Hey friends, What has been your struggle when it comes to relationships or creating friendships?? Tell us more on the comment section, we’d love to hear more. Until then listen up and please contribute or share your experiences with us. See you guys soon! Love The Dloto’s 🤍✨ #relationship #friendship #fyp
What a topic!!! I feel like for me it's very difficult to make friendships and funny enough growing up I used to have/like iichomi...... but now I don't have friends, I'm comfortable in my own space.... That's exactly how I feel nam Mr Dloto - Reciprocal relationships are vital, if there's nothing on the other side there's really no point......
I always love these conversations you guys have!! Growing up I always wondered why my parents had few friends or hardly hung out with their friends. The older you get, the more it makes sense.
Exactly what I used to suffer from. You need to start setting boundaries for yourself, I would never say stop loving too much nawe because you shouldn’t change based on how others treat you because there are good people out there. What I’d suggest is start evaluating what it is that you also want to receive and in that way should you not receive it…it can be easy to contest it or move on.🤍
Yho Thotho that was me sana!!! But I got to a point of putting myself first and reciprocate the energy I'm getting in friendships. Thank you so much for this topic guys, unyansile kakhulu naye uTatekhaya🫶🫶
I don’t have friends and find it so difficult to make ones, I had a best friend 17 years ago. We were so close to a point whereby if she’s not at her place, she’s at mine and visa verse. She was a moody person and one day she decided not to speak to me, and I kept asking her what did I do wrong so that I can apologise and she kept ignoring me. That incident of her not talking to me happened on a Friday after school, I remember Sunday I went to buy veggies and I was told she got raped by her uncle, I blamed myself for the thinking maybe if we where together her uncle couldn’t have raped her or maybe he could have raped both of us. I went for therapy over it and just on Sunday I cried about it cause my husband has an issue that I don’t have friends, I have since reminded him that when we went to therapy I did mention it. Even today I still find it hard to make friends. It’s been 17 years but it’s so hard for me, this still makes me cry. I’m thinking of going back to therapy cause clearly I haven’t healed.
Aww…babe, deeply sorry for what happened to you and the experience is so devastating. I would suggest that you continue going to therapy and also bring your husband as well. Do not forget to pray about it as well. It does get better with time.🤍
Heeey.... Ok. 1. Nnibahle.🫶 2.Thank you ninani for this it certifies the decisions I took regarding friendships, family. 3.nindikhumbuza ngoba I must take people as they come, set boundaries for peopleans know what each person come into my life for andfor how long. ❤ Sinamanxeba esiwenze to ourselves Sana ngonyanzela friendships or situationships to last longer while we deplete. May the Lord bless you and kids.
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Hey friends,
What has been your struggle when it comes to relationships or creating friendships??
Tell us more on the comment section, we’d love to hear more.
Until then listen up and please contribute or share your experiences with us.
See you guys soon!
Love
The Dloto’s
🤍✨
#relationship #friendship #fyp
What a topic!!! I feel like for me it's very difficult to make friendships and funny enough growing up I used to have/like iichomi...... but now I don't have friends, I'm comfortable in my own space....
That's exactly how I feel nam Mr Dloto - Reciprocal relationships are vital, if there's nothing on the other side there's really no point......
The way Anele explain somthing it shows that "Mmm...this one is a lecture" who know his story period......🚶♀️🙌
Right?! Lecturer, my lecturer.🤭❤️
I always love these conversations you guys have!!
Growing up I always wondered why my parents had few friends or hardly hung out with their friends. The older you get, the more it makes sense.
It really makes sense shame because it is so difficult. Thank you for sharing.❤️
Love listening to you I learn alot please we want more ❤
Podcast 🙈 please
❤❤ngam ndonke guys ❤️
Love how playful she is 😊❤
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Looking beautiful as alwys Mam. Tnx for the advice it real does help me in my relationships. Stay blessed family❤
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❤😊 you are so pretty sis
Oh what a sensitive 😢topic eish.
Thank you, babe. ❤️
That’s what we’ve realised.
I am the third🤭😀😀😀...Yuuuss,thank you 😀❤️
We love it! Thank you, sis.❤️😊
I think I have a problem of loving people too much and expecting them to do the same.
Exactly what I used to suffer from. You need to start setting boundaries for yourself, I would never say stop loving too much nawe because you shouldn’t change based on how others treat you because there are good people out there. What I’d suggest is start evaluating what it is that you also want to receive and in that way should you not receive it…it can be easy to contest it or move on.🤍
I love you guys❤️❤️❤️
Thank you very much for the vlog❤ I've learned alot from this and how to choose relationships 😊
We appreciate it so much to know that there was something that you got.❤️
This was such a touching vlog. So relatable and realistic.❤
We’re so glad that you enjoyed it!🤍
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Hlezi kuyintokozo ukuba nani nokunilalela manikhuluma ..Siyabonga ngani neskhathi senu .❤
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Enjoyed every second ❤
Super glad sthandwa.🫶🏾
M the first...❤❤ sending love from Botswana
Aww…thank you so much for watching.❤️
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❤❤Niyasikhuthaza gys 🎉🎉
Yho Thotho that was me sana!!! But I got to a point of putting myself first and reciprocate the energy I'm getting in friendships. Thank you so much for this topic guys, unyansile kakhulu naye uTatekhaya🫶🫶
Relationships are just difficult but the beautiful part about it is that life also continues and it teaches us so much.🌸
It's a tricky situation when the relationship with family members you regarded as 'friends' becomes toxic.
Yhoo…hayi ke family.🤭
My favourite khaphuli ❤
I lost my best friend last year😞but I guess life goes on
Eish condolences sisi ❤ ....
We’re so sorry to hear this. It can be difficult to move on at times but with time…all will be better.🤍
Im the second ❤❤❤❤😊😊
We’re marking the register!👌🏾❤️
I don’t have friends and find it so difficult to make ones, I had a best friend 17 years ago. We were so close to a point whereby if she’s not at her place, she’s at mine and visa verse. She was a moody person and one day she decided not to speak to me, and I kept asking her what did I do wrong so that I can apologise and she kept ignoring me.
That incident of her not talking to me happened on a Friday after school, I remember Sunday I went to buy veggies and I was told she got raped by her uncle, I blamed myself for the thinking maybe if we where together her uncle couldn’t have raped her or maybe he could have raped both of us.
I went for therapy over it and just on Sunday I cried about it cause my husband has an issue that I don’t have friends, I have since reminded him that when we went to therapy I did mention it. Even today I still find it hard to make friends. It’s been 17 years but it’s so hard for me, this still makes me cry. I’m thinking of going back to therapy cause clearly I haven’t healed.
Aww…babe, deeply sorry for what happened to you and the experience is so devastating. I would suggest that you continue going to therapy and also bring your husband as well.
Do not forget to pray about it as well. It does get better with time.🤍
@@TheDlotos thank you so much 😊 I will definitely go back to therapy and bring along my husband. ❤️
Sanibonani bazali baka "Melokuhle Dloto " 😂 no Lombe Dloto ❤
Sawubona ntombo.🤍
I love you guys where is melo ❤❤
Akamhle uThotho as always🥺😍😍
Enkosi sthandwa ❤️
Heeey.... Ok. 1. Nnibahle.🫶 2.Thank you ninani for this it certifies the decisions I took regarding friendships, family.
3.nindikhumbuza ngoba I must take people as they come, set boundaries for peopleans know what each person come into my life for andfor how long. ❤
Sinamanxeba esiwenze to ourselves Sana ngonyanzela friendships or situationships to last longer while we deplete. May the Lord bless you and kids.
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