IS THIS TRUE??? Reacting To Arie Spears' WHITE VS BLACK FAMILIES REACTION

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  • @bracejuice7955
    @bracejuice7955 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    My black friends mom called him her little prince and he had a queen size bed. My dad threw a ladder at me once when I was like 9, so I had the opposite experience!

  • @ahabgaddis7277
    @ahabgaddis7277 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Arie's white impression is funny. Many are over the top, but he keeps his closer to real

    • @carterharris2724
      @carterharris2724 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I love Chappelles white voice but I think Aries was the most accurate

  • @BuntTheBlunt
    @BuntTheBlunt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Lol, this skit is spot on. I come from a white family, but with an immigrant father so I was definitely hit, BUT the privacy and room part is beyond true lol. I’ve had a handful of white friends I’ve heard say that exact line

    • @patriciamccormick9321
      @patriciamccormick9321 ปีที่แล้ว

      White kid of two white immigrant parents here. My parents appear to have come from the African American traditions of child raising. I heard friends yell at their parents to knock first when Mom showed up with their FOLDED LAUNDRY and offered to put it away for them. I folded the family laundry from the age of 7 and was shocked.

    • @samcaranol4102
      @samcaranol4102 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why are we celebrating abuse? Lol

    • @novae7898
      @novae7898 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@samcaranol4102Who tf is celebrating? Lol.

  • @amphibeingmcshpongletron5026
    @amphibeingmcshpongletron5026 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wow his white friend impression is SPOT ON not gonna lie lol. I remember having a black friend over my house in middle school, and I jokingly said something that would be considered disrespectful (had it been serious or with attitude) to my mom. Me and my parents had a history of being able to lightly joke around like that as long as it was in reason and clearly in good humor (I definitely couldn't just say whatever I wanted). However, after I said whatever it was without even thinking about it, my friend suddenly looked at me TERRIFIED lol. He was like "What are you doing??? You can't talk to her like that! Bro I'm leaving before she comes back here!" We both learned something new that day.

  • @slimblu1
    @slimblu1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My parents are Irish. My siblings and I grew up with the threat of a beating, especially once dad got home! As the youngest and only girl I got off lightly!!

  • @jmagrath
    @jmagrath 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    If I ever spoke back to my parents or gave any kind of attitude I'd be put through a wall. I had friends who would yell and scream at their parents and I would look on in horror thinking I was about to watch my friend get murdered, but their parents just took it. It blew my mind.

  • @joekay5662
    @joekay5662 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    They gives me food 🍲 they gives me sleeps 🛌🏾🤣🤣

  • @truemenimprovedaily
    @truemenimprovedaily 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My buddy’s mom was just like that but would look at me like “you best be helping him clean up” like I was now responsible for his ass not getting beat. I laughed and told him “ get to cleaning or I’ll whoop your ass” he was the only one who had a Nintendo and my fun wasn’t being cut off by his problems lol 😂

  • @XDarkVivi
    @XDarkVivi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I feel like the reasoning my dad was rougher was due to his military background. I feel like the military sometimes leaves that "Well it worked for me in bootcamp, maybe it'll work here." And at least for me it did. I see no reason to be a dick just to be a dick or I'm not getting my way. Clearly there are consequences.

  • @roberttruhn5067
    @roberttruhn5067 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    For real scenario - I was at a Latin family’s house and I was told that “go ahead and take that bite and see what happens!” So I did. Daaaamn, the kids lost their minds.

    • @roberttruhn5067
      @roberttruhn5067 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And I wasn’t being an ass - I just thought I was doing as instructed. I DID NOT READ THAT ROOM.

  • @keithartworker
    @keithartworker 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My 12 year old daughter has explained to all of the adults family about her room boundaries. I don't know where she got it from - it just bubbled up one day. I told her that her "rules" do not apply. Love your channel.

    • @devin3955
      @devin3955 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They should apply to a certain extent because just likes adults have boundaries kids are actively developing their own as well. If you take away her boundaries at home she never learns how to have them or assert them when she moves out to be on her own.

    • @patriciamccormick9321
      @patriciamccormick9321 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s her room when she is paying the mortgage.

  • @holycow325
    @holycow325 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    White person aged 28 I got my ass beat my mom got the wooden spoon n chased me round the house saying move your hand. She also used to just leave the store knowing full well I was on the video game demo station.
    I recommend reacting to in living color sketches since you brought up mad tv I loved that show as a kid

    • @lrsrosebud
      @lrsrosebud 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      White female, age 58 and my mom (when really pissed) would use a belt. And the whole “move your hand” bit? LOL yeah, been there too.

    • @SoulWeasel69
      @SoulWeasel69 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Finnish dude here, my mom use to whip me with a tree branch

  • @chlyon
    @chlyon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    From what I've heard Kids up to 8 yo are in a lower mental state where they are adsorbing everything around them direct to the subconscious , so hitting a kid below that age or mental abuse is not advised , but a smack after that age , seems fair enough after all its a language they understand . Tricky situation , if everyone else is abusing there kids , in a certain culture , hard to be the first to stop . Waking someone up at 3 am to beat them just sounds like the adult compensating for their screwed up childhood .

  • @Tekneeks1
    @Tekneeks1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I used to get spanked a lot until the last time when I started laughing hysterically and they realized I was indeed a psycho

    • @lunartears6761
      @lunartears6761 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wish I would I have thought of that.🤣

  • @casualobserver9245
    @casualobserver9245 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve been waiting forever for you guys to do some Aries. Glad you finally did. Thanks for the vid.

  • @neckboyz281B
    @neckboyz281B 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    My friends dad beat me one time, I went home and told my parents and they were like ...well what did you do? Did you deserve it? I was so pissed off at the time, I said this is bs they said what? I said nothing...

    • @patriciamccormick9321
      @patriciamccormick9321 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Soooooo. What did you do?

    • @neckboyz281B
      @neckboyz281B ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@patriciamccormick9321 my friend and I walked to dominos and didn't tell his dad we were leaving.

  • @moondust1992
    @moondust1992 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't know about everyone else, but my mum had that Celtic rage..it took a while to come out..but when it did...

  • @rams3as155
    @rams3as155 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hope you keep looking at parts of this special. One of my fav comedians just for this one special

  • @jacobbrockberg1722
    @jacobbrockberg1722 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I never really cared about getting a beating. Taking my fun away tho was a catastrophe

    • @mackl8305
      @mackl8305 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      💯whoopings pissed me off and made me cry but being ground with video games taken away felt like the world was crumbling

    • @samuel10125
      @samuel10125 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      But what type of people did you turn into.

    • @nagisaassassin9124
      @nagisaassassin9124 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@samuel10125 respectful people

    • @samuel10125
      @samuel10125 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nagisaassassin9124 Exactly! We where taught to respect our elders and treat those around us as we would want to be.

  • @Kacholfus39
    @Kacholfus39 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    yup! we got our “chanclas” down in Puerto Rico 🤷🏻‍♂️😁

  • @mavenfrankeus7287
    @mavenfrankeus7287 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am from Sweden and yes, my room was my room. Until I asked my parents to help me clean it...
    I've seen Aries live, he's awesome.

  • @ItsMeDarrenB
    @ItsMeDarrenB 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Maybe in the States, but up here in Canada its was on everyday. Belts, wooden spoons, Hot Sause, if you where caught swearing.
    Once mom had my oldest brother in a headlock in the kitchen, and scrubbed his mouth with a bar of soap, so it would get stuck in his teeth longer then just liquid soap.

  • @kendallgibson1900
    @kendallgibson1900 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I grew up with an ex military and short tempered man, amazing dad but Jesus did he beat my ass when I did wrong. The leather belt hits different and jo space was safe in my house.

  • @amkalaska
    @amkalaska 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Aries is 🔥MAD TV was the greatest. Shaq and Tyson killed me everytime.

  • @TheNighthawk4477
    @TheNighthawk4477 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    White person here. Yeah I was def spanked as a kid. But never saw my black friends spanked. Firm believer of discipline though.

  • @johnmack9677
    @johnmack9677 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This whole special and aries in general is super under rated

  • @RussellStClair-cy1vu
    @RussellStClair-cy1vu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "6 weeks in the hospital or sudden death . Choose !" Got my ass beat by the principal ,
    Got my ass beat by my Mother in the principal's office with his razor strap.
    Got my ass beat in the street with my own belt more than once my Mom . (Dad died in 1970)
    Mom also stood up for me when I was in the right . Teachers, principles ,sheriffs .Mom was there .
    LOVE MY MOMMA !

  • @BenJover
    @BenJover 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Im white and mid 20s now but I used to get some booty smacks with a tree branch from my grandpa when I was really little lol. Also my mom used to slap. Until once she tried it when I was a teenager and I just caught her hands and laughed in her face. Never got a face slap again. She's super skinny.

  • @nickjohn1979
    @nickjohn1979 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Honestly my friends mom busted in his room while we were playing games and did the same shit. All I could say after she left was “damn your mom is pissed!” I wasn’t gonna say anything to her cause there’s no reason I should catch an asswhoopin by his mom too lol

  • @williamortega9480
    @williamortega9480 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lmao, this is a classic. I was waiting for your reaction and I'm glad you guys liked it.

  • @ronisworld2916
    @ronisworld2916 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Filipino moms do that same thing. things would also start flying all over the house! you wont believe how lethal a weapon a flipflop can be! but thats how we also grew up respectful, and know the difference of whats right and whats stup!d.

  • @latiefahall7995
    @latiefahall7995 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am from the Caribbean my mom will tell other adults if we misbehave beat us just don't break any limbs or blind our eyes

  • @CS-ov7sr
    @CS-ov7sr 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was controlled through emotional or psychological manipulation and pain. Nothing as bad as being hit, but it is a lot harder to 'avoid' or rebel from. Beatings are emotionally damaging, yet you can still rebel or grow out of it. You won't work once you are old enough to fight back. It is bad, and it isn't good to be beaten, but if you are emotionally and mentally punished, you can't fight it. You guys are right, though; getting a beating living in rough areas might help you in the long term deal with the hardships other people would give up in. I might have been emotional harmed, but I wouldn't be able to survive in rougher areas. And being beaten may also limit how well one can survive in areas where emotional or mental violence is the norm.

  • @TheArbiterOfTruth
    @TheArbiterOfTruth 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He must be talking about white parents in California 😂 I grew up in Georgia, I got the crap spanked out of me.
    I had a lot of black friends growing up, and oddly enough we got spanked about the same lol.
    One of my friends dad was Haitian, so he probably got legit “beat”. He never talked about it, and his dad was pretty chill whenever we’d sleepover. He’d practice French with me and play Wii with us.

  • @mattjosh69
    @mattjosh69 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    His bit about Mike Tyson is great.😂😂😂😂🇬🇧

  • @link1117
    @link1117 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yeah as a white person it seems true lol. My parents would never yell or get mad when we had people over. They would wait until we were alone because it would be rude to yell or get mad at me in front of guests LOL.
    So I was always surprised when I was at non white friends houses and their parents would just rip into them with me right there LOL

  • @georgeirwin7568
    @georgeirwin7568 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Having an Italian mother bruh, ur room best be clean, cuz if something pissing her off that’s what she taking her anger out on😂😂

    • @ddwfw
      @ddwfw 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      yep I'm Italian and I was beaten into a pulp growing up lol

  • @cryptox13
    @cryptox13 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yall gotta watch Aries Spears - Italians, its fucking hilarious and his other stand up comedy is pretty fucking amazing

  • @chrisennis9686
    @chrisennis9686 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Got to do more of Aries Spears

  • @jaimesmith2266
    @jaimesmith2266 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    When i was little my mom was bout to whoop me i told her pleases don't whoop me i will buy you pop and cigarettes😂😂😂😂

  • @seanwallace89
    @seanwallace89 ปีที่แล้ว

    As someone white who didn't have many black friends, but my best friend since HS is black, and honestly that is probably the best aspect of our friendship. We think more alike than any other person I've met, and our personalities and intellect balance each other out while also coordinating together well. As cliche as it sounds he is truly my brother from another mother. Lol. But I think that's why I value his perspective a lot more than many of my other friends, and I find conversating w him to be more interesting and entertaining. We talk about deep shxt... he recently got divorced after losing their child right after birth... it destroyed their relationship and it was really neither's fault... they just had that trauma and loss associated w each other, and it was too much for either to overcome, let alone both. I tried to be supportive and also offer him a reprieve from the negativity when necessary and able. I think it's because we have a different racial dynamic and respect for one another and the bond we have forged despite the differences in culture that seperate my friendship w him from all my others... in a positive light, above all others to me personally. Not as like a pretentious "affirmative action" placement. I'm a random anonymous nobody online... the benefit of lying is essentially zero. Doesn't mean ppl dont do it, but it does severely decrease the likelihood of it.

  • @DegraTrip
    @DegraTrip 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    When I was 10 I had this friend who lived around the corner. His mom was white and his dad was Hispanic. Very nice family. When he came to my house he was always quiet and respectful. But whenever I was at his house he would smack his little brother and call his dad an assh*le to his face. His mom would just get upset and say don't do that. Sometimes she would just drive me home when he was acting up too much. It was just crazy that they never did anything to him. My mom would hit me with the cord on the iron if I was just being annoying

  • @bigd2664
    @bigd2664 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    White guy here. Had a Vietnam Vet Father, and a WW2 Vet Grandfather, both of whom could put the fear of GOD in you with a look and that certain tone of voice. No such things as time-outs at my place, but I never got beat either. They didn't have to, I knew what I was in for if I F'd up.

  • @ziggysmalls4522
    @ziggysmalls4522 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It honestly depends on class with the white families lol. I got the wooden spoon and my mom was busting into all of our rooms.

  • @tornicade
    @tornicade 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My family were Germans and hillbillies so I knew families like the ones Spears talk about but mine wasn't one. Aka I knew how to pick a switch right the first time

  • @officialvip2281
    @officialvip2281 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Growing up with a black mum and South African dad I didn’t know which way the hiding was coming from 😂😂 my parents literally went out of their way to buy bamboo sticks to flog us kids with hahaha like what in the fuck.

  • @dorisspears5921
    @dorisspears5921 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice show guys! I'm Aries Spears Mom. My roost! My rules! That was the law...period.

  • @gigabit9823
    @gigabit9823 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm White, never been disciplined and yes, my room was my safe place. And today, being a parent now, I love my parents even more for providing that experience to me.

  • @MaxMXCrafter
    @MaxMXCrafter 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I was a shitty kid and I never got hit. I respect my parents so much for using their words to teach me and help me mature instead of hitting me.

  • @ericnagle4899
    @ericnagle4899 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Definitely a where you're from and not a race thing as much. We grew up poor and we got our asses BEAT lol. I'm probably as white as you can get, I practically glow in the dark, but I was definitely slapped into obedience 😂

  • @melaniewilliams6740
    @melaniewilliams6740 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I grew up in inner city Baltimore, a mostly minority neighborhood...My mother (although half white and half Portuguese)-- said, and did, and acted just like his Momma did. She would wreck our ass if we talked like these kids!! The very worse ass beatings were (ironically) when we tried to act "better-than" (sometimes it was "equal as")... She wanted to teach us that no matter of circumstance trumps integrity.

  • @mangarang
    @mangarang 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    White but with immigrant parents. I used to get slapped in public. I knew my room did not belong to me. Never talked back or cursed at my parents although they didn’t curse at me. Cursed back one time as a teenager and got lifted off the ground by neck and was calmly told to never do that again. I didn’t.

  • @Arkansaswoods
    @Arkansaswoods 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm half white/Native American...I didn't have no personal safe space!! If you got in trouble, be ready to go outside and pick a switch! Or mom would smack you with whatever was close..lol. One time I got caught stealing (for my brother) and before we even got home the store clerk had already called my mom (small town in the 80s). As soon as I walked in the house my mom asked me if I stoled anything. I said no! She checked me and found the hot wheels underneath my shorts. Talk about an azz whooping!! Not only that my dad whooped me too...and mom called my grandparents who lived next door. = More ass whooping!! And I think my grandma beat me more than my mom! Needless to say that was the first and LAST time I stole anything!!

  • @ArkaeaFCL3
    @ArkaeaFCL3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im a white man and my family and I had close family friends who were black. Im actually named after a black man who was also my 6th grade teacher. They will confirm this, my parents were just like black parents. There was no such thing as a safe place or timeouts. They'd use belts, switches, wooden spoons, their hands, etc. Definitely not like today's white parents.

  • @jracee1
    @jracee1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes, more Aries Spears, please. Also, since we're doing live requests now, what about Batman Can't Stop Thinking About Sex? 🤔🧐😛

  • @pseudoname9229
    @pseudoname9229 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m white as sour cream, didn’t get beaten, and the only friend I knew who did was black. Totally agree with your guy’s take on environment. Love the vids, keep it up!

  • @johnwanderin3872
    @johnwanderin3872 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My dad would roast me in front of my friends, out in public, it didn’t matter, especially if I was being an idiot. My mom would always be like “Your room? This is my house! You can leave anytime you want...”

  • @auughhhzzzzmimimi
    @auughhhzzzzmimimi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    you guys need to react to aot for often😫 i can't wait for the next oneeeee😭😭😭

  • @jackclimb3529
    @jackclimb3529 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I got spanked a few times when I was a kid. But I feel like I gradually became better/more grateful whenever I would be at my friends house and watch them get their butts whooped for doing the same things. I was lucky I never had siblings though. I think the more kids the parents have, the shorter the fuses everyone has. Being an only child I would learn my lesson quickly.

  • @briankirchhoefer
    @briankirchhoefer 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm a white guy in my mid 50s, I got my ass swatted at school, then again when I got home. My mom's favorite was a section of hot wheels track on my rear. It made a crack like a whip when it hit. Times were different back then.

    • @mikefelty2625
      @mikefelty2625 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hot wheels suck to get hit with! I remember those welts.

  • @barbarapeffer9161
    @barbarapeffer9161 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm a white woman, but when me and my brother and sisters were growing up, we didn't have "our" space. Our parents told us that is was their room that they let us sleep in. They could come in whenever they wanted.

  • @franktherabbit47
    @franktherabbit47 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m white. Glad to have parents stricter than most in the suburbs cause a lot of kids ended up disrespectful, spoiled, and ungrateful. My mom never beat the shit out of me, but slapped me when I got out of line which wasn’t often. My brother was more of a troublemaker and my dad ended up doing some wrestling moves on him. Honestly, my mom’s anger scares me more than her hands. My mom is the dominant parent and will come into my room whenever so it isn’t a private place all the time.

  • @XRP2020
    @XRP2020 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please let me know where I can purchase pic of Biggie which is hanging behind you

  • @chueco9940
    @chueco9940 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish my mom gave a fuck about my personal space lol. She invaded my personal space daily.

  • @simoncoveney1883
    @simoncoveney1883 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I got spacked the shit of growing up and I noticed that some kids could just say anything to there parents and get away with it I was so annoyed by this I would have a go at the other kids and stuff like dont talk to your parents like that and you dont know how flipping lucky you have it if I said that kind of stuff to my parents I'd get knocked the f out I also noticed kids started getting more braver towards there parents since they figured out that they could just call the police or social services they didn't care if they got took from there parents I was like your crazy as hell lol unbelievable

  • @alexandrabelloso2176
    @alexandrabelloso2176 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm Hispanic, and once I was invited to a white friend's party but my parents wouldn't let me, and they straight up told me to sneak out. And I'm just like "???? You think I'm suicidal or something???" You don't play like that with Hispanic parents lol

  • @scabbarae
    @scabbarae 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think there's an important difference between teaching obedience and teaching morality.
    As a suburban white kid in an all white neighborhood, I only got hit when I was really acting up, and it was only a single swat on the ass. Even those moments could be scary, though.

  • @Quessir
    @Quessir 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm Irish so, white as white can be. There was no such thing as "my space". It was my parent's house and that was everything you needed to know. Not sure what he's on about but he's pretty funny anyway :D

  • @AAAbatterye2
    @AAAbatterye2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm just as confused as y'all with this stuff, my black friends' parents were more strict, but that was because religion, he couldn't watch certain movies or pokemon and stuff like that, but I think any physical whooping we got was comparable.

  • @TheBrodigy1
    @TheBrodigy1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I didn't get beat, but at one point my family and I were sleeping basically in one room and I refused to sleep. So my stepdad asked me one night if I wanted to go on an adventure, took me to a cemetery and ran away - hid behind a bush until I stopped crying then took me home. I never had issues sleeping again, that was the sort of discipline I got as a white kid.

    • @barbiedoll5766
      @barbiedoll5766 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jesus Christ. I'll just take an ass whooping, please.

    • @alexandermillssr
      @alexandermillssr 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow!! Yeah just take the ass whooping

  • @jfwalken
    @jfwalken 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm white and my mom had levels she used to slap, then whip at me with rubber gloves from the kitchen, then she'd flip her diamond engagement ring so the rock was on the palm and slap again. Once My friend's mom hit me with switch(southern technique of making the kid grab a stick to whip themselves with, go bigger than you think thin ones don't break like that and end up hurting worse) and once my uncle with a belt. My dad scared the piss out of me with his presence so never got a whooping.
    Feel like I should stress this wasn't a regular occurrence, go to punishment was "go to your room". Only after I was wilding out for a long time.

  • @adamwarlock2099
    @adamwarlock2099 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m white but grew up in a black majority setting. My mother did most of the spankings in the house and I got many of them myself. My mother used a wooden spoon to do it. As far as I can remember most of my friends that were black got corporal punishment too. I born in 1977. My wife and I however didn’t ever use spankings on our boys. We tried a few times but we quickly found them getting privileges taken away was a far better deterrent for bad behavior.

  • @YetiUprising
    @YetiUprising 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    im white, i got hit for super serious stuff but that was rare. Usually had a time out at the bottom of the stairs.

  • @88gschannel39
    @88gschannel39 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    For real when I say this, I hear the voice being raised just a bit, i dont even test it. And fuck the whole "This is your room and space", nah that's her HOUSE.
    Shit, I was the kid that'd actually pitch in to help clean the room and house and help set tables and all because sometimes you can be labeled the "bad influence friend" even if you did nothing.

  • @maryhanrahan
    @maryhanrahan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm old white lady so different - 1 of 6 - we did get a belting when we deserved it - did not hurt us - at least we have respect now - mind you I did not really have to be that bad with my kids- just an occasional smack on the ass (probably your age - my youngest daughter 23)

  • @travisstone5700
    @travisstone5700 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I grew up in the country, probably only got spanked like 15 times in my life.. So when it actually happened, I KNEW I deserved it💯🤷‍♂️🤣

  • @315Bigmike2271
    @315Bigmike2271 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My old man backhanded me in the mouth in Kmart because I was scuffing my heels. Screamed at me cause I was too lazy to lift my feet. I think it’s generational too. My white family were immigrants from Eastern Europe after the war, so...take from that what you will. My best friend was black and had it pretty easy, but he was the youngest of seven and his parents were too old to fight him by then.

  • @singerkgreen
    @singerkgreen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I got my ass beat, but the only thing getting my ass beat taught me was that I won that argument because they ran out of words to use and had to resort to being bigger than me to win, which meant they lost.
    Spanking and such never made sense to me. You don't beat your grandmother if she doesn't act the way you want, do you? Sometimes grandparents can be very much like children, so why not treat them the same? Please explain a logical and rational reason that it makes sense to strike the most trusting and vulnerable people in our society? People says it teaches them respect, but if that's objectively true wouldn't it apply for everyone? If I smacked you in the face would you respect me more or less? It's the same answer for small humans.
    I think you're dead on with the fear thing. Fear is being confused with respect and that's a major detriment to a culture. Any culture.

  • @degzylaffan1651
    @degzylaffan1651 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This white boy was born with the wooden spoon, no silver spoons in my house

  • @kckk420
    @kckk420 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm from Southern Virginia and I'd say it's about half and half with white people who were raised out here some of them were raised like us who's parents didn't play that shit and some of them who got treated like the stereotypes but im 31 so most of us got hit for being bad lol

  • @livingthefivelslovelaughle5528
    @livingthefivelslovelaughle5528 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG! I just commented on this clip on a different channel and my point was it's not a white or black thing. I'm white (Italian American)... my Mom did not play games - belts and bread boards! On running away, LOLOLOL, my Mom would tell us "if you think you're miserable NOW, go ahead and run away, 'cuz when I find you (and I WILL find you), you'll really learn what miserable is." You can be sure I didn't try running away. Hang in there. Thanks for the laughs.

  • @addyz-m4g
    @addyz-m4g 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    White guy here, had classic white parents that talked a lot of shit but never touched me. I grew up in an all white area so I didn’t have any friends of color at the time. I think it still happens plenty with white families but would say it’s less common than in black families. I def deserved it on a few occasions so it’s useful to an extent.

  • @colleenwillard5385
    @colleenwillard5385 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I got hit with a belt when I was younger and time i messed up, slap across face, etc.
    But when I was young my room wasnt my space cause mom and dad paid Bill's. It was their room I just lived in it. As I got older it became my space and I didn't like people in there but it's really my moms cause it's her house.

  • @smcgrotty
    @smcgrotty 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im white and my mom used to whoop my ass. One time i was dodging her slaps and i was crouching down, so she stop trying to slap me and just started throwin kicks 😂😂

  • @kJ922-h3j
    @kJ922-h3j 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think this difference is specifically an American thing lol

  • @IIPapaMurphII
    @IIPapaMurphII 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The most memorable ass whoopin I got was around 9 or 10 and was the last one I got. My dad used a wooden cutting board with a handle on it and always told me to put my hands on the counter (so he wouldn't hit my hands if I covered my ass I guess). Anyway, it was usually 1-3 swats depending on what I did, but that day I wasn't having it. Every swat I got I looked over my shoulder and told him it "didn't hurt". After like 10 hits and tears rolling down my face he tossed the board on the counter and walked away.

  • @tylermorgan1615
    @tylermorgan1615 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I saw my black friend get rocked for having a pair of dirty socks in his room

  • @gipsy1695
    @gipsy1695 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m from the 70ties and white and believe me … I got my ass whooped a lot !!! 😂😂😂😂😂 these day’s it’s different a guess

  • @jasonthegreat49103
    @jasonthegreat49103 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't ever remember seeing my black friends parents doing serious discipline like threatening ass whoopings in front of me. I kind of just assumed that it was the same as at my house, you might get a spanking but it won't be while company is over. I was always on way better behavior at my friends houses anyway. I'm from a pretty smallish town in the Midwest so maybe that might be a regional cultural difference.

  • @jsa_212
    @jsa_212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    911 Russell Peters - Beat Your Kids! You've seen one of his videos, and I have a feeling you guys will enjoy it one a lot, this video actually reminded me of it💓🤣🤣

  • @batmouseksfmickey9892
    @batmouseksfmickey9892 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My dad was Native American an my mom is Swedish an growing up they punished completely different dad gave you a look if you were stupid and he had to speak your pants came down and with one hand he held both you hands together while you’re hanging in the air he used his belt an kept saying keep crying I will keep hitting you til you stop my mom would ask nicely 5 to 6 times to stop or clean my room then she start throwing what ever was close Tonka trucks can hurt why I thought it was the way they did it Dad was 6 5 260 lb. mom was 5 2 110 lb mom had to do it that way we were taller and stronger it helped in school no kid were bigger than my dad and he told if I get bullied or beaten up he was going to do worst to me I learn to fight to not get in trouble

  • @vladtepes490
    @vladtepes490 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm white as a sheet of paper and I got the shit beat out of me when I fucked up as a kid.

  • @Ravenstrike721
    @Ravenstrike721 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I cant speak for all white folks but my grandma was old school German and took no shit. She was a sniper with a slipper and god help me if I cuss in front of her. My mother was far more patient, but when my brother and I got her to that level she would always start crying. Which was deceptive cause she only cried when someone died or was about to die ie (us).

  • @rogue10spartan98
    @rogue10spartan98 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm white but I had my ass whooped so many times as a kid but my friends didn't from their parents. I never seen it as a black household only type of behaviour, I just seen it as being raised in a strict household that had no time for my stupidity 😅

  • @Belladonna313
    @Belladonna313 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m white from Scotland born in 92, I got hit a good few slaps round the lug. My ear would be ringing for hours lol, it made me behave lol

  • @40ozmangi
    @40ozmangi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i didn't see color growing up.... just a wooden spoon or the belt....

  • @gavincorns8065
    @gavincorns8065 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeah it was different where I live in England

  • @mikefelty2625
    @mikefelty2625 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think this a more recent culture difference. I got my ass whooped for a lot of things when I was a kid. My dad would get me with ping pong paddles. I had a grandma that would whoop me and my cousins with hard plastic hair brushes or make us go pull a switch off a tree when we acted up. Or in public she'd pinch our ear, and lead us around by it until we straightened up.

  • @mesohappy3000
    @mesohappy3000 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My mom is Hawaiian and Puerto Rican, she used to beat my ass handily 😂😂😂 that shit did me good though, I would’ve turned up like trash if she didn’t

  • @AMG_MIKEY
    @AMG_MIKEY 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My mom had this Puerto Rican friend who like my second mom when I was little and she would kick my ass if mine didn’t feel like it lol. I’d always respect her and her rules tho bc I loved her like family so I’ll always respect parents and shit. If they pay for everything especially the house you really don’t have no privacy tbh it’s technically their room😂😂