she said you’re too nice AGAIN?...(try this)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 ก.ย. 2024
- most nice guys struggle with integrating the aggression and it only leaves them feeling frustrated as they get walked over and treated badly. if you want to be the attractive man who is able to get the girl of his dreams learning to integrate your aggression is essential
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I had a really painful realization last year. I realized that I was weak. All my life people pleasing, not standing up for myself or others and not setting boundaries. Strongest emotions upon realizing this was embarrasment, shame and resentment. Very upsetting how many times I played the role of the "defeated male leaves" if you know that meme.
It is my belief that I turned out that way because of my father and my bully-who-was-also-my-friend in school. My father is a man with serious anger issues and an alcohol problem. If you combine these two, every move you make it feels like you are being watched like a hawk. I was walking on eggshells entire time he was home. I was afraid of making him angry. So in order to avoid his anger, I suppressed the "dark" sides of me and always did everything he said and almost never pushed back on anything. I really turned into a shell of a person when he was around. And as for my bully/"friend", I cut him out of my life in november of last year. The history of him doing anything that you can imagine a bully do to someone was heavy enough for me that I definitely did not feel like repairing the "friendship". I've had some good times with him and I know he is not evil in his heart, but also fuck him and his miserable life that he leads.
Now this isn't to say that I will victimize myself for the rest of my life. I actually almost never victimized myself for these things, but rather wasn't being real with myself. Upon realizing my weakness I've taken action. Ultimately it is my responsibility to become the man I want to be. I got a girlfriend last year too so I really do feel a sense of urgency in improving myself in this regard. It is not easy though. Painful journey that will for sure have its failures and setbacks. I have had some successess and I am glad, but the insecurity persists and will persist for an indefinite length of time I am sure. I must keep going no matter what. No other way about it really. I really want this.
Wise words. If you ignore your anger, you’ll eventually run into an experience so atrocious it breaks you. Saying no can be difficult but it’s how you reclaim your own power. Personal boundaries are magic and cultivate respect. You teach people how to treat you.
Just be mean to them 😮
Love your channel and I love you left that mic fuckup for us to see. Perfect example of being genuine. Also love that your approach is never misogynistic, but more of the internal work we should do by working on our attachment problems, trauma, etc. Keep it up, man. I'm here for the ride.
this comment means a lot, genuinely thank you!
Women walk on short and weak men. They take advantage of ur niceness and ghost u later😢
It's better to be warrior in garden than Gardiner in war.
Aggression is never good!
@@d-8664 Even in death and life situation?
How can you protect someone if you dont know how to do it?