Hello Counselor - Kim Dongwan, Sleepy, Lee Gyein & Park Jungyu (2015.11.16)
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- Ep.248: I'm a housewife with three children. My husband doesn't do anything at home. He's the head of the family, but he thinks everything is a pain. Are all husbands like this? I'm stressed because of a co-worker. Everyone waits to get off work, but I'm afraid. A co-worker drags me around every night. Please help me! I'm a married man in the 30's who is lonely. I fell in love at first sight 5 years ago and got married. But my wife keeps going out. Will 'Mom, Please!' win a fourth time?
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Hello Counselor gives a meaning to my Mondays.
That is, when there's subtitles included. Please T^T
Yeah! Thanks for uploading the subs.
I'm really starting to dislike the audience, if a man works too much and never does anything around the house, he's given a pass. If a woman works too much and doesn't do enough housework, it's a very serious concern and everyone votes for her.
I feel like the first concern was way more serious. In the last concern, the husband knew that his wife loved dancing and teaching from the beginning. She was expected to change just because she got married, which wasn't fair. Yes, she should've worked less when her son was young, but as he's getting older, I don't see a reason for her to cut back on working. But in the first concern, it was the husband who changed all of a sudden. He had been fine working, and helping out around the house (and by helping out, he really wasn't expected to do much). But to come home from work and order your wife around (you could at least say please when asking for something), to never play with your kids because of an "allergy", and to not change a lightbulb for 6 months and have your family eat in the dark (if he really thought it was a wiring problem, he should have found someone to fix it)... This is all too much.
+TheRealityofFake The husband in the first concern was horrible and annoying. He thinks that he's life is the hardest and he's the most important so everyone is his servant. I actually hope that if money is the only reason she stays with him, she overcomes it and leaves. Then he would maybe realize what life is when there's no-one to order around.
When it comes to the woman in the last concern, I thinks she's wrong too. I don't care that she doesn't clean the house as men can do this, but I felt like she doesn't love her child. I know that it's not something we can know just from this short clip but that's the impression she gives. And it was heartbreaking when the father said his son doesn't want to be left with his mom. That's not how the relationship between parent and child should look like. And the husband didn't complain about her working, but about work being more important than their family and I he can't be blamed for that. Everyone wants to feel loved and important.
+TheRealityofFake it seem that society will always treat woman different than men :(
I think maybe the woman in the third concern didn't want children at all but was pressured to have a child. It seems she doesn't want to be a stay at home wife.
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Yeah I feel like she was kind of forced into the role of being a mother. It amazed me that the husband wanted another child, when the wife isn't fully there for their first child. Things could only get worse if they have another kid.
But I hated how everyone seemed taken aback when she said "I already gave you a son". Some women aren't into having kids, but it felt like the audience was like "What is wrong with this woman that she doesn't want to have kids?"
+TheRealityofFake I think people are taken aback with that statement because it seems like she treats her son like an object with no feelings. I don't think its wrong if you choose to not have kids, but now that you have one, the least you could do is take responsibility over him. To add on, I think people generally are angry at the fact that she dotes other kids and neglect her own. Also, referring to your first statement, I don't think it is unfair for the woman to change after marriage, because, after all, that's what marriage is all about, sacrifices and compromises.
Personally, I think the first and last concern are both very annoying but I guess the audience are more emotional about the 3rd concern because the 1st concern is rather common in their culture where the man is not very involved at home. In the man's mind, he is already providing for his family by working his ass off to earn money, so he sees no need to be more involved at home. This is of course a backward and selfish mindset, but on the other hand, the woman is just plain selfish. Not just in the way she treats her husband and son, but also her sister. She did not make any contribution to the family (housework, income) and just doing whatever she wants without any consideration for others.
I can't imagine my life without English sub ㅜㅜ lol
Be thankful everyone. There are other stations that don't even bother subbing which is why we have to rely on freelance subbers out there. I'll be waiting patiently. Gonna watch my DF shows in the meantime.
Watching anything good right now? I was watching She's so pretty, but I got kinda bored with it...
+C T So that drama isn't good? I have it on alert so it notifies me when a new episode comes out. I'm waiting for all episodes of any drama to be complete before I start watching .. nothing worse than having to wait another week. I watch lot's of variety shows. Too bad the format for Happy Together has changed. Don't care too much for it now. Trying to find a good site to watch more AS episodes but I can't seem to find any more with subtitles. Last one I watched was Ep 55. My lineup basically is of course this show, Running Man, Happy Together, Cool Kiz, 1N2D, Infinity Challenge, Superman, Abnormal Summit, and I continue to watch old episodes of the previous seasons of 1n2D.
+kiyomi72 I mean ,it's entertaining, but also (so far) really predictable.
C T LOL that's majority of dramas now days right ? I enjoy dramas that make me cry
+C T Oh my venus is pretty good even though only 2 episodes is out, it seem pretty fast paced. Bubblegum is also pretty good. Cheer up is also pretty good, a bit predictable but pretty good show. The village is also pretty good, I don't follow it but I watch it whenever I come across it. I'm like that with every drama I enjoy the beginning but start to get bored around the middle and end. Around this time of year I enjoy the TV series better than drama
No subs for a week. This is serious concern and we should be invited to the show :D
The guests' answers this episode is making me a little mad. The first should be a concern. The second is not much of a concern and the last is a concern. This is just my opinion.
The husband in the first concern should just do simple tasks and help out his wife when he's at home. Just judging from the talk because I don't know them in real life, I don't think it takes much work to get a glass of water, reach for a remote, or change a light bulb. If she was asking him to do like half of the housework when his job is physically demanding (according to him) then he has some leeway with his excuses. Not going to visit his parents and her parents at least once or be worried when someone is sick or injure is not right. Is he only going to react when his child is dying? His excuses makes me angry if all she wants him to do is simple tasks and play with the kids once in a while.
Second concern is just a laughing matter for most of the time except for the fact that he could meet someone that's not so good and that he's kind of shallow and has poor people skill. If the friend doesn't want to go then just don't even if he complains to him the next day. Good friends wouldn't make you work for them so hard.
Last concern made me angry because she didn't deny the fact that she may care for the other children more than her own son. It's already established that she spends more time with the other children and give them more attention than her son and husband according to the way the talk went. If she is not going to take care of the child she brought into the world then maybe not have him in the first place (sorry for saying this). It's not a good idea for her to have another baby if she continues this. Her health is another problem too. I think this is a bigger concern than last week because the mom from last week already had decided to change during her episode and seems to have changed since then.
I have a love/hate relationship with this show. I love the MCs and most guests but the people causing concerns are so annoying that I just get irritated. I hate selfish people and injustice so it's just hard to see such people thrive on the suffering of others
Finally... subtitles! I am one VERY HAPPY woman right now.
kbs why recently always forget to put the sub...
+Ct Intan Umairah Khadzar Maybe something went wrong or they can't manage to sub everything as soon as it gets released. they did a great job before there must be a reason why it didn't get subbed yet
+tr smith This is the week before ep. They never release the same week episode. All subs are released after a week so you reasoning is invalid.
Ok maybe . although I see the same shows uploaded on other sites . The point was that it was subbed every time they uploaded it . I always watched it right away with subs for months so something must have gone wrong this week . The same with Return of the Superman it was also always subbed but I think 3 weeks ago it wasn't
tr smith I am not really that annoyed. Just letting you know. But I understand why people are upset. They made a weekly promise with their shows. They have whole week, see how they are a professional company that is actually a lot of time. So people being angry is understandable.
+Annonymous5411 relex....im just saying not tease them......
I was so irritated with the first concern. I understand you have to work, but that's too much. He is going to miss all the important moments in their lives. It's pitiful that he makes excuses. He could show some consideration. A marriage is a unit, not a one person job.
Concern 2: I found the guy to be awkwardly cute. He really doesn't seem to know how to capture a woman's attention. I hope he finds a good woman. Although I think he could really meet some bad women, now that this has been aired. He should be more considerate to his friend though. He should only ask his single friends to come with him. I can understand him. It's hard dating. I'm graduating college and i can't imagine how i'm going to find someone lol
Concern 3: What is up with all these selfish parents on Hello Counselor lately. If you can't take care of your children and spouse then you shouldn't get married or have children. This woman has a caring husband, who does all the housework, works and takes care of the child and worries about her and loves her regardless and all she seems to car about is work. What is it with some Koreans and work? Work isn't more important than family. I'm glad they won. She should work but also make time for her family and health
lol i think the old guy, Lee Gyien is funny,but his responses are irrelevant. I like him on other shows, but i wanted to snap his mouth shut in this episode.
Most of the concerns that were sent here since this shows start, are because of selfish person. Its kinda upsetting to see that theres a lot of selfish people out there :( like 95%
Yoonmi Park I agree. The recent episode with BEG is full of selfish people. I get a headache from the frustration
originally I want to complain too because my idol is here Kim Dongwan and I want to watch it as fast as I could. However since we got the chance to watch it free and there are no other Korean station than KBS who subbing their programs for us, let just say our gratitude for them and for people who subbing it. Let's be more patience. But I also hope KBSWorld would repair the system
+Sixorangedwarfs Mystery I Agree.
OMG this is driving me crazy!! I've been going back to this video everyday since it came out and there's still no subtitles. Im beginning to think they're forgotten. Im so disappointed. I was really looking foward to this one😟
It's subbed ^^
I didnt like the guest that was sitting in the 2nd seat. He's honestly so annoying and isnt funny. I dont get how he's appearing on variety shows. I never liked him since he appeared on Happy Together. He really annoyed me especially during the 1st concern. Just because he raises chickens he took the guy in the first concern side when it clearly wasnt just about his job but how he was neglecting his duties as a husband and father. Like seriously, how hard is it to change a freaking lightbulb? His kids isnt going to remember ever spending time with him and are going to resent him in the future.
+Autumn Breeze i agree with you, i don't like that guest either, i saw him in other Korean shows, honestly i think he talks too much... when everyone was trying to help her solve her problem, he wants to make fun of the situation ...
The last concern just kinda seems like reversed roles because that's basically what most moms do so it's not that big of a deal. The only problem I see is how she was behaving while pregnant, and constantly leaving her son with others when they still have their own work to do. I mean she might as well get a babysitter 😕
I really sympathise with the wife in the first concern. I hope her situation gets better.
It's nice to see Sleepy on shows other than Real Man.
+Geraldine Salazar who is sleepy ? I hear the first time about him
+tr smith he's a rapper :)
+tr smith from Untouchable
He does appears in other shows too haha, I saw him in some random Korean variety show other than rm
As a guest of course
sub not uploaded yet eh..... i shall go watch other k-show then and comeback later
Now that I have watched the episode... I feel that the first and third concern are serious. It makes me mad to see husbands who are not willing to help their wives with things around the house, and think that finding money is enough. Seriously, try giving birth and be a housewife. Being a housewife is hard enough, so I can imagine how hard it must be for the woman in the first concern to be a housewife that works, even; and for them to eat in the dark is just...sad.
The third concern strikes me more, and I actually felt like crying when I hear the husband's story. Even he felt like crying. How can the wife love other kids more than her own. The way she said it sounded like "I gave you a son so you'd let me work and leave me be" or "I gave you a son, so stop whining". If she is not ready to care for her own child, she should tell him straight that she doesn't want a child. I feel sorry for their son... it will scar him and affect him when he grows up. If that concern didn't win, I would be very surprised because that's even more serious than the concern that won previously.
Dear KBS, it's been 4 days since you uploaded the episode and there are no subs to it yet
I CAN NOT miss an episode with Park Jungyu and Lee Gyein in it!!!!! 😭😭
Studied with no break, so I could watch Hello without wasting time, turns out the episode was uploaded late (compared to usual) and with no subs 😓 guess I'll just sleep 😂😂
Here for Wannie~ XD
Its been two days with out sub...WHYYYY?!😭😭😭
the husband from the last concern seems really sincere and loving
Thank you for the English subtitles!! huge fan here from Canada eh!
Where are the subs? First you take away hard subs that were easier to read and now you don't even put cc subs?
it's been like 6 days ?
didn't say that the subtitle will be available in 72 hours like 5 days ago ?
+Nafolchan and then that until the next episode ;/
+Nafolchan it only this week, small glitch is acceptable, after all they've been posting subbed videos for quite some time now, let's not forget to be grateful
+demalih I don't mind it that much but I don't think it's cool, this is a big channel after all.
Just to update you, they're up!! Finally!! Haha :)
+inexorablelove thank you xD
bap young wild and free is playing for me and the hello counselor is paused... idk whats going on but i love it XD
Thank you dear person in charge for subtitles for adding the subs! :) Seriously. :)
"An Allergy isn't life threatening" BOY YOU HAVE NO IDEA. My Sister once almost had a heart attack because she went into an allergic Shock. She had to be rushed to the hospital, wasn't able to breath properly and had to be taken to the emergency room. Allergies CAN BE life threatening! He keeps using his work as an excuse. Yeah your Work might be physically exhausting, but that doesn't justify you not caring about your children when they are seriously sick. I couldn't imagine ignoring my kid when it's really sick, just because i'm tired! Just because you go out and make money, doesn't mean your duty as a Husband and father of 3 kids is fulfilled. You were the one who wanted the Kids, so take care of them for Gods sake!!
finally, the sub are here guys! time to enjoy my fav show
I'm about to say screw it and watch it while solely depending upon my current knowledge of korean XD
Same, but I just can't do that with variety shows lol. A live music award show...yes, but never variety
Jenika Brown well...I just did XD haha...I understood most of it, so I'm not gonna rewatch it XP
SuJu_Mimi OMG you did?! I'm envious, I'm thinking you're on a higher level than I am lol so I shouldn't even try
Jenika Brown probably due to the IMMENSE amount of k-dramas/movies/shows/clips/pop that I've consumed over the past 4 years, haha, my vocab is somewhat decent (or at least, I like to think it is) XD plus some legit studying
yeah I did that too sometimes, yet not for a talk show like this, only for music show like king of masked singer, I see your voice or other action-prone variety shows. yet, no to talk shows variety
I am slightly disgusted by this episode. the first concern was a wife complaining that her husband would do nothing to help her even when she was sick or when the Kids were sick and that got 127 votes. then the Last one was a husband complaining that his wife does nothing but work. and that gets 151 votes? and that Last one I got the feeling that she had her first Kid because she got tired of him begging and finally gave in. I don't think she was ready to have one of her own but did it for him... and while i don't like that she pushes his care off on others, her husband had to have known after all that begging he admittedly did to get her to have the first one, that she wasn't going to be as involved as he would be.. not all people were meant to be parents, at least she makes sure her child is being cared for while she was working. Unlike the first guy who couldn't be bothered to get off the couch long enough go down and meet his children as they came home from school to make sure they got home safe or take them to the hospital when they were sick. Still I love this show.
I came here because of sleepy. Jin and sleepy is so cute together
I've been waiting for the subs for this episode and can't wait for it to be added. So anxious!
63k views without subs? Guys we are getting better at Korean! CONGRATSSS 😁😁😁😁
Finally, subs are back! Thank you KBS!
can someone explain to me what the guests said that made the mom so mad in the first concern. I think its around 22:10
Can't activate cc button...:'(
You're not the only one :(
no.. no no.. i was so happy.. but no eng sub D:
+Sabi Ya aish, kbs just let me finally watch it before going to sleep T_T
When this show is the highlight of your Monday and there's no English subtitles 🙃
been waiting three days for subs..i know its not much but looking forward to hello counsellor every monday after school made my week. I feel so agitated and restless with my schedule off >:(
Literally came back to this episode everyday to check on the subs😂😂
finally!!!!! i was watching this eps on tv and theres sub so i quickly checked if theres sub on youtube...
Ah...why is it always the concerns with men blaming the women that often wins? I understand they're huge issues that should be addressed but I feel as though there's an unfair judgement towards the women compared to the men.
+AnaFiamatta That is just your opinion , but there are 151 people have different opinion . Thats why they win the concern .
i noticed that too. If a woman does something wrong is 2x worse than when a man does something wrong. Its honestly frustrating because sometimes the men concerns are way worse. I feel like the men in the audience dont vote because of a pride/egotistic thing
+AnaFiamatta Unfortunately that's how Korean society works. The gender equality is not that great there, and they rank pretty low for gender equality rankings and researches :/
+AnaFiamatta because Korean men are famous for being on the lower end for good husband, so things they hear is just too common that it doesn't "shock" them at all.
+AnaFiamatta Because in Korea the woman has to do everything. Taking care of the kids, the husband (similar to a slave), and the household. She is in charge of making breakfast, lunch and dinner to the kids and the husband like if he didn't have legs or hands himself. etc. these things are concidered normal in korea. so when a woman doesn't do it, everybody will be looking badly at her. But when a man doesn't do it, some of them thinks its a concern but not all of them since the men usually get home after work, eating the food the woman cooked, and sleep, in normal cases. This is why the men always wins in concerns like this.
personally i think this is bullshit. in a relationship or marriage, both should help eachother. even if the woman is a housewife, the man should help when he gets home. all he does is sitting at a desk all day using his brain for his work, while woman uses her body (when taking care of the kids and household etc) so she should be the one who is physically tired most. im pretty pissed at matters like this where woman has to do everything. like wtf did u marry her to do things for u or because u once loved her. haha.
Finally sub...waiting for it after a week...tq kbs
Oh come on KBS !!! :P i've been waiting so many days for this episode haha...:P
Finally!!!! Thanks for the sub :)
Thanks for the sub😁😁😂😂😂
It makes me sad that this video still isn't subbed. Hello Counselor is my favorite thing to watch with KBS
LOL I feel like they were roasting the guy who was "hunting" for girls so hard XD
Thanx kbs keep it up ❤️❤️
if the tired husband can't understand, he and her can switch roles, he be the househusband and she be the breadwinner lol....feel sorry for that aggressive man, he don't seem like a deep or sincere person lol...and for the last one, i side with the husband, she needs to compromise a bit so she can balance her personal life and her work life, her son needs to be loved too so i frowned when dong wan agreed with the wife, she can still have passion in her work but she needs to make room for her family too xT
YAYYYYY!!! subs are up!!!! thank you so much KBS crew!
subs finally!! Thank you Kbs :)
@0:23 that's the outfit BTS namjoon wore on weekly idol 😂😂😂 he's totally a Rapmonster fan
dongwan's been a solo artist for a long time, but this is the first time he's been back for 7-8 years.
have been waiting all day =/
thanks for the subs kbsworld :)
YAY SUBS FINALLY! thank you!!! :D
tanks for the sub
this is why you dont use cc and just edit the subtitle in the vid 😢😭
am i the only one that came here for sleepy ? xxx
+Good Person yes lol
Nope. I came for him too :)
me too...straight from real man ...lol
I'm srsly coming here every day to see if there are finally subs T_T
Omg i can finally watch it with subs😍
Finally we got the subs ... thank you ^^
Subs Finally! Thanks!
There are no subtitles. This is not fair for your overseas fans. Bring em back! Bring em back!
To: The husband in the first case.
You want to know what's physically hard? My fist.
The child of the last concern is the real victim in this case. Both parents cant love him...
And the mother is gonna get to a point where she is going to be forced to choose between her work and family. And a little further down the line have to face her son when he's older.
Why not just upload once again? I know that KBS MUSIC wrote that they would fix it..., but still no subs. I wanted to watch this show before studying...Subs where are you?
Humans need validation when they have concerns. Validation is a way of communicating that the relationship is important and solid even when you disagree on issues.
it has been 3 days already.....happy tgt was subbed but why not this show?!
KBS, you're hurting my feelings here! Where are the subs? *cries*
are they going to put subs later...? or tomorrow..
Park Jungyu is hilarious :) can't wait for the subs ^^
i hope some of seventeen memebers could be a guest for next episode
Finally...after nearly a week..the subs are up. Rejoice people
What song plays around the 48:10 mark? it sounds so nice, can someone help me please with it.
Finally, after 7 days we have subs! :)
I'm getting annoyed now cause they get views every time I check to see if the subs are up (which is basically everyday). Wonder if we'll even get a new subbed episode tmr...
+Nala D Its subbed now
+Juana Gaspar hey
*sight* Kbs Kbs, don't play with my feelings like that !
I still love Dongwan, but.............I was disappointed with him here with that last concern.
pourlaterreverte why? I was actually disappointed with his opinion on the first one, which was way more concerning, the father didn't care for his family, not spending time with his children, not helping in the house, disrespecting everyone else, thinking he done his job as a father by going to work. The last one was reasonable, her partner knew her and accepted her passion from the start. Actually the result of the audience was quite unfair. If it's a woman, she must be at home taking care of her children, cleaning the house, cutting off work - yet, it it's a man, they give him a pass. Patriarchyally. It's upsetting.
KBS, we would appreciate it if you could fix the subs, as they are not appearing. Thank you...
THANK U
i will send my concern to hello counselor.. Hello.. i'v been waiting for this episode to be subbed yet it's still not!! T.T why! i can understand a little bit but i need the subs :) :)
its so nice to see dongwan again...and he's been working out ;) what song was sleepy singing btw? just came back to check if this had subbed and it DID! thank you!
Finally it's on
I really truly believe that the 1st concern's husband excuse "my work is physically hard" ummmm WHAT??1?!? Sorry, if I'm going off on a rant but I just gotta...first off, my grandpa had to work in the military and plus he had another job and this was in the times where women were often told that they had to do all the housework, they belong in the kitchen etc etc...but he helped out? And believe me, his work was VERY strenuous and physically hard. No matter what, work will always be hard, regardless of what gender and what occupation. So if we look at it through the mother's POV she literally is working TWO JOBS. ughhh so frustrating And if those men on that stage that were literally the rudest guests ever could just shut up that would be great
I really want to watch this kbs but why there isn't any sub yet pls fix it ㅠㅠ
Come on it's been 3 days where are the subs??
thank you KBS i just realize my korean improved with out engsub deabak (thmp up)
KBS!!! Please we are waiting for so long....My korean are not that good so i can understand everything :'(
okay, but the second guy who caused a concern, was seriously good looking. And i don`t think he meant this whole "hunting" Thing in a bad way. I mean, yes, he should stop using his co-workers & maybe improve a bit on his Dating skills but other than that, he wasn`t bad at all.
it's been days.........where are the subs? what is the issue?
I don't understand why people don't talk about these things before they get married...How many kids they want to have etc
why are they saying not going to the in-;laws is the worst thing about him??? wtf?? the worst thing is he doesn't give his kids the attention they need wtf
It's been nearly a week... Does anyone have a link where I can watch it?
I've watched this episode aired with subtitles last Monday night.
For this episode to be on TH-cam, they probably planned to upload the unsubbed version and put on the subtitles through the CC button only, since some of you guys constantly complained about having two different subtitles font is distracting but the translator was absence or forgot about it.
You know, KBS has been great and they wouldn't be doing this on purpose.
Just saying. :D
said the person who watched it with sub xD
why did dong wan think the first problem wasn't a concern? he didn't state his reason or it was edited out
the second concern reminded me of a gentleman's dignity :D hope he fix his attitude and find him self a nice partner.