Sapne | A Short Film on Middle-Class Family | Dreams | Aspirations | Why Not | Life Tak
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- Kirti wanted to be a guitarist. But did her middle-class parents support her? Watch out the video to know more!
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Neeraj Chopra was employed in the army, Dhoni in Railways. They had a backup plan. Once you have a backup plan you should certainly chase your dream. But otherwise lakhs of kids come to Mumbai to become a Bollywood star and a handful make it. What happens to the rest? They are unable to get even a middle class life.
Do not endorse blanket risk aversion to comply with societal expectations BUT a plan to manage the risks must be in place.
Completely agree. And moreover most of the time, children over assess themselves..... I know one boy of my family friends who thought he had GREAT talent for guitar and singing.. He was a brilliant student but by the time he reached 12 standard, studies suffered badly because of his craze for music.. uncle somehow managed to put him in a hotel management course which he joined resentfully thinking that field would take him to big cities where music opportunities would be great.. he went to Bombay after somehow managing to complete the course (his heart was not in that course)..... Got job in an average type of hotel .. tried a lot ( and still trying) in the film industry but nothing much happened. His mediocre job is the sole support as he has almost passed middle age and not married....a beautiful and brilliant life going waste.....
Very well said. I am sure @LifeTak tried to break the barriers of society but they can always improvise :)
Please add the career back up plan to this video and then it becomes 100/100 jhakkas video
@@nilimamisra2741 This is true. A similar situation is in my relative's house too. A cousin almost spoiled his life on drumming. Over assessing is harmful. End of the day, we need money to live and dreams alone can't feed us. These social media videos are quite far from reality.
@Gauravi Pal If you really love your dream and going all the way for your dream then you should stick with that. You have to successsful one day definitely. You don't any nonsense back up plans. Even God can't able to stop you for achieving your dream if you have the real love and patience for your dream.
Very true
But the fact is jaab parents hi support nhi krte aur kisse kya umeed 🙂.............
Same sis😢
When I was 17 I started writing and it became my passion afterwards. My parents initially did not know about this and I did not got their support. But my teacher and soul sister used to support me a lot. In 2022 my father got to know that I write in The Times of India and about writing. He supported me throughout and continues to do so to follow my passion for writing even if the whole world is against me ..
Very good. May God bless you
People should learn that dreams has no cast and boundaries...
*Parents should support their child for their right decision and not let handover them and their dreams to any other person...* 🙂🤍
Choosing passion can sometimes become a wrong decision when we don't succeed in that and that time we feel that maybe we should've listened to our parents back then.
But I guess maybe it's better to follow the crowd or our parents initially and then fund our passion. Truth is we've to work hard either ways
Best wishes for your future endeavors.
Dono hi sahi hote hai hum v aur hmare parents hum tab sahi hai agar amara decision rational and correct ho . Hume dono sath me ape and Ape parents ke sapno ko lekar chalna chahiye. For example: We should make every thing by plan wise if plan A failed then we may succeed in plan B
If you are regretting your decision that doesn't means you chose a wrong one. Be it going for parents dreams or your passion both the paths are tough. It depends on the individual themselves to not give up and keep on trying till the end. Afterall that's what I guess we are made for.
What I have realized is that no matter what ur passion is..but at the end of the day if you don't have money to feed ur stomach and pay for urself and take care of family..then it's not worth it
Can you justify your statement ( choosing passion can be a wrong decision)
If not successful in our decision at least we will never regret in our life that we never tried at least once
I completely agree with this subject that parents support is required in fulfilling or chasing one's dream or else the path gets really difficult. One should have freedom to do what they want.
Very nice clip! Parents cannot have a tight rope around their children's neck.
My two brothers and I had extremely supportive parents... they were our guides and mentors. Themselves exceptionally highly educated for their times (between the two of them, they had earned 8 advanced degrees in sociology, economics, literature and medicine), they encouraged us to pursue our own dreams, without dictating their preferences on us.
When I chose Engineering as my preferred field, which was then (and still to a lesser extent) thought to be an "exclusively man's field," my parents were thrilled for me. After finishing college and earning some professional experience, when, as a 22-yo, I came to the US, they 100% backed me up, including lining up financial support for me to get my Master's and then a Doctorate.
My two brothers chose Medicine and Computer Science, respectively, as their preferred fields. And, my parents were there for them as well. Until we all managed to get merit scholarships, they fully financially supported us, which I knew even then wasn't easy. They neither complained about it nor did they brag about. They just did it, and did it joyfully.
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Without putting undue pressure on us, from early on, they had only a few expectations from us:
1. Excel in your studies. Always aim for the best and the highest performance ... no matter what the outcome. There is no greater satisfaction than having given it your all.
2. Carefully choose your vocation...It must be something that you would enjoy doing 10 hours a day. There is a difference between "making a living" and "living life";
3. Your chosen field also must be something much in demand. A satisfying job that pays well makes life easy. In the worldly sense, you, as a professional, are worth only what someone is willing to pay for your services.
4. Work in a field for which you have aptitude, interest and competence. --Mediocrity is unacceptable;
-- Engaging in a job that you are half interested in, is a torture; and
-- Not being paid well enough will make life much harder.
5. In spite of all the careful planning, if you still end up making bad decisions, don't worry. That is not the end of the world. Learn from your mistakes, reevaluate your course of action, make alternate plans, and give it another try. Life is a great teacher.
I thought all parents were like our parents until I saw my friends' parents, and those of our neighbors and cousins, and realized how extraordinary were our parents!
They were an exception rather than a norm.
Wish more folks were as fortunate as the three of us.
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Amazing
R u from odisha???
@@friendshiprocks8673 No
All are not so lucky to witness their dreams fulfilled.Nice concept,liked it.👍
In the beginning my parents didn't support when I quit my corporate job and started my holistic work but I didn't give up.. After one year when I picked up, they started to accept and now it's 6 years they are so proud of me. My advice children should also be strong and should not give up. Don't just blame parents. Believe yourself 🥰
not every parents support their child to follow there passion every child deserves this chance nice concept i really liked it ✨
Its not about belonging to a middle class or higher class....everyone has the right to dream and right to choose career. Hope all parents will try to understand their son/daughter and give them the freedom to choose a career which will make them happy.
I hope every parents understand this. Every kid is special and is very talented in their hobbies and they deserve a chance to showcase their talents and pursue what they wanna do
U guys never fail to take very reality-oriented concepts and entertain us in each and every way as possible
This is such a nice epsiode
I appreciate all ur efforts
Thank you for this💃🔥🤘
I wish every parent learns this💯
This story Touched my heart.. But itna asan nhai hai convence karna parents ko
I was about to give up with what i started on TH-cam but ......i changed my mind and i will not give up......just bcoz of ur stories and ur concepts.....made my concept clear...thanks to life tak team
Papa log itni aasani se kaha mante h, parents ko manane mei hi sara waqt nikal jata h, aapne bahut achha kiya jo is vishay pr video bnai thanks
Actually, it's true that we, middle class parents want a safe and tried out route for our children...we tell them it's for their own good because we are so involved with their lives and we had to work so hard to get a comfortable life for them....we don't want to see them fall, make mistakes, rise up again , dust off their pants or want to wait to see their real smile when they achieve something that they really and truly want. But can you really blame us for that?? Our overtly populated country, with meaningless competition, societal pressure, where links work better than real talent ...makes things near to impossible for most.
I agree because everyone cannot earn their livelihood with hobbies very few reach the top with their hobbies but we can try
Only a parent can understand what goes through in heart..
That's very clever how you blamed societal pressure and an overpopulated country for your fears and insecurities about your child. As they showed in the video, the country was overpopulated even during MS Dhoni and Amitabh Bachchan's time. Middle class, upper class or lower class, we need to let our children explore and find their own identity instead of pushing our dreams and expectations on them just because we think it is 'safe and tested'
that’s a very selfish take
you know what you are calling as societal pressure is actually parent's overdramatic pressure.
Its not about parents want good and comfortable life for their children. They only want is money money and money. They think if my child is not earning tonnes of money he or she is not successful.
Even my lots of friend's father are like if you will not take science stream i will throw you out of my house. They wanted to pursue humanities stream.
But you know societal pressure is not any different thing. Its actually parent's pressure.
This Olympics and commonwealth games has opened a new horizons for people wanting to pursue different career opportunities
Film is nice. But life is not so filmy, i agree with her father' s thinking.
❣️❣️❣️❣️this happened with me 2 . By parents choice I went to do msc maths with a A+ graded state University DAVV but i want to prepare for banking. So even after taking admission and went there for 2 weeks I asked my parents to drop out and try to convince them with whatever in my mind about my career at last they got convinced and i dropped out college and prepare with my whole heart❤ for banking.
And what are doing currently ?
I was fabulous at games .. specially cricket was my passion .. i started to play since i was 5 years .. after school my father asked me that you just have these 2 years of college to enjoy yours sports craze then it will all be over .. i still feel so left out in my life for not being able to pursue my passion .. this society becomes dinosaur when your parents choose to their meal everytime.
*Hope and Pray all get supportive parents* 🙏🏽
*NextGen atleast can think and ....* 😎
Actually the thing is our parents are protective for us they want us to choose the career without risk. Dreaming is not wrong but you have to make sure that you are doing something to get settled on the side I mean our parents spend lots of money on our education agar tab bhi hamein dhakke khane pade to unko kitna dukh hoga yahan baat luck ki aajati warna hazaron log roz Mumbai actor banne aate hain always listen to your parents because hum ek chance ke liye poori zindagi kharab nh kar sakte
Family me understanding hona chahiye kaise shanti se parents man gaye 👍👍
If parents understood that so easily 🥲
So happy to see Autobiography of a Yogi. No wonder you guys are blessed to do great work !! Jai Gurudev
Thank you for such story.
We must support our children for their dreams
As wel as their career
I wish it was this easy to convince your MIDDLE CLASS parents
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Middle class ..superb word which always makes our lips to close in front of others. Even if v r right
It made me cry. Miss the support of the parents. If would ever got life would be different
Very nice short film with beautiful content and acting as always
Yes true! I wanted to be an Engineer (Computer Science) . 'The Society ' did not believe in me. But my parents n siblings 😊. Now that so called society is appreciating me 😀😀 Thanks to my parents 🙏😊🎉
That's what i am struggling for 🙂 problem of every single middle children
Yes I also agree Childers should take their own decisions and parents should support them
Why do people always leave the food?! Poor sandwich...uski kya galti. Directors please take note 😂 reduce redundancy
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Or give the leftovers to the poor stray dogs on the streets
@@zenojami9173 great comment ❤️👍 thank you.
That hurt me too... They should stop showing such kind of behaviour... Why the hell parents should afraid of children's childish acts!! Hell!!!
Aare, yeh bhi to ho sakta hai that the sandwich was cold and not tasted good 😑. See reaction of other eaters 😀
Very very appreciative theme, I will congratulate you to make people aware, I am grateful to you...love from Pakistan
Wow always with real concept ❣️ appreciated work by entire team
Actually true sometimes parents are the ones who don't let us to do what we want, instead if others do they praise them but if their own kids do it then they tell its a wrong choice 😒.
Amazing video as always.. I want to share my incident.. we r two sisters, my parents being having 2 daughters never treat less than boys and supported in each and every aspect of our lyf.. n fighted with the society to support us..
Nice and meaningful message. Thankyou very much
Meri bhi daughter h aur usse guitar chahiye aur sab yahi bolte h middle class but urs video was awesome👍👏😊
I am really very much proud of my mum and paa, I am very lucky to have them in my life
But in realities. . It's never so easy to convince and explain others the way it is shown here😂. No one realises so soon in real life as they show in social media's. 😂
So Beautiful video ❤️❤️. Dreams ke liye lado. Middle class family mein sabse jyada problem hoti hai. Lekin sapne aage badhati 🙏 hai ❤️🙏.
So true we should not enforce our dreams to our kids n do not say them about middle class mantelity let them fo wat they want luv to watch🤗always.
Lovely content 💖😊 🥂 Cheers Team
Everytime you guyz hit it strong 👍
Ye Kahina kahi ham town grils par hai
But , ha me is mamle me Luke hu
Kiyuki mere mummy or papa mujhe pura support karte hai .... Thank you so much
Ki ap sab ye story hamare samne rkhe ho aur hame motivate karte ho , I wish ki me apko meri bhi kahani suna pati🙏🙏🙏🙏🤗🤗🤗🤗
Yes It truly relates my personal life as well. Because I always dreamt of being a singer in kannada industry or being an RJ (Radio Jockey) whereas it remained just as a dream coz my family (parents) aren't really ready to support.
Our people start to support when there is one or two success, before that, the hard struggle is barely understood 😢
Your team is the best in bringing out good things in a simple and effective manner 👌
Aap bhut achha kr re ho.. Thanks team life tk
Rest everything is good about this video the content and the topic.
But I disagree with one fact amitabh bachchan was not a middle class person. He was from a affluent family.
Nice eye opener for new generation parents whose kids are 5 to 10 years old.
I am little youtuber but I'm your biggest fan in this world love you all TH-cam creators❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️. ,,..
Very nice video...very very nice...it's lovely. I wanted to be a painter but due to similar issues I became a govt. School teacher..although I love teaching too...but somehow I miss my painting.
Every parents should watch this 😔🥺 I make dance video but my father doesn't support me 🥺😔😔 he say naach - gaane mein koi carrier nhi hai , they abuse me and say wrong words to me 🥺🥺🥺but I'm not going to give up on my passion 😇 may be one day I successful and my dream come true 🙂
Best of luck🤞
Never give up on your passion.
@@Demenscous914 Thank you🙏
@@DCM2463 yeah 😊Thank you🙏
Exactly same story is w me but at least ur mother supports u my whole family doesn't support me for dance and they say that if I became a dancer then not even a dog will ask me for that & say what not to me but I never give up , and I wish ur and mine dream will come true one day
Pata nhi kyu but meri aankho me aansu aa gaye yaar ❤️ ..is short movie ki story meri life se kaafi milti hai
Parents always wish good for their children... And in away parents should also support their children in what the children interest are... Amazing video and powerful msg conveyed...All characters have acted so well and natural...👍❤️
True. Lovely story
Sarojini market me aapko milker jitna acha laga us se bhi jyada aap dono ka ye video.
Nice story and good msg
Do options hone chahiye.. kyunki aap zindgi akele to guzarenge h nhi . . Jimmedariyan sapne bhula deti hain.. but few got lucky and family support all the time. Parents some of them actually kill their happiness just to make you happy ...
Govt job aspirant or uska failure and family ka supportive phle na hona uske baad ek chhoti post or family satisfaction waali video bhi bnaye....✔️
Yes jaruri nahin hai ki bade sapne dekhne ke liye bahut paise chahiye , aur bahut hi ameer ghar ke hi sirf bade bade sapne dekh sakte hain kyonki sapne ko paiso se nahin balki mehnat aur junun se kiya ja sakta hai aur aisa koi bhi sapna nahin ai jise hum pura nahin kar sakte hain hain bas hamari usmein puri mehnat honi chahiye aur us goal par humein pura focus karna chahiye tab jakar ke hamara sapna hum pura kar sakta hain
Beautifl msg gvn excellently, thanks to d awesm team 👍👍
Me and my husband all time sporting our daughter. duniya samaj kuch alg karne ki baat karte hi alg nager se dekna Suru kar dete hai
Kaash real life Me ye sab itna easy hota.
PAPA is never wrong.He is the only person who love you unconditionally. You'll recall his words when he is gone. LOVE YOUR PAPA. MISS YOU DAD G...😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I don't think middle class parents think like that.....99% Indian Parents think like that, irrespective of class caste religion
Amazing video... As always, you guys are doing great work for the society.
Bachon k sapne purey krney k liye Parents ka support bahut manye rkhta hai.
This story was so relevant to me.....❤️😭
Dreams is for everyone . Chahe Middle ho yha Upar Class 🙏❤️😍
Thank God my parents are very supportive of my dreams and aspirations 🥹🥹❤️
Good 🤞👍❤
Sometimes We have to just explain things to our parents. They may understand our point too. Well done team 👍
Mere parents toh inta easily kabhi nhi Mane .... 😂😂😂
V true...v need support to fulfill our dreams from our parents. Nice motivating video.
Kahani bahut lambi hai mere Jeevan की mam itna lamba likhungi to bahut samay lag jayega aur itna achha lekhak bhi nahi hun Mai Jo itna pyar se sab k samne jahir कर sakun पर aap ने Jo vedio share किया hai mashallah gajab ka hai ❤️😘
Father is also right. First she should complete her MBA. Back plan is a must. Otherwise, lot of risk is involved.
Life tak your all video are so good aap ki videos hamesa informative hoti hai or I like your video aap issi tarah se ache ache videos banate rho
When passion is you earning it is unstoppable.
God Bless Both of You ❣️
yes I completely agree with this concept. why not middle class child dream and chase.Your vdo is of high class. I like and watch all your vdos.
Good content as usual 😀
Yes!
I love all your stories as they all based on life itself. Thank you so much. God bless you all.
Wow very nice I am 60 yrs old and I relate it to myself so well Not being able to do what I wanted
Your every videos gives a very good message!! Always learn from your videos 😊 thank you #LifeTak
Mast video and ending line was just awesome 😎
Mai bhi padhna chahti thi but still middle class family parents ne after 12 padhna Tak allow nahi kara aaj 3 saal ho chuke hai mujhe Ghar baithe padhai ke alawa Mera kisi bhi kaam me man nahi lagta Mai padh Kar kuch nanna chahti thi aaj Mai bahot udaas hu maine bahot manaya apne papa ko but wo nahi mane 🥺🥺
All parents want to support their child but they become practical. Today due to social media every teenage is on glamour and high 5 life Majority dream of money/actor/singer ( like parents go for doctor/engineer/MBA ) but hardwork is ❔ Those who work, their results are visible and automatically all start supporting
Talk to your parents carefully happily ✨
Thank you 👍
Everyone's acting is great.
Only few chasing dreams succeed not everyone...There are so many factors apart from support from parents...if we don't have backups to balance life..it may really become difficult to survive...we can see so many sports people inspiteof having talent living their life injured , jobless
I don't why ....but... Sometimes parents are so wrong ...they just put a burden...it's a life, and it will end one day than why ?
Very nice..all actors..I lov❤
Nice story mera bhi life story relate kar raha hai story k sath thank you
Shi kaha meri bhi story hai
Mene 5th class me dream dekha tha ki muje singer bn naa h or khub shauk tha singing kaa or dusro ki uss age me bhi pariah nhi thi
Jab 8th class me aai to mera birthday aane wala tha to papa ji ne pucha beta kya chahiye birthday par mene kaha muje guitar chahiye muje mera carrier singing me bnana h
Unhone bola dimag kharab hai tera naak katwayegi samaj ke saamne acche Gharo ki choriya Sangeet nhi krti iss se accha tu doctor ban
Bss ye baate sun kr reh gai uss raat bot royi or pta nhii fie mere or papa ji ke beech bot duriya aagai had se jyada kuch Kam Hota tha to bhi papa muje direct nhi bolte the meri mummy ko bolte the ki use bolo ki ye Kam h
9th class me jab aai to music liya koi support me nhii uper se bhai shikayat kr deta tha ki vo roz Sangeet ki class me bhag jati h padhna to ise h nhiii bass gaane gawalo even jab bhi koi program Hota tha school me ya function Hota tha jab sab students ki family me se koi na koi aata tha pr mere ghr se koi nhi aata tha balki me mere group ki lead singer thi 9th 10th me singing to kiii pr papa ji se rishte bot kharab ho gyee fie school change keni padi vo school 10th tk hi thi 11 th me covid aagya 2 Saal covid rha ghr me meri singing se itni jafrat thi sab ko kii mere 2 mobile phones tut chuke the ki ye gaane kyu sunti hai ese kr ke ab me college me hu final year h finally as usual parents wins me haar gai chod di mene singing papa ji ke liyee mene 10 Saal se jyada ghr me struggle kiya ki ek na ek din support krege par unhone nhi kiyaa ab jesa vo chahte the vese me teaching ki preparation kr rhi hu chahte the ki doctor bnu pr arta ye soch kr liya tha ki music lungii pr Esa kuch nhi huaa ab fir khudse hi singing chod di or jesa vo chahte the vo kr rhi hu isme vo khush h to bss samjhote kr liyee🥲🥲🥲
Aap ke har video se kuch sikne ko miltha hai thank u all tem❤
Fantastic message ❤️
wonderful subject...👍👍.
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