My father is very arrogant.he abuses me my mother and my sister mentally and sometimes verbally too. He sees me and my sister as burden.he does care about my mothers health.we are extremely exhausted we always pray to Allah to protect us from him but sometimes it feels like all doors have been closed on us there no way out. We pray our daily prayers. We hardly go out of the house maybe once or twice a week to get groceries and he only wants us to marry in his family but we don't want to and if someone outside proposal comes he find faults and rejects them i am 25 and my sister is 29 please pray for us
Sounds horrible..nightmare dad for every good brother who i asking for the hand of a sister. May Allah guid your dad, may Allah give you and youre family the best salution to this and lot of sabr and comfort in hearing Allahs words and Allahs promise that good things wait for the patient..even if that would mean in jannah ..this dunya is a ocean drop compared to jannah. With hardship there comes ease, but may Allah subhana wataala bring you the ease already in this dunya. Allahumma ameen
I love how he never fumbles and is always so coherent and clear with his words. I dont even recall him stammering even a bit, like most usually do while speaking. Amazing!!
no muslim of very high and good family the fact that we stayed at our mum relative placevee had to endure their atrocities given that our mum told us continuouslu that we shd be grateful to her family that was horrible most of her families wanted to get their son married to my sisters i was the youngest but alhamdulilah we when we went to school we gotwell educated znd now we hold very good positions there welearnt about goodhuman relationships even sll these people are notmuslim during our childhood we were at the mercy of her family they even hit us some were nice though we were really helpless but we were not poorbecoz the family is an affluent one compared to my dads family thats why i cant tolerate hearing muslims who keep telling that we should honor parents it was very difficult for us when we saw our fellow coudins living protected with their parents in their house it was disgustingggggg i always say it would be betterif we live in orphanage but mum would never allow this she tortured us totally but still we were sent to school well dressed thanks for yourconcern i appreciate
@King khan Great khan thanks i feel really relieved to speak out my experience though we never share it the only thing i want to share is that people shoul love protect and honor children as they are gifts of allah instead of using them we endure many atrocities from mum may god forgive her children are precious and we should protect them from relatives not outsiders relatives are closest to us and you wont ever know their evil intentions
Tyrant is nothing compared to a word I can’t describe.. if I can’t stand up for myself and can’t point out the wrongs to make them right I’ve become a nasty person right ? When a father starts fitnah between mother and daughter and uses the most nasty words and always threatens with divorce and curses his wife’s past away parents and yet I should keep my mouth close and not stand up for my mother ?? This is what he wants me to be a quite submissive man to him and excuse every actions while I still respect and use good words and still get treated like a nobody . Today is not the best day to what happened every pray for my mother for a better life than this, I will prepare my future to take care of my mother and younger brothers that’s all I have to say.
Sometimes you have to keep your distance from relatives but try to maintain good relationships with parents and siblings some disagreements can get toxic may Allah guide us and keep us away from breaking relations Ameen
If someone abuses you for years then you have the right to break the relationship because it becomes a necessity for you to not go insane if you feel like you might go insane or if it is to avoid someone who wants you to die. If someone abuses you all the time it can make worse things happen to you. It can make you hate your life and hate others.
Exactly. Most of these Dai live in a fantasy world away from the real world. They don't know how evil people really are out there. Evil people become Evil parents, they're ordinary human beings but once corrupted the hell fire is prepared for them.
Yeah I agree with you because when mental peace is disturbed and it got disturbing since 19 , 20 years, u r getting into mental and psychological problem like depression, stress, anxiety, sometimes the fear of that person is like that you cannot comfortably live in ur own house. May Allah ease the condition of everyone who is suffering from this Detrioting mental and spiritual peace
It’s very important to Beg Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala to soften your hearts towards the ones who abuse you. The problem could be in you. When you get very very angry the anger could actually be the real reason for the depression.
I was oppressed for years and then I cried so much and I begged Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala to soften my hearts towards the ones who abused me. After 3 days of begging for that all of the sadness went away and I felt like a new man. I felt as if I was completely purified.
Personally I have such father he stopped paying my school fees for no good reason since 2014 resulting to me being drop out of school, since then I developed a lot of hatred for him we've not been talking to each other for a while now
Try reaching out to him. Do your part and leave the rest to Allah ﷻ. And then let your father be responsible for his shortcomings, but also pray for him sincerely to become a better father and for your relationship to mend.
My mum passed away, my father remarried he kick me and my daugther on the road for no reason,it 10years now im having difficulty but alhamdulillah for everthing Allah bless me
I had worked since five years my dad married three wife and forgotten us completely, I hold a big responsibility now as others been married and only think of thier own lives. Went to nursery ،school done my uni non of this my father paid for me He passed 2015 I do good things for him now . If they are not better understanding I thank allah for giving me a good heart that does not treat similar way. My mother is a hero I love her so much she worked hard for us and now I do everything for her she just prays for me everyday I call her I’m away from my country but I save her life as I’m working.
*Sahih al-Bukhari 38* *Narrated Abu Huraira:* *Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "Whoever observes fasts during the month of Ramadan out of sincere faith, and hoping to attain Allah's rewards, then all his past sins will be forgiven."*
Prophet Muhammad Saw was born on Monday and our deeds are presented to Allah on Monday and Thursday. Prophet Muhammad Saw liked his deeds to be presented to Allah whist he was fasting
Mondays and thurdays are highly recommended sunnah days to fast. Prophet did so on (every-may be) monday because he was born on that day and revelation was given to him on monday. And on thursdays he said that deed are presented to Allah. So he liked it shown him fasting. Sallalahu alayhi wasalam. And Allah knows best.
Beautiful Supplications: 1) Astagfirullah al Adheem allazi la ilaha illah huwal hayyul qayyum watub ilaihi. (Supplication for forgiveness from Allah) 2) SubhanAllahi Wabi Hamdihi SubhanAllahil Adheem (Recite it as many times as you can because the Prophet Muhammad (SAW) said, "Two words are light on the tongue, weigh heavily in the scale and are loved by the Most Merciful) 3) Allahumma a'inne ala zikrika, wa shukrika, wa husni ibadatika. (Meaning: Oh Allah, help me to remember You, to thank You and to worship You in the best manner.) 4) Hasbiyallahu La ilaha illah huwa' alayhi tawaqqaltu wahuwa rabbul arshil adheem. (Dua to get rid of anxieties, recite it 7 times in the morning and in the evening)
Some parents are examples of models, always dignified, so virtuous, and of a generosity HamdouliLAH.Even if it is not the case there is always a lesson to learn from our elders Min Sha ALLAH TAALA In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. According to Jahima (may Allah be pleased with him), I went to the Prophet (صلى الله عليه وسلم) to consult him about jihad. Then the Prophet (صلى الله عليه وسلم)said to me, "Do you have your parents? I said, "Yes. The Prophet (صلى الله عليه وسلم) said: "Hold on to them for paradise is under their feet. (Reported by Tabarani and authenticated by Sheikh Albani in Sahih Targhib no. 2485) BarakALLAHu feek Mufti Menk for your kind reminders and advice
I'm pretty sure it says in the Book of Proverbs to avoid being unreasonable or angry with your kids (you're not supposed to have a power trip and become really hurtful).
Thats just logic that decent people are able to do. Abusive people regardless of their religion will always find justifications for their abusive behaviors and cruelty to their own family. May we all be protected from harm by abusive people.
You are the only mufti who speaks what is right we should not give orders to do this that when we do not know the realities of people burdens are made on children we have toxic parents alcoholics parents who treat their children as slaves so why muslim promote them as if they are god they never give children live children did not ask to cone on this earth you made them so you should feed them even aonimals do so so why honour them treat them well my mother knew her male cousins touched her daughters we had no father but she never said anything to protect us we had to endure it among sisters god blessed us we were damned beautiful but she let these people come to our house whenever they wanted and have the fun but with us she was very mean
@King khan Great khan because she did not have the courage to tell them anything we rented their house but allah taalla blessed us with good homes we are married now but these people childrens have endured a lot later on one was murdered
My heart is torn because of all the things my father did my brother my mother and me. I want to cut ties with him but i dont know what to do and how to stand infront of Allah because of that. All our family members except of my father are seeing psychiatrist because of his actions and got depressed. He never feels sorry for any of his actions, gives us the blame and he lives on without ever saying anything because of his position in the family. Hes truly a tyrant. Oh Allah please help me.
my father inlaw fell out with my husband over money and my father and mother inlaw have disowned him and my 4 children, my children r 10,8,6,1 urs old and wen they see their grand dad in the shopping centre they run to him calling him, shouting “grandad” but he ignores them and walks away my children also sat in the same restaurant as him and went to him yet he walked away in another room and told other mens why are they here!, wen my children told me this it broke my heart as a mother😔 my husband called his mother few times on the phone also tried talking to them but they still dnt want anything to do with him or his children and am an outsider to them and completely utterly disrespected. May Allah make us better parents and grandparents Ameen🤲🏻
I think what the problem is that parents and usually with south asian culture they confuse kindness as agreeing with them and if you disagree with them they believe its unkindness which they then tend to gaslight and guilt trip you as being selfish and that you're making reasonable decisions based on yourself and not them.
“Who did this 2 you?” “Who did this 2 you?” It’s okay 2 disagree!!! It would be a very Dull World 🌏🌍🌎 if ALLAH Made Us All the same‼️ ASSALAMU ALAIKUM 2 All‼️🙏🏽🙏🏼🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️‼️ WE R ALL ONE ☝🏽 ‼️‼️
I am scared and worried for my future I fear that I will go on the wrong path and that scares me to the bone, I’m reading my salah, and doing zikr and I have gotten better but sometimes it gets to me and it even comes in my dreams what should I do I am scared and confused , please pray for me
It;s just shaytaan keep doing what your doing and try to stay positive, our bad dreams are also from shaytaan, i notice I have them when I start doing better, or decide to do istighfar or so on, they probably wouldn't bother you if you were not with a heart of iman, keep going your doing great, why would shaytaan bother someone who is on the path to hell? ask yourself that, he has no need to bother such a person, don't let him get to you, he is powerless as long as you think well of Allah swt and keep up your good work, keep growing, focusing on the end goal of paradise... May Allah make it easy for you and I wish you well inshallah.
That's without any doubt shaitaan trying to divert you from the right path. Don't think to much about it. Keep in mind that you're doing everything for the sake of Allah and that it is only him who will protect you.
Those who think that the Quran says that the earth is flat, is wrong. The Arabic word 'Ardh' means soil, land terrain and earth. The earth in the Quran is not referring to the planet Earth. It is refering to the land , soil, terrain etc.
Allah bless support help forgive protect succeed uplift enhance love us all so we become sadaqa jaariya /charity for humanity human beings nature & future generations regardless race religion culture nationality. Ameen
I want to know that what to do, when father tries to attack children and mother, also consume alcohol abusive and torchers.. beat mother.. what to do in this type of situation
our father gave us money but no respect, no understanding, only abuse, anger, poison.. tell me which father is best...? a father with no money but big heart, love.... or a father with lots of money but no love? I hate it that these topics are still so taboo no one covers it from the POV of a child. I wish I wasn't born.
Thts your father's problem isn't it? As long as you keep channels of communication open, then its not your fault he keeps his relationship with you broken. May Allah guide him to be better and may Allah help you find happiness and safety and security in your other family relationships
what if parents curse you for been a good child to them, my mother invokes curses and directs them puposely to destroy my life, right now she is pretending to be dead in my life, what i mean is she is pretending am not among her child. am not a perfect person, but what i know about myself is that i have made it a primary assignment to please my mother in all the ways i can, but what she prefers is that i worship her. and this i will not do, i will only worship Allah.
I’m separated with my kids dad, we divorced 2 years about. Now I want to travel with my kids to Africa but he’s refusing. We live in the USA and you can’t travel without another parent consent. I tried everything, sent elderly talk with me, an imam as well but still he doesn’t want to. We ask the reason why, he responds with nothing just he doesn’t want them to travel. I want to solve things in islamic and peacefully but he’s too much. What should I do?
After that if father starts to beat?? Then our soul can't remain quite‼️ CHILDREN START TO SCREAM....EVEN IF THEY'RE NOT INTENTED TO INSULT THEIR FATHER...BUT THEY DO COMPLAIN TO Allah ABOUT HIM...IN A FRUSTRATED VOICE ‼️‼️WILL THAT BE considered HAraM ⁉️
my father allways hurt me and sometimes trys to stab me with a knife and he does not like his own country make a video if this is good or not pls pls im only 9 by the way
My father is very arrogant.he abuses me my mother and my sister mentally and sometimes verbally too. He sees me and my sister as burden.he does care about my mothers health.we are extremely exhausted we always pray to Allah to protect us from him but sometimes it feels like all doors have been closed on us there no way out.
We pray our daily prayers. We hardly go out of the house maybe once or twice a week to get groceries and he only wants us to marry in his family but we don't want to and if someone outside proposal comes he find faults and rejects them i am 25 and my sister is 29 please pray for us
Sounds horrible..nightmare dad for every good brother who i asking for the hand of a sister. May Allah guid your dad, may Allah give you and youre family the best salution to this and lot of sabr and comfort in hearing Allahs words and Allahs promise that good things wait for the patient..even if that would mean in jannah ..this dunya is a ocean drop compared to jannah. With hardship there comes ease, but may Allah subhana wataala bring you the ease already in this dunya. Allahumma ameen
Ameen ya rabbil Alameen@@55batmanandjoker
How is it now Brother / Sister
I love how he never fumbles and is always so coherent and clear with his words. I dont even recall him stammering even a bit, like most usually do while speaking. Amazing!!
@King khan Great khan No, brother.
no muslim of very high and good family the fact that we stayed at our mum relative placevee had to endure their atrocities given that our mum told us continuouslu that we shd be grateful to her family that was horrible most of her families wanted to get their son married to my sisters i was the youngest but alhamdulilah we when we went to school we gotwell educated znd now we hold very good positions there welearnt about goodhuman relationships even sll these people are notmuslim during our childhood we were at the mercy of her family they even hit us some were nice though we were really helpless but we were not poorbecoz the family is an affluent one compared to my dads family thats why i cant tolerate hearing muslims who keep telling that we should honor parents it was very difficult for us when we saw our fellow coudins living protected with their parents in their house it was disgustingggggg i always say it would be betterif we live in orphanage but mum would never allow this she tortured us totally but still we were sent to school well dressed thanks for yourconcern i appreciate
@King khan Great khan thanks i feel really relieved to speak out my experience though we never share it the only thing i want to share is that people shoul love protect and honor children as they are gifts of allah instead of using them we endure many atrocities from mum may god forgive her children are precious and we should protect them from relatives not outsiders relatives are closest to us and you wont ever know their evil intentions
U know stuttering is also natural
Allhamdullilah
My dad 💔😔.... Worst toxic person I have ever seen
So is mine
Me to brother 😭😭😭😭
Dont worry u are not alone
Your not alone 😢
Iam so frustrated with him
Tyrant is nothing compared to a word I can’t describe.. if I can’t stand up for myself and can’t point out the wrongs to make them right I’ve become a nasty person right ? When a father starts fitnah between mother and daughter and uses the most nasty words and always threatens with divorce and curses his wife’s past away parents and yet I should keep my mouth close and not stand up for my mother ?? This is what he wants me to be a quite submissive man to him and excuse every actions while I still respect and use good words and still get treated like a nobody . Today is not the best day to what happened every pray for my mother for a better life than this, I will prepare my future to take care of my mother and younger brothers that’s all I have to say.
May ALLAH help u
Sometimes you have to keep your distance from relatives but try to maintain good relationships with parents and siblings some disagreements can get toxic may Allah guide us and keep us away from breaking relations Ameen
If someone abuses you for years then you have the right to break the relationship because it becomes a necessity for you to not go insane if you feel like you might go insane or if it is to avoid someone who wants you to die. If someone abuses you all the time it can make worse things happen to you. It can make you hate your life and hate others.
Exactly. Most of these Dai live in a fantasy world away from the real world. They don't know how evil people really are out there. Evil people become Evil parents, they're ordinary human beings but once corrupted the hell fire is prepared for them.
Yeah I agree with you because when mental peace is disturbed and it got disturbing since 19 , 20 years, u r getting into mental and psychological problem like depression, stress, anxiety, sometimes the fear of that person is like that you cannot comfortably live in ur own house.
May Allah ease the condition of everyone who is suffering from this Detrioting mental and spiritual peace
It’s very important to Beg Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala to soften your hearts towards the ones who abuse you. The problem could be in you. When you get very very angry the anger could actually be the real reason for the depression.
I was oppressed for years and then I cried so much and I begged Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala to soften my hearts towards the ones who abused me. After 3 days of begging for that all of the sadness went away and I felt like a new man. I felt as if I was completely purified.
Personally I have such father he stopped paying my school fees for no good reason since 2014 resulting to me being drop out of school, since then I developed a lot of hatred for him we've not been talking to each other for a while now
Try reaching out to him.
Do your part and leave the rest to Allah ﷻ.
And then let your father be responsible for his shortcomings, but also pray for him sincerely to become a better father and for your relationship to mend.
My mum passed away, my father remarried he kick me and my daugther on the road for no reason,it 10years now im having difficulty but alhamdulillah for everthing Allah bless me
I had worked since five years my dad married three wife and forgotten us completely, I hold a big responsibility now as others been married and only think of thier own lives.
Went to nursery ،school done my uni non of this my father paid for me
He passed 2015 I do good things for him now .
If they are not better understanding I thank allah for giving me a good heart that does not treat similar way.
My mother is a hero I love her so much she worked hard for us and now I do everything for her she just prays for me everyday I call her I’m away from my country but I save her life as I’m working.
*Sahih al-Bukhari 38*
*Narrated Abu Huraira:*
*Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "Whoever observes fasts during the month of Ramadan out of sincere faith, and hoping to attain Allah's rewards, then all his past sins will be forgiven."*
Aameen
Allahumma ballighna Ramadan
O Allah let us reach ramadan
Ameen
Soon in a few years, Illybe rich and powerful Enough that I'll Snatch everything from my Toxic Father for how he Destroyed me mentally
I pray my nephews hearts soften towards my elder brother. Allah guide him to be the father they need.The family is broken.Allah guide us.
Amen 🙏any one to tell me the importance of fasting monday & thursday in Islam🙏
Prophet Muhammad Saw was born on Monday and our deeds are presented to Allah on Monday and Thursday. Prophet Muhammad Saw liked his deeds to be presented to Allah whist he was fasting
Mondays and thurdays are highly recommended sunnah days to fast.
Prophet did so on (every-may be) monday because he was born on that day and revelation was given to him on monday. And on thursdays he said that deed are presented to Allah. So he liked it shown him fasting. Sallalahu alayhi wasalam. And Allah knows best.
Assalamualaikum brother. Amen is a word that Christian use to replace Ameen in Islam. I hope I don't miss that again like before
@@water4225
No need to pick, brother. They are the same word in different languages.
Monday is prophet birthday or the day he born and Thursday the day of judgment on Friday no judgment takes place jazakallah
If you hate anyone ask Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala to soften your heart towards them.
May Allah forgive and protect all of us Aameen
You only need to ask Allah Subhanallah Wa Ta’ala to soften your heart and your heart will be softened.
It's really relevant to my issue right now. Jazakumullah Khair Mufti
Asalamu aleikum we ramatulahi wa barakatu shaikh, jazakalah for shearing your khownlage with us every day, subhanalah,Mashalllah,in sha Allah
It's not easy may Allah give us all ease
Ameen, love the daily reminders. May Allah SWT bless Mufti and my fellow Muslim brothers and sisters ❤
May Allah Grant our parents jannah
Jazak Allah kheir
Alhamdulillah for Islam 👍🤲
. Muftii menk you're the best inshallah I will meet you one day may allah bless you ameen
Beautiful Supplications:
1) Astagfirullah al Adheem allazi la ilaha illah huwal hayyul qayyum watub ilaihi. (Supplication for forgiveness from Allah)
2) SubhanAllahi Wabi Hamdihi SubhanAllahil Adheem (Recite it as many times as you can because the Prophet Muhammad (SAW) said, "Two words are light on the tongue, weigh heavily in the scale and are loved by the Most Merciful)
3) Allahumma a'inne ala zikrika, wa shukrika, wa husni ibadatika. (Meaning: Oh Allah, help me to remember You, to thank You and to worship You in the best manner.)
4) Hasbiyallahu La ilaha illah huwa' alayhi tawaqqaltu wahuwa rabbul arshil adheem. (Dua to get rid of anxieties, recite it 7 times in the morning and in the evening)
May Allah bless us all ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
SubhanALLAH may Allah swt make it easy for us and bring unity and happiness between father and his children’s Ameen
mashallah amazing lecture brother!
SUBHAN ALLAH
ALLAHU AKBAR
ALHAMDULILLAH
JAZAK ALLAH KHAYR
LA ILAHA ILLALLAH
YA ALLAH
MASHALLAH AMEEN 🌿🌙🌿
Yes Allah talked about good parents not abusive and toxic type parents.
May allah grant us forgiveness
MA SHA ALLAH
Mashallah big follower and words of wisdom
Some parents are examples of models, always dignified, so virtuous, and of a generosity HamdouliLAH.Even if it is not the case there is always a lesson to learn from our elders Min Sha ALLAH TAALA
In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
According to Jahima (may Allah be pleased with him), I went to the Prophet
(صلى الله عليه وسلم) to consult him about jihad.
Then the Prophet (صلى الله عليه وسلم)said to me, "Do you have your parents? I said, "Yes.
The Prophet (صلى الله عليه وسلم) said: "Hold on to them for paradise is under their feet.
(Reported by Tabarani and authenticated by Sheikh Albani in Sahih Targhib no. 2485)
BarakALLAHu feek Mufti Menk for your kind reminders and advice
Dear whoever is reading this please smile life is too short to be unhappy
May ALLAH (SWT) grant you and your entire family happiness in DUNYA and AKHIRA. Thank you for the very kind words.
Jazakallahu khaira brother! 😊
Jazakallah khir mufti sab
Alhamdulillah
Ummi abah😭❤❤❤
Please make dua for me ...
I'm pretty sure it says in the Book of Proverbs to avoid being unreasonable or angry with your kids (you're not supposed to have a power trip and become really hurtful).
Thats just logic that decent people are able to do. Abusive people regardless of their religion will always find justifications for their abusive behaviors and cruelty to their own family.
May we all be protected from harm by abusive people.
Allah Bless Us
Subhanallah!!!! Amazing reminder....
Assalamualaikum ❤️❤️❤️❤️
MashaAllah may Allah bless him😍
Mashallah nice lecture
You are the only mufti who speaks what is right we should not give orders to do this that when we do not know the realities of people burdens are made on children we have toxic parents alcoholics parents who treat their children as slaves so why muslim promote them as if they are god they never give children live children did not ask to cone on this earth you made them so you should feed them even aonimals do so so why honour them treat them well my mother knew her male cousins touched her daughters we had no father but she never said anything to protect us we had to endure it among sisters god blessed us we were damned beautiful but she let these people come to our house whenever they wanted and have the fun but with us she was very mean
@King khan Great khan because she did not have the courage to tell them anything we rented their house but allah taalla blessed us with good homes we are married now but these people childrens have endured a lot later on one was murdered
Indeed True🤗😍 Selam Mufti Menk
Salaam
@@Aishath_Suma Walaikum Musalam
Masha Allah your lectures are amazing.
Please please come to Maldives in next summer ❤️.Our masajids Miss you😭
Me tooo
My heart is torn because of all the things my father did my brother my mother and me. I want to cut ties with him but i dont know what to do and how to stand infront of Allah because of that. All our family members except of my father are seeing psychiatrist because of his actions and got depressed. He never feels sorry for any of his actions, gives us the blame and he lives on without ever saying anything because of his position in the family. Hes truly a tyrant. Oh Allah please help me.
Same😔
Jazakallahu khair❤
Please pray for us i have a very hard time my dad isn't a good person
my father inlaw fell out with my husband over money and my father and mother inlaw have disowned him and my 4 children, my children r 10,8,6,1 urs old and wen they see their grand dad in the shopping centre they run to him calling him, shouting “grandad” but he ignores them and walks away
my children also sat in the same restaurant as him and went to him yet he walked away in another room and told other mens why are they here!, wen my children told me this it broke my heart as a mother😔
my husband called his mother few times on the phone also tried talking to them but they still dnt want anything to do with him or his children and am an outsider to them and completely utterly disrespected. May Allah make us better parents and grandparents Ameen🤲🏻
I love your speech sir 🥰🤗😊
I think what the problem is that parents and usually with south asian culture they confuse kindness as agreeing with them and if you disagree with them they believe its unkindness which they then tend to gaslight and guilt trip you as being selfish and that you're making reasonable decisions based on yourself and not them.
“Who did this 2 you?”
“Who did this 2 you?”
It’s okay 2 disagree!!!
It would be a very Dull
World 🌏🌍🌎 if ALLAH
Made Us All the same‼️
ASSALAMU ALAIKUM 2
All‼️🙏🏽🙏🏼🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️‼️
WE R ALL ONE ☝🏽 ‼️‼️
May Allah bless you Mufti Menk
Ameen!!
I am scared and worried for my future I fear that I will go on the wrong path and that scares me to the bone, I’m reading my salah, and doing zikr and I have gotten better but sometimes it gets to me and it even comes in my dreams what should I do I am scared and confused , please pray for me
It;s just shaytaan keep doing what your doing and try to stay positive, our bad dreams are also from shaytaan, i notice I have them when I start doing better, or decide to do istighfar or so on, they probably wouldn't bother you if you were not with a heart of iman, keep going your doing great, why would shaytaan bother someone who is on the path to hell? ask yourself that, he has no need to bother such a person, don't let him get to you, he is powerless as long as you think well of Allah swt and keep up your good work, keep growing, focusing on the end goal of paradise...
May Allah make it easy for you and I wish you well inshallah.
That's without any doubt shaitaan trying to divert you from the right path. Don't think to much about it. Keep in mind that you're doing everything for the sake of Allah and that it is only him who will protect you.
@@emma647 thank you 🙏
Abuse that makes you question your faith, yeah i think its better to cut ties asap
Mashallah
Less go love you mufti me k
Allahu Akbar
mashallah
Ameen 🙏
AOA mufti menk! Remember me in your prayers.
Those who think that the Quran says that the earth is flat, is wrong. The Arabic word 'Ardh' means soil, land terrain and earth. The earth in the Quran is not referring to the planet Earth. It is refering to the land , soil, terrain etc.
Ya Allah Forgive Us
Allah bless support help forgive protect succeed uplift enhance love us all so we become sadaqa jaariya /charity for humanity human beings nature & future generations regardless race religion culture nationality. Ameen
Aameen
Forgive us ya Allah
I want to know that what to do, when father tries to attack children and mother, also consume alcohol abusive and torchers.. beat mother.. what to do in this type of situation
Subhanallah 😢😢
our father gave us money but no respect, no understanding, only abuse, anger, poison.. tell me which father is best...? a father with no money but big heart, love.... or a father with lots of money but no love? I hate it that these topics are still so taboo no one covers it from the POV of a child. I wish I wasn't born.
My father broke relation with me ....he won't even talk to me what should i do mufti??
May ALLAH (SWT) fully correct this problem, and may HE (SWT) send much love unto your entire family.
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@@bassamimam1019 thx u my brother ❤
@@mariyamn445 sister i hope our father's realize their mistakes and turn toward allha swt ..
Thts your father's problem isn't it? As long as you keep channels of communication open, then its not your fault he keeps his relationship with you broken.
May Allah guide him to be better and may Allah help you find happiness and safety and security in your other family relationships
what if parents curse you for been a good child to them, my mother invokes curses and directs them puposely to destroy my life, right now she is pretending to be dead in my life, what i mean is she is pretending am not among her child. am not a perfect person, but what i know about myself is that i have made it a primary assignment to please my mother in all the ways i can, but what she prefers is that i worship her. and this i will not do, i will only worship Allah.
Nice topics
First Alhamdulillah👌🏻🤲🏻
Any body please help me to do umra or hajj
I’m separated with my kids dad, we divorced 2 years about. Now I want to travel with my kids to Africa but he’s refusing. We live in the USA and you can’t travel without another parent consent. I tried everything, sent elderly talk with me, an imam as well but still he doesn’t want to. We ask the reason why, he responds with nothing just he doesn’t want them to travel. I want to solve things in islamic and peacefully but he’s too much. What should I do?
If you a nasty dad don’t have children; they deserve a million times better
والعكس بالعكس يجوز لك قطع الرحم للضرورة.... حضرتك اللي قلت كده مش انا
What if a father tourters physically and mentally? Should we abandon then?
be nice but get away--
It’s true
Me knowing he make funny faces 😂
Lmao
100 % brother
My family is facing same problem. I broke relation with my father since 2013....
MAY ALLAH MAKE YOUR RELATION WITH YOUR FATHER GOOD AGAIN... AMEEN...
Only beak the relationship when they are narcissist otherwise you will lose you life for no reason
Assalamualaikum
What about if someone never has a relationship with his or her father for after 20 year, then later he or she knows who is the the father ?????
Salam
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10 minutes pls video
After that if father starts to beat?? Then our soul can't remain quite‼️ CHILDREN START TO SCREAM....EVEN IF THEY'RE NOT INTENTED TO INSULT THEIR FATHER...BUT THEY DO COMPLAIN TO Allah ABOUT HIM...IN A FRUSTRATED VOICE ‼️‼️WILL THAT BE considered HAraM ⁉️
My m...........r , sometimes I think if she wasn't my m......r I would have never talked to such a person
Mufti Menk cute
What if ur own family are toxic?
Uncle😘 in the thumbnail u make an imoji with your lips☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️
But the actions he takes after getting angry that's the problem
😢😢Sheik was sent u a private message i wanted to ask you important questions waiting for your response inshaallah
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my father allways hurt me and sometimes trys to stab me with a knife and he does not like his own country make a video if this is good or not pls pls im only 9 by the way
First mashallah
Say plz when u first
Salat on Muhammad plz
When every one did salat u will have hasanat
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