A Detailed Discussion on Polygamy (Second Marriage) - Taboos By Qasim Ali Shah with Farah Iqrar
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If you want to take any decision ,don't do emotionally, do it mentally and think about 100 times .peace of mind is very important.
آپ کی نئی پوڈ کاسٹ سیریز ٹیبو بہت اچھی ہے ۔اس میں آپ لوگوں نے ہمارے معاشرتی وسماجی مسائل کو اجاگر کرنے کی کوشش کی ہے۔فرح اقرار کے سیدھے سچے سوالات بہت اچھے لگے ہیں۔
Salam to both of you. I appreciate your work.
Pakistan is very controversial, we call it Islamic Republic but then there are maximum Islamic sects in this country.
We pray towards Kabba, follow Indian culture and teach English and Western civilization in higher educational institutes.
We call it a nation but are too proud of our Provincial, lingual, tribal, economic and educational backgrounds.
We call it a republic but accept Martial law for long periods of time both directly and indirectly.
So on and so forth.
Psychology of males and females in relation ship,, sir plz do discuss 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Bohat aawwllaaa podcast ❤️
Waiting for men women psychology about relationship 🎉
Very well explained. I hope men and women will start understanding that more than 1 marriages are need of this time and age.
السلام علیکم ورحمتہ اللہ وبرکاتہ
بہت ہی خوبصورت گفتگو ، شکریہ جزاک اللہ ۔ جمیل احمد بھارت سے ۔
People are suffering from diabetes, depression, blood pressure, financial problems and odd social behaviors , even it is quite difficult to marry once, second marriage is unaffordable and headache
Thanks alot both of you Great talk so much learning
But waiting for male and female behavior about relationships
ما شاء الله
جزاك الله خيراً
بہت احھی باتیں
Bht shukriya ❤️
Important topic..
Really a taboo...
Touching some delecate points.
MashaALLAH interesting topic i enjoy thanks both of you
Oh! This video is absolutely voice of heart and an example of Farah,s situation ,which she gracefully spending her life.
May Allah bless her all happiness and protect from uncivilized people.Ameen
Don,t care Farah enjoy.
Yes dont care Frah g just chill now doosri k sath teesri shadi b bilkul jaiz hai .koi bura kam nai kiya Aroosa khan ne b😅😅
Mashallah great video sir god bless you may you live long
MashaAllah ...good concept
کمال کی گفتگو کی شاہ صاحب آپ نے اللہ آپکو بے پناہ عزتیں عطا فرمائے آمین
آمین یارب العالمین 🎉
دوسری شادی اگر کسی بیوہ سے کی جائے یا کسی بڑی عمر کی خاتون سے کی جائے تو شاید پہلی بیوی کو اعتراض نہ ہو ،
lkn mrd agr dosri shaadi kise km umr lrki se kre ga to I think phli biwi ko zadda bura lge ga or alarming situation lge gi!
Great talk...
@@user-zj8tw6bx8u اردو کو انگریزی میں نہ لکھیں
2sry Shadi ka maqsad aulad he, aulad kam Umar larki ki hoti he. Iss liye Kam Umar larki se doosri shadi ki jaye.
@@learnarabic2567یاد رکھیں کہ کم عمر لڑکی کے کم عقل ہونے کا امکان رہتا ہے لہذا دوسری شادی سمجھدار خاتون سے کی جائے نہ کہ کسی خوبصورت بچی نما لڑکی سے
qasim sb and Farah it is an important topic which you both discussed it is the topic on which you need more discussion.
Good Topic it Need's todays
Subhan Allah ❤❤❤❤
اعانک اللّٰہ , sir ❤❤
Bhut achcha program. MashAllah
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
Sir ek Sawal hy apse
Quran me dusri tisri choti shadi ka Jo Ayat he wo Ayat kab Nazil huwi ti Khadija (RAU) ki wafat ke baad Nazil huwi ti ya ussy pehle nazil huwi ti?
Sir please is Sawal ka jawab zarur dijiey ga
great video, MASHA ALLAH
Great topic !👍
Zabardast mashallah Keep it up
Well said, JazakAllah.
Thank you so much
Well said sir❤
U r right. ❤
جب ہم کسی سے کسی کی برائی کرتے ہیں تو یہ کی گئی برائی بھی آمانت ہوتی ہے اور اس آمانت کا لحاظ رکھنا اعلیٰ ظرف ہونے کی علامت ہے
Absolutely
Dosri shadi sirf wo nahi kerta
1. Jis ko muka na milay
2. Pasay na hoon
3. Jis ko apni ulad bhut poyari ho
Werna her mard kuch arsay baad apni biwi say bore hojata hay .
May nay asay bhi loog dhkhay hein jo kabhi dosri shadi nai kertay jin ki biwi koobsorat nahi hoti but wo sincere rhetay hein.
Aurat ki galtai na bhi ho tu mard dosri shadi ker layta hay . Us ko koi nahi rook sakta .
Bs video hi bna rahy h is bary m yh baat b tu promote kryn k insaf hona chay 2nd marriage m insaf zero or bachon k rights neglected asy tu Islam n biwi ko b separation k right dea h agr husband wife apni ahyyyassshiii m pry rahy gy tu society m bachy neglect hoty rahyn gy
amazed by this podcost.
I just want to know about second marriage for the lady who is sharing her husband with other women is not about sharing a car with other lady . Even the car we have kind of emotional attachment . How can this be possible to have an equal emotional attachment with lady of house .
Our prophet muhammad pbuh when married her first wife hazrat kadija razi ulla , he didn’t married any other person. Because emotional attachment with her was complete.
When she passed away than he married other umhaat ul momineen.
And hazrat ayesha razi ula .kafi dafa kaha kay hazrat muhammad jo muhabbat hazrat khadija nay ki us ki koi misaal nai . Jab kay hazrat ayesha bhi bhut kareeb thi un kay .
How can I have time from qasim ali Shah for consulting. Please give me procedure
Very nice
Please invite Mufti Tariq Masood. He is a best teacher to teach as well.
شاہ صاحب کیا پاکستان میں مثال کے لیۓ کوئی اداکار نہیں ھے معذرت کے ساتھ
Kmall great 👍
Farha mam beech beech me mat boliye don't stop to sir
Dont jijack session talk one by one 😊
ADHD
Bilkul
Aoa bht achi discussion ki ap dono ne but mje bht si bato se aitraz ha. Mian biwi ka rishta mohabbat or respect per qaim hota ha or jb bat mohabbat ki ho to kisi tesre ki gunjaish nahi hoti ha. Nabi SAW ne b apni first wife ki zindgi me dosri shadi nahi ki thi. So stop encouraging men on dosri shadi we women will never accept it. Jaha bat ati ha widows ki unko financially support kia ja skta ha. And in war times there is separate senario jha mard shaheed hote they yaha koi ni shaheed horaha ha so pls stop bringing this is normal life😂 don’t make women fool with religious references bcoz second marriage hukm nahi ha Allah ka it’s choice jis k peche bht hikmat thi us door me. Ap log k isi behaviour ki waja se ortein rebel kr rahi. Secondly Qasim Ali Shah sahab apse mera aik sawal ha apne bat ki culture ki to mene to ye suna ha Arab ka culture tha bht si shadia krne ka or quran ne usi ko km kr k 4 tk kia so it cultural thing not religion. To hmara to ye culture hi nai being in Indo Pak person why u expect us to follow arab culture 😅 bat agr religion ki hi krni to phr start me ajao jb Allah ne sirf Adam or Hawa ki jodi bna di wha dosri orat nahi thi. Its simple Insan jis se mohabbat krta ha usy share nahi kr skta so stop shaming women for not accepting second marriage😅 jese apne wakia biyan kia ese mardo ko chapair 👋hi parni chahey jo sexual desire k ly dosri shadi krte ha bcoz islam ne to apne nafs ko control krne ko kaha ha or agr bat itni ha k unse gunnah hojay ga to phr also support women agr unhe b koi or admi acha lg jata or apne husband se seperation leti ha wha to hmari hypocrite society ko gairat yad ajati is trah to orat ko b right ha but wha hm orat se sacrifice mangte ha why women should sacrifice always kia orat insan nahi ha. Loyalty wafadari in a relationship is from both sides also discuss this. Stupid double standards male dominating society!
💯%agree
Finally someone talked about the double standards
Ms Amna I have gone through your wonderful comment. It sounds that you are from a very educated background . Actually baat yeh hai k islam ka yeh 4 shadion wala hukum nature k against hai. Kitna asaan hai keh dana k bv apny husband ko share kary. But Is tarha ke baatain ap society mn kro to kufr ka fatwa lag jata hai😅😅 anyways thanks for reading
Qasim Shah bohat actor hai Mash Allah
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What is the meaning of attention?please understand this attention and requirment of a lady।
Very informative show
Piari Baji, kia ap qasim bhai se is mozuu pr bhi discussion kr sakti hen keh , Eyk aurat apne bachon ki akele parwarish kese kere, ager bachon ka father wafat paa jae, aur bache choti age ke hon to un ko kese deal kere. 6 saal ke bache aur 10, 12 saal ke bache... Aur 17, 18 saal ke bache,
Because har age group ka different tariqa ho ga, un ki baap ki shafqast ki mehroomi kese dur kere?
Socity main prwan kese charhen keh ehsaase mehroomi na ho.
Un ko tasalli kese de? Kuch ache mashware....
Sir i am your big fan ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Love you qasim Ali shah sir I appreciate you. Sir hemara culture ma dusri shadi karna ko bura samja jata ha isi lia lo girlfriend boyfriend culture ma dansta ja raha han ya cheez no to islam ma ha na Arab ma ha yahan pr log 4 shadian kar leta ha kisi aurat ko koi masla nahi hota magar Pakistan ma bilkul ulat ha agar koi adami dusri shadi kar la us ko memara culture bura samajta ha please is pr aur kam keran hamari Pakistani awam ko educat keran ❤❤❤🙏🙏
Kia qasim Ali shah sy baat ho sakti h
Walikm asalam
Sha sahib mufti tariq masood sahib ko invite karen
Us sy ap har tarah ka sawaal kar sakten hen wo buhat expert hain . 4 shadian ya helth ya koi b questions us sy poch sakten hain
Jazakallah❤❤❤❤
Please always write ALLAH's Name with capital A. Jazaak ALLAH
Wada aya mufti tariq aourto ka shookeen banda i hate him
اللہ تعالیٰ ہم سب کو یوٹیوب پر کامیاب کریں امین❤
Farah is right some males get married but later they feel regret for first wife and children so they neglect second wife i know a person who married twice but both time made ist wife in charge 2nd wife had to give jewelry clothes to 1st for safekeeping and kitchen was under1st wife control when newly wed couple went for honeymoon 1st wife with children also went with them so both time 2nd wife ves took divorce after 1 month each time now he is living with 1st wife and children
Also majority of the Pakistani wife can not tolerate affair...infact more tolerate second marriage as compaared to affairs...but why always put her on a pedistal that she has to choose between the two....and let me tell you probability of cheating is equal in both men and women that is why the punishment of zina is equal for both men and women...if both a husband and wife have agreed to be in a polygamy relationship then yes there is absolutely nothing wrong in it and in such a case it should be done...but if one of the both do not agree to be in a polyganous relationship why WHY FORCE THEM TO BE IN ONE
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Assalam o Alaikum
Salaam, actually in Pakistan women normally dislike this due to financial insecurity besides emotional reasons.
Sharing inheritance is also another reason.
Yes strong males can revolt against culture.
Honestly no woman in the world would like to share her husband, even if she is financially independent and strong. Pakistani men are just so full of themselves to understand that. Such men don't even deserve one wife, let alone two lol.
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برائی نہ کر ، یہ عیب ہے اللّٰہ عالم الغیب ہے 🎉
Bahi topic keya tha ap wo bhol gae ha or ap kider ka kider chale gae ha , ap pr fine ha
اگلا taboo کب اور ٹاپک؟؟؟
ہمارے نبی صلی اللّٰہ علیہ وسلم نے 25 سال کی عمر میں دو بار بیوہ ہونے والی خاتون سے شادی کی ، اس سنت پر کیوں کوئی توجہ نہیں دلاتا ؟
Farh iqrar k sat bhot zulm howa hai isko blkul time nhi de raha h iqrar
chuna bhe tu khud tha farah ne
Mard insaaf ni kr pata is lye diosri, teesri shadi acceptbl ni hoti phr
Sir me bhi 2nd wife hn aur bht suffer krhi me bhi apse milna chahti hn apni problems klye
aap q bani 2nd wife?
Qasim sir dr barira is more qualified for the podcast.
I felt mam bahut interrupt kar rahi thi in the middle.
I think Podcast hosting main listening skill is more important.
Aslamul kum
Why are us Pakistani becoming so obsessed with 2 marriage...also why is all of the burden always pushed on the wife.... husband doesnt give her love and attention...wifes fault.... husband has an affair... wife's fault.... husband is rude abuses her... wife's fault... husband does second marriage... wife's fault ... So much so if we talk about islam ...then lets talk about the rights of both husband and wife...if husband can do second marriage wife can leave husband even if she doesnt like his face
Polygamy is a choice not FARD
Man betay ko APNA bnanay Kay liay bhu ko bura khty hay y topic pay bat krein
شملہ پہاڑی کے بجائے مٹی کا ڈھیر کہنا چاہیئے
Assslam
O
Aikumplacestaceeuarn
Edcationandislamknowledge
Farah sahiba 3rd marriage k bare ma kia khayal ha ab....
😂Farah tou kehti thi Iqrar kehta wo nae kare ga
Qasim bhai mard ki dosry shadi ki aceptence mashray mein kabhi bhe nhe aye ge jab tak mard pehli shadi kisi bewa or or divorced aurat se nhe karay ga phir beshak 2nd 3rd kanwari se kar lay
Matlab mard k zehan se ye baat nikalein k pehli shadi kanwari se he karni hai phir
Kabhi koi maa apnay betay ki pehli shadi bewa se nhe karay ge
Agar maaein accept kar lein bachon k leye k family mein ya bahir koi bhe achi larhki married ya kanwari mojood hai tu bs theek hai bachay k leye
Maaein tu rola daal deti hein ye kesay mumkin hai or mard bhe aksar nhe mantay k pehlay se shadi shuda hai phir aurtein bhe kesay manein ge k husband dosry shadi karay
Vahan jakr kuch nahi badla ajtk.jbki india me logon ne hr cheez seekhe aur badli.jitna dikhava hai sb vahan hn.
Aurten apna hissa chhodke sb mardon pr dal deti Hain aur hamesha emotional blkmail krti rehti hain.khud apne liye Deen ke hisse ko bhool jati hn.
Totally ghlt baat kr rhy ap chahy ap ka boht bra nam h
Allah NY Jo qanoon bny unu q qabool krny main daair h
تمام انبیاء کرام کی ایک ہی بیوی تھی حضرت ابرہیم علیہ السلام نے دوسری شادی اولاد کے لئے کی تھی لہٰذا بچے نہ ہونے کی وجہ سے دوسری شادی کرتا کوئی جرم نہیں ہے بلکہ نکاح یا شادی پسندیدہ عمل ہے اگر اصراف نہیں کیا جائے ۔
Please check many prophets had more than one wife like Prophet Muhammad SAW, Yaqoob, ismail, Nooh, Dawood, Ibrahim
@@mtariqmeo اگر ایک سے زیادہ بیویاں رکھنا کوئی پسندیدہ بات ہوتی تو آدم علیہ السلام کے ساتھ صرف ایک حوا نہ ہوتیں ؛
Dosri shadi honi chyie.... End of story
U make no sense girl…
میری زندگی میں اک خواہش ہے میں اپ کے ساتھ اپ کے روبرو اسی طرح کسی ٹاپک پر گفتگو کروں بہت دل چاہتا ہے سر آپ میری فیورٹ پرسنیلٹی ہیں مگر شاید غریبوں کو کہاں موقع ملتا ہے😢
ye khatun shah ji ko itna disturbed kiyo karr rahi he bich bich mein
Quran ki pic Back pe nai honi chahiay
Iqrar bhai ab aap be alan kr dy ab tu farah aapi ny be kah deya hai k shadi ki hai tu on karo
Phli wali b Haq talfi krti hn...
Jis ki 2 shadi na huee ho woh Bach Gaya.
Qasim Shah es topic par practical opinion nahi ho sakti, q k onho ne nahi ki 2 shadi.
Na toh saza , aur
Na toh maza jante hai
Odd questions😂
Justifying 2nd marriage
Fazool far fetched from Reality
Stop taking interest in somebody private life
Grow up qasim ali shah
Madam barira ko wapas bulaye
Uss ko Dusri shadi ka topic psnd ni hoga
Farah!!! yehan dosri shadi ko defend kerne bethi ho..... zara teesri per baat karo, monh q bana ker bethi ho 3rd shadi per? baqol aap k husband kay aap ne chun chara ki the 3rd per
Female domination mey yeh possible nahi hai.
Bechara mard.
Doosri shadi is liye buri hai kunk issay aurat ki self esteem majrooh hoti hai.🙄🙄🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️.Kaaafi simple baat hai agar misogynist Oppressive mardon ko jo aurat ko sex object k siva kuch nai samajhtay.Aur aaisai aurtain khud bhi Denial aur patriarchy ka shikar hn aur is gund normalize kar rahay hn.If man is sleeping with 2 women or if woman is sleeping is sleeping with 2 men its the same emotionally ...???no....???Gadhay.
Most Christian sects don’t allow second marriages but after world 2 French churches allowed second marriages after realizing that women out men significantly but narrow minded Indian and Pakistani wives cannot learn from actual histories of human societies till their own daughters become widows or divorcee. They are are not wise enough to realize what they sow for others it will come back to haunt them someday.
فضول اپنی طرف سے باتیں کر رہا ہے کیونکہ اس نے کونسا دوسری شادی کی ہے, اس سے اچھے جوابات تو میں دے دوں۔۔۔ میں نے کی ہیں دو شادیاں اور سب معاملات اچھے ہیں
Fazul insan tm ho psychologist k liye zaruri nahi hota har chez experiences k through byan kry...
Khuadara koi charrrr kitabain prh lo nmunyyyy
جناب محترم شاہ صاحب کو بہت ھی محبت و عزت سے سنتا تھا مگر جب سے قابلِ احترام شاہ صاحب نے امت مسلمہ کے سچے لیڈر کی توھین کی۔۔شاہ صاحب نے اپنے آپکو بہت گرا لیا ھے
Home wrecker
Shaaame on you
Go to hell 😂
اسلام و علیکم ورحمتہ اللہ وبرکاتہ!
سر والدین اور بیوی بچوں پر خرچ کرنا اس کی کیا فیوض و برکات ہیں اور کہا تک ہاتھ پھیلانا چاہیے مہربانی ویڈیو بنا دیں اس موضوع پر!
شاہ صاحب میں آپ کو اپنا استاد مانتا ہوں میری لمبے عرصے سے آپ کو ملنے کی خواہش ہے ۔مجھے کچھ ذہنی مسائل ہیں میں آپ سے ڈسکس کرنا چاہتا ہوں میری عمر 23 سال ہے
𝓙𝓲 𝓫𝓲𝓵𝓴𝓾𝓵 😊🇮🇳
Good Topic it Need's todays