What’s so weird about this is that thandi did exactly what darkskin monoracial black women wanted mixed women or lightskin black women do and that’s acknowledge their privilege and that still wasn’t enough. All the time they ask us to “acknowledge our privilege” and the moment we apparently do it’s meant with criticism?
Damned if you do, damned if you don't! There's no satisfying truly miserable people. They just move the goal post and cry about something new. Thank you for watching! ❤
What man did she take? She was married to a white guy. He belongs to white women. And what work? Hollywood belongs to anyone who wants to get there. I said it.😊
I’m sick and tired of these UABW calling biracial women light skinned BW. Thandie is white identified and that’s perfectly her right. What UABW need to do is address this matter with blk casting directors and production companies. UABP deliberately cast mixed and biracial women over their own then start crying all over the place and acting the victim.
1:02 You could tell that she really was being honest about how she felt about herself in relation to black women. This is WHY I stand by my theory that it’s not good for LS women’s mental health to solely identify as black.
@@Zimaala I can’t stand you LS apologists that bussy pop in comment sections, determined NOT to empathize with other people just like you. What are you even doing here??? And explain how caring about mixed women’s mental health plays into white supremacy? 🎤🎙️
People get the roles because they are talented. No one owes anyone anything. If you didn't get the role, you weren't good enough 🤷♀️ I wouldn't have apologized.
Lets also acknowledge the fact that Zendaya and Thandie/Thandiwe are about 30 years different in age so the things that Zendaya can do now are because of all these women that came before her. Thandie did not necessarily have that privilege coming up in Hollywood when she did. The scales are tipping. Now on the other hand, I have seen Thandie in roles that any type could have played i.e. Mission Impossible. Great topic and discussion btw. I enjoy the content.
Exactly. I was surprised not to see a white woman in the role that she played in Mission impossible. That to me is a white woman’s role. So now what roles does she take from dark black women? Looks like absolutely nothing, just another agenda.🤪
I have a Dark-skinned mom It's hard to overcome not seeing your mom in the face of every dark-skinned woman. But they are not your mom. Your mom is your mom. I get it you want to be nice and make the world a better place. America's dark skin Exile is not your fault. You might say to yourself that could easily be my mom. We talk a lot about daddy issues but we don't talk as a society about mommy issues. She just wanted to take all the blame but that's a lot just to put on One Singular person. Her mom is dead or alive I pray that see show more attention to that relationship and stand in her strength instead of this victim mentality. This is the light-skinned victim mentality right here can you do one on the light skin Survivor mentality?
I def get where you're coming from with having a dark skinned mother-it's hard not to project her image on the women who share her likeness but it's also harmful sometimes. I do the same thing myself sometimes around older women. We don't talk enough about Mommy issues but I think the BC suffers from it a lot. I can speak on this because I've had to work through both mommy and daddy issues. I'll do a video on LS Survivor mentality-that's a really good idea! Thank you for watching and for sharing your experiences on this! ❤️⚜️✨
@@PrettyWorldwideOfficialright. I have an UADSBM as a father and I am reminded of him when I see black men. But that also doesn’t mean I will allow black men to mistreat me . I don’t have to be everyone’s social justice warrior. I choose to speak on things that effect me personally and I allow men who look like my dad to create spaces for his phenotype and experiences . We can’t be everything to everybody and light skinned women are tired of being pulled in and out of everyone’s communities . We can’t save everyone . also just because we don’t stand up for a particular thing doesn’t mean we support that thing. I’m not out protesting about racism but it doesn’t mean I support racism. People have different ways of expressing themselves and lighter women have freedom of speech just like anyone else .
Yes, I couldn't understand why she would apologize for something she can't control. I'm looking forward to the day Beyounce stop internally apologizing for her beauty, there, I said it! 👍
They give us so much power 😂 they act like thandie can make you the next tika sumpter . Thandie is just a working actress like the other girls. She doesn’t own the biggest production companies and is not a casting director .
@@trxphywaifwhat phebotype does fika sumpters have dhe is fully black last. I checked snd she does represent blackness black is beautiful along with other subgroups of it like biracial and mixed women and men also tika sumpter features are typically seen in black women big lips or nice size wude forehead and nice. Nose there is more than one variation of black features like most white people are. Psle there are some who have color too
Only problem: it's the "white woman" roles that these (non-actress) critics actually want. And anyway-- same your complaints for the BLACK executives who typically cast MLS/MGM actresses in their films.
Not "I'm sorry I was the one chosen." Baby please. I learned not to apologize for things I can't control because they said "forget my ls tears." I miss Thandie on the screen cause she can act her butt off. I miss Zoe too
After everything said, my take away is, at least she didn't pretend like she didn't see it happening, she admitted to seeing it happen while she was operating from the inside. A lot of light skinned women gaslight dark skin women about it. Most of them do. And then it's twisted into envy for light skin girls. Most light-skinned girls just say "you're just jealous that they're always choosing me." But this is a light-skinned girl looking deeper saying "I've seen so many times where they should have chosen a darker skin girl and they didn't." I do respect that acknowledgement.
I love Thandie… but the truth is she has NEVER got a leading role that won a major award and made her ultra-famous. Colorists are mad that Thandie is consistently cast as the pretty girl- whether it’s as a tragic pretty victim, alien femme fatale, love interest in a spy movie, I haven’t seen Westworld but it looks like she plays a femme fatale robot in there, etc. They were hating on Thandie being typecast for her beauty. Because let’s face it, actresses that look like Hattie and Viola do not get typecast as hot girls and femme fatales. 🤷🏻♀️🤣
LOL!! Exactly, you nailed it-they're jealous of the fact that she's been type-cast as the "pretty/hot femme fatale" but acting like they're just upset at her success. That's such a great distinction!! The gaslighting and deflection is so real. 🤣
Honestly, tandi is a half black woman herself, so how were the roles she was taking snatched from dark skin black women? Unless the roles she was playing was a true story and the original characters were dark skinned. Tandi didn't need to apologize. She was a good actress, we need to stop blaming other people for taking privileges that they wasn't responsible for giving. Dark black skin is beautiful and unambiguous black women are beautiful as they are, just accept yourself, love you and ignore the hate. There is nothing wrong with your dark skin, it's something wrong with people who hate you or your dark skin. Be confident. Black women need more roles as wives and mothers next to black men in Hollywood
You know, young lady you need to learn a lot of black women history to understand what these women are talking about in these clips and it really is sad that so many of you young women of today are so anti-black and you don’t even know it
LOL Exactly! 🤣💯 Funny how they're quick to bring up Hattie as "the first black woman to win an Oscar" but I see her at the first of many UADSBW to betray their collective reputation.
@@PrettyWorldwideOfficial that’s the perfect way to describe it. They hate being stereotyped but they worship women like sukihana, she’s another one of them that makes UABW look terrible but they love her
Yup!! It's like they never take into consideration the character of the person, just the skin color. That's the total opposite of what MLK died for lol! 🤣
You didn't show the whole interview. Thandiwe was not being genuine. Thandi should not have apologized or even addressed this because not her job to ensure that ds women work. But she was definitely not being genuine.
What’s so weird about this is that thandi did exactly what darkskin monoracial black women wanted mixed women or lightskin black women do and that’s acknowledge their privilege and that still wasn’t enough. All the time they ask us to “acknowledge our privilege” and the moment we apparently do it’s meant with criticism?
Damned if you do, damned if you don't! There's no satisfying truly miserable people. They just move the goal post and cry about something new. Thank you for watching! ❤
What man did she take? She was married to a white guy. He belongs to white women. And what work? Hollywood belongs to anyone who wants to get there. I said it.😊
Zendaya is smart. She knows what to go for. If I were in zendaya's place, I'd do the same.
🎯💯Exactly, this is not personal "it's just showbiz, kid". Thank you for watching!
The "I’m sorry for taking your men, your roles, your jobs" line still makes me scream LMAO. 😭 Thandiwe was so iconic for that.
🤣🤣🤣 pure jokes!!
I’m sick and tired of these UABW calling biracial women light skinned BW. Thandie is white identified and that’s perfectly her right. What UABW need to do is address this matter with blk casting directors and production companies. UABP deliberately cast mixed and biracial women over their own then start crying all over the place and acting the victim.
1:02 You could tell that she really was being honest about how she felt about herself in relation to black women. This is WHY I stand by my theory that it’s not good for LS women’s mental health to solely identify as black.
That sounds so effing stupid......and my LS family members would tell you the same thing.....look like y'all are falling into the WS game plan......
And Black women do not come in one color...smdh at the dumbness today the hatred and trying to disguise it as love.. you will be exposed as well...
@@Zimaala I can’t stand you LS apologists that bussy pop in comment sections, determined NOT to empathize with other people just like you. What are you even doing here??? And explain how caring about mixed women’s mental health plays into white supremacy? 🎤🎙️
Damn Thandie…I hate she did this, she didn’t have a damn thing to apologize for…she seems sincere and sweet but baaaaaaby…I would never
People get the roles because they are talented. No one owes anyone anything. If you didn't get the role, you weren't good enough 🤷♀️ I wouldn't have apologized.
Some o fan the time
But talent has never been the only qualification in Hollywood
Lets also acknowledge the fact that Zendaya and Thandie/Thandiwe are about 30 years different in age so the things that Zendaya can do now are because of all these women that came before her. Thandie did not necessarily have that privilege coming up in Hollywood when she did. The scales are tipping. Now on the other hand, I have seen Thandie in roles that any type could have played i.e. Mission Impossible. Great topic and discussion btw. I enjoy the content.
Exactly. I was surprised not to see a white woman in the role that she played in Mission impossible. That to me is a white woman’s role. So now what roles does she take from dark black women? Looks like absolutely nothing, just another agenda.🤪
I have a Dark-skinned mom It's hard to overcome not seeing your mom in the face of every dark-skinned woman. But they are not your mom. Your mom is your mom. I get it you want to be nice and make the world a better place. America's dark skin Exile is not your fault. You might say to yourself that could easily be my mom. We talk a lot about daddy issues but we don't talk as a society about mommy issues. She just wanted to take all the blame but that's a lot just to put on One Singular person. Her mom is dead or alive I pray that see show more attention to that relationship and stand in her strength instead of this victim mentality. This is the light-skinned victim mentality right here can you do one on the light skin Survivor mentality?
I def get where you're coming from with having a dark skinned mother-it's hard not to project her image on the women who share her likeness but it's also harmful sometimes. I do the same thing myself sometimes around older women. We don't talk enough about Mommy issues but I think the BC suffers from it a lot. I can speak on this because I've had to work through both mommy and daddy issues. I'll do a video on LS Survivor mentality-that's a really good idea! Thank you for watching and for sharing your experiences on this! ❤️⚜️✨
@@PrettyWorldwideOfficial that's awesome! I'm looking forward to tuning in again. What is BC?
@@PrettyWorldwideOfficialright. I have an UADSBM as a father and I am reminded of him when I see black men. But that also doesn’t mean I will allow black men to mistreat me . I don’t have to be everyone’s social justice warrior. I choose to speak on things that effect me personally and I allow men who look like my dad to create spaces for his phenotype and experiences . We can’t be everything to everybody and light skinned women are tired of being pulled in and out of everyone’s communities . We can’t save everyone . also just because we don’t stand up for a particular thing doesn’t mean we support that thing. I’m not out protesting about racism but it doesn’t mean I support racism. People have different ways of expressing themselves and lighter women have freedom of speech just like anyone else .
@@ExoticalsUnitedlmao you’re pulled in and out? black ppl have completely revoked my “black card” 😂 LMAO
Thank you!! BC = Black Community!
Omg I’m screaming at the thumbnail 😂😂😂😂
Making the thumbnails are so fun! 🤣❤️🤣
Yes, I couldn't understand why she would apologize for something she can't control. I'm looking forward to the day Beyounce stop internally apologizing for her beauty, there, I said it! 👍
They give us so much power 😂 they act like thandie can make you the next tika sumpter . Thandie is just a working actress like the other girls. She doesn’t own the biggest production companies and is not a casting director .
they wanna be tika sumpter soooo bad😂 and they try to act like most of them have her phenotype as well! The delusion is so real
Exactly, they keep trying to turn us into their Activists or something! 🤔🤣
Right, like what do they want her to do, starve for their sake??
@@trxphywaifwhat phebotype does fika sumpters have dhe is fully black last. I checked snd she does represent blackness black is beautiful along with other subgroups of it like biracial and mixed women and men also tika sumpter features are typically seen in black women big lips or nice size wude forehead and nice. Nose there is more than one variation of black features like most white people are. Psle there are some who have color too
Only problem: it's the "white woman" roles that these (non-actress) critics actually want. And anyway-- same your complaints for the BLACK executives who typically cast MLS/MGM actresses in their films.
Exactly! They keep only addressing the symptoms and ignoring the disease lol!
👆🏼truth
I agree we should never apologize for how we are born and us getting opportunities those are our biggest blessings we should love who we are
Not "I'm sorry I was the one chosen." Baby please. I learned not to apologize for things I can't control because they said "forget my ls tears." I miss Thandie on the screen cause she can act her butt off. I miss Zoe too
After everything said, my take away is, at least she didn't pretend like she didn't see it happening, she admitted to seeing it happen while she was operating from the inside. A lot of light skinned women gaslight dark skin women about it. Most of them do. And then it's twisted into envy for light skin girls. Most light-skinned girls just say "you're just jealous that they're always choosing me." But this is a light-skinned girl looking deeper saying "I've seen so many times where they should have chosen a darker skin girl and they didn't." I do respect that acknowledgement.
I love the energy of this video. New subscriber here. I couldn't watch the dsbw centred videos because of the energy.
Thank you for watching and welcome!! I used to feel the same way about UADSBW channels! 💌💌
So...was it black american women criticizing Thandie or was it black britain women? Just curious....
That's a good question 🤔I've seen both American and British BW criticize her but I can't quite say who was harsher or who did it more.
Oprah gave her her first American role, Beloved. So a ds black woman gave her, her first role.
I love Thandie… but the truth is she has NEVER got a leading role that won a major award and made her ultra-famous. Colorists are mad that Thandie is consistently cast as the pretty girl- whether it’s as a tragic pretty victim, alien femme fatale, love interest in a spy movie, I haven’t seen Westworld but it looks like she plays a femme fatale robot in there, etc. They were hating on Thandie being typecast for her beauty. Because let’s face it, actresses that look like Hattie and Viola do not get typecast as hot girls and femme fatales. 🤷🏻♀️🤣
LOL!! Exactly, you nailed it-they're jealous of the fact that she's been type-cast as the "pretty/hot femme fatale" but acting like they're just upset at her success. That's such a great distinction!! The gaslighting and deflection is so real. 🤣
Honestly, tandi is a half black woman herself, so how were the roles she was taking snatched from dark skin black women? Unless the roles she was playing was a true story and the original characters were dark skinned. Tandi didn't need to apologize. She was a good actress, we need to stop blaming other people for taking privileges that they wasn't responsible for giving. Dark black skin is beautiful and unambiguous black women are beautiful as they are, just accept yourself, love you and ignore the hate. There is nothing wrong with your dark skin, it's something wrong with people who hate you or your dark skin. Be confident. Black women need more roles as wives and mothers next to black men in Hollywood
Amazing video. I love your content ❤
Thank you for watching!! 🥰❤
13:43 Yeah, I get your point, but "12 Years A Slave" (2013) was amazing!
I heard it was really good! Also, I forgot that I saw Djanjo-that's technically the last slave movie I watched lol! 🤭🤣 Thank you for watching✨✨
You know, young lady you need to learn a lot of black women history to understand what these women are talking about in these clips and it really is sad that so many of you young women of today are so anti-black and you don’t even know it
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I love the animation ❤🌸
Hattie is a terrible example im sorry😂 so many stereotypes, but I guess it makes sense because Loni looks more like Hattie so it’s personal for her
LOL Exactly! 🤣💯 Funny how they're quick to bring up Hattie as "the first black woman to win an Oscar" but I see her at the first of many UADSBW to betray their collective reputation.
@@PrettyWorldwideOfficial that’s the perfect way to describe it. They hate being stereotyped but they worship women like sukihana, she’s another one of them that makes UABW look terrible but they love her
Yup!! It's like they never take into consideration the character of the person, just the skin color. That's the total opposite of what MLK died for lol! 🤣
You didn't show the whole interview. Thandiwe was not being genuine.
Thandi should not have apologized or even addressed this because not her job to ensure that ds women work. But she was definitely not being genuine.
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