You know, the hardest lie I ever told was; "I'm happy for you." Because it's hard seeing someone you loved.......who loved you back... Find a new person to love.
I was in a relationship for 4+ years with my girlfriend when i was 18 and i was so in love with her i was going to buy an engagement ring, then out of the blue i find out she is pregnant and it wasn't my child. I was diagnosed with depression and insomnia for over 2 years and every night was hell. Now I've grown and realized that there's so much more to life than dwelling on the past and being bitter and depressed. I love my life now and I'm as happy as I've ever been. All it took was time. So please anyone who is going through struggles please just talk to someone and give it time. Things do get better.
5 years later. 2019. I’m married with 2 kids. 5 years ago, I tried to over dose. I had self harm issues. I’m 2 years clean from all my past addictions. There is hope. For everyone ♥️
Everytime I hear this, I remember my 1st love way back in college. It seems everything flashes back, especially the pain that I've been through. But it made me realize now that I overcome those years, how much more now I'm facing.
Man... Music like this just brings you down, especially the lyrics "I've broken all my promises to you" when you have hurt the one you love and all you ever wanted to do was make them happy and want them to like you back or even accept you as a good person, and yet all the times you've tried you've always done something to screw everything only increasing the distance between you and the other person you love. and all the times you thought were easy and you talked to her so much and her texts made you smile and laugh and all the times you've secretly told her you loved her. and now she's ignoring you for some guy she hardly even knows. man this song just shoots a bullet straight into my heart.
This song helps me. I'm alone at school, unless I'm being made fun of Sometimes I feel like I should cry But no one would care ... I would not be here if it wasn't for music like this.
Oh boy 10 years ago huh... a lifetime ago it seems. I've somehow wandered back to this comment section, I didn't realize anybody commented until now! I'm okay, I'm still sad I've recently found out - it's sort of been buried all this time, but I found it again. A great deal of sadness but you know, with it I rediscovered a great deal of inspiration, hope. My heart longs for things my brain knows won't happen, or... probably won't happen. But... hell there's always hope right? Slim chances. It hurts, but it serves a purpose I think. It's so you always know what you truly want. So don't drown that out, I'll try not to too. Peace ♥
This song popped up in my you tube algorithm and came across your original comment from 10 years ago and then your current comment in the present. It makes me sad that so many people don't acknowledge the pain and harm they inflict onto others. The true harm it does long term. I know we all have trauma and pain, but I hope that atleast you've had people along the way show you kindness and love to show you how valued you are in this world. Never give up that light at the end of the tunnel, because I promise you, things do get better. Hold onto the small wins and appreciate them.
the worst thing is when people make you believe they care when they actually don't. the worst thing is when people don't give you an explanation that you deserve. the worst thing is when people make you believe that that disrespect is what you deserve. and the worst thing of all is when you let them.
When I listen to this song, I sing my whole heart out. It's the only song I'll ever sing aloud, I love my crush. I get teased by his friends for it, even though only him and his group of friends know as it's been 2 months since I confessed. I still have feelings for him, and I dont want to lose him. Hes my best friend, my family... at least that's what he sees me as. I see him as one of the best people in the world, hes my whole world, he means everything to me. When I hear the lines, "You make it hard to smile because you make it hard to breathe." I start crying, and then sobbing when I hear the line again.. He means everything to me, even though he doesnt realize it. I have been clean of self-harm for 5 months now for him, and I feel proud. If I lose him... I'm going to spiral back down into my self-harm, I want to get better for him. I really do...
this song reminds me of a friend that moved across the country and she was the greatest person I had ever met she was so sweet so funny just a great person to be around she had the greatest smile .... she made me feel happy when I was sad she kept my secrets and never told a soul .. I never got to tell her how much she meant to me before she left and this song reminds me of it all ... such great memories but so depressing ..I love you I hope you come back soon !!!
Devin Pelfrey What made her think that? Set 'er straight! You don't have to tell her you like her, just make sure she knows you care c: [Life advice from me isn't always the best. Use with caution]
Hello to the people of the future, this is a message from the past. You are amazing, the fact that you can read this is already a blessing, don't ever give up and believe in yourself. You can do this! 👊
I was dating a man for two years and know we're acting like we never meet. Ever. Its hard and its been hard days for me but this song helps me to get my pain outta my chest. Thankyou, secondhand
+firza tiffany i know this, hard break with my ex then sto pspeaking together act we forget but i don't... this song remind me her because we listening secondland... now when i hear this one i can't hardly forget her.. i'm with an other girl, love her but still hard to chase my ex out of my mind :/
I thought that just normal things. everyone need a break, tho. everyone need a time for themselves to think about his/her feeling. its all about options, try to forget your ex and continue your life or keep remember your ex and make your life more hard. its fine, where are you from btw? Jonathan Thomas
exactly. i choose to get a new life and forget but i can't just get this story out of my head xD i can live with it, the bad times are gone. I'm from Belgium (french side)
Think of all the people you lost, how terrible it was to loose them. Think of the smiles that you put on each others faces. Be happy that you knew that person. Don't cry because you miss them, don't be sad because they are gone, but be happy that you knew them.
When I met him my heart skipped a beat. It was just me and him and time stopped. Then I started noticing a few things that where off about our relationship. I realized he was slowly drifting away. It hurt me more than it hurt him but I had to pull the plug. We both drifted away not knowing what was ahead of us. We fought and fought to the point I was done. He will always remain in my heart but known as the reason for the tears in my pillow when I fall asleep at night😭❤️😔
2019 and i dont know why im here. I guess seconhand serenade remind me of my ex. Who's i loved so much. And he left me bcs of distance. I understand why sometimes. Im just not good for him. But i cant find the reason why i should hate him he knw that i loved him. But i saw how happy he was with his new girlfriend so i gave up. There is no one i meet out here like you. Thankyou for being part of my life..
I use to listen this song when I was 16 years-old, when I broke up with someone that for first time in my life I was opening my heart to, now almost 5 years later I felt like I have to listen to it again because the person I've love the most in my life, left me. My longest relationship and the person I fall in love with, is not mine anymore, that F*#$^@#% hurt, He was there when I change country, when I was alone and I was in a depression hole, now I miss him, but the main significance this song has to me is:"I am moving on, you are now just the most beautiful chapter of my life" I love you and I'll love you for ever but, everything happens for a reason, and now my reason is to be me, and be happy learning to love myself...
When I listen to this song, I think more about the pain I feel, more about the things this life has put me through. I'm strong most of the time, but sometimes everyone just needs a chance to break down.
my dad has caused a lot of pain not only within the family but between my love life but I still push on. I guess i will love even if I have to hurt to love.
2,5 th kita ingin kau buat sia2 😔😔😔 Hari ini aku menangis lagi. Tidak tahu tempat. Tepat disebelahku, ada ayahku yg sedang tidur. Ingin rasanya berbagi cerita, namun tidak berani. Lemah sekali aku. Sedangkan kau disana mungkin sudah ada persiapan dengan yg baru. Mungkin. Wanita biasa seperti aku ini bisa apa 🙂🙂 Selamat berbahagia, selamat sudah tidak terikat denganku yang menyebalkan ini 🙂 Semoga bahagia, untuk aku dan kamu dijalan kita masing2. Kau tahu aku masih sangat mencintaimu. Jika ada kata2 yg mencerminkan lebih dari cinta, mungkin itu yg lebih tepat. Blitar, 5 Januari 2020 22:08
I've never commented on a youtube video before but here goes. 17th March. I lost the love of my life. It was our 4years 4months anniversary. I was so hurt. I am so hurt. I dont know if I will ever recover. He was that one thing in my life I had, one day I'm forced to live without him. He was the kind of person when things fall apart he says, "its okay we'll work it out. There no reason to break up." But on that day, he was the person I never thought he'd be. I would understand people breaking my heart. I just never thought it would be him. I was so easy for him from saying " I love you, happy anniversary, I miss you." in the morning and an hour later, "we should break up." He was not only my boyfriend. But my life, my best friend, my all. Why do you do this to me?
I feel really bad my cousin listen to secondhand and I always made fun of him saying stop listening to depressing music and then he passed away 😢 and I looked in his phone and this song was his favorite so I listen to this all the time and it hurts I miss him so much and I love secondhand now
I am 39 now and this used to be my favourite song, those times when my love left me. I am still single to this day. I refuse to fall in love ever again.
I relate myself to this song because i always breaking my promises to my girl, most of the time she is always dissapointed in me, But i dont want to lose her, i really love her. I dont want her to just burst someday and leave me with all my failures. God, Please help me to keep my promises and be a better person to her because i really love her. I'll my comment here, so one day if i go back here, i'm a better person and had her as my wife.
This song reminds me of her... I didn't believe in love and then I met her and I just felt so fucking happy... I poured my heart out to her and treated her like an Angel... We broke up almost two years ago but for some odd reason I can't let go... Breawna Bell Harden I love you so fucking much...
Humberto Velez Hey, you ever need me I'm here for you. I care for all of you people, more than I can explain actually. My one friend, he's a fan on my videos, he made a collage and it actually made me cry that someone went out of their way to do something like that for me.
Awwwww That's happen to me too hun.. it broke my heart. Cuz I loved him so much but he didn't care much about me. I cared for him and did everything for him to care but I guess it wasn't good enough...😢😭😥 I'm SO sorry that happened to you..
Every single time I listen to this song I cry. It just explains what's going through my mind these days. Like, my boyfriend broke up with me when people found out we were dating. It looks like it's so fxcking easy to him, but it breaks me every day a little bit more...
It's now 2023 and we used to listened this song on a computer shop that has only one computer and 5mbps internet and can only play 240p, friendster, myspace the good old days with friends no drama just pure fun and now that we aged still a good song brings a lot of memories..
i know im a few years late but damn this song is good, by the time i finished it i was in tears tbh . i love this type of music its so relaxing and its perfect.
a day will come when u come across these songs from your past and you can smile evr so slightly and thank the person who made you feel the way you did all thoses years ago. anf then thank God that they did cuz then ud never have that person you have now it will always get better some day
I know that this is just wasting everyone's time, but i can't help it, I have nowhere else to go. I used to look at comments just like this and wonder: "why would they post that here, they're just going to get ridiculed", but now i understand. Sometimes theres no one to go to, and all you can do is hope you get some support from random strangers... well today i lost the only one who seems to care about me. "I need space" she said. "Just for a little while a week at most" Ive never felt so alone
This song.... Memories... Feelings. Yes you did this.. My ex.. All beautifull memories. The boy who didn't gave me the love i need. He loved his series more than his own, only girlfriend.
I was singing along to this song, And my boyfriend called. We talked, and he told me "One day I will love another girl more than you", at first I was confused, and then he added "And she will call you mommy". That was the best thing anyone has ever said to me, and I love him
the feeling when a girl chooses a guy that makes her unhappy over someone who cares about her and wants the best for her if she ever sees this only thing i got to say is i really do love you but the pain is not worth getting my hopes up that you realize your mistake
I feel you brother.. I just got left bye the woman who broke down my walls and i would give my life for her. She left me for her ex that treated her like garbage. The sad thing is that i would take her back in a second cause i genuinly love her and care for her. Keep your heap up man.. God doesnt put you on a path he thinks u cant get through. He only gives you what he knows you can handle.
this song makes me think about the biggest crush of my life in highschool... damnnn life sucks cause u can't get everything u want... but then life is good because chances are you can find better
even though its been 3 years i kno how u feel 9-18-2017 my grandpa died and it was after his bday and he was my closest grandpa but when he died my BF ended it a day after and then i lost a REALLY good friend bc his dad didnt lik me and then my parents got mad at me and just those 2 days i lost ALOT and i was gona run away or...commit suicide...but...i found this poem dat kinda helped me through my depprestion (im still depressed but not as bad) Your skin is not paper Dont cut it Your face is not a mask Dont hide it Your size isnt a book Dont judge it Your life isnt a movie Dont end it
I met a girl exactly 4 years ago, she was my first love. I court here, but she said that she will only say yes when she turn 18 So i waited for almost a year. Exactly on her birthday. I found out that she is two weeks in relationships. It broke my heart like shit. And today exactly 4 years have been pass I cant still get over her. Im still broke, I try to go date with somebody but, I still love her. This heart is so dumb. 😥😥😭😭😭😭 every new years eve I always remember the day she Promise me. Y ur so unfair, y just me who left behind. 😭😭😭 I really miss you.
2021 I'm 27 now I was maybe 16 when I found this song. Means more now then back then and has me in tears. Iv never felt more alone in this time in my life before atleast people took the time to tell me I was worthless now silence is killing me when ur a adult ur meant to just deal with it smile and keep going
You know, the hardest lie I ever told was; "I'm happy for you."
Because it's hard seeing someone you loved.......who loved you back...
Find a new person to love.
Akira Wolffen agree
Akira Wolffen I agree...
I know how Ya feel hun 😫
Omg so true
Realist thing I've heard in a while
I was in a relationship for 4+ years with my girlfriend when i was 18 and i was so in love with her i was going to buy an engagement ring, then out of the blue i find out she is pregnant and it wasn't my child. I was diagnosed with depression and insomnia for over 2 years and every night was hell. Now I've grown and realized that there's so much more to life than dwelling on the past and being bitter and depressed. I love my life now and I'm as happy as I've ever been. All it took was time. So please anyone who is going through struggles please just talk to someone and give it time. Things do get better.
Add oil
Lees Jo lol'd
strong guy
Jesus christ man, good on you.
I wish more people were like you out there.
Nothing wrong with being sensitive. Though there is a limit to how sensitive people should be.
Hi it’s June 2020 still I am crying to this song
Listening
Same 😭😭😭
Hi it's august 2020 and I love this song 4ever
Emo days year 2007,,all memories flashing back
Hi it’s September 2020 still I am crying to this song
Haven't listened to this band in forever but after my children's mother and I split up this band just seemed to pop back into core memory. Good band💯👌
I cant believe. this song makes me remember again all those memories. I cant stop crying.
I feel you 😭
😭😭😭😭
2022 and it's still one of the best song of secondhand serenade
WE WILL ALL SURVIVE AND WE'LL BE ALL HAPPY SOMEDAY.
Amiin
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U didn't know that 5 years later, this comment saved a life. Thank you.
5 years later. 2019. I’m married with 2 kids. 5 years ago, I tried to over dose. I had self harm issues. I’m 2 years clean from all my past addictions. There is hope. For everyone ♥️
♡
Everytime I hear this, I remember my 1st love way back in college. It seems everything flashes back, especially the pain that I've been through. But it made me realize now that I overcome those years, how much more now I'm facing.
Man... Music like this just brings you down, especially the lyrics "I've broken all my promises to you" when you have hurt the one you love and all you ever wanted to do was make them happy and want them to like you back or even accept you as a good person, and yet all the times you've tried you've always done something to screw everything only increasing the distance between you and the other person you love. and all the times you thought were easy and you talked to her so much and her texts made you smile and laugh and all the times you've secretly told her you loved her. and now she's ignoring you for some guy she hardly even knows. man this song just shoots a bullet straight into my heart.
This song helps me.
I'm alone at school, unless I'm being made fun of
Sometimes I feel like I should cry
But no one would care
...
I would not be here if it wasn't for music like this.
i hope ure ok now
u ok?
I pray your life got better and that you're doing great!
Blessings
Oh boy 10 years ago huh... a lifetime ago it seems. I've somehow wandered back to this comment section, I didn't realize anybody commented until now!
I'm okay, I'm still sad I've recently found out - it's sort of been buried all this time, but I found it again. A great deal of sadness but you know, with it I rediscovered a great deal of inspiration, hope. My heart longs for things my brain knows won't happen, or... probably won't happen. But... hell there's always hope right? Slim chances. It hurts, but it serves a purpose I think. It's so you always know what you truly want. So don't drown that out, I'll try not to too.
Peace ♥
This song popped up in my you tube algorithm and came across your original comment from 10 years ago and then your current comment in the present. It makes me sad that so many people don't acknowledge the pain and harm they inflict onto others. The true harm it does long term. I know we all have trauma and pain, but I hope that atleast you've had people along the way show you kindness and love to show you how valued you are in this world. Never give up that light at the end of the tunnel, because I promise you, things do get better. Hold onto the small wins and appreciate them.
im from indonesia ...
always listening SECONDHAND SERENADE 😊
Mantab bro
Samw
I feel like my heart is shattering into millions of tiny pieces. Each fragment is just hurting me all over again.
So, its true. Grammar Nazi's do have hearts.
^
I would put it back together but I was never any good at puzzles
the worst thing is when people make you believe they care when they actually don't. the worst thing is when people don't give you an explanation that you deserve. the worst thing is when people make you believe that that disrespect is what you deserve. and the worst thing of all is when you let them.
same here ):
the worst is when it's people you've trusted your whole life
Yeah we know that feeling
+jeff tremper its happened to me.. I lost my best friend because of it..
...
lies
hatred
greed
betrayal
broken
mistakes
giving up
screaming
tears
shouting
fear
alone
solitary
=WHY?
It just hurts it hurts so fucking bad...
Still on my playlist on this time of Coronavirus. June 2020 y'all.
When I listen to this song, I sing my whole heart out. It's the only song I'll ever sing aloud, I love my crush. I get teased by his friends for it, even though only him and his group of friends know as it's been 2 months since I confessed. I still have feelings for him, and I dont want to lose him. Hes my best friend, my family... at least that's what he sees me as. I see him as one of the best people in the world, hes my whole world, he means everything to me. When I hear the lines, "You make it hard to smile because you make it hard to breathe." I start crying, and then sobbing when I hear the line again.. He means everything to me, even though he doesnt realize it. I have been clean of self-harm for 5 months now for him, and I feel proud. If I lose him... I'm going to spiral back down into my self-harm, I want to get better for him. I really do...
Penuh kesesakan dalam dada tiap dnger ini . 2012 mengenal lagu ini ..2021 kembali mengulang lagu dengan perasaan teramat pedih .
this song reminds me of a friend that moved across the country and she was the greatest person I had ever met she was so sweet so funny just a great person to be around she had the greatest smile .... she made me feel happy when I was sad she kept my secrets and never told a soul .. I never got to tell her how much she meant to me before she left and this song reminds me of it all ... such great memories but so depressing ..I love you I hope you come back soon !!!
Im 31 years old now.. im very miss my teenage memory.. so sad cannot return.. peace from sabah malaysia..
It's the feeling of having to smile through your teeth while you see the person you love fall in love. Damn it..anyone with me?
I know how that feels. You're not alone
Oh, damn... I recently had that problem. Hugs to my fellow rejects
A girl i like i convinced i dont like her..
Devin Pelfrey What made her think that? Set 'er straight! You don't have to tell her you like her, just make sure she knows you care c:
[Life advice from me isn't always the best. Use with caution]
I know that feeling..
Hello to the people of the future,
this is a message from the past.
You are amazing, the fact that you can read this is already a blessing, don't ever give up and believe in yourself. You can do this! 👊
I was dating a man for two years and know we're acting like we never meet. Ever. Its hard and its been hard days for me but this song helps me to get my pain outta my chest. Thankyou, secondhand
+firza tiffany i know this, hard break with my ex then sto pspeaking together act we forget but i don't... this song remind me her because we listening secondland... now when i hear this one i can't hardly forget her.. i'm with an other girl, love her but still hard to chase my ex out of my mind :/
Jonathan Thomas yeah I know that, I feel the same way.
strange feelings !
(btw sorry for my poor english)
I thought that just normal things. everyone need a break, tho. everyone need a time for themselves to think about his/her feeling. its all about options, try to forget your ex and continue your life or keep remember your ex and make your life more hard. its fine, where are you from btw? Jonathan Thomas
exactly. i choose to get a new life and forget but i can't just get this story out of my head xD i can live with it, the bad times are gone. I'm from Belgium (french side)
Hi it’s 2021 and I find myself depressed and listening to The same three Secondhand Serenade songs over and over again!
Secondhand serenade is my favorite band , i always listen to their song whenever im sad and going to sleep.
After all these years, there’s nothing else that can replace these feelings we felt while listening to it.
This song is perfect although it unravels many memories I've fought to forget and keep hidden.... It hurts to listen to it yet I love it.
Think of all the people you lost, how terrible it was to loose them. Think of the smiles that you put on each others faces. Be happy that you knew that person. Don't cry because you miss them, don't be sad because they are gone, but be happy that you knew them.
When I met him my heart skipped a beat. It was just me and him and time stopped. Then I started noticing a few things that where off about our relationship. I realized he was slowly drifting away. It hurt me more than it hurt him but I had to pull the plug. We both drifted away not knowing what was ahead of us. We fought and fought to the point I was done. He will always remain in my heart but known as the reason for the tears in my pillow when I fall asleep at night😭❤️😔
Are you okay now? I hope you’re doing better.♥️☹️
@@gabriellagarza3826 doing a lot better, found someone much better years later that treats me amazing!
@@laneysmith4900so happy you move a long and happy after all
2019 and i dont know why im here. I guess seconhand serenade remind me of my ex. Who's i loved so much. And he left me bcs of distance. I understand why sometimes. Im just not good for him. But i cant find the reason why i should hate him he knw that i loved him. But i saw how happy he was with his new girlfriend so i gave up. There is no one i meet out here like you. Thankyou for being part of my life..
You will find a better person
I use to listen this song when I was 16 years-old, when I broke up with someone that for first time in my life I was opening my heart to, now almost 5 years later I felt like I have to listen to it again because the person I've love the most in my life, left me. My longest relationship and the person I fall in love with, is not mine anymore, that F*#$^@#% hurt, He was there when I change country, when I was alone and I was in a depression hole, now I miss him, but the main significance this song has to me is:"I am moving on, you are now just the most beautiful chapter of my life" I love you and I'll love you for ever but, everything happens for a reason, and now my reason is to be me, and be happy learning to love myself...
Aleyda Rivas wow
omg you really want attention don't you?
Diana Matthews what the hell is wrong with you
This song reminds me of the bullying I've been through. How can someone so easily take away another persons happiness.
Exactly! I haven't been bullied but I can see how you feel
how to people get bullied ? oh man I wish I was cause I promise who ever bullies me is getting one right between the eyes with thunder and stinger 😁
really ? mee too
Phew
I thought I was the only one
I keep woken up early to just hear this song
I feel you... it hurts a lot... especially since I have been bullied and still bullied for 7 years now...
When I listen to this song, I think more about the pain I feel, more about the things this life has put me through. I'm strong most of the time, but sometimes everyone just needs a chance to break down.
🍂
I dont know why every time i listen to secondhand serenade tears will start to fall from my eyes
Words can't express how amazing this song is!
“These days aren’t easy like they had been once before
These days aren’t easy anymore”
I still feel that.....
Feel this right now
2024 any one here in my era?
Yeah❤❤
me
Present!
Present😢
Hi jiro. I hope you're doing fine
2020 😍 .. secondhand serenade songs are the best 🥰 been listening since 2009
Xhristine Albao same here. Hehe
Me too it makes me melt hahahaha
june 3,2021
im still like this song!!!
♥️😭😭😭😭♥️♥️♥️♥️
bunyi pesan masuk di hp LG gw...kangen waktu awal2 balik ke Jakarta lagi..senang dengerin lagu secondhand serenade
Eh masih ada komen gw 3 tahun lalu
This song wet my pillow! You just own a new subscriber
This song shows how sad someone can get. Nothing wrong with this song at all its actually a good song.
I listen to this every morning on the bus to school. Strangely, it calms me but also makes me cry and also makes me happy idk man
I’m only 18 and I just found this song, I relate and love it so much.. it hit home for sure and I pray for anyone else struggles 🤍 your not alone
That awkward moment when you listen to this song in a generation where most phones are touchscreen and have no buttons
;-;
I mean, some people type via computer?
riptidefirebender lol
This song made me cry
riptidefirebender LOL
my dad has caused a lot of pain not only within the family but between my love life but I still push on. I guess i will love even if I have to hurt to love.
2,5 th kita ingin kau buat sia2 😔😔😔
Hari ini aku menangis lagi.
Tidak tahu tempat.
Tepat disebelahku, ada ayahku yg sedang tidur.
Ingin rasanya berbagi cerita, namun tidak berani.
Lemah sekali aku.
Sedangkan kau disana mungkin sudah ada persiapan dengan yg baru.
Mungkin.
Wanita biasa seperti aku ini bisa apa 🙂🙂
Selamat berbahagia, selamat sudah tidak terikat denganku yang menyebalkan ini 🙂
Semoga bahagia, untuk aku dan kamu dijalan kita masing2.
Kau tahu aku masih sangat mencintaimu.
Jika ada kata2 yg mencerminkan lebih dari cinta, mungkin itu yg lebih tepat.
Blitar, 5 Januari 2020
22:08
sad
😢 A tear drop in the ocean.
I've never commented on a youtube video before but here goes. 17th March. I lost the love of my life. It was our 4years 4months anniversary. I was so hurt. I am so hurt. I dont know if I will ever recover. He was that one thing in my life I had, one day I'm forced to live without him. He was the kind of person when things fall apart he says, "its okay we'll work it out. There no reason to break up." But on that day, he was the person I never thought he'd be. I would understand people breaking my heart. I just never thought it would be him. I was so easy for him from saying " I love you, happy anniversary, I miss you." in the morning and an hour later, "we should break up." He was not only my boyfriend. But my life, my best friend, my all. Why do you do this to me?
I feel really bad my cousin listen to secondhand and I always made fun of him saying stop listening to depressing music and then he passed away 😢 and I looked in his phone and this song was his favorite so I listen to this all the time and it hurts I miss him so much and I love secondhand now
Destiny Delamora ❤️
Much love going out to you.
so sad😢
so sorry for your loss
There’s a reason that people listen to this kind of music as it reflects what we’re feeling inside. Like a cry for help...
I am 39 now and this used to be my favourite song, those times when my love left me. I am still single to this day. I refuse to fall in love ever again.
I forgot to pack a lunch because I didn't know that we were going on a feels trip.
Kyleigh Rodgers What? Lmaoooo funny.
Kyleigh Rodgers LMFAOOO STILL FUNNY
😂😂
Oh that took me too long to figure it out
HA
Damn... even though its almost 2 years i still love her...
til now
"Because these days aren't easy like they have been once before,
These days aren't easy anymore"
😞😞😞😭😭😭
i remember crying to this exact upload not even a few months after it came out.
Each note in this song is a stress fracture in this already brittle glass heart of mine. I gave it away to someone who won't it
Wow. I find another Slipknot fan that likes these guys.
I almost forget about this song and how much i loved it
I found it by chance today and i had tears in my eyes as soon as i heard him singing
2024 anyone? Missing those gold era days...
Am I the only one here on 2019???
No I'm here too
Soul Sarcasm no hahahhhahhah
Soul Sarcasm in here
Wat
no bro,
I relate myself to this song because i always breaking my promises to my girl, most of the time she is always dissapointed in me, But i dont want to lose her, i really love her. I dont want her to just burst someday and leave me with all my failures. God, Please help me to keep my promises and be a better person to her because i really love her. I'll my comment here, so one day if i go back here, i'm a better person and had her as my wife.
This song reminds me of her... I didn't believe in love and then I met her and I just felt so fucking happy... I poured my heart out to her and treated her like an Angel... We broke up almost two years ago but for some odd reason I can't let go... Breawna Bell Harden I love you so fucking much...
Connor Foreman Buddy, I'm honestly beginning to relate so much. I feel like I'm hitting the same road...it's only a matter of time. I can tell
Humberto Velez Hey, you ever need me I'm here for you. I care for all of you people, more than I can explain actually. My one friend, he's a fan on my videos, he made a collage and it actually made me cry that someone went out of their way to do something like that for me.
Connor Foreman really huh? I feel the same man ugh.
Awwwww That's happen to me too hun.. it broke my heart. Cuz I loved him so much but he didn't care much about me. I cared for him and did everything for him to care but I guess it wasn't good enough...😢😭😥 I'm SO sorry that happened to you..
Every single time I listen to this song I cry. It just explains what's going through my mind these days. Like, my boyfriend broke up with me when people found out we were dating. It looks like it's so fxcking easy to him, but it breaks me every day a little bit more...
Omg this song makes me wanna cry ;-; Secondhand serenade, why do you do this to me?
It's now 2023 and we used to listened this song on a computer shop that has only one computer and 5mbps internet and can only play 240p, friendster, myspace
the good old days with friends no drama just pure fun and now that we aged
still a good song brings a lot of memories..
you don't have to be emo to love this song... I love this song... I Really love this song.
i know im a few years late but damn this song is good, by the time i finished it i was in tears tbh . i love this type of music its so relaxing and its perfect.
Omg this is old song
2008
No thing like the memories
ths song reminds me of a guy i used to really like, he gave me hope and ditch me for my friend....worst time of my life but i learnt something from it
the same thing happened to me but he left me for my "bestfriend"
I cry every time i hear this song
This song reminds me of a best friend I lost.
I know how that feels. :(
sad :'(
(huqqles)
i know how that feels ~huggels~
Exactly...
a day will come when u come across these songs from your past and you can smile evr so slightly and thank the person who made you feel the way you did all thoses years ago. anf then thank God that they did cuz then ud never have that person you have now
it will always get better some day
The very first line mirrors so much memories. Can't escape getting old.
I know that this is just wasting everyone's time, but i can't help it, I have nowhere else to go. I used to look at comments just like this and wonder: "why would they post that here, they're just going to get ridiculed", but now i understand. Sometimes theres no one to go to, and all you can do is hope you get some support from random strangers... well today i lost the only one who seems to care about me. "I need space" she said. "Just for a little while a week at most" Ive never felt so alone
ill cry all night when i hear this song 😢
This song.... Memories... Feelings. Yes you did this.. My ex.. All beautifull memories. The boy who didn't gave me the love i need. He loved his series more than his own, only girlfriend.
Oh maaan... ''buttons on my phone''
Right!? The memories of those buttons clicking :o
nokia days
I was singing along to this song, And my boyfriend called. We talked, and he told me "One day I will love another girl more than you", at first I was confused, and then he added "And she will call you mommy". That was the best thing anyone has ever said to me, and I love him
love
Aww that's so aww hella amazing that makes me smile reading your comment
Omg😍
Oh my whole fucking heart
that was smooth
the feeling when a girl chooses a guy that makes her unhappy over someone who cares about her and wants the best for her if she ever sees this only thing i got to say is i really do love you but the pain is not worth getting my hopes up that you realize your mistake
I feel you brother.. I just got left bye the woman who broke down my walls and i would give my life for her. She left me for her ex that treated her like garbage. The sad thing is that i would take her back in a second cause i genuinly love her and care for her. Keep your heap up man.. God doesnt put you on a path he thinks u cant get through. He only gives you what he knows you can handle.
+robwz2011 ik this was 2 years ago but..your last sentence is just what i needed..ty.and im rly sorry about what happened to u :c
Tekst wat voor veel mensen herkenbaar is.Prachtig en zo met passie gezongen.
This Song is from my past. Been so long sems I've heard it
me too
in the beginning i thought that background buzzing noise was my stomach and i was like wow. I'm a hungry beast
Bruh samee 😂😂
tb to when phones had buttons
SAME I even paused it and was like what..
SAME
same XD
it's been years and i still can't get over you
tell me why
What a meaningful song ? you've always bringing me back to my past😭
Who's in 2019?
this song makes me think about the biggest crush of my life in highschool... damnnn life sucks cause u can't get everything u want... but then life is good because chances are you can find better
This song is still alive 💓💓💓💓
Yes it is❤️
2022 newyear and I'm alone...deep thoughts hoping she come back again.
I just feel like I should die. I can't do nothing, just lost my grandpa this week and I can't smile, I miss him too much ♥ love you grandfather
Be strong :)
Same but not my grandpa my cousin
sorry for your loss, be strong and we will get through this ♥ scarlett poisons
even though its been 3 years i kno how u feel 9-18-2017 my grandpa died and it was after his bday and he was my closest grandpa but when he died my BF ended it a day after and then i lost a REALLY good friend bc his dad didnt lik me and then my parents got mad at me and just those 2 days i lost ALOT and i was gona run away or...commit suicide...but...i found this poem dat kinda helped me through my depprestion (im still depressed but not as bad)
Your skin is not paper
Dont cut it
Your face is not a mask
Dont hide it
Your size isnt a book
Dont judge it
Your life isnt a movie
Dont end it
THIS SONG WILL MAKE YOU SLEEP AFTER YOU CRY
Indeed.
you make it hard to breathe :'(
Really miss this song and the 2009 me 😢 so nostalgic to listen this rn ❤
Come listen again bro.
I still love her and i miss her 😭😭😭
I met a girl exactly 4 years ago, she was my first love.
I court here, but she said that she will only say yes when she turn 18
So i waited for almost a year. Exactly on her birthday. I found out that she is two weeks in relationships. It broke my heart like shit. And today exactly 4 years have been pass I cant still get over her. Im still broke, I try to go date with somebody but, I still love her. This heart is so dumb. 😥😥😭😭😭😭 every new years eve I always remember the day she Promise me. Y ur so unfair, y just me who left behind. 😭😭😭 I really miss you.
This is gonna help me so much ;-; Sometimes I just need a good cry after being rejected. Thank you so much for helping me! Subscribed.
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+Epicfiremaster123 Epicfiremaster123 i can help u cheer up if u have skype?
2021 I'm 27 now I was maybe 16 when I found this song. Means more now then back then and has me in tears. Iv never felt more alone in this time in my life before atleast people took the time to tell me I was worthless now silence is killing me when ur a adult ur meant to just deal with it smile and keep going
amo esta canción!
i hate having my heart broken its terrible ;(
I feel you man....
i feel you , i feel you V_V
I feel you pal. I almost break up. But it's not over yet. 😭
Thomas Heavner ya :(
bøy msp you will found better then before 😊😊
August 2022 anyone ? 😪
whyyyy? secondhand serenade's songs make me crazyy .. why is it so beautiful to hear .. ???? whyyy?
Secondhand Serenade never fails to disapoint.
Memories... 😞