Just wanted to say thank you so much for your videos! My wife filed for divorce just over 2 months ago and started seeing another man and sleeping over at his house within a couple of weeks. It's devastated me, and left me feeling angry,hurt and betrayed. Your videos are truly helping me come to terms with what's going on, and how best to move forward through all of this. Thanks again x
i’m sooo sorry my friend, i’m going through a divorce too , dropped it on me on 31 year anniversary….. your listening to smart woman here ….your not alone
Thank you! I really appreciate that. I’m working on growing the channel - I think I need to step up the production quality. Thank you for watching and commenting and a Merry Christmas to you.
@Sto-chas-tic unfortunately you're right, in many cases. Sometimes it feels like the world is out to get men, or at least to lay the blame on them for most of the problems we face both individually and as a society.... but I do think there are some hopeful voices out there, telling a more complete and rounded story for both men and women.
@Sto-chas-tic it can. Bits of wisdom from many sources, including family, friends and co-workers, shrinks, books and videos have all helped me. It can if you are open to help and change. Just my experience
Rachael, thank you greatly for sharing this content. I found it profound, hopeful and very timely for me personally. Please continue with the impactful and thought provoking content. Thanks once again. Take care.
how could u be so insightful, …. i’m being told all what’s wrong with me . i’m having big problems now , said to have symptoms of bpd and now it’s used against me as leverage in divorce….and how dare i not tell her right away …i know and fear it’s going to be thrown up in my face at final hearing …Overwhelming
Hi Dave, don't let what they say about you damage the way you see yourself. You are a resilient, capable human with a brain that is incredible. It can heal, it can grow, it can learn and change in ways that are still surprising and astounding scientists. Do not let someone else's narrow perspective, fear, anger or pain limit the way you see yourself and what is possible for you. You, like me and everyone else, have wounds to heal. That work is challenging and often painful, but you can do it. You'll get through this. Take it bit by bit. One minute, one hour, one day at a time.
I have serious mH issues and I'm so freaking low most fo the time... i'm stuck for over 12 years.. i can't get over abreak up four years ago, i hear what you say and i also agree with a lot of it I just can't move" anyway forwards... life is very sad when you have chronic MH illness.
I burnt my house down 2 years ago ...Because of one of those disorders ...mi wife left me a couple of months ago ... says she wants to try someone else who is'nt broken.....But am fixable...she does t want to go to therapy to help me get tru this so am all alone now ...an if it Was'nt for my 6 yr old daughter i would have already killed myself ...I am from Trinidad and Tobago...the mental health system is'nt that great tho
You have to stay strong for your daughter!!! It gets better! I promise ya!!! Life always gets better.... it's just time. You can't rush it... time takes time. You will absolutely be ok. Make sure you have people to talk to friends, family or even a professional. Talking and sleeping are the most important at least in my journey they were. Good luck stay strong
You can get through this, Earnie, and the greatest gift you can give your daughter is to be there for her. It sounds like maybe it’s hard to get to a therapist there… you might find these books helpful as well: The Upward Spiral by Alex Korb The Myth of Normal by Dr Gabor Mate You can heal, and you don’t need your wife to do it. If you do one thing- please start focusing on how you speak to yourself in your mind. If you notice that you’re telling yourself something you wouldn’t say to your daughter, stop. Self compassion is, in my opinion, the most important thing to develop for healing. You can do this!
Just wanted to say thank you so much for your videos!
My wife filed for divorce just over 2 months ago and started seeing another man and sleeping over at his house within a couple of weeks. It's devastated me, and left me feeling angry,hurt and betrayed.
Your videos are truly helping me come to terms with what's going on, and how best to move forward through all of this.
Thanks again x
i’m sooo sorry my friend, i’m going through a divorce too , dropped it on me on 31 year anniversary….. your listening to smart woman here ….your not alone
Relatable but you can overcome this with time, work, and patience I promise
How do you not have more subscribers? Your voice needs to get to more people. Thanks for the video and have a great Christmas.
Thank you! I really appreciate that. I’m working on growing the channel - I think I need to step up the production quality. Thank you for watching and commenting and a Merry Christmas to you.
@Sto-chas-tic unfortunately you're right, in many cases. Sometimes it feels like the world is out to get men, or at least to lay the blame on them for most of the problems we face both individually and as a society.... but I do think there are some hopeful voices out there, telling a more complete and rounded story for both men and women.
@Sto-chas-tic it can. Bits of wisdom from many sources, including family, friends and co-workers, shrinks, books and videos have all helped me. It can if you are open to help and change. Just my experience
I don’t want a divorce. I need help with my anxiety. I love him unconditionally.
Thank you for taking the time to do this for us.
You’re welcome, I’m very glad it was useful.
Rachael, thank you greatly for sharing this content. I found it profound, hopeful and very timely for me personally. Please continue with the impactful and thought provoking content. Thanks once again. Take care.
Thanks for watching, Morgan, and you’re welcome. I’m really glad to hear it was timely and helpful for you.
I was diagnosed with MDD, major depressive disorder...I feel like you watched a movie of my life from the last 2 months
Thank you. I’m trying my best to
how could u be so insightful, …. i’m being told all what’s wrong with me . i’m having big problems now , said to have symptoms of bpd and now it’s used against me as leverage in divorce….and how dare i not tell her right away …i know and fear it’s going to be thrown up in my face at final hearing …Overwhelming
Hi Dave, don't let what they say about you damage the way you see yourself. You are a resilient, capable human with a brain that is incredible. It can heal, it can grow, it can learn and change in ways that are still surprising and astounding scientists. Do not let someone else's narrow perspective, fear, anger or pain limit the way you see yourself and what is possible for you. You, like me and everyone else, have wounds to heal. That work is challenging and often painful, but you can do it. You'll get through this. Take it bit by bit. One minute, one hour, one day at a time.
I have serious mH issues and I'm so freaking low most fo the time... i'm stuck for over 12 years.. i can't get over abreak up four years ago, i hear what you say and i also agree with a lot of it I just can't move" anyway forwards... life is very sad when you have chronic MH illness.
I burnt my house down 2 years ago ...Because of one of those disorders ...mi wife left me a couple of months ago ... says she wants to try someone else who is'nt broken.....But am fixable...she does t want to go to therapy to help me get tru this so am all alone now ...an if it Was'nt for my 6 yr old daughter i would have already killed myself ...I am from Trinidad and Tobago...the mental health system is'nt that great tho
I almost did the same last month…..
You have to stay strong for your daughter!!! It gets better! I promise ya!!! Life always gets better.... it's just time. You can't rush it... time takes time. You will absolutely be ok. Make sure you have people to talk to friends, family or even a professional. Talking and sleeping are the most important at least in my journey they were. Good luck stay strong
You can get through this, Earnie, and the greatest gift you can give your daughter is to be there for her. It sounds like maybe it’s hard to get to a therapist there… you might find these books helpful as well:
The Upward Spiral by Alex Korb
The Myth of Normal by Dr Gabor Mate
You can heal, and you don’t need your wife to do it. If you do one thing- please start focusing on how you speak to yourself in your mind. If you notice that you’re telling yourself something you wouldn’t say to your daughter, stop.
Self compassion is, in my opinion, the most important thing to develop for healing. You can do this!
@@therover9514 hey hit me Up ....might have some questions ...we can help each other
@@earniewaterman6511 anytime
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