SPILLING INFLUENCER SECRETS | They Know What They're DOING!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 พ.ค. 2024
- Hi lovelies,
Today I'm sharing some influencer and content creator SECRETS that you may not know!
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"Freedom of speech does not mean freedom of consequences"
Perfectly said! 🙌
I loved that too!
I loved that too! Perfectly said!
I love this and I'll definitely use it in future
Love this one too! And also, the comparison with 'you are in my space / my house / my guest'.
I need to remember this phrase!
I dont really comment, but this struck a chord. Whatever happened to "treat others how you want to be treated"? I'll never understand the keyboard trolls... 🤷🏻♀️ Thanks for always being so amazing 💖
Exactly
So true.
It’s difficult to see who’s real anymore. People are being paid to type disagreeing statements.😮
My older son (who’s almost 30 now) had a gaming channel in high school and he would show me the mean comments sometimes. I couldn’t believe how horrible people could be. I asked him how he could stand to read them and he’d just explain that they were haters or trolls and it didn’t bother him. That’s the reason I’ve never had even the slightest desire to be on social media. I guess my skin is too thin 😟. Great video!
I feel the same way... I could not do it... I am such a connector... it would take me down for days dealing with the b.s. and the haters.
It’s like a backhanded compliment we used to get from a ‘well meaning’ relative or friend.
In my house with 2 daughters, we call those jellyfish. It's beautiful to look at, but stings like crazy.
If only we could use the ‘block’ function in traditional offices!! 😂
That would be a dream come true! The best places for work can be ruined by one or two toxic persons.
@@jelena2752Exactly!!! Although quite often I use my office door as a ‘block’ function of sorts, lol. 😂
I’d also like a life remote control where I can fast forward or mute some people 😂😂
And at home.
@@tallisinwonderland4724😂😂😂 what a super power that would be!! 🤣
When a person is intentionally being rude or cruel, it truly speaks more about their character than anything they could say about another.
EXACTLY
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Wow I learned a lot! I had no idea about any of this stuff. I wasn’t raised in the internet age ( I’m 72) but I can’t believe people say such rude things. I was raised to think if you have nothing nice to say don’t say anything! Love your channel Charlotte ❤
Omg! I had no idea that it was a sort of click bait trick to not tell the viewer what color you're wearing or top or whatever. I will stop asking! Loved this video, thank you for sharing 😊
Me either!
Same, I believe I have also experienced them not ever giving an answer which is very annoying.
You missed the point, if you enjoy her video you should ask ;)
I am really shocked at how some influencers pump up their numbers! I guess I’m just naive😏! I adore your videos and your honesty, Charlotte. Please keep sharing information about beauty and some darker stories!
I also was surprised by how they work the system. I'm going to remember that little hack in the future.
I can’t understand why someone would write negative stuff on someone like you especially you exude fun and lLovely vibe.., your video always puts me in a good mood ❤
I fully understand the blocking of cumulative comments. I've started doing that on my FB with even longtime "friends" because like you said, it's my space to express myself. If you don't like what I think about something just scroll on by but I'm old enough now to realize I don't need toxic comments or things that bring me down. And I especially don't like sarcasm or people claiming they're being funny when it's really just mean under the cover of humor.
Please Don’t forget how easy it is to misinterpret the written word. Some people just can not express themselves well, or communicate well in writing. There have been many times, I have looked back at my own comments or texts that I thought were saying one thing, then looked back or received a weird response and thought, well, I wrote that poorly didn’t I? I think part of that is the rush rush of life. It is disheartening on both ends.
I get it! One time I got into a really bad car accident and I was SO sad. I posted on my FB about it and this guy shows up out of no where to talk down to me about the situation and how it’s most likely my fault on and on. But that wasn’t the only time, he’d left one or two hurtful things before. So I blocked him. He was really upset and tried to contact me about it! Sometimes I miss MySpace 😅
@@jbbb7418Yes! I also believe that if you post your opinion and someone comments their own differing opinion, that’s not a reason to block if they are trying to have a civil discussion or just want to show you a different perspective. After all, you yourself wanted to share your opinion, why shouldn’t other people share theirs, too? Having conversations and exchanging different views, instead of always scrolling by unless you want to express agreement, can be a huge win for all of us and we might be wiser at the end if the day.
That being said, if someone only wants to pick a fight all the time, I block people like that, too. But I think we should always ask how they meant what they wrote if it’s not obvious that they just wanted to fight. Like you said, written words can often be misunderstand.
For example, I once wrote “I see where you’re coming from” meaning “I can understand why you have this point of view” (though I disagreed), and the other person thought I meant where they geographically came from and was mad and thought I was racist. Luckily, I had the chance to explain what I really meant and we could continue our conversation.
Very interesting.
Personally, while I can understand blocking people who make you feel bad, no matter what their intentions are (I’ve done that on Facebook, even with people who were very nice to me, but just extremely pushy, or people who posted stuff that was harmful to me personally.
However, I do think it’s problematic when very big accounts just block anyone they don’t want there for whatever reason or when they restrict certain words or comments. Sometimes, more critical comments are so helpful to other viewers (e.g. make them think twice if a product is really that good or if they really need it, if something actually works, etc.) or they even raise awareness on an issue the influencer tries to deflect from (like spreading misinformation, exploiting your children for content, scamming the viewers, etc.). That’s why I urge everyone to look for more information when really big influencers always only have very positive comments. It doesn’t necessarily mean anything bad, but looking for some more information elsewhere might be a good idea.
Good point
Absolutely agree with you. I have been commenting and interacting with creators for the last 10 years and recently had a horrible experience where I respectfully praised a creator’s video and I left a suggestion for what I wanted to see next. However, I was berated heavily for my constructive feedback and told to leave the channel because I was not worthy of their videos.
I eventually reported the comments as it’s OK for people to disagree, but it’s not OK for the creator to be disrespectful when interacting with the audience who has different opinions.
I think this type of issue goes both ways, so I’m not sure if the current system offers the best solution for this issue.
Hannah Alonzo goes into depth on her channel about influencers doing this! Thanks for bringing it to the forefront. There’s a lot of people that don’t know this. Love your channel. 👍🏼
Growing up is realizing other people aren't looking for your 'constructive criticism'.
When I was a teenager I genuinely thought I was cool and helpful.
😂😂 true
Thank you, especially for the "purposely not answering comments'! I was just watching several youtube short and it drove me nuts that the creator didn't show the product information. Now I know!!
You nailed it! And I couldn’t misspell on purpose. It would kill me. 😂
😂
I know. Me too 😂😂
Mood Hoover 😂. Love that term! No Mood Hoovers allowed! 😘😘😘
Me too. I’m gonna start using this expression. So funny, but so apt!
The cumulative negativity block is so true. I like to share my life on social media, and when I had a really rough year due to trauma I really noticed the ppl who are always negative. I could literally end a post with "This is just stupid fun because I'm sad, please don't offer constructive criticism" and some ppl would still go at it and not apologize when I pointed out that instruction. Like yes I get that I can't control others, but if you're gonna be on my social media commenting on my life as someone I know in real life... Have some manners. As you said, this is my house, act like a guest or leave.
When it comes to blocking, creators have a right to not be harassed on their social media. You’re not being denied free-speech, because you also can create content and enjoy getting harassed for your opinions.
Don’t forget, whatever percentage of the population is mentally unstable, there will be that percentage among influencers. Some of it might be strategic, but plenty will be unstable people doing unpredictable, strange things for no logical reason.
I'm constantly amazed that people use their energy to negativity instead of positivity support and brigthen one's day. Creators are humans too that have struggles and it cost us nothing to be kind and supportive. If you have nothing nice to say it's better to say nothing at all. Anyways love you Charlotte thanks for bringing those matters to surface. ♥
As a guest in your "home" I love your chanel and I am glad you keep it "clean" and free of bad coments. Thank you ❤ It should be obvious to respect each other, but people online think they can say whatever they want without any consequences.
Hi Charlotte!
This was very enlightening!
It’s sad that people feel anonymous enough behind their screens to be hurtful and negative.
My Dad always told me that if I couldn’t say something nice, not to say anything at all. Excellent advice, that I’m always mindful to follow.
It makes it a pleasant place for everyone.
Excellent video. I loved it 😊
My poor mom at the start of her dementia started leaving negative and rude comments on her favorite instagram influencers. She eventually got blocked by almost all. I felt so bad for the influencers! They were collateral from the dementia. Although I agree for them to do that. How could they know?
Love your channel, love listening to your videos & also looove the products you choose to review
That’s heartbreaking for your mom. It must have made her feel so isolated and silenced.
I’m so glad you all can block the negativity. We all ( all sane reasonable people) know and understand what comments could do to someone’s self esteem or simply the fear of danger from some I’m sure if you couldn’t block them.
I think you are an absolute delight!
You have to protect yourself and your mental health!
This is a great video! People should respect boundaries.
Omg this video was eye-opening 😳 Charlotte i love your videos, and they just keep getting better and better. I wouldn't dream of telling a creator, "i don't like that on you." i may think I'm not sure about that shade, but i just say nothing. You know the saying, "If you don't have anything nice to say, then say nothing." Charlotte, if you do know where i live, you can come around any time 😂
💯 agree!
Not gonna lie I can understand why your husband loves discussing the cumulative blocks, lol! We all have those people in our lives, work places, even families sometimes! We need some kind of a real life block feature 😂. I always remind myself that super negative people are almost universally unhappy, and it is themselves, not their targets, with whom they have issues. But by all means, block away! Protect your garden! Tend upur zen!!!
Fun video !
Thank you, Charlotte!!! Very interesting video 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Btw, I love your t***h 😍 Perfect veneers scare me 😂😂😂
Mute is a great thing. It's more appropriate for mildly annoying versus abusive. But yeah, never messing with you....though it would be hilarious if you turned up at my door to tell me off! 🤣
So informative! Thanks for sharing! Love you and your channel!! 🤗
You are so funny had me laughing ‘Sandra from Hastings’ 😂😂😂❤❤
is she actually someone?
This has been so informative!! Thank you. I learned a few things.
I truly appreciate this video!
This video was so interesting Charlotte. You always have the best video ideas, and are always educating your audience. Love it!
Love this! ❤️ ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉 Yes, to setting boundaries!😂😂😂😂Spelling and grammar police... but seriously??? You are truly a breath of fresh air!! Thank you, Charlotte!!😂😂😂
This is great info, thanks! I'd never heard anyone going into the details like this before.
Your content is GOLD and you’re such a good human ❤
This was fascinating! Thank you.
Love this. Positivity is what I love your channel for. Lovely host and a great community ❤
Very informative! Thank you for explaining! ❤
Thanks for always being so transparent - it’s something I really value in this space.
This was a very insightful and informative video. Thank you for making it!
Absolutely loving the videos you have been doing about influencers, your commentary on social media and popular culture.
So eloquently put and thought out.
Your make up videos are great too, but I have been loving this change up ❤
Ooh! New to your channel, Charlotte. So very interesting. Thank you. I'll have a look at your other videos because I really enjoyed this. 😊
Thank you so much for this video. Enlightening for sure!
Fascinating. Thank you for sharing. Had no idea how much admin type/ nasty stuff you have to deal with. Love your videos ❤
Your whole vibe in this video is stunning! Makeup, shirt, style and color... everything!
Great video!
Such great information to keep in mind while navigating social media. Thanks, Charlotte!
Very interesting information! Thanks Charlotte! Very enjoyable also!❤
I’m glad there are many options for you as a creator. I often cringe reading the nasty comments to people make and smile when I see them disappear!
I just found you and am so happy I did. You're amazing! Thanks for making me feel better about myself
Charlotte your content is so interesting. I watch almost all of your videos and I love that you talk about make-up yet a lot of other topics as well. Informative, researched and funny on top! 🖤
I actually really appreciate your channel because I trust your recommendations.
This was a great video. Thanks for giving us the inside scoop. 😊
This was a very interesting topic, thank you for sharing. The color of that sweater and eyeshadow is gorgeous on you!
Great video, Charlotte! Thank you for your own slice of positivity on TH-cam!
I’m new to your channel , & what great & informative information… I really had no idea what some people are capable of … saying that, I really do enjoy all the content that you put out … I have watched & listened to your older videos & I like & enjoy them … ❤
Love this lipstick on you! This was very informative and interesting.
Fascinating! I’ve started seeing channels with new eyes after watching several of your videos (and others) about the advertising sneakiness. Thank you for the content!👍
Fascinating! I truly had no idea. 😊👍
I have been looooving all your content! You’re amazing and hilarious and I really appreciate all these secrets you’re spilling! Thank you for making Wednesday delightful 🥰💜💜
You are a positive impact on me and the lovely community you have created. 🌟
Gosh I love your videos, now your letting us know all the little secrets, love it 😘
WOW! Learned lots of things today. Thank you for explaining.
Very informative. Thank you. I love your content . it is very entertaining and enjoyable ❤.
Very informative, thank you!
Charlotte, your topics are 🎯🎯🎯Such an informative video! ❤
Love your videos! I watch almost all. Found you through Lisa Eldridge reviews years ago. Very interesting what you explain about social media. And yes, I agree, it is your space, so you decide. I am not an influencer, but on my socials I am the same. If a friend writes something negative, I will just delete it, it's my space, and if they want to be negative they can be that in their own space. Love your approach. And the white things in your mouth look so pretty and make you extra beautiful.
Thank you for postinng this. It's important to reiterate the need for kind communication.
Thank you Charlotte, this is so insightful. Also explains the videos where influencers talk about a foundation and never mention the shade. Love your videos and your sense of humour. Looking forward to your next one. ❤
You have a beautiful smile! I love that you choose to keep your unique facial characteristics.
Love your channel because you always tell the truth.
I want to comment and say thank you for your transparency and insight into some aspects of YT influencers' world!
I thought I was pretty well versed in this stuff, but you taught me a TON today! Thank you for going in depth and giving examples. It was very eye-opening. Thanks for being such a fun and informative content creator!
Thanks for this video! It was super informative
Love this video super informative and kind
Fascinating! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
Hi Charlotte, thank you so much for this video, I truly learned so much & my heart is just singing right now! So many in today's culture need to hear this - positivity is contagious 🎉, & negativity is too. How we say things is just as important as what we say, and it actually does influence the energy of our surroundings. Thank you for helping to spread this message via your incredibly lovely, informative, funny, helpful, applicable, useful, positive content, I am so grateful for you. In case no one has told you yet today - you are such a valuable, lovely human, you rock girl!! ❤
Thanks for posting this, Charlotte. 💕 This is one of the best and most informative videos I've seen on TH-cam. I wish others were as considerate as you are trying to keep scammers and haters (aka "baddies") away from your subscribers.
I have been with you since you first started on TH-cam and you shared your love of makeup with us. You have always been honest and never pretended to be a professional makeup artist, and you make makeup relatable to us since most of us are not professional makeup artists either.
Keep doing what you are doing and continue to be your honest self. That's what we're here for. 😊
Your one of my favourite makeup TH-camrs.. I am always having a giggle, love your content 🥰
Such a great informative video Charlotte. Lots of things make sense now especially the leaving information on products etc. out of videos. I don’t always comment but I do love your videos ❤
You always spread so much sunshine and happiness into our lives, Charlotte! Not only are you informative about products, but you often make me howl with laughter!
You’re such a classy, talented lady, I can’t believe anyone would leave you mean comments! Says much more about them, and they deserve a good blocking. 😊
Thank you so much for addressing this Charlotte, its about time someone did xx
This is so interesting and you’re absolutely right, I’ll never un-see the spelling mistakes or omitted details on something they’re wearing or using. I saw a sign once in a cafe that I loved “Kindness is free, sprinkle that s-- everywhere!” 💛
.Loved this Beautiful Charlotte! I Never do understand some peoples actons or the reasons for them. Positivity is the bomb!
Commenting to increase engagement :)
Great content, as always. Thank you for being you. ❤
Thank you, Charlotte - “be kind” is a great message. I think the anonymity of social media gives people a sense there are no boundaries and/or consequences regarding our voice of words and how we use them. Love you content and you look fabulous ❣️❣️
You are such a treat to watch beautiful Charlotte ❤ I love your confidence and witty sense of humor ☺️ keep up the amazing work. Your makeup look also looks stunning today 💕💕💕
Love the “tea” videos. Regarding the missing product name/shade…now it makes sense, many times i’ve been asking the question or searching for the answer among many comments without success… clever 😏 . Looking forward for another chatty video ❤
Thank you 💛 I’m so sorry you have to even deal with this stuff. You are always a delight, and I look forward to your content each week :)
I love your videos ,especially the ones when you review products and tell us not to waste our money on them love love them you save me money especially as makeup is so expensive here in Australia, keep up your amazing content xxxx
Good information. Thanks for sharing.
Love this! So many young people are “raised” by the internet and don’t realize how important kindness is (some old ones need reminding, too). I remember being told that you can catch more flies with honey than vinegar. There are many old phrases that are just not used anymore but stuck back in the day! ❤
Omg great information thank you ❤
Really interesting! I love the analogy of being in the creators’’home’! If people don’t like the content they don’t have to watch at all, don’t need to be unpleasant. Well said! ❤
Actually, that metaphor isn’t exactly accurate. It’s more like people being in their business place. This is a business most influencers have created to make money, and it’s a product that they produce. (besides a few that do it as a hobby for fun, which are rare)
Very informative and insightful . 👏🏽
I just want to say thank you for always listing your nail polish and clothing in the description box so I never have to ask ☺I've heard all these secrets except the tricking us into engagement by withholding. Also saw another creator say that influencers make a higher commission off of products sold within the first week of launch. She said that's why a lot of their "first impressions" are always positive but they say they will have to update us later in their monthly favorites and that's when we get their real thoughts. Is that true?
I do try to comment on every video watched as an added way to thank someone for their content, even though some say they only read the comments within the first hour and I know it may not be seen. Glad to know that's not true for you. ♥
Mood hoovering...LOLOL omg that makes me laugh every time. Interesting video. Always fun to know what's going on behind the yt curtain per say
Thank you for your perspective on negative comments and how someone can think they are not coming across as negative but they do anyway. I never thought about how posting an unpopular opinion can come across negative instead of helpful for people in the comments so they know why some people don't like a product. We should always phrase our constructive criticism of a product in a way that it's understood that just because it didn't work for me it may work for someone else and why that would be. I believe that I do try to phrase things in as much of a positive way but going forward I'll double check and triple check that it cannot be misunderstood. I love your videos and enjoy every bit of your content.