Only Way To Deal With TOXIC People | Gurudev

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  • @surimenon7660
    @surimenon7660 2 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    When I Encounter Toxic...People...I JUST SMILE and Silence ...ON MY WAY OUT I....Give a hug...I LET GO....I prefer being with my TRUE SELF...Practice 4S...Silence...Smile...Sharada and Sabri...🙏Hare Krishna 🙏

    • @lakshmisharma991
      @lakshmisharma991 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      👏🏻👌🏻❤️

    • @bhuvaneshwarij1326
      @bhuvaneshwarij1326 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      what to do if we stay with them 24/7

    • @smitathatte8369
      @smitathatte8369 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@bhuvaneshwarij1326
      Yes what's the solution for that

    • @natisha82
      @natisha82 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@bhuvaneshwarij1326that's some of our karma too so keep smiling all the time & let go their behavior

    • @nomakeupcutie
      @nomakeupcutie ปีที่แล้ว

      What is Sharada and Sabri?

  • @asapfilms2519
    @asapfilms2519 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    In simple words…just ignore the toxic people

  • @drkvnaidu9104
    @drkvnaidu9104 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My realization is that stay away from negative thoughts received from people and simply letgo of those thoughts is the best practice.

  • @triptibhatt1984
    @triptibhatt1984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This video is very relevant in these times where people are venting their toxicity on Social media and in person in the nam eof freedom of expression

  • @TruthKindness
    @TruthKindness 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Detachment is hard. I got sucked into other people's misery, and into depression. Just like guruji said. Love this talk.

    • @niranjananidhin9666
      @niranjananidhin9666 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    • @Dilly_dallying_kite_monger
      @Dilly_dallying_kite_monger 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah it happens to me too but we shouldn't let that happen.

    • @sanjayn7306
      @sanjayn7306 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Prayers your soul find contentment aol people are diamond goodness exists pranams

  • @rupalivaidya6842
    @rupalivaidya6842 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Beautiful sharing by Sri Sri Ravi Shankar on how to deal with toxic people. Stay away from negative people otherwise they spoil your mentality and make you negative.Always focus on your inner self and the outer will automatically improve. Always pay attention to our self talk
    Thank you

  • @rajindarsingh1417
    @rajindarsingh1417 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’ve been happy for my 50 years & always been happy & laughing.
    Now at 50 , I’m crying & depressed after my operation.
    I’m alone & depressed . Who in the right mind wants to spread sadness. How do I rid myself of this bad phase / karma. During your healthy & happy phase everyone is around you. Now even your shadow is not near.
    The truth of the human race , they will not help those hurt.
    Even guru’s tells his devotees to avoid those depressed.
    I hope there will be love elsewhere. I don’t hate on anyone, just hurt & crying. Unfortunately I tried my best to heal myself.
    I thought the sadh sangat’s energy will have a positive effect on the depressed.

    • @rajindarsingh1417
      @rajindarsingh1417 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@poojachanana2889 - it’s nice to believe God is inside me but speaking the language of God , truthfully I feel abandoned by God now. But Gurudev explained it well. Just ignore the depressed individual ( like it’s a choice 🤦‍♂️)
      I’m finally relaxed & knowing that I will have full control of my end .

    • @rakeshvedpathak1111
      @rakeshvedpathak1111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Guru ji is saying to avoid toxic person not the hurted one, you are not understanding.

    • @neenudogra5712
      @neenudogra5712 ปีที่แล้ว

      What have the Saints come for on this earth then ... if not for Parmarth.
      What else compassion means which is the basis of all teachings ???

    • @professorelixir3351
      @professorelixir3351 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The true Guru will love you without any judgement. Don't worry, you will find love. Listen to Ram Das

    • @Loveee-q8e
      @Loveee-q8e 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Keep doing more meditation and stick on to Satvik foods , lessen your desire , keep a worldly desire❤

  • @sanjayn7306
    @sanjayn7306 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I personally was toxic person didn't know it. For almost 36 years I was sensitive complaining emiting bad vibes was in depression. My life changed I met gurudev in 2006 he blessed me to be in art of living group....my local aol chapter always was kind and accepting. Slowly but steadily my karma got burned in gurudev's teaching and knowledge and sudharshan kriya. Now my depression has reduced psychiatrist reduced tablets and I feel happier and more cheerful.koti koti shat shat pranams to the Lotus of my guruji Sri Sri Ravishankar ji.❤ Thanks to all my aol family for accepting me giving opportunity and kindness to become a better person

  • @veenagupta4500
    @veenagupta4500 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    बहुत ही सुंदर सतसंग सतगुरू जी के संग ।मैं क्रतार्थ ओर धन्यभागी हूँ। jgd ji. 🥰❤️❤️🥰❤️❤️💐👌⭐👌🙏🥰🥰

  • @kavitasehgal1816
    @kavitasehgal1816 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    🙏जय गुरूदेव🙏🌹♥️so rightfully said

  • @ushavenkataramani4715
    @ushavenkataramani4715 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Guruji when we are forced to interact with toxic people because they are our close relative, how do i protect myself?

    • @PinkuSharma
      @PinkuSharma ปีที่แล้ว +9

      By practicing awareness!

    • @Tarnishtha
      @Tarnishtha ปีที่แล้ว

      Detach yourself mentally

    • @chittaranjanmoharana2766
      @chittaranjanmoharana2766 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@PinkuSharma hh yybhhyy byuybhh Hwa yhhhhbhbhh no where byhnh huyhbb

    • @kusrishtikher
      @kusrishtikher ปีที่แล้ว +21

      You are not bound to engage with anyone... just stay away from them as much as possible

    • @tejug1161
      @tejug1161 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yathayogya... Mirror their behaviour then they will understand.

  • @subhashree4917
    @subhashree4917 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jaigurdev koti pranam 🙏🙏🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷

  • @kabitamondal2386
    @kabitamondal2386 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hare Krishna Radhey Radhey 🌙🌹❤️🥰🌞😊🕉🙏

  • @rajendrakhairnar7724
    @rajendrakhairnar7724 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    जय गुरुदेव 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @roopamp8304
    @roopamp8304 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So much wisdom from Gurudev. I had taken a lot of toxic behaviour from relatives n friends for a long time. In the last 3 years, there has been defining moments in my life when I decided to call the shots to not react to toxic behaviours n maintain a cold silence without reacting. I am getting better n better at it and am experiencing a peace within. Fear nothing even if it means spending one's life alone.

    • @sanjayn7306
      @sanjayn7306 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sir thank you I will follow your advice

  • @Fin123-s1k
    @Fin123-s1k 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Jaigurudev ❤

  • @malathagalee6019
    @malathagalee6019 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    JaiGurudev jicharan sparsh..

  • @panduranggurav8225
    @panduranggurav8225 ปีที่แล้ว

    जय गुरुदेव बडिया गुरुजी

  • @bhavnamehta9587
    @bhavnamehta9587 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Thank you Divine Garudev. This sooth my soul. Currently we are going through some very difficult times. But listening to your wisdom has comforted my troubled mind.🙏

  • @umadevinbhat5464
    @umadevinbhat5464 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nicely said ! It happens that mind is always stuck ! Unknowingly and whenever awareness dawns, there is relaxation ❤

  • @jiwanupadhayay2225
    @jiwanupadhayay2225 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Guru dev 🙏🙏🌹🌹

  • @ushap4333
    @ushap4333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Gurudev

  • @anjlisethi9109
    @anjlisethi9109 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Krupa karo Gurudev

  • @vijaypanchal6138
    @vijaypanchal6138 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ।। जय गुरुदेव ।।

  • @sivanareshkurra6972
    @sivanareshkurra6972 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you Gurudev for this. I very much needed this.

  • @Sushilkumarpawar3560
    @Sushilkumarpawar3560 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    जय गुरुदेव!

  • @anjushandilya8249
    @anjushandilya8249 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Guru Dev, kripa kare .Bless me and my family.

  • @ambarishr.1080
    @ambarishr.1080 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great speech Gurudev. Jgd. ❤

  • @anujlakhera1109
    @anujlakhera1109 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pranam Guruji ❤🙏.. You share great wisdom with such simple words and joyfully. And I grasp it, as smoothly as enjoying & watching an entertainment show. Lots of love ❤️.
    1. Some people become habitual of such strong behavior, that, they even find reason to be angry and miserable at anything and anyone.
    Firstly see yourself before finding others' mistakes.
    2. We should avoid these kinds of people. (skillfully- by doing manviched- ) or detach your mind from that person.😇
    3. Save your mind at ALL costs.❤
    That line... Even I could not make people right. So you leave it 😂

  • @sumanbhat4653
    @sumanbhat4653 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Shri Gurubhyo Namaha

  • @gayatrisadarangani5625
    @gayatrisadarangani5625 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Please keep sharing satsang online on TH-cam on daily basis.

  • @NM-pz1zo
    @NM-pz1zo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    कल भी रहिएगा गुरुदेव सत्संग मे 🙏

  • @qd4051
    @qd4051 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Gurudev for your wisdom.

  • @sanjaykumarahirrao621
    @sanjaykumarahirrao621 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, Thank you,Thank you!!!

  • @chandabutani9783
    @chandabutani9783 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful Shukrana 🙏 Thanks 👍

  • @susheeladahiya59
    @susheeladahiya59 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😊 thank you Gurudev ♥️🙏

  • @jayeshpatel493
    @jayeshpatel493 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pranam Gurudev

  • @7002164
    @7002164 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Sometimes I feel like the toxic person but I know it’s my trauma and the need to be away from negative energy. I’m struggling to let the hurt go

    • @Loveee-q8e
      @Loveee-q8e 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Practice yoga and meditation consistently, do more nd more of meditation and stick to Satvik foods, foods which are natural and avoid non veg slowly , u will notice the difference

  • @RiteshKumar-yw1gi
    @RiteshKumar-yw1gi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    जय गुरूदेव,💐💐🙏

  • @arjunshah8637
    @arjunshah8637 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    An eye opener knowledge guruji.hearing you adds broader and newer perspective in life❤

  • @atulsingla5337
    @atulsingla5337 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bliss gurudev 🙏👌👌👌

  • @rebachakraborty2265
    @rebachakraborty2265 ปีที่แล้ว

    +jay gurudev pranam shatakoti.

  • @raka8054
    @raka8054 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Pranam gurudev.. Needed this knowledge..

  • @MS-lk1cn
    @MS-lk1cn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much Gurudev 💛

  • @moumitapoddar4442
    @moumitapoddar4442 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have got my answer.Namaste Gurudev.🙏🙏

  • @jmahalekshmymenon9309
    @jmahalekshmymenon9309 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Gurudev...😊🙏

  • @renugoyal3478
    @renugoyal3478 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you guru ji for fantastic knowledge about how away from toxic people

  • @akhterofficial
    @akhterofficial 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank You So Much Guru Ji 😍😍😍

  • @mukund9949
    @mukund9949 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Keep a tray to collect their 'fire of ignorance'..then Use it to heat 'Our Ananda swarupam'❤

  • @subashkp9549
    @subashkp9549 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    ജയ് ഗുരുദേവ്🙏🙏🙏

  • @kaushgaming5538
    @kaushgaming5538 ปีที่แล้ว

    Every person have different thought it means not toxic i always feel happiness.

  • @arundhatibhattacharya7911
    @arundhatibhattacharya7911 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Gurudev...needed this knowledge today

  • @seemadeshpande4602
    @seemadeshpande4602 ปีที่แล้ว

    Charan sparsh

  • @shriyagupta982
    @shriyagupta982 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you guruji ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💮🌿✨️

  • @ricklall2553
    @ricklall2553 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sri Sri Ravi Shankar

  • @prasannasai6337
    @prasannasai6337 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Kindly put subtitles when guruji talks in Hindi

  • @sadhanadas806
    @sadhanadas806 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great knowledge session 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @nitapanchu2803
    @nitapanchu2803 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    True..thanks dear sri guruji...aum..aum.aum

  • @psi42
    @psi42 ปีที่แล้ว

    when people do work with their hearts discipline is lacking": meinem vater completed his work with sincere duty:-prabhudata

  • @meenakshisubramanian1340
    @meenakshisubramanian1340 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So nicely presented Gurudev. Earlier I also used to get irritated if someone spoiled my Rangoli. Now I'm able to connect the dots, moving ahead in this path

  • @galinakondratenko5400
    @galinakondratenko5400 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    They just reflect your mood

  • @GuluPhotography
    @GuluPhotography 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Big fan Gurudev 🥰😘

  • @sheetalkhekale853
    @sheetalkhekale853 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jgd🙏🙏

  • @Rhythm_and_Flow
    @Rhythm_and_Flow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I wish they put english translations..but anyway thank you for this video.

    • @MrTennispie
      @MrTennispie 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He is saying at any cost save your mind …
      Very precious
      Have a sense of humor
      Let go
      Life is short

  • @pamballard2917
    @pamballard2917 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Encourage them to do the happiness program, ❤

  • @LSSV1227
    @LSSV1227 ปีที่แล้ว

    What ever people around you accept them what ever they are if negative thoughts people's around you then we can't able to change then let go and keep away ourself from this personality with ❤

  • @neerajchodhri4317
    @neerajchodhri4317 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jgd jii🙏🙏

  • @yashodakravindra3737
    @yashodakravindra3737 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for the timely knowledge Gurudev...

  • @reemasingh3184
    @reemasingh3184 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jgd

  • @vishakhajoshi2204
    @vishakhajoshi2204 ปีที่แล้ว

    Guruji answered my question asked to him😊

  • @ashishgupta3290
    @ashishgupta3290 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bliss 💕💕

  • @sreedevisunilkumar
    @sreedevisunilkumar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jaigurudev🌹

  • @mansirana2022
    @mansirana2022 ปีที่แล้ว

    It sometimes happens with me too and I am catching that pattern whilst seeing this video.

  • @sissileliseminde4589
    @sissileliseminde4589 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Gurudev ❤️😊🌿🌹. I have learn so much from you.. Norway 🙏🧜‍♀️

  • @vasanthar4533
    @vasanthar4533 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can relate this so much...

  • @sakshiduklan
    @sakshiduklan 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️❤️🔥🔥 So Truee

  • @doctorpavana157
    @doctorpavana157 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just superb

  • @vandanaalli1037
    @vandanaalli1037 ปีที่แล้ว

    Our guruji very well the persons journey of karama our pachan indriya are to listen, test, they are not allowed in the satsang also the skill of consciousness to detach and be with ourselves and save your mind for all situations it is difficult time not impossible for the sadhak. Work on myself not others, only change the person at least I am at peace The school teacher has wisdom and clever use your wisdom don't see others teachers do their work with heart do your karma and move on

  • @harmikpatel2168
    @harmikpatel2168 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Gurudev Please bless me to get our my bad karma 🙏🙏

  • @fleuralmeida579
    @fleuralmeida579 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you💗

  • @SS-kp5vh
    @SS-kp5vh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks Guruji for giving example of donkey in plate. So whenever someone is going to speak ill about me I will feel happy as donkey is in that person's plate😊. Hope I don't end up laughing and get into trouble

  • @gargi3kaushik
    @gargi3kaushik 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    G am happy and at peace

  • @JyotiShivShakti
    @JyotiShivShakti 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    💯% Agreed! I really avoid such people who gossip, interfere, swear etc. Totally agree with what you say😊🙏♥️I've been like this for years. Yet there are people not many 1 or 2 who keep stalking. And affecting your living environment. It has made me very happy to avoid such people.
    Har Har Mahadev🙌

  • @rupa9648f
    @rupa9648f ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Guru dev.. here I don't understand whoes behaviour is toxic.. I set expectation from otherside nd it was not fulfilled..knowing it was intentionally done... I feeled unloved.. Unwanted... How I become mentally strong

  • @Itzel-camacho72
    @Itzel-camacho72 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    15:01 ❤❤❤

  • @kshri4417
    @kshri4417 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great talk 🙏🙏🙏

  • @vijayanv.v2922
    @vijayanv.v2922 ปีที่แล้ว

    So, if someone is suffering or in misery, ignore / neglect him ? Do not provide him solace ? All those who suffer are not toxic people.

  • @SAARIKA-sw3lv
    @SAARIKA-sw3lv 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Gurudev how to deal when your own father becomes that person in your life? I have seen the worse from throughout my childhood. I am a family loving person, but i am struggling really hard to get over. Please help🙏🏼

  • @supercool2032
    @supercool2032 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤

  • @natalyalomakina3800
    @natalyalomakina3800 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What about the narcissists?

  • @ritutripathi7610
    @ritutripathi7610 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gurudev I am so scared to speak to my mother
    Because every time she has something to shout at me from the other side of the phone
    Don't know what to do
    Today I have no feelings
    Just feel neutral

  • @SajiSNairNair-tu9dk
    @SajiSNairNair-tu9dk ปีที่แล้ว

    😊👉🤔 toxic is karma of life 🙆

  • @jerry-tm8lj
    @jerry-tm8lj ปีที่แล้ว

    I was a person who couldn't remain tensed for a long time for something but people around me impacted me in a bad way and somehow it happened so that in last ten years I attracted only negative people and circumstances. Was it my fault? What went wrong?

  • @susheeladahiya-l2e
    @susheeladahiya-l2e 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    But if a mother behaves badly with her child , what can we say then ?

  • @UPASANAPANDEY05
    @UPASANAPANDEY05 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❣️❣️

  • @Justanotherrandomstuff
    @Justanotherrandomstuff ปีที่แล้ว

    How to deal with toxic parents?

  • @meenakshikrishnan5760
    @meenakshikrishnan5760 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    JGD

  • @jhalloran5280
    @jhalloran5280 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏

  • @shailajahl7529
    @shailajahl7529 ปีที่แล้ว

    Some people are making my husband toxic.He is trusting them a lot. How to overcome this

  • @sajisnair9354
    @sajisnair9354 ปีที่แล้ว

    Deals 👈👉🌞?😮