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The ultimate irony is, that when we focus on being our best selves, we serve society. When we focus on service first, without the self-work, we are of value to no one.
you lack the most important ingredient, our best selves isn't ourselves at all. It's the truth. I'm going to copy paste what I mean from another comment the love of self is idiocy. The love of truth is the way. Proof: if you follow your heart you may become addicted to drugs and destroy yourself. If you love truth you will hate anything that destroys even 1 neuron, for your neural network is the mirror of truth, your true self, that is the consciousness in which we are all one. Enlightened selfishness is the salvation of the world, for then nobody would work for others (only idiots work for others; a man loves a woman because he loves himself or the way he feels about her, so he works for his love of her, not for her, same about children). If everyone stops working for others, wars stop, capitalism fails and dissapears... all the strife in the world is due to idiots. Yes, all employees are idiots, as you'ld have to be stupid or desperate to work for others, bosses exist only for the dumb, the slave minded Which are you so what do you love? Your body which is your property? Or your soul which is a set of immortal principles, because truth is eternal and the fundamental principle (and logic is its anatomy). If you love your body, the body is your god. If you love truth, truth is your god, and there's only one god who claimed identity with truth itself P.S. Buddla is a liar, and all other philosophers are dabblers. There is no growth without some form of suffering, and eliminating suffering is eliminating growth. Funny how almost nobody seeks god when happy, but god is truth, then suffering is his plan to elevate us to his level. There is also such thing as unecessary suffering, pretty much the kind we bring on purpose - try to go far first, then you will find adversity undoubtedly, that's just how it is, and confronting, not avoiding suffering, is the way. The obstacle is the way
38 years always sacrificing myself to please others and in fact I was taught to feel guilty whenever I wanted to put myself first or whenever I put up barriers sometimes I think I don't even know who I am but I'm willing to discover and be happy
People always say, “I’ll take care of you, If you’ll take care of me” but If you think about it, that is a very selfish way of viewing things. So, I’ve changed it to say, “I’ll take care of me, for you, if you’ll take care of you, for me”. I feel that is a much healthier way to look at self care without becoming selfish.
Selfish in a sense self-focused or self-caring is a good thing. Selfish in a sense egotistical: violating boundaries and comfort of other people for the sake of one's convenience is a bad thing. Or, in shorter wording, Doing what you want is not selfish. Making others do what you want is.
Clear communication is key. Having a clear understanding & not making assumptions about others is vital to one's well-being. We all responsible for how we conduct our lives as we see fit. If that means others will not agree, so let it be. We can't always please & make someone else happy without sacrificing oneself. Know your limitations & self-worth. Putting yourself first is important to create your best you. Don't be afraid to speak up & no one can make you feel obligated or guilty 'cause you are fulfilling your own needs ahead of theirs
much abuse and neglect and death and Trauma was my childhood and subsequently i did not develop or have certain parts of the maslow hierarchy of needs . i lived life trying to love others and be normal , i attracted co dependant type and narcissists .I never knew what self love was . 5-7 years was my relationship spans . I did very well in all other aspects of life and achieved much but could never find the one who loved me as i was , with my inner distance and all . and i could not fulfill the neediness of the women i thought loved me . i know my blind spots but could never belong or fit in to it all . now older i really see the significants of how the early days really shaped who i became and the hollow spots the left . philosophy on how to be alone has helped me face growing old alone and unloved . Peace . thanks for the vid
They need this in Japanese schools... This will save many lives.... They embrace group importance over the individual.... Suicide rates are ridiculous....
Ant colony mentality, it perpetuates into the workplace aswell, they're just a number. Basically, if a worker suffers a heart attack on a production line, the company will restart the line before they restart his heart.
I had a strange dream from having played this on a loop on my sleep headband. Dream: I had been staying a couple days with my parents because at the time I was couch hopping and when I had arrived back home from a very low budget apartment search he was there on the couch watching something on the living room tv. He had a laptop and some notes with him and I asked him what he was doing and he showed me. He said he was doing research on: "The Human Avatar" I asked him to expand and he told me some of the key points in this video and filled in something's. The only thing I could foremost remember that he told me was "people who have to advertise how attractive they are in someway are like a noisy wall outlet" I was shooketh.
There is a state of love which we can enter ... we don't need to get from another person .... from giving we will recieve love .... we can access it from giving
My brother recently was cleaning his deep freezer and gave me 5 packages of older smoked fish, to make room for fresh smoked fish. I ate it, even though it was older, but it still was delicious.
Early in life I was taught to please everyone, by 16 my friend introduced me to FOUNTAINHEAD, ATLAS SHRUGGED,and her other books, took a few years to understand them to my daily life,I could see the hallow fakeness of the human ways, I closed the door on it, and started living the way this vedio is explaining to me. This is far better.
Selfish is just being real, all the people who think they are people pleasers, who sit and bitch about how they get shit on, are really just in it for their own selfish expectations and when they dont get what they want they talk shit about the people they were nice to so they can feel better about themselves. Just be real and prioritize you and quit trying to trick people into being nice to you. You can still be nice, just be nice without expectation of reward, be nice selflessly and more importantly, be nice to you and stop decieving yourself with your better than thoough complex. Its a lie.
U got certain things here correct and incorrect u said stop being nice without expecting a reward that's false. The problem is people become either to nice or to aggressive instead you need to know when to use each one. Look at them like tools to get what you want. Being nice all the time is mentally retarded. For instance u have a girlfriend she says happy bday baby u say thank you nd she say for ur bday ur gnna have sex with me nd u go omg ur the best. Ur making a fatal error right here. #1 she's putting in very low effort to you . She didn't think long nd hard about how to make ur day special and ur use to accepting that. Instead you can go that's all?? Just happy bday that's not putting in no effort go back to the drawing board nd try again actully go think about what would make me happy then let me know. Nd if she tries to give u another awnser u go I told u to think about it! Can u not listen or follow directions???? Is ur listening low effort as well on top of ur thinking for others???. Now in doing this depending on the girl u have it may make her go oh shit I am putting barely any effort into him I need to go do better. Or she'll get angry nd there's ways to deal with that as well. But most guys just go oh ok baby thank u baby love u baby ur the best. U need to know how nd when to use each of ur tools.
Ask yourself first what deep thoughts your mind already knows and read from them what books and practices you need. Starting thus build or offload for aculisation
Well there was a time ive had a dance performance which was quite important to me and i was a bit stressed out...in the meanwhile my bf was persisting that i should get on with cleaning the house i said wait for a week and ill do it after my performance but instead he argued and callled me selfish cuz it had to be done asap! To me is all about priorities in life but not for him so whos on the wrong or right there?! Any advise anyone?!
as of today, I'm placing me first at work. Enrolling in all AI training. Program is no longer first, especially since the majority of colleagues have demonstrated their true selves, heh. Lamers....Doing what my boss says to do, training!! Like my comp science and MBA degrees don't mean a thing.....
Learn about narcissim. For instance from the channel of dr Remeni. Then stop dealing with narcissists. Bam! Thats 80 percent of the problem solved right there.
the love of self is idiocy. The love of truth is the way. Proof: if you follow your heart you may become addicted to drugs and destroy yourself. If you love truth you will hate anything that destroys even 1 neuron, for your neural network is the mirror of truth, your true self, that is the consciousness in which we are all one. Enlightened selfishness is the salvation of the world, for then nobody would work for others (only idiots work for others; a man loves a woman because he loves himself or the way he feels about her, so he works for his love of her, not for her, same about children). If everyone stops working for others, wars stop, capitalism fails and dissapears... all the strife in the world is due to idiots. Yes, all employees are idiots, as you'ld have to be stupid or desperate to work for others, bosses exist only for the dumb, the slave minded Which are you so what do you love? Your body which is your property? Or your soul which is a set of immortal principles, because truth is eternal and the fundamental principle (and logic is its anatomy). If you love your body, the body is your god. If you love truth, truth is your god, and there's only one god who claimed identity with truth itself P.S. Buddla is a liar, and all other philosophers are dabblers. There is no growth without some form of suffering, and eliminating suffering is eliminating growth. Funny how almost nobody seeks god when happy, but god is truth, then suffering is his plan to elevate us to his level. There is also such thing as unecessary suffering, pretty much the kind we bring on purpose - try to go far first, then you will find adversity undoubtedly, that's just how it is, and confronting, not avoiding suffering, is the way. The obstacle is the way
And no one will place you above themselves, life is cannot be lived in self absorbition, the meaning of life is finding something more important than you, greater than you, think about that when you catch yourself thinking life is meaningless and you're so sad.
Nope opposite. They're the secret to a bad life. Everyone hates you wants to rob you & it's difficult to show your face in public. Be humble & moral. You'll feel better in the morning too.😂❤
If you share ♥️ it and talk about it it can be a moment of becoming closer. If you're not married yet, think twice about living forever with someone who doesn't understand this. If you're already married...good luck ❤
@@nancyhanscom1374 honey I’m referring to being selfish a relationship is of 2 not of one, both are sharing a life together, compromise and relinquishing control and what you want sometimes has to occur
Selfishness isn’t a good thing. I get what is being said but I’d say it’s focusing on yourself and loving yourself, not being selfish. Maybe a certain level of selfishness.
@itsmefrank6187 silly.. if you dont care about yourself.. you can't care for others.. properly anyway.. leads to neediness clinginess codependency resentment and overall trauma.. relationships based in self love shared fare much better. Selfishness is the most altruistic thing to do.
Is it really a good life if you are selfish and take advantage of others for your own personal gain. This is not the same as a mutual arrangement or whatever
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The ultimate irony is, that when we focus on being our best selves, we serve society. When we focus on service first, without the self-work, we are of value to no one.
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True. So many zombies out there these days 😢😢😢
10000% yes
you lack the most important ingredient, our best selves isn't ourselves at all. It's the truth. I'm going to copy paste what I mean from another comment
the love of self is idiocy. The love of truth is the way. Proof: if you follow your heart you may become addicted to drugs and destroy yourself. If you love truth you will hate anything that destroys even 1 neuron, for your neural network is the mirror of truth, your true self, that is the consciousness in which we are all one. Enlightened selfishness is the salvation of the world, for then nobody would work for others (only idiots work for others; a man loves a woman because he loves himself or the way he feels about her, so he works for his love of her, not for her, same about children). If everyone stops working for others, wars stop, capitalism fails and dissapears... all the strife in the world is due to idiots. Yes, all employees are idiots, as you'ld have to be stupid or desperate to work for others, bosses exist only for the dumb, the slave minded
Which are you so what do you love? Your body which is your property? Or your soul which is a set of immortal principles, because truth is eternal and the fundamental principle (and logic is its anatomy). If you love your body, the body is your god. If you love truth, truth is your god, and there's only one god who claimed identity with truth itself
P.S. Buddla is a liar, and all other philosophers are dabblers. There is no growth without some form of suffering, and eliminating suffering is eliminating growth. Funny how almost nobody seeks god when happy, but god is truth, then suffering is his plan to elevate us to his level. There is also such thing as unecessary suffering, pretty much the kind we bring on purpose - try to go far first, then you will find adversity undoubtedly, that's just how it is, and confronting, not avoiding suffering, is the way. The obstacle is the way
38 years always sacrificing myself to please others and in fact I was taught to feel guilty whenever I wanted to put myself first or whenever I put up barriers sometimes I think I don't even know who I am but I'm willing to discover and be happy
i hope you find yourself and discover your worth❤️🩹
Then change pls dont be complaining with no work this type of shit is crazy for me. People deadass do this
People always say, “I’ll take care of you, If you’ll take care of me” but If you think about it, that is a very selfish way of viewing things. So, I’ve changed it to say, “I’ll take care of me, for you, if you’ll take care of you, for me”. I feel that is a much healthier way to look at self care without becoming selfish.
...This!!!!!
So many cockamamie ideas... jeez.
TH-cam could never pay you enough for how well this was put together! You my friend are a scholar! Job well done! 🎉
This channel was thrown into my algorithm a few months ago as I watch a lot of philosophy related content, and I'm so glad it was. Great stuff ✌🏻
Glad you enjoy it! Thank you for watching
The Balance and Awareness is key in everything.Self love comes from inner balance not from ego and narcistic self
Responsibility comes with awareness.
There's no balance without Ego, you need ego but don't be ignorant
Selfish in a sense self-focused or self-caring is a good thing.
Selfish in a sense egotistical: violating boundaries and comfort of other people for the sake of one's convenience is a bad thing.
Or, in shorter wording,
Doing what you want is not selfish.
Making others do what you want is.
Clear communication is key. Having a clear understanding & not making assumptions about others is vital to one's well-being. We all responsible for how we conduct our lives as we see fit. If that means others will not agree, so let it be. We can't always please & make someone else happy without sacrificing oneself. Know your limitations & self-worth. Putting yourself first is important to create your best you. Don't be afraid to speak up & no one can make you feel obligated or guilty 'cause you are fulfilling your own needs ahead of theirs
much abuse and neglect and death and Trauma was my childhood and subsequently i did not develop or have certain parts of the maslow hierarchy of needs . i lived life trying to love others and be normal , i attracted co dependant type and narcissists .I never knew what self love was . 5-7 years was my relationship spans . I did very well in all other aspects of life and achieved much but could never find the one who loved me as i was , with my inner distance and all . and i could not fulfill the neediness of the women i thought loved me . i know my blind spots but could never belong or fit in to it all . now older i really see the significants of how the early days really shaped who i became and the hollow spots the left . philosophy on how to be alone has helped me face growing old alone and unloved . Peace . thanks for the vid
Love u bro. Really
They need this in Japanese schools... This will save many lives.... They embrace group importance over the individual.... Suicide rates are ridiculous....
😢
No one is an island?
Ant colony mentality, it perpetuates into the workplace aswell, they're just a number. Basically, if a worker suffers a heart attack on a production line, the company will restart the line before they restart his heart.
Selflessness is a virtual if you can't help yourself you can't help nobody.
I had a strange dream from having played this on a loop on my sleep headband.
Dream:
I had been staying a couple days with my parents because at the time I was couch hopping and when I had arrived back home from a very low budget apartment search he was there on the couch watching something on the living room tv. He had a laptop and some notes with him and I asked him what he was doing and he showed me.
He said he was doing research on:
"The Human Avatar"
I asked him to expand and he told me some of the key points in this video and filled in something's.
The only thing I could foremost remember that he told me was "people who have to advertise how attractive they are in someway are like a noisy wall outlet"
I was shooketh.
There is a state of love which we can enter ... we don't need to get from another person .... from giving we will recieve love .... we can access it from giving
Sell the Fish you have caught with your own hands, never Sell the Fish or eat the rotten fish that others give you for free.
Well said
Omg I love that. So deep.
I have no fish...sad.😢
My brother recently was cleaning his deep freezer and gave me 5 packages of older smoked fish, to make room for fresh smoked fish. I ate it, even though it was older, but it still was delicious.
@@moneyfornothing3264Good apetite!
Early in life I was taught to please everyone, by 16 my friend introduced me to FOUNTAINHEAD, ATLAS SHRUGGED,and her other books, took a few years to understand them to my daily life,I could see the hallow fakeness of the human ways, I closed the door on it, and started living the way this vedio is explaining to me. This is far better.
It's beautiful thank you your speech is my speech ❣️
Self love is key
It's time to heat up dinner and listen to a nice video! This is a good night!! I had a nice time walking and feel very good and healthy
Where do I find out more about who wrote and narrated this? Such care taken in its research and presentation.. Mind Blown....
I swear this Rand Analysis paints her in a different light than the haters calling her philosophy evil and detrimental to society.
Selfish is just being real, all the people who think they are people pleasers, who sit and bitch about how they get shit on, are really just in it for their own selfish expectations and when they dont get what they want they talk shit about the people they were nice to so they can feel better about themselves. Just be real and prioritize you and quit trying to trick people into being nice to you. You can still be nice, just be nice without expectation of reward, be nice selflessly and more importantly, be nice to you and stop decieving yourself with your better than thoough complex. Its a lie.
U got certain things here correct and incorrect u said stop being nice without expecting a reward that's false. The problem is people become either to nice or to aggressive instead you need to know when to use each one. Look at them like tools to get what you want. Being nice all the time is mentally retarded. For instance u have a girlfriend she says happy bday baby u say thank you nd she say for ur bday ur gnna have sex with me nd u go omg ur the best. Ur making a fatal error right here. #1 she's putting in very low effort to you . She didn't think long nd hard about how to make ur day special and ur use to accepting that. Instead you can go that's all?? Just happy bday that's not putting in no effort go back to the drawing board nd try again actully go think about what would make me happy then let me know. Nd if she tries to give u another awnser u go I told u to think about it! Can u not listen or follow directions???? Is ur listening low effort as well on top of ur thinking for others???. Now in doing this depending on the girl u have it may make her go oh shit I am putting barely any effort into him I need to go do better. Or she'll get angry nd there's ways to deal with that as well. But most guys just go oh ok baby thank u baby love u baby ur the best. U need to know how nd when to use each of ur tools.
This is so true
Well …..selfishness is GREAT ….WILL DO IT EVERY DAY …..
you must sharpen your mind into a formidable weapon, one which can destroy a person with just words.
LOVE YOURSELF ❤.....
Love a lot of your content, I really appreciate the effort put in to bring us this information. Keep up the good work 👍💎
Phenomenal content , subscribed and appreciate you 🙏
Sowing and reaping:wisdom and understanding.peace+&-Thank you.🎶💥🌸
Listening to all of these. Your voice is trance
Yes ❤ I definitely needed to hear this thank you soo much 😊
Says the narcissist
Thank you for making these videos you are helping me
Glad you like them!
Let me very clear you're born you're born born with kindness with feelings but we always needed tools 🔥🌹🌹 to be better❤
I don't like to talk too much but he was a genius❤
So true self love is only kinda love in this world make it about you there is know world just you
So truthful!
Enjoy the ride everyone ❤
I love your videos man please keep them coming!
Thank you so much! glad you like them
Why did you hide old videos? 😢
That was wonderful. Thank you
So much love❤❤
Listen very carefully people life is a big treasure making sure you understand that before it's late❤
All these words and we dont actually exist ,only in our minds.
Animation was pleasant for eyes
Great worldview if you don't value you yourself first what good can you do for others?
Good morning beautiful world this is for you people❤ I hope you understand each word fish worth
Great video!❤
Quality videos mate
Awesome ❤❤
Im 24 i started realizing this..
Yes
Brilliant video 💪
I wish i knew this back in 2017
Why
@@pedridemperi9872
Something happened to me and I would
Be in a better financial position / situation today .
Outstanding !
What would be some best books to read for on this topic & tackling self doubt in the face of uncertainty
Ask yourself first what deep thoughts your mind already knows and read from them what books and practices you need. Starting thus build or offload for aculisation
i would suggest - the hidden secrets of money, by mike maloney.
Fountainhead
12:31 unconditional
My self azz just wake up.😂😂
💝 Thank You! ✌🏽
Well there was a time ive had a dance performance which was quite important to me and i was a bit stressed out...in the meanwhile my bf was persisting that i should get on with cleaning the house i said wait for a week and ill do it after my performance but instead he argued and callled me selfish cuz it had to be done asap! To me is all about priorities in life but not for him so whos on the wrong or right there?! Any advise anyone?!
Stirner’s egoism > Rand’s rational self-interest
Did the audio stop for everyone else? 5:51
Thank you so much So many questions about the perplexity of Lifehouse do y strike a balance without feeling guilty
Just say no. It takes practice. Once you have done it for a while you will stop feeling guilty x
I subscribe to this IDEA
I'm selfish when I need to be.
I love these videos, but it really makes me think are there no revolutionary, female speakers of all of history I guess I have to do some deep diving
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He who wants to be great must SERVE
JESUS
Like!
The more you give the more you are happy, I am foolish like God like foolishly giver, cheerful giver***
Thank you for serving Me. Get me a beer.
Cheers
If your selfish you can be a user for personal gain...opportunist...??
iam selfish byt i wnt to be over pro max selfish 🙌🏻✌🏻
they tell you this, than run around telling everyone, look how greedy he is, he only cares about himself......!
Christ would like a word with you..
I am my brothers keeper. ❤
31:55
I feel sleepy 😂 sorry
Me always
Damn the rest
Why on earth would you hide old videos? 😢😢😢😢
Why the hell did you remove Jordan Peterson's videos ?
I want all of you to unsubscribe this Chanel
Re-upload JP videos please
Hey there, I'm currently uploading them to our Patreon page
as of today, I'm placing me first at work. Enrolling in all AI training. Program is no longer first, especially since the majority of colleagues have demonstrated their true selves, heh. Lamers....Doing what my boss says to do, training!! Like my comp science and MBA degrees don't mean a thing.....
Learn about narcissim. For instance from the channel of dr Remeni. Then stop dealing with narcissists. Bam! Thats 80 percent of the problem solved right there.
❤
video produced by narcissist?
the love of self is idiocy. The love of truth is the way. Proof: if you follow your heart you may become addicted to drugs and destroy yourself. If you love truth you will hate anything that destroys even 1 neuron, for your neural network is the mirror of truth, your true self, that is the consciousness in which we are all one. Enlightened selfishness is the salvation of the world, for then nobody would work for others (only idiots work for others; a man loves a woman because he loves himself or the way he feels about her, so he works for his love of her, not for her, same about children). If everyone stops working for others, wars stop, capitalism fails and dissapears... all the strife in the world is due to idiots. Yes, all employees are idiots, as you'ld have to be stupid or desperate to work for others, bosses exist only for the dumb, the slave minded
Which are you so what do you love? Your body which is your property? Or your soul which is a set of immortal principles, because truth is eternal and the fundamental principle (and logic is its anatomy). If you love your body, the body is your god. If you love truth, truth is your god, and there's only one god who claimed identity with truth itself
P.S. Buddla is a liar, and all other philosophers are dabblers. There is no growth without some form of suffering, and eliminating suffering is eliminating growth. Funny how almost nobody seeks god when happy, but god is truth, then suffering is his plan to elevate us to his level. There is also such thing as unecessary suffering, pretty much the kind we bring on purpose - try to go far first, then you will find adversity undoubtedly, that's just how it is, and confronting, not avoiding suffering, is the way. The obstacle is the way
There is no evidence others exist, so it is foolish to assume they do.
PLACE NO ONE ABOVE YOU.
And no one will place you above themselves, life is cannot be lived in self absorbition, the meaning of life is finding something more important than you, greater than you, think about that when you catch yourself thinking life is meaningless and you're so sad.
@@shakey3306 THIS IS NOT ABOUT EGO OR SELF ABSOBTION.....IT IS ABOUT UNCONDITIONAL SELF LOVE.
@@shakey3306 THE OPPOSITE ALSO APPLIES.....PLACE NO ONE......BENEATH YOU......
Addiction is selfish
What a stupid comment. 🙄
Addiction is all about pain we are trying to numb. Who wants to be addicted to anything ? I hope you learn that we all have pain ❤️
Put on your own oxygen mask first. You cannot pour from an empty vessel
Lol lumping Ayn Rand with the other philosophers hilarious 😂. No thanks!
Oh the exact opposite idea of christianity? How convenient
Ok then stop crying when millonaires and billonaires get selfish and we enjoy most. This is so stupid.
❤🎸❤️
This video is an on ramp to the highway to destruction.....so says your creator.
Way too many way way way way way way way too many commercial
You want free production research and marketing with taxes paid and served to you for...free?
Whats your input?
Nope opposite. They're the secret to a bad life. Everyone hates you wants to rob you & it's difficult to show your face in public. Be humble & moral. You'll feel better in the morning too.😂❤
As a human you have the moral duty to look after yourself selfishly
So you act that way to feel better in the morning? How selfish!
Not a good relationship or matrimony though
If you share ♥️ it and talk about it it can be a moment of becoming closer. If you're not married yet, think twice about living forever with someone who doesn't understand this. If you're already married...good luck ❤
@@nancyhanscom1374 honey I’m referring to being selfish a relationship is of 2 not of one, both are sharing a life together, compromise and relinquishing control and what you want sometimes has to occur
Should occur at least
Selfishness isn’t a good thing. I get what is being said but I’d say it’s focusing on yourself and loving yourself, not being selfish. Maybe a certain level of selfishness.
@itsmefrank6187 silly.. if you dont care about yourself.. you can't care for others.. properly anyway.. leads to neediness clinginess codependency resentment and overall trauma.. relationships based in self love shared fare much better. Selfishness is the most altruistic thing to do.
Brono
Selfishness is never good, is not stoic this is a bad message.
REALLY STUPID ADVICE.
Is it really a good life if you are selfish and take advantage of others for your own personal gain. This is not the same as a mutual arrangement or whatever
If you listen to the entire video, you might discover the opposite