REACTING TO UGLY BRIDESMAIDS DRESSES & RUDE MOMS

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  • The thing about some of these late 2000s Bridesmaids dresses, is that they never get more attractive, ever! And yet here we are to engage and entertain ourselves through them!
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  • @Jasmine-tr1zs
    @Jasmine-tr1zs 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +747

    Woahhh first mom is WILD 😭 that bride’s bridesmaids are angels for dealing with that

    • @Jasmine-tr1zs
      @Jasmine-tr1zs 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +30

      Wait just kidding all of these moms are…interesting lol

    • @bore-aliss
      @bore-aliss 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +65

      so I'm sure I've got a bias, but I have Never seen a healthy parent/kid relationship when "they're more a friend than a parent". especially when the kids are that young- it just reeks of "no, you can't have boundries, I do too get access to every facet of your life"
      the 3 here seemed to add a good splash of "what, I'm just being honest, don't be so sensitive" for extra blech

    • @mundanepants
      @mundanepants 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@bore-aliss Absolutely, big enmeshed energy. Horrible for the kids no matter how much the mother may be enjoying her existence.

    • @crunchysscorpion
      @crunchysscorpion 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      ​@@bore-alissEXACTLY

    • @victoriancuddler
      @victoriancuddler 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      I'm honestly glad I'm not the daughter to any of these moms otherwise some arguments might've ensued for the girlies at home and the filming crew to witness

  • @chelseacornnell4953
    @chelseacornnell4953 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +682

    That 1st mom needs to be STOPPED. If my mom behaved that way to my friends, she'd be kicked right out

    • @victoriancuddler
      @victoriancuddler 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      girl same

    • @loosilu
      @loosilu 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Mom is SUPER young. She's 39. She had her daughter at 18, which suggests she had a shotgun wedding. I have a feeling Mom missed out on all of the excitemnt of planning a wedding for herself. Now she's being hit in the face with it. At the same time, her daughter is getting married which means she's 39 and OLD. That has to hit HARD. That's WAY worse than a 40th birthday (which is also looming). I can understand why mom is an emotional trainwreck, and regressing to teenage behavior. This is where she was at age 17.

    • @chelseacornnell4953
      @chelseacornnell4953 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +27

      @@loosilu Nothing justifies speaking to others that way. My mom was in a similar situation (married at 17) and is prone to bodyshaming and snide comments. I have had to set very clear boundaries with her about what is and is not appropriate to say to people (especially during the planning of my wedding).

    • @loosilu
      @loosilu 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      @@chelseacornnell4953 SOrry, I didn't mean to sound like I was justifying it. She needs to get over it and let her daughter be the center of attention.

    • @drewthistlethwaite8909
      @drewthistlethwaite8909 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It’s the way my friends all had a similar mom and would check her that gets me. I went to a friends bridal fitting 100% to clock her moms bs. I wasn’t in the wedding party. 100% her mom socialized in circles with a relative of mine so she behaved😂😂

  • @thatnewchick
    @thatnewchick 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +461

    I had an visceral reaction at 4:15 when the mom body shamed the girls like that. The mom reminds me of my grandmother with the way she casually throws unnecessary insults in conversation. That mom is lucky the bridesmaids have class and didn't fire back, they'd have plenty of ammo.

    • @mabelfancymarie5418
      @mabelfancymarie5418 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Almost every say that to the dress, those girls have the worst possible family members that you could have

    • @loosilu
      @loosilu 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

      That's a mom who is completely freaking out at realizing she's old. SHe's only 39 and her daughter is getting married, and all these cute young things are parading in cute dresses.

    • @TabbyWithMittens
      @TabbyWithMittens 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Reminds me of my family, often making comments how my second sister has the “perfect” body while often body shaming mine body and my oldest sister. Insults toward weight and body was always thrown in too.
      Doesn’t help people at school made me self conscious about it too.
      Most funny part is now my family won’t shut up whenever they see me in a bathing suit or something now- commenting how now I have the “perfect” body apparently. 🙄

  • @1957DLT
    @1957DLT 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +203

    I remember the full vid for the first bride: the mother just never frikking grew up. She thinks she's being youthful while being blind to how crass she comes off.

    • @OiOBlinkingOwl
      @OiOBlinkingOwl 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Also, having a child at 18 often means you have a truncated development. From my experience, I see that it can be difficult to complete your emotional development when you have a kid that early.

  • @leainasfs5016
    @leainasfs5016 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +495

    4:21 i'm dying at you and monte doing the exact same face at the same time 😭

    • @pbelle1971
      @pbelle1971 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Haha😂😂😂

  • @M0odyBlue
    @M0odyBlue 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +255

    I’ve seen a couple of weddings where the color and material were the same, but the dresses were each different and it looked really nice.

    • @u-neekusername4430
      @u-neekusername4430 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

      Yep, I did the same at my wedding because my handful of bridesmaids were all so different I thought it's be best to let THEM select the style they felt most comfortable with, which would also make it more likely they'd be able to wear the dress again. EDIT (forgot to add that they DID NOT have full run of the store, we agreed on their max budget/price in advance & that narrowed down the options they were presented with & plus there were only 3. Tho I was in 1 w/6 but it was just slight variations on 3 styles.) Each one of them looked soooo good & also loved their dress. But I also was a bridesmaid who just showed up, shut up & got fitted for the dress, & never wore it again; different people different weddings, it's your day girl, & if your my friend, relative, or soon to be in-law, the most I'll say is "if your happy, I'm happy" & I just won't ever tell you that I BURNED that dress cuz NOBODY should be subject to that hideous monstrosity EVER AGAIN! LOL

    • @plinko84
      @plinko84 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      What did the dress look like? (Before it was cremated.) Was it an ugly color, print, fit? I want the deets!!! 😏🔥👗😌👌

    • @u-neekusername4430
      @u-neekusername4430 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      @@plinko84 Colour was nice, it was "wine", but the material was Awful! This rough scratchy semi sheer synthetic draped all over in "Greek style", over one shoulder that INSANELY difficult to get fitted properly. Multiple girls had dress issues day of...the maid of honour's dress burst open last minute n had to be pinned back together literally right before we all went down the isle. All the hanging fabric made it a hazard n half of the dresses were ruined by the end. I'd flown back for it n I didn't actually burn it, but I DID have fun cutting it to piece with my friend who does costume/wardrobe on Broadway who obviously felt the same as I did....oh n we would've died from toxic fumes if we'd BURNED cuz it was such a cheap synthetic.

    • @elizabethbarclay
      @elizabethbarclay 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      My sister-in-law just said “pick whatever as long as it’s black.” I found a beautiful dress that I’ve worn many times since.

    • @non0n704
      @non0n704 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      my sister did this for her wedding, and we all looked fantastic! it was so nice being able to pick a dress that i felt flattered me

  • @Rickie7756
    @Rickie7756 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +198

    I had a good friend get married who was 30 and the groom was 40. He was the last of his friends to get married. He stood up in 19 weddings and he wanted to have all 19 guys as groomsmen. 19! So she had 19 bridesmaids. It was an evening wedding in a cathedral with a reception at a very nice venue. All bridesmaids wore black cocktail dresses of their choosing. She wanted them to be able to wear their dresses for other parties. Plus, can you imagine getting 19 matching dresses? It was gorgeous!

    • @dilsadguzel
      @dilsadguzel 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

      At first I thought you said your friend got stood up at 19 weddings and was in shock.😂

    • @wordswarsandsymphonies
      @wordswarsandsymphonies 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

      19 bridesmaids 😭😭 i could find maybe like, 8 or 9 MAX, and thats including sisters and cousins 😅 good for her!

    • @pbelle1971
      @pbelle1971 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      @@wordswarsandsymphoniesme too! I have 1 best friend! I would have to hit up cousins and friends from work!! Lol😮😮

    • @pbelle1971
      @pbelle1971 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      It sound huge and beautiful! 😊

    • @marlyd
      @marlyd 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      That's a really lovely idea, and I'd definitely just get a black dress. But as someone who never wears black, I'd never wear that again. Black looks bad on me. Very sweet of the bride to try to make a choice the bridesmaids can still use afterwards though.

  • @AxelMacopelli
    @AxelMacopelli 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +116

    The mom in the first fat shaming these women is disgusting. I know they're encouraged to be dramatic for entertainment purposes, but nothing about that was entertaining. I would be embarrassed if that was my mom. I would call her out immediately and threaten to have her kicked out

    • @karina.kagramanova
      @karina.kagramanova 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Unfortunately producers would do anything to create drama and call to people’s worst traits. I hate that they think of the viewers need that.

  • @missloly824
    @missloly824 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +269

    I love the mismatched dress look - as long as the dresses are cohesive, it looks great and everyone gets to wear something that they actually like and might actually re-wear.

    • @meganjaime7728
      @meganjaime7728 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      For my wedding I was open for the dresses to be the same color different style (all floor length though) for the bridesmaids. I wanted the all to look nice. Cool part was I found a dress that actually looked great on all of them. And it didn’t break the bank. 😄😊 They all looked lovely and that made me happy. I wanted them to look pretty too.

    • @meganjaime7728
      @meganjaime7728 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      For my sister’s wedding her bridesmaids had the same color different floor length style. And as her maid of honor I wore a different complementary color. It looked so good in the photos, very cohesive and everyone looked pretty.

    • @franciscasilva8406
      @franciscasilva8406 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      As someone from outside the US, the idea of bridesmaids all wearing a similar dress seems really unnecessary and honestly tacky. Why can't they just wear what they want to the wedding?

    • @melenatorr
      @melenatorr 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      @@meganjaime7728 My sister just had two bridesmaids: her sister-in-law and me. She wanted us in green, but in what suited us. L. is tall, blonde, blue eyed, and has a lovely hourglass figure. I'm just under five feet tall, dark haired, brown eyed, and kind of rectangle shaped. L got a foam green mermaid gown, and I took a jade green, form fitting bodice and straight skirt one. It worked out nicely for all of us.

    • @loosilu
      @loosilu 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@franciscasilva8406 Just our tradition!

  • @Huss417
    @Huss417 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +163

    "Her pancreas has deflated" made me actually laugh out loud.

    • @maple4633
      @maple4633 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      The way i laughed at "frother and froughter"

    • @pbelle1971
      @pbelle1971 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Me too I laughed out loud omg hahaha😂😂😂😂

    • @pbelle1971
      @pbelle1971 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@maple4633hahah 😂😂😂

  • @Havenly87
    @Havenly87 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +90

    I feel bad for the bridesmaids because the bride doesn't have control about what her mom says, but I'd also be upset if I'm getting bodyshamed and my friend is not saying anything

  • @twily4
    @twily4 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +61

    I find its much harder to judge the bridesmaid dresses because most of the time they're getting them ordered in for the proper color. We had a similar idea to the last group for my brother's wedding, and while it looked really weird seeing 6 women with 6 different colored dresses in store, getting them all together in one color and seeing all of us together made everything look SO MUCH BETTER.

  • @omalich4
    @omalich4 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +57

    In Nigeria the second bride is how we handle bridesmaids dresses (sort of). The bride gives her bridal party fabric or a colour that is of the pattern and texture that she likes and the brides give them to tailors to make whatever design they want for the wedding.
    Groom does a similar thing, usually the bride & groom wear specific colours that are different to each other.

    • @omalich4
      @omalich4 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      *Bride & groom parties

    • @stratospherica
      @stratospherica 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I love that way of doing things - not everyone looks the same or feels as comfortable in one cut/neckline, so it feels natural to give the bridesmaids/groomsmen one axis to be cohesive on and let them find something that they can be comfortable and confident in.

    • @margodphd
      @margodphd 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      That sounds really cool. Having met few people from Nigeria it seems everyone there is either a seamstress/tailor or has someone close who's a talented tailor because they always dressed in impeccably fitting, stylish clothes that looked irrationally expensive. Sharp colourful suits, custom dresses, not to mention all the incredible Nigerian seamstress on YT. I absolutely live for Nigerian formal gowns.

  • @jyll19
    @jyll19 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +81

    Ruffles are definitely a southern thing. They had a big moment in sorority girl weddings for a while.

    • @DS-ub1jm
      @DS-ub1jm 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I🫣don’t remind me. I have THREE bridesmaids dresses that make me look like a head of lettuce with the amount of ruffles

  • @janeldavis905
    @janeldavis905 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    You know what I love about you? When it comes to professional fashion designers, you do not hesitate to tear a bitch up because you hold them to the high standards that they claim to be selling... but when it comes to these normal, everyday women choosing wedding garb, you are so kind and supportive. A lot of fashion influencers cannot make that distinction; they think that holding everyone to THE HIGHEST of standards is what makes them a fashion expert. You're one of the few that recognizes the difference between high fashion and everyday needs, and you adjust your criticisms accordingly. You're just a very classy person, and I love you for it ❤

  • @aliz4467
    @aliz4467 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +123

    Is there any chance you could do a bookshelf tour? I really would love to know where you got some of those gorgeous fashion books!

    • @hautelemode
      @hautelemode  15 วันที่ผ่านมา +78

      haha i've been planning on it so keep your eyes peeled!!

    • @snowysnowyriver
      @snowysnowyriver 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      ​@@hautelemode. So pleased to hear this! I sometimes look at the screen sideways trying to read the titles. I got a crick in my neck!! 😂

    • @RachaelTheRed
      @RachaelTheRed 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      ​@@hautelemodeYes! Music to my ears! I have been waiting for this video!

  • @hannelie5191
    @hannelie5191 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +29

    The second bride was ahead of her time. The trend now is not only different dress styles, but also different colors. I’m planning my wedding currently and it’s funny how bridesmaids in all the same dresses already looks dated

  • @annushankar3032
    @annushankar3032 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    The first mom seems to use tears for sympathy. Like I can’t believe her actually crying like that after talking about her daughter’s friends like that.

  • @1997Gaa
    @1997Gaa 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +35

    The best way to do different bridesmaid dresses is give 2 or more specifics. For my wedding it was a specific color and material. For my sister in laws wedding is was a color scheme and no beading or other crazy embellishments with some type of flowy fabric. It turned out super pretty both times. Everyone picked there favorites and it all worked out. Just saying Yolo isn't gonna help lol

  • @pssurvivor
    @pssurvivor 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +44

    i am indian and at indian weddings EVERYONE (including babies) dresses their best and it still doesn't take attention away from the bride because she's the bride, everyone knows that, they are at her celebration. Here it's almost considered rude if you don't put in your best effort to dress like you didn't care. so if it's a colleague's wedding i'd wear something less showy (cuz i'm not that close with her) but if it's my sister's wedding then i am all in!

  • @victoriancuddler
    @victoriancuddler 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

    im screamingg how can these twenty somethings have families with wedding money, I know I'm broke but am I that poor 😭 😭

    • @tkps
      @tkps 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Especially the one with was it 8 sisters? Who's paying for all that I wonder.

    • @llamasugar5478
      @llamasugar5478 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Some families/couples go into a ridiculous amount of debt to throw an epic party.
      Our wedding was very modest, but still beautiful. Even so, if I knew then what I know now, I wouldn’t have wasted money on a big, white dress. I would’ve instead bought a dressy dress that I would/could wear more than once.

  • @melissayoutube
    @melissayoutube 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    Marrying at 21 is wild. Cannot believe it still happens in this day and age.

  • @gswaggerist
    @gswaggerist 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +211

    You think people are insane for getting married at 21 and then you turn 21 and suddenly everyone around you is engaged. I’ve had whiplash for like a year

    • @victoriancuddler
      @victoriancuddler 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +46

      my response to weddings at 21 is eternally "who has wedding money?!" unless it's a pregnancy situation and the family is religious I cannot fathom having that cash available at such a young age. My parents would think me insane to marry at 21 and never consent to it ergo, no cash to spend at the wedding junction.

    • @lizabethhuntley9360
      @lizabethhuntley9360 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

      I got married at 20 and we just didn’t care about a big wedding. It was cheaper because we were in a more rural area, maybe 1,500 dollars total. The dress was 500. My husband and I were just ready to start that chapter of our lives and didn’t want to delay it for a big wedding, expensive dress, etc. That was 13 years ago.
      There have been times in the few years after when I was like, shoot that was my one chance for a big party and fancy pictures and all that and I didn’t do it! But I don’t regret doing it smaller, instead of saving up for a wedding, we bought a house and took a bunch of trips together over the years we would have been saving up for the wedding. We like to travel so our priority was always going to be traveling together over spending money on a big party.

    • @robertawalsh2995
      @robertawalsh2995 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      I was married at 21. When we went to the city hall to get the license, the clerk was somebody I knew. She told me later that the couple who came in behind us was someone whose older sister went to school with my 19-year-old brother and they were talking about me after I left, saying that I was so old they thought I was going to be an old maid.

    • @claudiacaruntu2843
      @claudiacaruntu2843 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      @@robertawalsh2995 wow then me at 37 not married i m beyond old maid :))

    • @bluegirl278
      @bluegirl278 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Jeez people getting married at 21. I’m 22 and have never dated or even kissed anyone yet. I couldn’t even imagine being married last year or a few years from now. I have a friend who’s a year older, has a lot of dating experience, and is talking about getting married next year and it still blows me away but it’s not as shocking as so many of the people I know from high school straight up having families at this age. I’m still trying to develop as a person on my own, there’s so much of my life left to go, it’s just baffling to me that so many people feel ready for any of that this young (though most of the kids I know of have been unplanned, I thank my obsessive knowledge of almost types of contraception for not having to deal with that even though I haven’t had opportunity for a kid to come about anyway lol). My 77 year old landlady (divorced) got married at around 25 because her mother insisted she’d be “left on the shelf” and be an old maid, she always says if she could go back she wouldn’t have gotten married at all, let alone so young. My parents got together when my mom was 19 and married when she was 25 but that definitely didn’t end well for them.

  • @JuliKayeArtistry
    @JuliKayeArtistry 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +37

    I had all of my bridesmaids in different dresses, but I only had five of them. I chose a gradient of colors (navy, dark purple, mid purple, light, lightest) and have them stand in that order. One bridesmaid got to reuse a BM dress, and we found deals on just about all the others! I can't imagine doing a free-for-all like the first bride tried, though.

    • @lunasolarii
      @lunasolarii 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That's such a cute idea, I love it.

    • @nxctem
      @nxctem 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      especially for dresses bought form a boutique! 😵‍💫 i can’t imagine that’s going to be cheap.
      I’d understand if the bridesmaids could buy their own dress from wherever with some direction on what to get (color and dress length), so at least id would be in their own style or budget. What these brides are doing is not a smart way to do it.

  • @gswaggerist
    @gswaggerist 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +27

    I remember when people would request the different dress look and I think it can work with a consistent color palette and fabric

    • @Terri_MacKay
      @Terri_MacKay 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Im the oldest of 4 sisters. When our youngest sister got married, the rest of us were her bridesmaids. It was a late spring wedding, and we were able to choose our own dresses, as long as they were long, black, and sleeveless. The three of us wore completely different styles, and our sister loved the way we looked. Also, the black dresses were fine for a spring wedding because the rest of her colour palette for the wedding was light.

    • @bore-aliss
      @bore-aliss 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I got told a style line (more of an entire brand focused on wedding stuff? not sure), fabric, color, and to go nuts from there. I think the pics look great, no one has That One Spot on their dress that shows where they're shaped different.
      I think some of us ended up having them altered after into more cock-tail length so we could wear them again? (mostly to other weddings, the ones Outside that friend group)

  • @montananerd8244
    @montananerd8244 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Really glad I chose to be a mother, not a fruther lol…I’m starting to think “my mom is my best friend” just means she’s horrible to her daughter & probably crashes girls night… whatever happened to “whatever idea you have is brilliant because it’s your wedding & I want you to be so happy!” ???

  • @titian-red
    @titian-red 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    As a former bridal consultant, the bride who wanted all her girls to choose different styles was the most difficult. It wasn't choosing the dresses, it was ensuring the colors would work. Even if all the dresses were the same designer and same fabric, dye lots were never guaranteed. Many years ago, we had a line of bridesmaids separates. They could choose the color(s), fabrics, top/neckline/sleeve, and skirt length/fullness and so the colors would be guaranteed. Today, there are respectable and reliable websites that ensure dresses are the same colors , even if they are different styles.
    As for actually seeing the bride's vision, I had one lovely bride who wanted red and yellow dresses for her two bridesmaids. After confirming the colors, I brought out a dress in each color. The bride looked at her mom and said, "You're right. They look like ketchup and mustard bottles." 😆 She was wonderful, though!

  • @KittyVentura
    @KittyVentura 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +29

    "Her pancreas has been deflated.." 🤣 😂

  • @butterfligirl87
    @butterfligirl87 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

    Watching this argument about the different necklines while planning my wedding and going to all my girlfriends fittings is hilarious to me... I am like that one bride, I'll pick the material and color, my bridesmaids job is to find something they are comfortable in. Some girls have butts, some have boobs some have nothing at all... Plus they are buying the dress not me... Why should I put someone in something that doesn't fit their body type.. that one mother probably ordered smaller sizes for her brides maids because they weren't "thin enough"😂

  • @NicoleMarie.
    @NicoleMarie. 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +27

    The back on that pink dress on the thumbnail is ADORABLE.
    Also, finally something innocent we can all get behind hating: ugly bridesmaids dresses. 😂
    I will never understand why some need their friends in the most unflattering dress. Yellow makes you look older (makes your teeth and whites of the eyes look yellow, which happens with age). Just give your friends a color and maybe a material and let them choose what they think looks best.
    I saw a bride who had EVERYONE in white and the only difference was her bouquet. Every flower in it represented a bridesmaid, so they all had a different color, which came together in the most beautiful bouquet. I only saw a few photos, but the potential of getting the girls to match their flower and color scheme would be so fun. Then to tie into the decor and space looked interesting.

  • @boogiemonstermom677
    @boogiemonstermom677 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    My sister did a country/outdoor wedding and we all had different bridesmaid dresses, but her rule was navy blue, above the knee, shorter sleeves. It worked really well, but it was because there were rules that brought them all together, especially with our brown cowgirl boots lol. Believe it or not, it was all really cute, and her style through and through.

  • @Ali-in-Wonderland.
    @Ali-in-Wonderland. 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    I thought Lori was going to drop the “oh bless her heart” …. Which here in the south is not a very complementary free.😂 when a southern lady with class uses the bless her heart you know there is some tea and some rage behind that sweet Southern charm.
    And just a quick reminder to everybody that Luke does not need fashion, but fashion needs Luke. And all are gorgeous. Fabulous people and deserve a wonderful day.🩵🩷🖤

  • @Kimball042
    @Kimball042 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    They seem to get married so young on these shows.

    • @AragornElessar
      @AragornElessar 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Yeah it's strange. I wouldn't get married before at least 36.

  • @Vanessa-uo6lt
    @Vanessa-uo6lt 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    it's funny to me the drama about the bridesmaids picking their own different dresses cause in my country that's mostly how we do it (although in this case I understand that it's harder giving the bride's specific vision)

  • @xMia311
    @xMia311 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    This was amazing! When I got married on Halloween 2021, I had the same style of bridesmaid dresses, but in different fall leaves colored. Like a dark wine red, a dark Forrest green, a burnt mustard, and a burnt orange. I let each of my girlies pick which color they wanted to wear. I also had all of the different body types and skin tones and hair colors. So I wanted them to still feel beautiful. It was a one shoulder, natural waist pleated chiffon, full length. They all seemed genuinely happy and comfortable and beautiful! I even borrowed and wore the orange one to a friend’s wedding just this June!

  • @heartscapesreiki1496
    @heartscapesreiki1496 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Luke, your commentary is always just so delightful 💖 Just the right blend between snark and genuine kindness.

  • @dollcenea
    @dollcenea 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I had a vision of everyone wears a dress of their choosing in the same colour. The men were told black suit in any style with a white shirt. My husband and I provided them with matching ties that coordinated with the ladies burgundy dress colour. The ladies all got black velvet wraps ( winter wedding) We also had junior bridesmaids that wore green and burgundy floral prints and a flower girl in green velvet that matched her mother's dress ( my sister in law stood up with my husband and the groomsmen so she wore black velvet. Mother of the bride had a green satin dress in the same green as the flower girls but the same style as my maid of honor. It was beautiful. If you have different ages or body types letting them all pick an appropriate style for them makes everyone more comfortable.

  • @ItsBrittanyBirch
    @ItsBrittanyBirch 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    YESS my favorite reaction series is BACK

  • @Lesterluwu
    @Lesterluwu 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    "needing to really laugh, feel bad, question my life choices... all of the above". I cracked up and am so in agreement. Those last dresses - the brides way of sabotaging the "maids" so she does look stunning and they look - well fugly! Made my day, Luke. xoxo

  • @abigailhorner7520
    @abigailhorner7520 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I love seeing your bookshelf filled out more and more every episode 😁

  • @viktoriakopetz
    @viktoriakopetz 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    I’ve always been wondering, why those dresses that are specifically bridesmaids dresses or wedding dresses, are always so ugly? I have never seen any dress in these shows that were looking better than OK. And yet they are so disproportionately expensive. Can anybody tell me the reason behind this? I mean at this point I would rather just go shopping at an average fashion store like Zara or H&M etc. and pick out dresses for my bridesmaids there, and they would look just as good, at a fraction of the price.
    So again if anyone has some more info about why on earth people throw out every last bit of taste in fashion once they walk in to a bridesmaids/wedding dress store, I would love to know!😅🫶

    • @tkps
      @tkps 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I think the second you have a bridal shop and use the word bridesmaid dress the price automatically rises. As for taste, after seeing the UK traveller wedding/bridesmaid dresses normal bridesmaid dresses look tame in comparison.

    • @TheSofkujepanen
      @TheSofkujepanen 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I agree. I haven’t found any of these dresses visually pleasing in any way:/ i’m not sure when these were filmed so the year might have an effect on how the dresses look, but i truly find most of them ugly, boring, plain and the best of them are just ok. I’ve seen prettier dresses at H&M or online stores like zalando and such

    • @me-me1980
      @me-me1980 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It’s important to remember that these are 2000s southern bridesmaids dresses- it does not appeal to a lot of people. But the fabrics used in bridal shops dresses are significantly higher quality than H and M. A department store like Dillards might give you something comparable, but it would run you about the same and then you don’t get the whole ‘day out with friends’ experience of a private fitting like showed in say yes.

    • @AshleyG24601fan
      @AshleyG24601fan 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      These shows have always had ugly bridesmaids dresses. I've always been baffled. It was tacky even when it came out. Not sure why they kept picking bad ones.

  • @mommabierman
    @mommabierman 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    I’ll take a pancreas with a side of “More of these reaction videos” please??!!

  • @piggyluv99
    @piggyluv99 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    FROTHER AND FRAUGHTER I'M DEAD

  • @llamasugar5478
    @llamasugar5478 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    My niece’s bridesmaids wore dresses of the same length, color, and fabric. Each chose the style that suited them, and all looked lovely.

  • @ultrainthemilkyway5090
    @ultrainthemilkyway5090 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love your content, reviewing these type of shows is always funny. The utter disgust and horror you go thru is absolutely hilarious. I appreciate the hard work,thank you💖💯💯💖

  • @alexandrathom-heinrich4053
    @alexandrathom-heinrich4053 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This was so amusing and definitely entertaining Luke. Make more like this.

  • @maddyspinks
    @maddyspinks 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    My mum’s parents married at 21 & 23, dad’s parents married at 18&22, my parents split the difference and got married at 19&20…… I’m 28, never married, single and the sole parent to a 3yo with ADHD, sooooo I don’t see a wedding before at least 30 if I met mister right tomorrow lol.

  • @natmccallion
    @natmccallion 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    The brides are extremely young but look no younger than 35! Is that normal in the south in America? Genuine question 🖤

    • @sari9645
      @sari9645 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      This episode is most likely from the late 2000s/early 2010s and at the time for some reason the style for women was looking 10+ years older

  • @zaraleemcauliffe1126
    @zaraleemcauliffe1126 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    All I have to say is that I have NEVER seen a bridesmaids dress in this show that I’ve actually liked.

  • @Thelastusernameavailable
    @Thelastusernameavailable 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    These videos are always a wild ride! Thanks for doing that for us Luke 👰‍♀

  • @PollyW326
    @PollyW326 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    It's not the MOM'S wedding so moms can stfu honestly. Leave it up to the bride.

    • @tkps
      @tkps 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Sometimes when parents pay they seem to think it gives them carte blanche. It shouldn't. Paying shouldn't confer 'I make all the decisions' rights. You give and step back or don't offer.

  • @maddi294
    @maddi294 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    UGH I love these react videos, I needed this today Luke ty

  • @lenapawlek7295
    @lenapawlek7295 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I missed the notification for this - cant wait to see this!!! I love your say yes to the dress videos

  • @taps_lock
    @taps_lock 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yesss! I love these - and even more now that I just booked my first wedding dress fittings two days ago ✨

  • @adamsransom
    @adamsransom 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    After a long day of questioning my own life choices, I really appreciate being able to unwind by watch you judge other people's life choices 😅

  • @lornadesmarais-zo4pr
    @lornadesmarais-zo4pr 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Nothing like being horrible to the poor girl in the tighter dress

  • @Justlurkin_lol
    @Justlurkin_lol 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Recently went shopping for my wedding dress and I was telling the lady helping me in and out of the dresses about your channel! Living in my head rent free

  • @karina.kagramanova
    @karina.kagramanova 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love love love your reaction to say yes to the dress videos!!!! Love you ❤

  • @toniblackmore3016
    @toniblackmore3016 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Pancreas. I’m dying.

  • @MrsSeaHag
    @MrsSeaHag 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I been to many weddings that the bridesmaids all had different necklines, and they were just fine.

  • @SuperJacob1989
    @SuperJacob1989 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    immmmmm, obsessed with your content.

  • @hannelie5191
    @hannelie5191 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Did the first bride say her wedding was Black Tie? But she’s dressing all her bridesmaids in cocktail dresses??

  • @patchouleigh_
    @patchouleigh_ 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Luke, the thumbnail is priceless. I belly laughed. Gonna save it for when I am crabby and laugh myself out of it. 😜🙂💛

  • @jayneterry8701
    @jayneterry8701 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Glad you did this Ryan. I haven't seen this show in years so the recent one shoulder styles , you'll have to get over 😂.

  • @forestcrow5491
    @forestcrow5491 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    With the second set: my mom has been a bridesmaid in a couple weddings where the bridesmaids pick their own dresses. However, in those cases the dresses are still unified in some way (usually color), and they all went shopping on their own time as opposed to going to a bridal salon for them. This situation is just chaos

  • @IronMask57
    @IronMask57 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    For my wedding, I let my bridesmaids pick whatever dress they felt comfortable in, just had to be all the same color. It worked perfectly, so sometimes it can. But my bridesmaids are also pretty chill and low key and definitely wanted me to like it too, so I guess it depends on the type of people you have in your bridal party!

  • @amenahal-najjar9268
    @amenahal-najjar9268 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Plzzzz do more of these! I used to watch yes to the dress sooo much!
    But I’ve literally never loved the bridesmaid options they all just were the same… but ya love your reaction

  • @dkirk5814
    @dkirk5814 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Your knowing look at the camera cracks me up.

  • @dancingoctopus9888
    @dancingoctopus9888 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I just want Luke’s entire channel to be say yes to the dress reactions.

  • @astridhannestad8323
    @astridhannestad8323 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am 21, and the thought of getting married is absolutely wild. I couldn’t imagine committing to anyone, or be able to make that promise to someone

  • @PandiChii88
    @PandiChii88 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    The pancreas comment made me stop dead in my tracks 😂

  • @missknight9
    @missknight9 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Omg yes! More of these please!!! 💗

  • @Quiteinfamous
    @Quiteinfamous 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love when you do these it’s so fun 😂

  • @AleksandarBell
    @AleksandarBell 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m very close to my mom as well, but something these brides seem to not have is boundaries with their moms. I have set a lot of boundaries with mine, and it’s what keeps us close.

  • @jenniferhof9448
    @jenniferhof9448 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    At least that last bride didn't go with the horrid waste of flowers! lol
    And if my mom was like the first one, I would have uninvited her from my wedding.

  • @giovannimoquete3088
    @giovannimoquete3088 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    YAYYYY i miss these reactions xoxo

  • @jenniferwegner1958
    @jenniferwegner1958 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Hi there, I’m at 40-year-old bride… kind of.. I’ve been with my other half for 18+ years… at my age. I know I will not have a typical wedding dress or experience.. sadly family deaths and parents deaths have put up pause on our wedding plans. Everyone calls us, Kurt Russell and Goldie Hawn, which is fine but we do want to get married. I’m just not sure the attire what we should do at this point if you have any ideas that would be amazing. We probably won’t have any bridal party because of our age, but we just wanna show our love for each other, but I’m not sure the kind of dress to wear.

  • @MusicalErika
    @MusicalErika 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Haha. I'm about to give you a heart attack, my guy! Married at 18, been married for 15 years with the best kids ever. And no, I was not pregnant when we got married 😂.

  • @PaniPunia
    @PaniPunia 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I don't hate the idea of different styles or different necklines. Maybe because in Poland we don't have bridesmaids, there's just our equivalent of Maid of Honour (and Best Man, we call them Witnesses). But, knowing how difficult it is to find one style and colour that fits different body types and complexions if I HAD to choose I would probably just give rules like "this is the colour range, and make it all floor length and shiffone". I'm the only one in white, everyone will know who the bride is, it will be fine.

  • @dawngreene6145
    @dawngreene6145 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You saw what were working with. Omg. I love you 😂😂💕💕💕💕

  • @chrissysworldtour
    @chrissysworldtour 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yay!! An upload! ❤

  • @Sjudit84
    @Sjudit84 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Me sitting in Eastern Europe where most people already have a dress to wear to a wedding (no matter if they are the bridesmaids or not) and wear whatever the fck they want bcs the bride has no say in it unless she would be the one paying for it, which in my country is not the case, most of us aren't that rich. The bride stands out anyway since she is the only person wearing white.

  • @emilybrandt3
    @emilybrandt3 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yay so happy to see bridesmaids reactions come back!!

  • @annagreen9688
    @annagreen9688 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The “choose your own bridesmaids dress” trend is huge right now, I wish they didn’t discourage the bride so much

  • @Jonsolmariestella
    @Jonsolmariestella 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love this show. The expressions on his face are worth the watch. Really like his fashion choices

  • @MrJoseoz
    @MrJoseoz 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This was fun ❤

  • @kateyare4708
    @kateyare4708 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The first mom and daughter have switched roles, and my heart goes out to the daughter, who has to be mother to her own mother. Mom will never grow up.

  • @Tokayd13
    @Tokayd13 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My bridesmaids dresses (back in the 80s!) were all the same color and fabric (pale mint linen) but different styles. I was in a Laura Ashley cream silk dress, very plain and simple and borrowed from my sister, and we got their dresses at, I believe, someplace like Marshalls or TJ Maxx. Very pale mint colored linen, tea length. I only had 3 bridesmaids and one maid-of-honor. I thought we were the bomb LOL. Actually, the wedding dress was truly beautiful.

    • @tkps
      @tkps 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      My son recently got married and they did a similar thing. All floor length burgundy dresses in the same material but being different sizes, chose empire waists as the most flattering. Two chose spaghetti straps, one wider straps (chest) and the matron thicker off the shoulder straps/sleeves. Together and with the bride looked lovely. (The boys and one girl looked great too). Letting the bridesmaids choose their preferred straps/sleeves for comfort level was what the bride wanted and they all matched well.

  • @JJ_Magnificent
    @JJ_Magnificent 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    "Pancreas" 💀

  • @KatherineHugs
    @KatherineHugs 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I chose color, fabric, and length and my bridesmaids chose their dresses. I had women with totally different body types so i wanted them to choose a style that works for them

  • @julieannegarfield3108
    @julieannegarfield3108 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This was fun! Still laughing at pancreas 😂

  • @tins369
    @tins369 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I need more of this PLEEEEEAAAASEEEEEE ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ShortandSweet54
    @ShortandSweet54 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Best way to get vintage without looking for a real vintage is to bespoke it from a designer who specializes in historical wear. My wheelhouse is baroque to titanic eras and a bit of 50s-70s.

  • @morgantrowbridge3074
    @morgantrowbridge3074 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I kind of want this show to come back! Interesting to see a different perspective than just weeding gowns.

  • @k.schmidt2740
    @k.schmidt2740 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Just a reality check: Getting married in your early 20s is often an economic thing: Many couples cannot expect generous support from their respective parents after they have a BA in their pockets. The only way to get on with a life of their own choosing is to find a "partner in crime", agree on life's goals, and try to achieve some of them in tandem. That may sound a bit "transactional", but a lot of life is that way, I think. The strategy doesn't have much chance of success, however, if the partners don't agree beforehand and are constantly pulling in different directions. Then there is no synergy, and the chances of "happily ever after" are minimal.

  • @Danversdiary
    @Danversdiary 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I remember there was an episode where the mom decided to also try on wedding dresses just for fun while she was berating her daughter the entire time. And that mother refused to see how she was wrong for doing that

  • @katc9198
    @katc9198 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    “I’m needing to laugh… feel bad” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @user-qb5dd6lq2p
    @user-qb5dd6lq2p 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    *Please cover the BET awards, Luke!!*

  • @perrilewis180
    @perrilewis180 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    It's clear the first mom definitely had a baby while she was a teen. She's still acting like one.

  • @karanicole2999
    @karanicole2999 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What is common for weddings now is for the bride to tell her girls a color, material, and length from one brand. It is rare for the bridesmaids to wear the exact same dress. In fact, the new trend is for the bride to give her girls a color scheme to choose from and they communicate to create a cohesive look.