Pathological liars| ALL YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT FAMILY LIARS |LIVE CHAT

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  • Trying to understand pathological liars can be very difficult.
    There isn't an established set criteria to identify and treat a pathological liar.
    The only treatment available is treatment that centers around poor impulse control, poor behavior management, and anxiety.
    And to make things worse, there is no established list of behaviors or actions for psychologists to identify when someone is a liar. So many psychologists and other mental health professionals may be deceived A LOT during psychotherapy.
    These liars have the upper hand because a lot of professionals miss important red flags or simply don't have the skill necessary to identify them.
    In this live chat, I discuss the signs and behaviors of pathological liars so you can identify them in and outside of your family.
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  • @TherapistTamaraHill
    @TherapistTamaraHill  ปีที่แล้ว +7

    😊I SO LOVE the chat box. TH-cam will make it available 12hrs after the end of this chat. Stay tuned!

  • @bellakrinkle9381
    @bellakrinkle9381 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Pathological liars seem to encapsulate entire family systems, however. Do compulsive liars know that they are constantly lying? I frequently observe that they forget things they say. LOL

  • @MrJfortheElohim
    @MrJfortheElohim ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It is a treatment for a liar and it call the lake of fire. They’re going to burn in hell for being a liar.

  • @hadiza1
    @hadiza1 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is so true! I am staying with the people who respect boundaries. 🤍🤍🤍

  • @Carmela_Falco
    @Carmela_Falco ปีที่แล้ว +6

    New listener. Great stuff

  • @AllieSmith-vg8rp
    @AllieSmith-vg8rp ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I would love if you did a segment (if you ever have time😊 ) on friendships with pathological liars how it relates with low self esteem. I just realized my friend is one, wanted to know the repercussions for the most part they seem nice

    • @TherapistTamaraHill
      @TherapistTamaraHill  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It's on the list now!!
      You may find some tips on these kind of individuals in my other videos on narcissistic personality. Most pathological liars are narcissistic.

  • @AveriesMiranda
    @AveriesMiranda ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So bummed I missed this live. Love your content and information as always❤

    • @TherapistTamaraHill
      @TherapistTamaraHill  ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤Thank you!! Maybe next time. I almost missed it too! LOL Life just gets busy.

  • @SuzieQ7779
    @SuzieQ7779 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    A woman I know encouraged her 24 year old daughter to lie in a job interview. Two women in her church coached her. Of course she didn’t get the job bc they found out. I mostly feel sorry for her daughter. Most of her lies are about how she’s never had Covid. 😳

  • @robertafierro5592
    @robertafierro5592 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Very good topic! Thank You..

  • @susanfronk6632
    @susanfronk6632 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Once again - you are hitting on one of the most challenging aspects of most of the people in my family and romantic relationships😢

  • @Evamandalexx
    @Evamandalexx 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If you can lie to protect yourself or the other person, you can lie, if you cheated, to protect yourself not to be discarded or blamed OR to protect the other not to suffer. So, thinking that you can lie to protect yourself or the other put you in the path of pathological liars

  • @anaphylaxis2548
    @anaphylaxis2548 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My FIL was a pathological liar, a diagnosed malignant borderline. 🤦‍♀

  • @amyteurlife9408
    @amyteurlife9408 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sometimes they don't seem lazy but they have habit of looking very busy and distracted with something "important" so they have no time for you when in reality they are not doing all that much. And they will do a lot of yard work, build and fix things, but only if you initiate the need and then a lot of these projects when you look back was filled with them trashing and bullying you throughout the process....try moving with them or build a house together....ha have kids or pets with them.

  • @MainHouse-kf3tb
    @MainHouse-kf3tb 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    15 minute mark 😮 . . . Environmental modeling

  • @kimmy225
    @kimmy225 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’ve had some very uncomfortable experiences with pathological liars. I have a cousin who is one and she constantly lies and manipulates others to cause me harm due to jealousy, so now I’m traumatized. I took it lightly when I was younger, but now that I’m older, I’m starting to feel unsafe. Do you have any advice on how to separate from a family member with this problem?

    • @bellakrinkle9381
      @bellakrinkle9381 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      One of my older sisters bullied me during childhood, then all throughout life. I finally went NO Contact. 20 years too late. Get STRONG and take care of YOU - there is no changing them!

    • @kimmy225
      @kimmy225 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bellakrinkle9381 You’re right. I always feel bad for going “no contact” on family and end up caving in but I really need to for my sanity. How do you go completely “no contact” when this person might show up at family events? Do you just stay cordial and respectful at the events but keep your distance or not attend at all?

  • @92359hg
    @92359hg 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Going by your suggestion that lying may decline 25 years range) Would the development of the Pre-frontal Cortex be a factor in the decline if there is no arrested development? What is your take on charging juveniles with adult offences?

  • @AdamantlyAdams
    @AdamantlyAdams ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I got home safely from Sunriver, Or. and I need my Tamara fix. When you're being toyed with by liars you need an strategy to get out. Do you ever wish you could just FF to the good part of your life. That's when you know that you are not in a good place.

    • @TherapistTamaraHill
      @TherapistTamaraHill  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😀 Glad you arrived safely!
      And yes, I do wish sometimes that I could fast forward. Agree! Those are the days I am really praying for a change of something.

  • @vancespellman6800
    @vancespellman6800 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good morning how much is your session

  • @mac-ju5ot
    @mac-ju5ot 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well it's a good thing I don't measure myself up there with my ex boss.....he didn't care who he made vomit

  • @amyteurlife9408
    @amyteurlife9408 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My spouse of 27y just laid 3 fancy chocolates on his desk and soon after I arrived home he thanked me for them. ?he's bored? He's looking for a dopamine hit from planning this and carrying it put? He's hoping to get in a fight with me? He's trying to triangulation me with some unknown female who he's getting mixed up with me? I don't care. If I bring it up...he will do what he has done for decades...narc traits of deny, blame, ignore....could play dumb and suddenly tell truth or just end it with agreeing to disagree. I can't tell anyone bc this is so petty yet it occurs almost daily....anytime he's around. They try to have you thinking about them all the time or have you searching for his receipt for 3 candies. They want to control your mind and your time

    • @amyteurlife9408
      @amyteurlife9408 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He's lied for years and i can't get proof yet even though I am a 4yr college educated person.

    • @amyteurlife9408
      @amyteurlife9408 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My poor grand daughter who I would have died for is 19 and just like her mom. She can create chaos since the age of 9 or 10 that would have adults spinning. This is purely from the evil one.

  • @Em-im1yz
    @Em-im1yz 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My ex lied from the get go saying he won a bafta he didnt

  • @l3Ea-YoU-T-UB-eFuLL
    @l3Ea-YoU-T-UB-eFuLL ปีที่แล้ว

    144 . Here we go again......
    TH-cam Algoriz tring to tweak me out lol❤

  • @vancespellman6800
    @vancespellman6800 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey t