When my wife told me we were going to get married she also said that she would be "ruling the roost" and be in charge of everything because she knew how to do it better than I ever would. I do all the cooking and cleaning and she handles all the finances. I have to ask permission to spend any money so she can make sure I am not wasting any.
Hello Bella I am a highly functional autistic man married to a neurotypical woman. We have been married 10 years. Because she is the neurotypical one, she is better at coming up with fun and creative ideas, where as I tend to be more rigid and based on a schedule. We eventually both discovered, she was getting bored, because, well , she would often come up with better date night ideas. Eventually we moved into a female led relationship. It started with me doing more of the chores, me addressing her as boss or some other respectful title when it was her and I. We came that way, naturally. I wanted to thank you for educating people on this lifestyle
I have been in a female led relationship since i was a boy. My mother does all the decision and my father just follows, In my working place, my boss is woman and most of the department head are woman. these comes in so naturally for me to accept woman as a leader and man follows. now that i am married, my wife is also very assertive and dominant woman and i just follows her decision she made. Gongs are the days of a male led marriage. My daughter are also following my wife every footstep too.
Lets face the facts, female lead is quite normal in any relation , especially when there are kids in the house. Usually, the man does what the female thinks is best for the relation. That is related to the monetary spending, the free time, the interior of the home, also the home which is selected, the education and raise of the children, literally everything. And if she does not achieve her target, she uses her greatest weapon...her tears. On the other hand, especially in countries where there is a lot of "machism" like in Spain or Latinamerica, there is the phenomenon, that the men have a big mouth outside and present themselves as the ultimate power, but when they return home and pass the entrance door, they do shrink automatically to dwarfs without any say.
Guys, I'm legit in a female lead relationship and yes Its enjoyable,but it's also extremely real. Be warned if you do this it's a LIFE STYLE! It's hard to bend over in mid argument and get paddled or be paddled in public/in front of her friends. Be ready to submit. All I'm saying is if you're thinking about doing this understand what you're getting into.
That's an interesting point you make about being older and seeking an FLR. I am 60 and am quite interested in that approach. The male ego reaches a point when older that drops a lot of the BS associated with life that just doesn't matter anymore. Certainly enables the acceptance of an FLR :)
I know that I can't. Even in relationships when I had more of a lead role, they still got their way. It was like I was daddy, but she was the girl that's got daddy wrapped around her fingers.
I desperately want an FLR. Can't find a desirable guy though. All willing men are in the age group of 45-60 which honestly won't suit me. Makes me wonder why young men aren't into FLR.
@@harshmehta938 Simply follow your wife's lead. Remember - "she's the law". The decisions she makes are to be obeyed at all times. And this is not in a cheap-kink sense. Reversal of traditional gender roles is a must. Show genuine respect and be entirely devoted to serving her (not just in the bedroom but in social space too). Accept the fact that your purpose in life is to serve her. But above everything else, make sure to never allow your male ego to peek into your lives (if you have any).
@@brycegude6876 Because it's hard to find, I'm still struggling to finally meet a truly submissive guy who'd be authentic. Most seem to want FLR thinking it's for cheap kinks and bedroom fetishes.
What many dominant women do not realize is that men are so obsessed with sexual that as long as a man is getting kinky sexual action which might not even involve actual sex but role play the lan will go along with playing submissive.
Since we men are project oriented and women are life oriented, life is superior to projects hence women are superior to men, hence women should lovingly lead relationships and we men should love and obey women.
Yes, and I believe that a woman's intuition and thinking is superior to a man's thinking. Woman can perceive things we can't. She should still discuss with her husband because we do have value in our thinking. But women are definitely better bosses at home. How many guys call their wives "boss"? Even sometimes men that act like they are in charge end up calling their wife "the boss"
Stage 2 is already happening in a lot of marriages, in some cases without the husband even noticing. Stage 3 is the goals all couples should try to get to
I’m all for an FLR myself personally. Certainly not gospel for most dudes, a lot sure, but most, no. A lot of comments I see on these types of videos say a lot of really dumb things
great video Bella. i think in modern society, pre marriage ,women have choice over males, as they seek the most competitive, 'masculine' males. biologically sperm is cheap. however marriage ruins this as such men get lazy or cheat and are no longer competitive, and women are often stuck unsatisfied and lose the masculine spirit that they were attracted to in the first place. this is the normal way across the world in most cultures: patriarchy. this is why FLR is the true feminist way forward for women. keep control of men with making the decisions but also most importantly chastity and bdsm discipline so that men remain hard working. put them to work both in the home and out, get gratified often, and have fun humiliating and being 'cruel' to him because he agreed this was smart for him and you have given him a security as a deal for the 'inequality'. but this means women have to pick men they can wrap around their finger and train, not 'cool', 'sexy' men because if they make you feel like that immediately you're already being dominated by that male. with good training, he'll find you more sexy every passing day, rather than his love dying out. you're better off saving an immediately hot guy's number so he can become a bull you see if you want to have fun so much. whether you tell the bull about your flr and cuckoldry is up to you of course!
Most of my Native ancestors lived in female led relationships. Not to the kink extreme. But most tribes had matrilineal and or matriarchial societies. Husbands would join the wife's home and family. Children would be born into their mother's clan. Many tribes had councils of elderly women that would decide when the warriors would go to battle. Even most chiefs had councils of women that they would take wisdom and insight from. Maybe its just the Native in me but I think this makes way more sense. I almost wouldn't mind taking my wife's last name, even tho we sidnt traditionally have last names. It would be as a symbol of choosing what makes sense to me over the societal traditions that dont resognate with me......but first I gotta find the right woman that I trust to lead my family and love enough to take her last name and join her family.
MERAVIGLIOSAMENTE STUPENDA MERAVIGLIOSAMENTE ELEGANTSEXYCHIC STAI MOLTO BENE CON QUESTI OCCHIALI DA VISTA TI RENDONO MOLTO BELLA ELEGANTE E MOLTO CHIC ,MI PIACEREBBE VEDERTI SENZA OCCHIALI X VEDERE COME STAI 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
When my wife told me we were going to get married she also said that she would be "ruling the roost" and be in charge of everything because she knew how to do it better than I ever would. I do all the cooking and cleaning and she handles all the finances. I have to ask permission to spend any money so she can make sure I am not wasting any.
Lucky dude
Did she gift you her last name?
Lucky you
Hello Bella
I am a highly functional autistic man married to a neurotypical woman.
We have been married 10 years.
Because she is the neurotypical one, she is better at coming up with fun and creative ideas, where as I tend to be more rigid and based on a schedule.
We eventually both discovered, she was getting bored, because, well , she would often come up with better date night ideas.
Eventually we moved into a female led relationship. It started with me doing more of the chores, me addressing her as boss or some other respectful title when it was her and I.
We came that way, naturally. I wanted to thank you for educating people on this lifestyle
I have been in a female led relationship since i was a boy. My mother does all the decision and my father just follows, In my working place, my boss is woman and most of the department head are woman. these comes in so naturally for me to accept woman as a leader and man follows. now that i am married, my wife is also very assertive and dominant woman and i just follows her decision she made. Gongs are the days of a male led marriage. My daughter are also following my wife every footstep too.
FLR RULES!
So literally the woman has a more dominant personality and is smarter, so she takes the final decisions
Lets face the facts, female lead is quite normal in any relation , especially when there are kids in the house. Usually, the man does what the female thinks is best for the relation. That is related to the monetary spending, the free time, the interior of the home, also the home which is selected, the education and raise of the children, literally everything. And if she does not achieve her target, she uses her greatest weapon...her tears. On the other hand, especially in countries where there is a lot of "machism" like in Spain or Latinamerica, there is the phenomenon, that the men have a big mouth outside and present themselves as the ultimate power, but when they return home and pass the entrance door, they do shrink automatically to dwarfs without any say.
Guys,
I'm legit in a female lead relationship and yes Its enjoyable,but it's also extremely real. Be warned if you do this it's a LIFE STYLE! It's hard to bend over in mid argument and get paddled or be paddled in public/in front of her friends. Be ready to submit. All I'm saying is if you're thinking about doing this understand what you're getting into.
@@Stiletty12 yes
@@Stiletty12 it's consensual. The only point I was trying to make is if you agree to it it's a lifestyle
@@Stiletty12 I literally just told you it's consensual. At this point I don't know what else to tell you
So true. It isn't easy but it's best for me....and probably for everyone..
She never tells me what to do, just how wrong I am 😂
That's an interesting point you make about being older and seeking an FLR. I am 60 and am quite interested in that approach. The male ego reaches a point when older that drops a lot of the BS associated with life that just doesn't matter anymore. Certainly enables the acceptance of an FLR :)
At the age of 60 we must be more submissive to our wife and her lover bull,so that happy life continue daily like this.
This is it! That should be the bible for all men. Come one boys: do what she wants! In the long run you couldn’t resist anyway. 😊
I know that I can't. Even in relationships when I had more of a lead role, they still got their way. It was like I was daddy, but she was the girl that's got daddy wrapped around her fingers.
Sounds freeing
Another good chat! Thank you Mistress. 💜❤️💜❤️💜❤️💜
I desperately want an FLR. Can't find a desirable guy though. All willing men are in the age group of 45-60 which honestly won't suit me. Makes me wonder why young men aren't into FLR.
I am lol, but only in the bedroom
@anwitaroy4227 I am 29 year old.
I want to transform my marriage into FLR.
Can you please give me some guidance?
They are definitely out there but can be hard to find. I’m 36 but got into my FLR at 35 and was trying to find one at 32.
@@harshmehta938 Simply follow your wife's lead. Remember - "she's the law". The decisions she makes are to be obeyed at all times. And this is not in a cheap-kink sense. Reversal of traditional gender roles is a must. Show genuine respect and be entirely devoted to serving her (not just in the bedroom but in social space too). Accept the fact that your purpose in life is to serve her. But above everything else, make sure to never allow your male ego to peek into your lives (if you have any).
@@brycegude6876 Because it's hard to find, I'm still struggling to finally meet a truly submissive guy who'd be authentic. Most seem to want FLR thinking it's for cheap kinks and bedroom fetishes.
This is an important video as it does address a lifestyle i would like to accept. It means abiding by Her rules and completing every task assigned.
Thanks for talking about this topic, Goddess Bella 🤍
Excellent video. Thank you for the education Miss Bella. 😄
I like when the female is in control
What many dominant women do not realize is that men are so obsessed with sexual that as long as a man is getting kinky sexual action which might not even involve actual sex but role play the lan will go along with playing submissive.
Stage three or four would be a dream come true. 😅
Since we men are project oriented and women are life oriented, life is superior to projects hence women are superior to men, hence women should lovingly lead relationships and we men should love and obey women.
Wtf does that even mean ?
Yes, and I believe that a woman's intuition and thinking is superior to a man's thinking. Woman can perceive things we can't. She should still discuss with her husband because we do have value in our thinking. But women are definitely better bosses at home. How many guys call their wives "boss"? Even sometimes men that act like they are in charge end up calling their wife "the boss"
Definitely stage four, but most women don't like that 😢
I would love stage 4. I thought many men didn’t like any of it.
I promise to obey u my mistres
Stage 2 is already happening in a lot of marriages, in some cases without the husband even noticing. Stage 3 is the goals all couples should try to get to
i am in leval 3 right now and e4 is quickly coming
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
are you in a female led relationship
I’m definitely the 5th stage if ever was one. Mine is the 4th but with hardcore Femdom.
😩🥰😍🥰🥰
Most people have never heard of flr but many practice them in reality.
I’m all for an FLR myself personally. Certainly not gospel for most dudes, a lot sure, but most, no.
A lot of comments I see on these types of videos say a lot of really dumb things
Amazing channel
I'm not sure the first one counts, that's just a normal healthy relationship.
That banana speàks volumes...
You're missing a couple more final stages
One of my Dreams
50/50 is in Hollywood and these relationships don't work.
need a relationship like this
great video Bella.
i think in modern society, pre marriage ,women have choice over males, as they seek the most competitive, 'masculine' males. biologically sperm is cheap. however marriage ruins this as such men get lazy or cheat and are no longer competitive, and women are often stuck unsatisfied and lose the masculine spirit that they were attracted to in the first place. this is the normal way across the world in most cultures: patriarchy.
this is why FLR is the true feminist way forward for women. keep control of men with making the decisions but also most importantly chastity and bdsm discipline so that men remain hard working. put them to work both in the home and out, get gratified often, and have fun humiliating and being 'cruel' to him because he agreed this was smart for him and you have given him a security as a deal for the 'inequality'.
but this means women have to pick men they can wrap around their finger and train, not 'cool', 'sexy' men because if they make you feel like that immediately you're already being dominated by that male. with good training, he'll find you more sexy every passing day, rather than his love dying out. you're better off saving an immediately hot guy's number so he can become a bull you see if you want to have fun so much. whether you tell the bull about your flr and cuckoldry is up to you of course!
What in the hell….
What you describe is truly despicable. A woman merely using a man that loves her and cheating on him. How can you call this “good”?
I love you in pigtails
Yes ma'am
Most of my Native ancestors lived in female led relationships. Not to the kink extreme. But most tribes had matrilineal and or matriarchial societies. Husbands would join the wife's home and family. Children would be born into their mother's clan. Many tribes had councils of elderly women that would decide when the warriors would go to battle. Even most chiefs had councils of women that they would take wisdom and insight from.
Maybe its just the Native in me but I think this makes way more sense. I almost wouldn't mind taking my wife's last name, even tho we sidnt traditionally have last names. It would be as a symbol of choosing what makes sense to me over the societal traditions that dont resognate with me......but first I gotta find the right woman that I trust to lead my family and love enough to take her last name and join her family.
MERAVIGLIOSAMENTE STUPENDA MERAVIGLIOSAMENTE ELEGANTSEXYCHIC STAI MOLTO BENE CON QUESTI OCCHIALI DA VISTA TI RENDONO MOLTO BELLA ELEGANTE E MOLTO CHIC ,MI PIACEREBBE VEDERTI SENZA OCCHIALI X VEDERE COME STAI 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
I don't know,I never tried any