FilterCopy | Reality Of A Topper | Ft. Tanya Sharma
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- Is it true that it's lonely at the top?
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What hurts the most is when you become an average student from being a topper. when everyone has high expectations but you are not living upto it, it just makes you feel like a disappointment.
thats me right now. i placed 3rd in the whole block of our school and they expected more from me. i placed 7 this time because its exhausting for us, after all im just a child of 13 yrs old.
I was a topper until last test exams ...i am disappointed in myself 😔😔
I can feel it
me me me
Experiencing same here I can't believe that how I turned to be a above average student😵💫
being topper is all funs and games until it becomes a part of your personality and gradually you start living for academic validation only. you set everyone's expectation too high and they start expecting something out of you and you have to live up to that reputation and its exhausting!!
you are the first one to understand us
that's so true 😭😭
Exactly
exactly man
Exactly being a topper I can relate to it 100%
Exactly
Being a topper is not that hard..but maintaining the position is way harder .....
but this sentence " agar bolde sab kuch aata hain to =overconfident aur genuinely bol de kuch nhi padha to jhoote" is soo trueeee
👏👏
You are right 😢😢
ikr...i go thhrough tt everydayyy..its annoying now..people tell to ignore but everything has a limit....i and now tht limit has been finished...@@yrkkh989
Sirf ye bolo "dekhte hain kya hoga " and move on
You are right 😢
This also happened to me
This made me cry. It reminds me of my school days where I was bullied and ignored. Some people made fun of my weight, and others ignored me every time and made fun of me because I always studied during the breaks too. And then when I scored even above 90 percent, some used to tell me, 'Itni der padhayi karke sirf itne laaye...' I used to cry a lot. I used to give them notes, teach them, but still, they ignored me. After school, when I met the same people, they asked me, 'Oh, she studied with us? I thought she went from school after 10th. I didn't know she existed...' The same people I helped said these words to me. I hate my school life. Whenever I think of it, my eyes are filled with tears.
Yeah true it's like
Your existence doesn't matter to them until and unless there is an assignment,project, exam etc
These PPL will be the first to ask you for these things but won't even bother asking you out for say outside lunch or dinner
dw worry about them now, you still have ur life
@@Shark_-rx1xu It's better to be alone instead of staying with those so called arrogrnts they just say those horrible words so that we could snap at them. But if we became rational and keep our emotions in check then no matter what horrible things they say it would not effect us.
@@zaidmohamed936 yeah Agreed 👍💯
Well you've to speak against and not be meek and mild
The biggest nightmare for toppers is when they start failing after class 11, after having raised everyone's expectations. So, to my juniors below class 10, please don't aim to be at the top; being average can be helpful later on.
But My parents expect me to be the topper.......... As I had raised there expectations........... My teacher's expectations....,.... It's really being so hard and in this era full of distractions...... It's really very tough.....
@@shivanshi_rai in which class are you?
@@anshuswetanjay 10th...
@@shivanshi_rai Know your self worth and don't listen to others...If you know that you are capable of getting 85%,then give your 100% and aim for more than 85%...Others will say that you should get more than 95%... Don't listen to them
Listen to yourself and have faith in God
😭😭😭😭😭 tum thik bol rahe ho....
Seriously. The worst thing about being a topper, is the high expectations + the friends who are only friends for the academic help. No one really understands you. It's like you are meant to not enjoy.
Sahi bola.
They often behave as if you dont know about this world they say like book kei bahar bhi duniya but reality is you are trying to hide yourself from them just opening the book in front of them doesn't mean you are studying you are trying to escape usse bhi jyada jab teachers compare to answer nhi kar sakte ptm mei kyunki parents bolte hain compare mat Karo but puchte look jarur denge agar kisse sei kam aa gaye
Right..
And I stopped studying after entering 12th .
True. No one understands us even our own friends
High expectations oh godddd and i literally thought some of them were my real friends but they just needed notes and again during lunch time I was left alone like how can they even act like that😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
What people say about topper:- how could she/he score well
Only the topper knows the thing (pressure.disatisfaction, sacrifice, parents expectations etc)
Yes. It's true
This gave me anxiety at the beginning. So relatable. It's even worse when you like someone and that person calls you or texts you just to ask notes...as if we don't have any individuality.
Bro too relatable. People contact me only for doubts😢. They speak openly abt their prblms and stress and I understand them validate them but no one ever tries to listen to me.🙂
what can we do about it do you think
Being a topper is joke nowadays but the hardwork, sacrifices, parents expectations.....no one can imagine and realised
very true. very very true.
Bhai ..main..kuch nhi pada tha ...full backbenchers masti .....😂
10th main fir school top kar diya ...
Ghar walo. .ne kota bhej diya IIT ke liye........then...jee ..ne hamari ..g@#d maar li ....
Ab 12th board de raha ...hu ...
6 lack barbad kar aya ..ghar walo ...ke ..😢
#ab board ..main.... kahi ..yaar ...75+ aa gaye to ..fir ..se jee dilayenge ..😢😢😢
Vese mujhe bhi iit pasand hain....
Yrr par usko ❌💔❤️🩹
Karu to ...karu ..kya....
I don't like topper image ...
Sare dost. . chod gaye ..mujhe....
10th ke.....
Aur ..kota main..to ..esa lag raha tha ..ki ..main.hi sabse gadha hu ..😅
Vaha to toppers ke bhi pitaji bhete hain.....😅🤣
Hey bhagwan kya julum hain❤❤❤
@@IITdehli-kv3tzu revealed my situation also!
True
@@IITdehli-kv3tzbro that's real depression
Things that can only be felt by a topper ....!!
1.Over expectations of others
2.Anxitey to score good marks or grade
3.Fear of failure
4.Self doubt
5.Severe competition
6.Jealousy of others towards them
7.Not having a true friend
8.Being honest but still getting tagged as a liar
And what not man like we suffer whole day due to many such reasons and people think that being a topper is uncool or boring and being a backbencher is the best thing.😢As a topper I can say that I really loved this video the fact that it's so relatable ..all thanks to filter copy !!!
OMG !!😱! I never got these many likes !!! I am so happy, thanks to everyone who liked my comment !!☺️💓
I can't explain how much relatable it is..i used to be the topper all the time..and suddenly a day came when i started to loose interest and felt depressed and suffered from anxiety,it just felt like being a topper is my only recognition and there's nothing left in my life.and no body understands the pressure of being at top all the time...
This comment is more relatable than the video itself
@@SBAvlogz that's true bro .....we all go through this point one's in our life !😿
@@latikayadav6326 thanks 🙂
Every points you have mentioned totally relatable yrr😢 especially 2nd one
This is truly relatable to me.... being a topper i never got a true friend in my class....only got jealousy ,gossips and bullying.The avg guys n so called cool people try to disturb us the whole yr n during exam expect us to show them or make them pass...n heart breaks when they call us teachers chamcha...I got tears wathing this..
I literally have tears in my eyes 🥺 finally someone talked about us!!! I have been topper my whole high school , everyone used to sideline and pressures me, they used to think I don't have any life, everyone expected me to be topper and they had high expectations in whole family also....but in eleventh and twelfth I become so so so exhausted...that I can't even describe ..the fear of failure gave me anxiety and panics and now I've just finished giving my boards and trust me when I say this... I became a backbencher... I don't study at all.. And going to the exam centre stress free that marks will not matter, but when I think of it... I feel I wasted my 1 year, but deep down I also know that I needed this really really long break.. Thank you Filtercopy this is so sweet of you all... The girl performaning... She seems so nice❤❤❤
Which class
Which class currently
I can't explain how much relatable it is..i used to be the topper all the time..and suddenly a day came when i started to loose interest and felt depressed and suffered from anxiety,it just felt like being a topper is my only recognition and there's nothing left in my life.and no body understands the pressure of being at top all the time...
I am here its like u are my clone or twin i can completely understand you
I am kinda losing interest in studies because of all these expectations i feel suffocated and like i need to become a topper no matter what if i won’t be the topper no one would even recognise me and the fact that u have been coming first from years and then suddenly your ranks are low the amount of people that are gonna tease u feeling depressed is also another thing it’s like our life is only about being a topper and studying we want to enjoy life too but we don’t get to and that’s the society’s problem cause they won’t ever see how much marks and ranks are important to us
I am sorry it’s too long it’s just u were very relatable and i had to share my pain with someone so thank you for reading 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
I hope our lives become better😢😢😢😢
Yes .....Me too face this same problem. It's like .... people around me does consider me as a machine build for studying. Not as a human being with strengths and limitations..
Yes I understand how this feels..but the most important thing is to truly know and recognise what's your bottom most feeling and what's your inner talent..and u have to keep working hard to achieve it..at the end you will feel proud of yourself for facing these situations and still recognising the best self of yours..trying to calm ourselves and thinking peacefully will truly help a lot..
@@kavyakonduru9314 yeah ....and the sad thing is ...the teachers. sometimes I feel they don't care about inner talents 😕....all they care about scoring high marks .
This is so relatable. If you get good marks, everyone talks behind your back saying that you're a nerd and have no chill, but if u score average, you get compared to the person who gets good marks. This isn't the problem with students, its the society
And then comes a time when we toppers think that lets just leave this race and just study for understanding.. But it's too late.
I totally agree with this
Yeah
True
@@gitaglobalschool3218 Story of my life .
Thankyou Filter copy. I always thought about this topic since my school days. Everyone knows and wants to know the struggle of a person who usually was not a big scorer or someone who couldn't pass the exams which is indeed a great journey when they over come such situations. Nobody realises, a topper gets hated by his friends, classmates and even to some extent his cousins because they are compared to the toppers and it is not even our fault. Nobody wanna talk about the feeling a 8 year old child feels because the people of his or her own age are just ignoring, hating on them for absolutely no reason and for absolutely nothing that they have done.
Thankyou for addressing the issues that toppers face as well😇
Gane non NH kdfmmfk Mm
Idk man it made me cry it was so relatable.
The importance that topper get right before exams is just so sad
The thing that really touched my heart was when she said
"If we say we studied they consider us oversmart and if we genuinely say I didn't study,we are considered liars"
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
And deep in everyone's heart ,we all enjoy breaks and social media
Hi , you are a BLINK ?
@@Samreen_kaur
Random
I'm not a blink but still I like them
My username is sooya because my friends call me by that name
Exactly yaar
Same
Being a topper it hits hard when you feel burnt out....then you lose interest in everything, life feels empty , study falls apart and you feel disappointed at being looser.
Edit: damn this got so many likes 😭 hugs to all my fellas who has went through this or now going through this , you will be fine , we will be fine🫂💓
Arey pagle rulaega kya?🥺🫂
Reality
I can feel it😢
same bhai
Itna saach kyu bol rha hai bhai
i felt it emotionally too much, like i've been through this so many billion times! i could relate with the comments section all too well! kudos to you guys!!!
It hurts like hell, when you were a topper all the time but suddenly due to a small difference between marks, someone else got your position and you couldn't rank top....
It's not about being jealous. It's about the expectations from your teachers, parents, relatives and all. Even your friends will start to make fun of you. Above all, you'll be disappointed about yourself! You'll cry, you'll be stressed!
All the things that I've written was my own experience, which I had today because I couldn't rank top this time. When I saw the report card.....oh God that moment, I just hate it... I was behaving like a freak man!! because only a topper knows that how hard it is to study the whole day, whole night and of course even one mark....just one mark means a lot for us!! and not going to lie by telling I'll do my best next time and I'm super motivated bla bla. It'll take some time to come out from this trauma..
Guys, sometimes being an average student, is a blessing. Don't ever be sad about it....
Bless you all !
bro I can't believe you are a topper, because there is no word called jealousness bro. Wth. How did you even top with such goofy ahh english.
@@abhirupkundu2778 Man, I know there isn't a word called "jealousness" but at the moments, it was the only word which suddenly came into my mind to explain that incident as I wanted. I wrote that comment just after getting my results bruh! Like, seriously man??
Even tho, there's no word called "Non - veg" also but we use it to express the idea which we want to. See, I just can't believe that, myself being on such a stressful situation, you guys are still pointing my " Goofy English Thing" which can really be helpful to cheer me up!! and if you don't believe me as a previous topper, then is that a my problem dear English lecturer? Or, do you think I really give a shit? Otherwise you just straightly came to my comment section while more than 1000 of other comments are with some Grammar mistakes!! I'm so "Impressed" about you all man!
Can't believe there is someone like me
@@aneeba1236 😣💔
Whatever u toppers say in the end u all will lead a happy life
Worst is when you are topper till 10th and then you join jee preparation and everyone is topper there and now i am no longer the topper
Bro.. 😂 I am giving 10th exams and this comment is looking like reality to me
Exactly😢😢
Only in india children are weighed on the basis of marks they score not by their skills
Bro just described me in few words 😂
bro this is soo me ...
This is the relatable content i have ever seen. I was a topper till my 10th. My parents used to get mad if i get anything less than 100% , ofc they won't actually scold me but you know the disappointment in their face. I was never happy with my marks even when i topped. I used to look at my frnds seeing them so happy if they just passed, and their parents saying that they are proud of them. I used to yearn for all that. My classmates always leave me alone from fun things, and i used to pretend i didnt care, but it hurt so bad. This marks have become so toxic to me that i used weigh my marks with the things i deserve. Like if i scores less then i would eat less and i would hurt myself more. After 10th, when i got 100%, my parents reaction was, oh i knew you would get it anyway. No congrats, no encouraging words, no proud of you and seeing my friend's parents throwing parties for their kid for just passing, broke me so much. I started to question my life . I finally got out of this toxicity and i am no longer a topper and i am happy with my marks. I know my potential and so do my real friends i dont need academic validation anymore. I am happy that now i am studying for knowledge rather than marks.
Sending hugs and a lots of love for all the people who feel this way. You are not alone and i am proud of you❤
i can feel a hundred percent
100 percent.
Very big achievement.
Yeh padhte padhte mujhe rona kyon aa raha hai????🥲
❤❤😢
At the end u realize that happiness is more important than marks n that's your real achievement... 👍👍
This race of being on the top and even a slight fall can tarnish your reputation... It a shame if u can't answer a question if you are a topper... The tag of topper has been so terrifying that it takes away the peace of mind..
Yes You are right. Life of the toppers is not amazing. The always feel that they are pressure cooker 😂
You explained my feeling perfectly
5:31 that's how topper jumps over backbenchers the time they speak anything incorrect🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Its not just toppers who face this. Its the students that study good. They also face all these "padhaku, no chill, oversmart comments". On top of that there is external pressure on them where they are compared with other toppers. This load of expectations and pressure with the discrimination from friends, is what makes us sad :(
exactly
Absolutely true 😢
Yes 😢
Most relatable comment….I have always been a 3rd or 4th rank holder in my class…and trust me I had immense pressure on me and was always compared to the first rank holder..even the teachers said “sky is the limit”, work more hard,,you can do it…ahhhh
i get it 🥹it feels overwhelming but literally too much sometimes 🥲
I can relate with both 97% and 90% one. Relatable at peak.
Same here
Bhai sare toppers yahi hain...
To btcd pad kon raha hain 😂
I can also relate this
Wannabe 10ther who thinks he's a topper:-
@@IITdehli-kv3tz boards ka mahaul hai sabhi par rahe hai ig :)
I accept I'm a topper but I'm totally opposite of it. I maintain a balance between study and fun. When it's study time, I study with full focus, concentration and dedication, and when it's fun time, I forget everything about studies and just live and enjoy the moment. Life is all about adjustments. My parents also doesn't pressurize me for studies/percentages. I'm my own king. I even didn't go to any coaching. TH-cam is my biggest teacher. I'm glad m not like that
Finally found someone like me 🤣🤘
@@piyushjadhav6327 bru 🤝
Same here!! ❤ Have a nice day!! God bless you
You are me, me is you 😂❤
Right brooo
I just cried my eyes out. All the memories came flooding, thank god i changed and changed for good
The worst moment for a topper is when you study whole day, go through 2 different books per chapter and per subject, revise again and again, practice other model papers, sacrifice your sleep, skip meals due to 8 tutions yet you somehow lose 2-3 marks.. That hurts. That really does.
Exactly like how a backbencher would feel when they lose the just-pass mark by 1 or 2 marks.
For backbenchers, there is nothing to lose. Like everyone would appreciate them, if they managed to score just pass mark. But for us all our hard work would become useless. But still I believe being a topper is cool cuz it's easy for anyone to score less. They dont need do to anything to score less. But to score high lot's of hardwork and sacrifices are necessary.So we are a soldier!
But it's make me sad that people always make fun of us like " the most toppers fail in their life by aquiring workaholic boring job while backbenchers outshine.We need to prove them that they are wrong by achieving our dreams. Fighting ✊
@@tanniesmybesties8695 It's even more painful to see some teachers making fun of toppers by telling toppers get boring jobs, while backbenchers are the the ones who really succeed in life. You've put in so much hardwork, and yet a teacher says this to you, it damn hurts.
@@ChidwilasaStoryWorldbecause it's the sad truth of reality at the end of the day. It is indeed backbenchers that ends up ruling major professional worlds because they are quick witted, smart and can deal with failure without having mental breakdowns. Their failures only make them stronger and more resilient as individuals once they are in the harsh survival game of outside world. I think as toppers it's necessary for us to accept the fact that no matter how hard we work there will be a few setbacks and that's ok.
@@SwarnaliBhattacharya9then the teachers shouldn't discourage the toppers, instead encourage to take it easy and enjoy life instead of putting them down to make the lazy back benchers feel happy. Toppers deserve a good life way better than the back benchers, cuz they actually care and work hard even at a young age. They need to be told that their happiness matters more than their success and that they don't always need to score the highest to be appreciated
@@Ariadne4 that's true. teachers should be taking some of the pressure off the toppers and urge them to take care of themselves and accept their mistakes because it's completely humane to face setbacks in life. but teachers don't always put down the toppers they constantly compare and mock the backbenchers too. and i don't think backbenchers are lazy or that they don't put in efforts. it's just that they do it last minute and are generally less tensed than toppers. hence it's easier for them to accept and eventually win over their mistakes rather than feeling dejected about it. and this trait proves to be essential later in life. all my backbencher friends are doing well in college currently and so are the toppers. after a point we all become equals and it really doesn't matter
The dialogue that hurts a lot is
"I didn't expect this from you"😢
😢very relatable for topper 😭
Yes
My entire school life has been like this. Those little moments like the last scene where everyone tries to fit you in and some things are relatable were the best feelings. (But it only used to happen in ocassions)
This Tanya is one beautiful girl. A rare piece!😃
not being invited to parties and birthdays hits so hard
being called overdramatic for crying over the marks I lose is so normal, but no one understands that for thay every mark I have lost my sleep and friends and all the fun
They don't understand what family pressure is ... When all other's of my age are playing cricket , at that time I am studying in the dark room . The way the family upbraids for scoring less is the only thing that hits the core 😢
💯🥲
Studying in a dark room may damage your eyesight
Even without 100% you can survive. Unless and untill you have made your dream to achieve greater success in competitive exams and get admission in very very very good University, prioritising 100% and losing your sanity over small mistakes is not worth it. Live your life, there are better things to do than just studying day and night. People have achieved so much more without bringing 100% aswell. So you should change your priorities if you want to enjoy with friends.
💯
that uncool thing...and not attending cousin's wedding and taunts of class mates is too relatable...
*_Future ∝ Results ∝ (Hard Work + Smart Work) ∝ (Interest + Intelligence) ∝ Brain_*
@@SherozGaming54 wanna say i dont hv brain...??😶
@@VaishnaviNaina yes ....ab 69% wale bhi khud ko topper bolenge 😅👍
@@IITdehli-kv3tz aur 95% wale unko delusional life se bahar nikalenge...🙃🙃
@@VaishnaviNaina yaha baat 97+ ki ho.... Rahi ..hain ..vo bhi 12th ...
Ase to ..mere bhi 10th main. 98.56%
Roll no. 1283850 , DOB 23 sept 2006
Check ✅ kar lo
I truly appreciate FilterCopy for making a video on this topic! The struggle of a topper definitely needs to be understood.
Indian educational system is fd up bcoz indian parents and teachers relate marks with future. When i was in 10th I scored 60% in my boards i was devastated In (2019). My teachers and parents told me that i couldn't do anything in my life i would be a vendour selling vegetables. I felt very bad and I kept crying for days. After Some days our 11th started I took PCM feild, I wanted to do Aeronautical engineering so I started preparing with heart, practiced old Class 10 math, physics and chemistry problems and I got 98.2% as my result and got 99.6% in 12th boards. I started preparing for jee mains 2022 and I got 92.4% I was happy and I decided to give jee advance so i prepared exactly 1 month and got a rank of AIR 246 I was surprised i was not expecting that rank.
Now it is my first year in IIT KGP. and whenever i get good marks in my test, i show it to my parents and say them, "yes of course i will be a graduated vegetable seller in 3years from now". Don't think you are not capable of something bcoz you don't know what you are capable of untill you start doing it.
Love you bro ❤❤
"if we genuinely say I didn't study, we are considered liars" - my gawd the number of times i've been through this😭😭
For real.
Hainaa so true
Bakwas mat karo😡😡😡
Us fr
I have faced this and I'm not even a topper not even in the top 3 or so rank
The worst realisation after coming out of topper student era is “YOUR FUTURE IS STILL NOT SECURED”
💯Totally agree
Topper hone ka mtlb school ya college me top karna nhi hota hai asli topper vo hota hai jo life ki har exam me ache se javab se or aise toppers ka future secure hota hai
Only for general category students
Schooltime is like being in a bubble. You are altogether engaged in all sorts of activities and everyday after school is spent in preparing for another day in school like assignments, projects, homework etc. scoring good grades seems to be the happiest day and when you score low, you feel like a failure. I remember when I got bad grades in half yearly in 4th class, I was stressed out and wanted to perform better and then i became more attentive and started getting good marks. Now after passing school, preparing for competitive exams.
more than being a failure what makes me scared is what other people will think ifI fail. everytime u have to study for others rather than studying for yourself
Genuinely Heartfelt...❤
Her monologue was so damn touching ! I was able to relate with it very much. Everyone has made this word 'Topper' an identity card for a person who just is trying to excel in studies and is making effort to make his/her parents proud. Everyone has forgotten that toppers are humans too , just like them ! Toppers do have a heart and they too want parties , vacations and fun time. Don't judge us by our high scores , we too are like you - childish and innocent .
True 💯
as a former topper I can relate, but later down the years I became above average, like 85-94% student. best thing that happened to me ngl
True.... 😥
True❤
The saddest part is that....the topper of one's class is now jobless and preparing for some random government exams and the backbenchers have started earning or acquiring profession.....this is the time when we think if we haven't been a topper...life would have been even more nice
It's hurt 😭
Bro true 🥺 From being a topper to being a jobless person who prepares for govt exam,it hurts. And parents still keep having expectations😭
And I so felt this. Stuck in numerous attempts at various government exams, not going anywhere. Life has been stuck in one place since forever.
Not for everyone tho life sometimes gives chances
So hope and live🙂🙃
Same here
this video is so relatable. especially 2:56 getting caught and feeling sad and embarrassed because of helping others thru "cheating." this literally happened with me and my one friend that i had made fun of me lol. i felt so ashamed.
also when she said "if we know everything so we're called oversmart and if we genuinely don't study and say idk, then we're tagged as liars." my whole school life i suffered thru those labels. uhh thanks for this video. finally felt like someone saw me thru.
The video for which I've been waiting for yeaaarrrssss.....!!!!😢😢
as a topper i think my classmates see me as a different breed and its really hard to socialize
..
It is true, as you guys are always studying, you don't have good social skills. I was the same guy like you but I changed cuz marks will not matter for me rn unless it's 10th
i am glad that all this incidents didn't happened with me because my friends were soo supportive.
Yeah like a 24 hours studying machine? May you find it hard to socialize becuz you have social anxiety or couldn't find someone to vibe with you.
Yk i also found it extremely hard to socialize not becuz I'm a topper but becuz of social anxiety after corona it became even worse. But now I'm doing good. Dont worry manh , you'll will gradually overcome it! And will able to meet people who will value as a friend rather than a thing they use when need. Let me give simple tip to destroy your loneliness? It's to befriend yourself! Nowadays its extremely difficult to find a true friend who honestly wants see us in the better condition. We can 100% trust ourselves cuz none of us would think of attacking us from our back.
@@moveahead123manh it's very easy to say go out and make friends.You dont know how much I struggle with my life because of my anxiety.I always tried to make friends but most of them consider me as a thing they use when they need .They only talk to me about studies .Some used to consider me as their part time friend.My life had changed a lot when I started to love and befriend myself.Now I dont feel lonely.Also now I get to meet many great personalities but still I always keep a distance.We both are living different life, we faced different things, we have different perspectives about life, what make you happy may not make me happy and vice versa.Most importantly we both even dont know each other so what's the point of judging each others?
And about the money thing. I'm from a middle class family. My parents and teachers used to adviced me to move on to Engineering Or Medical field. But I'm interested in research field. I'm just curious about Science. Making money is important but that's not my dream. I want to change the world. I want to make the world a better place to live.
to be really honest, its not the problem with every topper. i dont try hard to socialize with people and i people really talk to me well. i used to be a point of attraction in my class (not because of my studies but because of my jolly behaviour). har topper serious nhi hota
Line when she says ki agar Maine padhai ki toh aadhe mark ke liye bhi roungi is very relatable
I felt that line so real...
That line hurt hard😢😢
I was like crying when I was 1 mark less. I give it all I can give and even more.
especially in jee 💀💀
Also when u studied so hard but 2 or 3 mark question was left behind cause of less time 😢😢😢
Finally someone understood us and don't think that our life is easy....
Being a topper means u are perfect in everything, for everything. People start keeping expectations, increasing your anxiety. The fear of failure, the fear of losing the ranks.. worst feeling ever. When u miss all the fun to study and dont get the result, people's words haunt more than the sadness of failure. Being a topper i can totally relate to her😢
I got 97% and my mom asked where did the 3% go. I lost a best friend because she was jealous of my grades. People ask me for work and notes CONTINUOUSLY I even stay with them during free periods to teach them and once when I was sick and couldn't attend school, no one sent me the work. I asked 10 people. No one replied. Especially when you don't get your parents' appreciation because you lost 2 marks.. that hurts. I remember crying over 95, and the students around me started calling me names. They don't realize how much our parents will tell us that we could do better and ask where did those 5 marks go? I pulled all nighters continuously, got 97, was proud of the grade. But my mom asked why not 100? I seriously wish sometimes that I wasn't a topper and that I didn't have such strict parents. Seeing everyone have fun without you, and eventually they stop asking you to come. My phone gets taken away at anything below 95 like bfr..and if someone studies night after night, of course they're going to be sad about losing even half a mark. Being a topper sucks.
When you're going to be a parent, then don't be like your parents. You can't change your parents but you can change yourself when you will become one. 😊
𝗧𝗿𝘂𝗲𝗲😢
My parents are happy with my 70 percent😂
Same bro😢
@@Abhishek287.😂😂😂
FINALLY!!! Finally, someone showed why are we behind the marks, it's soo frustrating to be called nerd, padhaaku, teacher's tail, and when you score one mark lesser than someone, they are going to mock you, calling you a loser. We're always called annoying because of number of questions we ask or times when we fight to increase one mark, and that we don't know how amazing a backbencher's school life is, but no one wants to understand why we are becoming annoying, why do we never get to enjoy school life's real fun!
Yeah !! 😅my classmates call me teacher ki chamchi and all of what you mentioned and although I never show I care about it but deep down it hurts ..
You know what , some students really are of that kind. I believe one should be a topper like Rancho and not be like Chatur.
@newaccount-cz6tb No one wants to be like Chatur, but have ever given a thought why are people like that?! Since childhood if someone is good at studies, behaves nicely, they get appreciated by parents and teachers, and getting such appreciation, such approval, slowly turns into their habits. They grow up with the habit of winning, and when they reach certain age, students start calling their nature uncool, unfriendly, teacher's tail, etc., and what not. No one wants to be unlikable, but their interest in studies is called nerdy and boring behavior. And if in any case, they score less, or break the code of discipline, they're told 'this wasn't expected from you', but for backbenchers, even teachers accept their rebel behavior. Everyone wants to us to get changed, no one is ready to accept us as it is.
@@Maahie-vz7lc I think they mock at us because they know they cannot be like us and by making fun of us they try to feel like equals .. it's not that I am saying not everyone can become a topper it's for students who are actually very mean
@@newaccount-cz6tb most of the topper are like chatur
Being a topper REALLY HURTS SOOOOO MUCH, but atleast my mother is suportive , but i want to see a smile on her face thats why i studied day and night , study 8hrs constistently for 15 days taking leave for school , finaly got national rank in olympiad and WON a tablet
Being a topper is easy and not being a topper is easy too, but the middle one's life is just like hell....damn tired of it
Finally someone understands topper
Exactly
Exactly 🙂
Exactly
Ikr
🫂♥️
“Reality of a topper”
For his juniors: Inspiration
For his classmates: Depression 😂
Why? Why to compare yourself to a topper if you're aware of your potential? Why blame them for just scoring good?
@@berserkerbladeni think you are in wrong society
@@berserkerbladenreal
@@vaishnavkala3752no you are bhai. Study yourself instead of obsessing over us and being angry at us toppers.
Depression for real
This just showed 30% tension of being a topper, i lived this life for 12 years and i know the pain and struggle and also good side of it.. And.. This was great by the way.. 😇
Being topper really bad especially if your parents expectations are too high and you constantly get bullied in school for being topper
Finally someone made this type of video...i always used to see other videos like videos for backbenchers and middle benchers but never seen such a video which shows how the life of a topper actually is...really loved it💞🦋
Yes😢😢
Yar har aadmi Jo comment Kar raha hai, topper hi hai 😮 KAISE?
It just made me tear up
The line ke hum agr bol de ki sab kuch aata hai toh oversmart or genuinely bol de ki kuch nhi aata toh jhoothe
Jo pura din sirf padhai kerta hai uske liye ek kya aadha marks bhi matter kerta hai 😢
You relate this.... I think you are also topper..... Acchi baat hai na ki tum topper ho is me toh tumhara hi faida hai.....
Got 98% in 10th boards and it still feels bad, and as expected, I've been called many names...
Yes but in my prelims my 13 marks was cutted than I talk to mam the she say that "arrey result bangaya hai " Mera dimag itna phata tha tab Aisa laga ke ye teacher ko kya bolu mein .😅
Iska director pakka topper hoga ☠️
Lagta hai wo khud BackBancher hi hoga
This video is highly such a relatable video. I used to study well got good scores but for me it all went with flow , but gradually I realized being a topper people always think we just don't need to study only revise things or we have more intelligence than them. But people just don't know about sleepless nights, no enjoyments, no social media etc... They think we're enjoying the process of studying. After all this hard work it hits so hard when we lose one or two mark, see it's valuable guys because for us we studied the whole week, whole year and losing some marks is a big thing and yes we know there are things apart from scoring marks in school but yes that's too important . For you people something other is important but for us that too is important.
And the most important note we just don't only study for ourselves, I believe many of the toppers study for their parents. Everyday you are seeing the effort they are taking for us and you just want to make them happy and only thing you can do it study . And yes not only 12 toppers become successful in life even 12 th fail people also become successful but yes let it be that and let it be us. Please a kind note to this generation :Please do understand effort of a person becoming a topper, respect their efforts and we are too humans🤍
This is the harsh reality for thousands of students. We are defined by our marks. No one sees anything else other than our marks. Just like everyone else, we also want to party, relax, and go on social media. But we are constantly told to study and join tuitions. I can understand how this girl feels as my life is exactly like hers. Other students who don't have strict parents like hers will never understand the hurt or the disappointment we get from our parents when we come home with lower than 90% marks.
90 for a topper is disgusting we actually get scolded if we score as low as 90
So true ......
Social media is bad
@@sandulramanayaka1661 There is good and bad in everything.
this is exactly why being topper is never my dream. until 4th grade I was topper, but uske baad ek exam mein kharab aaya because we had shifted to india that year toh asli rang dikh gaye. I still studied well tho, 85-93 ke beech mein aa hi jaate the. but I wasnt like others 8-9 ghante din mein baithke padhna for 5 extra marks, everything I had interest in was outside the book anyways😭😭
When your friend is topper and you are average then you are dead 💀
Meri best friend ne 10th top maara tha with 97% ab uska 12th me chem me compartment aarha hai 🙂
True😂😂😂
@@Ariesspring22 koi nahi padha nahi hoga usne...chalta he yarrr..
Bro living life on difficult mode😭
Yeahhh sooo true actually
Mine is even worse, I am an average student in my studies and worst part is people consider me as studious one only because of the time I spent and see what I am considered as a studious one and not even getting good marks ,most hateful things happening in my life and because of this people are very bad in approaching me (also I am an ambivert)
I don't know why things are like this
I am very boring to other people, when someone needs some help they come that's all
That's me..😢 I studied so hard..always I'm the odd one..others don't even invite me to hangouts.. my fvrt tym is exam tym..coz only at that tym others consider me..they come to me just before the exam and I teach them important stuffs to pass the exam.. saddest part is assignment or record submission tym..coz at that tym everybody msg me and call me and come to me for my notes and records..but after they got it ,they didn't even say a single word .. it's all like , I'm kinda a source of study material..
People always talk about studies to me..I love to communicate funny stuffs and all..but all see me as a bookish girl..
Being a topper hits hard when you realise you don't actually have a good friend with whom you can share your secrets or anything else...cause no one ever considered you as their freind 🙃🙃
Relatable I always feel empty because of this feeling of not having someone to tell your thoughts
Very true
true yaar , koi sachha dost banta hi nhi , sab notes ya fir help k liye dosti dikhate hain....bohot akela lagta hai😔
@@sitanshunaik6157not a topper but still understandable
This is also happen with me😢
Meanwhile average students have the worst of both worlds 💀
My parents says if I hit 2.6k then they will buy me a camera for blogging I'm begging you literally begging u 👉🏻👈🏻
BTW I'm not forcing anyone ❤❤
My parents says if I hit 2.6k then they will buy me a camera for blogging I'm begging you literally begging u 👉🏻👈🏻
BTW I'm not forcing anyone ❤😊❤
true I can relate 🙂😂
Exactly❤😂
❤
Simple, instead of books practical knowledge is utmost important which I have learnt from my friend
She is so fit in both the roles as tanya sharma topper or tanya lekhi chill girl.......
Always beautiful❤
This is very true. My classmates literally make fun of me when i say I'm struggling to study.. Its like "jhooth matt bol tujhe sab ata hai " The fact that nobody understands the struggle and pain ,instead makes fun.. Hurts
You know it also happens to me ...they used to ask me ka tumhari kitni tayari hogai ha paper ki ma kahti Thi average ha nahi achi tayari and they be like jhoot tumhari tu achi Hogi or wsy bhi tumna pass tu ho hi Jana ha ....or even sometimes they say yar hama paper ma cheating karwa dena ...tumha sab ata ha ...
I find that quite funny when people say TEREKO TOH BHAI SAB AATA HAI I just don't mind them
And you shouldn't mind them too.
If you are struggling to study
There are alot of channels on TH-cam that can help :)
it's really painful to see so many people still having high expectations from you because you used to a topper or a good student but now just an average. you're not able to live upto their expectations no matter how hard you try. they feel disappointed every time you fail to meet their expectations but they don't give up, neither do they necessarily encourage. and this just turns into a vicious cycle and it's truly exhausting.
I hope you're doing ok! I relate to you very much I used to thrive in school before Covid but now i am average and sometimes below average. Just remember you're not doing all of this hardwork to please other people but you're doing it for your own good and future! Parents want the best for you, now I don't know how your parents are and I don't want to assume they are understanding like mine are. I wish you best for your future!
@@mixxber3286 thank you so much for your words 🫂 i hope you're doing good as well
I really am going through same situation and don't know what to do to match my parents expectations . I scored 89% in 10th and just now I gave my 11th finals . I was also a topper before covid but now its so hard . I just don't have faith in myself after I face my first failure by failing first time in my accountancy exam in half yearly .
This is so me parents expectations are on peak
this was very much needed....
That's our sad reality which no one other than us could feel, not even our parents. When the ranking system started from class 3, I got 99.8%, with first rank. I was delighted at that moment. But after that, I was always told to study even harder and keep up, that kind of forces you to keep up. (However lockdown started after that and I had online classes till class 5th, still getting 1st/2nd rank.) In class 6th, my parents forced me to take a competitive exam, which was held all over India but only a few could qualify (Military School type you know). I was forced and depressed, and hence started losing my ranks. As a result, I stood 6th rank (for the first time) in class 7th mid.
Whenever my parents see me not studying, they say ''Dekh lena, Dub jaaoge is saal. Koi nahi rhega poochne wala!'' (Even though I study they say I was playing games or watching movies. (Without even seeing me doing so!)
True, no one understands the pressure of being at the top all the time...
What hurts more is that no one believes when a topper says they are in stress...its always like "oh you will get marks anyway, stop whining, blah blah-" no one understands the pressure every topper is under 🙂
So damn relatable
what is the need of pressure? Stay out of it. Mahadev Bless You!
Why tf would you be in pressure. Just enjoy studying. If you don't enjoy studying. Then forget about marks. Marks is directly proportional to passion
@@abhirupkundu2778 not if your future depends on it.
@@trra7785 so what? Even if your future depends on it. Every person who has accomplished something in their fields was passionate about their work. So be passionate not a pressure cooker.
Finally a video on this topic !!
This needs to be understood
I was a topper till 10th....
So , I started preparing for JEE
It was going good unless that one test
It was my first coaching test ....
I scored a Lil bit low marks but my parents always supported me and said don't take stress or tension otherwise whatever you study you will forget.
So I made up the mind that I will secure good marks if I will study more hard .
After 3 months of regular test every week . I finally scored good marks but my sleep schedule was gone I had exhausted my body to this point that after exam I caught fever .
After 1 week of doctor's appointment and everything. I felt good and fine. But after a day I felt a sharp pain inside my stomach when I was in coaching. The coaching teachers took me to the hospital. Admitted me ... I had this infection (called h pylori) it was diagnosed at an early stage but because I took too much stress it became more worse...
I was in bed for 3 weeks
My 5 months got wasted .
Now I am preparing online for JEE.
This was my story.
So please don't take so much🙏🏻 stress.especially toppers because don't have habit of failing 😞
You deserve another vdo on fitercopy 😂
Are you 24' or 25' batch jee?
hope you have nice exam, also study consistently don't overexert.
@@aloksingh6980I will have JEE in 2025
Thanks ☺️
@@shreyakamade1705 from where u r preparing online?
Bro i was also a topper till 10th..but now I am getting very less marks in jee 😢😢😢😢 mock tests
I can perfectly understand this situation. Board results came out a couple of days ago. I had already started 11th grade and seeing the vast syllabus I was getting overwhelmed by it( chose Science). When the board results came out( scored 97%). Everyone was feeling happy except me. No parental pressure to score high or anything but I didnt know what my passion was since I was preparing very hard for boards and that was making me upset since i felt like a directionless vector.. My mother invuted all my friends to go out and celebrate and when she came back home after inviting them, she saw me crying( not tears of joy). She said arent you happy with what youve achieved, my response probably shocked her because all I said was, " Those marks dont matter to me anymore."
mujhe bhahut achha laga.. story, narreation our acting.. hats of to director and artists..
The worst is when you topped in 10th and ended up scoring low in jee. That's the part i got shattered 😢.
Now studying in tier 3 engineering college. That's relatable story. ❤
Us ☠️
I got 97.7% in jee this year
Zindagi bhar top karne ke baad jee me drop Lia hai 👍😭
When I scored 75 percentile in jee I was overwhelmed with joy such that I literally studied f#₹king hard for jee advanced and also gave mht-cet with no damn interest whatsoever but boards mein hi 57% aa gaye aur mht-cet mein 4 percentile. Mujhe abhi bhi mere mama, kaka, chapa, jaba, dhaba, taane marte rehte hain ki CET mein 4 percentile laya kuch ukhaad nahi paya. Main abhi private college mein hu aur exams mein underperform kar raha hu
(5 backlogs hote hai kya kisike b🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬d)
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@@nezukochankafan9795 oh bhai :(
Till 8th It is fun for us to top in the class. When we come in 9th we understand that the rank matters. And after that people start eXpecTinG that this will person will undoubtedly top again and that rank becomes a achievement for us that we have to achieve at any cost..
The fun fact is that even if we say thay we don't have studied for the exam friends are like : Are jaa jaa tu saale pura din padhta hi rehta hai sb pata hai hame is baar bhi krega tu top.. 😅
Sooo true yaar 😔👍
Dude thats so relatable
So relatable but till 8th also its not fun to top its like people have so many expectations from u and u need to fullfill it no matter what
@@MyshaaSiddique Beacuse now-a-days these institutions have created so much fear in mind of parents that if their child wants to perform well in competitive exams in future then his/her base should be strong and pressure is put from 6th onwards..
Earlier, Till 8th the syllabus was not so hard that to take tension..
As a topper last line is true😅
being topper and chill is the most cool thing someone could be.
4:24 So I was a topper since my childhood till 10th, secured 90+ in every class but these fu*#ing institutes didnt let me take admission in the college where my buddies were studying. That too just for 1%. I accepted that and moved on. After that my relatives and my parents forced me to take biology along with maths as they wanted me to become a doctor which I didn't wanted to. That pressure ultimately made a 91% scoring student in 10th to 61% in 12th. I was so depressed because I was the one to be blamed for this mistake. From that phase, I've realised that people(even your parents) wont care about your efforts, they only see your result either to take credit or curse you. Now presently I'm a M. Sc.PHYSICS student and I'm happy that its my favourite subject im studying. So the overall conclusion is, when anyone starts to demotivate you, say sabki mkb and move on with your goals and plannings. You will definitely be successful in your life.
This line hits so hard😢
3:40
True 3:52 "jisne sare din padhai ki ho wo 2 mark ke liye kya ,aadhe mark ke liye bhi royega."
Bro is this a series ?
@@manaspal5504 no it's just a single video
@@pandey2010nerd 🤓
Yess true but they used to say you are too sensitive and said about that indirectly like kuch ese hote h agr ek number bhi kut Jaye bas Rona dhona shuru and friends sàid tera to Rona hi kam h bss 😔😢
Tanyaa Here this sidd also A school Topper...and always pressured by parents..😊
Damn! So relatable. This pressure of maintaining the scores and boosting them just burns the hell out of yourself. You have to participate in extra co curriculars secretly. The moment it goes below even 95 your whole worth is questioned.
When you are at the top, no one wants to hang out with you. It's sad but I made sure the toppers I knew had a semblance of fun.
It's not true bro I am a topper in my class but still I hang out and play with my friends and they don't take me for granted
If you focus only being on top then yeah no one will hang out with you. But if you do everything in a balance then you can achieve the same dream with a really good social life
Same thing happens with me
@@user-jh7pj5sh1oagree bro
@@user-jh7pj5sh1o totally agree. I am a topper but I am nothing like what people classify as toppers.
Tanya is rising a lot after crushed season 3. Great job👍
Thankyouuuu so much.
You don't know how you just helped me lift up my mood. I had watched crushed season 1 and 2 and i have loved it. I am not a fan of web series or that sort of things but "crushed" was different. I loved it. I had been waiting for season 3 and due to some reasons couldn't know that it is released already. After seeing ur comment i realised and went to search only to know that season 4 has also come😂.
But THANKYOU SO MUCH!! i am so happy now.❤
Exactly...... I had grown a huuuuge crush on her character tbh
@@rudrakshyakumar2152me too😊
"Age of Industrialisation"
Bro triggered my PTSD with that one...
It's easy to say "Tum toh topper ho,tmhara toh ho hi gya hoga complete" rather than actually doing it.. Relatable..
Her acting feels so genuine, felt great to see her after crushed
The biggest bad thing i experience as a topper is absence of a true friend. In my case, i have a "FRIEND", who is another high scoring guy of my class. He speaks to me, and we have a good time together. But when it comes to real friendship and being the actual friends, we fail. What i mean by "actual" friends, is a friendship that exists in backbenchers. He often hides things from me, and several incidents have made me lose trust on him. This thing is just so......
I wanna share a incident that our school have 2 sections of each class A sec for all good students ( who study hard) and B for those naughty students who study less. since 1st to 5th standard i always secured 1st position in school and was in section A.but after 5th shuffling started so that B section could transform themselves. And i shifted to sec B. I thought i cant be able to study with these naughty people but that was the most beautiful thing that happened i never laughed that ever before. Too much fun in that section and ever i topped in that section as well.. The moral story is that to be happy not always serious to study.. Be chilled 😂🎉
Yup that's it
I just read a book today saying "Once you reach the top, there's only one road to go" which is down. Once you're on the top, not only you're on a competition between your peers but also your own self. The intense pressure of fearing failure.
And when you're on top , people will ask "How can you do better?" as if the achievement of being at the top is a curse not a blessing and how can you exceed your own self again.
been this girl all my school life, then realised in competition exams that being a class topper is a joke, live your life leave this 90% wala stress,
to anyone under class 10 , enjoy ur teenage learn new stuff music sport or just in general life experiences , really nobody is going to give a damm whether it was 95 or 97 or just 80
thanks di for such humble opinion
Lol aa gyi aukat par ...i think topper that term is exaggerating
very true ! Running behind marks and ranks is useless
Its not about people its about you. If scoring high makes u happy then go for it, but scoring high for others is utter stupidity.
That's really cute yrr how beautifully they presented each and every aspect btw Tanya looks really cute ❤ but her mother's expectations 💔
It looked over acting from the girl's part
WE WANT MORE OF TANYAAAA 😭💗
I think she is from crushed season 3
Her look in crushed>>
ikr ❤
Bhai main yahi comment dhund finally koi to mila 😅🤝🏻
Her character* in crushed
@@rudrakshyakumar2152 that too
Ha crushed me bahut cute dikhti hai chimkandi aurat
To being a topper...
Everyone 's Expectation
Fear of failure
Family pressure
Stress
Being alone
Loss interest in other things
Not attending party and weddings
I tired and its hurting to much and i m now in class 12th ..and again expectation from me..
Well what exactly matters is career
I can relate with this, it's not easy to be a topper. The teacher will give you to much work and you don't have time for study it's kill me now. If i don't study before exams i don't know how i topped at that situation too. It's best to be average student. 😢😢
Toppers are never annoying...annoying are those expectations of good marks and pressure to hold the rank
Plot twist: toppers always felt in love with backbenchers 😂😂
Ha ...mere pe crush tha ..ek ladki ..ka ....
Fir uski board main mere se kaam percentage aa gayi thi 10th ..main...
Fir usne school hi chod Diya
Main bhi kota gaya ....
Fir JEE main ne hamri G@#d marlee..
😅🤣🙏✅
wht will happen If the topper is also the backbencher lol...I was one among them 😂No feelings yaar...jz score good,vibe with frnds.....Its amazing that we will have both kinda frnds......actually its good cz one shot 2 bird
My girlfriend 💀
Universal truth
Not always 💔