The hardest thing in life is letting go and saying goodbye. No matter what I love you. Forever and always you are my first and true love. Remember that when you hate yourself. You are my hero, bestfriends, sunshine, hope, and so much more. Keep your head up darling. It gets better.
saying goodbye is a hardest word for someone,but is the key for you to go over.and met someone w/c is deserving for your love.and saying goodbye doesn't mean it's over,its the beginning of your new story.and you must go on.
"I'm alive but i'm losing all my drive, cuz everything we've been thru and everything about you seems to be lie, a guiltless twisted lie....." these lyrics completely spoke to me cuz when me and the guy i still love broke up it was as if the last 7 months never happened . I lost my best friend and my first love and moving forward gets harder every single day. C.M.O, if you every see this i still love you and i'm sorry
This song reminds me of my childhood😔 i listen to Secondhand serenade songs a lot. I can't believe it's already 11 years back when this video was uploaded.
i felt so bad after my boyfriend sang in the snow to this song, he was shivering and singing this song to me.. I balled my eyes out when he sang this. And i still love him
saying goodbye was the hardest thing.... so, i never did... i just walked out without looking back but head straight indeed, i couldn't spin my eyes even in both left and right as i'd only see the places we have been. literally this song tells about pity to oneself... you, having no choice but to walk away,while she just didn't even care.
It sucks to be in this position in reality. You have no choice but to hurt someone, although it really is the best thing for everyone. I recently had to make a choice for the better of both of us but I dedicate this song to him to let him know how I feel about things.
To let someone go... Is it right? If you let someone go, and they come back they are, and always have been yours... If they never return, time will make the pain fade a little and maybe, just maybe... Someone else will come along. If so, they will never take the place of the one before... Your first love is your last memory and that certain piece of your heart will always be theirs no matter how much you want it not to be... I've learned this myself. Don't let them go...
It's never bye for us, it's never that we're going to leave each other but if it happens I gotta tell you that I'll still love you even if I'm with another girl but I doubt it that I will be with another girl after you.The thing is if you don't love me, you can take back every single thing from me, words, calls, text messages, and everything else but if you ever want me back then tell me before my sleeves are really stained red cause you won't be happy of how I'll be harming myself from all the depression and pain...don't let it be this way, please. Our love is worth my life, but sometimes you seem like you don't care when you do but just change a little so nothing bad would happen, start waiting to talk to me again, don't just do whatever you want to do instead of hearing my voice when I miss you so much. If your hanging out with your friends then don't just ignore me or tell me that your hanging out with them and then say bye, do you realize how bad it kills me...? Of course not cause I always need and want you.
3:03... gives me goose bumps.. especially when im listening to this and im really into the song... I love you.. please, dont ever leave me... i cant lose you again.
sometimes the memory of a person is bittersweet... I feel as thus, and I thank her for the time she wasted on my sorry ass. life keeps moving on, but our scars make us unique.
You know that place between sleep and awake? that place where you can still remember dreaming? thats where i'll always love you. Thats where i'll be waiting.
Thank you. And that's what I think. But now she thinks that we're all better, and that we worked it out, and we're okay now, and I don't have the heart to hurt her. I can't hurt even my worst enemy. I especially can't hurt her, because she's moving away at the end of the month, and leaving all of her friends, and that will hurt her enough. I've got so many songs that I wish I could show her to show her how I feel, but I can never rack up the nerve to show them to her. :(
this song , remember me about my girlfriend ... who like's another boy ... it's so hurt if you want to know .. but , what can i do , i can't go from her ...
I might just have to sing this to my best friend. She's told me lies about her life, and doesn't understand how much her lies have affected me and I simply think it's time for us to depart our own ways but I didn't know how until I heard this song.
No, it's not okay for you to sew me back up when I was broken from the start. Then break me again. Then sew me back up. Then break me again and do that for 3 years. It's not fucking right. It's not okay because. No matter what, everything reminds me of you.. Every song, every movie, certain words. like "Forever" "Eternity". and specially' for every fucking scar. Promises are made for forever. Not til you stop fucking loving me.
Jacki Perez if that person doesnt love you,that person does not deserve you. and when that guy brakes a promise...he is not even worth writing over. if you break the promisses you make yourself. then how can you still live with yourself (meant to that guy not u) btw sorry if u think i sound cruel XD
My ex cheated on me multiple times and I kept letting it slide, and letting it slide until I finally gave up and broke up with him, even though he begged me to take him back. I loved him with all my heart but he didn't love me the way I did him. I was right in saying Goodbye, but it still hurts to lose your first love. :/ I adore the band and the music is real.
It's really time to say goodbye, even though the heartache will be indescribable. I wish everything worked out... All I have to say is goodbye... You and I are going to be better of this way, I promise. I love you...
The same thing was happening to me. I know it's hard to let them go, but if you think it's for the best than it is. So I hope you find out what to do, keep your head up.
it remindes me of everyone ive ever been with bc they havvall likedbothersband had there eyes on others while with me and it hurts so much my last break up was the worst of all i was besides myself... :/
i died once... i had another chance to live..... if you love someone... love them truly!!!.......because if foolishly played with them...your killing them slowly..... please dont make fun of love... love is a serious thing... its not a feeling you should toy with.....
It's what she's been taught all her life- it's her religion and her church. And because she was raised by bigots, surrounded by bigots, and as a bigot, that's what she'll always be, and sadly, it's what she will grow to teach her children. That is part of the sad reason why our world is the way it is. People can't learn to accept others, and it hurts them probably in more ways than they know. And that's one of the saddest things about our world. But I'm trying to change it, and you should, too.
Sometimes... i feel that from my bestfriend too, i think... she loves me, but i can't say... it's so hard to say that you love your bestfriend not as a friend but as a special someone. But let destiny give us the ways.
It sounds Luke Secondhand Serenade is singing "take my pain away, tear it out, tell me I was wrong" other than what was orginally posted in the lyrics>.>
because no one has to have a reason..we just want to do it. so if you have a problem with people wanting to do it, thats your problem..i did it. the thing just gives a certain effect to the listener when doing both.
I used to have a crush on my best friend, for 7 years. We were friends for almost 9. We recently got into a friendship-ending fight. He lied. Betrayed me. Hurt me. All over text. & Didn't care enough to stop me when I told him our friendship was over. As much as I hate to say it, I miss him. He was like my big brother. It's too late to get him back though... This song kinda fits to my situation right now..
I cried myself to sleep after losing my voice screaming this song after my best friend died in the 2012 shooting. We've been through so much together. The boys at school on the yearbook group said we should make jokes about the shooting in the yearbook. I'm not gonna get into details but all I can say is I got suspended...
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That's the thing. She did mean something to me. But then she changed. She's so different now, and we get along most of the time, but as we're getting older, and getting more opinionated she won't listen to me when I listen to her and we're getting in more and more fights and I just can't deal with her. It's like she doesn't see me, or only sees me to use or belittle me. She's desperate to save our friendship and I can't make her feel bad even though it's tearing me apart being friends with her.
Back when I finally gave up and told him my final goodbye i listened to this song hslf dead as the blood dripped down my arms but I'm staying strong. pretty sad whenn the one you love is the cause of your paiin and on top of that I was beimg harrassed at school hard period in my life but I'm staying strong and almost free of cutting :)
@TheNeonz0 Perhaps she took it really wrong. The more she might need is time. Let time flow. Trust me. It works. It hurts in the process, but it makes you feel better.
This song makes me shed a few tears. My ex broke up with me for the second time and yet he still wants us to try again when he is done with his conflicts. But he doesn't realize that he has girls sorrounding him and wanting to be with him and will come a time he will forget of ever giving us a chance. I don't know what to do anymore. I am scared of giving him another chance. I just want him gone of my life. I want to tell him a last goodbye. :'(
I am a Filipino grade 6 student who had a crush on a cute girl,she liked me too.But she also has a crush on this guy who's big and tall and handsome and rich and cool and smart and shit,to make this clear hes t of my league,did I mention he's my bestfriend?She told me that im better off without her cause she's found him.I still love her,no matter what. I know your never gonna see this May,but in the rare chance that you will...please dont leave me,your everything ive got,I love you.
The hardest thing in life is letting go and saying goodbye. No matter what I love you. Forever and always you are my first and true love. Remember that when you hate yourself. You are my hero, bestfriends, sunshine, hope, and so much more. Keep your head up darling. It gets better.
god.. this song is so beautiful, secondhand serenade really knows how to bring the tears of goodbyes
saying goodbye is a hardest word for someone,but is the key for you to go over.and met someone w/c is deserving for your love.and saying goodbye doesn't mean it's over,its the beginning of your new story.and you must go on.
"I'm alive but i'm losing all my drive, cuz everything we've been thru and everything about you seems to be lie, a guiltless twisted lie....." these lyrics completely spoke to me cuz when me and the guy i still love broke up it was as if the last 7 months never happened . I lost my best friend and my first love and moving forward gets harder every single day. C.M.O, if you every see this i still love you and i'm sorry
This song reminds me of my childhood😔 i listen to Secondhand serenade songs a lot. I can't believe it's already 11 years back when this video was uploaded.
Beautiful song. This is one of my favorite bands!
is this really a band i though t was only one person lol sorry for being late on this but is it a band or just one person????
Secondhand Serenade is the project name for John Vesely.
I love how everyone shares their sorrows here and they learn that there are a lot of people like them.
secondhand serenade again.. :( now this song hit me deep....
I actually love rain, and find it very inspiring. This helps me write my stories now! ^^ Thank you!
I like to sit in the dark and listen to this song.
love the addition of the rain.... amazing
i felt so bad after my boyfriend sang in the snow to this song, he was shivering and singing this song to me.. I balled my eyes out when he sang this. And i still love him
its 2011, and im STILL listening! love it! :)
saying goodbye was the hardest thing....
so, i never did... i just walked out without looking back but head straight indeed, i couldn't spin my eyes even in both left and right as i'd only see the places we have been. literally this song tells about pity to oneself... you, having no choice but to walk away,while she just didn't even care.
really amazing with rainymood, it's impressive how it can change the song... well for me
I love this band!!!! Me and my friends listen to this while laying on a grass.
On one blade of grass? Man you're good.
I cant stop listening to this song! LOVE IT!
Its hard to say goodbye especially to your beloved one.. Maybe someday we will meet again.. Really miss her.......
OMG!!!! that made the song so much better!!! imma do that with all sad songs xD
I still have no clue how i came upon this song but so far this is like my third time hitting the replay button so eh who cares
..best thing ever, thank you
It sucks to be in this position in reality. You have no choice but to hurt someone, although it really is the best thing for everyone. I recently had to make a choice for the better of both of us but I dedicate this song to him to let him know how I feel about things.
To let someone go... Is it right? If you let someone go, and they come back they are, and always have been yours... If they never return, time will make the pain fade a little and maybe, just maybe... Someone else will come along. If so, they will never take the place of the one before... Your first love is your last memory and that certain piece of your heart will always be theirs no matter how much you want it not to be... I've learned this myself. Don't let them go...
Awwww! Relate >_
Gosh, I'm feeling this song to the gut.😭
Me too😢
It's never bye for us, it's never that we're going to leave each other but if it happens I gotta tell you that I'll still love you even if I'm with another girl but I doubt it that I will be with another girl after you.The thing is if you don't love me, you can take back every single thing from me, words, calls, text messages, and everything else but if you ever want me back then tell me before my sleeves are really stained red cause you won't be happy of how I'll be harming myself from all the depression and pain...don't let it be this way, please. Our love is worth my life, but sometimes you seem like you don't care when you do but just change a little so nothing bad would happen, start waiting to talk to me again, don't just do whatever you want to do instead of hearing my voice when I miss you so much. If your hanging out with your friends then don't just ignore me or tell me that your hanging out with them and then say bye, do you realize how bad it kills me...? Of course not cause I always need and want you.
this is my fav song everybody has to say goodbye and it describes me so much best song eva!
i love all of their songs!!
3:03... gives me goose bumps.. especially when im listening to this and im really into the song... I love you.. please, dont ever leave me... i cant lose you again.
sometimes the memory of a person is bittersweet...
I feel as thus, and I thank her for the time she wasted on my sorry ass.
life keeps moving on, but our scars make us unique.
You know that place between sleep and awake? that place where you can still remember dreaming? thats where i'll always love you. Thats where i'll be waiting.
ChihiroChan cx you're right!!!
i cant stop listening to this song its perfectly amazing ^.^
Wow :,c Made It Sound Way More Beautiful
Gives me chills all the time
this is a m a z i n g
I had the same problem. I'm sorry that's happening to you. It will get better but don't give up if you can't live without her..
Such a beautiful voice he has
This song break me down
love this song
Wow this songg is Beautiful!!(:
i walk up to people and read the lyrics of this to them poeticly XD those are the days
...After all, This is just one HELL of a song.
3 ppl have never been lied to or cheated. Lucky them.
No matter how many times ur heart gets broken never give up on love
Thank you. And that's what I think. But now she thinks that we're all better, and that we worked it out, and we're okay now, and I don't have the heart to hurt her. I can't hurt even my worst enemy. I especially can't hurt her, because she's moving away at the end of the month, and leaving all of her friends, and that will hurt her enough. I've got so many songs that I wish I could show her to show her how I feel, but I can never rack up the nerve to show them to her. :(
I love this song! Makes me wanna cry everytime I hear it. But just thought I say its not Take my HAND away, Its take my PAIN away.
You are not wrong, you are a good person
I want to hear the songs of secondhand serenade when im in a lonely place - it match! :D
I'd rather you be happy without me than happy with half of me...
i ♥ this songg
ok I love this song!
Secondhand Serenade, you touched me again
this song , remember me about my girlfriend ... who like's another boy ... it's so hurt if you want to know .. but , what can i do , i can't go from her ...
made me start thining about people that have screwed me over and washed it all away
I might just have to sing this to my best friend. She's told me lies about her life, and doesn't understand how much her lies have affected me and I simply think it's time for us to depart our own ways but I didn't know how until I heard this song.
No, it's not okay for you to sew me back up when I was broken from the start. Then break me again. Then sew me back up. Then break me again and do that for 3 years.
It's not fucking right. It's not okay because. No matter what, everything reminds me of you.. Every song, every movie, certain words. like "Forever" "Eternity". and specially' for every fucking scar.
Promises are made for forever.
Not til you stop fucking loving me.
it'll be alright just keep going through the boring motions and sooner or later a person will make you happy
Its been almost a year.. .-.
i dont even know what to do anymore..
Jacki Perez if that person doesnt love you,that person does not deserve you.
and when that guy brakes a promise...he is not even worth writing over.
if you break the promisses you make yourself. then how can you still live with yourself (meant to that guy not u)
btw sorry if u think i sound cruel XD
no. hes still in love with me. but we broke up. and he is a she. he lied to me. im perfectly fine. i have a boyfriend
now im confused o_O
wel the one thing i did understand was that you got a boyfriend . Happy youre over that guy then. :D
X) I like this song
i love this song feels like everything i went through ..
i like this song...
My ex cheated on me multiple times and I kept letting it slide, and letting it slide until I finally gave up and broke up with him, even though he begged me to take him back. I loved him with all my heart but he didn't love me the way I did him. I was right in saying Goodbye, but it still hurts to lose your first love. :/ I adore the band and the music is real.
I know this is a relationship song, but it seriously makes me miss my brother ;/ RIP Nate. 7-31-2011
Secondhand serenade is my only friend when i feel lonely
i love you man
It's not "take my hand" but "take my pain"! ^^
"It's not enough to say I'm sorry" sad but true..
It's really time to say goodbye, even though the heartache will be indescribable. I wish everything worked out... All I have to say is goodbye... You and I are going to be better of this way, I promise. I love you...
The same thing was happening to me. I know it's hard to let them go, but if you think it's for the best than it is. So I hope you find out what to do, keep your head up.
Im crying cause i fuckin love her . she is my best episode of my life aahhh
it remindes me of everyone ive ever been with bc they havvall likedbothersband had there eyes on others while with me and it hurts so much my last break up was the worst of all i was besides myself... :/
i died once... i had another chance to live..... if you love someone... love them truly!!!.......because if foolishly played with them...your killing them slowly..... please dont make fun of love... love is a serious thing... its not a feeling you should toy with.....
It's what she's been taught all her life- it's her religion and her church. And because she was raised by bigots, surrounded by bigots, and as a bigot, that's what she'll always be, and sadly, it's what she will grow to teach her children. That is part of the sad reason why our world is the way it is. People can't learn to accept others, and it hurts them probably in more ways than they know. And that's one of the saddest things about our world. But I'm trying to change it, and you should, too.
Thank you. I'll try my hardest.
Sometimes... i feel that from my bestfriend too, i think... she loves me, but i can't say... it's so hard to say that you love your bestfriend not as a friend but as a special someone. But let destiny give us the ways.
It sounds Luke Secondhand Serenade is singing "take my pain away, tear it out, tell me I was wrong" other than what was orginally posted in the lyrics>.>
because no one has to have a reason..we just want to do it. so if you have a problem with people wanting to do it, thats your problem..i did it. the thing just gives a certain effect to the listener when doing both.
Goodbye.. fits my god damn life... Its saying goodbye... the ones I love just did...
theworld will never stop....ithurts but i must go on...
sad naman ahaha! :)
I used to have a crush on my best friend, for 7 years. We were friends for almost 9. We recently got into a friendship-ending fight. He lied. Betrayed me. Hurt me. All over text. & Didn't care enough to stop me when I told him our friendship was over. As much as I hate to say it, I miss him. He was like my big brother. It's too late to get him back though... This song kinda fits to my situation right now..
KKKKKKKKKKKKKK LOVE IT!
3 people have never had to say goodbye.
As much as i don't want to.. it is time to say goodbye.. and i have to let go of the boy i love.. he deserves much better.
even if she hurt me . i still love her . i wish she realise how mush i love her:(
Its do nice to read these comments im sorry i cant stop LOLing
A lie made me n the only gut I ever loved breakup and the lie made me hate him:( this sing fits everything right now.
washed away my pains..
Still hear this in 2019:)
I cried myself to sleep after losing my voice screaming this song after my best friend died in the 2012 shooting. We've been through so much together. The boys at school on the yearbook group said we should make jokes about the shooting in the yearbook. I'm not gonna get into details but all I can say is I got suspended...
is it not "take my pain away"? cuz take my hand away doesn't really make sense to me.
like this song a lot
@MrJamhamm
I'm a guy and I found that touching... plus we're under the same nationality.
Good luck with that, mate!
Wow!! Love this song!! Gonna let my ex listen to it
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That's the thing. She did mean something to me. But then she changed. She's so different now, and we get along most of the time, but as we're getting older, and getting more opinionated she won't listen to me when I listen to her and we're getting in more and more fights and I just can't deal with her. It's like she doesn't see me, or only sees me to use or belittle me. She's desperate to save our friendship and I can't make her feel bad even though it's tearing me apart being friends with her.
Back when I finally gave up and told him my final goodbye i listened to this song hslf dead as the blood dripped down my arms but I'm staying strong. pretty sad whenn the one you love is the cause of your paiin and on top of that I was beimg harrassed at school hard period in my life but I'm staying strong and almost free of cutting :)
Please message me if you need someone to talk to
@TheNeonz0 Perhaps she took it really wrong. The more she might need is time. Let time flow. Trust me. It works. It hurts in the process, but it makes you feel better.
This song makes me shed a few tears. My ex broke up with me for the second time and yet he still wants us to try again when he is done with his conflicts. But he doesn't realize that he has girls sorrounding him and wanting to be with him and will come a time he will forget of ever giving us a chance. I don't know what to do anymore. I am scared of giving him another chance. I just want him gone of my life. I want to tell him a last goodbye. :'(
Thank
Take my pain away,tear it out,and tell me "I" was wrong...
I am a Filipino grade 6 student who had a crush on a cute girl,she liked me too.But she also has a crush on this guy who's big and tall and handsome and rich and cool and smart and shit,to make this clear hes t of my league,did I mention he's my bestfriend?She told me that im better off without her cause she's found him.I still love her,no matter what.
I know your never gonna see this May,but in the rare chance that you will...please dont leave me,your everything ive got,I love you.