My husband recently retired and we are struggling to find our routine as well so I can understand where you are at! I really enjoy watching your channel that's real and not a script!
Hi Tiffany! I totally get the structure of a schedule. After raising my children and working for many years it was like I was kinda lost when I retired and my kids were grown. It is like what do I do with all this time I have now, I get it. Just take it one day at a time and things will work out. Have a blessed night!
I can definitely empathize about structure! I lost my husband three years ago May 19. I moved closer to two of our children (and all four granddaughters) about this time last year. I haven’t yet figured out a schedule that works. Wishing you love and light. By the way, I love your hair. Mine was that long during my hippie phase in the 60s!
Hope the collards get going and I know it is a different kind of change and changes for you but it seems like you have a handle on your days good luck and that pot pie looks delish!!
I'm with you with not liking to dig holes. What I do now is use a drill auger bit to do my holes for planting.. It's been game changing, seriously. Much quicker and not as back breaking.
I understand you! It is like a "Lost" feeling. I had 2 girls, 20 YEARS apart!! I was basically Free, when I had the Second and Started the Mommy Mode ALL over again! My oldest never drove. She was always Needing a Rescue! Sometimes with car loads of her things! Then she had 2 sons, 5 years apart. Again with the Rescues regarding the first son. He was Taken by the Child Stealers and I Helped mu daughter Get him.back! 3 times!! Then helped her when she birthed the second son, who was Taken AT the hospital! Then the first son was Taken the final time at MY house! Trauma Drama Everywhere! Meanwhile my youngest was born before her first son. She put me threw TONS of issues! Child Stealers got HER at the hospital too!! I fought to Keep her Safe for 17 years! She was constantly trying to Make Troubles! "She wants TO be Taken! They will GIVE her everything she wants!".... I stopped Fighting at 17, because I realized They DONT want her! They want cute babies and toddlers to Sell!! She is an Oldie! Nothing but Costs! (PS I was correct!) Trauma Drama. Then.she started Working so my days were structured by HER Work Schedules! Did that for 5 years!!! But I have a crippled driving leg.... I have to get her to Drive! My leg wasn't happy anymore! Now SHE drives and takes off WITH my car!! So. Lost I became! No more driving her. No more schedules. No more Fights to Protect children. No more Court Battles. AND no more Oldest Daughter! She Died! The youngest son NEVER came home. He was Sold. The Oldest is Trapped in Foster Care. Only my young daughter is with me. And she Needs my car, not me! I can't DO gardening, most matenance of my property/house now. I mow the lawn. That's it. Wow! No Schedules!
Wow! Sounds like you are better off not having to continually having to rescue others. That is so draining. I hope you are doing better now… as much as you can. I would encourage you to try getting some raised garden beds that are at the height of a chair so that you can still tend to your plants if that is something you are interested in. That might help bring you some joy. Thank you for sharing with me 💜💜💜
My husband recently retired and we are struggling to find our routine as well so I can understand where you are at! I really enjoy watching your channel that's real and not a script!
Thank you! 😊 💜
You’re AWESOME you’ll figure out what structure you need.Thanks and keep em coming
Thank you 😊 💜
Hi Tiffany 👋🏻
This video was fabulous. It was so nice to "hang out" with you in Hawaii while doing my boarding morning chores. ❤
Thank you! 💜💜🤩
I knew it, that you were related to Anna,. Very nice.
Yes maam! 💜
That pot pie looks delish! Thank you for bringing us along for your day 😃
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Hi Tiffany! I totally get the structure of a schedule. After raising my children and working for many years it was like I was kinda lost when I retired and my kids were grown. It is like what do I do with all this time I have now, I get it. Just take it one day at a time and things will work out.
Have a blessed night!
That’s right! One day at a time💜
I can definitely empathize about structure! I lost my husband three years ago May 19. I moved closer to two of our children (and all four granddaughters) about this time last year. I haven’t yet figured out a schedule that works. Wishing you love and light. By the way, I love your hair. Mine was that long during my hippie phase in the 60s!
The grandchildren must be a huge help for your soul! 💜💜💜 sending all the love and light right back for you! 😘
Hope the collards get going and I know it is a different kind of change and changes for you but it seems like you have a handle on your days good luck and that pot pie looks delish!!
Thank you! 💜 I appreciate that 😊
I for one am very excited. Love that you are going to be making longer and more content…. I’m sure you will do great.
Thank you! 😊
I'm with you with not liking to dig holes. What I do now is use a drill auger bit to do my holes for planting.. It's been game changing, seriously. Much quicker and not as back breaking.
Yes! I have seen people do that!
Yum!! I love pot pie...
Your Kiefer grains had jet lag. 😂
They sure did!
I understand you! It is like a "Lost" feeling. I had 2 girls, 20 YEARS apart!! I was basically Free, when I had the Second and Started the Mommy Mode ALL over again!
My oldest never drove. She was always Needing a Rescue! Sometimes with car loads of her things! Then she had 2 sons, 5 years apart. Again with the Rescues regarding the first son. He was Taken by the Child Stealers and I Helped mu daughter Get him.back! 3 times!! Then helped her when she birthed the second son, who was Taken AT the hospital! Then the first son was Taken the final time at MY house! Trauma Drama Everywhere!
Meanwhile my youngest was born before her first son. She put me threw TONS of issues! Child Stealers got HER at the hospital too!! I fought to Keep her Safe for 17 years! She was constantly trying to Make Troubles! "She wants TO be Taken! They will GIVE her everything she wants!"....
I stopped Fighting at 17, because I realized They DONT want her! They want cute babies and toddlers to Sell!! She is an Oldie! Nothing but Costs! (PS I was correct!) Trauma Drama.
Then.she started Working so my days were structured by HER Work Schedules! Did that for 5 years!!!
But I have a crippled driving leg....
I have to get her to Drive! My leg wasn't happy anymore!
Now SHE drives and takes off WITH my car!!
So. Lost I became! No more driving her. No more schedules. No more Fights to Protect children. No more Court Battles. AND no more Oldest Daughter! She Died! The youngest son NEVER came home. He was Sold. The Oldest is Trapped in Foster Care.
Only my young daughter is with me. And she Needs my car, not me!
I can't DO gardening, most matenance of my property/house now. I mow the lawn. That's it.
Wow! No Schedules!
Wow! Sounds like you are better off not having to continually having to rescue others. That is so draining.
I hope you are doing better now… as much as you can. I would encourage you to try getting some raised garden beds that are at the height of a chair so that you can still tend to your plants if that is something you are interested in. That might help bring you some joy.
Thank you for sharing with me 💜💜💜
Awesome
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