The Ultimate Guide to Being "THAT Girl"

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  • @VanessaTiiu
    @VanessaTiiu  3 ปีที่แล้ว +6854

    SUMMER IS ALMOST HERE!!! What's something you're looking forward to? ☀️🌊

    • @aistytee1
      @aistytee1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      What i eat in a day!

    • @coffee4085
      @coffee4085 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      swimming in water all day!! and having a summer routine :))

    • @jimenaescobar7346
      @jimenaescobar7346 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Becoming that girl and changing my clothes style

    • @ellendeise6071
      @ellendeise6071 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      OMG I was searching for a video like this wow congrats❤

    • @antoniaeva4413
      @antoniaeva4413 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I want to get into the school I like . so now I have to study but after that I want to become the best version of myself. Btw you are so beautiful. 🧡 -(sorry for my bad English., I'm bilengual, I speak 4 language so sometimes it's hard to speak English correctly🤣)

  • @todayiglowup4286
    @todayiglowup4286 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14755

    i feel like "that girl" is definitely a mindset. if you are glowing from the inside, people will see that

    • @VanessaTiiu
      @VanessaTiiu  3 ปีที่แล้ว +370

      yes!! i completely agree!

    • @mindtomanifest9147
      @mindtomanifest9147 3 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      Trueeee, if you love yourself on the inside.. .it will definitely reflect on the outside

    • @marlies6155
      @marlies6155 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      I love this comment so much

    • @avahorton8966
      @avahorton8966 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Yes ma’am 🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

    • @zindzelelelitte977
      @zindzelelelitte977 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      My dad is living "that girl" life on a budget without instagram, photos or socal media

  • @MeganKesbai
    @MeganKesbai 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12622

    true, "THAT GIRL" perception is different for different people, and it also motivates one to work towards the best version of themselves.

    • @VanessaTiiu
      @VanessaTiiu  3 ปีที่แล้ว +202

      Yes exactly!! 🥰🥰

    • @itsbriiiyahhh
      @itsbriiiyahhh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      This is definitely me ❤️

    • @aimeejane_writings
      @aimeejane_writings 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      But it shouldn't be a trend.

    • @lizajackson6035
      @lizajackson6035 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      @@aimeejane_writings to work towards the best version of yourself?

    • @natalia1048
      @natalia1048 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Jesus loves you!

  • @kk-gg6hs
    @kk-gg6hs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17896

    I used to be "that girl" and then I got burnt out. Now I am fighting depression. Please remind yourself that you are worthy in spite of your failures.

    • @kaitlynloucks1097
      @kaitlynloucks1097 3 ปีที่แล้ว +753

      Hey I just wanted to remind U that u are worthy and I hope u become the best version of yourself again! U deserve it. I was “that girl” too and fell into a deep depression and remained being a lazy bitch for 3 years now I’m finally reclaiming who tf I am ! I hope u decide to make the change too !

    • @Msawesomet123
      @Msawesomet123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      me as well. we got this bestie

    • @fahdah106
      @fahdah106 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@kaitlynloucks1097 I 2nd that and same 2 u

    • @kk-gg6hs
      @kk-gg6hs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      @@kaitlynloucks1097 thanks so much for your support ❣️ wishing you the best 🙏

    • @alexandraliv1124
      @alexandraliv1124 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Let's keep on fighting!

  • @G84632
    @G84632 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7163

    1. Sleep schedule
    2. Wake up early + make bed
    3. Skincare
    4. Journal (gratitude, to do list)
    5. Drink a lot (lemon water)
    6. Morning walk + podcast
    7. Workout
    8. Get ready
    9. Breakfast
    10. Start work
    11. Reading
    12. Lunch (healthy, smoothie)
    Being “that” girl has a lot to do with your mindset:)

    • @soleen2701
      @soleen2701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      thank u for writing it down

    • @theinvinciblewinner
      @theinvinciblewinner 3 ปีที่แล้ว +172

      More like having a lot of free time and being rich

    • @anniemannie6
      @anniemannie6 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      That girl according to me:
      1) wake up at 4am
      2) make your own healthy breakfast
      3) go for a walk on the roof
      4) workout
      5) studying more
      6) cleaning my room
      7) learning a third language
      8) reading
      9) bathing everyday 💀
      10) dressing up nice everyday
      11) drinking a lot
      12) cooking something at least once everyday

    • @ilysm-i9g
      @ilysm-i9g 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@anniemannie6 walk on the roof??? 💀💀

    • @anniemannie6
      @anniemannie6 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@ilysm-i9g 😂 yeah, I noticed that whenever I go on the roof in the morning, I feel fresh. I just put on songs and eat something I make, roam here and there and sit when I get tired. It's like a place where I get my mind together and plan some things. And my roof is big enough for me to be able to walk a bit. Once a dog bit me and now I'm scared of them, so that's why I don't go out alone in the morning, and also because I'm young and my mom doesn't allow me to go out if she's sleeping

  • @hydrogwyn
    @hydrogwyn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4210

    them: * wakes up at 5am *
    me: * *sTILL AWAKE AT 5AM, WATCHING VIDEOS ON HOW TO BE "THAT" GIRL* *

  • @maya1106
    @maya1106 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6762

    I've been ,,that girl" for 9 days now, I am so happy honestly :) I used to be on phone all day, eat unhealthy,snack a lot,sleep at 5am,never workout...now I fixed all these things, bit by bit and I am still starting my journey but so far, I have never been happier for myself than I am now :)

    • @randomveganperson8873
      @randomveganperson8873 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      Congrats! I hope you can keep that up :)

    • @VanessaTiiu
      @VanessaTiiu  3 ปีที่แล้ว +235

      Yay!! You're killing it queen 🥰

    • @naamaalhammadi5981
      @naamaalhammadi5981 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Proud of u

    • @carmenromero6847
      @carmenromero6847 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      CONGRATSSS !!! UHM if it's ok to ask, what is ur routine or maybe what things do u do in the day

    • @k.suliman8539
      @k.suliman8539 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      You go girl!!! 👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾

  • @karlag8278
    @karlag8278 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4528

    Honestly for me being "that girl" is just taking care of myself and do what's best for my wellbeing

    • @VanessaTiiu
      @VanessaTiiu  3 ปีที่แล้ว +149

      Get it girl, and keep doing that!!

    • @shopnicolets
      @shopnicolets 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      same!

    • @sapphodil3154
      @sapphodil3154 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      RIGHT, people keep saying it’s toxic, but it’s only toxic if you make it toxic! All it is is bringing out the ultimate version of you, nothing else!

    • @mamilivi__308
      @mamilivi__308 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@sapphodil3154 true

    • @Siegreic
      @Siegreic 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Describe the best.

  • @jonasfilmstudio
    @jonasfilmstudio 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6935

    Finally a trend that’s not toxic

    • @marleneknits
      @marleneknits 3 ปีที่แล้ว +396

      it might not be toxic but it is definitely not attainable for most women that have to work / have children etc.

    • @aniyahseabrook5511
      @aniyahseabrook5511 3 ปีที่แล้ว +193

      @@marleneknits no but that’s the thing it is attainable... that mindset hinders a lot of people

    • @aniyahseabrook5511
      @aniyahseabrook5511 3 ปีที่แล้ว +189

      @@marleneknits being that girl is a mindset it’s about self care, improvement, and loving yourself!!!

    • @alexapazos-gonzalez2894
      @alexapazos-gonzalez2894 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      For real tho

    • @yoongisgirlfriend9302
      @yoongisgirlfriend9302 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      F I N A L L Y

  • @miniko_artsy
    @miniko_artsy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1041

    I think my version “that girl” is about implementing small habits that gradually add up, today I woke up at 11 am, ate instant ramen, in all scenarios this would be considered an unsuccessful day, but I also started exercising today and took a shower, it’s all about building these small habits that will help your physical and mental health, today wasn’t perfect, but it was better than yesterday and that’s all that matters :3

    • @ashleywillson1990
      @ashleywillson1990 2 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      How does one climb a mountain? The same way he learned to walk. One step at a time.

    • @____yeojinnie
      @____yeojinnie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      y'all r so inspiring 😭 indeed, we should strive to be the best version of ourselves one day at a time ❤️

    • @100thlamb8
      @100thlamb8 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jesus loves you❤️th-cam.com/video/vCoDTUXHMeg/w-d-xo.html❤️

    • @charlottehook7387
      @charlottehook7387 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      If you simply manage to eat, that is a successful day

    • @eideldsouza2131
      @eideldsouza2131 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i love this comment omg

  • @LilyIrean
    @LilyIrean 2 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    i love how you keep reminding us that being “that girl” doesn’t have to be aesthetic and it’s more about how you wanna feel or what you want to do while being productive. awesome video!!

    • @VanessaTiiu
      @VanessaTiiu  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you!! I really tried to emphasize that and that it’s the habits you do and what makes YOU feel like that girl that makes you THAT girl ❤️

  • @Rj-cd4rf
    @Rj-cd4rf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2052

    good luck to everyone on their journey to becoming “that girl” you can do it!

    • @xNinaa2016
      @xNinaa2016 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you

    • @akp470
      @akp470 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m starting a channel to share ideas for self care and tips to be “THAT GIRL” best version of yourself!! Support!!

    • @tbross77
      @tbross77 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so so much

    • @MrJanupanu
      @MrJanupanu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      TANKS!!!!

    • @suchiarya4621
      @suchiarya4621 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you yes we can do it !

  • @damilola
    @damilola 3 ปีที่แล้ว +900

    the intro was EVERYTHING omg

    • @VanessaTiiu
      @VanessaTiiu  3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Ah thank you!! ❤️❤️

    • @LydAnn2005
      @LydAnn2005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Literally made me so happy

    • @itzelquintero8265
      @itzelquintero8265 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      What is the music

    • @thomasgirls9074
      @thomasgirls9074 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      what is the song?

    • @Misspoppylocks
      @Misspoppylocks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@thomasgirls9074 ‘The King’ Sarah Kinsley

  • @aarnachopdekar9490
    @aarnachopdekar9490 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1200

    I do workout everyday
    I eat vegetables and have lemon drink everyday
    I do around 7k-10k steps ALMOST everyday
    And I also take care of my skin and complete my assignments
    This is my type of “that girl”

    • @trunkoslivka1448
      @trunkoslivka1448 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      YASS GIRLL GO

    • @Kayla-um3ry
      @Kayla-um3ry 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      im so happy for you :) keep being the best version of yourself!!

    • @helenoftroy6650
      @helenoftroy6650 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      How old are you?

    • @aarnachopdekar9490
      @aarnachopdekar9490 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@helenoftroy6650 I'm turning 15 this October

    • @helenoftroy6650
      @helenoftroy6650 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@aarnachopdekar9490 oh nice

  • @thanksgram
    @thanksgram 3 ปีที่แล้ว +276

    I feel like being “that girl” is really about you just getting your shit together, leveling up, and striving to be the best version of you. Whatever that may be!❤️

  • @elsa_vs3264
    @elsa_vs3264 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I became ‘that girl’ about three months ago for a week, I was recovering from depression and told myself to take baby steps, at that time being ‘that girl’ for me was showering more often and brushing my teeth twice a day again and that sort of stuff. It helped SO MUCH setting up my routines again. Now I’m probably gonna try being that girl again but now focusing on productivity and health :)) being ‘that girl’ is just setting the first step to setting up good habits

    • @tkgiinfmkvb
      @tkgiinfmkvb ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was becoming that girl before that girl trend lol
      It was after my break up in 2019. I used to wake up early do skincare Eat healthy fruits and vegetables also changing my mindset was best thing I did. But it was not that aesthetic like they show. Somedays I used to cry to heal and let out.
      Somedays I just used to stay in bed watch my fave movie and do nothing productive. But I felt better. I think balance is more important than being extreme.

  • @sooling5529
    @sooling5529 3 ปีที่แล้ว +808

    “that girl” trend is actually the best trend i’ve seen on social media. it encourages people to eat healthy, work out, take care of yourself etc. people who bash on it just cant accept that there are better versions of themself they can strive for.
    edit: alright to be honest my original comment is a little harsh - I guess what I wanted to imply is that most people who criticize the trend don't seem to want to believe/or accept that there are different ways they can live their lives and things they can do that will make their health, mentally or physically better. I absolutely believe in doing whatever tf you want (be it play video games on your free time or eat ice cream when you want to) and you do you! We all deserve to take a breather for ourselves.
    However I notice how better I feel when I ""jumped"" into the trend (Which is basically just supporting a healthy lifestyle like eating greens, working out, wear lesser make up, read etc). Now I feel so much better since i'm eating healthier, working out often, taking care of my skin, etc.
    I just believe that out of the many trends that has ever come and go, the 'that girl' trend doesn't deserve as much criticism as it receives, because in the end of the day it really is just promoting wellbeing.

    • @chalkandrubble5702
      @chalkandrubble5702 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Not really, you could search up some videos on why people criticise the that girl trend. A lot of the criticism seems pretty valid to me. There are both good and bad sides to this trend, as with everything else.

    • @emnemnem1889
      @emnemnem1889 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@chalkandrubble5702 to me honestly, taking care of yourself shouldn't even be a trend, or fashionable... Like brushing your teeth or washing... It should be natural. What else I don't like, is the genralisation. Like, all of these girls eat avocado, do yoga, drink a lotta water... No originality, no diversity... I just realized that I've been THAT girl for years, without it even becoming a trend. Plus, not everyone can afford avocado. In Russia for instance it's a pretty expensive and rare vegetable (yes scientists consider it a fruit, but idgad)

    • @krullewietje
      @krullewietje 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      'taking care of yourself' isn't always waking up at 4 am to workout, eating a salad for lunch and being pressured into having a flawless lifestyle.. sometimes it's sleeping a little more and watching your favorite tv series while eating chocolate chip cookies, and that's honestly perfectly fine

    • @user-xj4yv3qo3v
      @user-xj4yv3qo3v 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@krullewietje Wasting time watching TV, eating unhealthy food, not exercising and calling it self-care - sounds more like excuses for self-abandonment, escapism and recklessness to your onw life quality and wellbeing. There is so much tasty, healthy, vegan food, you'll feel and be better doing actual, healthy self-care and getting stuff done and relax in mindful, healthy ways, like walking, sports, meditation.

    • @krullewietje
      @krullewietje 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      @@user-xj4yv3qo3v im sorry but you're unknowingly proving how unnuanced the whole 'that girl' trend is..... Watching tv or doing anything merely for your own enjoyment = wasting time, eating a chocolate chip cookie = making an unhealthy food decision, sleeping a little more = time you could have spent on exercise or 'being productive'. How is any of this a healthy mindset? to me this way of thinking would fit more with extreme perfectionism and i doubt it could ever truly contribute to long term happiness. An actual healthy lifestyle to me is about balance and being able to enjoy certain things without guilt. This ain't it

  • @onyxcat1312
    @onyxcat1312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you for emphasizing that "that girl" is personalized and in different perceptions and that there are no set routines or aesthetic, this is honestly something I'm still struggling and figuring out - my personal aesthetic/preferences doesn't quite fit the normal image we see on tiktok or pinterest.
    "That girl" that we should aim to be is the best version of our own selves that we imagine for us. We can take inspiration and ideas from others, but we don't have to follow another person's routine or image to a T!

  • @saharajefferson369
    @saharajefferson369 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    As a teenage girl who is really invested into achieving this I feel like it's easy to look and and say "Oh yeah, i can do this for years" and then in the reality I only got through 3 days because of certain factors. I am a fit girl but I want to change my routine to better healthy habits. Anyone can do this. I spend most of my time looking at this videos. Not just motivation but knowing I can achieve this as a everyone schedule. Remember, it is not easy but it's possible to achieve for anyone just take steps :)

  • @tryingmydarndest8200
    @tryingmydarndest8200 3 ปีที่แล้ว +640

    The "that girl" trend reminds me a lot of Aristotle's goal towards eudaimonia. A eudaimonistic lifestyle is one where you are constantly trying to improve yourself and learn new things. The only difference is portrayal. Eudaimonia is change within oneself, "that girl" is change for display. Of course, people interpret "that girl" differently, but since it is based in socials it is deeply intertwined with crafting aesthetic moments. Personally, I think that someone trying to be a "that girl" will be more dedicated at first (in comparison to a eudaimonistic strive) because they can clearly see life changes just in their camera roll.
    Though eventually, I would guess that eudaimonia wins out since, after all, "that girl" is a trend and trends fade.

    • @shellysbrewing
      @shellysbrewing 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      💯💯💯💯

    • @annajamal781
      @annajamal781 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      this was a joy to read! 💕

    • @majortom2231
      @majortom2231 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@annajamal781 Truly!

    • @RB-os7qw
      @RB-os7qw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Thanks for posting this. It was a good read, and there aren't as many of those in youtube comments as one would hope.

    • @kaylynn3717
      @kaylynn3717 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Agree 100%!!! Let’s also remember to help others! That will help us to become the best version of ourselves too🥰🥰

  • @sandrapereiiira
    @sandrapereiiira 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I am living this so called "that girl" lifestyle and it has improved my mental and physical health, my confidence and my overall life but I understand that it doesn't work for everyone specially if you have to force it, it should be natural and it shouldn't be seen as the ideal, everyone has a different routine, different jobs, financial and housings situations and overall different lifestyles so please don't compare and just enjoy your life as you please and let these types of videos just inspire you :)

  • @enguunenguun7164
    @enguunenguun7164 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    HER SMILE IS SO ATTRACTIVE 🌙

  • @hangwithhana
    @hangwithhana 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I love how to added in how to make it plant-based, like you didn’t have to do that & yet you were being thoughtful. So sweet and helpful for plant based viewers !

    • @VanessaTiiu
      @VanessaTiiu  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Of course!! I always get questions on plant based meals/recipes that now I always try to give the alternative if my recipe isn't plant based!

  • @tiffanydlo.x
    @tiffanydlo.x 3 ปีที่แล้ว +782

    i'll definitely try be a "that" girl in summer break but for now its waking up 30 minutes before school🥴

    • @kailinhanna6031
      @kailinhanna6031 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      same hun, same

    • @thomasgirls9074
      @thomasgirls9074 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      sameeee

    • @sofiasambuchetti3998
      @sofiasambuchetti3998 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same girl

    • @oliviaaloh1069
      @oliviaaloh1069 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I think I’m gonna have to shoot for next school year, I’m not doing to well 😟

    • @Safa-nx7kf
      @Safa-nx7kf 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      honestly theres nothing wrong with that as long as you're getting enough sleep! 30 minutes is also definitely enough time to get ready for school, shower, eat breakfast etc.

  • @karinafafara7665
    @karinafafara7665 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    2 months. Consistent gym training, got a pt, doing good at work, finished uni year well, go sleep before midnight, clean room (5 months of a clean room now), no dating apps or pursuing anything im not ready for, skincare on point, growing out nails, hair and nail appointment booked, holidays booked and planned and ready as well as often going to cafés myself to relax with an americano and my drawing tablet and walk the 10k steps. Best time of my life, I want all my life to stay this way. I'm so proud and happy. Just started journaling again and everything is falling into place. Being 'THAT' girl is just finally focusing on pleasing myself and not everyone else. I need me time and that's more than okay. Loved the video might try waking p at 6am this summer? that'd be a real challenge for me

  • @samantha9011
    @samantha9011 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I was “that girl” early last year and depression hit me so hard (again) and I added a ton of weight and wasn’t taking care of myself spiritually nor physically.
    I’m trying to be that girl again now :)!

  • @sarahburton2439
    @sarahburton2439 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    The "That Girl" trend encompasses yourself, and the people in your life. I just cut a toxic friend out of my life, who was constantly trying to mold me into a version of me that he approved of. I've been scared to do this for a year because I didn't have the confidence to stand up for myself. Now he's out, I feel relieved and like I've just taken a massive step towards improving my well being!
    Make sure your life is full of people who support you in being "That Girl" too ☺️

  • @lauren_zab
    @lauren_zab 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1323

    ive been lovinngggg watching these “that girl” videos!! i might just have to film one too haha

    • @VanessaTiiu
      @VanessaTiiu  3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      right!! i'm obsessed

    • @haroldthebest2093
      @haroldthebest2093 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yesss do it I will watch it

    • @jee.3750
      @jee.3750 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Do it please I swear I will watch it!

    • @katrina6281
      @katrina6281 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Do it!

    • @abrarsunset
      @abrarsunset 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I just post my Becoming that girl if you want go cheek it.
      th-cam.com/video/BnL--l1BinE/w-d-xo.html

  • @aliciajade8837
    @aliciajade8837 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    for me it started out as an aesthetic but now i’m trying my hardest to become a version of myself i love, everyday gets better and better and i’m trying to discipline myself

  • @and.re_a
    @and.re_a 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I’m going to try to give “being that girl” a different perspective, many may say it’s toxic, but this trend started as a way for people to romanticize the healthy life style because it was seen as boring and associated negatively so people decided to shed light on the possible beauty and simplicity of it to make that life style approachable. Unfortunately it became a trend to the point where the concept itself became overwhelming and negative. But just try to remember where it originally came from, if you’re ever thinking badly about it and putting yourself down about not being able to have it this trend itself is not a lifestyle! Keep doing you.

  • @israelzav3209
    @israelzav3209 3 ปีที่แล้ว +294

    Unpopular opinion: “that girl” seems different to everyone and it could be a little bit toxic to people who are perfectionist or people who are always comparing themselves to others, remember that your best version is not the one that everyone shows on social media, your best version is the one when you can be at peace and balance in every part of your life, send you lots of love

    • @lemonboi7482
      @lemonboi7482 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Honestly, that's my least favorite trend.
      "That" girl looks like a soulless machine that only cares about superficial things.

    • @tejujoshi6666
      @tejujoshi6666 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "Being in PEACE and BALANCE in EVERY part of your life" well said👏👏👏

    • @mygodisawesome6121
      @mygodisawesome6121 ปีที่แล้ว

      👏🏽

  • @starlitexo
    @starlitexo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    “That girl” is based on perspective. But being that girl does help us in the long run as long as it’s healthy for you mentally and physically

  • @Safa-nx7kf
    @Safa-nx7kf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Im a 16 year old girl, from today I am going to try my best to be 'that girl' for MYSELF and not for praise from others. No more sleeping at 1am and waking up at 6:30, no more irregular showering schedule, no more lack of exercise etc. I am going to start respecting my body for once!

  • @barbzcult
    @barbzcult 3 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    i’m tryna become that girl and it’s almost summer. i’m so excited i start tomorrow and i’m gonna wake up at 5:45am💕

  • @sneckles
    @sneckles 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I was already loving the video, but you won me over completely with the "afternoon-evening That Girl" at the end!! Because everyone IS different, and you can still have an enriching and productive day even if your schedule tends to happen later on, and that's something I've never seen anyone else mention before! Great video! 💕💕

  • @TPM4594
    @TPM4594 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    I'm a 27 year old guy and I have no idea why I'm watching this

    • @Justbreath201
      @Justbreath201 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂😂😂

    • @udita9005
      @udita9005 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      To become "that boy"

    • @maiah-xv1ut
      @maiah-xv1ut 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      you don't need to be a girl to be the best version of yourself 😀

  • @444fawn
    @444fawn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +815

    so basically being "that girl" is just being the best version of yourself, the happiest and healthiest version u can be? i think ill start being healthier once college starts, I'm just going to enjoy lazy girl summer and going to sleep at 6 am waking up at 3pm for now 😌

    • @lucymalpas1221
      @lucymalpas1221 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      I agree so hard with that! There's so much pressure to be your best self all the time but sometimes you just need to exist and enjoy the ride without all that pressure and guilt for not being 'that girl'

    • @이지민-j5w
      @이지민-j5w 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lucymalpas1221 what's that girl? Am I the only person who don't know?

    • @tahsina.c
      @tahsina.c 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@이지민-j5w it honestly doesnt even matter or really exist-being healthy isnt a personality anyway, the only girl u need to be is u

    • @444fawn
      @444fawn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@이지민-j5w that girl is just a phrase for girls who have a “healthy” life routine like eating fresh foods, going to sleep & waking up early, exercising/doing yoga/ mediating. It’s not an actual person !!

    • @theinvinciblewinner
      @theinvinciblewinner 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nah, u won’t

  • @alicia_grace
    @alicia_grace 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    as soon as the video started i just knew it was going to be good, your personality is so bubbly and this really inspired me!

    • @VanessaTiiu
      @VanessaTiiu  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ah thank you so much!!

  • @marif2993
    @marif2993 3 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    if you see the THAT girl trend and actually works towards your better self, then it’s very beneficial. if you just consume the content and stay in inaction, that’s when useless comparison kicks in and it becomes detrimental. the trend in itself is not good or bad; it’s about your reaction to it

  • @Lils_499
    @Lils_499 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I read a quote that motivated me to workout more. it was, "in 2 weeks you will feel it, in 4 weeks you will see it, and in 8 weeks you will hear it." Totally got me motivated, and I hope it motivated you! you got this, and I believe in you!

  • @jacqo4428
    @jacqo4428 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i have been 'that girl' for almost all of my childhood til highschool, but when i got into college with covid going on, i felt really messed up from being down and anxious almost all of the time. I tried getting my shit together last week, and when I knew about 'that girl' yesterday, and how it received some negative comments, i felt attacked and made me felt like an imposter for being this someone that I was conditioned to be. This video made me realized again that it's okay to be 'that girl'. tbh, i felt a lot healthier back then and i wanted to do it again for myself. thank you for this video, this made me reassure myself that it's fine being 'that girl'.

  • @taylormfinney
    @taylormfinney 3 ปีที่แล้ว +456

    I learned that I literally am THAT girl and I didn't even know it 💁🏻‍♀️✨

    • @derYsha
      @derYsha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Tell us your secret🥴😂

    • @aarnachopdekar9490
      @aarnachopdekar9490 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Same
      We just need to be the best of ourselves

    • @GinaRosso542
      @GinaRosso542 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeessss you are Queen

    • @soon-julie9268
      @soon-julie9268 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Congratsss

    • @nefelisassalou5320
      @nefelisassalou5320 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yayy that's the spirit queen🍓✨

  • @12five83
    @12five83 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Tbh for me being "that girl" is knowing I can do anything and not caring what others think.

  • @artisticblue362
    @artisticblue362 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am entering my "that girl era" i just left my job, ive started going to therapy (i have a lot of savings rn) and im just trying to do little things to help me eat a little better and try and get a little exercise in each day :3 for me, i am much more motivated to do a little exercise if i have a cute workout outfit because then i feel good about how i look while getting exercise

  • @lillysamuale4001
    @lillysamuale4001 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was in these moments for months workin out....reading....wakin up early....having breakfast.....going to work early and so on and my daily life was boosting up....but now i became lazy and i feel my body also changing but i will start being "that girl" thank you sis🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤

  • @giingerbread5140
    @giingerbread5140 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    to me, being "that girl" is all about just doing whatever you can to make your mindset better. Take me for example, lately, I have not been the way I want to be. I have been not too happy and bubbly and that's because of my mental state. I have plans to begin being "that girl" on Thursday, (because I am moving soon and tomorrow is too hectic) but I have always wanted to try this. I just need someone to encourage me to do so.

  • @beautifullykayla
    @beautifullykayla 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    girl you are a ray of sunshine you project so much positivity energy the world needs more people like you

  • @Dennis-Earl-Smiley
    @Dennis-Earl-Smiley 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm a boy fighting multiple disabilities. But I'm very inspired by things like these. I want to learn to take care of myself that well, with the aid of my smarthome (apartment). I want to finish my studying and try to open my own business.

  • @G84632
    @G84632 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I love how positive this is and that being “that” girl has mostly to do with your mindset

  • @SodaStudy
    @SodaStudy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    omgggggg UR EDITING AND FILMIMNG SKILLS IS JUST CHEF KISS

    • @VanessaTiiu
      @VanessaTiiu  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ah thank you!!

    • @SodaStudy
      @SodaStudy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@VanessaTiiu 🥰🥰🥰

  • @katerinakalli1676
    @katerinakalli1676 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    ok but this is like the first time i've seen her in my life and i absoloutly love her

  • @destinyortiz3596
    @destinyortiz3596 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    being “that girl” is literally one of the best mindsets i could’ve asked for✨🍃.

  • @loveyourself1357
    @loveyourself1357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +456

    this routine is so hard to follow when you live with your whole family and on the top of that you're an Indian 😭

    • @elara5122
      @elara5122 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      I can feel you girl, living with a joint family you have whole different lifestyle.

    • @aishiki3208
      @aishiki3208 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I am only child but my parents always wake up at 7:30 so they switch off the alarm and I always wake up at 9 😂😂

    • @HLUBIKAZ
      @HLUBIKAZ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I can also relate as an african woman/girl who also lives with her entire family !!😪

    • @lizziewalker7844
      @lizziewalker7844 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Now you’ve said this, I realise how “white single 20-something girl” this routine is 😆 If it’s not rude to ask, what about being an Indian would especially make this routine harder? 🙂

    • @aishiki3208
      @aishiki3208 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@lizziewalker7844 joint family?

  • @nazwanaysilla3921
    @nazwanaysilla3921 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Just a reminder that its okay to not always be "that girl", you deserve the break as well from time to time :)

  • @bigwhomperz
    @bigwhomperz ปีที่แล้ว

    you seeing the positive in the "that girl routine" made me subscribe. too many people, in my personal opinion, are so sensitive and lazy that they think having a productive daily routine and eating healthier portions of good, non processed foods is toxic. don't be mad at the people who are healthy and don't be mad at yourself for not being like the "perfect picture" you see of someone, we all have bad days, so focusing on the good is what gets you through it.

  • @sacdaabdurhman
    @sacdaabdurhman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +242

    "Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it."
    If you are reading this you are amazing keep smiling💜

  • @Rachel-qj7zr
    @Rachel-qj7zr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    this is the best one of these vids I've seen yet, I feel so motivated

  • @Sophie-lf9zn
    @Sophie-lf9zn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Aah I love this! In my case being that girl means: waking up at 6 am, eating healthy, studying, reading, practising the piano for at least 2h a day, meditating and spending as much time as possible in nature🌿

  • @graceuebergang5081
    @graceuebergang5081 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your failures only mean you have made progress - a quote from someone I love dearly

  • @Maxey_0
    @Maxey_0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i love being "that girl" i was it for like 2 months but just got reslly unmotivated so now i am trying to get back into that and i absolutely love it it just is amazing and its a better version of you!!

  • @rooney3092
    @rooney3092 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I like “that girl” bc it’s adaptable to the individual. Waking up early doesn’t have to be a goal you need, but optimizing your sleep schedule benefits your overall health. Hydrating and eating foods that make you feel good and that you enjoy are very important too! Working out can actually give you a cognitive boost and help you get started on whatever work you do but it’s important not to set unrealistic goals. I have a Pinterest board on very low impact mobility workouts that suit my own needs. Reading and journaling are brain workouts and help you work things out for yourself, and you can read anything you want. But the most important thing is setting goals you can easily achieve and growing them gradually so you can maintain the momentum for yourself.

  • @jajasansfiltre5253
    @jajasansfiltre5253 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I believe being « that girl » is an idealization and a stereotype of that perfect girl who wakes up at 5 am, meditate, journaling.. and some people just don’t relate to it or don’t want to be her.
    What if instead we were just being ourselves ? Our own girl? With the routines, goals and mindset that relates to us without feeling any pressure to be perfect or any type of way.
    Remember that it’s ok to take breaks and nobody is perfect. Take care of yourself. ❤️

  • @kayleeslater6345
    @kayleeslater6345 3 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    It's totally normal and natural to go through periods in your life that inhibit you from living your optimal life, however, you shouldn't feel less than enough during these stages! Don't defer your happiness into the future just because you can't adhere to this or any other schedule, you can still be just as happy right now

  • @raniaelfarissi1658
    @raniaelfarissi1658 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this trend is honestly the best thing to hit in internet and im living for it

  • @jiungieluvs
    @jiungieluvs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've been doing my own "that girl" routine for about 3 months now and I just adore it! Watching you do yours really inspired me, and it's helped mee find my best self. I wish you luck on your journey!

  • @jmbagasina
    @jmbagasina 3 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    I'll try this lifestyle "that boy" version 😄

    • @VanessaTiiu
      @VanessaTiiu  3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      yes, go for it!!!

    • @xNinaa2016
      @xNinaa2016 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      amazing, you can do it

    • @LavaCreeperPeople
      @LavaCreeperPeople 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      same

    • @adeleisnamedafterme
      @adeleisnamedafterme 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Team Tempo it’s literally the same content and concept

    • @m1lt14
      @m1lt14 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Team Tempo Look at the TH-cam channel „Artsy“

  • @niharikamishra1936
    @niharikamishra1936 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I loved this video so much ... I saw this and got motivated, worked out after a long time, ate healthy and on time... Even went for a little essentials shopping, did self care... Tysm... I loved your vibe it's the first video I saw of your channel and now I'm binge watching all

    • @VanessaTiiu
      @VanessaTiiu  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Aw wow thank you so much!! And so proud of you, keep it up ❤️

  • @arpitabhunia1227
    @arpitabhunia1227 3 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    Definitely up for 'afternoon - evening' "that girl" routine 🖤🖤love your videos✨

    • @VanessaTiiu
      @VanessaTiiu  3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Thank you girl!! 🥰

    • @247webgirl
      @247webgirl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Saaaame. My “that girl” ain’t doin shit at 6am but sleeping 😂 If the sun isn’t up, neither am I!!

  • @nnrqs3361
    @nnrqs3361 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I beat my deppression after 3 years and I've realised that I'm just wasting my lifetime so I decided to change my lifestyle and become successful of course not everyday can be perfect but I'm trying as hard as I can to make them perfect.

  • @janinejames645
    @janinejames645 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Being 'That Girl' is such a positive trend!

  • @tanmayagoswami8011
    @tanmayagoswami8011 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    can we appreciate her editing skills❤ INSANE🤍❕

    • @VanessaTiiu
      @VanessaTiiu  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ahh thank you so much!!

  • @joymae
    @joymae 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I love that you remind us that you don’t need a matching outfit to be that girl haha. Atomic habits is so good

  • @AdrianasWonderland
    @AdrianasWonderland ปีที่แล้ว

    i love how you not make it one thing only. THAT GIRL can be honestly anything that make you feel good, thats importnant too underline that, i think you id it amazingly. it was such a great video

  • @damianni5840
    @damianni5840 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yeah the reason why I'm here is because my phone got taken away earlier which made me rethink about my life. My day was legit messy so it went like this: woke up bitter -> sad and making up scenarios -> neutral -> starts rethinking everything -> sad about how I spend my days on my phone all day so now I'm watching these types of vids

  • @sofialfonsin2422
    @sofialfonsin2422 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Personally I think being "that girl" is being the best version of yourself

    • @VanessaTiiu
      @VanessaTiiu  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yup exactly queen!! ❤️

  • @MeganKesbai
    @MeganKesbai 3 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    this was so relaxing

  • @baileeackerman4761
    @baileeackerman4761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I literally screamed out loud when you showed the book on camera. I love the ACOTAR series!

  • @_ayushi07
    @_ayushi07 ปีที่แล้ว

    Vanessa, you're that humble and nice friend everyone deserves, you have those positive vibes. I'm glad i found you. Love.

  • @lisacarbella5375
    @lisacarbella5375 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video is amazing! I love your energy and vibe. The fact that you compiled everything in one video instead of spreading it out is very helpful! The "that girl" is something I've always wanted to and you made it easier for me thank you again!

  • @idamarie8132
    @idamarie8132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m my own “that girl” I do whatever I want, and wake up when I want to. My room aren’t always clean, and I don’t do my skincare everyday, and that’s the good way for me to live🙃🦋

  • @abigail_melissa
    @abigail_melissa ปีที่แล้ว +8

    as a vegetarian, i love how she showed how to make the lunch plant based even if she is not a vegetarian herself

  • @lilyrose3024
    @lilyrose3024 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    you are legit one of my fave youtubers, you have inspired me to do this and it has made my life so much more organised!! xx

    • @VanessaTiiu
      @VanessaTiiu  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow thank you so so much!! Ilyyyy❤️

    • @lilyrose3024
      @lilyrose3024 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@VanessaTiiu ilyyy ❤❤

  • @iammariaalice
    @iammariaalice 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i’m Brazilian girl but i love your videos, your energy and everything is so so good

  • @user-z57h
    @user-z57h ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so glad that this "that girl" trend exists. People say tik tok is toxic but for me its not, I choose what to watch. I changed a lot, am happier, kinder, more positive because of this trend. Journaling, working out, being active does wonders.

  • @dianaa8125
    @dianaa8125 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love the that girl trend. I lot a lot from other people! I hate journalling and yoga and I skip that stuff but I got introduced to an awesome meditation night routine thanks to a that girl! ❤️

  • @KaHingS-wk9qb
    @KaHingS-wk9qb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Girl you are AMAZING! I always wanna be the best version of myself, but it is indeed rlly hard to follow the rigorous routine daily. Now u motivated me a lot, and I will defo try it. I hope all girls can be what they wanna be!!!!💗💗

  • @charlenesibug2711
    @charlenesibug2711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    would love to see an afternoon "that" girl routine

  • @tribenidas2252
    @tribenidas2252 ปีที่แล้ว

    "That girl concept is really good for those who practically want to see positive growth in their lives..not just in dream"...when i take care of myself...pamper myself...help needy , make my day absolutely productive i really feel so so satisfied and occupied...i just love that feeling ...its like spending a successful day💚💙

  • @linabouaamri4924
    @linabouaamri4924 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My version of that girl was having a flat stomach for as long as i can remember and now i feel like it’s much more than that. in the past year, i’ve realized that i love the version of myself that stays active, eats healthy, takes care of herself, keeps an active social life, doesn’t stay on her phone all day, completes her assignments and try her best at school. it’s really the that girl ultimate moment. i’ve been really close to my goal these past few months: having 2 practices of cheer per week, working 2-3 days a week while doing my last year of hs, so trying hard for some hard classes like physics and chem. i am very proud of this girl but when covid hit AGAIN, it was really difficult to keep doing all these things. i am also hiding behind covid, because i know that i wasn’t going to be able to stay on that overpacked schedule. but when i am doing all of these things; i feel like wonderwoman. i feel like i am the main character. but obv, i cannot keep doing this without reaching the point of exhaustion or without failing at one of these. my plan for this year is to keep studying hard to get into the college i want to go to, stay active and to stay happy and positive. whatever happens, happens. it’s life.

  • @mindtomatter8516
    @mindtomatter8516 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Girl I love this video so much omg! The editing was amazing

    • @VanessaTiiu
      @VanessaTiiu  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ah thank you!! ❤️

  • @skystarssmith
    @skystarssmith 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    girl- this is so good. thank you for always motivating me

    • @VanessaTiiu
      @VanessaTiiu  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ah thank you!!❤️

  • @won-ei-stein6969
    @won-ei-stein6969 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Trust me, what I learned about "being that girl" is to be yourself and love yourself. Nourishing your inner self, embrace it, don't pay attention to what others say: gotta be prettier, gotta be skinnier... what make any girl attractive is to be confident. Know yourself, know what you want.

  • @miyahtolbert2564
    @miyahtolbert2564 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    To me being “that girl” is pampering yourself. Putting you first. Loving and accepting people. And just being you

  • @annamuller5313
    @annamuller5313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    my routine: waking up at 00:00 or 3:00 in the morning to work until 11:00 or 14:00 (working for 4 days a week, heavy work), returning home for lunch, taking a shower, sleeping for two hours and studying the rest of the day ( 1 day of class a week not being fluent in the local language ), then I have dinner and go to bed very early... I have two days off but on them I study, clean the house and try to catch up on sleep
    the trend is good for those who do not live in europe because me being european my routine is literally like that since i was 16 , i wish i had time to do all that you mentioned in the video (mainly work out )but i have neither energy nor time ;_;

  • @heatherelysewellness
    @heatherelysewellness 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I’m dying at one of the CCs saying “batgirl” 😄 totally who I’m trying to become

    • @VanessaTiiu
      @VanessaTiiu  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      haha stoppp love it 😂❤️

  • @lilyrose3024
    @lilyrose3024 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    OMG UR EDITING IS AMAZING

  • @jackiek4159
    @jackiek4159 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Absolutely LOVING these "That girl" videos and your intro was amazing!! 😍🙌🏻

  • @kenzieshotstuff8855
    @kenzieshotstuff8855 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Honestly being that girl is one of my goals.. Journaling, waking up early, making my bed, getting ready, being productive. That to me is being that girl

  • @tiktokshorts123.8
    @tiktokshorts123.8 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the schedule I made:
    1. Wake up early + make bed
    2. Brush my teeth
    3. Drink water
    4. Eat breakfast
    5. Study (pomodoro method)
    6. Morning walk/workout
    7. Read/spend time with fam
    8. Eat lunch
    9. Study again
    10. Try to finish everything by evening so that I can enjoy the rest of the day by doing the things I LOVE

  • @clairesauzel
    @clairesauzel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I've been obsessed with your content lately!!!

    • @VanessaTiiu
      @VanessaTiiu  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      aw thank you girl!!