HOW TO REHAB YOUR BROKEN HEART by RC BLAKES
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- There are very few things more difficult than recovering from a broken heart. There are three biblical principles that will bring healing.
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You have been so helpful to me in the last year. A few years ago I canceled a wedding after being in a toxic engagement & facing narcissistic abuse. You have confirmed so much to me
Girl I can relate.. was engaged to someone I was deeply in love with.. had to walk away in 2017 as it turned out he was highly narcissistic. Best decision of my life!
MRS. BERNARD girl me too! 2017 was a GAME CHANGER. God has confirmed so much to me! I am proud of you girl!
For me, it was last year
Forgiveness is granted, trust is earned. Forgiveness does not mean that you go back to the previous closeness of that relationship. We must be wise as serpents and harmless as doves!
One of the hardest things l have ever done is pray for those who hurt me or made my life a living hell. Sometimes forgiving someone who has hurt us is not easy, but eventually, we should arrive at a place where we start praying for them.
If you are struggling to forgive, ask God to help those who have hurt you to imagine how they would feel if they were in your shoes and ask God to bless them so that their lives may be so fulfilling that they would leave you alone.
Mark 11:25
And whenever you stand praying, if you have anything against anyone, forgive him, that your Father in heaven may also forgive you your trespasses.
Forgiveness may not happen overnight. Some wounds go very deep and may need time to process. Always remember that forgiveness is not a favor to the other person, but for yourself. Eventually, we must arrive at a place where we get tired of reliving old wounds and let go for our own sake. You must forgive in order to forgive.
Free yourself of the burden of unforgiveness and watch how joyful you become. 🙏🙏😁😁
Ophelia Myall Thank you Ophelia. Your word was a huge blessing in my life.
@@KM-nq7ez you are welcome. I have been there so l know.
Well said!!!!!!!!
@@MomsMoneyMindset thank you
AMEN 🙏I needed this reminder. PRAISE GOD He's healing my soul to forgive my soulmate 💔
Wow!! “Healing someone supernaturally with your pain ask God who needs my experience. Pray for someone else’ pain to find your own healing. The scars on your heart are the road map to someone’s freedom, open your heart, step outside of your own pain, Forgive, Give, Live. Live your best life all by yourself others are a Non factor move forward be free.” ~Pastor RC Blake’s
Love this ❤
Turn to God. Forgive them all. Leave them to God's will
I’m having a hard time. I gained so much power listening to your ministry but sometimes I’m so sad and it hurts so bad. Even 2 years later. I listen to remain consistent and strong. It’s not easy and I have to fight my own weaknesses and I focus on my eternity with JESUS.
You are not alone ❤
The Bible tells you to forgive. . You don't have to forget but you must forgive . Brother Blake sometimes we must ask for forgiveness from others.
I am hurt by people I loved and cared.. and I myself have hurted many as well.. wronged to many.. My parents rejected me.. abandoned me.. I still can't get that pain and broken heart repaired.. I pray everyday to God to heal my broken heart and help me to come out of past painful experience of my life.. And God led me to you Pastor.. I thank you for such a wonderful message.. And as well as.. Thank you Jesus.. Praise the Lord.
Proverbs 4:23
Guard your heart with all diligence,for out of it are the issues of life.
I appreciate this message so much..I'm in pain as I am typing right now. But this message will get me to the beginning of a healing heart..thank you sooo much 😢
Your comment was 3 years ago how are you now? I’m where you were 3 years ago…I hope you’re in a better place now
"FORGIVE, GIVE & LIVE!!!" great message I like that I have access to my own "life support" system for me is being and staying in alignment with God. Thank you!
YES Amen to that 🙏
To heal to step out of yourself and give to someone else what you wish someone gave to you....who is this pain I'm going through for? Powerful! Amen...God will use ALL things.
I was with someone for 12 years and he left me and married someone else. I only found out because I had to turn into a investigator and recall people who called me asking for him. He literally had no intentions on telling me he was moving on. He also took 2k of my money and a class ring that I can’t even replace. to top all of this he did this months after my grandfather passed away. That was almost 2 years ago and I have gotten to a place where I can pray for him and ask god to bless him.
Wow you are so strong to have endured all that girl. That is a testimony foreal. So glad you kept fighting and didn't fold. 🙏🏽
Good for you, I am still struggling with forgiveness. I pray for God's strenght to get through this.
Jackie Vickers it a struggle but I purposely decided not to be upset.
Damiana Smith praise the Lord Jesus for healing and restoration of your soul. Went through similar. I rejoice with you.🙏🏾🤗
Jackie Vickers I felt the same just less than a year ago until I met Bishop Blakes on TH-cam in July 2018. My life has never been the same again. Don’t worry, one step at a time. It’s a process. You’ll get there by His grace. Praying for you.🙏🏾
I remember that brokenhearted feeling a lot when I was a little girl because of my dad.. then my first husband.. and now in my present marriage.. I am a christian and I try to move forward in healing & positive change. I keep forgiving & forgiving and I will always forgive.. but its hard to heal from a broken heart when it just keeps getting broken again & again.
Amen! They will reap what they have sown! And the enemy allllllways try to put on a front. Like they're doing good and EVERYTHING in their life is A OK! Knowing Gooooooooooooood and well they're NOT! All Hell be breaking loose in their life. The foes are good at pretending. God and karma be kickin their A......... God is good!
By surprise he broke my heart suddenly . And gave me the silent treatment for three and a half months I cried everyday.
Even though he would yell monstrous grumpy mad mostly all the time. I still loved him I stick it out because when he was a really good beautiful mad and that's what I would wait for.
I now listen to you RC BLAKE'S
You have help me so much. I didn't know how could anyone know what I was going through everything you saying about them is so true and I never realize so many people gone to the same thing I have I didn't know there was so many of them kind of people there are so cold and cruel and has no heart.
You are not alone. I've gotten the silent treatment more times than I can count and many times not knowing why. My breaking point came when he continually called me out my name and a whole month he left the house early and didn't come home till midnight. Not only would he not talk to me or call, he wouldn't say where he was. I gave up and left. It's been 44 years. Please know you're not alone. Love yourself and don't waste years like I did. I pray for your healing and may true love find you someday.❤
All respect to Robert Blakes for his GENUINE love for our black women 👍😁
I am so glad that l true man of God loves all women and men. A true Christian loves all races and colours. In heaven there will be every tribe and tongue worshiping at the Throne of God. Amen
@@hazelmaymcclelland indeed 😁
Than the people who breaks our hearts can move on freely , while people like myself are trying to repair my heart
This teaching has me in tears. Best message ive watched regarding forgiveness. Thanks Bishop. We have been told to forgive but a lot of us, including me didnt know how to do it. Thx for giving me instructions.
Thank you so much Pastor Blakes. Your msges have helped me gain closure from a year long divorce process that ended several months ago. This msg was 100% for me. It has confirmed that I'm now LIVING. I pray for my daughter's father and his family everyday despite the troubles I experienced. I started a business that helps people with their finances, specifically single mothers. I am also excelling in my fulltime career. I pray my daughter is inspired by her mom living what I teach her. Many blessings to you and your wife and kids and ministry Pastor Blakes.🙏🏾
Thank you thank you!! I counsel broken women everyday biblically I will definately be using your wisdom to help them. May our loving father bless you and keep you. Praying for your ministry please pray for us too. Harvest is many but laborers are few.
Thank you Pastor Blakes for this timely, loving, message. Great analogy regarding the stuck needle. May I add that one has to actually 'LIFT' the needle in order to move it to the next groove where the song will be able to continue. That lifting up of SELF is sooo essential to our healing. God bless you for your wisdom through the Holy Spirit. Amen!
Thank U so much Pastor!! This message was confirmation that I’m on the right track!! I’ve forgiven the person. I’ve given to several people (from my heart) not expecting or wanting anything in return. And I’m starting to LIVE 🙌🏾 Praise God!! Living my best!! Not letting no grass grown under my feet!! 💃🏾🎊🌅🛍✈️🏖
Thanks so much for this powerful message!! As always, you have shared a very profound message. Every time I tune into one of your broadcasts, I learn how to incorporate God's teachings into my life. You are a great blessing to me and I will continue to glean from your knowledge!!! Bless you 😇🙏💓 !!!......
Amen healed, healthy & whole!!
What you say in the beginning is so good : forgiveness is the selfcare choice that i choose nobody to poisen my emotions by allowing someone who didn't deserve me in the beginning to live rentfree in my heart. I choose to let me go... that selfcare and nobody ALLOWING to poisen you....wonderful!!! My man came recently every week nocking on my door. So that i got emotional confused. Plus i was considering to maybe give in for the sex. How it would feel to make love again. There is still this longing...but next also knowing it is not right to do! Many times i was emotional confused doubting what to do... my righteness feelings stop to do this. Plus i have to choose not letting him in to poisening my emotions like you frase it! I thought i forgave him already but felt still connected because i really didn't wanted to let him go. I have to choose it...and this is so hard to do!! This is what i am struggling with...to let go. Certainly is not let him poisening my emotions! I feel i am almost there. Hopefully i am strong enough to do it to....thank you
This is great Bishop, this message has opened up some understanding I didn’t realize I didn’t understand. Oh my my. Thank you Bishop
God bless you your message came right on time, ELISSA, L,
This was something I needed to hear. I had my heart broken after 14 years of being in a relationship, thinking I forgive but deep down inside I haven't. But this video has help me take my first step towards that. Thank you.
He is on point!!!! A man murdered my mom and walking around holding that in my heart was not what God wanted me to do. Healing is when you let it go and let GOD handle it! HE WILL TOTALLY HANDLE IT. Move on
I’m sorry for your loss 🙏🏽
So glad I am free!! Praise God .I am guarding my heart ♥️ more than ever before!!..
I will share at an event this weekend. Thank you so much for being obedient. Blessing the nations.
What an encouragement. Thank you Bishop for your obedience to bring us healing through the Word of God. Blessings 🙏🏾
Thank you Pastor Blake's! I needed your prayer today. God bless!
Thank you Pastor Blakes. I have been going through a season of pain but finally came to a place of forgiveness but wasn't sure what to do next. Thanks for explaining the rest of the process- Give and Live. May God open my eyes to people who need to learn from my experience. . Thanks God bless
Thank you Bishop for sharing the Word of God helping us to obtain a breakthrough in God. Blessings to you and your family.
Dear Pastor Blakes Thank You so much for ALL your video!! They are such a help and a Blessing💕
I love the playlist 5 year old content - new to me.. still relevant...blessed😇 Thank you.. Mr. Blake!
YES vengeance is mine I will repay. Leave the offender in the hands of God & that person is going to have to recon with God.
Very well said.
This message is just what I needed!
Yes your pain is not personal, a lot of times it's to help someone else
You are a beautiful human being to care so much and share so much fatherly advice that I've never heard before I wish I had all of this stuff before I would go through so much abuse that I have had in my life I was abused very badly in my twenties and after that it followed through all of my relationships or used up after I was share everything and then they go off and be with someone else after you share your and give so much of yourself did they go and share everything with someone else or is someone who's married who you should never be with if they're married or they're too young too broke or just too old I thank you for all that you do to keep me inspired God bless you
Hallelujah! Though the scars are there the pain is gone.! in Jesus name Amen!
Good morning Pastor. As of last week, I found one of your videos on Narcissist. I know in my heart the Lord guided me to you at this very time for a reason. I wrestled with this relationship for 6 years. I gave all I had, lost family over it, went through some awful emotional stress/confusion/pain. Searching the Bible, watching videos on NPD, watching sermons, etc., praying for answers and trying to understand what the hold on me was. I have never come across your videos until last week. I found 2 Timothy years ago, but never heard anyone speak on it, and relate it to a Narc, until I saw your video last week. That video, after all these years, was meant for me personally. I always wrestled with leaving, but felt obligated. As if he needed me to love him and fix him. I knew I needed to leave, I knew it was not from God, but that hold on me was real. Your videos were sent to me from God, because like I said, I have searched and searched for Biblical answers about this relationship, but could not find any, until I know that I know, God allowed your videos to come through to me last week. On Saturday morning, Mar 2nd, five simple words came out of my mouth to the Narc, at a local Lowe's Hardware Store. "I can't do this anymore." This time I meant it. This time, I didn't say it in hopes he would change. This time, I was sick and tired, of being sick and tired. God bless you, and know that your work is helping. I have no one here that I can talk to about this, so if you would, please remember me in your prayers. Thank you again for allowing God to use you! I pray for all people who have gone through anything similar to this matter (the victim and the Narc). God knows all of our hearts. Praise be to God, forever and always!
Another great teaching. Thank you so much. I will listen to this one many times as I do so many others. God Bless you and yours and all listening.
Pastor, this is confirmation over my life. I am in this season right now and I am free. I will never be bound again, Thank you Father God.
There is so many events in life that can teach u. We are never too old to learn life. As long as we live God allows us to keep learning life. I'm healing my heart after a horrible breakup. And my girlfriend recently had a break up and I would send her ur videos and I would minister to her. That was last year but this year I broke up my relationship and have no one to talk to me. But I thought about ur videos pastor. Thank u so much I needed to hear this video. I need strength.
Hi pastor your such an inspiration to me thank you so much for all your life lessons.I live in the Caribbean Trinidad to be exact it would be a great honour to have you come to the Caribbean.Stay bless now.
Thank you for all you do. You have helped me get through my struggles of being broken hearted more than you know!
Thanks so much Pastor RC Blakes for this video. Forgiveness is the doorway for true recovery. I know in my own experiences I did experience healing until I chose to forgive those who hurt me even from my childhood and learn to help hurting souls. Thanks for your wisdom nuggets in this episode.
Always wonderful Pastor Blakes!!! I just thank you so much for being a huge part of my healing from demonic narcissistic abuse and it looks like many others as well. I now have an awareness page to help other women, it has helped me as I heal, just like you said. Thank you for responding to my messages. It meant the world to me. Love to you!
This was good! Yes Lord this was a sobering message that was needed!
I needed to hear this today because in attempting to heal from a 2 week old break up, I am struggling (with what you talked about before) with needing closure. After this message God bestowed on you to deliver to me is I need to FORGIVE GIVE AND LIVE!! AMEN pastor!! I receive this anointed message!!!
This truly blessed and uplifted my spirit ! I thank God for you 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Yes ✨
So grateful that I'm able to rewatch a lesson especially when I feel defeated. You teach so many valuable lessons. That have saved so many of us from SELF destruction. 🌻🌻
Thank you Pastor!
I have been on a search for my life's mission for a long time and you have just confirmed I am on the right path. Thank you !! I am currently getting certified to become a Life and Success Coach. I have reached out to speak to teenagers who are currently pregnant or are young mothers as I was at the age of 16.
Waiting so I can hear it and share it
Such a beautiful and timely message.
Wow! I truly thank God for you, Pastor Blakes. I've been watching your channel for right at two years now, and I must say that I have been tremendously blessed!! Thank you for obeying God and allowing Him to speak through you to help people like me. You've helped thousands of people be healed and set free from traumatic experiences/ toxic relations (me being one of them), and I am forever grateful. I hope to meet you someday! Love, Peace, and Blessings!
You are a gem to the Body of Christ and the world. This is confirmation to the things I've endured and presently facing. I can attest that I've followed these principles and moving forward. Thank you!
Thanks it's my first time watching you..
I'm living my best life!!!!!
This is definitely an on time word for me pastor Blakes. I am writing two books one about healing and rebuilding from toxic love and another for single moms. I just was saying this morning I have to reach deep inside me and pull from a place of victory, power and overcoming for the women God is calling me to write to. And when you said about being hidden because of walls I was just saying to myself this morning maybe I haven’t met my husband is because I still have some anger from the way my sons dad left me when I was pregnant. So thank you for confirming what I was saying this morning. God bless you!
Thank you, for giving me clear biblical knowledge on forgiving those who has hurt you. I held forgiveness hostage thinking it made the other peron feel my pain. Wow how wrong i have been. Thank you, for setting me free, knowing how to forgive and move on I feel RELIEF
Perfect timing!!! Thank you 💖🙏🏽
Thank you Pastor Blakes for this timely message. I'm currently suffering in the all consuming emotions of grief. My ex husband died October 2017 and there are days it's so overwhelming. This message helped. Loved the analogy of the LP. I too grew up with records.
God bless and keep you. Love you for the ministry and mantle God has placed on you🙏🏿♥️
Vanessa Shoobridge I'm sorry for loss. GOD will comfort you and strengthen you.
I'm going through a challenge of forgiveness and have just recently understood that you have to perpetually walk in forgiveness. It's not a once-off statement that one makes and everything is fine. There will be memories that will spark pain, or incidents that will occur that cause you pain but you have to choose to constantly walk in forgiveness. Eventually it will get to a point where you realise you no longer feel the pain. Trusting God that everything will be alright is all we need to do which is easier said than done. But Pastor Blakes...... I want you to know that you are my mentor. I believe my calling is in relationships, particularly in the area of healing. I would love for us to communicate in the near future as I just recently launched my own show and I tell my listeners that I get some of my content from you because you articulated it so well and it makes it easier for me to relate to and convey. Here's to hoping that you will reach out to me..... Who knows, perhaps you can have a seminar or conference here in South Africa!!!!!!
You are such a wonderful pastor! Thank you for your insight, warmth and care. You are helping so many urt people. It is important work you are doing! God bless.
I meant hurt people!
This message was so powerful! I needed to hear this and it applies to all situations as well. I’ve been struggling dealing with hurt from my a family member. This message has given me confirmation to forgive, let go, and move on. Thank you pastors
This is really terrific. Thank you, Bishop Blakes.
Thank you God for using This man of God to help heal me. I stumbled across him and I know it wasn’t luck it was God loving me
This message is right on time... Thank you Father in the mighty name of Jesus!
Wow. Such a perfect analogy with the broken record!! The only way for it to continue playing smoothly is to manually take the needle, skip that scratched/damaged part of the record, and MOVE FORWARD!!
I've never had a relationship that worked out I've always been by myself in a relationship nobody wants to be by themselves but sometimes that's the way it's meant to be
Beautiful message ❤️
Good morning Mr Blakes; i have been listening to your videos for a little over two wks now!; nd they are vety helpful to me. I must tell you that this one especially have woken me from the painful destructive slumber that i have been in for seven long yrs; yes,i have been talking to the Most High GOD about my stagnant situation for many yrs,nd have felt a nudge to get up nd go out to fulfill my GOD given potential.i was suffering from a narcsssistic trauma,followed by a job related accident,which followed by a motor vehicle accident; nd all three situations left me in a very dreadful position. Now i feel the pulling of what i will say ; The Hands of Ahayah pulling me up from the fall to set me up on higher grounds,to fulfill his plans for my life. I thank God for you,nd your obedience to listen to his voice when he spoke to you; your videos have helped to deliver,nd set many ppl free from the narcissist yolk of burden. Please keep up the godly works,nd may Ahayah continue to provide for your every needs,as he teach,guide,nd keep you safe in yashua's name amen.
Going through this right now. My pain was caused by dating a pastor in the church.
Absolutely a healing ministry much needed.🙌🏾💃🏾
Perfect analogy about the needle getting stuck on the album!! Get up to move it forward!! Love it!!
I just found you a few weeks ago. I’ve been watching your videos and they have been a blessing. Thank you so much. I needed to hear this today. 🙏🏽
I was able to apply your teaching to a friendship not a romantic one and I needed to focus on the road map where I can help someone through my life experiences. Thank you so much for your words of wisdom.
Great word!
Love this! You really went all in on this one. Forgiveness frees your heart. Forgiveness is power. 10!
I forgive him and I’m aligning my heart with God.... in Jesus name Amen.
Thank you Pastor
I appreciate this
Thank you Bishop Amen🙏
PRAISE GOD 🙌 I really needed to hear these WORDS. TO GOD BE THE GLORY!! PEACE OF MIND is the best thing I've chosen to go forward in my life in over 18 years. Thank you! So much for being God's teaching vessel at this time Brother RC Blakes. GOD Bless!
I am from the Record era as well (8-tracks too)*
LoL 👌
Dr RC Blakes. I love you - Thank you. 😊 i hv never felt soo free in my life. Thank you. All the way from South Africa
Every time I think I heard the best one yet, you come up with another 1. Thank you so much pastor RC Blake's you are the man sent from above to help us all, thank you, thank you!!
Thanks you pastor for sharing the wisdom with us.🧡💜🧡💜🧡💜🧡💜
You were missed Pastor but the Queenology work is of great importance in these times and its wonderful to see such a turn out for the conferences.
Thank you for this word today ❤️
The Thinker 💜💯🙏🏽
Moving forward in my life positively and fruitfully in my life.. leaving the offender in the hands of God.
My God, was this word of wisdom for me? Thank you sir, I surely needed this encouragement today. Its been a year, and I have felt stuck, but only in my mind n heart. I am taking steps, but the heartache still pops up occasionally. God Bless you and your ministry.
This is so good, I needed to hear this. Thank you.
I needed this Ran into my ex NARC today . AFTER 6 months discard. Its my choice to NOT let them go but to let ME GO!. I CHOOSE TO LET ME GO.
Good for you sis
Forgive, Give, Live
Amen
This is so helpful for me as I heal from past trauma, thank you. 😊🙏❤️
Thankyou R. C. Blake! And Amen! I've been Praying for a answer And lo and behold the answer came through you to me! Thankyou Dear lord our creator! Love&Light to you R. C. Blake and yours
Every single word is so accurate and comforting. God bless @rcblakes🙏🏼