Karigo it's really sad how parents compared kids as far as academic is concerned forgetting that God has given us grace according to the level of our abilities. I have been there and I know it pitches and the pain but I give glory to God I overcome it. It was painful but it was a reason for my generation to never do that to my kids.Ephesians 4:7 [7]But unto every one of us is given grace according to the measure of the gift of Christ. Lakini kila mmoja wetu alipewa neema kwa kadiri ya kipimo cha kipawa chake Kristo.
I do not agree my child should struggle to prove a point, I believe in teaching children and allowing them to see, how the poor and the rich live and life challenges, a parent should be there to guide your child, example if as a parent you are a millionaire, do you deny your children your riches because you struggled in life? No remember every generation has its challenges and struggles, imagine your great father putting you through what his generation struggles were? With children you teach them, guide them and make them understand the world is not a bed of roses
Unfortunately, you can't learn to be a father when you are a woman. As a female, you are wired to provide motherly love to your child/children. The best you can do as a single mother is to find a strong father figure for that child. That person could be your own father, your brother, an uncle, etc. Its only a strong father that provide fatherly teachings to a child. All the best.
Wrong advice. struggle with your child. I remember my father holding my hands going to meet Kibaki when he was forming his coalition. I was 17 and he could have left me home. He took me nilikua naoshea mkono. It's some of the most precious moments I spent with my father. It is the reason I love my son to death because I want to share a similar experience to him
Working far from home does not mean that he is wrong coz it does not mean you can't rightly parent your child.The pessimists see only negative.There is alot to learn from him so don't generalize in the comment that he is giving wrong advice as some of us are benefiting.
Cows at the farm are helped to give birth all the time, do the calves die of weakness? Even human women are helped to give birth... Wrong analogy. The idea is to create an environment that challenges the kid to be creative, curious etc. This is where Africans go wrong, they equate comfort with softness & lack with toughness. Steve Jobs, Zuckerberg, Elon Musk all grew up in homes which Africans would describe as we "soft upbringing", but look where they are now. Even Indians in Kenya grow up in wealth, & grow to expand the family business x2. Africans just don't know how to "do wealth". That's why many African businesses don't pass one generation.
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This is so insightful, thank you Flavour
People doing contracts and doubles away from the family, children are not build of his rich they are but how they grow up matters.
Karigo it's really sad how parents compared kids as far as academic is concerned forgetting that God has given us grace according to the level of our abilities.
I have been there and I know it pitches and the pain but I give glory to God I overcome it.
It was painful but it was a reason for my generation to never do that to my kids.Ephesians 4:7
[7]But unto every one of us is given grace according to the measure of the gift of Christ.
Lakini kila mmoja wetu alipewa neema kwa kadiri ya kipimo cha kipawa chake Kristo.
I understand because I went through that but I thank God coz I overcome it until I am the 🌟
What a gentleman he's the real deal!
Just subscribed to your channel been looking for it.
I do not agree my child should struggle to prove a point, I believe in teaching children and allowing them to see, how the poor and the rich live and life challenges, a parent should be there to guide your child, example if as a parent you are a millionaire, do you deny your children your riches because you struggled in life? No remember every generation has its challenges and struggles, imagine your great father putting you through what his generation struggles were? With children you teach them, guide them and make them understand the world is not a bed of roses
I am a single mum learning to be a father too.i believe i will learn a thing or two
Unfortunately, you can't learn to be a father when you are a woman. As a female, you are wired to provide motherly love to your child/children. The best you can do as a single mother is to find a strong father figure for that child. That person could be your own father, your brother, an uncle, etc. Its only a strong father that provide fatherly teachings to a child. All the best.
@@jamieacker7471 Thank you Jamie.its actually scaring on my side. I believe i will find that father figure for my daughter
Go look father of your kids wacha ukubafu
@@mashnjo8271 you just don't get it
@@kyokushabashine7193 every child has a father. Where is the father of your kids ?
Parenting is a role
Very insightful! But is there a part 2? I saw a short clip circulating where he was talking about chicks hatching. But its missing here.
That WhatsApp video brought me here
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Your editor made the conversation to be repeated twice.
I noticed that too
The video have repeated itself twice
Wrong advice. struggle with your child. I remember my father holding my hands going to meet Kibaki when he was forming his coalition. I was 17 and he could have left me home. He took me nilikua naoshea mkono. It's some of the most precious moments I spent with my father. It is the reason I love my son to death because I want to share a similar experience to him
You're not making any sense bro.
I thought this is exactly what he is saying?
Listen to understand before you jump on your keyboard.
Working far from home does not mean that he is wrong coz it does not mean you can't rightly parent your child.The pessimists see only negative.There is alot to learn from him so don't generalize in the comment that he is giving wrong advice as some of us are benefiting.
Cows at the farm are helped to give birth all the time, do the calves die of weakness? Even human women are helped to give birth... Wrong analogy.
The idea is to create an environment that challenges the kid to be creative, curious etc. This is where Africans go wrong, they equate comfort with softness & lack with toughness. Steve Jobs, Zuckerberg, Elon Musk all grew up in homes which Africans would describe as we "soft upbringing", but look where they are now. Even Indians in Kenya grow up in wealth, & grow to expand the family business x2. Africans just don't know how to "do wealth". That's why many African businesses don't pass one generation.