Here's a link to my relationship workshop, 6 short videos with most, if not all of what you need to get the most out of your relationships. Also a chance to sneak a peek at what my channel, and I, looked like before we were converted to ASMR #speccyfoureyes th-cam.com/play/PLQIWsraS8nQs1gTAIAtiiCiLy7bMdqWL7.html
What have you done with that other person? 😂 I have a theory.. That other person is your sister & she had started a channel then stopped doing it because she was too busy with work etc.. You had nowhere to go so she let you stay above the garage on the condition that you do the school runs.. While she is out at work you dig through her psychology books for ideas for vids.. The Whispering just happened to be the most convenient bit because no-one can hear you when you're making vids so you've got away with it thus far.. Am I close? 🤓
I know that this a professional channel, but I was wondering if you'd consider doing a "draw my life" that a lot of channels do? Even if you leave out certain things that you feel are too personal for your own privacy, I'm sure I'm not the only one who'd be interested :)
@@Echo-yk1id I've been thinking about this and because it is a more 'professional' channel I am thinking I might do this more behind the scenes stuff on Patreon. I will keep thinking and let you know xx
Wow... what a difference in presentation! Definitely something I want to watch, but *not* something I can play in the background at work. I'm hoping the "osmosis method" is working as my subconscious soaks up your softly spoken words of wisdom... :)
Kind of off topic but I really love how you start off the videos the same with tapping the matches container and lighting the candle. At first I didn’t really care one way or the other about it, but the more videos I’ve watched it’s become familiar and reassuring to have each time. I would have to say it’s probably one of my favorite parts of your videos because of that
Thank you for sharing your insights - some good “food for thought.” Perhaps not entirely related, but another line of thinking popped into my head. I’ve heard that, if, for some reason you find yourself at odds with a particular person, the particular trait that is irritating you, is more than likely the same trait in yourself that you struggle with. It is as if a “mirror” is being held up, and you can’t bear to look at it. A taste of your own medicine, in a way. I tend to get along with most people, so when I do struggle with someone, I tend to take pause and step back and determine what particular trait I am struggling with, and then examine, I have I not come to terms wth that also in myself. Forgive my late-night rambling. You are the expert, and I enjoy your videos. I think I will need to rewatch again later, but with eyes closed, to avoid visual distractions 👩🏻🦰☺️
This information and the clear way you explain it is helping me step aside from a very stuck unhealthy relationship pattern, with my wife. When she starts criticising things I have done and said in social situations, where she is very opinionated in my poor behaviour, I am finding now a way to step aside and hold myself together. The knowledge from your explanation is so so valuable. I can’t thank you enough Emma. This help from you has done more than thousands of pounds spent on a relationship counsellor and probably saved the marriage, at least from not being unbalanced. Thank you again x
That's fantastic my friend, I'm so glad you found it helpful. Here's an extension: Relationship Workshop: th-cam.com/play/PLQIWsraS8nQs1gTAIAtiiCiLy7bMdqWL7.html
I love your videos so much, Emma :) You explain everything so well, and it always makes me feel good and often teaches me something new. I loved this video, and I used to hate the way people would often would say things like "Nobody is thinking about you" because it was said in a very negative way, when, in reality, it isn't true, at least not in that way and the way it sounded. The way you explained it was very good and put in such a great way, all of it. We are all doing it, and we are never alone. It is all human. Thank you, Emma.
Thank you so much for taking the time to send me this lovely message, I really do appreciate it and your support. I'm so glad that my videos are helping you. Sweet dreams my friend xx
You are so helpfull, i listen so many videos like this and all of them are talking crap for hours and i didin't understand nothing. Finally someone that really feals real, thank you for making this channel. Keep going♡ Ps. Pls make a video about self love and kindness
Off topic but what do you use in your hair to make it look so soft and shiny? My curls always seem to look like I’ve been dragged through a hedge backwards. X
If I was ever to have a therapist it’d be you, 100% I feel like I’m having therapy watching your videos especially this one so thank you 🙏 god bless you
Hello, I'm new to your channel and I have to say you are one of my favorites already. Your voice is really soothing and you are also very beautiful. Please keep making these types of videos! Thank you!
I wonder what it's like as psychologist/psychiatrist and to be dating. How could you turn off your analytical side and not see the mental "illness" in others?
Yeah that's a good point we all need to take a step back that way we can give a little bit of distance between ourselves people are self-absorbed or self-involvement it's the ego and also the superego but there unable to relate to other people because they can't get past themselves
Still busy. Started another drawing/art project. I will have many less human interactions for a while lol. But sometimes thats good too. Thanks for all the great content as always
I prefer the soft spoken versions of your nice and interesting videos. But try to avoid the role play versions as they seem more of an ASMR copy that really are too common elsewhere. Stick to your original guns.
Sorry you don't like the format of the roleplays. This is actually something I did a lot in my in training so it's modelled on this rather than anything else......it does seem to be an effective way of giving those that haven't yet or can't experience therapy an experience of it, so seems valuable for that reason if no other. I guess maybe you can just stick to the other formats. People find different things helpful xx
Here's a link to my relationship workshop, 6 short videos with most, if not all of what you need to get the most out of your relationships. Also a chance to sneak a peek at what my channel, and I, looked like before we were converted to ASMR #speccyfoureyes
th-cam.com/play/PLQIWsraS8nQs1gTAIAtiiCiLy7bMdqWL7.html
What have you done with that other person? 😂 I have a theory.. That other person is your sister & she had started a channel then stopped doing it because she was too busy with work etc.. You had nowhere to go so she let you stay above the garage on the condition that you do the school runs.. While she is out at work you dig through her psychology books for ideas for vids.. The Whispering just happened to be the most convenient bit because no-one can hear you when you're making vids so you've got away with it thus far.. Am I close? 🤓
@@-TheRealThing- That is the 'I've just had ANOTHER baby and I am too tired to wash my hair and put my contact lenses in" version of me 😉
I know that this a professional channel, but I was wondering if you'd consider doing a "draw my life" that a lot of channels do? Even if you leave out certain things that you feel are too personal for your own privacy, I'm sure I'm not the only one who'd be interested :)
@@Echo-yk1id I've been thinking about this and because it is a more 'professional' channel I am thinking I might do this more behind the scenes stuff on Patreon. I will keep thinking and let you know xx
Wow... what a difference in presentation! Definitely something I want to watch, but *not* something I can play in the background at work. I'm hoping the "osmosis method" is working as my subconscious soaks up your softly spoken words of wisdom... :)
Kind of off topic but I really love how you start off the videos the same with tapping the matches container and lighting the candle. At first I didn’t really care one way or the other about it, but the more videos I’ve watched it’s become familiar and reassuring to have each time. I would have to say it’s probably one of my favorite parts of your videos because of that
I agree 💓 classical conditioning at its finest
THE ENTIRE INTERNET NEEDED THIS, thank you. 😊❤️✨
Thank you for sharing your insights - some good “food for thought.” Perhaps not entirely related, but another line of thinking popped into my head. I’ve heard that, if, for some reason you find yourself at odds with a particular person, the particular trait that is irritating you, is more than likely the same trait in yourself that you struggle with. It is as if a “mirror” is being held up, and you can’t bear to look at it. A taste of your own medicine, in a way. I tend to get along with most people, so when I do struggle with someone, I tend to take pause and step back and determine what particular trait I am struggling with, and then examine, I have I not come to terms wth that also in myself. Forgive my late-night rambling. You are the expert, and I enjoy your videos. I think I will need to rewatch again later, but with eyes closed, to avoid visual distractions 👩🏻🦰☺️
Holy shitttttt that's why I have a hate-love relationship with my crushhhhhh ... That hurts and makes sense . Thanks tho lol .
This is very good insight. Thank you!
Love this video, whenever I have relationships issues I play it, it always helps me keep a focus on myself. Huge thanks Emma. X
You're so welcome!
This information and the clear way you explain it is helping me step aside from a very stuck unhealthy relationship pattern, with my wife. When she starts criticising things I have done and said in social situations, where she is very opinionated in my poor behaviour, I am finding now a way to step aside and hold myself together. The knowledge from your explanation is so so valuable. I can’t thank you enough Emma. This help from you has done more than thousands of pounds spent on a relationship counsellor and probably saved the marriage, at least from not being unbalanced. Thank you again x
That's fantastic my friend, I'm so glad you found it helpful. Here's an extension:
Relationship Workshop: th-cam.com/play/PLQIWsraS8nQs1gTAIAtiiCiLy7bMdqWL7.html
I love your videos so much, Emma :) You explain everything so well, and it always makes me feel good and often teaches me something new. I loved this video, and I used to hate the way people would often would say things like "Nobody is thinking about you" because it was said in a very negative way, when, in reality, it isn't true, at least not in that way and the way it sounded. The way you explained it was very good and put in such a great way, all of it. We are all doing it, and we are never alone. It is all human. Thank you, Emma.
Thank you so much for taking the time to send me this lovely message, I really do appreciate it and your support. I'm so glad that my videos are helping you. Sweet dreams my friend xx
Goodnight everyone this marks my first full week of listening too these before bed hope everyone has a wonderfull slumber!
Thank you. This was actually immensely helpful.
You are so helpfull, i listen so many videos like this and all of them are talking crap for hours and i didin't understand nothing. Finally someone that really feals real, thank you for making this channel. Keep going♡
Ps. Pls make a video about self love and kindness
Off topic but what do you use in your hair to make it look so soft and shiny? My curls always seem to look like I’ve been dragged through a hedge backwards. X
I am just putting together a list/links to this stuff, watch this space xx
you have the most warm, lovely voice and I'm obsessed with it! 😍
Thank you so much for bringing my anxiety down today, it was terrible❤️
Your hair looks amazing
If I was ever to have a therapist it’d be you, 100% I feel like I’m having therapy watching your videos especially this one so thank you 🙏 god bless you
Great work! Thank you
Hello, I'm new to your channel and I have to say you are one of my favorites already. Your voice is really soothing and you are also very beautiful. Please keep making these types of videos! Thank you!
Thank you for another great video x
I could use your help more than ever right now.
The first video I watched of yours made me sleep within 3 minutes. I woke myself up to snoring, I usually don’t snore 😂
That dog 😮.Oh my God . 😊❤
@Angel 24🐶 your Dog is marvelous 😃. Mine too😊. All dogs are ❤.
I wonder what it's like as psychologist/psychiatrist and to be dating. How could you turn off your analytical side and not see the mental "illness" in others?
It is a struggle!!
Spoiling us with videos!
Yeah that's a good point we all need to take a step back that way we can give a little bit of distance between ourselves people are self-absorbed or self-involvement it's the ego and also the superego but there unable to relate to other people because they can't get past themselves
Still busy. Started another drawing/art project. I will have many less human interactions for a while lol. But sometimes thats good too. Thanks for all the great content as always
You're the best. Keep it up.
Where has this channel been ?! 😭💛💛
❤️❤️❤️
Bingo 💕
Omg u sound like Esther from The Vampire Diaries/ The Originals
Second 😀
I'm a relatively new sub, but your videos have really helped with my state of mind. I'd even pay for a Skype session.
te aroha o aotearoa 💚🖤
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Whatever....
I prefer the soft spoken versions of your nice and interesting videos. But try to avoid the role play versions as they seem more of an ASMR copy that really are too common elsewhere. Stick to your original guns.
Sorry you don't like the format of the roleplays. This is actually something I did a lot in my in training so it's modelled on this rather than anything else......it does seem to be an effective way of giving those that haven't yet or can't experience therapy an experience of it, so seems valuable for that reason if no other. I guess maybe you can just stick to the other formats. People find different things helpful xx