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  • @scary___mary
    @scary___mary 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    guys, at the end she mentions that she is GOING TO A SPECIALIST! So stop jumping straight to the comments whining about „self diagnosis“ and „confirmation bias“ etc.

    • @CartiaMallan
      @CartiaMallan  4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      THANKYOUUUUUUU
      i am seeing 2 specialists !!!! I respect everyones comments but I am getting information from proper sources .

  • @bellasophie9197
    @bellasophie9197 4 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    Hi Cartia! I think it’s amazing that you want to have open discussions about your mental health. As a psychology student it’s great to see people wanting to reduce the stigma around mental health. It is also important to discuss conditions/diagnoses that are not as commonly spoken about. There are many areas that need more research and there is a problem of over-diagnosis in many circumstances. However, if you’re not a qualified clinician/researcher I think it is a huge slippery slope to say you want to make an informative video on a topic you’re only learning about from podcasts. 100% podcasts can be amazing resources but when sharing information other people (professionals or not) have said things can get lost in translation/taken out of context. For example saying psychologists don’t scan the brain. Many clinics do, or hopefully refer someone to get scanned! Not all but saying all psychologists don’t is misinformed. Furthermore a lot of research focuses on observing brain activity/brain tissue mass in certain areas of the brain and seeing what behaviours etc correlate with that. I’m not invalidating you’re experience as it’s very clear it’s been a tough road for you but from what you’ve said it sounds like you haven’t seen a professional re the PCS? Self diagnosing is really dangerous - if you feel like you resonate with symptoms of PCS then go to a professional and discuss it with them. If you have been seeing a professional and have spoken to them about this then that’s awesome! I’m happy to see you’re taking your mental health seriously and opening a discussion up but please be careful with how you go about doing so! For your sake and the sake of others viewing 😊

  • @Amanda-wr1qp
    @Amanda-wr1qp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    Psychologists do use brain scans as methodology! For example, Psychologists predominantly use neuroimaging techniques such as EEG, fMRI, PET and MRI to inform their decision making. That statement is misinformed and could unintentionally persuade someone to not seek out help from evidence-based professionals that genuinely could help them.
    Doing a mental health series could be really impactful, but it's important to make sure the statements are supported by evidence so that we don't unintentionally send someone that could be struggling into more pain!

    • @petttyjenny
      @petttyjenny 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      YES AMEN TO THIS

    • @CartiaMallan
      @CartiaMallan  4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      OK WOW i have more research to do!!!! thankyou for this

    • @Amanda-wr1qp
      @Amanda-wr1qp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@CartiaMallan Wow thank you for your response!! And your advocacy!

  • @TheVintagecupcake101
    @TheVintagecupcake101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    you should really do a mental health series called "coming back to Cartia" i too am experiencing a situation like yours and this past year mentally and physically has been the most challenging and i would love to see your raw process through it.. even now when you're feeling more you. love ya, you're not alone!!!

  • @leetahs9051
    @leetahs9051 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    the opening shot.... the ocean and that sunset oh my god GOOSEBUMPS

    • @uuh.okayiguess
      @uuh.okayiguess 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yesss I thought it was an ad bc the quality was soo good😂

    • @CartiaMallan
      @CartiaMallan  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      omg

    • @leetahs9051
      @leetahs9051 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cartia Mallan ily

  • @aliciamarroquin3911
    @aliciamarroquin3911 4 ปีที่แล้ว +205

    I really hope you don’t film this concussion video as you’re not really qualified to do so and may then spread false information. Please make sure your sources are SCIENTIFIC, peer-reviewed, scholarly articles. There are people who dedicate their entire research to these areas, and reading their work and studies they have conducted is essential. You may be doing more damage than good. Also, correlation does not equal causation. Your symptoms may correlate with your concussion, though it may also not be the cause. There may have also been a change you’re not taking into account that happened at the same time. And if this doesn’t apply to you, it may apply to someone else.

    • @bellasophie9197
      @bellasophie9197 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      this is really important ^^^^

    • @amyp9708
      @amyp9708 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Agreed ^^ Maybe it would be beneficial to do a panel discussion with different allied health professionals who can all contribute - bringing different points of view and knowledge from their respective fields?

    • @annaxin22
      @annaxin22 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      exactly! to be honest I resonate with a lot of what she's discussing about mental health, ("coming back to myself [Cartia]") however my trauma was from a previous abusive relationship and I didn't have a concussion...

    • @wahwahcarrots
      @wahwahcarrots 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yes! I think she is suffering from "confirmation bias" more than anything.

  • @caitlinmcgovern7833
    @caitlinmcgovern7833 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    your reaction to finding out about the pcs is so natural! I felt the same when I finally received a diagnosis for a chronic condition. It's like initial relief that you're not alone and then sadness/frustration that you had to battle it for so long without fully being understood or heard. I try to view it as a tool of growth as much as I can//appreciate that dealing with it has made me into a really empathetic person but that doesn't mean it isn't shitty that its gone under the radar for so long// doesn't mean you stop thinking of the life you could have had/person you could have been without it. sending love

    • @CartiaMallan
      @CartiaMallan  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      totally.. it's hard but truly i know im blessed because I've learnt so much from my experience

  • @sharonbernath9449
    @sharonbernath9449 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy Birthday Cartia!! I hope you have a wonderful day and a wonderful year? 😊👍🌟🎂

  • @marwells3081
    @marwells3081 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    please don't self-diagnose yourself, its very dangerous. Even though you were misdiagnosed previously, you can't say your have this syndrome just because you have been doing some reading and listened to podcasts. Go to a professional before claiming you have this. While its great that you have done your own research and now have some insight into the effects of concussion, you now need to be properly diagnosed (before you make a video on it!!) and btw many many psychologists use neuroimaging techniques.

  • @OnlyMagentaCA
    @OnlyMagentaCA 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    The sunset in those first clips 🤩 Why do we never get those kind of sunsets in the UK 😭 I'm loving the pink streaks btw 💘

  • @Sarah-jn5ez
    @Sarah-jn5ez 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow ! I feel for you girl. My boyfriend got a concussion... and he completely changed. The number one thing that made him worse is having alcohol... and things in that realm. This really prolonged the recovery process and made things worse. I hope you feel like yourself soon ❤️ god bless

  • @KristinasDigitalDiary
    @KristinasDigitalDiary 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    OMG worst feeling when you’re in the car and you realise you left your rings inside your home!! Happened to me today too 😭😂

  • @Julia-je6ix
    @Julia-je6ix 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your casual vlogs and talk Videos the most. Even when you think they are boring. I find them very inspirational and calming 🥰🥰

  • @Cami-ri8ks
    @Cami-ri8ks 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    But tbh anxiety can cause health issues and physical symptoms. Specially hypochondria (which you seem to have a tendency on, from the whole health-enthusiasm). I never had a concusion and I experience crazy ass physical shit.

    • @helenacrowley1076
      @helenacrowley1076 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Being enthusiastic about being healthy doesn’t = hypochondria. Hypochondria is a serious mental health issue and I don’t think you should be trying to diagnose people you don’t know or see in their day to day life.

  • @megankatejacobs
    @megankatejacobs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Where did you get your white jumper from? The one ur wearing at the end?? I’m obsessed !! 😍🙌🏻❤️

  • @sparkemotioned
    @sparkemotioned 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love your hair, thinking of doing the same :) Has it damaged the front pieces though by having to re-dye it a lot? xx

  • @GeorgiaKate
    @GeorgiaKate 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    your vlogs are always so wholesome and uplifting. Sending you a lotta love Carts xx

  • @patikopycinska
    @patikopycinska 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video. I wish your channel fly to the top very soon! 🏁 Continue creating!

  • @hanniemunday
    @hanniemunday 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Cartia, I just wanted to pop on and say I'm sorry for everything you went through but I am glad you are finally getting some answers. It was hard hearing the sadness in your voice about how this impacted your friendships and relationships but keep in mind, everything happens for a reason. You are a shining light and have great people around you, I hope you keep feeling better and thank you for sharing your experience with us! Much love xxx

  • @angelicnic777
    @angelicnic777 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    yes cartia this is EXACTLY what i needed! Thank you for blessing me angel xxx

  • @MamaSwole
    @MamaSwole 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    i'm living for the chill vibes of this vlog and that sunset tho😍

  • @andiqui2952
    @andiqui2952 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would love for you to talk about your experience going to your nutrionist, what your symptoms were and what helped. Like for instance, your leaky gut, hormone imbalance, anxiety etc. I would really like to learn more about it as I'm myself is struggling from it and I think it can help many more that has the same issues

  • @mgjprins
    @mgjprins 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Please be careful making statements about mental health with information from podcasts only. Podcasts can be very useful but they don’t make you a psychologist. However, I think it’s so brave to speak up about the mental health issues you are personally dealing with! I’m all about breaking the stigma on talking about mental health!

  •  4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just lovveee the pink. I can’t get over how good it looks on you 💗💗💗

  • @micaelaxo
    @micaelaxo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Does anyone know what the podcast is called? I would love to listen to it!

  • @donnakokotis1485
    @donnakokotis1485 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Move your plant away from the tv! The radiation is bad. I lost one recently that was near the tv and found out that’s why

    • @abbey3757
      @abbey3757 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Imagine what it does to us then! 👀🥴

    • @CartiaMallan
      @CartiaMallan  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      omgggg !!!! NOTED

    • @uuh.okayiguess
      @uuh.okayiguess 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@abbey3757 that's what I was thinking 😲

  • @giamarrr
    @giamarrr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely love you and love that you’re coming back to yourself💕 could you share the specific podcasts you’ve been listening to on mental health??

    • @hannahxo3597
      @hannahxo3597 4 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @hannahxo3597
      @hannahxo3597 4 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @hannahxo3597
      @hannahxo3597 4 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @emilyclark7596
    @emilyclark7596 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    okay but she’s such a stunner 🥺

  • @gembets
    @gembets 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your skin is so beautiful ! Obsessed with your hair

  • @lauren33881
    @lauren33881 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your videos they are so aesthetically and spiritually pleasing 😍x

  • @mcintoshj9
    @mcintoshj9 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Honestly getting your eyebrows done makes or breaks your face!! Being in iso makes me miss it so much

  • @bobfrankkg
    @bobfrankkg 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG your hair/brows and natural lashes! What vitamins do you take??

  • @raineyforler
    @raineyforler 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Carts!! I haven't gone through a injury yet I've been recently experiencing the similar mindset you're explaining where it was uncontrollable and feeling like somedays you really aren't making your own thoughts and its hard to manage the way you think, completely and totally frustrating for people who are so positive and generally very happy. It feels so good to see you feeling more like yourself IT SHOWS but also im excited to still follow your journey on this? and to hear how it soon wraps up for you xo

  • @amberjade7860
    @amberjade7860 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    way too obsessed with weekly vlogs... anyone else wanna be friends with cartia?

  • @PrincessPosie87
    @PrincessPosie87 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    For your indoor plants - buy a spray bottle and mist them everyday 👌🏼✨🌱

  • @willowgrace162
    @willowgrace162 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    such a genuine and real human 💓

  • @kirstyshannon
    @kirstyshannon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    love these videos cos it always just feels like i'm hanging out with a friend 🌟💗

  • @bettybilcan1908
    @bettybilcan1908 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wait, your birthday prep? Omg, happy birthday angel! ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ I love you

  • @lauren6485
    @lauren6485 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes please make the video on PCS! I've been struggling for years after a wreck with the same issues and I didn't start connecting that to the wreck until years after. It wasn't immediate for me either! You're not alone 💜

  • @angelinacroft7001
    @angelinacroft7001 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You should watch Brain on Fire on Netflix, I watched it on weekend it was really good, based on a true story, really interesting! 💜

  • @OO-jc6ct
    @OO-jc6ct 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you heaps I’m so happy you’ve gotten your “ah hah” moment and are living so much happier. Taking care of your mental health is so important and I’m so glad you can others as well through your experiences 💛🌬✨🙌🌔🌊 sending Loads of Love

  • @sholynvanberkel9468
    @sholynvanberkel9468 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would love you hear more about concussions! 1 and a half years ago I had one. Basically a pole was dropped directly on top of my head at work and since then I’ve never felt the same 😩 I’ve had weird health issues unexplainable and weird hormonal problems that nothing seems to fix..

  • @catherinewilliams5010
    @catherinewilliams5010 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Heya, loved this vlog. What were the podcasts that you mentioned called? Thanks xx

  • @kyradahlke1556
    @kyradahlke1556 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    does anyone know where those emerald green earings are from?!
    all lovexx

  • @darcyforster7405
    @darcyforster7405 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    we are birthday twins, and i am so happy about it 🥺🦋🍒😎🥐🧚🏻‍♂️🌳🐮🌷🕊🌸💕

  • @sophiaamer5998
    @sophiaamer5998 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved your video, pls could you link some of the podcast you have been listening to? X

  • @siobhanbrogan3398
    @siobhanbrogan3398 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey girl!!

  • @alexandraamankwah8514
    @alexandraamankwah8514 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cannot wait to see your video about PCS Cartia ❤️

  • @uuh.okayiguess
    @uuh.okayiguess 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Lol it's funny how it feels like you're my friend even though you don't know me😂
    Btw the beach was so pretty aaah💖

  • @butterflyeffect8862
    @butterflyeffect8862 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    you look so good with the pink hair

  • @mayamcleroy7645
    @mayamcleroy7645 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    CAN'T WAIT FOR PARTI CARTI BIRTHDAY WEEK

    • @CartiaMallan
      @CartiaMallan  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      VLOG COMING SOOOON HEHEHE

  • @Justkeepsmiling100
    @Justkeepsmiling100 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    The dying palm plant needs bright light!! (Not too close to the window that is gets frazzled but still bright light all day) it might be slightly too much in the shade in that corner:))

  • @jesshaaines
    @jesshaaines 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Currently dealing with PCS, 6 months post accident. Thank you so much for speaking out about this angel, means so much! Makes me feel less crazy 🥺🥺❤️ xxx

  • @angie7719
    @angie7719 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hehe love your vlogs!! What soeacialist did you see for your bone alignment? If you can I’d love to know more !

  • @alanaf5717
    @alanaf5717 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can you link the podcasts please! love youuu

  • @mcintoshj9
    @mcintoshj9 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for talking about PCS!! After your video, and talking to doctors who didn't understand me, I am finally starting to get some help with a naturopath! I don't know if it will work but I definitely want to get a brain scan but my doctor wont let me at this point! Definitely super hard going through this and no one understanding how you feel. Thank you so much for this and I can't wait to see your development!! Also, can you let me know what scans you're getting done next week as Id love to look into it and talking about it to my doctor :)

  • @Danniessa
    @Danniessa 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg cartia you would look so good if you were fully blonde!!! I really want this kind of friendship too

  • @KeiSoto08
    @KeiSoto08 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I hope she post every other day Because she so Lit😍

  • @karina.rimkuse
    @karina.rimkuse 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So interesting about the brain health and mental health, your values really align with mine and you just opened a new realm for me to learn about and better myself in - so so thankful ❤

  • @yasminnina6800
    @yasminnina6800 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This has made my day wow love you carti 😽🤍

  • @chebs1111
    @chebs1111 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a nice way to end the week w ur vlog

  • @TheMagdalena1999
    @TheMagdalena1999 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where is that lilac knitted dress from? It’s so cute! 💕

    • @mollie6578
      @mollie6578 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      She said Arnhem :)

  • @keelykeep4600
    @keelykeep4600 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where are your necklaces from! I loveee

  • @flyingpopsicle100
    @flyingpopsicle100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I love how she just butchered my last name and called it horrendous 😂

  • @katieathanasiou9605
    @katieathanasiou9605 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Need to know where the lavender dress, black glasses and emerald green earrings are from??? You look angelic!

  • @leetahs9051
    @leetahs9051 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    cutest lil editing omg

  • @gcrae
    @gcrae 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    a literal god. always

  • @samanthapresley2053
    @samanthapresley2053 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    such a nice vlog

  • @thescope7079
    @thescope7079 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    the exhaust petrol fumes from your Audi were going inside your house (6th minute of vlog) because you had the car running and it was reverse parked into the house door while you were speaking to the camera. always best when driving a petrol (ICE) car to get out of an enclosed garage within 1-2 seconds of starting the vehicle

  • @scary___mary
    @scary___mary 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so glad ro hear that you’re better and figuring out what has been going on with your mental health!❤️ as a psychology student this is really interesting to hear. I think it‘s weird that a psychiatrist/psychologist wouldn‘t ask about events like a concussion especially since those symptoms started so abruptly (I assume). But I also have to cut them some slack because we still know so little about mental health problems compared to a physical issue.

  • @lunajoris9542
    @lunajoris9542 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ur amazing!

  • @devenjackson7204
    @devenjackson7204 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    where are your triple hoop earrings from?????!!!!1

  • @selinhussein7656
    @selinhussein7656 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    yessssss this has made my day

  • @mynameismila
    @mynameismila 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi beautiful! Thank you for this content, also happy leo season darlingggg so excited for our birthdays !!

  • @SD-xx2sv
    @SD-xx2sv 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you ❤️

  • @biancacalarco9912
    @biancacalarco9912 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    your lashes look amazing!!!!! Who did them lovely ??

  • @thatsogabbs
    @thatsogabbs 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    ahhh i missed seeing your vlogs sm

  • @catherineoliver4726
    @catherineoliver4726 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Blonde Cartia OH MY GOD!!!!

  • @_miabowie
    @_miabowie 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cartia I love you so much!!!!!!!!

  • @anna-maria7356
    @anna-maria7356 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If you need great podcasts try the skinny confidential, ed Mylett show and the model health show!! ly

  • @sofiaramirezlandaeta9231
    @sofiaramirezlandaeta9231 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    minute 16:40 is soooo adorableee

  • @DGenerationX1311
    @DGenerationX1311 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the green earrings

  • @laurenquirky
    @laurenquirky 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel like my mental health issues are connected to something deeper but I have no idea where to start. I’ll look into gut & brain health, hormonal imbalances, and adrenal fatigue.

  • @mcintoshj9
    @mcintoshj9 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Random question, but did your tattoo on your wrist and back of your arm hurt??? I want to get dainty ones but Im so scared of needles!!

  • @angelaarutyunyan3131
    @angelaarutyunyan3131 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    She kind of looks like dua lipa in some angles

  • @ikayy262
    @ikayy262 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    omg idk who that guy was but i stg he was giving u heart eyes cartia

  • @Micailaaa
    @Micailaaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    can you please link the podcasts hehe

  • @imbettingimnot
    @imbettingimnot 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That's how I felt figuring out I was undiagnosed ADD at 31...

    • @allmonti9861
      @allmonti9861 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whaaaat no way that is nuts

    • @melissas1990
      @melissas1990 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      me too! i was just diagnosed with ADD at 29 after seeing doctors since I was around 13, I felt the same as Cartia described when I finally found out what was wrong :(

  • @thescope7079
    @thescope7079 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    have you test driven a Tesla electric vehicle (EV) yet? would you consider purchasing a a Tesla EV soon for yourself and one for your family?

  • @butterflyeffect8862
    @butterflyeffect8862 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    can you please share the mental health podcasts?

  • @vanessa2heart
    @vanessa2heart 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg cartia I can relate to you 100% but I had a different thing happen to me that has been affecting my everyday for 2 years . I haven’t been me for that long 😣 love you thanks for sharing

  • @senaulkerselvi6153
    @senaulkerselvi6153 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So what’s the podcast called??

  • @Ray-ui1pm
    @Ray-ui1pm 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is the first I’ve heard of this and I found this so interesting!!!

  • @daliadominguez7449
    @daliadominguez7449 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    MY QUEEN ILY

  • @claudiaelise9272
    @claudiaelise9272 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    yaaay xxx

  • @avrilmurray5093
    @avrilmurray5093 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    How the brain lost it’s mind is a really good book and it talks about the links behind neurology and psychology
    About the links and the way they don’t work together and why
    Also what could happen if they did work together

  • @parker159
    @parker159 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    your experience hits home for sure! Brain gut axis needs more attention- if I knew what I know now when I was younger I think I would have avoided a lot of really big ups and downs lol

  • @emilyyynatasha
    @emilyyynatasha 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello from Miami 💞

  • @thescope7079
    @thescope7079 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    who is the Sri Lankan dude (at 13th minute of vlog)?

  • @Bubblewrapper25
    @Bubblewrapper25 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Anyone know where her earrings are from?