Hi Kimberly, I just finished watching the show and I’m shocked by the disrespect this family has shown towards you. I was born and raised in India, where many women, especially in more conservative areas, often face a deeply patriarchal society that strips them of their self-worth. Please don’t let yourself be diminished or pushed around in the name of culture, religion, or tradition. Know your worth and stand firm against this toxic environment. I truly wish you the best and hope you make choices that honor and protect yourself.
He makes a good point about boundaries in other countries versus USA. I don't think people in general know that in some countries they don't really exist in the same context. Good comments about independent going to a couple. Liked TJ comments about the truck load of people. I think TJ compliments you Kim and vice versa. At the end of the day, if you are willing to put in the effort to grow and water your relationship, it doesn't matter what anyone says or thinks. It's your relationship and as long as no one is being harmed then I would say continue growing it.
Sorry but girl you deserve better. You can make a better house and family than this. I feel bad for you, please know your worth, you are an absolutely beautiful person who has been pushed to her limits and somewhat forced to conform to these backwards views. Don’t waste your life on him or his family’s mistreatments 😢 it’s not a ‘cultural’ thing, he is gaslighting you, I was born and raised in India and am Indian 100% he’s misleadingly telling you to tolerate shit in the name of some crazy culture that only exists in his household and nowhere else.
i see your jealous comments in every video, stop being sick buddy, she loves her life, let her live her life, stop being salty on others and stop living low life, you will also get someone if you change your mentality, stop behaving like typical indian girls, thats why many indian men are marrying outside nowadays because of gold digger mentality of indian women
Yeah, I’m well aware of the gaslighting that’s why I didn’t accept what he was saying. I know my worth and know his too, which is why I needed to leave India. 💖✨ thank you for your kindness and passion. Your energy lights up the world around you, not just rooms that you’re in🌻
@@PositivelyKimberly Omg please take care of yourself and don’t let anyone treat you differently 🩵 sending love energy healing,❤️🩹 happy, healthy vibes to you 🏵️
Same here. I’m from India to born and raised here and I am a girl and for sure this guy has been gaslighting you and after seeing so many negative comments about you on TH-cam I just had it and I had to come and tell you that you have to leave all of which he’s saying about culture and everything all of that is fake. He’s just Carrying you into that. It’s because you deserve so much more and no one in India would marry him. He has been gaslighting you the whole entire time my eyes all your reactions were justified. Any normal Indian girl would have reacted the same way though I don’t know how people were calling you entitled and everything else. Please ignore all the negative comments love from India.
Sim, ela é muito linda! Espero que o TJ desista logo, assim terei uma chance com ela! Hehe... Não posso cobiçar a mulher do próximo, por isso preciso que o TJ desista logo dela huhu... Brincadeirinha! Haha 😅 espero que os dois fiquem bem.
You know people these days try to rationalize everything try to make everything perfect but you should just listen to your heart and make small adjustments for each other and maybe in start things might seem strange because you are strangers but instead getting overwhelmed by learning you just try not to think about it too much and you'll get used to new things that how we come to life when we first put our foot on earth
Great video marriage is a partnership where you must compromise a few things. I am aware of the cultural differences between India and the US. Sometimes it's not easy. Unlike the US, there are so many differences in India where you can see it more between North and South; it's so diverse even we Indians don't understand how to say it to the point. I know it is hard, but communication is critical. Good luck guys
@@PositivelyKimberly Realmente estou confuso, aqui estão juntos, no Instagram mostra eles separados. Nos dias de hoje, estão juntos ou separados? Isso tudo está uma confusão.
I'm Indian and this is one of the most regressive and downright degrading society for women. I don't think any woman in her right mind will choose to marry and migrate to India. But it's your choice. I'm sure you're aware of the brutal RG Kar gangrape Kim. This is not an isolated incident. At my end I can only pray for you but always keep your mind open about going back to your American roots.
Realmente, não consigo entender como uma mulher pode se por em uma situação como essa. Uma mulher livre, se casando com um homem que vive em um país onde a cultura oprime as mulheres é uma loucura. Sou homem e acho que as mulheres deveriam ser tratadas com mais respeito. No meu país as mulheres são livres pra viver como quiser, elas são livres pra poder usar a roupa que quiser e usar o tempero que quiser 😂 pra temperar a comida, tipo "alho e cebola"
💝I can't believe they made it this far i guess their relationship is stronger than i thought and kim has proved that she is not stupid and she is not crazy woman that everyone was calling her and he is not a duck that she was calling him Keep going Marriage is never easy no matter how good things are or how perfect each one is so just keep going you'll have happy moments and sad moments but at the end of the day you'll have each other 💝 Money and happiness comes and goes but this shouldn't happen with the partner to otherwise who would you trust with your life
Great video. Both of you have great insight. I’m American and my husband’s from Haryana. We’re happily married 10 years but it was not always happy actually lol. Boundaries is such a big topic. Kim makes sense to me because we’re from the same culture but I will say Indians view boundaries as punishment. We lived in a joint family too 10+ people. I will say Kim, be happy you don’t have sister in laws lol I am joking. When I comes to relatives the same applies everywhere, some are good natured and some bad. Indians husbands are like no other, great fathers too. ❤️All the best!
Shes too american thats all you cant expect india to change for you or can he expect america to change for him. Life in india is nowhere near america. The liberty of women to express themselves is seen in india as rude. You cant change a twisted mentality overnight theres a reason why india is a poor country despite having massive man power and potential. They all migrate out to escape the caste system and old age traditions that stunts growth and development
First of all, that was a very aggressive household, real women in India do not live like that only in such DP rooted, patriarchy and misogynistic households are women made to work like maids, and this guy is just so toxic he keeps on justifying everything that’s wrong with his family in the name of culture culture culture Indian culture is not like that.
Kimberly shares everything with the public hence the need to come over here and explain yourself. Some things should be left private.
…what?
Hi Kimberly, I just finished watching the show and I’m shocked by the disrespect this family has shown towards you. I was born and raised in India, where many women, especially in more conservative areas, often face a deeply patriarchal society that strips them of their self-worth. Please don’t let yourself be diminished or pushed around in the name of culture, religion, or tradition. Know your worth and stand firm against this toxic environment. I truly wish you the best and hope you make choices that honor and protect yourself.
Shut up now. They worked a lot. Now dont create tension.
@@prashantd9964 of course this comment is from a man !
Hi, I’m a girl from India and please leave this guy he’s toxic and his entire family is toxic girl know your worth. I’m concerned about you.
He makes a good point about boundaries in other countries versus USA. I don't think people in general know that in some countries
they don't really exist in the same context. Good comments about independent going to a couple. Liked TJ comments about the truck load of people. I think TJ compliments you Kim and vice versa. At the end of the day, if you are willing to put in the effort to grow and water
your relationship, it doesn't matter what anyone says or thinks. It's your relationship and as long as no one is being harmed then I would
say continue growing it.
That’s good advice ! 💖
Sorry but girl you deserve better. You can make a better house and family than this. I feel bad for you, please know your worth, you are an absolutely beautiful person who has been pushed to her limits and somewhat forced to conform to these backwards views. Don’t waste your life on him or his family’s mistreatments 😢 it’s not a ‘cultural’ thing, he is gaslighting you, I was born and raised in India and am Indian 100% he’s misleadingly telling you to tolerate shit in the name of some crazy culture that only exists in his household and nowhere else.
Even towards the end he was using the notion of others cheating in order to trap you into not leaving/divorcing him.
i see your jealous comments in every video, stop being sick buddy, she loves her life, let her live her life, stop being salty on others and stop living low life, you will also get someone if you change your mentality, stop behaving like typical indian girls, thats why many indian men are marrying outside nowadays because of gold digger mentality of indian women
Yeah, I’m well aware of the gaslighting that’s why I didn’t accept what he was saying. I know my worth and know his too, which is why I needed to leave India. 💖✨ thank you for your kindness and passion. Your energy lights up the world around you, not just rooms that you’re in🌻
@@PositivelyKimberly Omg please take care of yourself and don’t let anyone treat you differently 🩵 sending love energy healing,❤️🩹 happy, healthy vibes to you 🏵️
Same here. I’m from India to born and raised here and I am a girl and for sure this guy has been gaslighting you and after seeing so many negative comments about you on TH-cam I just had it and I had to come and tell you that you have to leave all of which he’s saying about culture and everything all of that is fake. He’s just Carrying you into that. It’s because you deserve so much more and no one in India would marry him. He has been gaslighting you the whole entire time my eyes all your reactions were justified. Any normal Indian girl would have reacted the same way though I don’t know how people were calling you entitled and everything else. Please ignore all the negative comments love from India.
She is so beautiful.
Take care of her TJ!
Sim, ela é muito linda! Espero que o TJ desista logo, assim terei uma chance com ela! Hehe...
Não posso cobiçar a mulher do próximo, por isso preciso que o TJ desista logo dela huhu...
Brincadeirinha! Haha 😅 espero que os dois fiquem bem.
You know people these days try to rationalize everything try to make everything perfect but you should just listen to your heart and make small adjustments for each other and maybe in start things might seem strange because you are strangers but instead getting overwhelmed by learning you just try not to think about it too much and you'll get used to new things that how we come to life when we first put our foot on earth
That’s exactly what we’re doing 🤗
Great video marriage is a partnership where you must compromise a few things. I am aware of the cultural differences between India and the US. Sometimes it's not easy. Unlike the US, there are so many differences in India where you can see it more between North and South; it's so diverse even we Indians don't understand how to say it to the point. I know it is hard, but communication is critical. Good luck guys
Very true! Thank you so much love 💖✨
together- not together- together- not together and sharing all your private emotions online.... just saying...
We’re not together and together at the same time 😂 do emotions bother you?
@@PositivelyKimberly Realmente estou confuso, aqui estão juntos, no Instagram mostra eles separados. Nos dias de hoje, estão juntos ou separados? Isso tudo está uma confusão.
I'm Indian and this is one of the most regressive and downright degrading society for women. I don't think any woman in her right mind will choose to marry and migrate to India. But it's your choice. I'm sure you're aware of the brutal RG Kar gangrape Kim. This is not an isolated incident. At my end I can only pray for you but always keep your mind open about going back to your American roots.
mulla get lost
As an Indian woman I second that !!
Realmente, não consigo entender como uma mulher pode se por em uma situação como essa. Uma mulher livre, se casando com um homem que vive em um país onde a cultura oprime as mulheres é uma loucura. Sou homem e acho que as mulheres deveriam ser tratadas com mais respeito. No meu país as mulheres são livres pra viver como quiser, elas são livres pra poder usar a roupa que quiser e usar o tempero que quiser 😂 pra temperar a comida, tipo "alho e cebola"
@@Sethsheidernyou are judging 1.4 billion people through few hours of dramatised clips.
@RR-wp8jt se com a palavra "julgar" você está querendo dizer que eu estou sendo verdadeiro e realista, ai eu concordo com você.
💝I can't believe they made it this far i guess their relationship is stronger than i thought and kim has proved that she is not stupid and she is not crazy woman that everyone was calling her and he is not a duck that she was calling him
Keep going
Marriage is never easy no matter how good things are or how perfect each one is so just keep going you'll have happy moments and sad moments but at the end of the day you'll have each other 💝
Money and happiness comes and goes but this shouldn't happen with the partner to otherwise who would you trust with your life
Such a well thought out comment (: thanks so much for the love & support
You guys are not going to live in the US ? Just India ?
Great video. Both of you have great insight. I’m American and my husband’s from Haryana. We’re happily married 10 years but it was not always happy actually lol. Boundaries is such a big topic. Kim makes sense to me because we’re from the same culture but I will say Indians view boundaries as punishment. We lived in a joint family too 10+ people. I will say Kim, be happy you don’t have sister in laws lol I am joking. When I comes to relatives the same applies everywhere, some are good natured and some bad. Indians husbands are like no other, great fathers too. ❤️All the best!
We’re glad you found happiness in your marriage. 💖✨
Shes too american thats all you cant expect india to change for you or can he expect america to change for him.
Life in india is nowhere near america. The liberty of women to express themselves is seen in india as rude.
You cant change a twisted mentality overnight theres a reason why india is a poor country despite having massive man power and potential.
They all migrate out to escape the caste system and old age traditions that stunts growth and development
get knowledge, nobody migrate to escape caste systems, get to know about libergties indian consititution have provided female
First of all, that was a very aggressive household, real women in India do not live like that only in such DP rooted, patriarchy and misogynistic households are women made to work like maids, and this guy is just so toxic he keeps on justifying everything that’s wrong with his family in the name of culture culture culture Indian culture is not like that.
@Ginnyngeorgia141 this guy did everything for her, she is just never satisfied