Mocking a woman for husband hunting when that was the only respectable option for them at the time. Like a woman not being a fly on the wall waiting and instead finding the man she actually wants was a negative
Especially since that’s not what she’s trying to do, either. It’s such an insult to her career and education to call it a mere “house-keeping column” as if the world revolves around them.
He cared more about his reputation & appearance. He was afraid of how the book's subject matter would affect his social life. That's why he called her selfish when he broke up with her. Which was ironic since he was only thinking of himself, not her safety or the safety of the women she wrote about
I’d like to think this applies more when a man you’re seeing suddenly disappears on you after date 25 without any explanation and when things were actually going great 😑
That's why you drop them at the first sign of disrespect. Anyone who treats you like a type is stuck in the past and is not ready for a relationship.❤ EDIT: Whoa, I did not think I was going to get this many likes. Remember everyone, you deserve better than to be belitted by anyone. Always keep your self-respect and your head up.
I wish he had supported Skeeter when the book came out. He liked her because she wasn’t one of the typical girls and was willing to stand up for herself and for what was right. He supported her all the way to her success and then he dropped her like a sack of potatoes. Maybe that’s the red flags she missed in the beginning scene when she meets him.
I think he was afraid cause doing that kind of stuff she did can put a target on you, still wasn’t right the way he acted I was disappointed in him I felt like he had potential but he didn’t in the end
Skeeter is too smart to miss red flags. She knew. She just wanted to please her mother. She was smart, funny, interesting and way ahead of her time. In other words, way too good for him. So it all worked out how it was supposed to in the end.
That was the difference between him and Johnny. Johnny didn’t care that Celia was from the wrong side of the tracks and she couldn’t cook or keep house. She was kind and sweet and he loved her for all her flaws - no wonder he dumped Hilly.
But learn a valuable lesson as he is too self-destructive for a marriage to materialize unless the girl truly cares nothing on having a romantic relationship with him.
@Drm3221 Yes.. he did begin to apologize when he thought it was his fault. But he could have been a gentleman and said something along the lines of, "You know we both seem to have a bit of growing.. if you can forgive my behavior, I would love nothing more than to figure this out together." Or something like that.
in all fairness its the same reason the maids were scared was because everyone was generally afraid of the klan and the ones in power who didnt hesitate to deal with you for acting out.
It's funny how his red flags was big and bright but she still liked the guy and they just didn't mesh. They were so different in so many ways he was attracted to her firecracker personality but didn't respect her telling truth and fighting the norm because of how he was raised. The relationship was doomed no matter what.
Skeeter is very bright, so she knew all that deep down. I just think that between being a late bloomer who was excited about finally having the attention of a man and dating for the first time and also wanting to make her mother happy, she got caught up a little. She always saw the red flags, but she was ignoring them.
If it wasn't because of the whole situationship - since before 1776AD - I'd openely say that Southern USA accent is the most attractive American accent. Maybe also California accent - whatever that _really_ sounds like. I think the dude actor is a Californian, doing a Southern USA accent.
Southern accents come in many different forms, Texan accents sound way different depending on which part of the state you're from. I grew up in the panhandle and have lived in dallas, east texas, and San Antonio. All three have different accents from the other. I've also been to Mississippi several times and the accents out there seem to be a lot more drawn out then Southern accents in Texas lol. She didn't do too bad tbh
What makes us tolerate this behaviour? I think it's when they don't display it immediately, and we're already addicted to them before the bad parts come in
Who needs more of those stupid two edged swords? It's like this world hasn't got enough of those! The problem with those people is they think they are smart when they lash out and cut people down! That is nothing to be proud of- it's dumb!
You won't as you would make the man who is your best fit, after some time walk away. Unless you are being anti-romantic relationship then keep doing you.
An apology: 1. Say "I am Sorry" as loud and as public as the offence. 2. Say what you are sorry for. *If it is not why they are upset see section be) 3. Tell them the corrective action you will take to avoid the offense in the future. If unsure ask them. 4. Expect to never be forgiven because they don't have to.
An example of why we don't forget the red flags from the start of the relationship. If they show those flags so early, when the stakes are HIGHEST (still trying to "woo" and "win" the new partner) there will only be that much MORE under the surface to come out later. Like when you reach the height of your success, only to be dropped like a sack of sh1t because they can't handle it. Remember: if you're going to dismiss the red flags at the start, at LEAST put them away in a back-pocket "list" so you can consult later, when things invariably go wrong as will happen the majority of the time people ignore their instincts pointing out a "bad thing". Consult the list EVERY time you feel sh1t turning south, I'm positive you will not only see the red flags still there but that there are now MORE for your list. When the list becomes overwhelming, hopefully that'll give you courage to leave, knowing you made a mistake (it happens, forgive yourself, but do NOT be stubborn - walk away when they show you how sh1t they are!)
Emma Stone is my top favorite actresses! She never fails on delivering the perfect comedic timing, (even if she doesn’t feel this way) complied with her superb facial expressions she is always on point! I literally cannot get enough of her ❤
I love this movie and cry every time I watch it, I was born in MS and I'm 68 living in TX since I was 6 years old and never understood why ppl of any color had to be treated the way they were in this movie...it was all for the egos and awful beliefs that made them think they had to be that way, my mom told me she played with black kids in the 1930's and knew no difference in those children and herself she loved and treated everyone equally, she taught us 4 kids that all of us sre equal in God's eyes and I'm thankful we were taught that way!! I wouldn't have lived in MS knowing how different it was there!!
His actor did a fantastic job because I didn't like Stuart from the start, he was just so gross. I yelled when Skeeter agreed to let him take her to dinner after giving her his half-hearted and aggressive apology. No respect for anyone but himself.
The pov when he said "professional husband hunting" like everyone says girls make it all about themselves, well that's because we had to deal with history of men making it about themselves. I'll just say the scales are balancing out finally
I actually like that they show him breaking up with her. That is reality. No good deeds go unpunished - doing the right thing is often extremely hard, isolating, and thankless. It’s not all hearts and rainbows. But at least you can die knowing you weren’t a total piece of shit.
@@CucumberstopicklesWait I have only ever heard "grapist" in one other setting and it was on a show called Skins. Was he actually a pervert, or is this some comical thang?
She was great. I also love Emma stone in almost anything she’s ever done. The other girl who played the really sweet, naive, blonde housewife who wasn’t from that town was also great in this movie. Huge all star cast here.
This one made me realized how good I am. When he came to apologized, I was actually thinking that he's not such a bad guy and he just said those things just to turn her off since he said he wasn't ready but then I remembered that he didn't show up for like 3 dates? That was a red flag already.
Anyone can marry... but it takes courage and truthfulness to humble yourself and tell the other person that YOU can not go through with it for whatever reason. I know a couple people who did that. It ended being the best decisions they made, for themselves and the other person. It is wrong and miss leading and selfish if you don't speak up before hand. You are hurting yourself and them. And worse if there are red flags of abuse before a marriage and a person goes into it anyways, thinking things will change after the honeymoon...Not!
Missed opportunity for character development. They could’ve had the guy read the book when it came out and realize how much of a great writer she is. Not necessarily completely changing his mind about his world perspective but showing growth and effort to understand. I think male audience members would’ve related to that. And saying something like "this wasn’t about men" yes but it’s hard to fix a problem without offering a solution.
With the way he ended things, he wouldn't have wanted to be involved in any way. Pushing him to do it wouldn't help. It might be years after the fact if he gets curious and it crosses his mind.
@@TastyGamingQcbut in what would would he become a non racist okay with a. Radical wife man ? His whole world would change. Friends would stop talking to him parents might be racist too like ur little blurp is very very simplified idea. Everyone in these comments seem to be white cuz how is this just a “male vs female” thing. A black man wouldn’t break up with her for that lol
one week. i dated him as friends. one week and it's all it took to know he was exactly like this guy. maybe worse. i blocked him. moved on. he blocked me and came back. the second week was him being absent and me blocking him from every place I did not the first time (he won those accounts the first time so I was ready to block him as soon as he would come back) Edit: good grief he really 💀 he came back. I'm writing this 13 days after the original comment: apparently he cannot accept I don't want to be his friend (his definition of friends is being friends with benefits.) I blocked him again.
Well... They get together but then he calls her selfish and dumps her because she writes the book after he encouraged her to write what she was passionate about then he called her selfish and dumped her so this man doesn't get any kudos he's just as bad as everybody else
He did show his true colors when Skeeter found her niche in writing, and was clearly threatened by her talent and intellect. The irony is that he's mocking the very type of "wife" he wants - one he can feel superior to. He's an insecure idiot. Great film: "The Help"
Professional husband hunters... This dude don't know it, but we got straight, married (or formerly married, or soon to be married men in our ranks too. I know four of them. Five, if you count my old supervisor. We used to have another five who quit or got fired for various reasons, with three of those being better job opportunities. More importantly, not all women want to get married. I'm 33, never been kissed, never dated, never partied or slept with anyone. Based on when my roommate and I had only one bed and had to share it, no man would want me sleeping in his bed. I'd break his nose, and not even know about it until he howled in pain. Apparently, I flail. He acts all classy, but his judgement is rubbish.
Man... say what he wants to hear ; he has a negative comment. Say something he doesn't want to hear ; has a negative comment. Truly not husband material. Not humble.
Things really changed after the 60's and women for the most part really detest the concept of husband hunting. Job hunting is the rage,.. independent living, I know for me, seeing the stepford wives movie really took husband hunting out of my vocabulary.
@@sunnyday4055What are you talking about? Which perspective? Hetero men or hetero women in the 1960's? Both are valid. Their parents survived ww2 and grandparents ww1. Plus the 1930's was on parents in grandparents memories... so yeah I'm a little off topic. But what podcast?
@@sunnyday4055Well said. Only thing I'd add on addition is "and have your eighth j/o session for the day." The end. That speaks for a healthy number of those guys btw.
Love the way she just told it as she seen it…you go girl!! Even back in the day when it would seem more proper to find a husband and carry on with your life
i mean he’s kind of right tho. i am a woman and most girls i know are like this. their focus is on becoming someone who can attract and secure a husband. i find it sickening.
I read this book “The Help”. Long before the movie came out. One of few films that actually was done pretty well compared the novel. Now that is very rare. Still if you like reading I’d recommend reading the book first.
I couldnt understand why she decided to give him a second chance. If a man shows you his true character up front in the beginning , its not gna change. He will still be that same D bag weeks, months, even yrs later. I love her though!
"where you dropped on your head" I think people forget this is things that actually do happen. Kids fall and bump their heads some more than others. So who's to say it's not playing a part on the person. If you understand head injuries that is or the person could be just have a learning disability. 🤨
I hate fake southern accents so much. I’m not trying to hate on the actors or anything, obviously they aren’t southern and they are just doing what they’ve been taught. I’m sure it’s the same with certain other accents too. Even though I’m not actually deeply offended, there’s always that feeling I get when I hear a fake southern accent in a movie or series or something. Like I’m pissed off but not actually mad, lol idk. I’ve just been getting a lot of reels and shorts come across my social media apps lately that contain scenes from something that has a character in it with a fake southern accent. And I know southern accents are different all across the south. But still….ew, I cringe so much when I hear the fake ones. Montana Jordan, Georgie from Young Sheldon, has the perfect accent. Which of course he’s actually from Texas. And I’m from Mississippi. And we mostly sound like he does. Slight differences here and there. But actors need to just watch a bunch of Young Sheldon and use him as practice for their fake southern accents. Also, depending on how deep you go into the south, depends on whether or not the people pretty much just make banjo noises when they speak. The more south you go, the more Cajun it gets. And I see that mistake made on TV a lot, actors trying to do fake southern accents but not correctly implementing certain sounds and twang from the particular area their character is from. Okay, rant over. 😮💨
"we were engaged. She ended it."
"I'm sure she did." 😆😆😆👏
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Let me not fix that
Jk
But it’s Acc so funny
Found it amusing how he had the nerve to mock her trying to find a husband when he failed to make a woman his wife.
Mocking a woman for husband hunting when that was the only respectable option for them at the time. Like a woman not being a fly on the wall waiting and instead finding the man she actually wants was a negative
@@Oddbisket exactly
Especially since that’s not what she’s trying to do, either. It’s such an insult to her career and education to call it a mere “house-keeping column” as if the world revolves around them.
Yup. Sounds like men's logic. Make something women's only option and then degrade her about it when she uses said option. Typical.
That’s what they do now.
He cared more about his reputation & appearance. He was afraid of how the book's subject matter would affect his social life. That's why he called her selfish when he broke up with her. Which was ironic since he was only thinking of himself, not her safety or the safety of the women she wrote about
Indeed~
He projected his negative traits onto her. That’s what happens in toxic relationships.
What's not funny is, some biographies have changed perspectives.
That's the first thing I remembered when I saw him.
Whats funny is that i remember this scene but i don't remember them dating in the movie😂
When people show you who they are, believe them.
Believe them the first time!
@@tianna1116 😊
You honestly need to experience some heartache or being stung to understand this.
And when they show you who they truly are..RUN! DON’T WALK! RUN! 😂❤
I’d like to think this applies more when a man you’re seeing suddenly disappears on you after date 25 without any explanation and when things were actually going great 😑
That's why you drop them at the first sign of disrespect. Anyone who treats you like a type is stuck in the past and is not ready for a relationship.❤
EDIT: Whoa, I did not think I was going to get this many likes. Remember everyone, you deserve better than to be belitted by anyone. Always keep your self-respect and your head up.
Well said.
💯
Correct!
You can say that again.
signed, Voice of Experience
Geez why weren't people saying this 20yrs ago ?
I wish he had supported Skeeter when the book came out. He liked her because she wasn’t one of the typical girls and was willing to stand up for herself and for what was right. He supported her all the way to her success and then he dropped her like a sack of potatoes. Maybe that’s the red flags she missed in the beginning scene when she meets him.
I think he was afraid cause doing that kind of stuff she did can put a target on you, still wasn’t right the way he acted I was disappointed in him I felt like he had potential but he didn’t in the end
He was toxic and showed his red flags since day one
Skeeter is too smart to miss red flags. She knew. She just wanted to please her mother. She was smart, funny, interesting and way ahead of her time. In other words, way too good for him. So it all worked out how it was supposed to in the end.
@@Queensarah69What book did you read? Because that isn't what happened!
Men
movie is "the help" if anyone wanted to know
Thank you, you're a savior ❤
Thank you!
THANK YOU
Thanks. We did.
Thank you
That was the difference between him and Johnny. Johnny didn’t care that Celia was from the wrong side of the tracks and she couldn’t cook or keep house. She was kind and sweet and he loved her for all her flaws - no wonder he dumped Hilly.
Every woman he dates will pay for his fiancé dumping his sorry butt!
But learn a valuable lesson as he is too self-destructive for a marriage to materialize unless the girl truly cares nothing on having a romantic relationship with him.
Facts & logic, Amen!
That sounds crazy 😢
AMEN TO THAT 👍
Great for his finance though and good for him ending things between them, because he really shows himself then
“Im sure she did”
The sarcastic way she said it was so funny 🤣
Right! 😁😃😄
Took me out 😂💀
First opportunity to put the blame back on her, he took it. Classy.
Narc behavior, frfr
Eh, at least he tried to apologize. You don’t get that from most people, especially those that seem to think they aren’t narcissists
@Drm3221 Yes.. he did begin to apologize when he thought it was his fault. But he could have been a gentleman and said something along the lines of, "You know we both seem to have a bit of growing.. if you can forgive my behavior, I would love nothing more than to figure this out together." Or something like that.
@@jonathansfavoritesWell said.
Sarcasm noted
This guy is a walking red flag
Same as most women
@jn2428 oh god, you're one of those 🙄
This guy just doesn't know when to shut up. And she needs to run from him. He is disrespectful.
Both of their statements were harsh and equally enlightening to how they ended up in their relationship status.
This is a fictional story, but you got mad about it anyway. 😂😂😂
@@slappy8941Found the dudebro
@@mindyours752 Yes, Skeeter's words were harsh because he started being harsh towards her.
@@mindyours752he started it, but sure don't blame men for provoking women, but always blame women for provoking men. Double standards
When he cussed at her for not immediately forgiving him all I thought was "nope, get gone" because that ain't it
An apology in his eyes. Pissed that she wouldnt take it & then telling her his excuse as if she'll join his pity party
He turned out to be one of THOSE who says: “Why you gotta write this book and stir up all this trouble? Things are FINE around here!”
😱🙄😡
😢
Typical male mindset.
in all fairness its the same reason the maids were scared was because everyone was generally afraid of the klan and the ones in power who didnt hesitate to deal with you for acting out.
It's funny how his red flags was big and bright but she still liked the guy and they just didn't mesh. They were so different in so many ways he was attracted to her firecracker personality but didn't respect her telling truth and fighting the norm because of how he was raised. The relationship was doomed no matter what.
Skeeter is very bright, so she knew all that deep down. I just think that between being a late bloomer who was excited about finally having the attention of a man and dating for the first time and also wanting to make her mother happy, she got caught up a little. She always saw the red flags, but she was ignoring them.
It was actually her mom who makes her to go out with him in the first place
lucky for her he finally let's her know the truth about who he really is! Not a strong man . She needs a real one who supports her
“I’m shore she dyid” 😂😂😂
If it wasn't because of the whole situationship - since before 1776AD - I'd openely say that Southern USA accent is the most attractive American accent.
Maybe also California accent - whatever that _really_ sounds like.
I think the dude actor is a Californian, doing a Southern USA accent.
@@echezona.ukachukwuas a Texan, I’m glad I’m not the only one to notice the fake southern accent!
Southern accents come in many different forms, Texan accents sound way different depending on which part of the state you're from. I grew up in the panhandle and have lived in dallas, east texas, and San Antonio. All three have different accents from the other. I've also been to Mississippi several times and the accents out there seem to be a lot more drawn out then Southern accents in Texas lol. She didn't do too bad tbh
@@rivermay8679 true!
the southern accents in this movie were pretty bad 😭
What makes us tolerate this behaviour? I think it's when they don't display it immediately, and we're already addicted to them before the bad parts come in
I love a straightforward woman...haven't found a dude that can survive the two edged sword of my tongue....zero tolerance for BS...life is too short
Just don't be mean or lose track and come down a bit too hard, and you'll be fine
Who needs more of those stupid two edged swords? It's like this world hasn't got enough of those! The problem with those people is they think they are smart when they lash out and cut people down! That is nothing to be proud of- it's dumb!
@@solitaryman777I don't think they were asking for advice although it is good advice they are talking about people who lie and calling them out
@@ambereyedbabygirl😅 his name is solitary man~ wonder why? don't engage with him bestie❤😘
You won't as you would make the man who is your best fit, after some time walk away. Unless you are being anti-romantic relationship then keep doing you.
An apology:
1. Say "I am Sorry" as loud and as public as the offence.
2. Say what you are sorry for. *If it is not why they are upset see section be)
3. Tell them the corrective action you will take to avoid the offense in the future. If unsure ask them.
4. Expect to never be forgiven because they don't have to.
An example of why we don't forget the red flags from the start of the relationship. If they show those flags so early, when the stakes are HIGHEST (still trying to "woo" and "win" the new partner) there will only be that much MORE under the surface to come out later. Like when you reach the height of your success, only to be dropped like a sack of sh1t because they can't handle it.
Remember: if you're going to dismiss the red flags at the start, at LEAST put them away in a back-pocket "list" so you can consult later, when things invariably go wrong as will happen the majority of the time people ignore their instincts pointing out a "bad thing". Consult the list EVERY time you feel sh1t turning south, I'm positive you will not only see the red flags still there but that there are now MORE for your list. When the list becomes overwhelming, hopefully that'll give you courage to leave, knowing you made a mistake (it happens, forgive yourself, but do NOT be stubborn - walk away when they show you how sh1t they are!)
Emma Stone is my top favorite actresses! She never fails on delivering the perfect comedic timing, (even if she doesn’t feel this way) complied with her superb facial expressions she is always on point! I literally cannot get enough of her ❤
I love this movie and cry every time I watch it, I was born in MS and I'm 68 living in TX since I was 6 years old and never understood why ppl of any color had to be treated the way they were in this movie...it was all for the egos and awful beliefs that made them think they had to be that way, my mom told me she played with black kids in the 1930's and knew no difference in those children and herself she loved and treated everyone equally, she taught us 4 kids that all of us sre equal in God's eyes and I'm thankful we were taught that way!! I wouldn't have lived in MS knowing how different it was there!!
Totally disrespectful ! RUN!
When someone shows you who they are ....believe them the first time !
Movie is The Help. Great movie
The scene with the chocolate pie 😂😂😂😂 "Have you lost your mind?" "No, but you about to!" 😂😂😂😂😂
Even more excellent was the book, but they always are 💞
And thanks for the title! 🙏🏼
Thank you!
Thank you! I kept reading comments because I didn't know the name of the movie. LOL
I love it!
His actor did a fantastic job because I didn't like Stuart from the start, he was just so gross. I yelled when Skeeter agreed to let him take her to dinner after giving her his half-hearted and aggressive apology. No respect for anyone but himself.
DON'T make others pay for a
crime against by another person!
I can understand why this girl and his girlfriend rejected him
Yeah, they should probably just lez out and get some cats.
Lool, you're trying to bat for a sexist idiot? Wow I hope trolling pays and keeps you warm at night😚 @rouninpanda6318
This is why women choose the bear. 🐻
This is where Emma stone should’ve won an Oscar, not that stinky la la land
One of the best movies ever made! The Help
Lol thanks for the title :D
I first saw clips of this movie on TH-cam.
My husband got me the dvd and we both
loved it. One of my favourite films ever ❤
The pov when he said "professional husband hunting" like everyone says girls make it all about themselves, well that's because we had to deal with history of men making it about themselves. I'll just say the scales are balancing out finally
& just when he talks about professional husband hunting, hilly enters the picture 😂
I hate this music on every TH-cam short
Many clips get banned or something because of copyright issues. So this one audio thing gets put in to avoid that.
Same here!
@@heart_beat_s354then there doesn’t need to be ANY music at all
Just enjoy the video & ignore the music!
I kinda have love & hate relationship with this music 😂
I actually like that they show him breaking up with her. That is reality. No good deeds go unpunished - doing the right thing is often extremely hard, isolating, and thankless. It’s not all hearts and rainbows. But at least you can die knowing you weren’t a total piece of shit.
Read the book first & then again BEFORE watching the movie. The movie is great, but the book.... hot damn!
Which was first?
@@talltalllady-----book
@@Mary-cz5nl Do they both have the same name?
Who is the author?
@@talltalllady Yes
Sir. It’s called an MRS degree. Have some respect for the hustle.
This is one of the best movies ever made. Superior acting, important story, on point script. Just ❤
“ Don’t get the girlies all riled up na “ 😂😂😂😂
I didn't realize thats the same actor in GLOW and he is AMAZING in that. Love bash. And he is so different in this i didnt even recognize him haha
Didn’t he also play the creepy grapist from Promising Young Woman? That is where I recognized him from.
@Cucumberstopickles oh im not sure ive never seen that. But hey probably! He is a chameleon apparently! Hahah
Just to save everyone the time searching for a movie named Glow with this actor, it's not a movie, it's a series
I first saw him as "Piz" in Veronica Mars season 3 in which he plays (excellently, I might add) a gentle & kind boy next door.
@@CucumberstopicklesWait I have only ever heard "grapist" in one other setting and it was on a show called Skins.
Was he actually a pervert, or is this some comical thang?
A true Southern lady. Dry pain is a slap of reality without an actual slap ! Dry slap!
Emma Stone is awesome
I love her in this movie! And I love how she stood up for herself in a time that wasn’t considered ladylike!!!!!
She was great. I also love Emma stone in almost anything she’s ever done. The other girl who played the really sweet, naive, blonde housewife who wasn’t from that town was also great in this movie. Huge all star cast here.
This one made me realized how good I am. When he came to apologized, I was actually thinking that he's not such a bad guy and he just said those things just to turn her off since he said he wasn't ready but then I remembered that he didn't show up for like 3 dates? That was a red flag already.
It’s hilarious how she cuts his monologues mocking him but he carries on on the same tune.
Anyone can marry... but it takes courage and truthfulness to humble yourself and tell the other person that YOU can not go through with it for whatever reason. I know a couple people who did that. It ended being the best decisions they made, for themselves and the other person. It is wrong and miss leading and selfish if you don't speak up before hand. You are hurting yourself and them. And worse if there are red flags of abuse before a marriage and a person goes into it anyways, thinking things will change after the honeymoon...Not!
In those years woman got stuck with the man they married for life. Imagine living with him for 40+ years. The agony …
“She ended it” yeah I can see why 😂😂
I couldn't stand that guy. She actually gave him a chance but made the right choice to bounce.
She’s very pretty!
"Well that must be it then, it's your fault not me." Is what he thought right then.
Missed opportunity for character development.
They could’ve had the guy read the book when it came out and realize how much of a great writer she is. Not necessarily completely changing his mind about his world perspective but showing growth and effort to understand. I think male audience members would’ve related to that.
And saying something like "this wasn’t about men" yes but it’s hard to fix a problem without offering a solution.
The movie is based on a novel by the same name. That's how his character is removed from the story
@@JMac7395 a movie is never 100% like a book. Imo this could’ve been changed especially if his character ultimately amounted to nothing.
And the novel was based on episodes of the author's real life. So I just always assumed that meant this quarter-wit good ole boy was based in reality.
With the way he ended things, he wouldn't have wanted to be involved in any way. Pushing him to do it wouldn't help. It might be years after the fact if he gets curious and it crosses his mind.
@@TastyGamingQcbut in what would would he become a non racist okay with a. Radical wife man ? His whole world would change. Friends would stop talking to him parents might be racist too like ur little blurp is very very simplified idea.
Everyone in these comments seem to be white cuz how is this just a “male vs female” thing. A black man wouldn’t break up with her for that lol
4:19 was heartwarming
He was a good man and a good father
I wish I could’ve had a dad like that
one week. i dated him as friends. one week and it's all it took to know he was exactly like this guy. maybe worse. i blocked him. moved on. he blocked me and came back. the second week was him being absent and me blocking him from every place I did not the first time (he won those accounts the first time so I was ready to block him as soon as he would come back)
Edit: good grief he really 💀 he came back. I'm writing this 13 days after the original comment: apparently he cannot accept I don't want to be his friend (his definition of friends is being friends with benefits.) I blocked him again.
I haven't seen this movie yet but I'm glad at least the guy apologised :)
You call that an apology!? You should raise your standards.
That's the standard now? Just a sorry of apology?
Well... They get together but then he calls her selfish and dumps her because she writes the book after he encouraged her to write what she was passionate about then he called her selfish and dumped her so this man doesn't get any kudos he's just as bad as everybody else
You should really watch the movie. It's excellent.❤
He's garbage. But this movie is great. You're missing out.
He did show his true colors when Skeeter found her niche in writing, and was clearly threatened by her talent and intellect. The irony is that he's mocking the very type of "wife" he wants - one he can feel superior to. He's an insecure idiot. Great film: "The Help"
‘Hell yeah, stinky men’ 😂.
IYKYK
That "girl" stood up to that "boy" like a WOMAN.
And yet she still went to date him. He showed several red flags, in less than five minutes.
Professional husband hunters...
This dude don't know it, but we got straight, married (or formerly married, or soon to be married men in our ranks too.
I know four of them.
Five, if you count my old supervisor.
We used to have another five who quit or got fired for various reasons, with three of those being better job opportunities.
More importantly, not all women want to get married.
I'm 33, never been kissed, never dated, never partied or slept with anyone.
Based on when my roommate and I had only one bed and had to share it, no man would want me sleeping in his bed.
I'd break his nose, and not even know about it until he howled in pain.
Apparently, I flail.
He acts all classy, but his judgement is rubbish.
@@cosmicwanderer7 your comment would mean a lot more if you werent a muslim
She was right in walking out. He’s a rude & crude guy. No wonder his ex broke off with him
When she said “stinky,” it reminded me of her SNL skit when she played a poster model. 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
I love Emma Stone❤
I knew she look familiar i love her too ❤
The fact that Hilly picked him makes him a red flag 😅
He needs to be given a long, long time in solitary!!!
Wagging his finger at her. Brave! 😂
Man... say what he wants to hear ; he has a negative comment.
Say something he doesn't want to hear ; has a negative comment.
Truly not husband material.
Not humble.
Things really changed after the 60's and women for the most part really detest the concept of husband hunting. Job hunting is the rage,.. independent living, I know for me, seeing the stepford wives movie really took husband hunting out of my vocabulary.
They detest being confronted with facts
@@Ronkyort0dox
Go listen to your podcast. No one cares about your opinion here
@@sunnyday4055What are you talking about? Which perspective? Hetero men or hetero women in the 1960's? Both are valid.
Their parents survived ww2 and grandparents ww1. Plus the 1930's was on parents in grandparents memories... so yeah I'm a little off topic. But what podcast?
@@sunnyday4055Well said.
Only thing I'd add on addition is "and have your eighth j/o session for the day."
The end. That speaks for a healthy number of those guys btw.
My only problem with this movie was that Skeeter didn't find herself her own Johnny like Celia
What movie is this?
The Help
Love the way she just told it as she seen it…you go girl!! Even back in the day when it would seem more proper to find a husband and carry on with your life
i mean he’s kind of right tho. i am a woman and most girls i know are like this. their focus is on becoming someone who can attract and secure a husband. i find it sickening.
I read this book “The Help”. Long before the movie came out. One of few films that actually was done pretty well compared the novel. Now that is very rare. Still if you like reading I’d recommend reading the book first.
I couldnt understand why she decided to give him a second chance. If a man shows you his true character up front in the beginning , its not gna change. He will still be that same D bag weeks, months, even yrs later. I love her though!
I really loved this movie.
❤❤❤
"where you dropped on your head" I think people forget this is things that actually do happen. Kids fall and bump their heads some more than others. So who's to say it's not playing a part on the person. If you understand head injuries that is or the person could be just have a learning disability. 🤨
Probably should have known the kind of person this guy was considering he was introduced as a friend of *HILLY'S* .
One of my all time favorite MOVIES!!!!!
Awesome music track. I just can’t hear it enough. Thank you.
So annoying when there’s no movie title
What’s the name of this movie? Is it worth watching? Looks like The Help
Emma stone is a really good actress and very beautiful
Why not include the name of the movie with these wonderful clips
you could tell me this was from Why Women Kill and I'd believe you.
It's our favourite song! 🥰🥰🥰
Men's radar antennas raised when she said "i haven't really dated anyone before"😊
Please please please play Time And Hope on all your future uploads! We just can't get enough of it!!! 😂
I bet she is just as funny and sarcastic in real life! 🤣 she knows the score! 😂😂😂😂😂
The fact that she picked him anyways made me lose a ton of respect for her
Well now we know why the engagement didn't last 😂
Respect Gwen Stacy dude, she's a queen!
MOVIE IS " DRIVING MISS DAISY" IF ANYONE WANTED TO KNOW
He did her way WORST in the book!!!
I loved this part of the movie…just like every other scene. Beautifully done.
I hate fake southern accents so much. I’m not trying to hate on the actors or anything, obviously they aren’t southern and they are just doing what they’ve been taught. I’m sure it’s the same with certain other accents too. Even though I’m not actually deeply offended, there’s always that feeling I get when I hear a fake southern accent in a movie or series or something. Like I’m pissed off but not actually mad, lol idk. I’ve just been getting a lot of reels and shorts come across my social media apps lately that contain scenes from something that has a character in it with a fake southern accent. And I know southern accents are different all across the south. But still….ew, I cringe so much when I hear the fake ones. Montana Jordan, Georgie from Young Sheldon, has the perfect accent. Which of course he’s actually from Texas. And I’m from Mississippi. And we mostly sound like he does. Slight differences here and there. But actors need to just watch a bunch of Young Sheldon and use him as practice for their fake southern accents. Also, depending on how deep you go into the south, depends on whether or not the people pretty much just make banjo noises when they speak. The more south you go, the more Cajun it gets. And I see that mistake made on TV a lot, actors trying to do fake southern accents but not correctly implementing certain sounds and twang from the particular area their character is from. Okay, rant over. 😮💨
this is the first time i’m realizing how much that man taunting skeeter looks like mr johnny
Hilly even left him lololxoxoxo
The Universe guided me here and I absolutely love your vibe 😊❤
I honestly wish Hollywood wouldn’t even attempt the Southern accent. They always make such a hot mess of it. This is impossible to listen to.
The one tune that transcends every scene.