For clarification the law is not to wear a wig, but that the hair be covered 😊 So everyone has their custom how! It could be a wig, a scarf, or a bag if someone wishes 😉
The point of covering the hair is to avoid vanity. Wearing wigs as a “ head covering” is all about vanity. This wig tradition skirts the spirit of the law.
I have to agree with u. It seems counterintuitive to the beliefs that I know of to be the reason for covering hair according to Abrahamic religions, I'm wondering if the " woman's energy kabbalah thing is an accurate depiction of the teaching or if this truly is what orthodox Jews believe.
I respect the tradition, but this video still does not help me understand the reason to wear a wig. If the tradition states to cover your hair for modesty, then how is wearing a wig (a beautiful long luscious one at that) respect that tradition ? Not showing your hair to the outside world, but wearing a beautiful wig is ok? How do people know it’s even a wig? Wouldn’t simply wearing a turban wrap, snood or scarf make more sense? I’m sorry, I’m not trying to be disrespectful, I’m really trying to understand.
I'm not sure I understand the idea of wearing a wig. If you are told to cover your hair, I understand that completely -- meaning to cover your head with a scarf, hat, etc. And by wearing a scarf, it says you are a married woman. As a married woman, how does anyone else know that you're wearing a wig? You can say you are. To me a scarf would outwardly acknowledge your faith and the fact you are married. To me a wig just doesn't do it. And 3000 years ago, the woman would wear a head covering - not a wig.
Most of the time when I see Hasidic women wearing wigs they look fake....not made to look so realistic like how the general public wears lace front wigs etc. The wigs don't look real...so you can tell they are head coverings.
It’s not as much an outward symbol of being married but more that it’s something you do for yourself and your religion when you are married. Wearing a scarf or a noticeable wig can show that you are married, just like wearing wedding rings everyday shows it, but the ring was only necessary for the actual marriage ceremony and married people can choose not to wear them after but just because your don’t see it, like a good natural looking wig, doesn’t mean they aren’t married. Jewish law says a married woman must cover their natural hair. There are a few interpretations based on where the Jews lived during the diaspora, when the Jews were kicked out of ancient Israel in around 70 AD. In the Ashkenazi community, Jews from Eastern Europe, it is interpreted that a wig can count as a hair covering since it does cover your natural hair as much as a headscarf would. This confuses a lot of people since the only references most people have regarding covering your hairs is Muslim women covering their hair for modesty. Modesty isn’t the reason married Jewish women cover their hair so they can look and feel as beautiful as they want in which every way that might be, as a wig or a headscarf, as long as their natural hair is covered. Hope this helps!
You are 100% right but what the woman who made this video doesn't say is that many Jewish women for that reason do not wear wigs because many Orthodox Jews particularly those of European background almost never acknowledge the even the existence of millions of Jews of Middle Eastern background with completely different customers and traditions which are many say accurate and representative of ancient custom
@@andreamessiasgomes7118 It has nothing to do with Sumeria. Many ancient cultures and religions make use of wigs, Judaism from some parts of the world being one of them.
Jewish women were directed to cover their hair to prevent fallen angels from uh, interfering with them. Apparently, womens' hair is very attractive to them. Not sure why wearing another's hair would be effective in light of this.
These women spend large amounts of money and seem to have so much "pride" in their wigs. This clip is the perfect example. I have never understood this idea.
G-d didn't say that you should wear a wig, just that you should over your hair. For thousands of years Jewish women wore a scarf to cover their hair, it is only in the last few centuries that Jewish women began to wear wigs.
Thank you honey for explaining to the world a part of your culture habits, its beautiful to learn and understand each other what ever our backgrounds are.
Thank you for this usefull explanation. Il like to understand how and why people do act and think a certain way. Nevertheless, it is a fact that women are most of the time much more affected by religions with rules…🤷🏻♀️
@@reneeamyot4261 this is not necessarily so in Judaism, where there are mitzvot for men and women. It is easy enough to Google for further information.
@Leena Wexler and therefore what? Their ancestors were duped by the Haskalah. And they dont have much Jewish education. Anyone with an adequate Jewish education knows the sources in Chumash, Talmud, and Codes. And they love and choose the practice
That is very contradictory. To cover your hair… with hair. Religion makes people do all sorts of illogical things and they will always find some excuse about ‘beauty’ and ‘love’ to rationalize it 😂
That's the reason why many Jews don't wear wigs particularly Jews of Middle Eastern and North African ancestry never wear wigs and it is forbidden for them to do so by their rabbis particularly for the reason that you mentioned it doesn't make any sense but Ashkenazi and European Jews do not often times even acknowledge the existence of their middle eastern and North African cousins they view us as being inferior and are totally ignorant of our practices and represent their practices as being the only Jewish customs and practices which they of course are not they refuse to acknowledge the fact that Judaism originates in the Middle East not Europe
I was always taught that after marriage a women covers her hair so she will not be attractive to another man. It is a question of modesty. In Mea Sharim you can still see women with the shaved head and a shatel. The wig only came about the last 40 to 50 years. Better to wear a lovely hat or scarf to be humble in the eyes of HaShem.
But a wig can make a woman just as attractive, so it rather defeats the purpose. Also in Torah times women didn't have wigs they covered their heads with scarf or cloth wrappings...so this modern wig wearing is a bit hypocritical, women still want to look attractive with a nice wig..
Confused... why does it fall to a woman to obscure themselves when men should just control themselves? It's the age old case of male domination and shoving responsibility for their actions onto women. I don't mean to demean your beliefs but what's so special about dead keratin?
I'll see people in various religions (barring Amish, they stay plain overall) have women wear headscarves for modesty, but also wear 20 gallons of makeup and a very fashionable outfit. Hey, I don't judge, it's whatever, I am not saying it makes them less closer to God, but logically thinking only it seems to totally defeat the purpose in preserving modesty and not getting unwanted looks of other men.
@@wbl5649 We do not live our lives as the people in the torah, just follow the rules they did. It is not about unatracktiveness or sexually repelling others, its about dedication to your spouce, dedication to your marriage, and privacy. Modesty doesnt mean ugly.
@@erikadunne not every single thing in the entire world is about men. people do many things for themselves and their own comfort and relationship with G-d. Wigs and scarves arent meant to make you less beautiful or less "sexual" but to preserve and protect the form G-d has given, show dedication to your husband, and yes for modesty. Not the modesty you think of.
@@esorliversage6634 Women are not responsible for you sexualizing their existance. Wigs can be a symbol of dedication to Hashem and your spouce, to show respect to your marriage and body, and for "modesty" in the sense you do not understand.
I still don't get this whole hair thing in Judaism and Islam. If the purpose of covering your hair is not to be attractive to other males, in many cases the wig is going to look BETTER than the woman's natural hair, and thus she is MORE attractive to other males.
If you watch again you’ll see the purpose has nothing to do with attraction for males. Just to cover and therefore can be covered with whatever she wants- like for example a wig
@@ThatJewishFamily Jewish men cover their hair too, just not completely. So if I understood your video right, the reasons why males cover their head is different from why females do. Right?
Muslim women cover not only their hair but dress modestly. These rules are different for each religion. It's not only a hair thing. Muslim men also have rules of covering their body and grow a beard, but it's different for a woman for obvious reasons, built differently. Why covering is important is because you see each other more objectively. In Islam it's not about a man being superior to a woman. We don't believe that. That's something the western media made people believe so. And we don't have hair covering with hair. Hope this explains it somewhat.
Hair covering predates Islam by quite a long time. In ancient times, the fallen angels found human women very attractive and our hair was one of the things that made them lust for human women. They would sin and have sexual relations with human women creating an unholy union resulting in what the Bible calls “the Nephilim”. They were the ancient giants. The Arab and other Middle Eastern men put hijabs on the women in order to make them less attractive to the fallen angels to protect them. I am not sure how the tradition started for Jewish women though.
This is ridiculous. If you cover your hair for modesty, then wearing a wig completely defeats the purpose. This is exactly why Muslim women wear hijab and not wigs. Just because the hair isn’t yours, doesn’t mean you’re being modest.
@@onatarabandrui8375 covering hair is in all abrahamic faith . And this way of cover with wig is actually not really following the commandments and following own desire .
I used to wear wigs ("human hair" apparently). I stopped for ethical and personal reasons. One on the biggest questions for me on wearing someone else's hair : hair has STRONG spiritual ties to their owner, how do you feel comfortable wearing someone else's hair while being religious ? What do you believe your God thinks of you wearing the hair that doesn't belong to you ? These questions are really important to me since I strongly believe in the spiritual essence that hair has. Hair are antennas, it conveys the owner's personal energy. I remember people in India, Africa etc use to burn their shedded hair to avoid anybody doing which craft with it.
@@user-yh2vm2ti3c thank you for your time and discourse. It's not my logic, it is spiritual. People believe in the strength of hair since day of dawn. It's not only an "item of fashion", at least not for many people. Many cultures whom have been oppressed, were deprived from their hair. Hair are like entenas, that doesn't mean that if you don't have hair you're not spiritual 😂. And your comment is actually interesting because cultures that put a lot of attention to their hair very rarely are victims of baldness... Many people grow their hair the longest they can for spiritual reasons. It's okay if you don't believe in it. But don't come to people who believe in the invisible. Humans around the world have been trying to understand the essence of life through centuries, they know there's something in what we can't see full stop. Please, you can continue to consider that your brain plays with you when you dont understand something but don't disrespect the studies of people who stress the importance of the connection between mind, body, earth and universe. True lies in the heart of the one who wants to believe in. There is no "THE TRUTH" when talking about spirituality If you don't believe in it's your problem. As long as those beliefs don't harm other people then, I guess we're good. The woman in the video IS religious, she wears wigs because her God asked her to cover her hair. How can she consider hair like an "item of clothing" if her beliefs explain that hair is important. 🤨 Hair is way more than that, it's a form of communication, it's an extension of yourself, it's a protection.
I may be 2 years late but i'll still leave a comment. even though i might not understand fully the idea of covering your hair with another hair, as a muslim woman who wears the hijab I just want to say that your happiness and joy throughout the video made me feel joy as well. your excitement when trying on different wigs tells me how important and amazing it is to you as a jew. your different ways of covering and cherishing your hair are interesting and learning about this was fun. i'm glad i saw this video.
Thank you for sharing My mother was raised orthodox and I was raised conservative ever since my mom passed away I kind of lost my way so seeing your videos help me feel connected thank you again
Not for nothing, but those wigs are soooo beautiful. I wouldn't mind wearing one of those all the time! And yours looks so natural, for a second I was wondering how come you weren't covering your hair lol. Great job. Love this. The Jewish communities in Brooklyn are like a whole other world. Thank you for letting us in :)
Coming from an Orthodox Jew, this practice removes the spirit from the rule. If Jewish women are told to have a hair covering, then wearing a wig is contradictory to the intention of the law. This is incongruent with the justification for not using light switches on Shabbat, or for not typing with a mechanical keyboard. Why, in God's eyes, would this wig-wearing "loophole" constitute fulfillment of the rule?
I was born and raised in a Jewish household now my parents were raised with much more tradition they raised us much more laid back. My brothers did have Bar mitzvahs and I had my bat mitzvah. I married someone that wasn’t Jewish. Growing up being the only girl with three brothers my dad and mom always said “Stephanie you need to marry a nice Jewish boy” well I never found one but my husband really made sure that my religion was always celebrated. Now we have two little girls and we do the same for every Jewish holiday we’re at my parents house eating the best food ( lol ) and for non Jewish holidays we are at my husbands family’s house. My girls get the best of both worlds. We have Hanukkah then my daughter Dani-Kay’s birthday is Dec 23rd then we have Christmas. Dani was named after my papa Danny. Maybe it’s just me but growing up Jewish was the best. My kids choose to do Hebrew school and they are happy and smart and amazing! So glad I came across this channel!!! It’s wonderful!
@@kathyander4920 if you have nothing nice to say then don’t comment….you will never understand bc I’m guessing you aren’t Jewish so here’s a thought don’t watch her videos bc you just sound uneducated.
I also had similar childhood...I have two girls with my goyish lol husband. Both my girls choose Judaism as their religion. Why? Cause it's the best religion in this life .
I love the way you explained why you wear wigs and I also love how you aren’t ‘hiding’ your beauty and that Judaism wants you to embrace that and not hide it ❤️ I love the concept that you only cover your hair after you’re married because it’s only for your husband really. You could have pink hair and nobody would ever know and it’s nobody’s business! 🫶🏼 I really love your videos and your fam, I’m Catholic (and Irish) so I’ve never known any other religion but I really love all your videos! Sending you all lots of love and blessings from the Emerald Isle. 🇮🇪☘️ xo
You completely miss the word of God and what it means cover your head. God never order anyone to wear a wig to cover your head with. You are doing the exact opposite of God's will and please stop twisting God's words to make your world comfortable as you wish it to be. Learn from your forefathers!
“Judaism wants you to embrace your beauty and not hide it” … and yet, I don’t think wigs existed when that law was first implemented. Kind of a dilemma, huh?
isn’t covering your head a modesty requirement? Why cover your own hair with …hair? Where’s the modesty? Older Orthodox women wear hats and scarves and perhaps a wig of little beauty. They show the modesty aspect. You either go with the laws of Torah or you don’t. However, to “tweak” the laws and find loopholes to suit your egotistical needs seems far from what Torah teaches. To each their own. There is little point to be known as Orthodox when, clearly, boundaries have been moved for the sake of human ego.
Wigs can be a symbol of dedication to Hashem and your spouse, to show respect to your marriage and body, and for "modesty" in the sense you do not understand. Not everything needs to be seen through your narrow lense of what modesty, beauty, femininity and sexuality is.
Wearing wigs is a modern day, manmade custom. God commands us to shun vanity and the lust of the flesh. We are born with a sinful nature and we must overcome the desires of the carnal man. Vanity is a huge problem for women, so covering our hair in public is our way to defeat the heart's desire to exalt self. This cannot be accomplished by wearing a beautiful wig, but by wearing a scarf. Every person must battle with self if they are going to become like God. God's command is to act humble and be modest, so this is the true reason why we Jewish women cover our hair with a tichel (scarf). Study every Scripture covering the topic of vanity, lust, and self exaltation and you will grasp the idea of wearing a scarf.
If it’s suppose to be a symbol, I believe that using wigs contradicts this purpose. I’m not Jewish, just a view from the outside in. Thanks for sharing the process. Very interesting!
@@m1tche11one actually no, wearing a wig is perfectly fine because the law it not to make yourself "ugly" or insecure, it is a symbol of marriage, dedication to the spouce, and "modesty" (in a jewish sense)
Thank you for sharing this with us! I love the wig you chose! I’ve often thought about a wig. But been so brave as to only wear extensions. I think your purpose for wearing a wig is so noble and shows such a deep respect for your faith and God.
I believe they are misinterpreting the Law (Torah). Being COVERED means women should have hair and NOT cut it down like men do. Your literal OWN hair IS the covering. It's one of the many things that make women women. Also, you could say that after the watchers mated with human women, there was a command that they cover the hair as to not attract them with their beauty. Long flowing hair being one of the attractors of these watchers. Thus covering hair with hair, would defeat the purpose of the command and a SCARF would make more sense. And God will bless you even if you had NO HAIR. He cares more about the content of your character (treating your neighbor as yourself) rather than the hair strands HE put on your head and gave you. He gave you hair.... just remember that you are his perfect design. He wouldn't dare withhold his blessings even if you decided to show your hair.😊
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In the New Testament it tells us that a woman's hair is her glory and that she has power because it's long and uncut. Many Apostolic women have laid their long hair over their seriously I'll child while they prayed. It says that if a woman has short hair she might as well be shaved because she is basically dishonoring God if she's praying with her hair uncovered. I'm not explaining it very well, but Lee Stoneking has a book about it. I lost 30-40% of my hair due to cancer and complications related to it and the rest was severely damaged, snapped off if you barely touched it. I stood in front of the bathroom mirror and cried as I chopped it short, but it had to be done to save the rest and by then I was wearing a wig anyway. It wasn't flattering at all, too dark and heavy but it was the only long one the cancer support agency had at the time and since I am Apostolic Pentecostal I needed a longer one. I wore it for a while until I could buy a somewhat better one at a local beauty supply store. After about six months I switched to scarves or hats bc the wig was too hot for a Midwestern USA summer is and by then my hair was in better shape and growing back. Fast forward five years and I am cancer free plus you can't tell I ever lost so much hair; it's longer and thicker than it has been in years.
A veil or scarf is more comfortable than a wig, to be honest. A wig seems obnoxious if it isn't necessary (hair loss, cancer, thin older hair, etc), especially if it involves religion.
@@wecx2375 I understand this. But even other Jewish sects have interpreted from the Talmud that the covering be a SCARF not a wig. The wig is unique to this sect. Others simply wear a scarf.
Some of these wigs are so lush and perfect you really can't tell it's a wig! GORGEOUS! Keep it up my Jewish friends you add beauty to the world around you by following that tradition.
I am not Jewish (non-religious actually) but I once visited a German synagogue with a group of men and the rabbi asked us to cover our heads with a cover (kippah) as a sign of humility to God who is above us all.
Wigs can be a symbol of dedication to Hashem and your spouse, to show respect to your marriage and body, and for "modesty" in the sense you do not understand. Not everything needs to be seen through your narrow lense of what modesty, beauty, femininity and sexuality is.
The wigs are certainly beautiful. To each their own. No judgment. My own religion has rules and customs I question. However, I think most religions, pretty much all of which were founded and controlled by men, that have these "rules" that govern women's behavior to be suspect when independently questioned. Again, my own religion included. However, I like the idea of having a choice to wear a wig, if that's what you want to do. They are certainly beautiful, and it would be convenient when you don't have time to do your hair. This was very informative, and interesting. Thanks for sharing.
Yes totally agree with this. So many rules made by men to control women under the guise of honoring god or a higher power. Why have we bought in to this?
@@shternaraskin7706 Perhaps, yes, but like my own religion, our holy documents/scrolls/etc have been edited, controlled, and interpreted by men. Just to be clear, I'm not judging. I'm simply questioning.
I can’t tell the difference between the wig you bought and the one you normally wear. The one with the highlights toward the bottom looked fantastic on you! I loved your explanation of why you wear a wig. It’s very meaningful. Mendel is adorable btw. He’s getting so big! Have a good week.
quite right. when i want to look fancy, i wear a wig ..for casual, i wear a cotton beret (i have several colours) and i also wear a snood. i used to wear a bandanna and i am thinking of buying a hat called a slouchy ....the list is as long as your imagination. the bottom line: my hair is covered. ps....because of a wig, i look younger than my real age! side note...it doesn't matter if people can tell if i'm wearing a wig. i know it (and God knows it) I hope this helps.
I am a shia Muslim.. it found amazing great.. I was always wondering how jews are not covering hair when they are following of Propher Moses (pbuh). I love it. This channel is amazing. Thanks
I'm no long religious but I remember wearing a veil and covering my head in church as a young girl, so I think a woman covering her head goes back to the abrahamic roots of Islam, Jewish, and Christian faiths.
So it's not so much about modesty, but protection from "negative or evil" energy? I have never heard that before. I would love to learn more. Thank you for allowing us to get a peek into your traditions and beliefs.
It IS about modesty. Our hair is only for our husband because it becomes a private part of our body when we marry. We can wear a beautiful wig (sheitel) while being modest (covering our private parts). The kabbalistic elements she spoke about are WHY our hair becomes private after marriage. We are supposed to be powerful (influential) and modest. Wearing the wig allows us to do both:)
It is absolutely about modesty that's why many Jews do not wear wigs in fact most Jews of Middle Eastern and North African ancestry which are the majority in Israel as opposed to in the United States and the West do not wear wigs for this particular reason it is insufficiently modest and makes no sense
It doesn’t need to be obvious, just covered and everyone can choose how. Many have different customs. My community has the custom to cover with a wig rather then a scarf because wigs can be really beautiful and that’s a stress in Judaism as well, for women to feel and look beautiful
@@ThatJewishFamily the jewish role for women is not just to be beautiful but to pray and give and be connected and to give and share I don’t think she was born jewish
@@datingandlifeadvicechannel7534 how rude to say! it is important for women to feel happy and confident. i don't see why beauty and holiness cannot exist at the same time? a woman ccan pray and give and be connected and also wear a wig.
I think many woman would to love these beautiful wigs no matter what religion. Everyone has bad hair days. People with dry frizzy hair can experience straight shiny hair. Some one with straight hair can have curly hair. The only time I would not want a wig is in very hot weather. I love the wigs in this shop. ❤
I never knew Orthodox Jewish women wear wigs. Thank you so much for sharing your faith and love for your family with us. I offer you nothing but respect for your culture.
Shalom aleichem. I just want to thank you for making this video. I am a convert and am very often explaining to my family about jewish law as many people are misinformed about Orthodox Judaism. Either by media or sad stereotypes people can be very misinformed about our beautiful religion. I myself am not in the orthodox sect but I have great respect for you and how dedicated you are to the Torah and G-d.I send these to my parents and family to not only inform them but show them the Jewish life isn’t always oppressive and sad like how they see in movies. Thank you for spreading joy, good information and our lovely religion online. Shalom and may your day be filled with love and joy.
The Orthodox women sure so rock lacefronts and hit up the beauty supply for wig caps. I live around orthodox Jews and good luck finding a wig cap or even a silk stocking in a pinch. Also, they and muslim women buy up all the long skirts and modest dresses in every store nearby!
That does look like a fun experience! I will still stick with a tichel because I feel more covered and love the morning ritual of wrapping. Also you can get like 300 of them for the price of one sheitel lol. It’s good for those of us who are indecisive 😂
You have such a shining personality!!! You explain your beliefs in a beautiful and fun way! Such an informative video, thanks for bringing us into your world and letting us understand your religion better :)
Wear fake hair so people don’t see your real hair, but most people won’t know it’s fake hair…does this make sense? I understand modernizing religious rules, but at what point does it just seem to defeat the purpose.
So let me guess this right... The practising Muslim women covers her beauty and honours herself before and after marriage yet the West and the Media view it as oppression. A Jewish women decides to wear a wig that looks like hair AFTER marriage for her husband yet this is considered "out of respect" for her husband. Ill let you do the math. Alhamdulillah im Muslim. ❤
Totally charming. Very enjoyable learning about this. Thank you for sharing. I am a fellow wig wearer due to hair loss. Wigs are a good thing in so many ways. Kate from Oregon
To cover your head for modesty purpose is totally fine. This is the reason why it should be done and there is nothing mystical. Orthodox Christians and Muslim women do it, too. But wearing a wig has NOTHING to do with modesty. Why? Because stranger men may not even know it's a wig, so a woman may attract them. The same thing if in a wig a woman looks even more beautiful. This ruins the main purpose of covering. What does it have to do with modesty??? Nothing. And I am not even saying that wearing a wig all the time isn't healthy at all.
I am not of your faith, but found this video so very interesting. You are beautiful and your explanations are beautiful. I just enjoyed the experience. Continued blessings to you and your family.
Where do you obtain the human hair for the wigs ? You will probably sa, ";from humsans " but what is the background to making a human hair wigs ? Is it kosher ?
I don’t believe in organized religion, but I was brought up Jewish and always wondered why Orthodox Jews wore wigs over their own hair. I asked someone once, so I was familiar with the “law” but never thought it made any sense. I tuned into this video to see if it could shed any light on the logic behind the wig wearing that I might’ve missed, and found that nope, there is absolutely no coherent logic, at all. It’s just an absurd modern work-around of a “law”, which completely defeats the purpose for which said “law” was written. It’s a silly and expensive folly, not to mention hot AF in the summer.
As I Christian lady I believe as Paul taught in 1 Corthinthians 11 he said our hair is given to us as a covering. I do not cut my hair at all. I don't understand cutting off our hair , then just to put more hair on .
You really ought have your hair trimmed every so often to keep the ends from splitting and frizzing. Not cut it short, just keep it trimmed and shaped.
I agree; from what I understand Paul says to cover your HEAD If not a woman should have her HAIR cut short. From my understanding a women's hair is her covering because it covers her HEAD. Did God cover Eve's hair after the the fall when He covered her body?
I am a Muslim. It is wonderful to know about the Jewish religion and that it imposes a headscarf on Jewish women as well... And with this, Jewish and Muslim women are obligated to veil... Why does everyone ask about the veil of Muslim women?
Thank you for your incredibly candid insight into Orthodox Judaism. To hear you say that women have power and should be protected changes my understanding of the how not only the Kabbalah influences Orthodox Judaism but also highlights the similarities between Judaism beliefs/practices and First Nations Peoples understandings of how important hair is.
Black woman here. Ya'll have not been to an Asian beauty store in the black community. We wear wigs as accessories to our outfits and protective styling. For fun, visit an Asian beauty supply store and you will see what variety really looks like. Question: What did ya'll do before wigs were available?
GD didn't tell us to cover our hair. This mitzvah is deduced from the Sota. It was a humiliation for the woman who was suspected of infidelity (and who denied it) to uncover her head before drinking the bitter waters that would determine whether she was innocent (and would be blessed with more children) or would die. This is the source for knowing that married women must cover our hair.
It’s not so simple. In the times of the Talmud, all women covered their hair. Married or single, Jewish or non Jewish. Thus it’s as she said a chook. A mitzvah we don’t completely understand.
Hello, this is like a more modern view of the Jewish orthodox community I am a Christian woman 👩🏻 and I love your culture and I’m always interested on learning more far away from criticizing Everytime I read the Bible I know that my Bible comes from the fathers of your land
The Old Testament comes from the Jewish religion. It was for the Jews. The NEW TESTAMENT, which was a result of the teachings of Jesus Christ, is for Christians.(This was why the Pharisees did not like the new teachings and helped to crucify the Christ, as He challenged their power and way of life.) It may be that the Old Testament god is not even the same as the God that Christ spoke of, but a demi-god.
With all the respect Barnowl there is many verses that talked about Jesus and pointed him as the messiah Isaiah , Micah, Daniel, Jeremiah, all those prophets talked about Jesus but also on the same Bible Jesus knew that he will be rejected by the Pharisees not because he challenged the law but because he didn’t agree on how they added more to the Torah and put weight ( more rules) on the people of Israel Religion makes you create your own path instead of Gods along. The New Testament was written by Jewish people that knew he was the messiah the son of God, God himself .
@@threewomenco. The New Testament was written by the early Christians, who were converted to Christianity from Jewism, but also from other societies. It is a different mind-set and life experience to that of Jewism. Yes, the Jews pointed him out to be the coming Messiah who was Jeremiah etc. but that does not mean that He was. A Messiah comes approximately every 2,000 years and the Christ, Who promised to come again, will return sometime soon, hopefully by the end of this century. The Christ is not God himself. He is the first human to reach the fifth Initiation of Resurrection and Ascension and what it truly means spiritually. Christ is the son/sun of God, that greater God, about 'which naught may be said' because He is transcendent and cannot be explained in the words of wo/men. I have been studying religion and spirituality for many years and most of religion does not have an understanding of deeper, esoteric spirituality .The reappearance of The Christ, Who may not come through religion, will change this.
Jesus Christ is coming back but this time not for the church but for his people, the Bible says that the Jews will see the new temple and the Antichrist will deceive everyone the messiah will come back for Israel and they will realize that all along they were blinded, why do you think that Israel hasn’t seen another prophet after John the Baptist Jesus said and I will not send more prophets to them until the end of time two witnesses will rise in Israel during the 7 years, he also promised that he will choose a group of young israelís to preach the gospel during the tribulation, I understand that you don’t believe it is not time yet, but if he was to come the church is leaving first in the rapture and the seven years for Israel will star but we the church know that is not time yet First we need to see the beast rise with ten head which means 5 Europe countries and five countries from the Middle East rise and try to bring peace to Israel
I respect your point of view and I love nothing more than to share my points of view with you but I don’t want to continue in this video because I respect the creators of this video, and they deserve respect and I apologize to them, to you Barnowl I will go to your channel and if you allow me I’m more than happy to share anything
I thought one’s husband IS her covering. I also don’t see the harm in a physical covering like a scarf or hat, I’m a little confused on an entire wig. Especially one made of human hair. The statement about energies reminds me of mysticism, which is against the Lord God. Thank you for sharing this part of your culture, wig shopping seems fun.
The reason we cover our hair is simply bec the commandment is for our hair to be covered. (Yes, there are also many beautiful kabbalistic explanations) but it is Not for modesty or avoiding vanity. And it doesn't matter how we cover our hair; all that matters is that it is covered. So no, wearing a wig is not a loophole. The reason why Raizel and most Chabad women take care to cover their hair with a wig is bec the Lubavitcher Rebbe preferred a wig in that it's most likely to keep all the hair covered (thereby adding more blessing to the family among other reasons) and can't/won't be easily removed, revealing the hair underneath. So many Chabad women go to great lengths to wear a wig as a head covering, rather than a headscarf. (At home/in privacy though, we can wear a headscarf).
I believe God means cover the head with a shawl (in the old ages) or scarf. But I appreciate you explaining about the wigs and why. By the way, you looked great I the baylayage type wig, although I'm certain your own hair must be beautiful based on the babies hair 😊
Talk about twisting the meaning of Gods command. The law is to cover you hair, not to wear a wig. That is defeating the purposes. Why would you be commanded to cover you hair, WITH FALSE HAIR. Its making a mockery of Gods law. You are commanded to do so after marriage because in the past amongst Jews (and others people's) girls were married off at puberty and that is the time she became a woman, thus the Command for modesty.
The real problem everybody agrees is the very long wigs. Most teachers say that not Tznius. A very hard word to translate, basically it means "don't stare at me"
I love your attitude and how you have fun doing this. For me sheital shopping has never been fun, always stressful and dreadful. I’m glad you can show another experience
I am pro-Israel. I have considered conversion because of my ex as I was not born into the faith. And I do love, respect, and defend the Jewish community when others speak ill of them. My concern is that while a wig as a hair covering seems to honor the letter of the law, to me, it feels dishonest-- it's not honouring the spirit of the law. Beauty isn't only aesthetic, and I see this as an act that embraces pride. If one must have nice hair to make themselves feel good, then is it truly a mitzvah?
I loved seeing all those wigs, I wear wigs due to alopecia although I can’t afford Remy hair I use synthetic fibre, your wig looked so lovely I couldn’t tell that it was a wig, absolutely beautiful and it suited you so well
Every religion that forces women to alter their body for some weird reasons is not my thing. Shaving your head and then wearing a wig? Sorry. Also being "impure" because of your period. That's a big no for me. Misogynistic, old, outdated. Even religion has to modernize. - To clarify: I lost my hair because of a chemo once and I got a wig I NEVER wore. It felt horribly wrong to have some stranger's hair on my head. I wore a crocheted cap my Mom made for me instead.
First, thank you for sharing and enlightening us. I grew up Apostolic Pentecostal and was taught to always cover our head/hair for similar reasons (spiritual reasons). The difference is we are taught to cover whether married or not and especially in the house of God. Speaks to the fact that what you are saying is not so strange and is rooted from somewhere although we cannot fully explain. Another difference is we have to wear hats or wraps rather than wigs. Personally, i am very keen on who touches my head even when i didnt necessarily practice my faith. Your head is your crown and should be guarded. Again, thank you as I was always intrigued to learn about the Jewish faith.
I was raised the same way different religion. We called them prayer coverings. Women wore their hair up. A woman's hair is her glory and we were not to cut our hair.
God gave you hair and God wants you to wear your hair, stop letting these men interpret the torah to their own advantage! Use logic you were born with hair and God gave you that hair!
Why cover your head with more hair? A head covering like a scarf or hat seems to be more suitable. The wigs are very nice, but you are still wearing hair.
Thank you for sharing this & teaching the people who have no clue about our culture, tradition & lifestyle. I think you are absolutely gorgeous. You would be gorgeous even with no hair😊 And the dark color suits you perfectly. May Hashem bless you & your family ❤
Covering your hair is prominent in many religions and in many different ways. Catholics cover their hair when they attend mass, nuns cover their hair (or use to) as part of their devotion. Muslim women cover their hair, Hindu is the same, Sikh as well. Less so these days, but it use to be. Buddhist nuns shave and cover their heads. It all comes down to the same reason though. It's a part of out beauty.
Even though I converted to the Reform Movement in July 2018, I was told that a wig, hat, or head scarf happen to be successful in covering a woman's hair in order for her to save her hair for her husband when she belongs to the Orthodox Movement and gets married to her husband. It's the woman's choice as to which one she chooses to use to honor the head covering law. The wig isn't the only option. That aside, you look wonderful with the wig. Personally, I've never understood the wig thing since I believe it skirts the spirit of the head covering mitzvah. I mean, I know that it's to avoid vanity after marriage. But hey, I'm not married to a man and I don't plan on marrying one for a few good reasons that I don't care to advertise on here so that I don't spark anything that may hurt those who don't support one of my reasons of why this is so.
I think it is more logical (and easier) just to cover your hair with a scarf in public and uncover your hair for your family at home instead of saving your hair. Your wig looks like real hair so much that I don't see the point in wearing it.
I love wigs but I “stopped” wearing human hair since it feels WRONG. But I wear beautiful synthetic wigs and I feel guilt free since it’s actually a hair covering that is not hair 😇
@@jdm6613 exactly And a lot of synthetic wigs also have random real hairs sewn in to make them look more “real” but keep costs down, so there is a risk there too. I wish so many women weren’t led to believe what they’re wearing is ok 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ Theres a reason why there is only 1 company who gives a hechsher for “kosher” wigs. Even tho it’s a multi million dollar business no one else wants to get involved. It’s a very corrupt business
@@mazalline6993 😬 I didn't realize synthetic hair may have real human hair. Just when when you thought it was safe. Will have to brush up on the concept of kosher wigs/hair. Didn't know there was such a thing.
@@jdm6613 no that’s not true synthetic hair does not have human hair unless it is written on it human hair blend with synthetic hair. The price would be more expensive then 100% synthetic. So she is giving you falsified information
@@jdm6613 there is a refinery documentary about how wig hair is sourced I highly recommend it. It’s usually poor people or people forced to give their hair
Fascinating! Thank you for helping me understand, I am very interested in learning about different faiths. If we don’t learn how can we counteract people who hate just because other people’s beliefs differ from theirs? I’m on Earth to give and receive love. 💗
I just recently found you guys on IG & loved this video. I also cover my hair, I get asked why all the time, but this is so beautifully explained I’m going to use this & share it instead! Plus, I learned something new regarding the negative energies & males. Keep up the amazing work!! PS love your filming style!
Not only are the wigs fake but they're high maintenance. Time consuming just to attract attention from people. Like I said, wigs are artificial and women wear them to draw attention to themselves.
The whole story behind women covering hair doesn’t make any sense, unless you are 5 years old an no more! And the wig solution is even worse than that! Who are you kidding? Yourself or the god?
I don’t mean to offend anyone and I’m not judging Chas vShalom- just want to say to women reading this that wigs of todays society are 100% forbidden. They are not modest, and they are considered idolatry. No gadol hador ever permitted them! Look in to it please, for your own sakes. Rav Yuval Ovadia did a very interesting documentary/ video on wigs on his TH-cam channel Spiritual Visuals. Please please look it up it is worth watching 🙏
@@kfamily770 נכון. וזה בעיה גדולה. הרבי אף פעם הרשה הפאות של היום. הפאות של פעם היו קצר בלי שיער אמיתי. וכולם ידעו שהם היו פאות וזה היה ברור שהאישה היתה נשואה. היום הגברים לא יודעים בכלל אם האישה נשואה או לא. זה ממש לא צנועה וזה גם עבודה זרה כי הנשים גולחות השיער שלהן בשביל העבודה זרה שלהן. זה בעיה גדולה היום. אני אומרת כל זה מאהבה כי אני יודעת שהרבה נשים פשוט לא יודעים את האמת ויש הרבה בילבולים בעולם. היצר הרע מאד חזק היום. בעזרת ה׳ עוד מעט משיח יתגלה ואז כולם יידעו את האמת
Thank you SO much for sharing!! I really really enjoyed everything you have shared in this video. I look forward learning and understanding so much about your lifestyle and traditions.🥰
Muslim women are also supposed to cover hair. Wearing wig is to cover hair is brilliant idea. I am going to buy a wig now for family functions because my natural hair color is white since I was a teenager. My slightly curlyhairare feting thinner as well.
For clarification the law is not to wear a wig, but that the hair be covered 😊 So everyone has their custom how! It could be a wig, a scarf, or a bag if someone wishes 😉
I am trying to picture the bag. 😂
I wear scarf or hat but don't know if that is sufficient. I would like to wear a wig.
@STIGMATA Στίγματα Linda Glendenning exactly that comment shows she isn’t hjwwish
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A bag maybe it looks better than the wig you are wearing! That ain’t modest wearing a wig that looks better than your natural hair lol
The point of covering the hair is to avoid vanity. Wearing wigs as a “ head covering” is all about vanity. This wig tradition skirts the spirit of the law.
No, it is not about "avoiding vanity". It is about privacy, symbolism of marriage, and "modesty".
I have to agree with u. It seems counterintuitive to the beliefs that I know of to be the reason for covering hair according to Abrahamic religions, I'm wondering if the " woman's energy kabbalah thing is an accurate depiction of the teaching or if this truly is what orthodox Jews believe.
It is ridiculous
@@isabrookbanks4118 then it makes even less sense!!
I respect the tradition, but this video still does not help me understand the reason to wear a wig. If the tradition states to cover your hair for modesty, then how is wearing a wig (a beautiful long luscious one at that) respect that tradition ? Not showing your hair to the outside world, but wearing a beautiful wig is ok? How do people know it’s even a wig? Wouldn’t simply wearing a turban wrap, snood or scarf make more sense? I’m sorry, I’m not trying to be disrespectful, I’m really trying to understand.
I'm not sure I understand the idea of wearing a wig. If you are told to cover your hair, I understand that completely -- meaning to cover your head with a scarf, hat, etc. And by wearing a scarf, it says you are a married woman. As a married woman, how does anyone else know that you're wearing a wig? You can say you are. To me a scarf would outwardly acknowledge your faith and the fact you are married. To me a wig just doesn't do it. And 3000 years ago, the woman would wear a head covering - not a wig.
Most of the time when I see Hasidic women wearing wigs they look fake....not made to look so realistic like how the general public wears lace front wigs etc. The wigs don't look real...so you can tell they are head coverings.
It’s not as much an outward symbol of being married but more that it’s something you do for yourself and your religion when you are married. Wearing a scarf or a noticeable wig can show that you are married, just like wearing wedding rings everyday shows it, but the ring was only necessary for the actual marriage ceremony and married people can choose not to wear them after but just because your don’t see it, like a good natural looking wig, doesn’t mean they aren’t married. Jewish law says a married woman must cover their natural hair. There are a few interpretations based on where the Jews lived during the diaspora, when the Jews were kicked out of ancient Israel in around 70 AD. In the Ashkenazi community, Jews from Eastern Europe, it is interpreted that a wig can count as a hair covering since it does cover your natural hair as much as a headscarf would. This confuses a lot of people since the only references most people have regarding covering your hairs is Muslim women covering their hair for modesty. Modesty isn’t the reason married Jewish women cover their hair so they can look and feel as beautiful as they want in which every way that might be, as a wig or a headscarf, as long as their natural hair is covered. Hope this helps!
You are 100% right but what the woman who made this video doesn't say is that many Jewish women for that reason do not wear wigs because many Orthodox Jews particularly those of European background almost never acknowledge the even the existence of millions of Jews of Middle Eastern background with completely different customers and traditions which are many say accurate and representative of ancient custom
The Egyptians wore wigs , even Sumerians and Jewish people are connected to Sumeria so i hope you understand.
@@andreamessiasgomes7118 It has nothing to do with Sumeria. Many ancient cultures and religions make use of wigs, Judaism from some parts of the world being one of them.
Jewish women were directed to cover their hair to prevent fallen angels from uh, interfering with them. Apparently, womens' hair is very attractive to them. Not sure why wearing another's hair would be effective in light of this.
That is what I have heard too. I am an Arab (Christian though) and that is how the hijab started for us too.
We are suppose to cover our head in church too for the same reasons. I think the hair holds more power than we can understand as humans.
What about synthetic hairs?
These women spend large amounts of money and seem to have so much "pride" in their wigs. This clip is the perfect example. I have never understood this idea.
G-d didn't say that you should wear a wig, just that you should over your hair. For thousands of years Jewish women wore a scarf to cover their hair, it is only in the last few centuries that Jewish women began to wear wigs.
Your right!!
Yes, everyone can cover how they wish 😊
@@ThatJewishFamily Well, it really depends on the Rabbi that you follow. I personally have yet to find a Gadol that would permit such lace tops.
@@datruth788 Permission?
@@christya2488 We Orthodox Jews live in line with the advice of the Rabbi's that we follow. They give us direction in our lives.
Thank you honey for explaining to the world a part of your culture habits, its beautiful to learn and understand each other what ever our backgrounds are.
Thank you for that ❤️
Thank you for this usefull explanation. Il like to understand how and why people do act and think a certain way. Nevertheless, it is a fact that women are most of the time much more affected by religions with rules…🤷🏻♀️
@@reneeamyot4261 this is not necessarily so in Judaism, where there are mitzvot for men and women.
It is easy enough to Google for further information.
@Leena Wexler and therefore what? Their ancestors were duped by the Haskalah. And they dont have much Jewish education. Anyone with an adequate Jewish education knows the sources in Chumash, Talmud, and Codes. And they love and choose the practice
That is very contradictory. To cover your hair… with hair. Religion makes people do all sorts of illogical things and they will always find some excuse about ‘beauty’ and ‘love’ to rationalize it 😂
Exactly it makes no sense at all
That's the reason why many Jews don't wear wigs particularly Jews of Middle Eastern and North African ancestry never wear wigs and it is forbidden for them to do so by their rabbis particularly for the reason that you mentioned it doesn't make any sense but Ashkenazi and European Jews do not often times even acknowledge the existence of their middle eastern and North African cousins they view us as being inferior and are totally ignorant of our practices and represent their practices as being the only Jewish customs and practices which they of course are not they refuse to acknowledge the fact that Judaism originates in the Middle East not Europe
I am wrestling with the logic behind this as well.
@@eaglewings497 because there's no logic in it.
I tend to be very open and understanding but I have to admit this I'm struggling with.
I was always taught that after marriage a women covers her hair so she will not be attractive to another man. It is a question of modesty. In Mea Sharim you can still see women with the shaved head and a shatel. The wig only came about the last 40 to 50 years. Better to wear a lovely hat or scarf to be humble in the eyes of HaShem.
But a wig can make a woman just as attractive, so it rather defeats the purpose. Also in Torah times women didn't have wigs they covered their heads with scarf or cloth wrappings...so this modern wig wearing is a bit hypocritical, women still want to look attractive with a nice wig..
Confused... why does it fall to a woman to obscure themselves when men should just control themselves? It's the age old case of male domination and shoving responsibility for their actions onto women. I don't mean to demean your beliefs but what's so special about dead keratin?
I'll see people in various religions (barring Amish, they stay plain overall) have women wear headscarves for modesty, but also wear 20 gallons of makeup and a very fashionable outfit. Hey, I don't judge, it's whatever, I am not saying it makes them less closer to God, but logically thinking only it seems to totally defeat the purpose in preserving modesty and not getting unwanted looks of other men.
@@wbl5649 We do not live our lives as the people in the torah, just follow the rules they did. It is not about unatracktiveness or sexually repelling others, its about dedication to your spouce, dedication to your marriage, and privacy. Modesty doesnt mean ugly.
@@erikadunne not every single thing in the entire world is about men. people do many things for themselves and their own comfort and relationship with G-d. Wigs and scarves arent meant to make you less beautiful or less "sexual" but to preserve and protect the form G-d has given, show dedication to your husband, and yes for modesty. Not the modesty you think of.
A wig is not hair covering. This is just a way to have normal looking hair without having to wear true covering.
Exactly. A watered down attempt at "covering" without giving up the "sexy, windblown" look.
Exactly.... makes no sense
@@m1tche11one are you an orthodox jew?
@@esorliversage6634 Women are not responsible for you sexualizing their existance. Wigs can be a symbol of dedication to Hashem and your spouce, to show respect to your marriage and body, and for "modesty" in the sense you do not understand.
@@m1tche11onethat’s your opinion
I still don't get this whole hair thing in Judaism and Islam. If the purpose of covering your hair is not to be attractive to other males, in many cases the wig is going to look BETTER than the woman's natural hair, and thus she is MORE attractive to other males.
If you watch again you’ll see the purpose has nothing to do with attraction for males. Just to cover and therefore can be covered with whatever she wants- like for example a wig
@@ThatJewishFamily Jewish men cover their hair too, just not completely. So if I understood your video right, the reasons why males cover their head is different from why females do. Right?
Muslim women cover not only their hair but dress modestly. These rules are different for each religion. It's not only a hair thing. Muslim men also have rules of covering their body and grow a beard, but it's different for a woman for obvious reasons, built differently. Why covering is important is because you see each other more objectively. In Islam it's not about a man being superior to a woman. We don't believe that. That's something the western media made people believe so. And we don't have hair covering with hair. Hope this explains it somewhat.
Hair covering predates Islam by quite a long time. In ancient times, the fallen angels found human women very attractive and our hair was one of the things that made them lust for human women. They would sin and have sexual relations with human women creating an unholy union resulting in what the Bible calls “the Nephilim”. They were the ancient giants. The Arab and other Middle Eastern men put hijabs on the women in order to make them less attractive to the fallen angels to protect them. I am not sure how the tradition started for Jewish women though.
@@lisabaltzer4190 Thanks for this info. In today's modern times, I still see requiring a head covering as subjugation of women.
This is ridiculous. If you cover your hair for modesty, then wearing a wig completely defeats the purpose. This is exactly why Muslim women wear hijab and not wigs. Just because the hair isn’t yours, doesn’t mean you’re being modest.
Did you watch the video? It isn't about modesty.
It's a mystery, like frogs in the clouds.
Honestly, don't comment on the video without watching the video before you come in because you come off sounding ignorant. The wigs are for Mitzvah.
@@onatarabandrui8375 covering hair is in all abrahamic faith . And this way of cover with wig is actually not really following the commandments and following own desire .
I used to wear wigs ("human hair" apparently). I stopped for ethical and personal reasons. One on the biggest questions for me on wearing someone else's hair : hair has STRONG spiritual ties to their owner, how do you feel comfortable wearing someone else's hair while being religious ? What do you believe your God thinks of you wearing the hair that doesn't belong to you ? These questions are really important to me since I strongly believe in the spiritual essence that hair has. Hair are antennas, it conveys the owner's personal energy.
I remember people in India, Africa etc use to burn their shedded hair to avoid anybody doing which craft with it.
Why not use a synthetic hair wig ?
@@MyLifeInTheDesert maybe its not kocher?
Yes as Muslims we believe that no body part such a hair . nails ect must be thrown down the drain or in the dusbin
@@user-yh2vm2ti3c thank you for your time and discourse. It's not my logic, it is spiritual. People believe in the strength of hair since day of dawn. It's not only an "item of fashion", at least not for many people. Many cultures whom have been oppressed, were deprived from their hair. Hair are like entenas, that doesn't mean that if you don't have hair you're not spiritual 😂. And your comment is actually interesting because cultures that put a lot of attention to their hair very rarely are victims of baldness...
Many people grow their hair the longest they can for spiritual reasons. It's okay if you don't believe in it. But don't come to people who believe in the invisible. Humans around the world have been trying to understand the essence of life through centuries, they know there's something in what we can't see full stop.
Please, you can continue to consider that your brain plays with you when you dont understand something but don't disrespect the studies of people who stress the importance of the connection between mind, body, earth and universe.
True lies in the heart of the one who wants to believe in. There is no "THE TRUTH" when talking about spirituality
If you don't believe in it's your problem. As long as those beliefs don't harm other people then, I guess we're good.
The woman in the video IS religious, she wears wigs because her God asked her to cover her hair. How can she consider hair like an "item of clothing" if her beliefs explain that hair is important. 🤨 Hair is way more than that, it's a form of communication, it's an extension of yourself, it's a protection.
You should ask that question, from the Christians they copied this "tradition". Covering the head of women, has ZERO connection to Judaism
I may be 2 years late but i'll still leave a comment. even though i might not understand fully the idea of covering your hair with another hair, as a muslim woman who wears the hijab I just want to say that your happiness and joy throughout the video made me feel joy as well. your excitement when trying on different wigs tells me how important and amazing it is to you as a jew. your different ways of covering and cherishing your hair are interesting and learning about this was fun. i'm glad i saw this video.
Thank you for sharing My mother was raised orthodox and I was raised conservative ever since my mom passed away I kind of lost my way so seeing your videos help me feel connected thank you again
I'm sorry for your loss
Wigs are fun. I love styling them in diff colors, textures, and lengths and then taking them off!
Not for nothing, but those wigs are soooo beautiful. I wouldn't mind wearing one of those all the time! And yours looks so natural, for a second I was wondering how come you weren't covering your hair lol. Great job. Love this. The Jewish communities in Brooklyn are like a whole other world. Thank you for letting us in :)
Thank you so much! ❤️
Some women are more attractive with the wig. That kinda defeats the purpose of "modesty".
Coming from an Orthodox Jew, this practice removes the spirit from the rule. If Jewish women are told to have a hair covering, then wearing a wig is contradictory to the intention of the law. This is incongruent with the justification for not using light switches on Shabbat, or for not typing with a mechanical keyboard. Why, in God's eyes, would this wig-wearing "loophole" constitute fulfillment of the rule?
I was born and raised in a Jewish household now my parents were raised with much more tradition they raised us much more laid back. My brothers did have Bar mitzvahs and I had my bat mitzvah. I married someone that wasn’t Jewish. Growing up being the only girl with three brothers my dad and mom always said “Stephanie you need to marry a nice Jewish boy” well I never found one but my husband really made sure that my religion was always celebrated. Now we have two little girls and we do the same for every Jewish holiday we’re at my parents house eating the best food ( lol ) and for non Jewish holidays we are at my husbands family’s house. My girls get the best of both worlds. We have Hanukkah then my daughter Dani-Kay’s birthday is Dec 23rd then we have Christmas. Dani was named after my papa Danny. Maybe it’s just me but growing up Jewish was the best. My kids choose to do Hebrew school and they are happy and smart and amazing! So glad I came across this channel!!! It’s wonderful!
This is really Crazy. To put a wig on the top of your own hair. To cover your hair is silly, and crazy! These are men rules, Not God’s
I wish there was a Jewish school near me.
That's beautiful God bless you all❤️
@@kathyander4920 if you have nothing nice to say then don’t comment….you will never understand bc I’m guessing you aren’t Jewish so here’s a thought don’t watch her videos bc you just sound uneducated.
I also had similar childhood...I have two girls with my goyish lol husband. Both my girls choose Judaism as their religion. Why? Cause it's the best religion in this life .
I love the way you explained why you wear wigs and I also love how you aren’t ‘hiding’ your beauty and that Judaism wants you to embrace that and not hide it ❤️ I love the concept that you only cover your hair after you’re married because it’s only for your husband really. You could have pink hair and nobody would ever know and it’s nobody’s business! 🫶🏼 I really love your videos and your fam, I’m Catholic (and Irish) so I’ve never known any other religion but I really love all your videos! Sending you all lots of love and blessings from the Emerald Isle.
🇮🇪☘️ xo
Thank you so much for this message ❤️❤️
You completely miss the word of God and what it means cover your head. God never order anyone to wear a wig to cover your head with. You are doing the exact opposite of God's will and please stop twisting God's words to make your world comfortable as you wish it to be. Learn from your forefathers!
They are hot much diffrent From islamico, to do somethong for a husband o tradision religios is crazy in 2022 !
“Judaism wants you to embrace your beauty and not hide it” … and yet, I don’t think wigs existed when that law was first implemented. Kind of a dilemma, huh?
But is it only for their husband if they shave it?
isn’t covering your head a modesty requirement? Why cover your own hair with …hair? Where’s the modesty? Older Orthodox women wear hats and scarves and perhaps a wig of little beauty. They show the modesty aspect. You either go with the laws of Torah or you don’t. However, to “tweak” the laws and find loopholes to suit your egotistical needs seems far from what Torah teaches. To each their own. There is little point to be known as Orthodox when, clearly, boundaries have been moved for the sake of human ego.
Wigs can be a symbol of dedication to Hashem and your spouse, to show respect to your marriage and body, and for "modesty" in the sense you do not understand. Not everything needs to be seen through your narrow lense of what modesty, beauty, femininity and sexuality is.
So judgy😂
Ok, I was hoping for a scripture reference or something concrete, but basically she’s saying that she doesn’t know why they wear wigs.
I didn't hear her saying why they wear wigs....human hair wigs doesn't sound religious to me for a religious person as her....🤮
exactly!
Wearing wigs is a modern day, manmade custom. God commands us to shun vanity and the lust of the flesh. We are born with a sinful nature and we must overcome the desires of the carnal man. Vanity is a huge problem for women, so covering our hair in public is our way to defeat the heart's desire to exalt self. This cannot be accomplished by wearing a beautiful wig, but by wearing a scarf. Every person must battle with self if they are going to become like God. God's command is to act humble and be modest, so this is the true reason why we Jewish women cover our hair with a tichel (scarf).
Study every Scripture covering the topic of vanity, lust, and self exaltation and you will grasp the idea of wearing a scarf.
If it’s suppose to be a symbol, I believe that using wigs contradicts this purpose. I’m not Jewish, just a view from the outside in. Thanks for sharing the process. Very interesting!
The way your face and eyes light up when you talk about Torah is inspiring.
I dunno... Personally I think it is cheating. It makes no sense to cover your hair - with hair!
Paradoxal
Especially if it is human hair
are you an orthodox jew?
@@isabrookbanks4118 obviously not. Are you? Then explain how covering your hair with hair is ok. It sounds kinda iffy to me.
@@isabrookbanks4118 gatekeeping is not appropriate here, were all just talking
Oh my God... hiding hair with another hair is like not to tell original lie with telling another second lie 😂
This is ridiculous
yup
@@m1tche11one actually no, wearing a wig is perfectly fine because the law it not to make yourself "ugly" or insecure, it is a symbol of marriage, dedication to the spouce, and "modesty" (in a jewish sense)
They are trying to hide from God! As if 😂
@@j33jojo We don't try to hide from G-d. It's a sign of modesty.
Thank you for sharing this with us! I love the wig you chose! I’ve often thought about a wig. But been so brave as to only wear extensions. I think your purpose for wearing a wig is so noble and shows such a deep respect for your faith and God.
Wigs are better that damaging your own hair with color/ perms etc. give it a try. Check out Ella’s wigs beautiful synthetic wigs and so affordable.
I believe they are misinterpreting the Law (Torah). Being COVERED means women should have hair and NOT cut it down like men do. Your literal OWN hair IS the covering. It's one of the many things that make women women. Also, you could say that after the watchers mated with human women, there was a command that they cover the hair as to not attract them with their beauty. Long flowing hair being one of the attractors of these watchers. Thus covering hair with hair, would defeat the purpose of the command and a SCARF would make more sense.
And God will bless you even if you had NO HAIR. He cares more about the content of your character (treating your neighbor as yourself) rather than the hair strands HE put on your head and gave you. He gave you hair.... just remember that you are his perfect design. He wouldn't dare withhold his blessings even if you decided to show your hair.😊
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Cainan - Sarrow
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Jared - Shall come Down
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He was taken from prison
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And he made his grave with the wicked, and with the rich in his death; because he had done no violence , neither was any deceit in his mouth.
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He shall see of the travail of his soul , and shall be satisfied : by
His knowledge shall my righteous servant justify many ; for he shall bear their iniquities. Therefore Will I divide him a portion with the great, and he shall divide the spoil with the spoil with the strong ; because he hath pored out his soul unto death : and he was numbered with the transgressor ; and he bare the sin of many, and made intercession for the transgressors.
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In the New Testament it tells us that a woman's hair is her glory and that she has power because it's long and uncut. Many Apostolic women have laid their long hair over their seriously I'll child while they prayed. It says that if a woman has short hair she might as well be shaved because she is basically dishonoring God if she's praying with her hair uncovered. I'm not explaining it very well, but Lee Stoneking has a book about it. I lost 30-40% of my hair due to cancer and complications related to it and the rest was severely damaged, snapped off if you barely touched it. I stood in front of the bathroom mirror and cried as I chopped it short, but it had to be done to save the rest and by then I was wearing a wig anyway. It wasn't flattering at all, too dark and heavy but it was the only long one the cancer support agency had at the time and since I am Apostolic Pentecostal I needed a longer one. I wore it for a while until I could buy a somewhat better one at a local beauty supply store. After about six months I switched to scarves or hats bc the wig was too hot for a Midwestern USA summer is and by then my hair was in better shape and growing back. Fast forward five years and I am cancer free plus you can't tell I ever lost so much hair; it's longer and thicker than it has been in years.
A veil or scarf is more comfortable than a wig, to be honest. A wig seems obnoxious if it isn't necessary (hair loss, cancer, thin older hair, etc), especially if it involves religion.
The commandment isn't in the written Torah but the Oral Torah (Talmud)
@@wecx2375 I understand this. But even other Jewish sects have interpreted from the Talmud that the covering be a SCARF not a wig. The wig is unique to this sect. Others simply wear a scarf.
Some of these wigs are so lush and perfect you really can't tell it's a wig! GORGEOUS! Keep it up my Jewish friends you add beauty to the world around you by following that tradition.
I am not Jewish (non-religious actually) but I once visited a German synagogue with a group of men and the rabbi asked us to cover our heads with a cover (kippah) as a sign of humility to God who is above us all.
So you need to wear a hijab not a wig because the wig makes no difference 😂
exactly
Samething I was thinking .
Wigs can be a symbol of dedication to Hashem and your spouse, to show respect to your marriage and body, and for "modesty" in the sense you do not understand. Not everything needs to be seen through your narrow lense of what modesty, beauty, femininity and sexuality is.
God: Don't show your hair
Woman: puts on a wig
God: right
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The wigs are certainly beautiful. To each their own. No judgment. My own religion has rules and customs I question. However, I think most religions, pretty much all of which were founded and controlled by men, that have these "rules" that govern women's behavior to be suspect when independently questioned. Again, my own religion included. However, I like the idea of having a choice to wear a wig, if that's what you want to do. They are certainly beautiful, and it would be convenient when you don't have time to do your hair. This was very informative, and interesting. Thanks for sharing.
Yeah, women’s hair is one of the top things men want to regulate. As if that's anything important compared to all the bullshit going on in the world.
Yes totally agree with this. So many rules made by men to control women under the guise of honoring god or a higher power. Why have we bought in to this?
Yes finally
The Torah commandments were created by G-d - not man.
@@shternaraskin7706 Perhaps, yes, but like my own religion, our holy documents/scrolls/etc have been edited, controlled, and interpreted by men. Just to be clear, I'm not judging. I'm simply questioning.
I feel the wig creates another kind of vanity based on this video.
I can’t tell the difference between the wig you bought and the one you normally wear. The one with the highlights toward the bottom looked fantastic on you! I loved your explanation of why you wear a wig. It’s very meaningful. Mendel is adorable btw. He’s getting so big! Have a good week.
Aw thank you! Maybe next time! Wigs are a little pricey to buy two at once 😉
Thank G-d! Thank you! He really is getting so big!
7:26 the balayage looks beautiful in you, Raziel.
I hope you buy that one. ❤
God said that women should cover their heads, not necessarily a wig, a sheitle, a scarf is also allowed.
quite right. when i want to look fancy, i wear a wig ..for casual, i wear a cotton beret (i have several colours) and i also wear a snood. i used to wear a bandanna and i am thinking of buying a hat called a slouchy ....the list is as long as your imagination. the bottom line: my hair is covered. ps....because of a wig, i look younger than my real age!
side note...it doesn't matter if people can tell if i'm wearing a wig. i know it (and God knows it)
I hope this helps.
A sheitle is a wig .
I rarely see jewish speaking about G-d with the passion that you and your husband do. It fills my heart with so much joy 😊
I am a shia Muslim.. it found amazing great.. I was always wondering how jews are not covering hair when they are following of Propher Moses (pbuh). I love it. This channel is amazing. Thanks
I'm no long religious but I remember wearing a veil and covering my head in church as a young girl, so I think a woman covering her head goes back to the abrahamic roots of Islam, Jewish, and Christian faiths.
So it's not so much about modesty, but protection from "negative or evil" energy? I have never heard that before. I would love to learn more. Thank you for allowing us to get a peek into your traditions and beliefs.
It IS about modesty. Our hair is only for our husband because it becomes a private part of our body when we marry. We can wear a beautiful wig (sheitel) while being modest (covering our private parts). The kabbalistic elements she spoke about are WHY our hair becomes private after marriage. We are supposed to be powerful (influential) and modest. Wearing the wig allows us to do both:)
@@TruthintheMidwest i think this is beautiful 🥰
It is absolutely about modesty that's why many Jews do not wear wigs in fact most Jews of Middle Eastern and North African ancestry which are the majority in Israel as opposed to in the United States and the West do not wear wigs for this particular reason it is insufficiently modest and makes no sense
@@TruthintheMidwest Yes! I also like to add that it can be a symbol of dedication to Hashem and your spouce as well.
The wigs come from India, from a temple ,where women sacrifice there hair to God's. There hair is then sold to the west. Look it up. Rap your hair.
Phew! Good thing Jesus came to fulfil the law!
I feel a wig is just a loophole to not have to wear a scarf or other more obvious head coverings.
It doesn’t need to be obvious, just covered and everyone can choose how. Many have different customs. My community has the custom to cover with a wig rather then a scarf because wigs can be really beautiful and that’s a stress in Judaism as well, for women to feel and look beautiful
@@ThatJewishFamily the jewish role for women is not just to be beautiful but to pray and give and be connected and to give and share I don’t think she was born jewish
@@datingandlifeadvicechannel7534 how rude to say! it is important for women to feel happy and confident. i don't see why beauty and holiness cannot exist at the same time? a woman ccan pray and give and be connected and also wear a wig.
That first very dark wig suits you wonderfully!
I think many woman would to love these beautiful wigs no matter what religion. Everyone has bad hair days. People with dry frizzy hair can experience straight shiny hair. Some one with straight hair can have curly hair. The only time I would not want a wig is in very hot weather. I love the wigs in this shop. ❤
I’m so jealous, my hair is a mess in the morning but your wig allows you to have perfect hair every day 🤷♀️
I never knew Orthodox Jewish women wear wigs. Thank you so much for sharing your faith and love for your family with us. I offer you nothing but respect for your culture.
Can you please explain why men were not covering their hair before marriage??
Shalom aleichem. I just want to thank you for making this video. I am a convert and am very often explaining to my family about jewish law as many people are misinformed about Orthodox Judaism. Either by media or sad stereotypes people can be very misinformed about our beautiful religion. I myself am not in the orthodox sect but I have great respect for you and how dedicated you are to the Torah and G-d.I send these to my parents and family to not only inform them but show them the Jewish life isn’t always oppressive and sad like how they see in movies. Thank you for spreading joy, good information and our lovely religion online. Shalom and may your day be filled with love and joy.
The Orthodox women sure so rock lacefronts and hit up the beauty supply for wig caps. I live around orthodox Jews and good luck finding a wig cap or even a silk stocking in a pinch. Also, they and muslim women buy up all the long skirts and modest dresses in every store nearby!
I love the third wig on you! What fun, thanks for taking us along with you.
Aw thank you!!
That does look like a fun experience! I will still stick with a tichel because I feel more covered and love the morning ritual of wrapping. Also you can get like 300 of them for the price of one sheitel lol. It’s good for those of us who are indecisive 😂
You have such a shining personality!!! You explain your beliefs in a beautiful and fun way! Such an informative video, thanks for bringing us into your world and letting us understand your religion better :)
Wear fake hair so people don’t see your real hair, but most people won’t know it’s fake hair…does this make sense? I understand modernizing religious rules, but at what point does it just seem to defeat the purpose.
And we just don’t care what the goyim think!
So let me guess this right...
The practising Muslim women covers her beauty and honours herself before and after marriage yet the West and the Media view it as oppression.
A Jewish women decides to wear a wig that looks like hair AFTER marriage for her husband yet this is considered "out of respect" for her husband.
Ill let you do the math. Alhamdulillah im Muslim. ❤
Totally charming. Very enjoyable learning about this. Thank you for sharing. I am a fellow wig wearer due to hair loss. Wigs are a good thing in so many ways. Kate from Oregon
To cover your head for modesty purpose is totally fine. This is the reason why it should be done and there is nothing mystical. Orthodox Christians and Muslim women do it, too. But wearing a wig has NOTHING to do with modesty. Why? Because stranger men may not even know it's a wig, so a woman may attract them. The same thing if in a wig a woman looks even more beautiful. This ruins the main purpose of covering. What does it have to do with modesty??? Nothing. And I am not even saying that wearing a wig all the time isn't healthy at all.
I am not of your faith, but found this video so very interesting. You are beautiful and your explanations are beautiful. I just enjoyed the experience. Continued blessings to you and your family.
This is the most ridiculous thing I ever heard in my whole life. How do they know God said that?
This is a good reason for not getting married, EVER!
Justifying wearing someone else’s hair seems to take a lot of mental gymnastics.
Where do you obtain the human hair for the wigs ? You will probably sa, ";from humsans " but what is the background to making a human hair wigs ? Is it kosher ?
Yes, it's kosher for Passover
I don’t believe in organized religion, but I was brought up Jewish and always wondered why Orthodox Jews wore wigs over their own hair. I asked someone once, so I was familiar with the “law” but never thought it made any sense. I tuned into this video to see if it could shed any light on the logic behind the wig wearing that I might’ve missed, and found that nope, there is absolutely no coherent logic, at all. It’s just an absurd modern work-around of a “law”, which completely defeats the purpose for which said “law” was written. It’s a silly and expensive folly, not to mention hot AF in the summer.
As I Christian lady I believe as Paul taught in 1 Corthinthians 11 he said our hair is given to us as a covering. I do not cut my hair at all. I don't understand cutting off our hair , then just to put more hair on .
You really ought have your hair trimmed every so often to keep the ends from splitting and frizzing. Not cut it short, just keep it trimmed and shaped.
Jews don't read the new testament, so they don't care what Paul says.
I agree; from what I understand Paul says to cover your HEAD If not a woman should have her HAIR cut short. From my understanding a women's hair is her covering because it covers her HEAD. Did God cover Eve's hair after the the fall when He covered her body?
I am a Muslim. It is wonderful to know about the Jewish religion and that it imposes a headscarf on Jewish women as well... And with this, Jewish and Muslim women are obligated to veil... Why does everyone ask about the veil of Muslim women?
Thank you for your incredibly candid insight into Orthodox Judaism. To hear you say that women have power and should be protected changes my understanding of the how not only the Kabbalah influences Orthodox Judaism but also highlights the similarities between Judaism beliefs/practices and First Nations Peoples understandings of how important hair is.
Black woman here. Ya'll have not been to an Asian beauty store in the black community. We wear wigs as accessories to our outfits and protective styling. For fun, visit an Asian beauty supply store and you will see what variety really looks like. Question: What did ya'll do before wigs were available?
Wigs have been available for thousands of years.
But they don’t have to use wigs to cover their hair, headscarves and hats are acceptable as well
GD didn't tell us to cover our hair. This mitzvah is deduced from the Sota. It was a humiliation for the woman who was suspected of infidelity (and who denied it) to uncover her head before drinking the bitter waters that would determine whether she was innocent (and would be blessed with more children) or would die. This is the source for knowing that married women must cover our hair.
This actually sounds more realistic.
Exactly! A lot of their commandments come from men, not God.
It’s not so simple. In the times of the Talmud, all women covered their hair. Married or single, Jewish or non Jewish.
Thus it’s as she said a chook. A mitzvah we don’t completely understand.
I think God cares more about the heart of person than a wig or covering . Coming from a Christian who married to man of Jewish decent
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Hello, this is like a more modern view of the Jewish orthodox community
I am a Christian woman 👩🏻 and I love your culture and I’m always interested on learning more far away from criticizing
Everytime I read the Bible I know that my Bible comes from the fathers of your land
The Old Testament comes from the Jewish religion. It was for the Jews. The NEW TESTAMENT, which was a result of the teachings of Jesus Christ, is for Christians.(This was why the Pharisees did not like the new teachings and helped to crucify the Christ, as He challenged their power and way of life.)
It may be that the Old Testament god is not even the same as the God that Christ spoke of, but a demi-god.
With all the respect Barnowl there is many verses that talked about Jesus and pointed him as the messiah Isaiah , Micah, Daniel, Jeremiah, all those prophets talked about Jesus but also on the same Bible Jesus knew that he will be rejected by the Pharisees not because he challenged the law but because he didn’t agree on how they added more to the Torah and put weight ( more rules) on the people of Israel
Religion makes you create your own path instead of Gods along.
The New Testament was written by Jewish people that knew he was the messiah the son of God, God himself .
@@threewomenco. The New Testament was written by the early Christians, who were converted to Christianity from Jewism, but also from other societies. It is a different mind-set and life experience to that of Jewism. Yes, the Jews pointed him out to be the coming Messiah who was Jeremiah etc. but that does not mean that He was. A Messiah comes approximately every 2,000 years and the Christ, Who promised to come again, will return sometime soon, hopefully by the end of this century. The Christ is not God himself. He is the first human to reach the fifth Initiation of Resurrection and Ascension and what it truly means spiritually. Christ is the son/sun of God, that greater God, about 'which naught may be said' because He is transcendent and cannot be explained in the words of wo/men. I have been studying religion and spirituality for many years and most of religion does not have an understanding of deeper, esoteric spirituality .The reappearance of The Christ, Who may not come through religion, will change this.
Jesus Christ is coming back but this time not for the church but for his people, the Bible says that the Jews will see the new temple and the Antichrist will deceive everyone the messiah will come back for Israel and they will realize that all along they were blinded, why do you think that Israel hasn’t seen another prophet after John the Baptist Jesus said and I will not send more prophets to them until the end of time two witnesses will rise in Israel during the 7 years, he also promised that he will choose a group of young israelís to preach the gospel during the tribulation, I understand that you don’t believe it is not time yet, but if he was to come the church is leaving first in the rapture and the seven years for Israel will star but we the church know that is not time yet
First we need to see the beast rise with ten head which means 5 Europe countries and five countries from the Middle East rise and try to bring peace to Israel
I respect your point of view and I love nothing more than to share my points of view with you but I don’t want to continue in this video because I respect the creators of this video, and they deserve respect and I apologize to them, to you Barnowl I will go to your channel and if you allow me I’m more than happy to share anything
I thought one’s husband IS her covering. I also don’t see the harm in a physical covering like a scarf or hat, I’m a little confused on an entire wig. Especially one made of human hair. The statement about energies reminds me of mysticism, which is against the Lord God.
Thank you for sharing this part of your culture, wig shopping seems fun.
agreed, there are also several schools of thought about taking on a curse by wearing the hair of another...
The reason we cover our hair is simply bec the commandment is for our hair to be covered. (Yes, there are also many beautiful kabbalistic explanations) but it is Not for modesty or avoiding vanity. And it doesn't matter how we cover our hair; all that matters is that it is covered. So no, wearing a wig is not a loophole.
The reason why Raizel and most Chabad women take care to cover their hair with a wig is bec the Lubavitcher Rebbe preferred a wig in that it's most likely to keep all the hair covered (thereby adding more blessing to the family among other reasons) and can't/won't be easily removed, revealing the hair underneath. So many Chabad women go to great lengths to wear a wig as a head covering, rather than a headscarf. (At home/in privacy though, we can wear a headscarf).
I believe God means cover the head with a shawl (in the old ages) or scarf. But I appreciate you explaining about the wigs and why. By the way, you looked great I the baylayage type wig, although I'm certain your own hair must be beautiful based on the babies hair 😊
I learn something new today! Thank you for sharing this about your culture and religion!
Talk about twisting the meaning of Gods command.
The law is to cover you hair, not to wear a wig. That is defeating the purposes. Why would you be commanded to cover you hair, WITH FALSE HAIR.
Its making a mockery of Gods law.
You are commanded to do so after marriage because in the past amongst Jews (and others people's) girls were married off at puberty and that is the time she became a woman, thus the Command for modesty.
The real problem everybody agrees is the very long wigs. Most teachers say that not Tznius. A very hard word to translate, basically it means "don't stare at me"
Its not tznuit according to my rabbi.
I love your attitude and how you have fun doing this. For me sheital shopping has never been fun, always stressful and dreadful. I’m glad you can show another experience
I am pro-Israel. I have considered conversion because of my ex as I was not born into the faith. And I do love, respect, and defend the Jewish community when others speak ill of them. My concern is that while a wig as a hair covering seems to honor the letter of the law, to me, it feels dishonest-- it's not honouring the spirit of the law. Beauty isn't only aesthetic, and I see this as an act that embraces pride. If one must have nice hair to make themselves feel good, then is it truly a mitzvah?
So this is no different than muslim women wearing a headscarf. It's just to cover your beauty.
I loved seeing all those wigs, I wear wigs due to alopecia although I can’t afford Remy hair I use synthetic fibre, your wig looked so lovely I couldn’t tell that it was a wig, absolutely beautiful and it suited you so well
Every religion that forces women to alter their body for some weird reasons is not my thing. Shaving your head and then wearing a wig? Sorry. Also being "impure" because of your period. That's a big no for me. Misogynistic, old, outdated. Even religion has to modernize. - To clarify: I lost my hair because of a chemo once and I got a wig I NEVER wore. It felt horribly wrong to have some stranger's hair on my head. I wore a crocheted cap my Mom made for me instead.
First, thank you for sharing and enlightening us. I grew up Apostolic Pentecostal and was taught to always cover our head/hair for similar reasons (spiritual reasons). The difference is we are taught to cover whether married or not and especially in the house of God. Speaks to the fact that what you are saying is not so strange and is rooted from somewhere although we cannot fully explain. Another difference is we have to wear hats or wraps rather than wigs. Personally, i am very keen on who touches my head even when i didnt necessarily practice my faith. Your head is your crown and should be guarded. Again, thank you as I was always intrigued to learn about the Jewish faith.
I was raised the same way different religion. We called them prayer coverings. Women wore their hair up. A woman's hair is her glory and we were not to cut our hair.
God gave you hair and God wants you to wear your hair, stop letting these men interpret the torah to their own advantage! Use logic you were born with hair and God gave you that hair!
Why cover your head with more hair? A head covering like a scarf or hat seems to be more suitable. The wigs are very nice, but you are still wearing hair.
Thank you for sharing this & teaching the people who have no clue about our culture, tradition & lifestyle. I think you are absolutely gorgeous. You would be gorgeous even with no hair😊 And the dark color suits you perfectly. May Hashem bless you & your family ❤
Covering your hair is prominent in many religions and in many different ways. Catholics cover their hair when they attend mass, nuns cover their hair (or use to) as part of their devotion. Muslim women cover their hair, Hindu is the same, Sikh as well. Less so these days, but it use to be. Buddhist nuns shave and cover their heads.
It all comes down to the same reason though. It's a part of out beauty.
Africans some of us in the different countries we do🙄🌻🌻🌻
@@susjf8644 Incertain countries they still do, I think Italy they still do, or at least women above 50.
@@somewhereupthere785 Yes, you are right!
Catholic woman do not cover their hair anymore going to Mass. That rule changed in the 1960's. Of course if you like you can still cover your hair.
@@maryrosed8475 Not with hats or kerchiefs? I see women in hats all the time. The hat is actually the covering.
Even though I converted to the Reform Movement in July 2018, I was told that a wig, hat, or head scarf happen to be successful in covering a woman's hair in order for her to save her hair for her husband when she belongs to the Orthodox Movement and gets married to her husband. It's the woman's choice as to which one she chooses to use to honor the head covering law. The wig isn't the only option. That aside, you look wonderful with the wig. Personally, I've never understood the wig thing since I believe it skirts the spirit of the head covering mitzvah. I mean, I know that it's to avoid vanity after marriage. But hey, I'm not married to a man and I don't plan on marrying one for a few good reasons that I don't care to advertise on here so that I don't spark anything that may hurt those who don't support one of my reasons of why this is so.
I love your spirituality and your joy.
Thank you ❤️
@@ThatJewishFamily you are so beautiful.
I think it is more logical (and easier) just to cover your hair with a scarf in public and uncover your hair for your family at home instead of saving your hair. Your wig looks like real hair so much that I don't see the point in wearing it.
I love wigs but I “stopped” wearing human hair since it feels WRONG. But I wear beautiful synthetic wigs and I feel guilt free since it’s actually a hair covering that is not hair 😇
@Ayelet Levy, Exactly. A good bit of the hair is sourced from people groups who cut their hair off as an offering or vow to their gods.
@@jdm6613 exactly
And a lot of synthetic wigs also have random real hairs sewn in to make them look more “real” but keep costs down, so there is a risk there too. I wish so many women weren’t led to believe what they’re wearing is ok 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
Theres a reason why there is only 1 company who gives a hechsher for “kosher” wigs. Even tho it’s a multi million dollar business no one else wants to get involved. It’s a very corrupt business
@@mazalline6993 😬 I didn't realize synthetic hair may have real human hair. Just when when you thought it was safe. Will have to brush up on the concept of kosher wigs/hair. Didn't know there was such a thing.
@@jdm6613 no that’s not true synthetic hair does not have human hair unless it is written on it human hair blend with synthetic hair. The price would be more expensive then 100% synthetic. So she is giving you falsified information
@@jdm6613 there is a refinery documentary about how wig hair is sourced I highly recommend it. It’s usually poor people or people forced to give their hair
I did love the wig you chose, but loved the balayage as well!
Fascinating! Thank you for helping me understand, I am very interested in learning about different faiths. If we don’t learn how can we counteract people who hate just because other people’s beliefs differ from theirs? I’m on Earth to give and receive love. 💗
First time watching your channel. Thanks for explaining everything so clearly and with so much energy. Oh that I was born a Jew.
I just recently found you guys on IG & loved this video. I also cover my hair, I get asked why all the time, but this is so beautifully explained I’m going to use this & share it instead! Plus, I learned something new regarding the negative energies & males. Keep up the amazing work!!
PS love your filming style!
I liked the one with a bit of light in it. Gave you dimension
Not only are the wigs fake but they're high maintenance. Time consuming just to attract attention from people. Like I said, wigs are artificial and women wear them to draw attention to themselves.
are you an orthodox jew?
@@isabrookbanks4118 gatekeeping
The whole story behind women covering hair doesn’t make any sense, unless you are 5 years old an no more!
And the wig solution is even worse than that!
Who are you kidding? Yourself or the god?
I don’t mean to offend anyone and I’m not judging Chas vShalom- just want to say to women reading this that wigs of todays society are 100% forbidden. They are not modest, and they are considered idolatry. No gadol hador ever permitted them! Look in to it please, for your own sakes.
Rav Yuval Ovadia did a very interesting documentary/ video on wigs on his TH-cam channel Spiritual Visuals. Please please look it up it is worth watching 🙏
חב"ד מעודד פאות, הסיבה: אף אישה לא תרצה שחלק מראשה יהיה לא מכוסה היטב, אם יש לה פאה.
@@kfamily770 נכון. וזה בעיה גדולה. הרבי אף פעם הרשה הפאות של היום. הפאות של פעם היו קצר בלי שיער אמיתי. וכולם ידעו שהם היו פאות וזה היה ברור שהאישה היתה נשואה. היום הגברים לא יודעים בכלל אם האישה נשואה או לא. זה ממש לא צנועה וזה גם עבודה זרה כי הנשים גולחות השיער שלהן בשביל העבודה זרה שלהן. זה בעיה גדולה היום. אני אומרת כל זה מאהבה כי אני יודעת שהרבה נשים פשוט לא יודעים את האמת ויש הרבה בילבולים בעולם. היצר הרע מאד חזק היום. בעזרת ה׳ עוד מעט משיח יתגלה ואז כולם יידעו את האמת
Is it difficult to wear your long hair under your wig. I am fortunate to have good hair, but somedays i wouldn't mind having a wig handy. LOL
Why aren't Jewish men obliged to cover their hair?
Skull hat?? they all wear it
Wow the wigs are so beautiful and good quality ❤
Thank you SO much for sharing!! I really really enjoyed everything you have shared in this video. I look forward learning and understanding so much about your lifestyle and traditions.🥰
Thank you so much ❤️❤️
Muslim women are also supposed to cover hair. Wearing wig is to cover hair is brilliant idea. I am going to buy a wig now for family functions because my natural hair color is white since I was a teenager. My slightly curlyhairare feting thinner as well.