Yep from my experience it’s he is a player. One thousand percent. A man who actually wants you and wants to be with you (for more than sex) won’t play games.
So true I recently realised that I'm crushing on a guy and I noticed myself having flooding emotions in a instant I remembered Alex and his teachings... I stay in my lane and I observe more...
If you are not attached then whats the motive to keep trying though? If i am stone cold to a man i mean it.. and that means just that i dont give a ...
*Keeping an element of mystery can ignite the spark in any relationship. Let's use this knowledge to keep the magic alive and make the journey of love even more exciting.*
I love Alex’s video and advice so much BECAUSE IT WORKS!!! I have a successful player falling in love with me, inviting me hugely into his world and still making constant effort to see me, impress me and drop everyone else for me. We’re so happy together rn 😩❤️
11:28 - 11:36…. WAIT!! So it’s acceptable for a man to show desperation (vulnerability) but not a woman?? If you shouldn’t shame guys for wanting a relationship desperately then you shouldn’t shame women for wanting the same thing. This shit is counterproductive af. Y’all will avoid the women who show genuine interest for a woman who play games with you. Playing games like that is childish. In the end, you will end up with the woman who played those games with you and regret letting the one who was for real about you get away. Please stay the hell away from the solid woman. She deserves peace not fuckery🤷🏽♀️
Really all these stupid games and not showing any emotion? What good does it do? And when I ask my guy friends about being hurt over guys and what to change..they just say “oh you’re desperate” lol then what do you expect me to do? Just sit at home and not meet anyoen till some guy magically walks my way? At least I was trying. Then the same guys say why have you never been in a relationship before? Well gee I don’t know? Maybe bc nobody wants to or guys like you talk for a bit then just disappear/run away….
@@samtula5946 I feel you. That’s why when I shoot my shot (which I do tactfully) I’m always okay with being rejected. We can’t help who we’re attracted to. It’s not often when I show interest but I will recant at the first hint that my interest is undesired. I don’t even worry about asking men for clarity. I just go off my instincts in the moment. Keep shooting sis!!
Exactly, i ruined my relationship by listening to Alex’s advice, we’re still together but my man is not the same anymore, he’s rude and distant. Cause I was cold before and “hard to get” .
@@deadbeats4417 I enjoy his content overall, nevertheless we have to decide for ourselves what’s best for us and stand on it when it’s all said and done. Ppl will have their opinions but what they eat don’t make us sh*t, soooo let’s just live our life and form our own opinions as best as we can. Playing games is phony. Just be yourself💕
Thank u for this video. Ive been feeling really emotional and hurt lately but this was my reminder that lashing out won't fix the situation or even help me to feel better in the end. Keep your emotions in check, ladies, not just for dating but in respect for yourself as well.
Thank you for your videos. I’ve always been curious to know why you are no longer part of the Christian church? I’ve watched your videos for a long time and heard your life story of when you were a kid and how engulfed you were with the church. I hope you can share with us, I’m a believer, and I truly feel God uses us as a vessel for the collective to receive a message we were meant to receive 👁️ There have been videos of yours that I’ve watched that brought so much clarity, I felt God wanted me to hear that. Thank you Dalexis.
Hi there, Alex your amazing and funny i love watching you because you have a great personality.. You said something that i completely agree to be true. You talked about soul mates, and does connection that are rare. You can find out there the label "twin flames.. When actually it's a person who resonates with your soul it can happen with someone unexpected and it can be shocking because it's not what you go for usually, im not sure if it can happen multiple times, but what i can say when you come across this kind of emotions you realise that you don't need to activate this techniques and strategies because its natural for you and the other person to be you.. after year of dating and phycology.. All i can say after all i thought i knew was right was all a misconception and a distortion of reality.. I was swept of my feet finding out the key to wisdom in love is just to be you after all 😂
I matched with someone online and lol they wanted to meet right away.. I had committed my weekend to doing nothing and I said this. 4 weeks later he called me to schedule a date the following week. Communicating every so often. It’s been 3 months now of dating. He chases me but I’m not perusing at all. Nobody got time for all that online or in person.
First of all, I'm not chasing anybody. Second of all, I'm very good at using reverse psychology when it comes to getting rid of guys. Anything taught by you? I do a reverse psychology on. It. Works every time.
That's ok, I won't date a guy with smaller arms than me. I need a gym guy so he can share the same lifestyle. If guys think it looks "manly" then train harder, lift more so you can look more like a man to me🤭
Please answer this; If this is true then how do you fall in love actually? Because if (falling in) love needs vulnerability and on the other hand you need to constantly play games ie. pretend like you dont care in order to keep them fascinated and these two 'modes' dont match. I really dont get it..
4:00 You should check out this short book called, In Praise of Love by Alain Badiou. He talks about the dangers of dating apps (and our culture of making everything too safe and easy in general) and how they take away chances of love because real love, actually requires danger and risk, to a point.
Meeting men is easy, the difficult thing is to meet men who don't want to play games and want something serious, of those I think they don't even exist anymore
I have been a fan of your work for years!! I love and recommend all your videos. But respectfully I disagree with on line dating being too easy for men. It is THE primary way for men to meet women now. Men know this and so especially older men have stopped approaching women on real life. Coach Paula Grooms whom you are very much aligned with would say that women have to gently encourage men they meet on line to call the woman on the phone before meeting them. (The men have to jump through this small hoop) and also the first date should NOT be casual, it should be in the evening for a drink (but not dinner) as there is always a promise of sex for a man with a drink/evening date (even if we hope the woman does not allow sex this early). For men it is still encouraging. And the first meet should be under ONE hour, to preserve the mystery and have the man want to ask you out again. Please don’t discourage online dating. It’s a primary way women in 30s and older meet men! They just have to help the man jump through a few small hoops before first meet!❤
screw those kinda men that dont like strong women because when they cheat and abuse then what? ur not strong and you give the advanatage...like how do u truly know a guy wont ever lie is that a myth? because the biggest value is honestly and trust in this day and age...money cannot even buy that...i guess dont get with guys who have low self esteem? like it really sucks just liking someone back is bad and risky
When a man acts mysterious he is usually married or with someone.
Yep from my experience it’s he is a player. One thousand percent. A man who actually wants you and wants to be with you (for more than sex) won’t play games.
😂😂
😂😂
Yup. Got three toddlers at home and engaged.
Every time
Hes not wrong. You have to control your emotions. Being stone cold is the key with men.
But being stone cold also means whybam i here no?
For us women, it’s hard to control our emotions. What we need to learn is to not let our emotions control us.
Fake til You make it girl.
So true I recently realised that I'm crushing on a guy and I noticed myself having flooding emotions in a instant I remembered Alex and his teachings... I stay in my lane and I observe more...
Yeah but emotions do control us.
Speak for yourself
There are tons of relationship experts but I’m so hooked on Alex’s video for years😂
CUZ IT WORKSSSS
Right, like I don’t trust anyone else!!!
Same 😂 toxic gang
Yeah same. He has a way to transmit the information that you can actually practically use it.
Please discuss showing vulnerability vs. controlling your emotions.
And not being needy
Just don’t fly off the handle. Men need us to keep ourselves in check despite what we’re facing.
Pls read my comments
Shes one of the best feminine energy coaches out there. A lot of women are putting BS out there! Shes super underrated
I was nervous to watch this but enjoyed it! We should collaborate one day :)
Did you collaborate? I wanna watch it ❤❤❤
I deleted my instagram and personal site as soon as i did i received messages from people who i dont even talk to lol i live for this
True these strategies are for situations when the person likes you 50 to 70% and if he only likes me that much I wouldn’t bother
It really doesn’t matter what you do, and how early. As long as you are not attached.
If you’ve been attached and you become detached would it improve things?
You’ll become attached no matter what, if you’re gonna be seeing that person
If you are not attached then whats the motive to keep trying though? If i am stone cold to a man i mean it.. and that means just that i dont give a ...
So excited to see Father Alex and Mother Fareen in the same video. The ultimate masculine and feminine duo.
*Keeping an element of mystery can ignite the spark in any relationship. Let's use this knowledge to keep the magic alive and make the journey of love even more exciting.*
I love Alex’s video and advice so much BECAUSE IT WORKS!!! I have a successful player falling in love with me, inviting me hugely into his world and still making constant effort to see me, impress me and drop everyone else for me. We’re so happy together rn 😩❤️
Listening to you always bring clarity and reasoning
I feel like you had a major breakdown from your past relationships to be able to advise us. Thanks for the sharing ❤
This video is so informative and helpful, father Alex! Please keep them coming! Thank you so much
your revelation at 7 minutes is an absolute game changer & highly enlightening. thank you!! xoxoxoxo.
11:28 - 11:36…. WAIT!! So it’s acceptable for a man to show desperation (vulnerability) but not a woman??
If you shouldn’t shame guys for wanting a relationship desperately then you shouldn’t shame women for wanting the same thing. This shit is counterproductive af. Y’all will avoid the women who show genuine interest for a woman who play games with you. Playing games like that is childish. In the end, you will end up with the woman who played those games with you and regret letting the one who was for real about you get away. Please stay the hell away from the solid woman. She deserves peace not fuckery🤷🏽♀️
Really all these stupid games and not showing any emotion? What good does it do? And when I ask my guy friends about being hurt over guys and what to change..they just say “oh you’re desperate” lol then what do you expect me to do? Just sit at home and not meet anyoen till some guy magically walks my way? At least I was trying. Then the same guys say why have you never been in a relationship before? Well gee I don’t know? Maybe bc nobody wants to or guys like you talk for a bit then just disappear/run away….
@@samtula5946 I feel you. That’s why when I shoot my shot (which I do tactfully) I’m always okay with being rejected. We can’t help who we’re attracted to. It’s not often when I show interest but I will recant at the first hint that my interest is undesired. I don’t even worry about asking men for clarity. I just go off my instincts in the moment. Keep shooting sis!!
Exactly, i ruined my relationship by listening to Alex’s advice, we’re still together but my man is not the same anymore, he’s rude and distant. Cause I was cold before and “hard to get” .
@@deadbeats4417 I enjoy his content overall, nevertheless we have to decide for ourselves what’s best for us and stand on it when it’s all said and done. Ppl will have their opinions but what they eat don’t make us sh*t, soooo let’s just live our life and form our own opinions as best as we can. Playing games is phony. Just be yourself💕
Thank u for this video. Ive been feeling really emotional and hurt lately but this was my reminder that lashing out won't fix the situation or even help me to feel better in the end. Keep your emotions in check, ladies, not just for dating but in respect for yourself as well.
The less available, the more they desire u. Seen it all too well
Good morning! Great to see you Father Alex
Thank you for your videos. I’ve always been curious to know why you are no longer part of the Christian church? I’ve watched your videos for a long time and heard your life story of when you were a kid and how engulfed you were with the church. I hope you can share with us, I’m a believer, and I truly feel God uses us as a vessel for the collective to receive a message we were meant to receive 👁️ There have been videos of yours that I’ve watched that brought so much clarity, I felt God wanted me to hear that. Thank you Dalexis.
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This is so good Alex. And sad I didn’t know I was making all these mistakes 😢😢😢
And then you just sit there wondering if you can come down soon. Your brain.
Actually tried this and it works. Thou sometimes i relapse
What do we do when we relapse? Do we distance ourselves for a bit to reset his mind?
4:17 this is why i hate online dating and it feels so unnatural
Hi there, Alex your amazing and funny i love watching you because you have a great personality.. You said something that i completely agree to be true. You talked about soul mates, and does connection that are rare. You can find out there the label "twin flames.. When actually it's a person who resonates with your soul it can happen with someone unexpected and it can be shocking because it's not what you go for usually, im not sure if it can happen multiple times, but what i can say when you come across this kind of emotions you realise that you don't need to activate this techniques and strategies because its natural for you and the other person to be you.. after year of dating and phycology.. All i can say after all i thought i knew was right was all a misconception and a distortion of reality.. I was swept of my feet finding out the key to wisdom in love is just to be you after all 😂
why is it a warning flag, when someone has a great personality?
That is so true but people don’t meet in real life
I matched with someone online and lol they wanted to meet right away.. I had committed my weekend to doing nothing and I said this. 4 weeks later he called me to schedule a date the following week. Communicating every so often. It’s been 3 months now of dating. He chases me but I’m not perusing at all. Nobody got time for all that online or in person.
A man like a women who is a vulnerable? So what should i do as a successful woman who has a career her own place her own car and money!
Date up :)
Hahaaa. I can’t with you. Damn that’s a leap….not even a kid but kids! 😂
First of all, I'm not chasing anybody. Second of all, I'm very good at using reverse psychology when it comes to getting rid of guys. Anything taught by you? I do a reverse psychology on. It. Works every time.
Then they finally get u and act a damn fool
Please would be appreciated if you did a brief video of preparing & your experience at the extended silent meditation retreat🙏
Gives me headache just by listening.
😅😅
That's ok, I won't date a guy with smaller arms than me. I need a gym guy so he can share the same lifestyle. If guys think it looks "manly" then train harder, lift more so you can look more like a man to me🤭
I need to control my emotions next time and I’m going to be a bad bitch 😂
How it going g
@@Layla-k6f great!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
At least you learn to get used of the nausea.
Please answer this;
If this is true then how do you fall in love actually? Because if (falling in) love needs vulnerability and on the other hand you need to constantly play games ie. pretend like you dont care in order to keep them fascinated and these two 'modes' dont match. I really dont get it..
You ruined my relationship Alex, cause I took your advice and now my man is rude and distant. 😢
He is in fear😂😂😂
19:00 She has a former career as a lawyer, haha, just like my bestie.
What does being needy look like ?
What’s her page
4:00 You should check out this short book called, In Praise of Love by Alain Badiou. He talks about the dangers of dating apps (and our culture of making everything too safe and easy in general) and how they take away chances of love because real love, actually requires danger and risk, to a point.
Alex, don’t you wish that you were a woman with all of this knowledge? You’d be killing it
Dalexisp 💕
I agree with you about online dating making everything too easy. With working 60 hrs a week from home where are some suggestions of where to meet men?
Meeting men is easy, the difficult thing is to meet men who don't want to play games and want something serious, of those I think they don't even exist anymore
I think they exist…it’s just probably very rare. Cuz 99% of dudes seem to be on that bullshit.
@@jannelove420 i agree
25:20 LOL
I have been a fan of your work for years!! I love and recommend all your videos. But respectfully I disagree with on line dating being too easy for men. It is THE primary way for men to meet women now. Men know this and so especially older men have stopped approaching women on real life. Coach Paula Grooms whom you are very much aligned with would say that women have to gently encourage men they meet on line to call the woman on the phone before meeting them. (The men have to jump through this small hoop) and also the first date should NOT be casual, it should be in the evening for a drink (but not dinner) as there is always a promise of sex for a man with a drink/evening date (even if we hope the woman does not allow sex this early). For men it is still encouraging. And the first meet should be under ONE hour, to preserve the mystery and have the man want to ask you out again. Please don’t discourage online dating. It’s a primary way women in 30s and older meet men! They just have to help the man jump through a few small hoops before first meet!❤
Alex you just woke up?! You look different…. Idk
Well they should stop begging women for it if they want mystery
Very interesting thanks so much ❤
Interesting
And the bats echo your screams "i told you"!!
screw those kinda men that dont like strong women because when they cheat and abuse then what? ur not strong and you give the advanatage...like how do u truly know a guy wont ever lie is that a myth? because the biggest value is honestly and trust in this day and age...money cannot even buy that...i guess dont get with guys who have low self esteem? like it really sucks just liking someone back is bad and risky
Good morning handsome
Good morning ☀️
Humm...
Father Alex, You're still handsome without facial hair
Not “Yeah, you too.” 😩😂
But you don’t seem to be committed to anyone so this person that person this person that person can be 1 million persons there isn’t the one
❤❤
Its a nevetending tunnel of bs
Alex.. let me comb your hair plz
No
Good morning father Alex