This lady says she can’t teach him how to be a man. So this brother sounds like he’s trying to. Got him a job at the shop, making him buy his own shoes. He’s trying, Sis. This is what fathers do.
Just my opinion: The son doesn’t need to be in the courtroom, hearing this. This is grown folk conversations. Everyone will have their side of the story.
@@tom11zz884 I don’t care if he was 40 years old. I don’t want to hear bs about my parents & their issues or who’s trying to convince me, who’s right or wrong, that’s what I’m talking about.
At the end the son said “I feel good ab the results bc it’s always been a question” the mom said “a question for who?” The dad and Doyle’s face when the dad said “everybody considering you” 😂😂😂😆🤣🤣🤣🤣 This lady is crazy and not in tune with reality!
I came back to this case a year later.. this man did nothing but try to be a father. The mom is bitter and she’s a fast talker.. I dnt trust a fast talker.. she’s also delusional.
My point exactly!!! She has some nerve, when she was lying. In her head she really thinks she's not wrong. Why make that statement 🙄 The young man was expressing expressing his feelings. She straight up trifling!!!!
She needs to step outside of her shame and into her truth. The truth will always set you free, not the lies. You can tell there are certain things about her past that she hasn’t accepted or is ashamed of, look how uptight she is on the subject matter. You can’t raise your son in the fullness of who he is, if you’re still running from your shadows. Own it, forgive it, keep rising.
@@jonifox3822 you can feel ashamed about being abused too, survivors guilt even, once she sees thats she’s stronger than that and know her son will never be like who hurt her is when she will be free. Shes gotta forgive herself too
Right! People always bothered me about not having kids when I was in my 20s or 30s. I refused to because I’ve been there. The woman who had me had 3 kids by 3 different men. My father had 3 kids by 3 different women, of course one of my siblings from my father has me and two other sisters who each have different fathers, and of course my sister too, same. Nobody has the same . Not one of us on either side. I would never do that to a child
As a mother with a young son it was hard for me to step back and let his step father raise him equally as I have at first. I tried to play the father roll for him but I’m just NOT a father. I did what I could. I wanted to protect and be mama bear but that wasn’t teaching him the skills he would need in his future. Once I let go of my ego and swallowed my pride I am now able to watch them two form this incredible bond that only a father and son could have. The best decision I ever made. My daughters also have an incredible man that teaches them how to be treated by loving their mother unconditionally. I love Judge Mathis for always pointing out these things. Sometimes it’s hard to hear something about yourself but once we know better we must do better.
"Questions because of who?" YOOOOOOOOOUUUUU! He didn't tell the other man he was the father, YOU did.🤦🏿♂️ I tried to have sympathy for the circumstances but she irked TF outta me with that one. Congrats on doing the right thing Sir, regardless. As well as your business. As a felon myself, I salute you💯
i saved all my allowance and my mom took all of it, i guess that was her way of saying i needed to pay a bill. i think it's so great that his son had the opportunity to work and learn about responsibility
When I was 15 I had a job through my school summer program. My mom took me to open a bank account then she went and took my money because she needed it without letting me know until I brought something up about getting it. That wasn't cool to do it in that way. I don't care what it was needed for I worked for it. I may have been a minor but a simple conversation about what she was doing would have went over better than her just taking it.
It's so sad that when someone can't articulate what they are trying to say in the best way, the person who can articulate themselves seems more believable.
Naw the judge is right on this one. Whether she could articulate or not, it sounds like Dad is trying to be a stand up man. That DNA should’ve been handled a long time ago, then there would be no question. That was her responsibility to make sure it was done. Momma’s baby, Daddy’s maybe. Then he can’t be an asshole 16 years later
The fact that he stood by his father speaks volumes. Sometimes parents can spew a bad story about the other parent out of hurt or being vindictive. PSHats off to the dad for refusing to reimburse his son. Far too many entitled/spoiled behaviors from children these days.
"He stood by his father"...For me this does not mean anything. I don't understand why people can imagine they know someone's life or inner thoughts just by watching a 14minutes clips...
It’s BEEN a question so YES GIRL HUSH!! Women, NOBODY interferes with how you Mother, so if ya’ll want your spoiled ass sons to be Fathered-LET THESE DAMN MEN BE FATHERS!! Protecting, providing and respecting gets better with practice and consistency.❤️
@@justmezkut10up Yessir! Kings make this world GO ROUND!! Period! Love honor and respect ya’ll to the FULLEST! Happy Father’s Day again on this Fridayyyyy!! HaHa🎊💪🏾💯
@cornelius washington I’m with ya when you’re RIGHT, King. You summed a Bitter Baby Momma up to the T. Sad to Women who can ONLY respect and submit to a Man with threats of getting their ass beat.
One night stand usually ends that night it doesn’t continue and I’m sorry idc how the son is he doesn’t need to be in the courtroom hearing all of this you can tell he’s uncomfortable and he’s hurt and he had no business texting his son that if he did.
What is most upset is that people including the judge forget the mother has been there the boy's whole life. She raised him. Wow, after he got out of jail for two summers he did things with his kid. Hopefully he will do more. The mother has been doing most of the work and she sure as heck shouldn't be put down for it.
Facts and the guy himself said when she told him about it he had to be taken away by the police for beating her again for it WHILE SHE WAS PREGNANT. She knew but was scared for her and her baby so she lied to one man not the other cus she knew what she did and who she did it with and when and she was right 🤷🏼♀️ When he said he had him for two summers I was like okay and what else 😭 normally he tells ppl yow you have kids you have to find the money and I feel like there’s so much lenience on fathers they can do the bare minimum and get off but the moms do the most and still get shamed for their flaws.
At the end, the son couldn't have a say about how he felt because the mother jumped in with a negative comment. How selfish and sad as to not allow her son a moment of happiness.☹
So I have mixed feelings about this case. I feel the man did the best he could when he got out of prison. The mother seems bothered and I understand why. While be was in prison the child was all on her. She put in all the work and it's like she's angry and hurt. It's like hes popping in when the job is half over and because they live in different states she still carries a lot of the responsibility. She needs to let that go and heal. Get counseling. I just see hurt all over her. She needs to realize her son is hurting too and she needs to address that before it's too late. She needs to encourage her son to build a healthy relationship with his father.
It's a shame that the mother seems too overwhelmed to articulate herself. When the judge starts picking at her and siding with the man, because once again he gets emotional, she seems to get even more stressed/unable to articulate. What is absolutely terrible though is that this little boy is in here hearing all this.
Dad is handsome.. First! And I'm sooo happy that he stood up even though he wasn't sure. That speaks VOLUMES about his character weather he was in jail or not. He changed his life around for the better and he will be Blessed. Son knows his dad was right but loves his mom so he had to give her some lil fake props. I respect it but he seems smart, knows mom's got game.. period. Happy Father's Day to Dad.!!!!
He needed to be in the court to get this full experience. He needed to learn that his momma ain't a saint she's been a liar and he needs to see and feel all that comes with it so he can break that generation curse and be a different man to his woman and kids when the time comes. Now he knows if he has any doubt he should take a test immediately. And sadly he has learned his momma ain't no saint and is responsible for the discrepancy of paternity.
That Momma has got to keep her thoughts to herself. Many of us Moms have been in her shoes. Its not easy to keep quiet. Let the father/son thing happen and we keep on being the Mom's that keep it all together. We were born for this, keeping a family strong. Your children will thank you later for keeping any negativity about their other parent to yourself.
This man said “he’s my son regardless of the results and I love him either way and I’m still gon take care of him” then in the same breath “well if he ain’t my son she owe me for all my money and time!”
I thought I was the only one that felt that. Like… 🤷🏾♀️ what in the world!! Still a better father than many on this show, but that part was confusing.
I think the mother was misunderstood. From my understanding she told the other guy he was the father because he was beating her and she couldn't admit to cheating. Doing so would have made him beat her or worse. But she always told the defendant the truth that it was really him. If JM wasn't so quick to dismiss people once he forms an opinion, I think that would have become more evident.
I have to agree. Jm was too harsh on her, like doesn't he knows beaten women psychology ?! They do or say anything to stop their abuser from beating them...I feel bad for the way JM treated her
@savage bull That simply isn't true. Some battered people find comfort in the arms of another in hopes of getting comfort and/or escaping the fear. However their inability to get away from their abusers keep them in the situation. Visit a battered women's shelter and talk to some of them before judging them.
@@quynifa435 And as a judge - the more educated, trained individual - he needs to be able to delve deeper because not everyone is able to articulate their stories easily. I've seen him do it so he's definitely capable when he can get past his own assumptions.
A child shouldn’t have to endure listening to this foolishness!! She kept saying “ he’s done nothing “ at the same time saying he had the kid with him working for multiple summers 🤦🏾♂️
At first she said he wasn't doing nothing for the kid and then he's keeping the kid teaching the kid man I hate b******. Some of these women out hear just looking for attention because they still have love for the man and they figure if I take him through some things it'll make him love me more." No It Doesn't".
The son was shocked because he didn’t even know all these years but im sure he’s relieved because that’s a horrible thing to live with. Not knowing who your parents are.
Some may say beating your spouse or going to jail twice is turning your back on your son and your community, a bigger issue or as big an issue as being unsure of paternity
@None None right, it was...point was just to put in perspective lying about paternity being labeled such an abhorrent act vs other actions people (any people) do that can be perceived as just as if not more destructive to children, families, partners, communities
Ya know..these parents really need to get it together for the childs sake smh ... Most of these things could be worked out at home with proper communication and simple listening skills
i'm glad the son got to be there. probably a lot of he say she say between the two parents... y'all posting about the son don't need to be there like he a delicate little flower lol
I came back to this case a year later.. this man did nothing but try to be a father. The mom is bitter and she’s a fast talker.. I dnt trust a fast talker.. she’s also delusional.
Idk why when she spoke it reminded me of DMX 😩 with that aside, the reaction after the results was priceless!!! The hug, the way the son said he was satisfied with the results. All beautiful ❤️
Exactly Ciera! I loved that he was a great guy and teaching his son responsibilities and how to be man. I just didn’t like that he sent his son that message. That was mean.
From my understanding she did not tell her son that he has 2 fathers. She only told her abusive ex that he was the father while she knew the defendant was
@@peacefulgirl23 it seems like a few people missed that due JM rant. Sometimes he doesn't take the time to comprehend what is being said to him. He just goes off and doesn't give people the opportunity to correct the misunderstanding.
That baby wanted to cry so bad. He's tired and it seems as though he's her emotional pillow. This happens way too often. As hurtful as it was I'm glad he got to witness it first hand
The defendant put her creditabilty at serious risk when telling the two men they are the fathers of this child. This is the hurting part for the child. She should have gotten DNA testing from the jump when he was a baby.🤔
The first thing out her mouth was about money. She had no right to drag her son through this she should have did a dna test before introducing her son to this man or allowing her son to be in contact with him. My heart aches for this young man and he didn’t deserve to hear her trifling axx testimony. I wish that young man all the success and joy in life because his mother is a piece of work.
I am sooo sick and tired of these grown men coming on national television talking under womans clothes trying to shame the woman. He knows he help no one but come on telling lies.
The end ridiculous still going back and forth in front of that boy then she says question for who like she didn’t tell 2 people they was the father 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
They have to put the pettiness behind them. That poor young man seems as he has the weight of all their resentment for each other on his shoulders. That's not fair. Rise above that for your son, he's worth it.
Happy for him to get the truth!!! Also, kudos to the dad for doing what was right, putting in the effort to bond, and wanting to keep the bond regardless of what the results could've been!
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The son sounds like he heard it all before and know they both have played their part in the drama. I’m Glad that’s his dad.
I agree
I am too
Even after, they're still bickering
Why is that child sitting there listening to all that? I feel bad for him.
Why is that young man sitting there? Considering his age he had more sense than his parents.
That " Child" is almost an adult...
Stop babying these Black men
@@tom11zz884 hes still a child who doesnt need to be wrapped up in his parents fuckup. Allow black children to be children until they're fully grown.
Same here, I feel bad for the child.
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The fact that I was holding my breath and praying he was that dad… it need more men like him
Melissa MacLaine, I agree with you. Imagine the inner peace the children would possess from the beginning
This lady says she can’t teach him how to be a man. So this brother sounds like he’s trying to. Got him a job at the shop, making him buy his own shoes. He’s trying, Sis. This is what fathers do.
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Mom is a piece of work.... I'm just saying
Lol he just wants to avoid spending his own cash.
A REAL MAN that love his son👍.
As a woman you can raise a boy to be a man with morals,honor and Loyalty and respect
That was a hard one to call before the results because the boy looks just like his mom.
Yep, looks like she made him all by herself!
Girls always look like combo of the Father and the Mothers Dad
Boys look like their Mom and their Paternal Grandma mixed
Yes he’s her twin
He sure does, I was like he looks just like his mom. I hope that us the defendant child and it was . I'm glad
She spit him out honestly lol
Just my opinion: The son doesn’t need to be in the courtroom, hearing this. This is grown folk conversations. Everyone will have their side of the story.
He needs to know what to avoid when choosing a woman.
The son is almost an adult himself...lol
What are you talking about? This isn't some 7 year old child here...lol
I agree!
Yeah, we are living in an age of information overload where people have no shame. One of the many reasons the punishment is here.
@@tom11zz884 I don’t care if he was 40 years old. I don’t want to hear bs about my parents & their issues or who’s trying to convince me, who’s right or wrong, that’s what I’m talking about.
The son did not need to hear all of that. It's so important for children not to be a part of grown up conversation
He is not a child. He needs to be treated like a man before he becomes a man. He needed to hear all of that
That baby boy / young man ❤️had his head down…it’s so sad😒
Hearing their story was cringeworthy for him, I was even uncomfortable knowing the son was sitting right there listening
I feel for him, wish him well in life
At the end the son said “I feel good ab the results bc it’s always been a question” the mom said “a question for who?” The dad and Doyle’s face when the dad said “everybody considering you” 😂😂😂😆🤣🤣🤣🤣
This lady is crazy and not in tune with reality!
But mom always said it was is son and sent him photos to him in prison
@@allylondon9579 she also didn’t deny telling another man he was the child’s father.
I came back to this case a year later.. this man did nothing but try to be a father. The mom is bitter and she’s a fast talker.. I dnt trust a fast talker.. she’s also delusional.
My point exactly!!!
She has some nerve, when she was lying. In her head she really thinks she's not wrong.
Why make that statement 🙄
The young man was expressing expressing his feelings.
She straight up trifling!!!!
She needs to step outside of her shame and into her truth. The truth will always set you free, not the lies. You can tell there are certain things about her past that she hasn’t accepted or is ashamed of, look how uptight she is on the subject matter. You can’t raise your son in the fullness of who he is, if you’re still running from your shadows. Own it, forgive it, keep rising.
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Very well said... I completely agree!!!
I know that’s fucking right that shadow gon catch up and kill her one day smh
You did hear her say she was ABUSED
@@jonifox3822 you can feel ashamed about being abused too, survivors guilt even, once she sees thats she’s stronger than that and know her son will never be like who hurt her is when she will be free. Shes gotta forgive herself too
You can't just have kids with just anyone like who really wants to go through all of this drama 🤔
Exactly. I'll never understand it.
Very true.
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Right! People always bothered me about not having kids when I was in my 20s or 30s. I refused to because I’ve been there. The woman who had me had 3 kids by 3 different men. My father had 3 kids by 3 different women, of course one of my siblings from my father has me and two other sisters who each have different fathers, and of course my sister too, same. Nobody has the same . Not one of us on either side. I would never do that to a child
Would love an update show on stories like this one? The young man has alot of potential!
That was awesome; him having his son help with the shop.
Real man shat!
I live in Topeka….wonder what shop it is?
Yes, he could have inherited the shop when his dad retires, if he learns the business
@cornelius washington yes, I don't understand why the boy and his mom didn't see it like that🤷♀️
@@virtuoussoulhealer3644 #period
The mother is something else. JM tried to save her from the embarrassment bc her child was there but she just kept on going.
“At this point I don’t care if he’s my son biologically or not he’s my son “
I reminded that 3 times
As a mother with a young son it was hard for me to step back and let his step father raise him equally as I have at first. I tried to play the father roll for him but I’m just NOT a father. I did what I could. I wanted to protect and be mama bear but that wasn’t teaching him the skills he would need in his future. Once I let go of my ego and swallowed my pride I am now able to watch them two form this incredible bond that only a father and son could have. The best decision I ever made. My daughters also have an incredible man that teaches them how to be treated by loving their mother unconditionally. I love Judge Mathis for always pointing out these things. Sometimes it’s hard to hear something about yourself but once we know better we must do better.
He sounds like a straight up guy, that has a street past. I hope he stay in the young man life.
"Questions because of who?"
YOOOOOOOOOUUUUU!
He didn't tell the other man he was the father, YOU did.🤦🏿♂️
I tried to have sympathy for the circumstances but she irked TF outta me with that one.
Congrats on doing the right thing Sir, regardless. As well as your business. As a felon myself, I salute you💯
Did you hear why though, the ex was trying to beat her, she said she feared for her life
Right she was still on some BS
same...
i saved all my allowance and my mom took all of it, i guess that was her way of saying i needed to pay a bill. i think it's so great that his son had the opportunity to work and learn about responsibility
When I was 15 I had a job through my school summer program. My mom took me to open a bank account then she went and took my money because she needed it without letting me know until I brought something up about getting it. That wasn't cool to do it in that way. I don't care what it was needed for I worked for it. I may have been a minor but a simple conversation about what she was doing would have went over better than her just taking it.
I dont like when parents do this
😮😮😮 bad parenting
I love Doyle at the endings… He’s either reassuring with you or laughing at cha ass on out the door…😂😂😂
One night stands almost always never end well. You can tell the son is stuck in the middle of their bs. Exclude him out of that mom and dad.
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You clearly see where the drama lies, the woman. Pops is str8 up with it, no nonsense. Keep it moving
Why a women would have a one night stand let alone have the child from it pure desfunction 🥴🥴
It wasn't a one night, he clearly said they had a multiple sexual dealings.
How she afraid of getting beat but cheating on the man tf
Exactly
I was thinking that she was scared to get beaten worse if he found out.
@@jennevamadison3803 yeah, but if you’re so afraid of him, do you cheat on him in the first place ?
She lying 😒😑
Well I believe she was looking and maybe hoping the other guy would take her in, pillow talk.
Damnit man why did they have to try this case in front of the young man? Just ridiculous.
His mom wanted this! Thought it'd help her case maybe..
I wish JM would have sent the son out. I feel his pain.
. . . .because he's heard worse about his dad(s), from his mom.
It's so sad that when someone can't articulate what they are trying to say in the best way, the person who can articulate themselves seems more believable.
Yes. Absolutely
exactly. This was a sad case. I felt so bad for this woman but she just couldnt to articulate her case.
Naw the judge is right on this one. Whether she could articulate or not, it sounds like Dad is trying to be a stand up man. That DNA should’ve been handled a long time ago, then there would be no question. That was her responsibility to make sure it was done. Momma’s baby, Daddy’s maybe. Then he can’t be an asshole 16 years later
She's an emotional mess and a cheater and unscrupulous woman..
The mom is a liar and it's not necessary to defend every woman.
She talk fast as hell tho
Cause she is a liar that's what they do
Yes! Made me exhausted just listening to her!
Momma is SPECIAL but I’m happy for them all, and Dad, you did great too ❤️
"I never changed my story."
Lady, you told another man he was the father. They just lie so easily.
She was getting abused
@@conchitawashington4340 and?
@@ddavis8988 y’all wild 😒
@@ddavis8988 AND?😳MOVE IN SILENCE SIR!!!
The son tried to make peace at the end but the mother just had to turn it around.
The fact that he stood by his father speaks volumes. Sometimes parents can spew a bad story about the other parent out of hurt or being vindictive.
PSHats off to the dad for refusing to reimburse his son. Far too many entitled/spoiled behaviors from children these days.
"He stood by his father"...For me this does not mean anything. I don't understand why people can imagine they know someone's life or inner thoughts just by watching a 14minutes clips...
Its thats such a shame ..smh Parents who put the child in between their mess
@@SimplyASweetHeart right !
It’s BEEN a question so YES GIRL HUSH!! Women, NOBODY interferes with how you Mother, so if ya’ll want your spoiled ass sons to be Fathered-LET THESE DAMN MEN BE FATHERS!! Protecting, providing and respecting gets better with practice and consistency.❤️
Had to give this more 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾's
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@@justmezkut10up Yessir! Kings make this world GO ROUND!! Period! Love honor and respect ya’ll to the FULLEST! Happy Father’s Day again on this Fridayyyyy!! HaHa🎊💪🏾💯
@cornelius washington I’m with ya when you’re RIGHT, King. You summed a Bitter Baby Momma up to the T. Sad to Women who can ONLY respect and submit to a Man with threats of getting their ass beat.
@@onlyoneangelbaby Thank you very much Queen
@@justmezkut10up We Women and the children thank you right BACK, King!!💪🏾💯❤️
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It was the look on the son face after the results were read! PRICELESS
One night stand usually ends that night it doesn’t continue and I’m sorry idc how the son is he doesn’t need to be in the courtroom hearing all of this you can tell he’s uncomfortable and he’s hurt and he had no business texting his son that if he did.
I feel like he's heard it in detail before
@Kenja Thomason you must be a sorry ass parent thinking nothing was wrong with him texting his son saying what he said
What is most upset is that people including the judge forget the mother has been there the boy's whole life. She raised him. Wow, after he got out of jail for two summers he did things with his kid. Hopefully he will do more. The mother has been doing most of the work and she sure as heck shouldn't be put down for it.
Yeah she should. He told two men they was the father. She a liar and playing games with her son.
Facts and the guy himself said when she told him about it he had to be taken away by the police for beating her again for it WHILE SHE WAS PREGNANT. She knew but was scared for her and her baby so she lied to one man not the other cus she knew what she did and who she did it with and when and she was right 🤷🏼♀️ When he said he had him for two summers I was like okay and what else 😭 normally he tells ppl yow you have kids you have to find the money and I feel like there’s so much lenience on fathers they can do the bare minimum and get off but the moms do the most and still get shamed for their flaws.
All things considered, at least the kid seemed to turn out very intelligent and smart.
Damn bruh, you didn't have to mention the relations in front of "her" son.. Geez. I can tell she was embarrassed.
That was intentional, I do believe
In court, you tell the WHOLE truth and nothing but the truth
@@muskegontribune he could've worded it differently.. Ijs
I don't care what was going between the adults. This case should not have been before the young man.
I’m so happy he’s knows his father. Beautiful ending
At the end, the son couldn't have a say about how he felt because the mother jumped in with a negative comment. How selfish and sad as to not allow her son a moment of happiness.☹
So I have mixed feelings about this case. I feel the man did the best he could when he got out of prison. The mother seems bothered and I understand why. While be was in prison the child was all on her. She put in all the work and it's like she's angry and hurt. It's like hes popping in when the job is half over and because they live in different states she still carries a lot of the responsibility. She needs to let that go and heal. Get counseling. I just see hurt all over her. She needs to realize her son is hurting too and she needs to address that before it's too late. She needs to encourage her son to build a healthy relationship with his father.
He is Soooooooo Handsome! 🥰
You’ll both Did GREAT keep up the Greatness! Bless you’ll immensely🙏🏽
She don't even breathe when she talk geeeshhhh...slow down mam
It's a shame that the mother seems too overwhelmed to articulate herself. When the judge starts picking at her and siding with the man, because once again he gets emotional, she seems to get even more stressed/unable to articulate. What is absolutely terrible though is that this little boy is in here hearing all this.
The judge knew she was lying
Dad is handsome.. First! And I'm sooo happy that he stood up even though he wasn't sure. That speaks VOLUMES about his character weather he was in jail or not. He changed his life around for the better and he will be Blessed. Son knows his dad was right but loves his mom so he had to give her some lil fake props. I respect it but he seems smart, knows mom's got game.. period. Happy Father's Day to Dad.!!!!
She’s so bitter .. by her life choices .. be healed .. wow 😳 glad for the son and dad. He loves them both the same.❤️
He needed to be in the court to get this full experience. He needed to learn that his momma ain't a saint she's been a liar and he needs to see and feel all that comes with it so he can break that generation curse and be a different man to his woman and kids when the time comes. Now he knows if he has any doubt he should take a test immediately. And sadly he has learned his momma ain't no saint and is responsible for the discrepancy of paternity.
That Momma has got to keep her thoughts to herself. Many of us Moms have been in her shoes. Its not easy to keep quiet. Let the father/son thing happen and we keep on being the Mom's that keep it all together. We were born for this, keeping a family strong. Your children will thank you later for keeping any negativity about their other parent to yourself.
This man said “he’s my son regardless of the results and I love him either way and I’m still gon take care of him” then in the same breath “well if he ain’t my son she owe me for all my money and time!”
I thought I was the only one that felt that. Like… 🤷🏾♀️ what in the world!! Still a better father than many on this show, but that part was confusing.
And rightly so
@@emancipatedtalent absolutely would agree that she owes him but these two statements cannot co-exist😂
That man is my dad
Fact is he's heard this before between them, second probably doesn't matter he would have seen it on youtube like he is now with all of our comments.
Exactly
I think the mother was misunderstood. From my understanding she told the other guy he was the father because he was beating her and she couldn't admit to cheating. Doing so would have made him beat her or worse. But she always told the defendant the truth that it was really him. If JM wasn't so quick to dismiss people once he forms an opinion, I think that would have become more evident.
I have to agree.
Jm was too harsh on her, like doesn't he knows beaten women psychology ?! They do or say anything to stop their abuser from beating them...I feel bad for the way JM treated her
@@peacefulgirl23 EXACTLY!
I agree however she needs to be able to say that clearly so people have an understanding.
@savage bull That simply isn't true. Some battered people find comfort in the arms of another in hopes of getting comfort and/or escaping the fear. However their inability to get away from their abusers keep them in the situation. Visit a battered women's shelter and talk to some of them before judging them.
@@quynifa435 And as a judge - the more educated, trained individual - he needs to be able to delve deeper because not everyone is able to articulate their stories easily. I've seen him do it so he's definitely capable when he can get past his own assumptions.
A child shouldn’t have to endure listening to this foolishness!! She kept saying “ he’s done nothing “ at the same time saying he had the kid with him working for multiple summers 🤦🏾♂️
Well spoken young man!
At first she said he wasn't doing nothing for the kid and then he's keeping the kid teaching the kid man I hate b******. Some of these women out hear just looking for attention because they still have love for the man and they figure if I take him through some things it'll make him love me more." No It Doesn't".
Yeah... this mother is sketchy smh. She caused it bc she told that lie all those years ago.
I don't believe in having your kids pay any of the utility bills. No, not on their first job. Not as a minor. No. That is not their responsibility.
@Jojo bean Don't speak for all blacks.
It's not the worst thing. When you need help, and they learn responsibility.
@Jojo bean no it's not I never paid no utilities when I lived at home
@Jojo bean I'm not mixed.
@Jojo bean thats not true
That Hug at the end 👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
The son was shocked because he didn’t even know all these years but im sure he’s relieved because that’s a horrible thing to live with. Not knowing who your parents are.
Some may say beating your spouse or going to jail twice is turning your back on your son and your community, a bigger issue or as big an issue as being unsure of paternity
Yea, u see how that was happily skipped over with this case.
@None None right, it was...point was just to put in perspective lying about paternity being labeled such an abhorrent act vs other actions people (any people) do that can be perceived as just as if not more destructive to children, families, partners, communities
Ya know..these parents really need to get it together for the childs sake smh ... Most of these things could be worked out at home with proper communication and simple listening skills
She's on the cusp of trifling. I hope she does better for the sake of the young man.
I agree
Stand up man! A great father🏆
👍👍👍👍💖💖💖 IM SO HAPPY FOR THE SON , AND DAD WAS THERE , EVEN IN JAIL . GREAT🍸🍾💃
Dang” I actually got teary eyed. A pleasant day.
Kudos to that mom, she hurt, his dad seemed to be solid once he was out but that ten years ain't no joke
Good Job Dad! Mom too but this family needs therapy for the trauma you can see in their eyes. I think the son will be a ok... blessings
i'm glad the son got to be there. probably a lot of he say she say between the two parents... y'all posting about the son don't need to be there like he a delicate little flower lol
The way she talks is very annoying
I came back to this case a year later.. this man did nothing but try to be a father. The mom is bitter and she’s a fast talker.. I dnt trust a fast talker.. she’s also delusional.
He’s your son regardless but you want a refund for your expenses if he’s not? 🤣 He could’ve kept that.
Can’t stand parents like this that talk openly about their own bs!
No matter what age
Idk why when she spoke it reminded me of DMX 😩 with that aside, the reaction after the results was priceless!!! The hug, the way the son said he was satisfied with the results. All beautiful ❤️
Omfg how dare him tell that lil boy that through 💬🤬😓 what a wimp‼️
Exactly Ciera! I loved that he was a great guy and teaching his son responsibilities and how to be man. I just didn’t like that he sent his son that message. That was mean.
The nerves of this broad.."...question for who?"
Says the person telling a child he has 2 fathers.
From my understanding she did not tell her son that he has 2 fathers. She only told her abusive ex that he was the father while she knew the defendant was
@@peacefulgirl23 it seems like a few people missed that due JM rant. Sometimes he doesn't take the time to comprehend what is being said to him. He just goes off and doesn't give people the opportunity to correct the misunderstanding.
@@krazychilel exactly ! JM was wrong for that in this case.
The Son Looks So Unhappy.
I'm surprised that Judge Mathis didn't ask the dad if he sent that random text to the son saying He's not his father.
Ladies if you plan to have credibility in Judge Mathis court never tell more than one man they are the father.
That baby wanted to cry so bad. He's tired and it seems as though he's her emotional pillow. This happens way too often. As hurtful as it was I'm glad he got to witness it first hand
I feel bad youngin gotta go thru this bs
I command this man. Hé didn’t let his past ruin his life and accepted his son right from the beginning. Respect
Whoa Top City in the house, I know that brutha way to go bro!!! 🤜🏽🤛🏽
I Loved this Man and his Son!
Son needs to be sitting in the lobby during the case. 👁👁
The defendant put her creditabilty at serious risk when telling the two men they are the fathers of this child. This is the hurting part for the child. She should have gotten DNA testing from the jump when he was a baby.🤔
She lied because it kept her abuser from beating her
How you going to say one minute that he is going to be your son regardless and then turn around and say you want money back if he's not. SMH
The first thing out her mouth was about money. She had no right to drag her son through this she should have did a dna test before introducing her son to this man or allowing her son to be in contact with him. My heart aches for this young man and he didn’t deserve to hear her trifling axx testimony. I wish that young man all the success and joy in life because his mother is a piece of work.
The mother seems like the problem here. Also, she needs to stop interfering and treating her teenage son like a toddler.
He seems to have good manners and behaviour but needs to know how to answer the Judge or other persons properly!
Son should not have been present in the courtroom to hear his parent’s mess. His mother is trifling. That young man is caught in the middle. smh
Good for that father and young man to have the chance to get the show on the road. Good luck folks.
I am sooo sick and tired of these grown men coming on national television talking under womans clothes trying to shame the woman. He knows he help no one but come on telling lies.
The end ridiculous still going back and forth in front of that boy then she says question for who like she didn’t tell 2 people they was the father 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Proud of you brother for stepping up even though you didn't know for sure that he was your son,we need more black men like you.
Loved how this young man & father 🤗 🫂 hugged @the end... And kudos 👏🏾 to Mom cause she was consistent/stable - No parent is perfect 🧐
She all over the place.
Lawd I wish the son was outside the courtroom🤦🏾♀️But I am glad he's the dad. The mom and dad don't even need to speak to each other at this point.
They have to put the pettiness behind them. That poor young man seems as he has the weight of all their resentment for each other on his shoulders. That's not fair. Rise above that for your son, he's worth it.
The boy looks so dejected. Poor young man.
Side note: I was like she don't sound like she's from Denver. lol
This lady...very bitter. Bless her heart
Nasty sleeping around momma caused all this. Terrible this young man has to hear this dirt on his parents.
Wow!!! Much respect to the dad
Happy for him to get the truth!!! Also, kudos to the dad for doing what was right, putting in the effort to bond, and wanting to keep the bond regardless of what the results could've been!