Zan Perrion: How To Create A Reality That's Abundant With Women

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  • Close friend of The Fearless Man, Zan Perrion discusses how to create a reality that's abundant with women as he takes students through all the things he learned in his own journey from loner to men's coach, speaker, and author of "The Alabaster Girl."
    Zan Perrion (author, "The Alabaster Girl"; founder, Ars Amorata) is famous from Neil Strauss' "The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists" but "PUA" teachings never jived with him.
    Zan considers himself to be a lover and student of women. He speaks to men and women around the world about his views and experiences with women, confidence, and life. He formed his "Ars Amorata" men's coaching program and wrote "The Alabaster Girl," - you can now get the book free on Kindle or buy a paperback copy here: www.amazon.com/dp/B00KCWX6DY/...
    Have a question for Brian Begin? Ask here -
    www.thefearlessman.com/askbrian
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  • @christopherstrand9374
    @christopherstrand9374 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Zan Perrion never got bitter, never got angry, never gave up because he took extreme ownership and responsibility over himself and his behavior. Thats something that rare today and I can truly respect

  • @Pyraus
    @Pyraus 6 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    This is a western shaman. We need people like this. Him and Brian - what a great combination. I can see why they would be drawn to eachother, same mission.

  • @deinlebenleben7700
    @deinlebenleben7700 7 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    ...when you read "Zan Perrion" in the title and you know it's going to be awesome!

  • @rippedup4546
    @rippedup4546 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Zan and Brian's philosophy is the healthiest, most fulfilling take on masculine and feminine energy in relation to the dating world.

  • @Doctor.Kapow.
    @Doctor.Kapow. 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    "every great life has had a great renunciation."
    Word.

  • @deinlebenleben7700
    @deinlebenleben7700 7 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    This is the real deal! Every word he says is so powerful! and it's true: noone is gonna do it for you, but you!

  • @kludgybrains3459
    @kludgybrains3459 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    there is a perverse amount of truth to the grand points he makes and I'm so glad I've found this at a young age.

  • @robbiepayne924
    @robbiepayne924 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    True Zan. You are a kind of father. You're all i want to listen to. Im 54 and I became a boy to a man when I read your book and began to listen to you.

    • @silencebeats14
      @silencebeats14 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Which Book ? Are you talking about 'Alabaster Girl' ?....I mean I just wanted to know if he's got some other book too

  • @r.g.3636
    @r.g.3636 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    zan,,, you have really helped me ( age 67 ) to love my 40 yr. old girlfriend much much better,,, and how to interact with people in general..... thank you mr. coolio......royman

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      We'll pass the message on! Thanks for commenting and glad Zan's helped you

  • @charlie5thumbs351
    @charlie5thumbs351 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The way he describes himself when he was younger reminds me so much of me. If he can change, so can I!

    • @Papaleeo
      @Papaleeo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Have you changed?

    • @charlie5thumbs351
      @charlie5thumbs351 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Papaleeo Honestly, in regards to picking up women, no. There are aspects of my life that have indeed changed. I'm more disciplined and confident than I used to be. However, I admit I still have a long way to go. I don't want to pick up a bunch of women anyway. Just looking for one.

    • @rohandeodhar858
      @rohandeodhar858 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good for you bro !!! Cheers !!

  • @1212zeek1212
    @1212zeek1212 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I have Zan's book sitting a few feet away from me. I'm about a quarter of the way through it. It's true what Brian says at the end. Reading the book, I really do get into the vibes Zan talks about. I feel how the "character" (Zan) feels. It's like reading any other book, or watching a movie. You start getting into the shoes if the main character....
    Been learning from Brian for 3 years and Zan for 2. I've had and continue to have many adventures with women, and, on a much deeper level, with myself. I'm tremendously grateful for their teachings.
    Keep with it, everyone.
    Much love. Question everything.

    • @artix86
      @artix86 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There is also an audiobook read by Zan available now :)

    • @KennethKoronya77
      @KennethKoronya77 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      you bought it?@@artix86

  • @LianaBuzea
    @LianaBuzea 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Yep, this was the best talk so far! Some stories repeat, but there is more information here than in many other speeches. Felt more alive than others - because he had more time to speak and get into more stories.

  • @ZapatosVibes
    @ZapatosVibes 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    So much truth in one speech! However, I think (could be wrong, I can't really see the audience) that it went over their heads, simply because it's on a much higher level than what men typically are on when they attend this kind of seminar. Food for thought.

  • @douglaswilliams7720
    @douglaswilliams7720 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Zan is always worthwhile. As a dude, I am totally cynical about politics, media manipulation, organized religion, and the negative state of gender relations in the West . It seems that screeching harpies of 3rd wave feminism attack men all the time, in an oppressive atmosphere of negativity about sexual desire and men. Zan offers a vision of a healing that this fractured society needs, and it is interesting that this information is not found on television nor radio with millions of listeners. I will continue to seek out this wisdom!

  • @Bossssssssssssssss
    @Bossssssssssssssss 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Thankyou Zan and Brian...

  • @vaultvon2126
    @vaultvon2126 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    always get inspired. wake up when i listen to zan

  • @Indies210
    @Indies210 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I worked at an accounting firm for two years (quit in July..best decision of my life) but...I remember complimenting this one female co-worker when she would wear her wavy, with curls and it would always make her look so sexy. I would simply say that her hairs looks good when she wears it like this....I could notice the change in her, she would light up, seem happier in a way. Expressing truth and simply that w/out an agenda or something...just feels damn good.

  • @bobtheman1
    @bobtheman1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Wow, Zan is brilliant.

  • @Harryx74
    @Harryx74 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I identify with zan soo much. I always think of women and appreciate rheir beauty. One day I will be as good as zan. He's such an inspiration

  • @NewLeaf88
    @NewLeaf88 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Spot on in regards to reclaiming the polarity between men and women.

  • @stevenus
    @stevenus 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Inspiring as always, thank you Zan! 🙏🏼

  • @alealo7285
    @alealo7285 7 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Zan has that Johnny Depp kind of energy but more cheerful :)

    • @raspberrynation
      @raspberrynation 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ale Alo looks too

    • @stormcorrosion176
      @stormcorrosion176 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mitch Hedberg meets Johnny Depp meets Myles Kennedy=Zan Perrion.

    • @lifebydesign9435
      @lifebydesign9435 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      They share similar philosophies

  • @mauricesavaari
    @mauricesavaari 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    powerful talk

  • @emZee1994
    @emZee1994 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The fear of success. Fuck me that's so true and I thought I was the only one who felt this

  • @TheFearlessMan
    @TheFearlessMan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Learn about these principles and how you can become a powerfully masculine, grounded and attractive man - www.thefearlessmanlive.com

  • @TheFearlessMan
    @TheFearlessMan  6 ปีที่แล้ว

    EXCLUSIVE free training With Zan Perrion on "How You Can Develop The Masculine Energy Of A Man That’s Adored By Women" Click here for Today’s class... bit.ly/2NTGToP

  • @kgaugelokevin5205
    @kgaugelokevin5205 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Zan Perion is my sage

  • @Bossssssssssssssss
    @Bossssssssssssssss 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    The girl who's laughing should be speaking... :D

  • @michaelwashington451
    @michaelwashington451 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this it was very powerful it really speaks to your soul

  • @intagiblemist9676
    @intagiblemist9676 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Very good story. Actually. I enjoyed this. I had a sense this would be wholesome.

  • @flingoo
    @flingoo 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    1:01:50 The Work by Byron Katie is a more in depth guide to what Zan is talking about here. Highly recommended stuff, changed my life!

  • @footlongsubzero1128
    @footlongsubzero1128 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wish I knew this stuff 20 years ago, but I know my 20 year older self is looking back at me thinking, "I'm glad I learned this 20 years ago" 😉. Thanks for this 🙏🙏🙏

  • @ImmanuelSundar
    @ImmanuelSundar 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    at 1:33:37 Roger Scruton!!! I just watched another video where you said Beauty is not in Architecture and art and I Immediately remembered him :)

  • @mitsay
    @mitsay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is a beautiful speak. Thank you

  • @erikgabriel7102
    @erikgabriel7102 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is gold

  • @bigh66666
    @bigh66666 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you!

  • @raghavkhatri1763
    @raghavkhatri1763 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thanks zan p nd brian b

  • @Checkpoint_official
    @Checkpoint_official ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such a masterclass of life!

  • @schuschnix5261
    @schuschnix5261 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I always wanted to hear more details about Zan's Beginning, so what his work was about etc.Finally I heard it!What I miss abit is his "step into nothingness", meaning if you really give everything away, you still need someway to generate Money or have some, even if you just travel with the train or whatever.
    Or maybe Im wrong and just dont see the possibility even tho it exists.

    • @deinlebenleben7700
      @deinlebenleben7700 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      schusch nix I recommend to watch the youtube series "In Search of the Alabaster girl" on the Ars Amorata Channel. They discuss in 50 Episodes the entire book of him and therefore also the chapter "the way of discovery" where he also gives some new information about himself. Greetings!

    • @schuschnix5261
      @schuschnix5261 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      thanks okay I will. I actually have his book but havent gotten so far yet.

  • @soolikagsdi
    @soolikagsdi 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I'm surprised to hear that 1. Zan has a daughter and 2. He actually did ayahuasca. Although when I think about it both aren't that surprising. For a person like Zan who is so in tune with himself ayahuasca actually makes sense now.

    • @AnandVenigalla
      @AnandVenigalla 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      eternal where is the detail of his having a daughter?

    • @soolikagsdi
      @soolikagsdi 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      don't remember now but he definitely said it somewhere in this talk.

    • @Zyvaar
      @Zyvaar 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Anand Venigalla 1:39:10, speaking on others' fear of success.

    • @salimelhamzaoui1381
      @salimelhamzaoui1381 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Keylanos Lokj You are a close minded, shut up

    • @kugelmanno
      @kugelmanno 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @14Y4A SONG SHUAIPU thing is you should be really careful when it comes to trying this drug.
      Many people see demons and change afterwards. I know 2 people who have become real grifters afterwards.

  • @emZee1994
    @emZee1994 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Man I'm not even 10 mins in and I can already tell this talk is going to change my life
    EDIT: Amazing speech. I learnt so much. I swear every 5 mins was me going "f*ck" because I intuitively realised he just dropped a truth bomb on me that I knew was true subconsciously but consciously I didn't know it at all. I've only "met" this man a few hours ago and I already love him. I will buy your audiobook sir for sure

  • @bngdrummer9008
    @bngdrummer9008 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Holy shit his book came out when he was 50 I'm 50 there's Hope. I'm getting over a 20-year relationship cuz she's very helpful it's honest

    • @seanchoes
      @seanchoes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      whats the 27 club? a nigga cant make it past 21...

  • @ayseyyes
    @ayseyyes ปีที่แล้ว

    Great content man and you did it years ago. Thanks.

  • @kpthebyrdman4326
    @kpthebyrdman4326 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1:54:10 not one person got in the crowd caught his joke there lol... good video man

  • @brandonjones5401
    @brandonjones5401 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Good stuff

  • @joshklinger1
    @joshklinger1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    WOW, JUST WOW

  • @mark-mckelvie
    @mark-mckelvie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So he grew up in a forest where his mom was abused by a succession of men and he lived off the land until he decided go into civilization and lead an international corporation before became a leader of the pickup movement, then wrote a book about it?

  • @almarinademi7968
    @almarinademi7968 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful!

  • @George_S_Williams
    @George_S_Williams 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Profound talk!

  • @70siddharth
    @70siddharth 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I could listen to him anytime so profound

  • @Christianpreaching
    @Christianpreaching 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good message

  • @charly40fication
    @charly40fication 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful Zan. I love you brother. See you soon in Bucarest. - Charles

  • @clevertrevor9036
    @clevertrevor9036 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    40:00 thats so true

  • @footlongsubzero1128
    @footlongsubzero1128 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so scary 😬, but thank you so so much for this video 🙏👍👍

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's great to acknowledge. Can you say more about what is scary? - Andrew, TFM Staff

    • @footlongsubzero1128
      @footlongsubzero1128 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheFearlessMan So sorry, minor misunderstanding 🙊. This comment belongs to a different video. I leave comments at the end of videos and autoplay must've confused my actions. Thanks for pointing this out so I'll recheck next time I leave TH-cam comments

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@footlongsubzero1128 No worries man, just was curious - Andrew, TFM

  • @michaelwinkler7841
    @michaelwinkler7841 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Brian and Zan,
    I have a personal question to you guys i'm very curious about: do you know the personality type system called the enneagram? What ware your types?
    Thanks for creating awesome content and talking about these things. Our generation of men needs this very much.

  • @FreedomLovin
    @FreedomLovin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "Has there ever been a time when there were happy childhoods?" No, but that's exactly why we have the messed up angry world we do right now. It's good that at least some people are trying to heal their childhoods, most never do and this destroys society. Just look around today in 2020, think we need more healing of childhood traumas or less?

  • @oscarespinosa3276
    @oscarespinosa3276 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    22:00 this is the mental shift that we need to learn!!! god bless my friends

  • @zeroresistance7203
    @zeroresistance7203 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Listening to this will help me get an abundant lifestyle with women?.

  • @spookflytalker4206
    @spookflytalker4206 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    love the Bible verses you dropped in ever so slyly

  • @adianroman2469
    @adianroman2469 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I wish that one day I can be as honest with the world as Zan. I will take steps every day towards it, and I really want myself to get there, because that’s the beauty of man, and I see that now. I see that I haven’t been as honest as I’ve thought and I will do my best to turn that around. Also, I really want hit on my crush.

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great realizations

    • @ericwimer4067
      @ericwimer4067 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Adian Roman I’m working to become this as well. I’ll definetlu get there. But as he said he started connecting the dots in his 30s and it sounds like it really came together in his 40s. Keep working my friend. The beautiful thing is we all have our inner “Zan Perrion.” We just have to chip away the excess.

  • @antongruber5978
    @antongruber5978 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    49 - from questions to statements *

  • @chriswanderer138
    @chriswanderer138 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Zan is certainly interesting, I would love to practice his material.
    What do you guys think of Brent Smith?

  • @sufihoney403
    @sufihoney403 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Never give up on your personal evolution, Zan =)
    Seek for eternity !
    Become a Buda !

  • @adm7038
    @adm7038 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏

  • @braddockakalatis2
    @braddockakalatis2 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    14:35 Is that girl saying "I know"? Is she a lesbian or bisexual? How did they calm the guys in the audience down for her presence there?

  • @jsmalec
    @jsmalec 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Since we are unable to hear the entirety of the questions from the audience it would be helpful if Zan would repeat the question for the TH-cam viewing audience. Thanks.

  • @theholdingcompany
    @theholdingcompany 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One method is to develop the ninja ballerina snowboard style within yourself

  • @jbarkerhill92
    @jbarkerhill92 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Did they have to put the coughing guy right next to the mic. Really distracting

  • @blackpeppericecream
    @blackpeppericecream 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Keep trying, change that loser mindset and have self acceptance.
    All those shit rejections will be great laughs with the girl u finally meet :)

  • @theholdingcompany
    @theholdingcompany 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yo let's put together a big conference at Keystone and bring all the guys for a week and I'll bring him snowboarding and get Divinity moving through their body with our ninja ballerina snowboarding style. You guys got to get off the yoga mats and out of the f****** seminar rooms you got to start moving energy through your body's so you can tell women about it. Come out here book a conference I'll speak at it and do my part

  • @erandahettiarachchige7354
    @erandahettiarachchige7354 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey mate you say you figure out programming and website design yourself. You progress in in your carrier and then you quit it at the top. You wanted chase what you like which was women because you absolutely love them. Then you wanted lean about women but there were no self help books about women or internet?
    Apologies in advance in I didn’t get the sequence. I’m spending 2hrs of my life to listen and lean to your life but I’m a bit confused.

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you have a question? - Andrew, TFM Team

  • @sithembelestofile3738
    @sithembelestofile3738 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    nah I lost him

  • @kpitonak
    @kpitonak 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That coughing guy...

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't let a minor distraction keep you from getting the benefits of Zan's talk. - Andrew, TFM Team

  • @NewLeaf88
    @NewLeaf88 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    THRUST!!!!!

  • @jlukiss3050
    @jlukiss3050 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bruh y’all look and sound the same

  • @questionseveryth1ng
    @questionseveryth1ng 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    why tf would you base your life around women 🤷‍♂️

    • @alex_4trth
      @alex_4trth 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Have you read his book?