The sleep gowns with elastic at the bottom are great for bedtime with a sleep sack/ swaddle over it. You don't have to worry about zippers or snaps in the middle of the night. We never used them during the day though.
Everyone told me this, but my baby would work them up to his waist every night and then cry because his legs were uncovered. I used zip up sleepers and they were so much easier!
ugh, my mom bought me like 30 of these and I HATED them. They always rode up and left my baby's feet and legs cold. I rage threw them out into a donation bag along with all the damn snap sleepers I was given.
I bought the U shaped pregnancy pillow on Amazon, and I LOVE it. I decided to change my bed stuff, and thought, "What good is this pillow, I just use it to put between my legs, I can do that with a normal pillow." Slept 2 nights without it and I was miserable. Idk what it is about it, but everyone is different, and every pregnancy is different. I am 38 weeks pregnant now, so we are just playing the waiting game, so perfect timing for this! 😁 Love your videos! ❤
Abra Oeser I love my pregnancy pillow too! I’ve been so uncomfortable since 18 weeks and it’s only getting worse (go figure), I can’t sleep without it!
Same. I love mine and can't sleep too well without it. I bought two and donated the one that did nothing for me. The one I loved was the Leachco Belly N Back but my SIL loved the other one that didn't work for me. My advice is figure out the support that is best for you, read the reviews and good luck 👍
I loved mine. I was able to leave my heavy electric pump at work and use this once/day in the evening to gt a little extra milk. It really helped keep my supply up as baby started sleeping longer in the evening.
I commend you for sticking with breastfeeding through your struggles. I struggled with my second son, it’s heartbreaking for a new mom who wants to breastfeed but has to dodge obstacles to do so.
GoreLover3 Some of the ladies here said they would roll up. Did that happened to your babies? I was thinking of using a hair tie at the end to keep the baby’s feet inside. 🤔
I loved the Cloud Island sleepers too! Super soft, easy to put on and off and had those built on socks and mitts! I also recommend them all the time to new moms
My daughter was born at 33 weeks - before my baby shower. I didn’t have ANYTHING for her so after my shower (she was in the NICU) most of my supplies was bought through amazon... and I think it was somewhat of a blessing because it made me realize how few things she actually needed. Love your videos!
I got a pregnancy pillow that’s basically like a long straight pillow and can see how it will come in handy later on as well. Already have a nursing pillow which I could not find usefull until my son started to sit up. Two weeks til baby sisters due date, wish me luck! 🥰
I think it's really important, as Kallie said, to remember we are all different and all babies are different. I loved a bassinet I was given for the first few months. I mainly used sleep and plays, we call them something different in Australia. But I also never had my milk come in so I stopped breast feeding after like a week and a bit because I couldn't. Look at advice but at the end of the day. You do you and what is best for you and your baby. But clips like this are helpful to see what is out there. particularly for your first baby when you don't know a lot.
Love that you place visuals next to when you speak... makes it so much better to follow what you are talking about as a first time mom. Thank you thank you thank you!
I use a manual pump and it helped me with my milk supply. I didn’t have a good supply AT ALL. I don’t even have a regular pump I breastfeed and manual pump. And I’m doing great. Don’t be afraid to try products just because it didn’t work out for one person!! All mommies are different
I think your list aligns nicely with the advice to moms to be to not buy stuff ahead of time, thinking you need them. Wait, wait and wait some more. And don't purchase items until you actually need them for a good reason. There is so much stuff that I thought I'd need, based on advice from others, but when I got to that stage it turned out my baby had a different need or preference. So my best advice is to wait it out, and save yourself a lot of money. There's so much stuf available thru curbside pickups on Facebook marketplace, Bunz etc tat you hardly have to purchase new items and worry about delivery times.
Great list! I also agree with the sleep and plays and sleep gowns. The gowns seemed like such a good idea for quick and easy diaper changes, but we just didn’t use them. My son also lived in the zip up sleep and plays for the first 3-4 months! My biggest rec for new moms: don’t worry about actual clothes unless it’s for taking cute pics. Sleepers for the win! My son also loved his lounge pillow and it’s probably one of our most used items in the first 4 months (and I ended up not even breastfeeding, it was a straight up lounger/hang out spot!)
Aw I love sleep gowns!! I used them at night because it makes middle of the night changes so easy. No zips. No snaps. No buttons. I also used my manual pump a lot when traveling. Premixed formula is essential for preemies (if you’re formula feeding so it is useful depending on your baby) it minimize the risk of contamination since its sterile. Once their immune systems develop more you can switch to powder.
I too bought tiny clippers. First clip, my husband clipped the tip of her finger. I started biting them off. Worked for months, then she was older and the baby clippers were much more beneficial.
Our approach is similar - We are only buying what we think is an absolute must have and everything else we have added in our “save for later” Amazon basket. So if after our little one is born and we feel that we do need that item we can just click move to “basket” and “buy now”. :)
Great list! My LC told me not to use mittens while nursing, that baby feeling your boob with their hand was important to establishing the nursing relationship 🤷 I found the manual pump to be really useful for road trips, so I could pump and feed baby without having to pull over.
Yessss i used the boppy with all 3 of my kids to help prop them up when they first starting sitting up but werent fully stable yet- 1 helps them build those muscles but also saves their little head if the do plop over!
I loved my manual Brest pump. Just throw 1 in ziplock bag in your diaper bag and you are ready to go anywhere instead of taking bulky electric one which you always have to look for plug ins.I also loved mittens for my both babies.
I totally agree with a vast majority of these! We exclusively formula-fed from birth and actually loved having the pre-made, but just for those first 2 weeks where they're really not eating as much (bottles are totally not hard or time-consuming to make in any way but I just honestly didn't feel like doing it when our daughter was eating so little at that time haha). So we used them exclusively for the first 2 weeks or so and then switched to regular bottles from there. We're doing the same when baby #2 arrives :) Also, for the baby wrap, I too hated how time-consuming it was to deal with the wraps. I think I used our Moby wrap maybe 5-10 times if that. This time around, I bought one from Konny Baby and there's no wrapping needed! It's pre-sewn so you just slip it on and add your baby! I'm super excited to try it out.
I am pregnant again for the first time in almost 11 years. This video was amazing for me. I have been lost about what I remember using and trying to think about what's now available I'd wish I'd had. ❤ thanks!
I don't have my own child, but I have babysat/nannied (is that a word?) for many babies. The boppie (or however it's spelled) is amazing. It propped the baby up fantastically, and was able to get a little bit of tummy time with it as well.
Lille baby is my favorite backpack carrier. When they're little I love the Katan wrap. Don't have all wrapping to do. Your insurance will cover an electric pump. No need to buy one. I do recommend buying the Haakaa silicone pump, especially for when your milk first comes in. I hated the pregnancy pillow! I preferred a body pillow! A body pillow was so much cheaper as well. Your son is too cute!!!!
33 weeks here and thanks for the tip of not overbuying! I'm super paranoid if I actually do have what I need, but we can get through our little man's first week so I do have time to order more if needed!
I definitely agree with the sleep and play outfits. Those were life savers and a lot of them come with the hand covers now! I have a boppy like you mentioned but my daughter hated being in it, even though we used them often in daycares that I worked in. She hated being restricted 🤷♀️ and as for the nail clipper, Frida makes THE BEST baby nail clipper. I've used them on my baby when she was 3 months and still do now that she's 16 months. I have NEVER clipped her nails. They're super safe so I've never needed to buy a nail filer. Thanks for this video! 💕
Thanks for this video! Everyone is so different. I loved my wrap and you are right it is hard to nurse in. Second baby now 3 months, I also bought a ring sling and still learning to use. I loved my manual pump and used it as my primary pump when I was away from baby at work because it was easy, effecient for me and less to clean. This time around I am using the Freemie hands free pump. I tried the Haaka both times and I didn’t like to use it while breastfeeding because I was afraid my baby would kick it off and I definitely wasn’t going to put it on in the middle of the night, so I said forget it. Also, the first time it was a bit painful to apply. I loved my pregnancy pillow first time and second pregnancy I tried it once and threw it to the floor where it still lies.
I regret getting any snap up sleepers. I have literally pulled all of them and set them aside to sell. Zippers or bust. I also have twins though. It’s everything times two. No time for that many snaps. Also yes cloud island are awesome.
If you liked the feel of the wrap but not the hassle, I'd recommend a Baby K'Tan for your next kid. It wears like a wrap but so much easier and faster to put on. My husband loved wearing it too. I think it's the only one he really liked wearing actually. We used the ring sling too a lot. I wore it a lot when baby was tiny, not so much for a few months when they get squirmy and then more frequently in the later part of the first year for short time. I didn't find it as stable for floppy newborn heads as the K'Tan and once my son turned 1 we tended to use the Ergo more
The Boppy is amazing!! So I actually registered for the My Breast Friend and the Boppy, and I really like both for different reasons. The My Breast Friend is really better for nursing and was a huge part of establishing nursing for me...it’s perfect for a newborn to spend a lot of time hanging out on. It attaches much closer to the body and is super flat so a newborn is comfortable and not falling in the gap between you and the pillow. The Boppy however is super multi functional and I currently use it for breast feeding, tummy time, and sitting practice.
rachaelerin1 I love the breast friend for breast feeding. I hate using the boppy for breastfeeding. But it did come in handy for propping baby up when baby was learning to sit and tummy time.
I hated the boppy because I would need to be there to help hand me baby after I use both hands to put the boppy on while I’m in my rocking chair! The baby could be in his bed and wake up, then I’d attach the breast friend then stand up and pick him up & ready to go
I agree with all of your baby products! My daughter was too big for the gowns, she was born a big girl and didn't ever fit in NB sizes, so we didn't get to use any of the ones we were gifted! My daughter still won't tolerate the carrier, too indpendent
Totally with you about sleep and plays being essential!! My son lived in them until he was like 4 months old. Definitely loved the cloud island brand too. Wish they came in toddler sizes!
Kallie, I just have to say how much I appreciate your video editing and humor! Seriously, top notch. 👌 I agree with so much you said here. The baby nail file is amazing! I too do not know how using actual clippers on teeny tiny baby fingers is even possible.
Solid video. I think these videos are good to give ideas but honestly it comes down to what Mama and baby end up preferring. And sometimes you won't know until a few months in.
Great tips! Just a quick comment on the manual breast pump. Using the manual pump right after you feed or use an electric pump helped me get a bit more. This helped me as I only had just enough of a milk supply. Will be trying the haakka this time around.
I wasn’t sure about getting a boppy, but I got it as a gift and used it SO often and am SO grateful that I still have it now that I am almost 14 weeks pregnant with baby #2. I also wasn’t a huge fan of my pregnancy pillow and found it very big and awkward to use
Oh my goodness my ring sling was my TOP baby purchase!! My second baby was real big, lol. My first was in preschool, and it was a huge hassle to lug the car seat with the baby into his classroom. But he was so heavy to carry on his own, and then I didn't have two hands to help my four year old with his shoes or whatever. Enter the ring sling! Seriously recommend!
Girl, I feel your pain with the feeding, supplementing, and pumping. I also did 2 power pump sessions a day. Unfortunately my supply never increased :(
I am pregnant with baby number 5 :) I have 4 boppy pillows. Got two with my first pregnancy, and two more the next time around. I leave one in the van, one in my room, one in the living room and the other usually gets carted around by the other children! I would suggest at least two if you have a two level home.... also when baby spits up, one goes in the wash and you have an automatic backup, also a couple extra covers for them.... boppy pillows for life. I sometimes even sleep with one as my own personal pillow....
The right pregnancy pillow matters. I bought one on Amazon (tossed it) because it was useless and I think I was allergic to the material. I bought the "Leachco Back N Belly on my own contoured body pillow" from buy buy baby... wow. Game changer. It's huge tho so just FYI. But it's been amazing and I love it. It's helped me squeeze more hours out of my nighttime sleep. Maternity pillows are not for everyone, but I do recommend them. Figure out what kind of support you need first then make the investment. Good luck 😊
I also got blood the first time I used the baby clippers. My toddler still hates getting her nails cut. Yes sleep and plays! I have a super great milk supply the second time around and would still recommend an electronic pump. Most health insurances will cover one or maybe two options for an electronic one, talk to your agent. Our pre-mixing was to put the dry formula in a bottle, and have a bottle with water measured in. Boppy's are amazing, but be careful which ones you get. Look for the ones that have a washable slip cover, and are firm enough for baby to use on their own. We were gifted a diaper genie, and we don't dislike it, but a good trash can with a hinged lid would work just as well (and better if you have back issues and can't get underneath the diaper genie to get the bag out). My baby boy is almost too big for his swing and I'm starting to panic because he loves it.
I wanted to let you know how much I enjoy your videos. You've got a nice presentation style, and you share great info. I don't have kids, don't plan to, and am good with that. But I like watching what you have to say. Good job!
Definitely agree with so many of the things you said! It’s so crazy how every mama and baby have different preferences because I loved my pregnancy pillow while pregnant but I agree it isn’t practical for nursing. I actually hated the baby files but loved the baby frida nail clippers haha. I completely agree with the cloud island sleepers though!!! They are 100% the very best! Again, so crazy how we all have different things that work for each of us so if a new or expecting mama is reading this, have grace with yourself and know that these videos are EXTREMELY helpful (I watched probably 100 while pregnant lol) but sometimes you will have to take what you learn in these and try them yourself 😊😊
JJ Cole makes a soft baby carrier that you slip on like a T-shirt. I think it’s called the Agility carrier. So much easier than a wrap carrier. I used it for 2 years with my son.
Thanks so much! I also hated the full body pregnancy pillow and love the boppy! I wasn’t able to breastfeed both times, but the boppy is a great investment and we are currently using it to help my baby learn how to sit. The first time around I bought a huge pregnancy pillow, but the second time I bought this small whale shaped one that goes in between your legs and I’m pretty sure it prevented some leg cramps so actually I think the smaller pregnancy pillows are better.
I agree with you on all these things!!!! With #2 we decided to go with a sustainable baby co moonwomb pillow (that I’ve used as a regular pillow while trying to conceive and loved) it’s filled with buckwheat hulls and I love it even more than my boppy but it is an investment for sure but a good other option if you’re wanting something more natural. Thanks for this video a nice reminder to moms who are swayed by all the baby stuff when really it’s not all needed
My pedi taught me how to use nail clippers, haven't drawn blood yet. I have twins and they're 6 now. I'm glad I didn't invest too much in breastfeeding because I dried up even after triple feeding. I wasn't sleeping as much as I should have doing that. The premade stuff helped early on when we were on the go. Once they started eating more we would have containersof the powder and a bottle or two of water.
Totally totally agree with the sleep n play tip! I can't tell you how irritated I would get fumbling with snaps in the middle of the night. Get off by one and get ready to scream silently!!! Lol!! Your son....adorable!!! I have a teen now......ahhhhh!! Just one, a daughter who is 13. Time flies
An electric nail file. My, my, how things change. When my babies were tiny, I bit their nails off while they were asleep in my arms. I learned this trick from an old nurse. I considered buying a wipe warmer, but then my aunt suggested I try warming the wipe in between my hands for few seconds, which worked quite well. My son was, and still is, very sensitive to tactile sensation. So, only natural fiber clothing and bedding, no scratchy tags, etc. He most definitely appreciated a warm wipe. Lastly, for babies who hate diaper changes, try placing a small toy in their hands, one that they only get to play with during changing time. A small stuffed animal works well for really little ones, a more interesting toy can be offered later. Another mom I know used something that flashed light patterns on the ceiling. It wasn't a baby item per se, but she used it as one. Btw, your son is adorable. ~ Lisa
I loved the gowns in the beginning when there were a lot of diaper changes overnight. My daughter slept in those and then I put her in pants and onesies during the day. But once the overnight changes/feedings slowed down, I stopped using them...I would say this was good for about 2-3 months.
Omg I also cut a little my baby’s finger trying to cut her nails. My husband was so mad at me!!! Crazy moment. I used it again a year after that and then the nail clipper worked once her fingers grew.
I had a very similar breastfeeding experience! My daughter had what the nurses called “an uncoordinated latch.” We finger fed her with a syringe of formula for weeks until she could latch onto me, then she would essentially practice and get a bottle of pumped milk afterward. I was pumping 12 times a day for 6 weeks and my lactation consultant was like omg you don’t have to pump after every time anymore! I ended up donating over 200 ounces of breastmilk and she successfully breastfed for 5 months! A manual pump never would’ve done the job for me but I also loved my haaka!
I totally agree with the sleep and plays. My husband bought so many new born to first year outfits and shoes....shoes! and I'm over here like hello, are you dressing the baby..no. I need something more convenient and easy🤦🏽♀️
I also used my Boppy to sit on when I was post partum with episiotomy stitches and had to sit on metal chairs-- or any chair that wasn't my couch. It was a game changer. I was able to get back to life so much faster.
Omg pregnancy pillow was essential for me. Sleep gowns were great when my babies were little due to the numerous diaper changes. But I agree, as they're bolder and go into devices like swings, you have to change. But my son lives in sleep n plays for his first two months.
With my first i had a Medela electric pump with a rechargeable battery. I think it was the symphony. It was awesome because you had the best of both worlds...portable and more efficient than a manual pump. I always found hand pumping (basically milking like a cow) more effective than my manual pump and I had a very good supply.
I only bought the manual breast pump when I forgot to take my regular breast pump to work... Target was closer than my house. That was the only time I used it. 😅 Also, YES to a BOPPY! So useful!! I kept mine and now it's time to use it for Baby #2 ♥
A pumping bra to hold the flanges in place are another must have! It’s so nice to not have to hold the flanges in place the entire time. Plus, it frees your hands up to massage your breasts as you’re pumping. I have to massage every feeding as my letdown is not so great. Also, if you don’t like the pregnancy pillows then regular body pillows are pretty great too. I used one before I got pregnant and in my last trimester with my second child it was very hard to sleep without it. I tried a c pillow that was given to me, but the shape and bulkiness of the pillow made it hard to sleep with too. However, after she was born I was given a different pregnancy pillow that was U shaped and I’m using it almost 2 months PP. It’s easier to sleep with and is great for night feedings in bed.
There are tshirt style wrap carriers. They work up until 4-6 months depending on the brand. BabyDink is an Australian kickstarter, actually cheap to invest in if you're overseas too. You pop it on like a tshirt and just pop baby in. Just have to make sure you order the right size for your post partum body not your pregnancy size. For most women one size up from your pre-pregnancy size is pretty standard to allow for extra room for breastfeeding boobies.
I also did the triple feeding for several weeks (blocked out how many) but I can’t imagine manual pumping. Double electric pump all the way. Hats off to you! But I loved my pregnancy pillow and hatted the boppy
I was gifted a Boppy pregnancy pillow when I was pregnant. I absolutely love it. I like the pregnancy pillow better than the actual boppy itself! Favorite baby purchase: (forget what exactly it's called) it's like a little hammock you attach to the sides of the baby's crib- she slept comfortably in an almost womb like position in her crib and we didn't even need a bassinet of any sort. was roughly $20 on Amazon. Least favorite baby purchase: certain diapers. store brands are not so great and I hated the cruisers 360. we used Swaddlers exclusively til we hit size 3 and now are using Luvs.
Thank you so much for this video! I just received my pregnancy pillow yesterday and am returning it tomorrow...it made my arm numb and it did not work at all...
So funny our differences! The only thing that was a lifesaver for me was the Medela pump and I used a Hakkaa pump on the other. I was working full time and had to pump, then my daughter went on a nursing strike so she just nurses in the morning. Then it’s a manual pump for the rest of the day!
Items I didn’t use: baby wrap, premix formula and pregnancy pillow. If onesie didn’t have mittens I would honestly use socks. I was at home so no judgement. The Baby mittens would get lost or I only ended with one.... so not good. Items I did use: sleep gown only owned 3-5 and did use them until 6 months and didn’t go anywhere or I would use pants if I went somewhere in the drive thru. Baby nail clippers use them until this day.... I wait until she is asleep- no pressure there. I used a Bobby when I was pregnant and used it for my baby!!!!! Best item ever! Okay on the manual breast pump that was the bomb 💣 I would use a breast shield on the other to get more milk and one side to another quick fast.... then wash it with the médela spray and would store it in a cool baggie I had...... my baby was only breast feed..... I supplied a lot of milk but again drinker a lot of water, tea.... or would take hot water showers and then pumped..... Hope my opinion helps others too....
Great list!! Thanks for making this video! Just FYI your end screen isn’t on at the end of your video for another video recommendation, and the subscribe button, just thought you would like to know 😉
I love sleep sacks and so does my kiddo. She slept through the night at 3 months and I swear it was the sleep sacks. She is a nosy Parker so containing her a little keeps her from just playing with her feet all night.
I think I’m the only mom that can’t stand having a newborn/baby in sleep n plays all day everyday... I actually dress my baby(ies) everyday into a onesie, pants, socks. AND I LOVE hand pumps over electric. And that specific pump does not need to be pumped consistently. The handle can be held down and it just keeps streaming the milk out. Also, I love it when we’re out on dates and I just pump in the car very quickly.
11:19 Made my day. I loved the Halo Sleepsack swaddles. I got one free from the hospital with most of mine and I even brought some. Completely worth the 20+ dollars. I gave all mine to my 1st grandbaby but she didn't up using them most cause she would get too warm. SwaddleMe makes something similar with lighter material.
I disagree about the gowns. I put my son in gowns still at 6 months. They are best for nighttime diaper changes. You don't have to mess with zippers or snaps. Plus if you don't want to change your baby from a gown to an outfit from bedtime to running out and about, Carter's makes a gown that snaps into a footie.
Yes! The cloud island sleepers are AMAZING!!! I gift them to all my mom friends. I just wish they'd put grippers on the feet of thr 6-9 month ones because my little guy was smaller. Lol
Kallie - I love everything single video you make! I thumbs up before I even finish watching!! I have a 19th month old son and your content helps me sooo much!!! 🥰🥰🥰
My go to baby shower gift is a forehead Thermometer. Every first time mom needs a good one and rarely add it to their list. In December for a joint baby shower I add gloves, Air spry, face masks with it as a joke. Sadly my friend is very thankful.
Personally I didn't like the sling and wish I had gotten a traditional wrap sooner than I did. The sling hurt my back and it was super tedious to position my baby in it right. If I could go back I'd get one of those wraps that are like halfway done already like the baby k'tan ready to wear wrap.
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The sleep gowns with elastic at the bottom are great for bedtime with a sleep sack/ swaddle over it. You don't have to worry about zippers or snaps in the middle of the night. We never used them during the day though.
Everyone told me this, but my baby would work them up to his waist every night and then cry because his legs were uncovered. I used zip up sleepers and they were so much easier!
ugh, my mom bought me like 30 of these and I HATED them. They always rode up and left my baby's feet and legs cold. I rage threw them out into a donation bag along with all the damn snap sleepers I was given.
I’m planning to use them with a hair tie on the end so baby’s feet’s stay inside. I hope this works out. Lol
Monicamcs there are also some that tie at the end instead of elastic. Though we’re using the elastic (3week old) for overnight and having no issues
Cut nails when they're sleeping, also do it with both of you facing the same way it'll be like you're cutting your own nails which is so much easier!
Jamie Cappo that’s a good tip! Thank you!!!
I used to do that too. It was tough having to sneak in there without waking him up.
I tried this but he twitches way too much in his sleep :(
I bought the U shaped pregnancy pillow on Amazon, and I LOVE it. I decided to change my bed stuff, and thought, "What good is this pillow, I just use it to put between my legs, I can do that with a normal pillow." Slept 2 nights without it and I was miserable. Idk what it is about it, but everyone is different, and every pregnancy is different. I am 38 weeks pregnant now, so we are just playing the waiting game, so perfect timing for this! 😁 Love your videos! ❤
Abra Oeser I love my pregnancy pillow too! I’ve been so uncomfortable since 18 weeks and it’s only getting worse (go figure), I can’t sleep without it!
Same I can’t sleep without mind
Same. I love mine and can't sleep too well without it. I bought two and donated the one that did nothing for me. The one I loved was the Leachco Belly N Back but my SIL loved the other one that didn't work for me. My advice is figure out the support that is best for you, read the reviews and good luck 👍
My hand pump was actually really useful, I mainly used it when I wasn’t home bc it just wasn’t practical to carry an electric pump around
Me too!!!!
I used it, but it was so hard on my hands!!!
Me too !!
Me too! And with 3 little boys it was so great to just move around the house with them while pumping!
I loved mine. I was able to leave my heavy electric pump at work and use this once/day in the evening to gt a little extra milk. It really helped keep my supply up as baby started sleeping longer in the evening.
Yes, we need that holy grail video!! Love the mindset of not overbuying!
I commend you for sticking with breastfeeding through your struggles. I struggled with my second son, it’s heartbreaking for a new mom who wants to breastfeed but has to dodge obstacles to do so.
The gowns are mostly for nighttime to make diaper changes easier and quicker
I bought a lot of these for easy diaper change at night. I hope I do get to use them a lot 🙂.
@@Monicamcs I used them with all my babies and they were life savers in the middle of the night, bought a bunch of them this time around too
GoreLover3 Some of the ladies here said they would roll up. Did that happened to your babies? I was thinking of using a hair tie at the end to keep the baby’s feet inside. 🤔
@@Monicamcs the hair tie might limit movement which upsets some babies. Also, if it's long enough for that, it might be too wide in the shoulders.
fruitnoodle1 Good point. But don’t newborns like to be swaddle between 0-3 months?
I loved the Cloud Island sleepers too! Super soft, easy to put on and off and had those built on socks and mitts! I also recommend them all the time to new moms
My daughter was born at 33 weeks - before my baby shower. I didn’t have ANYTHING for her so after my shower (she was in the NICU) most of my supplies was bought through amazon... and I think it was somewhat of a blessing because it made me realize how few things she actually needed. Love your videos!
I got a pregnancy pillow that’s basically like a long straight pillow and can see how it will come in handy later on as well. Already have a nursing pillow which I could not find usefull until my son started to sit up. Two weeks til baby sisters due date, wish me luck! 🥰
I think it's really important, as Kallie said, to remember we are all different and all babies are different. I loved a bassinet I was given for the first few months. I mainly used sleep and plays, we call them something different in Australia. But I also never had my milk come in so I stopped breast feeding after like a week and a bit because I couldn't. Look at advice but at the end of the day. You do you and what is best for you and your baby. But clips like this are helpful to see what is out there. particularly for your first baby when you don't know a lot.
Love that you place visuals next to when you speak... makes it so much better to follow what you are talking about as a first time mom. Thank you thank you thank you!
Im 5 months with twins and that cheap Amazon pregnancy pillow completely revolutionized my sleep. It is a game changer !
Hand pump is great when you can’t use the electric. At weddings, concerts, etc.
This! It's great for travel and then again when weaning to relieve engorgement.
The thing I hated the most was the bassinet. The worst purchase I ever made. My baby hated it and acted as if it was made of lava.
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Omg that imagery is so intense 😓😓😓
My daughter was the same. I tried everything to get her to like it. The only way she'd sleep was on me.
Yeah. Bassinets were a waste
I use a manual pump and it helped me with my milk supply. I didn’t have a good supply AT ALL. I don’t even have a regular pump I breastfeed and manual pump. And I’m doing great. Don’t be afraid to try products just because it didn’t work out for one person!! All mommies are different
I think your list aligns nicely with the advice to moms to be to not buy stuff ahead of time, thinking you need them. Wait, wait and wait some more. And don't purchase items until you actually need them for a good reason. There is so much stuff that I thought I'd need, based on advice from others, but when I got to that stage it turned out my baby had a different need or preference. So my best advice is to wait it out, and save yourself a lot of money. There's so much stuf available thru curbside pickups on Facebook marketplace, Bunz etc tat you hardly have to purchase new items and worry about delivery times.
Nail clippers were a horror for me I cut my son's skin. Im still traumatized when I think about it and hes 15 now lol
Same! This happened when I cut my nephews nails... about 14 years ago... and I still feel terrible about it
Scissors. Baby scissors have never cut my wiggly son!
Ive heard alot from videos that you dont need them just file them because they are so thin its easier and less scary so that’s what im going to try
I love my nail clippers with the light. Still use it for them.
Great list! I also agree with the sleep and plays and sleep gowns. The gowns seemed like such a good idea for quick and easy diaper changes, but we just didn’t use them. My son also lived in the zip up sleep and plays for the first 3-4 months! My biggest rec for new moms: don’t worry about actual clothes unless it’s for taking cute pics. Sleepers for the win! My son also loved his lounge pillow and it’s probably one of our most used items in the first 4 months (and I ended up not even breastfeeding, it was a straight up lounger/hang out spot!)
Aw I love sleep gowns!! I used them at night because it makes middle of the night changes so easy. No zips. No snaps. No buttons. I also used my manual pump a lot when traveling. Premixed formula is essential for preemies (if you’re formula feeding so it is useful depending on your baby) it minimize the risk of contamination since its sterile. Once their immune systems develop more you can switch to powder.
I too bought tiny clippers. First clip, my husband clipped the tip of her finger. I started biting them off. Worked for months, then she was older and the baby clippers were much more beneficial.
Totally agree with the pregnancy pillow. Had the same experience. Neither good for sleeping nor practical for breastfeeding.
Our approach is similar - We are only buying what we think is an absolute must have and everything else we have added in our “save for later” Amazon basket. So if after our little one is born and we feel that we do need that item we can just click move to “basket” and “buy now”. :)
Great list!
My LC told me not to use mittens while nursing, that baby feeling your boob with their hand was important to establishing the nursing relationship 🤷
I found the manual pump to be really useful for road trips, so I could pump and feed baby without having to pull over.
Yessss i used the boppy with all 3 of my kids to help prop them up when they first starting sitting up but werent fully stable yet- 1 helps them build those muscles but also saves their little head if the do plop over!
I loved my manual Brest pump. Just throw 1 in ziplock bag in your diaper bag and you are ready to go anywhere instead of taking bulky electric one which you always have to look for plug ins.I also loved mittens for my both babies.
I totally agree with a vast majority of these! We exclusively formula-fed from birth and actually loved having the pre-made, but just for those first 2 weeks where they're really not eating as much (bottles are totally not hard or time-consuming to make in any way but I just honestly didn't feel like doing it when our daughter was eating so little at that time haha). So we used them exclusively for the first 2 weeks or so and then switched to regular bottles from there. We're doing the same when baby #2 arrives :) Also, for the baby wrap, I too hated how time-consuming it was to deal with the wraps. I think I used our Moby wrap maybe 5-10 times if that. This time around, I bought one from Konny Baby and there's no wrapping needed! It's pre-sewn so you just slip it on and add your baby! I'm super excited to try it out.
I am pregnant again for the first time in almost 11 years. This video was amazing for me. I have been lost about what I remember using and trying to think about what's now available I'd wish I'd had.
❤ thanks!
Same here, my son is 12 now
Me too... My kiddos will be 10 yrs apart 👨👩👧👦
I don't have my own child, but I have babysat/nannied (is that a word?) for many babies. The boppie (or however it's spelled) is amazing. It propped the baby up fantastically, and was able to get a little bit of tummy time with it as well.
Lille baby is my favorite backpack carrier. When they're little I love the Katan wrap. Don't have all wrapping to do.
Your insurance will cover an electric pump. No need to buy one. I do recommend buying the Haakaa silicone pump, especially for when your milk first comes in.
I hated the pregnancy pillow! I preferred a body pillow! A body pillow was so much cheaper as well.
Your son is too cute!!!!
33 weeks here and thanks for the tip of not overbuying! I'm super paranoid if I actually do have what I need, but we can get through our little man's first week so I do have time to order more if needed!
I definitely agree with the sleep and play outfits. Those were life savers and a lot of them come with the hand covers now! I have a boppy like you mentioned but my daughter hated being in it, even though we used them often in daycares that I worked in. She hated being restricted 🤷♀️ and as for the nail clipper, Frida makes THE BEST baby nail clipper. I've used them on my baby when she was 3 months and still do now that she's 16 months. I have NEVER clipped her nails. They're super safe so I've never needed to buy a nail filer. Thanks for this video! 💕
Thanks for this video! Everyone is so different. I loved my wrap and you are right it is hard to nurse in. Second baby now 3 months, I also bought a ring sling and still learning to use. I loved my manual pump and used it as my primary pump when I was away from baby at work because it was easy, effecient for me and less to clean. This time around I am using the Freemie hands free pump. I tried the Haaka both times and I didn’t like to use it while breastfeeding because I was afraid my baby would kick it off and I definitely wasn’t going to put it on in the middle of the night, so I said forget it. Also, the first time it was a bit painful to apply. I loved my pregnancy pillow first time and second pregnancy I tried it once and threw it to the floor where it still lies.
I regret getting any snap up sleepers. I have literally pulled all of them and set them aside to sell. Zippers or bust. I also have twins though. It’s everything times two. No time for that many snaps. Also yes cloud island are awesome.
If you liked the feel of the wrap but not the hassle, I'd recommend a Baby K'Tan for your next kid. It wears like a wrap but so much easier and faster to put on. My husband loved wearing it too. I think it's the only one he really liked wearing actually.
We used the ring sling too a lot. I wore it a lot when baby was tiny, not so much for a few months when they get squirmy and then more frequently in the later part of the first year for short time. I didn't find it as stable for floppy newborn heads as the K'Tan and once my son turned 1 we tended to use the Ergo more
I triple fed (didn't even know it had a name) my youngest for 6 straight months. It's a lot of work.
The Boppy is amazing!! So I actually registered for the My Breast Friend and the Boppy, and I really like both for different reasons. The My Breast Friend is really better for nursing and was a huge part of establishing nursing for me...it’s perfect for a newborn to spend a lot of time hanging out on. It attaches much closer to the body and is super flat so a newborn is comfortable and not falling in the gap between you and the pillow. The Boppy however is super multi functional and I currently use it for breast feeding, tummy time, and sitting practice.
rachaelerin1 I love the breast friend for breast feeding. I hate using the boppy for breastfeeding. But it did come in handy for propping baby up when baby was learning to sit and tummy time.
I hated the boppy because I would need to be there to help hand me baby after I use both hands to put the boppy on while I’m in my rocking chair! The baby could be in his bed and wake up, then I’d attach the breast friend then stand up and pick him up & ready to go
I agree with all of your baby products! My daughter was too big for the gowns, she was born a big girl and didn't ever fit in NB sizes, so we didn't get to use any of the ones we were gifted! My daughter still won't tolerate the carrier, too indpendent
Totally with you about sleep and plays being essential!! My son lived in them until he was like 4 months old. Definitely loved the cloud island brand too. Wish they came in toddler sizes!
Kallie, I just have to say how much I appreciate your video editing and humor! Seriously, top notch. 👌 I agree with so much you said here. The baby nail file is amazing! I too do not know how using actual clippers on teeny tiny baby fingers is even possible.
Solid video. I think these videos are good to give ideas but honestly it comes down to what Mama and baby end up preferring. And sometimes you won't know until a few months in.
The only thing I got out of this was, you look great at 25 weeks pregnant. 💕
Great tips! Just a quick comment on the manual breast pump. Using the manual pump right after you feed or use an electric pump helped me get a bit more. This helped me as I only had just enough of a milk supply. Will be trying the haakka this time around.
I wasn’t sure about getting a boppy, but I got it as a gift and used it SO often and am SO grateful that I still have it now that I am almost 14 weeks pregnant with baby #2. I also wasn’t a huge fan of my pregnancy pillow and found it very big and awkward to use
Oh my goodness my ring sling was my TOP baby purchase!! My second baby was real big, lol. My first was in preschool, and it was a huge hassle to lug the car seat with the baby into his classroom. But he was so heavy to carry on his own, and then I didn't have two hands to help my four year old with his shoes or whatever. Enter the ring sling! Seriously recommend!
Girl, I feel your pain with the feeding, supplementing, and pumping. I also did 2 power pump sessions a day. Unfortunately my supply never increased :(
I am pregnant with baby number 5 :) I have 4 boppy pillows. Got two with my first pregnancy, and two more the next time around. I leave one in the van, one in my room, one in the living room and the other usually gets carted around by the other children! I would suggest at least two if you have a two level home.... also when baby spits up, one goes in the wash and you have an automatic backup, also a couple extra covers for them.... boppy pillows for life. I sometimes even sleep with one as my own personal pillow....
The right pregnancy pillow matters. I bought one on Amazon (tossed it) because it was useless and I think I was allergic to the material. I bought the "Leachco Back N Belly on my own contoured body pillow" from buy buy baby... wow. Game changer. It's huge tho so just FYI. But it's been amazing and I love it. It's helped me squeeze more hours out of my nighttime sleep. Maternity pillows are not for everyone, but I do recommend them. Figure out what kind of support you need first then make the investment. Good luck 😊
I also got blood the first time I used the baby clippers. My toddler still hates getting her nails cut. Yes sleep and plays! I have a super great milk supply the second time around and would still recommend an electronic pump. Most health insurances will cover one or maybe two options for an electronic one, talk to your agent. Our pre-mixing was to put the dry formula in a bottle, and have a bottle with water measured in. Boppy's are amazing, but be careful which ones you get. Look for the ones that have a washable slip cover, and are firm enough for baby to use on their own. We were gifted a diaper genie, and we don't dislike it, but a good trash can with a hinged lid would work just as well (and better if you have back issues and can't get underneath the diaper genie to get the bag out). My baby boy is almost too big for his swing and I'm starting to panic because he loves it.
I wanted to let you know how much I enjoy your videos. You've got a nice presentation style, and you share great info. I don't have kids, don't plan to, and am good with that. But I like watching what you have to say. Good job!
A lot of your regrets are my must haves lol I need my pregnancy pillow! There’s no way I could sleep without it with this big volleyball belly
Baby Ktan is the best nonwrap wrap! So much quicker! But I opt for the buckle carrier now that he’s 5 months. It was great when he was 0-3ish months.
Definitely agree with so many of the things you said! It’s so crazy how every mama and baby have different preferences because I loved my pregnancy pillow while pregnant but I agree it isn’t practical for nursing. I actually hated the baby files but loved the baby frida nail clippers haha. I completely agree with the cloud island sleepers though!!! They are 100% the very best!
Again, so crazy how we all have different things that work for each of us so if a new or expecting mama is reading this, have grace with yourself and know that these videos are EXTREMELY helpful (I watched probably 100 while pregnant lol) but sometimes you will have to take what you learn in these and try them yourself 😊😊
JJ Cole makes a soft baby carrier that you slip on like a T-shirt. I think it’s called the Agility carrier. So much easier than a wrap carrier. I used it for 2 years with my son.
Thanks so much! I also hated the full body pregnancy pillow and love the boppy! I wasn’t able to breastfeed both times, but the boppy is a great investment and we are currently using it to help my baby learn how to sit. The first time around I bought a huge pregnancy pillow, but the second time I bought this small whale shaped one that goes in between your legs and I’m pretty sure it prevented some leg cramps so actually I think the smaller pregnancy pillows are better.
I agree with you on all these things!!!!
With #2 we decided to go with a sustainable baby co moonwomb pillow (that I’ve used as a regular pillow while trying to conceive and loved) it’s filled with buckwheat hulls and I love it even more than my boppy but it is an investment for sure but a good other option if you’re wanting something more natural.
Thanks for this video a nice reminder to moms who are swayed by all the baby stuff when really it’s not all needed
My pedi taught me how to use nail clippers, haven't drawn blood yet. I have twins and they're 6 now. I'm glad I didn't invest too much in breastfeeding because I dried up even after triple feeding. I wasn't sleeping as much as I should have doing that. The premade stuff helped early on when we were on the go. Once they started eating more we would have containersof the powder and a bottle or two of water.
Totally totally agree with the sleep n play tip! I can't tell you how irritated I would get fumbling with snaps in the middle of the night. Get off by one and get ready to scream silently!!! Lol!! Your son....adorable!!! I have a teen now......ahhhhh!! Just one, a daughter who is 13. Time flies
Watching that little clip of you with your son was the most adorable!
An electric nail file. My, my, how things change. When my babies were tiny, I bit their nails off while they were asleep in my arms. I learned this trick from an old nurse. I considered buying a wipe warmer, but then my aunt suggested I try warming the wipe in between my hands for few seconds, which worked quite well. My son was, and still is, very sensitive to tactile sensation. So, only natural fiber clothing and bedding, no scratchy tags, etc. He most definitely appreciated a warm wipe. Lastly, for babies who hate diaper changes, try placing a small toy in their hands, one that they only get to play with during changing time. A small stuffed animal works well for really little ones, a more interesting toy can be offered later. Another mom I know used something that flashed light patterns on the ceiling. It wasn't a baby item per se, but she used it as one. Btw, your son is adorable. ~ Lisa
I loved the gowns in the beginning when there were a lot of diaper changes overnight. My daughter slept in those and then I put her in pants and onesies during the day. But once the overnight changes/feedings slowed down, I stopped using them...I would say this was good for about 2-3 months.
Pregnancy insomnia, I have randomly been waking up in the night and it takes me a good two hours to go back to sleep. Good to know it’s normal.
Omg I also cut a little my baby’s finger trying to cut her nails. My husband was so mad at me!!! Crazy moment. I used it again a year after that and then the nail clipper worked once her fingers grew.
I had a very similar breastfeeding experience! My daughter had what the nurses called “an uncoordinated latch.” We finger fed her with a syringe of formula for weeks until she could latch onto me, then she would essentially practice and get a bottle of pumped milk afterward. I was pumping 12 times a day for 6 weeks and my lactation consultant was like omg you don’t have to pump after every time anymore! I ended up donating over 200 ounces of breastmilk and she successfully breastfed for 5 months! A manual pump never would’ve done the job for me but I also loved my haaka!
I totally agree with the sleep and plays. My husband bought so many new born to first year outfits and shoes....shoes! and I'm over here like hello, are you dressing the baby..no. I need something more convenient and easy🤦🏽♀️
I also used my Boppy to sit on when I was post partum with episiotomy stitches and had to sit on metal chairs-- or any chair that wasn't my couch. It was a game changer. I was able to get back to life so much faster.
“What do I look like a hand tworker, worker outer, no!?!” I died😂😂😂
Yes, thank you! The pregnancy pillow was such a waste. I like that you gave it to your dog-might have to try that!
I’m not pregnant; nor do I plan to be anytime soon but I Love my pregnancy pillow! I sleep so well with it
My son LIVED in gowns the first few months. My daughter on the other hand, they didn't work...she was more active.
Omg pregnancy pillow was essential for me. Sleep gowns were great when my babies were little due to the numerous diaper changes. But I agree, as they're bolder and go into devices like swings, you have to change. But my son lives in sleep n plays for his first two months.
With my first i had a Medela electric pump with a rechargeable battery. I think it was the symphony. It was awesome because you had the best of both worlds...portable and more efficient than a manual pump.
I always found hand pumping (basically milking like a cow) more effective than my manual pump and I had a very good supply.
I have my first grandson on the way so this is very helpful for us! Cause my baby is 16years old so I really need a refresher course!! Lol!!
I only bought the manual breast pump when I forgot to take my regular breast pump to work... Target was closer than my house. That was the only time I used it. 😅 Also, YES to a BOPPY! So useful!! I kept mine and now it's time to use it for Baby #2 ♥
A pumping bra to hold the flanges in place are another must have! It’s so nice to not have to hold the flanges in place the entire time. Plus, it frees your hands up to massage your breasts as you’re pumping. I have to massage every feeding as my letdown is not so great.
Also, if you don’t like the pregnancy pillows then regular body pillows are pretty great too. I used one before I got pregnant and in my last trimester with my second child it was very hard to sleep without it. I tried a c pillow that was given to me, but the shape and bulkiness of the pillow made it hard to sleep with too. However, after she was born I was given a different pregnancy pillow that was U shaped and I’m using it almost 2 months PP. It’s easier to sleep with and is great for night feedings in bed.
There are tshirt style wrap carriers. They work up until 4-6 months depending on the brand. BabyDink is an Australian kickstarter, actually cheap to invest in if you're overseas too. You pop it on like a tshirt and just pop baby in. Just have to make sure you order the right size for your post partum body not your pregnancy size. For most women one size up from your pre-pregnancy size is pretty standard to allow for extra room for breastfeeding boobies.
I also did the triple feeding for several weeks (blocked out how many) but I can’t imagine manual pumping. Double electric pump all the way. Hats off to you! But I loved my pregnancy pillow and hatted the boppy
thank you!! except my preggo pillow has saved my life, agree to disagree on that one !!! (i already slept with tons of pillows though)
I was gifted a Boppy pregnancy pillow when I was pregnant. I absolutely love it. I like the pregnancy pillow better than the actual boppy itself!
Favorite baby purchase: (forget what exactly it's called) it's like a little hammock you attach to the sides of the baby's crib- she slept comfortably in an almost womb like position in her crib and we didn't even need a bassinet of any sort. was roughly $20 on Amazon.
Least favorite baby purchase: certain diapers. store brands are not so great and I hated the cruisers 360. we used Swaddlers exclusively til we hit size 3 and now are using Luvs.
Thank you so much for this video! I just received my pregnancy pillow yesterday and am returning it tomorrow...it made my arm numb and it did not work at all...
So funny our differences! The only thing that was a lifesaver for me was the Medela pump and I used a Hakkaa pump on the other. I was working full time and had to pump, then my daughter went on a nursing strike so she just nurses in the morning. Then it’s a manual pump for the rest of the day!
He sure did steal the show!!!
I would love a holy grails video! I find those just as helpful as the regrets videos
Items I didn’t use: baby wrap, premix formula and pregnancy pillow.
If onesie didn’t have mittens I would honestly use socks. I was at home so no judgement. The Baby mittens would get lost or I only ended with one.... so not good.
Items I did use: sleep gown only owned 3-5 and did use them until 6 months and didn’t go anywhere or I would use pants if I went somewhere in the drive thru. Baby nail clippers use them until this day.... I wait until she is asleep- no pressure there. I used a Bobby when I was pregnant and used it for my baby!!!!! Best item ever! Okay on the manual breast pump that was the bomb 💣 I would use a breast shield on the other to get more milk and one side to another quick fast.... then wash it with the médela spray and would store it in a cool baggie I had...... my baby was only breast feed..... I supplied a lot of milk but again drinker a lot of water, tea.... or would take hot water showers and then pumped.....
Hope my opinion helps others too....
Great list!! Thanks for making this video!
Just FYI your end screen isn’t on at the end of your video for another video recommendation, and the subscribe button, just thought you would like to know 😉
I love sleep sacks and so does my kiddo. She slept through the night at 3 months and I swear it was the sleep sacks. She is a nosy Parker so containing her a little keeps her from just playing with her feet all night.
I love my pregnancy pillow. I don't plan to use it for nursing though. I hated the gowns, manual pump and boppy. I prefer a couple of regular pillows.
Get a boppy with a built in velcro seatbelt. It's so when you use it as a baby lounger or a co-sleeper they can't slip down or turn over
Totally agree with all ur points, even the point on the spectra electric pump !
I think I’m the only mom that can’t stand having a newborn/baby in sleep n plays all day everyday... I actually dress my baby(ies) everyday into a onesie, pants, socks. AND I LOVE hand pumps over electric. And that specific pump does not need to be pumped consistently. The handle can be held down and it just keeps streaming the milk out. Also, I love it when we’re out on dates and I just pump in the car very quickly.
11:19 Made my day. I loved the Halo Sleepsack swaddles. I got one free from the hospital with most of mine and I even brought some. Completely worth the 20+ dollars. I gave all mine to my 1st grandbaby but she didn't up using them most cause she would get too warm. SwaddleMe makes something similar with lighter material.
I disagree about the gowns. I put my son in gowns still at 6 months. They are best for nighttime diaper changes. You don't have to mess with zippers or snaps. Plus if you don't want to change your baby from a gown to an outfit from bedtime to running out and about, Carter's makes a gown that snaps into a footie.
Yes! The cloud island sleepers are AMAZING!!! I gift them to all my mom friends. I just wish they'd put grippers on the feet of thr 6-9 month ones because my little guy was smaller. Lol
I loved my manual pump. I only used it 5 or less times, but it's super convenient for back up. I had a hard core supply though.
Kallie - I love everything single video you make! I thumbs up before I even finish watching!! I have a 19th month old son and your content helps me sooo much!!! 🥰🥰🥰
My go to baby shower gift is a forehead Thermometer. Every first time mom needs a good one and rarely add it to their list. In December for a joint baby shower I add gloves, Air spry, face masks with it as a joke. Sadly my friend is very thankful.
Hahahaha the nail clipper still using on my kids, but i confess was stressful when they were newborns! I love ur honesty
Personally I didn't like the sling and wish I had gotten a traditional wrap sooner than I did. The sling hurt my back and it was super tedious to position my baby in it right. If I could go back I'd get one of those wraps that are like halfway done already like the baby k'tan ready to wear wrap.
Oh man, I wish I had known about the sleepers with the fold over mittens!!! My younger kids scratched the heck outta me.
Great video! Cant believe he is already 18months 😳😯😍