEN HAVE
Yes don’t fight over no man ever
@@Sunshine134chick amen
His reaction was like "ahh shit".lol
The wife new was up.. she had a baby by another man.. they both did they own thing..lol she was mature about it at the end. Kudos to her
Did you miss the part where she got pregnant with someone else child 1:34? They belong together lmao
That lady didn't bring you into anything ma'am. YOUR husband brought it into YOUR marriage.
Maybe you missed the part where the plaintive said that the wife had a baby by another man
Anybody else binge watch this show??? I love it, lol.
Been looking at this all day 😂😂
Man I do. I wake up looking for new videos posted and watch it til I go to bed. Im still watching the old ones so havent seen them all yet but I'm sure i will soon. Lol
Yeah. Used to watch Judge Judy too. But I see she's way out of touch with the times & reality of how life out here is now
Yes!!!!! Since day 1 lol
What I think lol
Judge Mathis is right!!! Keep your wife out of drama she didn’t create 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
He was going to let her stand right there and fight bout sumthin he knows he been lying bout but jm shut it down b4 it could even get started. I swear. Some women so stupid. They go fighting everybody but the person responsible. Wtf is she hugging that woman for? She is taking the problem home with her. He didn't want no family back. He didn't have nowhere else to go. His wife probably was doing really good. got all the bills paid. got money saved. His grandmama probably told him how good she was doing. I bet she ain't got shit now.
I’m with judge gotta stand on ya own bs 💯
The women were very mature about it....I loved to see it!
Sadly and all too often, they aren’t mature about who they link up with. 🤷🏾♂️
You gotta be when you built and look like that.
Respectful queens
@@DetroitsProduct I know u not talking tryna put down black women when u look like that...have several seats sir😂😂😂
Yess they was I loved the ending
He been playing that xbox 1 everyday since they delivered it to his momma house !! Lol
I’m some obsessed with this show I dreamt I was riding around my hometown in the Bahamas with Judge Mathis 🥴🥴😂
Lmaooo
Kmlll
Okay but was Doyle there? We need ALL the tea ☕️ sis 😂
@@KPbouj Doyle was not there unfortunately. The car was raggedy too 😂😂😂. I told him I see why he said he deserved a new car cause he really did. He gave my sons a lot of life lessons like he does on the show. We ate good and then he dropped me off at home. It was a good dream!
@@queenofthreeprinces854 😂😂😂 I stay having crazy dreams so I’m just so tickled by this.
How did SHE drag the wife into it? Everything comes around to the husband. There would be no side girl without the husband. So no ma’am SHE did not drag you into anything. Just like judge said 💯
Exactly!
Y’all I promise I didn’t call that lady
. I'm glad that you won!!! :-)I know that you didn't
Amen!
@@nakebaedwards5388 You handled yourself with class.
Doyle!! If the army didn’t want him you shouldn’t want him! 😂🤣
DOYLE!!! LMBO! That man is a fool! LMBO! If the Army didn't want him, that definitely was a sign lol.
That had me 🤣🤣🤣😂
@Nerdy Teddy, when Doyle made that comment home boy 👀 a way he wasn’t feeling that ish @ all!😂😂#staywokeppl✌️
Hahahahahaaaa, the look on the man's face when he said that.
Right 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
He Standing There Looking Like A Damn Fool
Looking like what he is
Naw his "wife" is.😂
I can respect this she wasn't trying to be Shady she thought this man was divorced, and it seems as though once you found out he wasn't she respected their relationship but wanted her stuff
That’s all I really wanted
@@nakebaedwards5388 I feel like he slipped up and said he put it in storage so just in case things didn’t work out with his family. I could be wrong but I thought I heard him say he realized he wanted his family but just in case 🤦🏽♀️
@@Natas_Nico08518 I caught that too
Exactly I’m so proud of her not continuing a relationship with this man after learning he was married. Some women will become his side chick for 30, 40, 50 years 🙄 unbelievable. I’m glad they hugged at the end, amazing sisters both of them
Chile, the wife looking like a whole fool standing there...lawd. 😒
Gul u tickled me
Right cause I damn sure wouldn’t be . that’s your mess handle it on your own. Plus why tf you giving this woman the run around over her stuff
A whole duck🙄
At the end Mr. Trifling was looking like this some BS when they hugged....LMAO
😂😂😂😂
Wife: 😔I would like to shake your hand
Side boo: 🤗I'm gonna hug you
Dude: 🤯
She bouta leave his ass 🤣.... hopefully
💪🏾🥴🥴😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
😆😆😆😆. That hug was weird
Am I the only one trying to figure out why he was kicked out the military?🤦♀️
I’m surprised judge Mathis didn’t ask lmao probably for that cheating
@@thetallgiirl I totally agree! He normally asks! I was waiting too! 😂
Yeah judge Mathis slipped on that one.
Probably found out he was cheating on his wife or he was lazy
@@tamarshawilliams93 you can get kicked out for cheating???
TELEVISED embarrassment to his wife, help it lord😭
And she still standing there trying to defend who contacted who 1st,a moot point. Ma'am, your husband probably put that woman message in your damn inbox. Who da f cares? Talking bout everything but the right thing. Talking to everyone but the right one. Wtf is y'all hugging for? I would not be hugging no woman my husband been laying up with. That damn woman supposed to been moving in with yo man and he stopped answering the phone. Naw. I'm not hugging no damn woman like that. That woman still in love with him. We ain't damn friends and I'm not bout to make her think we are by hugging her.
@@maxxpopp2373She's hugging her because she came in there initially angry with the wife, hence the reason she threw shade immediately in the beginning of her testimony. But they both probably realized by the end of the hearing that Judge Mathis was correct; they have no discourse between them the husband is the problem.
The Husband lied to that woman and told her he was divorced. He then went home and lied to his wife about his correspondence with the plaintiff. He should have sent the woman her stuff in February when it arrived. He should have answered the phone or at least text her back so they could coordinate where to send her belongings. And her property shouldn't have been sitting in his Mother's basement until April. And it certainly should not have been put in storage.
And if the wife can hug a man who pledged his allegiance but betrayed her by dishonoring that pledge by laying up with another woman. A Husband who cared so little for her that he brought her on national TV airing their dirty laundry allowing the nation to put a face to his Wife. She can hug a stranger who made no such promise. A stranger who was only a victim of her Husband's conniving ways.
She gone quit him when they get back home.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂yupppppp!
😆😆😆😆😆😆 And then he gone cry in the car.
No she's not she was still trying to blame the other woman
Doubt it
No she won't
I actually like how she hugged the lady at the end. Definitely something a grown woman does
I respect those young ladies hugging at the end
I’m glad that they hugged each other. These women did not curse at each other. I’m proud of these to have respect for one another. He’s going to do it again.
later realized he wanted to reconcile exactly why you shouldn’t date seperated men .
He was kicked out of the military and wasn't sure what his future would be with this new woman so he jumped on Old dependable... I'm happy to see in the comments that women are finally saying no they're fed up with men who use and abuse them there are very few straight black males available to straight black women and they take advantage of that they know clearly that a woman wants to be with a man... You can always keep a Rolodex of men you do not have to settle
Lol
He told her that he was divorced.
Say that again!!! A separated man is still a married man. But this fool even lied about that.
@@valeriepetty5853 exactly !!👏👏
Two women being respectful!!! Love to see it
So glad the Judge said something about his wife standing up there with him. Ain’t got nothing to do with her. The husband needs to handle this mess.
"And I hope God can... be good to you. He always is."
She was gonna say something shady, but she remembered she on TV.😂😂
He was pathetic.
Still probably is
@@highrawvegan 😂😂😂
He IS pathetic!
I’m glad they hugged. He’s a piece of work.
Doyle with the shade! Should have been a sign if the army didn’t want em 🤣🤣
He’s trifling and she’s ridiculous standing by him boy the desperation 🙄🙄🙄
It's hard out there for a pimp
Say it again
Cuz she’s just as bad as he is having a whole ass baby outside the relationship. They deserve each other!
And then talking shit at the end... Like gurl she jus wanted her stuff
Right. And wtf is she that woman for? I wouldn't be hugging no woman my husband been laying up with. Men like this will help you keep yourself 100 lbs over weight and fighting battles that's not yours. He is the worst type. Must not be nuthin but animals where they from if this what she fighting for. Damn
At the end the wife saying the mistress contacted her first. 🙄 Really that's what you stuck on?
I really didn’t contact her. She found my name and looked me up on Facebook
Right?!? And it wasn't true!
@@nakebaedwards5388 I hope he paid you. Or is it true the show pays the judgement?
@@jennevamadison3803 the show paid me. I’m not sure if he had to pay them back though.
@@nakebaedwards5388 girl we know she’s lying, why would you contact his wife if you didn’t even know he was married? - she really tried it lol
Everyone wants their family back when all else fails 🙄
Good job ladies for maintaining your dignity AND self respect!!
They lying...they were talking about more then some furniture and stuff on the phone. Both stumbling and bumbling. No way I could stand beside my husband without being held in contempt of court. 🤜
Right👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Don’t forget she went and had an outside baby from another man. He just bought home some furniture and a xbox1.
Lol I think people got caught up and forgot about that part. They both was trifling.🤷🏽♀️
I missed that part.
@@jasonr.9863 Go to beginning.
@@kevinjones6392 I meant the first time I watched it, I came back to it now and caught it. My comment was clear... I don’t feel as bad for her anymore
@@jasonr.9863 Oh ok bra.
Judge Mathis is EXCELLENT at Holding a mirror up to people to cause Accountability
I love how Judge Mathis speaks to these messy men! Don’t drag your wife in your mess!
Judge: where were her things shipped
Defendant: It took awhile to be shipped
Judge: Understand that. Where were they shipped
Defendant: Well actually they were going to my grandmothers house
Judge: Where were her things shipped?
Lmfaoo just get to the point man all them unnecessary lies. Then the wife standing up there ready to defend him till no end😩
😂😂
No one falls back in love faster than someone who's out of options
I would NEVER be standing next to my husband in this type of situation! This is crazy!
She thinks she won the prize because he with her. He’s only with the wife because he had nowhere to go after he was kicked out
That hand shake and hug right there to just finish it and move on... that's the power move for both women. Move forward, don't look back.
"don't you get on tv with me and be standing there embarrassed" now that's what a real man would've said!
The man standing there lookin like “This is beyoooond ME!” *Ha Ha Davis voice* 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😆😆😆😆😆😆😆. Cheat man ! Cheat man ! Yeah that's me! Explaining to JM what happened 'bout to be a breeze 😆😆😆😆
I'm uncertain why women always go after the "other woman" when it's ALWAYS the husband that goes against their vow to one another. The wife got it wrong, it was her husband that dragged her into that mess! it was like she heard nothing Judge Mathis said! But at least they hugged at the end!
Exactly she heard nothing
It depends if the woman knew about the wife before hand or not. If the woman knew about the wife and still got with the husband then yeah blame the woman. If the woman didn't know about the wife and found out after she got with the husband then yeah it's 100% all the husband fault.
yeah it looks like Nakeba was under the impression that the guy was divorced. Looks like the husband gave a misrepresentation on the status of his marriage.
The wife was wrong to call that lady a home wrecker. She was clearly separated from her husband. I mean the lady had a whole baby with another man. So they were “done” until they weren’t.
@@diodio9494 WRONG! Here's a little MARRIAGE 101! A marriage contract is an agreement between TWO people. If the husband or the wife step out of that agreement, even during a separation, THAT PERSON has broken the contrac! The OTHER woman or man has made NO CONTRACT with either the husband or the wife and therefore are under no obligation to either of them! The couple ARE THE ONLY ONES BOUND BY THAT CONTRACT! C'mon people, it's 2021... Evolve in your understanding of what a marriage REALLY IS!
I’m so glad they hugged too. But I just wanna add it’s not “always” “only” the husbands fault. Some women know full well a man is married and will willingly carry on an affair with him for sometimes 30, 40, 50 years. In which she would be a participant to the “crime” of adultery because she wasn’t forced or deceived. Also, I know of cases where “the other woman” was a friend or relative. In fact Google the case where the mistress was sleeping with her cousin’s husband then killed their married couples kids because he did not want to move away with her and leave his children behind. So I say this to say, each case is a case by case situation and at the end. The Almighty will judge who is guilty of adultery and who is cleared. I’m so proud of both these ladies for forgiving one another and be careful trusting the words of this man moving forward. He need to really show himself approved
I give the highest respect to you both women for the respect you gave each other!!!!!
My heart broke when she said "you brought me into this" as if her husbands cheating didn't start all of this. But it goes to show how the hurt will have you delusional😢 The ending was everything tho
I don't feel sorry 4 her......Love Urself.........
I MUST say, that was a VERY respectful ending. That is how WOMEN finish things off. Hats off to the ladies that were dragged into this situation by that dirty dog.
Bianca: i would like to shake your hand
Nakeeba: I’m going to hug you.
Nakeeba also: I still want my money
I appreciated that hug. Us ladies gotta stop being mad at each other because of a guy's foolishness
What if during the hug the wife whispered in her ear "don't let me catch u outside " ?😳
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Those would be considered fighting words 🤷🏾♀️
😂😂😂😂😂😂
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@@nakebaedwards5388 like your attitude!
So guys I’m Na’Keba. I’m the one that took him to court.
Sorry you went through that, especially with a guy like that 🤦🏾♀️. Hopefully things are better for you now.
@@queenp.6686 I’m blessed. Going through that made me a better person. Like I told her, it was never about her. She contacted me and all I ever said was ok I just wanted my stuff.
Amen to that 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 and I hope you continue to be blessed wherever you are because at the end of the day you came out to be the bigger person in all of this mess. I hope sis can see that he's no good and move on too. May God always watch over you.
Glad you moved on! 💞 be well!
Na’Keba what did he do to get kicked out? I’ve never heard of someone being fired from military service! 🤣
girl, your husband brought you into it when he decided to step out on you and get back with you, knowing that he still was responsible for his ex-girlfriend's things. He had to involve you. He's being a punk and hiding out behind you. He did the deed and he's being a wimp, not standing up for himself and taking responsibility for his actions. Shorty rock, the plaintiff just wanted her things back... you should have made sure he took care of all of that before you all got back together. don't be mad at her; be mad at your wimp-ass husband..
that hug at the end was weird lol
The look on the wayward husband’s face when they hugged said: “Ain’t this some $h!t”! 😂😂😂
I wish the judge had pressed him more on why he got kicked out the army
Probably for cheating. Maybe the wife called his commander for 1st sgt
And allowed the plaintiff finish how defendant's wife has a baby with another man. Just for gossip's sake lol
These ladies are so sweet and being grown women!!!🥰🙌🏽
He's an entire DUSTY. And the wife thinks she " won".
And your a CRUSTY 🤣
This goes to show ppl secure men can’t stand men who cheat on their wives because they know how pathetic it is.
Not our business. Every man is his own man. And we don't judge each other. Do you🤔
“Let’s realize about her furniture first” 😩😩😂🤣
Real women. There was no reason for the women to fuss and fight at all.
That just hurt his whole soul when they hugged.
Why the defendant looking like a short broke Kevin Durant LOL 😂???
Short and fat 😂 probably from the same tribe
More like Rodney Rogers... not sure if you remember him from the 90s
@@jasonr.9863 nah I had to Google him... he sure in the hell does tho LOL 😂.
He sure does!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀
The wife is just... a disappointment.
That was the most mature handling from 2 black women a hand shake and a hug great to see this
Finally, the woman understanding that the sidechick was not to blame
Typical with those types of men. No backbone. Ready for women to fight their battle. I been married for 20 years, my husband ain't neva did no type of shit like that but I have his back and he's got my back no matter what. Lord thank you for answering my prayers for a good man 21 years ago and you have still blessed him 20 years later to be a beautiful soul. ❤
That's what you have to do. Asked God for a good mate. I did.
Congratulations on your marriage
I only feel bad for the lady pulled into this mess by the stupid guy, she was blind sided, the wife is stupid, you can tell she was mad at the lady, even though it was her husband fault
And with that mentality she’s going to keep putting up with him and blaming other women for “bringing her” into the mess. She deserves better
The wife needs to divorce him....PERIOD
This is the worst feeling in the world being the wife on national tv airing all our business out looking dumb smh 🤦🏿♀️
He's a bunch of bafoonery. There you go ladies. Make sure the man is divorced first
So nice to see that these women didn't let a sorry man make them enemies..
The hug at the end. 🥰 he will never live that one down. He can educate others on , not what to do. 😂
I am happy the two sisters act like real sisters and hugged.😊
Yes the wife needs a hug and some blessing to pull her through this mess of her husband... 🤦🏾♀️
'I'm gonna hug you' 🤣 What is this world! 🤣
She's still taking up for him
But but wait....gavel bangs! Judge mathis dips
Remember at the beginning of the plaintiffs testimony. The defendant's wife got pregnant by someone else too. She's sticking with him because their marriage is a sad mess.
@@nsofwacb4715 was just about to say that. Two of a kind...frick and frack.
He was livid when those ladies hugged. On the other hand awesome job ladies, this was an awesome moment.
Ty Judge Mathis put that respect back on the table! You go brother!
Yoooo what did it for me is the judge saying "Oh my goodness!! You put your wife in this!!"!...... I am hollering 🤣, all he needed was some pearls and put his hand over his heart! That high pitch voice had me rolling. 😂😂😂😂😂 That Defendant is pitiful at best!
Judge Mathis! Really demonstrated integrity within the standard of marriage, responsible manhood and mistress abandonment. He dealt with the man! Who created the problem.
Kudos JM
Notifications on deck 2day🤗 A big "hello" to the JM comment section family 👋 #AbundantBlessingsToUsAll
Blessings to you as well...and thank you!
BLESSINGS TO YOU TOO 🙏
Hey, Boo
I am glad to see these two sisters embrace each other. Too many men do foolishness and then women attack each other when it is the man that cause the mess. Love this episode. Magistrate handled it perfect.
Damn, for a man...he is disgraceful. Judge 👨⚖️ hit the head of the nail on this one. Mane this ya mess. Leave ya wife out!