Voice In The Mirror (1958) Richard Egan, Julie London, Walter Matthau, Arthur O'Connell

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  • @kevinramsey9758
    @kevinramsey9758 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    The men depicted here began a miracle that I desperately needed 25 years ago. I wouldn't be here without those efforts. Love you so Bill W. and Dr. Bob!

    • @deerhoda7574
      @deerhoda7574 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Congratulations to you. God bless you.

    • @howlinwulf
      @howlinwulf 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Been through the twelve steps myself.
      These 2 helped more than they could've ever known.
      Hope they are smiling down watching all of us recovering addicts and alcoholics.
      We do recover!

    • @Robert-is7du
      @Robert-is7du 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

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  • @FreedomSpirit7
    @FreedomSpirit7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    This is a wonderful movie. This is showing real life of alcoholism. I do love the way he acknowledged God first. Amen. ✨ Wonderful actors!

  • @rowley555
    @rowley555 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    An excellent unjustly obscure film depicting alcoholism and thé rédemption from it. Richard Egan is marvelous and Arthur O'Connell, devastating. Julie London wrote the lovely thème song. Great Henry Mancini score. Gritty, hard-hitting film...

  • @LeetaNocha
    @LeetaNocha ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Freedom from the bondage of self was my "One Day at a Time" remedy for sobriety, which I found in A.A. 42 years ago .Freedom to turn my life over to a God of my understanding, to not judge or be judged,to be heard and seen,to want what i saw in sober drunks! To live a sober life heas been a gift from those early founders of A.A. who had the courage, strength and hope to pass on to all who had a desire to find sobriety! Thank you for sharing ❤

    • @sfinthecity
      @sfinthecity  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      👍

    • @darylburnet8328
      @darylburnet8328 ปีที่แล้ว

      AA is not the final solution. It is a stepping stone. People I know who attend AA regularly fall into traps as bad as alcohol. AA is good but just a step towards the Light.

  • @raylenenielsen5943
    @raylenenielsen5943 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I really appreciate how at the end his first acknowledgment is to God, and I love the saying on the wall.
    I thoroughly enjoyed this movie. Richard Egan and Julie London were so good - as always.

  • @shirley8155
    @shirley8155 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Good film. She had such patience. But when your alcoholic partner gets violent, abusive and threatening it's very stressful to live with. I lived on a knife-edge for many years, never knowing when he was going to flip. He was a lovely guy when he wasn't drinking, but it didn't last. It was such a relief when he died at 54. At last I had the freedom to live my own life. Thanks for the movie, it brought back many memories, and now I am still so thankful that it came to an end, and I was free.

    • @billybob9961
      @billybob9961 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes people that have not lived it can’t understand it really sucks a nightmare she was so abusive it was like talking to a rock arrogant rude and she was never drunk it was always two beers when I was really a bottle of rum or vodka. I am glad you are free to live your life and enjoy all life has to give.

    • @shirley8155
      @shirley8155 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@billybob9961 thanks:)

    • @kathleenking47
      @kathleenking47 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I notice, alcoholics tend to have split personalities (jekyll/hyde)
      I know a girl who had the nicest boyfriend
      Nice to her and others, but when he drank, LOOK OUT

    • @darylburnet8328
      @darylburnet8328 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      We must be related, are you my Sister? I grew up on a razors edge. I am the oldest of 5 children. We are still a mess, thanks Dad. I have sought help, even spent time in a Psych ward. My Mother died at 56 due to his abuse, Dad the .......is still alive at 85 and has never offered an apology. Jesus wept.

    • @roundtwo3321
      @roundtwo3321 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Are you living the life you could have lived if you had not lived with an alcoholic at all? Is it possible to undo all the PTSD caused by living with an alcoholic?

  • @thisisme3238
    @thisisme3238 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Glad to see this movie again, it says a lot of things to a lot of people. 🤔

  • @worldpeacepatriot9448
    @worldpeacepatriot9448 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    May I grant myself the courage to change the things I can , the things I cannot and the wisdom to know the difference as we underlings grow to understand that We Ourselves are makers of ourselves and make the difference !

  • @spartandodge6034
    @spartandodge6034 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I could never stop a drinker no matter what I tried. They have to stop themselves and with God as their witness.

    • @christinahall2587
      @christinahall2587 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me “. Philippians 4:11-13 ❣️

    • @nedludd7622
      @nedludd7622 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have known a couple of alcoholics including my brother. They stopped drinking after proper medical treatment. BTW, they are atheists. God has nothing to do with anything.

    • @robertmcaree7016
      @robertmcaree7016 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The god part is BS! My twenty-five years of sobriety are proof!

    • @spartandodge6034
      @spartandodge6034 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@robertmcaree7016 More power to you. Theology is not for everybody.

    • @dankestella9393
      @dankestella9393 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That’s true for every addiction. Including negative thinking and anything else people need to stand life. It’s necessary and awful.

  • @christinahall2587
    @christinahall2587 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Troy Donahue 1:06:48 was an alcoholic and ironically joined AA in May 1982, which he credited for helping him achieve and maintain sobriety.

  • @rowley555
    @rowley555 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I have a friend who swears it was this film and not Days of Wine and Roses nor The Lost Weekend which made him seek help and finally stop drinking. Perhaps it was the message of hope in the end of the film which did the trick.

    • @darylburnet8328
      @darylburnet8328 ปีที่แล้ว

      I will not watch the end. Im happy being as fart as a pissed.

    • @gypsylily2949
      @gypsylily2949 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@darylburnet8328 You are happy being as fart as a pissed? What does that mean???

    • @roundtwo3321
      @roundtwo3321 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It could have been the realistic depiction that resonated with him.

  • @mariamarisi6154
    @mariamarisi6154 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you for the great movie.

  • @paulrumney2983
    @paulrumney2983 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thanks for posting a wonderful film.

  • @MTknitter22
    @MTknitter22 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    So many good actors in this

  • @georgebronte840
    @georgebronte840 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    @16:20 Good old 1950's when your doctor would nonchalantly light up a cigarette during a medical consultation.

  • @caroldixon7796
    @caroldixon7796 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wow! One of the best movies I've ever seen. 👏

    • @danielstanwyck2812
      @danielstanwyck2812 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      really?? try an excellent real alcoholic drama, the lost weekend best picture AA 1945.

  • @farozekhan639
    @farozekhan639 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This movie is rare gem with truth in, it shows what it does/make a person from too much alcohol.

  • @13woolley
    @13woolley ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thanks for sharing 😊

  • @TrustJesusToday
    @TrustJesusToday ปีที่แล้ว +13

    All things being equal, it's better not to drink.

    • @mayatejikelly3954
      @mayatejikelly3954 ปีที่แล้ว

      Marijuana will kill you faster.

    • @darylburnet8328
      @darylburnet8328 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, fish shit in water so dont drink water as well.

    • @roundtwo3321
      @roundtwo3321 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If we could just get that message across to kids, who still think it's cool. Reformed alcoholics should speak at schools and tell them that they wish to heaven that they hadn't taken that first drink, smoke, etcetera.

  • @petertoomey5857
    @petertoomey5857 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Sooo love Julie London...looking forward to this...thx

  • @lesawilkes5673
    @lesawilkes5673 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    don't remember this one, many of my favorite actors... SCARY! alcoholism can be just as destructive as any street drug, mainly because it seems more socially acceptable. ( denial ) Excellent portrayal by Egan...

    • @rowley555
      @rowley555 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes Richard Egan was so underrated. He was a wonderful actor. And gorgeous too.

  • @timothymeehan181
    @timothymeehan181 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I knew about the other major films from that era that dealt with alcoholism(The Lost Weekend, & Days of Wine and Roses- both masterpieces of the genre), but never knew about this one…

    • @theohioshirey
      @theohioshirey ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Alcoholics (or addicts) can skillfully deflect & escape accountability & responsibility for the consequences of their behavior, often becoming pitied 'victims' of their own recklessness🙏🕊️🌿 Excellent movie

    • @lyndafayesmusic
      @lyndafayesmusic 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@theohioshirey In Most DECENT movies the actors were drinking Tea!.
      Try Nero Wolf . Maigret, and Poirot-They BOTH didn't depend on whisky and cigarettes to see a good picture!
      .
      Love those Oldies but Goodies , but it seems all the great stars were told to have a drink in one hand and a cigarette in the other.THIS movie might just have influenced enough viewers to have CHANGED that years ago?!
      "Man on the Run" and " A Love Song for Joe"
      Videos by FredGold&LyndaFaye.

  • @ricardolorrio8228
    @ricardolorrio8228 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    for a melodrama made over 60 years ago, it still hits some raw nerves ....

  • @Justyahel
    @Justyahel 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love Julie London so I decided to binge watch movies she stars in

  • @frankfarago2825
    @frankfarago2825 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Watch "The Lost Weekend," a 1945 movie about alcohol addiction. That one won a few Oscars, I believe.

    • @Larkinchance
      @Larkinchance 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      much better film

    • @johncaldwell-wq1hp
      @johncaldwell-wq1hp 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Your right Ray-Miland--won an Oscar,--great Movie !!

  • @davidleonard1813
    @davidleonard1813 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    My humble observation. We had alcoholics and heroin junkies when I grew up.
    Now there are very few alcoholics. Used to see them literally living under bridges in parks drinking wine etc a lot.
    Have we cured alcoholism as it seems to have dissapeared?
    No not at all.
    I think a lot of ppl have addictive personalities.
    Now it's phentanol, ice, cochineal name a drug any drug.

    • @lyndafayesmusic
      @lyndafayesmusic 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No, now they're just men who fought for our country who've been pushed aside by Joe's new visitors.
      Love those Oldies but Goodies , but it seems all the great stars were told to have a drink in one hand and a cigarette in the other.
      THIS movie might just have influenced enough viewers to have CHANGED that years ago?!
      "Man on the Run" and " A Love Song for Joe"
      Videos by FredGold&LyndaFaye.

    • @philfletcher3434
      @philfletcher3434 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I don't think alcoholism's gone away at all, if anything it's probably worse with more old people drinking themselves to death. My addiction is the pursuit of money but my luck stinks and making it big is always just out of reach.

    • @tomdooley4226
      @tomdooley4226 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@philfletcher3434hang in there, my friend, and I was touched by your admission. You'll be in my thoughts and, yes, my prayers. I hope you reach your dreams, you seem to me to be one who deserves them. 😊

  • @roundtwo3321
    @roundtwo3321 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The running theme is the alcoholics' first move is to blame other people for their missteps. Sometimes, their codependent will do it for them.

  • @melodyberndt3914
    @melodyberndt3914 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Excellent !!!!

    • @sfinthecity
      @sfinthecity  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Glad you like it!

  • @twilightshealy4152
    @twilightshealy4152 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Dated a drunk, lived with a drunk, nursed a drunk back from a widow maker heart attack, almost married a drunk, buried a drunk and miss a drunk every single day.....
    All the same man 😢

  • @andywinger4197
    @andywinger4197 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Not a bad movie. AA started in 1935 and they never mentioned AA in this movie so I guess it was some fictionalized version of how it started.

    • @FreedomSpirit7
      @FreedomSpirit7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It is based on a true story. The names were changed.

    • @lindaanthony7890
      @lindaanthony7890 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It might be based on Bill Williams (I think that’s his name) who starred AA. Pretty sure there is a documentary on TH-cam.

  • @francoisdemiras9711
    @francoisdemiras9711 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Superbe ❤❤❤🇺🇲🇺🇲🇺🇲

  • @User-4-mn3or
    @User-4-mn3or ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Good movie. I enjoyed it! Very sad situation.

  • @danegunther6621
    @danegunther6621 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    A fine story of overcoming the things that beset each of us. So, so important.

  • @philomenadennehy8585
    @philomenadennehy8585 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Its a mental and physical addiction
    Also spiritual
    One tiny drop thats it
    Something happens to the brain

    • @ber334
      @ber334 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      One is too many and a thousand is not enough

    • @chaz4471
      @chaz4471 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s called spirits for a reason ’

  • @YOGI-yl4ff
    @YOGI-yl4ff ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Actually the birth of AA was founded in Akron, Ohio on June 10, 1935 by Bill W., Bob Smith. In 2020 AA estimated its world wide membership to be over 2 million with 75% coming from the U.S and Canada. Follow your dreams men and women. Mesa,, AZ June 11, 2023

    • @lyndafayesmusic
      @lyndafayesmusic 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      In Most DECENT movies the actors were drinking Tea!.
      Try Nero Wolf . Maigret, and Poirot-They BOTH didn't depend on whisky and cigarettes to see a good picture!
      .
      Love those Oldies but Goodies , but it seems all the great stars were told to have a drink in one hand and a cigarette in the other.THIS movie might just have influenced enough viewers to have CHANGED that years ago?!
      "Man on the Run" and " A Love Song for Joe"
      Videos by FredGold&LyndaFaye.

    • @ColleenLytle-sq8tx
      @ColleenLytle-sq8tx 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I buried my beloved Mother at 59 from alcoholism. There aren't many alcohol - recovery movies out there that ring true to me - The Days of Wine and Roses is one, this is another. AA saved my life... I didn't know how to live. My parents didn't get a toolbox for life, so I didn't get one either. I wouldn't be angry with someone for not knowing how to do something, I had no idea how to have a good life. Now I do 🙏

    • @tomdooley4226
      @tomdooley4226 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah, this is a reasonable facsimile of their story, probably didn't have the ©'s, although I believe that there was an official movie made, but I can't remember the name of it, off hand.

  • @MK-hh1vo
    @MK-hh1vo ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Why can some drink only on weekends and special occasions, some must drink all the time and some can't drink at all? I enjoy drinking but I can do without it as needed.

    • @kurtzwar729
      @kurtzwar729 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Genetics. A defect that causes reduction in an enzyme that converts ethyl alcohol to ethyl aldehyde. So the alcohol builds up in the blood, but you get little buzz. A bad outcome.

    • @2004mojo
      @2004mojo ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My stepfather got drunk every Friday night to Sun afternoon without fail the entire time I lived at home until I left at 18. He & my mother would yell & argue at the top of their voices. I was the 2nd oldest of 7 with my older sister and me not being his. He never let us forget this fact although my mother tried to make up for it but he was a mean drunk so my sister & I were glad he wasn't our father. But Monday-Friday he was sober and never missed a day of work in 30 yrs to the point he had boatloads of leave when he retired as a meat cutter. He also drove drunk at times but was never in an accident but came close and so did all of us who were in the car! Funny thing is me & my siblings don't drink (my mother also didn't drink) but all of us ended up in relationships with alcoholics or drug users but none of us stuck it out like my mother did. We all tried to help. When it was over -it was over. With the exception of my younger sister's husband. He joined our church as she was still attending and ended up going into the Ministry. He's now a Rev Dr. My mother left my stepfather after my youngest brother went into high school. Yrs later he did stop drinking. He got terminal cancer & asked if he could move back home he didn't want to go to hospice & my brother wanted to take care of him. My mother said yes and they got along and he lived about 7 yrs & passed in 2000. My mother who got ill & I took care of her as she also didn't want hospice, passed in 2006. I know she thought better to have help raising the kids but except for my brothers who he treated special ,the rest of us had awful memories because of his drinking. He got drunk every holiday. Every special occasion. Anytime we had
      someone special over. To this day I can't stand to hear people argue. I can't put up with someone not doing something about any kind of abuse. I think that's why I never married and 3 of my siblings didn't either.

    • @SandorVitez
      @SandorVitez ปีที่แล้ว

      Because some are more responsible and less physically dependent, it's how you prioritize, you are wise to put your health before the booze, however we need to address our spiritual condition, our thoughts and intent, I have met many people that drink socially and those who don't drink at all I still saw and heard the same gripe of discontentment reinforced with bitterness and resentment, there are many reasons why people drink, to indulge the temptation comes from the same place, it's not a sin to drink, however if you have no self control then it is better that you do without it

    • @ber334
      @ber334 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're lucky. Some are sicker than others

    • @2004mojo
      @2004mojo ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ber334 Yes. I know we had good family & friends and the fact that we were a church going family because of my mother. My fathers 2 brothers
      & 2 sisters did not drink but 1 other sister did like him.His brothers were devoted family men and looked out for us to make sure we had food clothes and presents at Christmas as my mother did not work and my father saw no need to provide more than the bare basics. My mother did go back to school, learned how to drive bought a car and we began to go on vacations, we got what we asked for for Christmas, We visited on holidays. She was the reason we tried to see past the drinking and help the ones we married or lived with. We learned what everyone does. The alcoholic has seek help and stick with getting & staying sober. Yes my stepfather became a better person and did help with money and stuff for everyone in his later years. He also called my mother when he found out he was terminal and paid for both of their final arrangements, plots etc.
      For all those dealing with alcoholism make sure to seek help for yourself if you need to talk or get therapy. I didn't but helps to post in forums like this and I think about everyone that also posts. May God watch over us all as we watch over our brothers & sisters in Christ.

  • @malikroy9069
    @malikroy9069 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I recognized Richard Egan from 'The Revolt of Mamie Stover 1956' and 'Wicked Woman 1953'

    • @jennyjerome5669
      @jennyjerome5669 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes, from 'Wicked Woman', a gem of its kind.

    • @howlinwulf
      @howlinwulf 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Revolt of mamie stover.
      Great movie!

  • @leapinglaura7343
    @leapinglaura7343 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Damn, but if this isn't a great score!

    • @rowley555
      @rowley555 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I know right. Beautiful thème song and excellent Mancini score, which should bé better inown.

    • @lyndafayesmusic
      @lyndafayesmusic 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Better an ice chest than a famine from mistreating all of the farmers.
      Most DECENT movies ones they were drinking Tea in the Uk.
      Try Nero Wolf . Maigret, and Poirot-They BOTH didn't depend on whisky and cigarettes to see a good picture!
      .
      Love those Oldies but Goodies , but it seems all the great stars were told to have a drink in one hand and a cigarette in the other.THIS movie might just have influenced enough viewers to have CHANGED that years ago?!
      "Man on the Run" and " A Love Song for Joe"
      Videos by FredGold&LyndaFaye.

  • @paulkitt-er9dr
    @paulkitt-er9dr ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Well made tale of alcoholism somewhat overshadowed by days of wine and roses. Egan's pretty good but Arthur O'Connell steals it as fellow alcoholic

  • @delana2842
    @delana2842 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good film; thank you for sharing it! ❤

    • @zennabella1676
      @zennabella1676 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      YES, GOOD MOVIE. I GAVE IT A LIKE.

  • @elliottschertzer876
    @elliottschertzer876 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Released August 13th,1958

  • @johnwilliamson2707
    @johnwilliamson2707 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    An unusually frank dramatization of a once taboo subject treated with care and without judgmentalism or histrionics. Can't help but wonder how many lives this film and 1962's 'Days of Wine snd Roses' might have saved.

    • @lyndafayesmusic
      @lyndafayesmusic 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Most DECENT movies ones they were drinking Tea in the Uk.
      Try Nero Wolf . Maigret, and Poirot-They BOTH didn't depend on whisky and cigarettes to see a good picture!
      .
      Love those Oldies but Goodies , but it seems all the great stars were told to have a drink in one hand and a cigarette in the other.THIS movie might just have influenced enough viewers to have CHANGED that years ago?!
      "Man on the Run" and " A Love Song for Joe"
      Videos by FredGold&LyndaFaye.

    • @tomdooley4226
      @tomdooley4226 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Another good one is a real oldie called "The Lost weekend" with Ray Millan. 🎦

  • @YahRiYah_Ahava777
    @YahRiYah_Ahava777 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    🙏🏽❤️

  • @enricoc.948
    @enricoc.948 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Julie London oltre ad essere una graziosa donna e una brava attrice aveva un timbro di voce profondo e affascinante.

  • @paulstark6818
    @paulstark6818 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That was a very powerfulstory it's sad that it's such a big prblem every

    • @zennabella1676
      @zennabella1676 ปีที่แล้ว

      IM GLAD I DONT DRINK GROG. I COULDNT EVEN IF I WANTED TO BECAUSE I HAVE REFLUX AND ULCERS IN MY ESOPHAGUS.

  • @winonamassingill7895
    @winonamassingill7895 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My sister had 7 years sobriety behind her when she died of lung cancer. She had been a chain smoker every since she was 13 years old. 🚬🚬🚬🚬🚬🚬🚬🚬🚬😢😢😢😢😢

    • @darylburnet8328
      @darylburnet8328 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I come from a very dysfunctional family. Your comment hit home. My Mother died of Liver cancer though she wasnt a drinker. Mum smoked like a chimney but never got lung cancer. I smoke like a chimney and drink like a fish. I will probably die from Nuclear Fallout but am enjoying the ride, kind of.

    • @zennabella1676
      @zennabella1676 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I AM AN EX SMOKER, NEVER A CHAIN SMOKER, I GAVE UP SMOKING OVER 30 YEARS AGO. ANY KIND OF SMOKE IS VERY DEADLY ITS POISONOUS ESPECIALLY WHEN ITS SECOND HAND SMOKE FROM SOMEONE ELSE. FOR THE LAST 9 YEARS IVE BEEN FORCED TO BREATHE IN WOOD FIRE SMOKE FROM NEIGHBOURS FILTHY CHIMNEY SMOKE WHICH SEEPS INSIDE MY HOME AND CAUSING MY HEALTH TO GET WORSE.
      SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR SISTER.
      I HOPE ONE DAY SOMETIME IN THE FUTURE TOBACCO AND WOOD FIRE HEATERS ARE BANNED EVERYWHERE.
      IN NEW ZEALAND THEY HAVE A GOOD PLAN AHEAD NOT TO ALLOW CHILDREN OF A CERTAIN AGE NOT ALLOWED TO BUY ANY KIND OF CIGS OR TOBACCO AND IN TIME NO ONE WILL BE SMOKING IN THAT COUNTRY.

    • @lyndafayesmusic
      @lyndafayesmusic 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Condolences for your loss; we only put this on because we like July London as a SINGER.
      Course the song they used was pretty lame and had nothing to do with the plot.
      In Most DECENT movies the actors were drinking Tea!.
      Try Nero Wolf . Maigret, and Poirot-They BOTH didn't depend on whisky and cigarettes to see a good picture!
      .
      Love those Oldies but Goodies , but it seems all the great stars were told to have a drink in one hand and a cigarette in the other.THIS movie might just have influenced enough viewers to have CHANGED that years ago?!
      "Man on the Run" and " A Love Song for Joe"
      "Hello-Goodbye Acapella" in memory of the great Julie London.
      Videos by FredGold&LyndaFaye.

    • @lyndafayesmusic
      @lyndafayesmusic 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@zennabella1676 GET A LID FOR YOUR ASHTRAY?
      Course the song they used was pretty lame and had nothing to do with the plot.
      In Most DECENT movies the actors were drinking Tea!.
      Try Nero Wolf . Maigret, and Poirot-They BOTH didn't depend on whisky and cigarettes to see a good picture!
      .
      Love those Oldies but Goodies , but it seems all the great stars were told to have a drink in one hand and a cigarette in the other.THIS movie might just have influenced enough viewers to have CHANGED that years ago?!
      "Man on the Run" and " A Love Song for Joe"
      "Hello-Goodbye Acapella" in memory of the great Julie London.
      Videos by FredGold&LyndaFaye.

  • @Prof.Tarfeather
    @Prof.Tarfeather ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The wife became his typical enabler and Codependent. Played very convincingly in her portrayal.
    It became recognized in the 1970's that Alcoholism affects the whole Family.
    Even the Children take on their own roles if one or both Parents are Alcoholics or Substance abusers?
    This is when Alanon meetings and support groups were made available for Codependents and Children of Alcoholics.
    Codependents do more harm to an Alcoholic trying to live with Sobriety?
    I've seen classic examples where Codependets will lie for their Partners, make excuses for them, cover for them, hide the facts and be in denial even at the expense of others including their own Children?
    They don't actually help the one with the sickness? In fact in most cases they don't hold them accountable for their own actions? Nor do they help the Alcoholic get well?
    It changes their life and interrupts what's "normal" in their routine?
    In fact, some are so used to playing out the victim role when in fact they actually have alot of control while their Partner is not Sober or using?
    If that changes, and their Partner Sobers up there's that threat they may get left behind, or seen for their own weaknesses and illness?

    • @chaz4471
      @chaz4471 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You cannot make an alcoholic stop

    • @RoseyTucker
      @RoseyTucker ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What's up with all the question marks?

    • @lyndafayesmusic
      @lyndafayesmusic 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You sound to be a counselor yourself!
      In Most DECENT movies the actors were drinking Tea!.
      Try Nero Wolf . Maigret, and Poirot-They BOTH didn't depend on whisky and cigarettes to see a good picture!
      .
      Love those Oldies but Goodies , but it seems all the great stars were told to have a drink in one hand and a cigarette in the other.THIS movie might just have influenced enough viewers to have CHANGED that years ago?!
      "Man on the Run" and " A Love Song for Joe"
      Videos by FredGold&LyndaFaye.

    • @Cuinn837
      @Cuinn837 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I have known women who were afraid of their alcoholic husbands. They were terrified that they would be beaten if they did not lie and cover up for him. Not all alcoholics get violent, but some have their spouses living in a state of terror.

  • @1dandandy1
    @1dandandy1 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The "monkey" on every person's back is guilt. The first step is to understand that only way to remove the guilt is to trust what has already been done for everyone. The Creator of the world has paid for everyone's sins by His complete atonement for All. Everyone's sins are already paid for because Jesus took the curse of sin upon Himself by His death, burial and resurrection. Anyone who trusts what Jesus has already done receives eternal life with Jesus. Believe that you are already forgiven. Trust that Jesus has paid for ALL of your sins by HIS death, burial and resurrection.

    • @howlinwulf
      @howlinwulf 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I had trouble with that part for a while.
      Thank God I found Jesus and received his gift of love.
      Now I just have to work on a few more things like anger management.

    • @helenlarmour9972
      @helenlarmour9972 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      His death paid for our sin. His resurrection gives us His Life, we are a new creation. We were spiritually dead because of Adam, now we have received His Life, eternal life. We rest in his finished work on the cross.

    • @1dandandy1
      @1dandandy1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@helenlarmour9972 Amen

  • @joeenglert
    @joeenglert ปีที่แล้ว +10

    big change of pace for rich eagan...summer place....nice guy....gladiator mean guy...this movie ...drunk guy..good actor

  • @patsywhitten4739
    @patsywhitten4739 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yep!!!!!

  • @leapinglaura7343
    @leapinglaura7343 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A "piece of ice for their icebox," as late as 1958! Guess his disability really caused them to rough it.

  • @ianedwards4400
    @ianedwards4400 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I just didn't enjoy this film despite the fine cast. Sequences were repetitive. Dipsomania is a curable disease if the patient has enough will power to overcome it. The two best films i have seen on this disturbing subject were: The days of wine and roses with sterling performances by Jack Lemon and Lee Remick. Lemon, known for his comedic talents, plays against type here and surprises everyone with an Academy Award performance. When he joins AI and is sent to rehab, the sequences depicting his denial [of alcohol] will leave viewers shaken up with a vow never to touch alcohol. Then there's Susan Hayward's magnificent performance in 'I'll cry tomorrow' replete with trembling hands and shakes guaranteed to send shivers down your spine. Susan pulls off her multiple facets flawlessly going from famous singer to falling in love and losing her love to cancer. She then starts using alcohol as a clutch to camouflage her deep insecurities. . This was certainly a masterpiece in acting and Susan should have won the Oscar. Instead, she won the Oscar for I want to live.

    • @taylorpresley4604
      @taylorpresley4604 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      One of my favorites, "Days of Wine and Roses." Superb acting by Lemon.

    • @thisisme3238
      @thisisme3238 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "I'll Cry Tomorrow," is one very good movie. Susan Hayward plays her part so intensely accurate in that movie....once you've seen that movie it leaves a lasting impression not easily forgotten...

    • @lindaanthony7890
      @lindaanthony7890 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Susan Hayward played Lilian Roth, the 1920’s singer. She gave a magnificent performance.

    • @Misssweetley
      @Misssweetley ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No appreciation for the wife everything that she put up with very typical of anyone with a drug or alcohol problem they don't matter to the alcoholic and a drug addict because they're so self-centered. We suffered just as much as they do.

    • @chaz4471
      @chaz4471 ปีที่แล้ว

      “Jazz hands” is a term coined for alcoholic hand tremors

  • @gracereeves5790
    @gracereeves5790 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    She was a good, patient woman but then, loitering and public drunkeness were unacceptable. Now, drug addicts are allowed to loiter, rob, ... .

  • @winonamassingill7895
    @winonamassingill7895 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That is not fair blaming her for one incident after all she put up with having to live with you for years???😡😡😡

    • @Cuinn837
      @Cuinn837 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She was doing the best she could. Spouses of alcoholics go through a lot of Hell.

  • @marysouthard804
    @marysouthard804 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Never heard so many references to coffee

    • @tinpanally51_36
      @tinpanally51_36 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Then you don't watch old movies or old TV shows that's all they do is drink coffee. Lol

    • @lyndafayesmusic
      @lyndafayesmusic 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@tinpanally51_36 Most DECENT movies ones they were drinking Tea in the Uk.
      Try Nero Wolf . Maigret, and Poirot-They BOTH didn't depend on whisky and cigarettes to see a good picture!
      No, now they're just men who fought for our country who've been pushed aside by Joe's new visitors.
      Love those Oldies but Goodies , but it seems all the great stars were told to have a drink in one hand and a cigarette in the other.THIS movie might just have influenced enough viewers to have CHANGED that years ago?!
      "Man on the Run" and " A Love Song for Joe"
      Videos by FredGold&LyndaFaye.

    • @ColleenLytle-sq8tx
      @ColleenLytle-sq8tx 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're right, the only place I can think of that has more coffee references is where I live, Srattle. What a great job noticing things!

    • @tomdooley4226
      @tomdooley4226 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Coffee ☕ is an indispensable component of a typical AA meeting. Copious amounts!

  • @cookiesspirit2329
    @cookiesspirit2329 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    If this had starred Gregory Peck rather than Richard Egan, it’d have been a hit. Julie London is wonderful as usual. Edit: RE is just too weak for this part, lacks the passion and finesse Peck would have put into it. Great supporting actors. Good movie about the beginnings of an organization that has saved so many people and families.

    • @kathleenking47
      @kathleenking47 ปีที่แล้ว

      I didnt know, it was beginning of AA
      UNTIL I kept watching movie

    • @2004mojo
      @2004mojo ปีที่แล้ว

      I just came across this film. I'm a fan of Gregory Peck and I also enjoyed the entire cast. Are you wrong about Richard Egan? I think one could forget him as the one who played the lead. Not just in this but anything. He's just ok. I have
      3 films on the subject that are really good.
      Of course,, "Days of Wine & Roses" starring Jack Lemmon & Lee Remick.
      "I'll Cry Tomorrow" starring Susan Hayward in the biography of singer Lillian Roth whose career was ruined by alcohol and a very old film "The Wet Parade " (1932) A pre-Code drama film starring Robert Young, Myrna Loy, Walter Huston, Lewis Stone. The film shows how two families (one in the old South, the other in the North) are devastated by the effects of alcohol consumption and Prohibition. In both films the patriarch is the alcoholic who ruins the family with tragedies that forever change both families.
      I didn't include "The Lost Weekend" as it never touched me as the others did. I do recall the made-for-tv-drama "My Name is Bill W." (1989) too but I not as much as the others.

    • @winonamassingill7895
      @winonamassingill7895 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree with the comments about Gregory Peck. No one could hold a candle 🕯 to him. The song 🎶 by Dolly Parton, Old Flames Can’t Hold a Candle 🕯 to You. No one could light up a room like you do. Flickering Flames 🔥 of desire I’ve known quite a few, but old flames 🔥 can’t hold a candle 🕯 to you. The saddest picture in my mind is the way that Gregory Peck had as he watched Audrey Hepburn leave him to return to the palace as the princess 👑 in the movie 🍿 Roman Holiday. 👑👑👑👑👑😢😢😢😢

    • @darylburnet8328
      @darylburnet8328 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Spot on. Gregory would have been perfect.

    • @roundtwo3321
      @roundtwo3321 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      RE did a great job of moving in and out of drunken stupors. His subtle acceptability when sober shows how easy it was to pull unsuspecting people into his trap of insane drunkenness without the other person knowing what they got pulled into.

  • @chaseschneier1076
    @chaseschneier1076 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Has to be one of the worst opening songs ever.

  • @fritula6200
    @fritula6200 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The whole AA healing is based on Christianity: the programme is God based:
    I suppose there is no great teacher for all healing!! The Goodness of God.

    • @nedludd7622
      @nedludd7622 ปีที่แล้ว

      AA is a fraud. It has no better results than people who just decide to stop by themselves. AA exists to sell god, not to help sick superstitious people.

    • @robertmcaree7016
      @robertmcaree7016 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm twenty-five years sober and didn't need anyone's fake god to achieve it!

    • @andywinger4197
      @andywinger4197 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whatever works. But I know God doesn't work for everyone.

    • @kayhathaway6956
      @kayhathaway6956 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@andywinger4197 Actually, HE does.

    • @kayhathaway6956
      @kayhathaway6956 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Every time.

  • @robertwojciechowski5439
    @robertwojciechowski5439 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Who transcribed this? It is so blurred you can hardly see it. They should be ashamed of themselves. Well, let's have a name.

  • @irelandrm
    @irelandrm 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I admired Julie London but stories about people struggling with alcoholism are almost always boring and almost always the same story. I started scrolling forward through the film to see if I could find the point. Voice in the Mirror, doesn't fit my notion of the noir genre.

    • @artiefount
      @artiefount 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Less likely to bore those of us who either have struggled with the problem or watched someone they love struggle with it.

  • @PAR33401
    @PAR33401 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just out of focus enough that I can't possibly watch it. Dang.

  • @TargetedFreedom
    @TargetedFreedom ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ava 🐻 has been very sour lately.
    She’s been on a total bender of her own.
    She keeps saying she wants to get back on the wagon. But we’re worried about that old Spanish proverb…
    “Cuando el horno esta abierto, ten cuidado no quemar el pan…”
    🍑 🥰

  • @newnormal1841
    @newnormal1841 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Change the brains
    taste buds.
    Vinegar.
    Slowly unnoticeable
    Soon you'll be reaching for a soda.
    Then green tea.
    🤺💐

  • @magnvm100
    @magnvm100 ปีที่แล้ว

    Não tem versão em português????

    • @sfinthecity
      @sfinthecity  ปีที่แล้ว

      Desculpe, apenas o idioma inglês está disponível.

    • @magnvm100
      @magnvm100 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sfinthecity Poderia pelo menos ter a legenda em inglês. Mas não essas legendas na velocidade da luz. Não dá pra entender o que esses caras falam.
      Abraço

    • @terry4137
      @terry4137 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂

  • @meredith7236
    @meredith7236 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So he goes for days and brings home another drunk and does need to care about his wife

  • @yoteawhirl1987
    @yoteawhirl1987 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    21:00-21:12 great audio drop

  • @kathleenking47
    @kathleenking47 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    DID HE CREATE AA

    • @christinahall2587
      @christinahall2587 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Kathleen. Yes, he did.

    • @thisisme3238
      @thisisme3238 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bill W created AA

    • @Prof.Tarfeather
      @Prof.Tarfeather ปีที่แล้ว

      I was under the impression AA was created in the 1930,s?

    • @janebaxter5835
      @janebaxter5835 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Prof.Tarfeather1935

  • @winonamassingill7895
    @winonamassingill7895 ปีที่แล้ว

    No, on second thought, I don’t think this movie 🍿 is good enough to deserve Gregory Peck to star 🌟 in it.

  • @happyinhilo
    @happyinhilo ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This got boring in the first half hour!

    • @darylburnet8328
      @darylburnet8328 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree. Im gunna have a smoke and a drink and find something uplifting.

  • @montanagal6958
    @montanagal6958 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Drinking is a choice. They go where sympathy lives and have no problem hurting those around them.

    • @ladygumshoe7402
      @ladygumshoe7402 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND ADDICTION!! IM A RECOVRRING ADDICT. WE DON'T DO THINGS TO HURT OUR LOVED ONES INTENTIONALLY. It's a DISEASE ! WE LIVE IN HELL AND FAMOLY MEMBERS LIKE YOU MAKE IT WORSE. WE HURT OURSELVES MORE THAN ANYBODY. YOU NEED TO DO YOUR RESEARCH ABOUT ADDICTION AND ALCOHOLISM. YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT IT.

    • @jimbecarroll5780
      @jimbecarroll5780 ปีที่แล้ว

      YOUR CHOICE CAN BE OVERRIDDEN W/ADDICTION.

    • @darylburnet8328
      @darylburnet8328 ปีที่แล้ว

      You have all the answers, may I worship you?

    • @trilbywilby7826
      @trilbywilby7826 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Actually, Montanagal6958 is right. The men who started AA made the *choice* to admit they had a problem, they *chose* to become accountable, and they *chose* to stop drinking. A disease afflicts a person apart from personal choices. So, in strictly semantic terms, alcoholism and drug abuse don't qualify as diseases.

  • @djbmore9405
    @djbmore9405 หลายเดือนก่อน

    1:15:48

  • @higgsmerino3925
    @higgsmerino3925 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh, brother. . . implausible, illogical, cheesy attempt in 50's pablum.

    • @ColleenLytle-sq8tx
      @ColleenLytle-sq8tx 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @higgsmerino3925
      I've watched my entire family die miserably from alcoholism - the most order there ever was in my family is the cemetery. I have a hard time not taking your comment personally - I found this movie plausible, logical, and so true to my familys' experience it made me sweat. There are only three of us left alive from a clan, I'm in recovery, and the only one left to watch them die.

    • @tomdooley4226
      @tomdooley4226 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I, too, think they did a pretty good job at portraying the problem and the solution that AA provides to millions around the world. 😊

  • @sharonevans1257
    @sharonevans1257 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Interesting

  • @robertmcaree7016
    @robertmcaree7016 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    People like to credit 'god' with the alcoholics salvation but that doesn't explain those like myself who achieved sobriety without any religious mumbo jumbo. This movie doesn't lean too heavily on the religious aspect but more on the individuals within the group looking out for each other and taking it one day at a time and not condemning those that slip along the way. My one day at a time has carried me to over twenty-five years of sobriety!

    • @barbaratrubenbach115
      @barbaratrubenbach115 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Congratulations, never drank but it has got to one of the hardest things to do.

    • @VictorMartinez-mp2ml
      @VictorMartinez-mp2ml ปีที่แล้ว +14

      We can't do anything for ourselves. No one is self made. No one can live one second without God's hand.

    • @michaelregan3914
      @michaelregan3914 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ​@@VictorMartinez-mp2mlYes, absolutely true!

    • @TheSashapooch
      @TheSashapooch ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Much respect, Robert.

    • @steffski1946
      @steffski1946 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Did it ever occur to you that God worked a miracle for you in spite of you taking all the credit for yourself? - hilarious - God wants what's best for you in spite of your attitude

  • @kenzeetwo
    @kenzeetwo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Jim Burton has become a chronic alcoholic since the death of his young daughter, and is cared for by his hard-working wife. A doctor's warning that Jim could become mentally ill strikes enough fear into him that he really wants to cure himself, but he can't. One night, he meets William Tobin, a fellow drunk, and finds that he helps himself by trying to help Tobin. Thus is born, amid setbacks, a group resembling Alcoholics Anonymous.