What an amazing testimony! So many men and women are going to be set free from this. Thank you for your vulnerability in sharing! I too was in deception and God delivered me. So ladies and gentlemen if you're confused about someone, remember God is not the author of confusion but of peace. Seek God, fast and lay the person on the alter. If they are yours, God will raise them back up. If not, you just saved yourself a lifetime of pain. Oh! And check their fruit. If they are an unbeliever and don't have the fruit of Christ, they are not it! The bible says we are not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers. Test whatever you are believing with the word of God. If it doesn't measure up, toss it!
I used to listen to all of the kingdom spouse prophecies on TH-cam and slowly started to ignore them. Holy Spirit made me realize that I was idolizing marriage through watching these consistently. I still desire marriage and a family but not in the obsessive way that I have before. Thank you for sharing your testimony ❤️
And sis, that is what I had realized once my eyes were opened! It’s always about desiring a relationship with God and letting Him prepare us and lead us as we walk out in His perfect will! Your time is coming says the Lord! Thank you for sharing! God bless you! ❤
I'm supposed to hear this but you said you were set my homeless days I call it my bougie homeless but I want to get out of it too God is so good to me he created me a talented being and he told me to go sell my art for survival as well as my handmade jewelry and it has been working every single day he has come through however I'm thinking he needs me to do it a different way soon and there's somebody who I think is my person but we've been in separation for a few years I'm also reaching out with encouragement they wrote a song about me I ran away because I was afraid it was before the song that I ran away but I was just afraid of people but it was a whole summer he's such a sweet kind person however my fear allowed me to enable the excuse that it was that he insulted my casserole not going to lie it was a pretty shity casserole he didn't have the right ingredients and I was just working with what I had to try to make something and it tasted bad to be honest but I let my pride get in my way at that point and God has shown me some lessons about it I don't know if this person is my future husband however I know and I have known since I was a little girl God had me encouraged to want to be a singer or something and on top of being able to do art make handmade jewelry I feel like he wants me to make mental health wrap that glorifies God also I mean the main basis of it will be in mental health but there will be a lot of messages about putting your strength and God and challenges he's carried me through and the person I think or thought was my future husband he also does wrap and he's a Christian and he helps out in the communal aspects of the community
I will say this for the single sisters -- I recently saw a sister n christ and her husband's testimony.. they said something that will never leave me. It was an "effortless exchange" with them, the moment that they met onward. When you know, you know. Nothing will be forced. We are the Most High God's daughters. He brings surety and clarity. He has HIS very best in mind for us
😊 I've been dreaming of this... There's a feeling of security when I have the dreams as if I know I'm in good hands..I don't know who my spouse is but I woke up a few times very content and thankful to the reassurance. I pray for my spouse IF God has one for me and keep it pushing so that I can be where God wants me to be when the time is right.😊
So in other words, if you face hardships then that person is not for you? Where in the Bible does it say if something is Godly, that makes it easy? The Apostles were flogged and even murdered. Does that mean that when they were preaching the Gospel, it was not of God because they were abused? God's wisdom brings peace, not ease.
I have been following you from the beginning! I too fell into the deception of the kingdom spouse! God had been preparing me for marriage and I thought I had to stand for an unbeliever. Y’all I stood for 3 years! This guy seemed to be in love with me but never wanted to take our relationship to the next level. I had dreams, confirmations and saw prophetic numbers the whole shebang! 😂 last May, I decided that God gives us all free will and my so called KS had the choice. I told God I couldn’t stand for this spouse anymore and closed the door! 2 weeks later y’all God sent me my real god ordained spouse! I almost missed it because I couldn’t trust myself after the first guy. I followed God one step at a time and after 4 dates my god ordained spouse proposed. Fast forward to today we got married and I’m 8 mos pregnant with our son! 🙏🏼 The deception is real!
Literally SAME!! Wow! Congratulations and praise the Lord for what He has done in your life and thank you for sharing your testimony!! ❤🎉 So many people need to know this truth!!
3 years is too long, dont ever give a man more than 18m to 2y to propose if you want to be married. thats actual game. also, if a man is not actively showing you he is trying to build with you all along the way, run...
Recently set free from a lie I believed for 3 years that someone was my husband. That person never had any interest in me at all, and yet I held on tightly for 3 years. But recently, God set me free from that 🙏 🙌
I used to teach new age and make divination videos. The kingdom spouse movement is equivalent to the “twin flame”, “divine masculine/feminine”, karmic partner (equivalent to counterfeits) tarot/witchcraft videos. Don’t drive yourself crazy listening to these divination spirits. Looking into what someone (your “kingdom spouse”) is doing, saying, etc. is a form of divination & idolatry. Just keep chasing the Lord and what He is pruning in you. There is nothing anyone can say or do to you or your God ordained spouse that will keep them away from you. Remember, remember! Thank you for sharing your testimony!! 💕
Very true! I’m thankful that I went through a strong emotional soul tie as a teen. I never seriously dated the person, I had to literally run the opposite way and block the person in order to heal from the attachment. Now I know how to avoid those type of attachments as an adult.
Soul ties aren’t biblical love, just another “new age” theory. I’d focus on emotional attachments and bringing it back to God for healing and restoration💞
@@aaliyahsymoneeesoul ties are real and are demonic, they cause you to have an unnatural obsession with a person, it falls under the temptation and deception of Satan which is 100% biblical
Ladies a man that is serious about you will pursue you but also beware, there are some men that will pursue you till the end and even marry you but only want to be with you because they are lusting after you and after getting what they want they will check out of all their duties as a husband. Pray for discernment because these types of men are counterfeits that will make your walk with God harder. You want a man that wants to marry you, but a man that is pushing you and rushing you into marriage.. there’s something wrong there
I also thought someone else was my husband and that I heard clearly from God. I ended up running my actual kingdom spouse out the door. Here we are 2 years later, and God brought him back, and we got married last year🙏🏽🙌🏽 Be very careful with these counterfeits. They are so close to acting as the real thing. Seek God always and wait for clear confirmations. That is how my ex came back as if we had never separated for 2 years ❤ all glory be to God🙌🏽
Thank you for sharing this! I love the part where you’ve seen God REDEEMED your situation, “as tho you were never separated”. PRAISE GOD🙌🏽. So happy for you !
Unpopular opinion: I have always found the "kingdom spouse" conversation to be off-putting, but I couldn't quite put my finger on it. I think these conversations make us obsessive and more anxious than at peace. I also am very wary when I hear someone say that God told them that so and so was their husband or wife. I find that we often we ignore incompatibility and wisdom under the pretense of "God told me". I have heard couples say this but unfortunately end up divorced.
Girl yes! And also I had to realize if the other person does not confirm that they are your spouse then that is one sided! God brings His peace between two people coming together! Thank you for sharing sis 🙏🏽
This is such a word, I was also deceived by words, dreams and false confirmations. I was so fixated on a man for almost 6 months (who ghosted me) as I so believed he was my kingdom spouse but God delivered me. Just remember that God doesn’t bring confusion, if you are confused then it’s most likely not from him
I did a similar thing. I prayed regularly for someone who wasn’t even talking to me, I kept asking God for grace so we could get married. One day I got so upset because of the person’s actions and I recognized that it doesn’t make any sense. Why am I so upset about this person who isn’t even intentional about me? The man who is my husband will be intentional about me and will pursue me. It will be peaceful and any conflict that may come will come from outside and not from within. I asked God to harden my heart towards the person and He certainly did. I spent a lot of time with them so I miss them, but I won’t go back. I’ve started to spend my time doing other things and growing in the Lord. I will just continue to wait.
I am happy that the Lord taught me that sometimes the enemy will send a counterfeit in the form of a Christian. That a counterfeit can not only be a non-believer, but a believer who is just not for you, even if they are a good person in general. Blessings, dear
Wow! My testimony is so similar! I thought this dude was my kingdom spouse and I prayed for him and even had dreams . Be careful because the devil can trick you very good and make sure your discernment is on point! I am a living testimony trust me I know!❤😂
Yes that is true friend! Then before you know it we’re thinking the decisions we’re making are from God and it doesn’t even make sense. God is just watching like 🤦🏽♀️…God bless you!
@@beamyourlight LOL! YES! It brought confusion, doubt, depression, and others things that are NOT OF GOD! Please DON'T ignore the red flags and signs! Please don't make excuses! Let go and let GOD! When you let go of what is toxic, GOD will bring in what is pure and true! I'm still in my waiting season, but I know that GOD will come thru and bring me what is rightfully mine!💖✨️ What is for you , will FIND YOU! DON'T GO LOOKING. SIT IN GOD'S PRESENCE AND STAY IN HIS WORD! AND IN DUE TIMING GOD WILL MAKE IT HAPPEN! HE THAT FINDS A WIFE FINDS A GOOD THING! LET YOUR HUSBAND PURSUE YOU! NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND‼️💯❤️🔥
@@kingLifeWin Confirming dreams. So becareful because the devil can deceive u with dreams as well.. But God also gave dreams too. They were warning dreams. But I went with my spirit (holy spirit) and I felt something wasn't right, because I never had peace and I was always anxious when I believed this person was my KS. I know God is the prince of peace and he is not a God of confusion, so I knew this was sent from the devil.
We are called to advance the Kingdom, not add confusion to it. I pray that anybody that may stumble upon this video is not discouraged by it. I pray that you continue to seek God for guidance and not man because at times our pride gets in the way. If God has shown you something no matter how long it takes, stand on that promise. If you need extra evidence, pray, fast, ask God and I promise you He will answer. Do not doubt the answers you receive. Write everything down and look back at it in those moments you get discouraged! At times we get discouraged because things aren’t happening how we imagined or in the time we had hoped but Gods thoughts are not ours. Focus on what He has in front of you and don’t get caught up in the how. Surrender and let Him do what He does best. ”For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.“ Jeremiah 29:11 KJV
Thank you because I prayed and fasted for 21 days for confirmation if this guy was my husband and he delivered !! So I will stand on that promise because I know what God told me and showed me
@@harmoni_symone3601 Amen! I am happy for you. God is not a man that He should lie and He will never forsake us. God is doing a new thing in this generation and we will reap the reward if we FAINT NOT💜
Advance the kingdom is code for make the church bigger and stronger, its not really about God. Its a political strategy from the 80s created by conservatives to use religion to gain more voters for political power. its totally fine to live a quiet life, go to church, read you bible and raise your family everyone does not have to concern themselves with all of that . that's why the church is such a mess, people are being fooled into believing they are more important and have callings they don't have simply to increase numbers.
Thank you for sharing. I never heard of the kingdom spouse until I got on TH-cam. And many of those kingdom messages are keeping people in bondage and intertwined with counterfeits.
Thank you for sharing. As far as KS is concern, I am hearing God for myself. I got tired with all the YT KS prophecies. The Holy Spirit is my guide and there won't be any confusion. Thank you
This is a powerful share! Thank you for sharing. I started listening to your channel back in 2021 and that’s when I had left an ex purposely to turn back to God. I ended up joining a group that emphasized on getting married to kingdom spouses and had some insane expectations for the marriages lol. Suffice to say, after less than 2 years of being in that group, I met someone, totally not what I had pictured in my mind, I allowed him to court me, ended up breaking up with him cause the group leader said he wasn’t for me and when God dismantled the group, I got my senses back and asked the guy for forgiveness and a second chance. We got married last summer and me, who even through my wildest of years never got pregnant, became pregnant literally one month into being married 😭. I’m currently 7.5 months preggers and I’m in so much awe of how God has moved through my life regardless of the crazy journey it took to get here. The biggest secret is to get close to Jesus and He will guide you even when you can’t tell He is guiding you. To God be all the glory 🎉
Wow praise God! How beautiful! Thank you for sharing this and CONGRATULATIONS TO YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND! 🎉🎉 May the Lord continue to carry your pregnancy and baby to full term blessing your household in Jesus name!! 🥹🫶🏽🙌🏽✨🕊️
A man God send you to be your spouse will honor and cherish you. God will not send someone who disrespects and neglects you by ghosting you. God only gives His best.
Thank you for making this video. I went through a similar situation. I thought this guy was my husband and waited for 2 years, but finally realized he wasn’t my husband and I was confused, in mourning, I was deceived. I wish I had heard this video when I was in the thick of it but it’s still very encouraging to know I’m not alone. God has been healing me since, I had pride in me and it became an idol in my heart. God restores all things and makes beauty out of ashes.
God takes what we go through and uses it for our good! We both needed to walk through it to know what wasn’t from God! I totally understand that mourning part! It was horrible! Thank the Lord He has delivered us and set us free in Him! He is all that we need!! 🥹❤️
A lot of kingdom spouse advice on YT sound almost exactly like the Twin Flame relationships. Praying for us all to go to God first and maintain discernment in these times 🙏🏽
That’s because it’s actually rooted in that. It’s witchcraft at the end of the day. Part of the clue in is that it plays on the violation of another’s free will which Jesus does not do. How could He properly judge us if He violates our free wills. Yes, He can intervene and such but God gave us free will. With that, at a base level, why would one want to be with someone who’s clearly ignoring them and snubbing them off? That’s another clue in as a well. I’d want to be with someone who acknowledges my presence and wants me around. But yeah, totally agree.
Your story sounds so much like mines. I remember one time reaching out to you because I felt like this “man” was my husband. I had dreams and visions, and a lot of supernatural things would happen, but that was NOT my husband. He ghosted me constantly, and had other women 🥴 honestly it’s embarrassing to even talk about that. Waited for two years as well. Finally decided to let go and, and then I met my now husband, we eloped a year after dating. Happily married 🥰
It just goes to show you that we may have gone through it but God took us out of it and still led us into a marriage! He works all things for our GOOD!! - Romans 8:28💕
Dear @Yamisbel you say you had dreams, visions and supernatural events that was your KS. So who gave you the dreams and visions? Because if it was from GOD according to His word, from HOLY BIBLE, Number 23:19 "GOD is not a man to lie, nor is He a son of man ro repent (that means to change) if He said something will He not fulfill it, and what he had spoken will it not turn for good?" So what kind of dreams and vision did you recieve? What was the vision? There are 2 scenarios: 1) you heard from the Devil and it was not true. 2) you heard from GOD but you gave up because you were not willing to wait as a standerer since your KS was living in a prodigal lifestyle".
@@pat1903 I watched prophetic videos that constantly encouraged me to stay connected to a man WHO ghosted me. Later on that man moved on and God brought me my husband! No God isn’t a man that He shall lie. When we obsess over marriage and a person, it becomes an idol (red flag right there which I should’ve known better) and this man was NOT interested. It’s clear as day. A man of God will PURSUE. Once I healed from that situation, the Lord then put me in a Godly marriage, the one He promised! Marriage still stands when you’re willing to give up your own way of it! God bless you!
@@beamyourlight Wow this sounds like my story. I’m so scared that who I have believing and standing for is not my husband. I have been fasting and praying for four years and praying for deliverance over him. Nothing has happened and I just feel stressed and overwhelmed. I listen to so many kingdom, marriage videos and it has definitely become an idol. This man has ghosted me and shown no interest at all. I had prayed for something specific and he now lives only 30 minutes away and I thought that was a confirmation from God but now I’m guessing that was just more confusion the enemy sent my way but why? Why would God allow that?! God sent me back home and sent him here so I thought wow God that could only be you. 🥹 Now I feel so disheartened.
I just got out of a relationship with someone I thought was my husband foe 5 years now I think. I fought for him I thought he was a prodigal. Turns out he was a narcissist with demons all over him. Cheating lying and using other people against me. God is showing me why he allowed this. It's all to take in. Healing and God time now. One day when it's God's time he will send me the love I deserve. ❤
Yes He will and that man will pursue you and love you like Christ loves you even through highs and lows! Sending nothing but hugs over to you today! God bless you ❤
I have gone through this same thing except that I waited for the person for 6 years😂. I didn't know what to do with myself but God came to the rescue. I'm not married though but I'm out of all that. I thank God for this and thank you too!
@@sophies6957 WOW!! Praise the Lord! I believe the Lord is wanting to set many of His daughters and sons free from deception to the wrong spouse!! He’s in the neighborhood to bless with Godly marriages! Thank you for sharing sis!! God bless you! ❤️🔥🕊️
Yup, I went through the same thing. I liked this guy for the past 6 years. We go to the same church, I am moving on, it is a bit hard. BUT, God is helping me. I don't feel so confused anymore, I feel at peace about it. I pray my feelings for him completely go away with time.
The #kingdomspouse movement was such a deception. Ofc the Lord has ordain husbands/wives for his children but the enemy is using this concept to discourage ppl with sorrow and to make idols in ppl’s heart. I def went thru something similar. Held on for about 6 months. Fast forward, God sent a prophet to speak to me about the deception and pride I had in my heart.
Gorlll yes!! You hit the nail on the head! It’s a deception and not ordained by God! God doesn’t bring confusion so that’s how I knew I was deceived! Two months after I received deliverance and healing I met my husband! So it’s all about letting God lead our lives and not watching every prophetic word! ❤
The KS movement is a deception for those who did not hear from GOD, not for those who heard it from GOD. GOD has brought KS together for marriage and for His KS assignement. KS journey is true, and it's ordained by GOD, but only for those GOD has spoken.
Did you check with God before saying the kingdom spouse movement is a deception. No you didn’t. Because he would’ve told you. Coming on here to say kingdom spouses are a deception just because YOU heard wrong & took a word that was not yours is not it. We have to take accountability don’t try put doubt into those actually called for kingdom marriage who those words are ACTUALLY for just because they weren’t for you.
I thought this guy was my husband too I genuinely believed it. I even told him we are going to get married. I used to wonder if he was my husband why wasn’t he pursuing me, why was he doing XYZ. I had a spiritually discerned person telling me “this guy may look like your husband but he isn’t your husband. He may have traits etc”. I also had someone in my ear throwing me off telling me this is your husband xyz, I had to cut this person off bc it was the enemy throwing me off from what God does have for me.I asked God if he isn’t for me remove my feelings from him. Let him fade away And he did the next few days the guy was gone.
This sounds exactly like my own story. Was ghosted for almost 3 years till I discovered the person got married. But these kingdom spouse videos gave me false hope until I discovered he had married. Was so hurt and broken but I felt kinda relieved too. I think that was the closure I needed because I was ghosted, as he never communicated at all. I know God Almighty will send my own husband
You described a limerant experience. Fantasy relationship with someone who barely knows you're alive. It's a psychological phenomenon that tends to happen to people who were abused as children. CPTSD in adulthood looks like failure to form real evidence based relationships and leaning heavily into fantasy to feel that internal dopamine rush without external provocation. It's like emotional masturbation. Feeling loved by something that isn't real, because traumatized adults tend to not know what it means to receive it from a real person and thus have this idea of perfection in another person. I believe twin flames, kingdom spouses are real... but the counterfeit is easy to spot. The person you wish it were, due to intense physical attraction and mysterious nature, unknowable and on a pedestal without seeing their flaws. That isn't real. But the real one, is someone whose flaws you see, but you also see their goodness and their improvement, and have the desire to grow together with faith of overcoming any obstacle. Counterfeit loves tend to break once you find out compelling evidence that they aren't what you thought they were. I waited 3 years for mine and he always made me a side chick, and chose not one, not two, but three girlfriends within three years that weren't me. Tired of that side chick energy. A real one might or might not be ready, but they'd make sure you were the primary relationship and that their love confessions and demonstrations were evident. I know religious dogma helps many, but it isn't necessary to bring God into physical and mental ailments. Even athiests find love... and have these problems. Therapy with trained professionals could probably do more than church at addressing these psychological setbacks that have people confused about how their brain is firing certain chemicals in the presence of someone who is totally wrong for them. Abused children become attracted to neglectful and abusive adults, playing out their parental wounds in matches they seek.
Kingdom spouses are on the same boat as twin flames and both ideals need to stop. They both lead people into delusion, deception, and loss of faith. I dabbled with both ideals for 8 years and I lost time I can never get back and when I think about it I feel so ashamed. However, I didn’t know how much I needed to heal (from childhood trauma, trauma at that time, anxiety) so I was walking around thinking God forgot about me. He didn’t forget. I wasn’t ready then.
That’s alright, I’ve been really dumb in character and made poor emotional choices before and probably still am in some ways. I was super obsessed with one guy who I thought would end up with me for nearly 3 years, all the while he wasn’t actually showing up as my kingdom spouse. I’m finally with my husband and I couldn’t be more grateful to God for calling me out on my immaturity and impatience.
I’m a 19 year old man and I’m starting to talk to women (online) and a little bit in person. But pray for me that God will clear the confusion and that he’ll separate those who aren’t for me. I want my first love to be my forever love. I just don’t want to get in relationship with the wrong women as I’m new to dating. Can your husband maybe do a video of him sharing his testimony on the counterfeit experiences for us men? Us men need guidance too, so that we know who our wife is or if we should marry the women we’re dating. Maybe do a video titled “how to know if this women is the women you should marry according to God” something like that?
I went through deception and prayed for 1 year over someone I thought was my husband. It was a hard, sad and lonely process. But at the same time God used this to transform me. Because I was pride and idolized marriage, I wasn’t ready for a serious relationship that God has for me, I wasn’t ready for my purpose. I wasn’t truly in Love with God, I didn’t put HIM first in my life… 🥺🙏🏾. Now I am totally healed, in peace with God, and I am getting prepared for the purpose God has for my life. I am just loving God in my singleness 🥰🙏🏾🔐
@@michellei7951 1- I had to repent from my sin of Idolatry. 2- Put God first in your life knowing that even if you don’t marry that person, God is still for you. Pursue God more than you pursue a marriage or a relationship. 3- Find your purpose. What God wants for your life right now?? Is it serving at church? Is it going to college and focusing on a career?! Find it out 4- Enjoy your singleness! Use it to serve God, your family, your friends. Go on a trip. Have fun in a Godly way❤️ 5- And wait Patiently. If God has a relationship for you. He will bring it in the right moment. Just have faith and wait. Hope this helps. I am praying for you 🙏🏾
😢😢 Im in tears. I met this Guy 2 years ago through a mutual friend, i was so sure he was my husband as everythinh pointed to him including my dreams. Its been 2 years and i decided in January to say hi so about 2 weeks ago we were catching up. I held on for 2 years, i prayed about it and went about life that i even travelled and moved to the UK and only to find out 2 weeks ago that he got engaged. Its still a fresh wound. watching your testiomony is Gods way of telling me that im not alone and i will be okay. yes the heart is deceiving. thank you for sharing.
I'm not one to comment really, but I always knew there was something off about the whole kingdom spouse thing happening with prophets on youtube. I just recently came back to your channel maybe 2 days ago after years and saw that you were married and I remember thinking to myself, "did she really get married to that kingdom spouse she mentioned back then?". I had pulled myself out of the whole kingdom spouse trend after I met my ACTUAL husband (we're in a very loving relationship for a year and some change now! :)) and the Holy Spirit had given me revelation that these people are being deceived and idolizing the idea of love and marriage over God. It's interesting that right when I come back to your channel, you talk about this. I'm glad the Holy Spirit led you (and I) to the truth ultimately and gave you an awesome testimony to share with the world to save others as well! God bless you, and I pray for happiness in your marriage to glorify God, and I hope this testimony reaches who it needs to reach in Jesus name. Love you sister!
Yes! So grateful that you got out of that deception yourself! It’s crazy when your eyes are opened to God’s truth! God bless you!! Thank you for sharing and sharing your encouragement! 🙏🏽❤️
Wow! This is an amazing testimony! I was believing God for one specific person and whenever I would pray and fast for marriage, he would come back around. I "waited" for a year, and still tried to date and talk to other people, but in my mind I was wondering if he was it. This year, God answered my prayer about us. He wrote me a long message letting me know he wasn't ready to take that next step forward, so now I am continuing in my faith and belief for a special relationship. In the meantime, I am healing and walking in my assignment for this season! I also stand in agreement with you about not worrying about how it will happen and how God will do it.
@@MAR24300 Yes, that is possible but I am not going to hold my breath. I don't believe in the one and I believe God can bring another prospect on my path at any moment who might be more equally yolked to me. For now, I will grow in Christ and wait patiently.
@@silentlyflourish yes I agree. I am going through the same thing. I have had to continue to live my life and grow and focus on other things. Do not put your life on hold.
I recently went thru the same. I was so obsessed with this man praying and hoping it would be an us because I loved him so much. I think it steamed from being in a marriage were I was cheated on and him getting a woman pregnant and never really getting real love from a man, being molested, and just used and manipulated by men. I wanted to feel valued worthy and loved. This dude made me feel love I never experienced so I just knew he had to be a God sent. It was 3 years for me. I had to pray and ask Hodge to help me get over him because I didn’t want to put nobody before him. I don’t want to idolize anyone. So I’m still healing and I had to stop back up off of YT for a minute because I kept feeling like I was being decieved with all these “KS prophecies”. So it’s just me and God right now. His will and purpose for my life.
Thank you for this testimony. I have been under this deception for 7 months and it is definitely a soul tie. It has been confusing and hellish at times. I think you are correct. I’ve almost exclusively received negative emotions from this man. I need peace.
May the Lord restore your spirit and give you His peace that surpasses your own understanding! I pray for a refreshing joy from the Lord over you today in Jesus name! God bless you!! ❤
Awesome that you shared this! The Bible says the heart is deceptive sis… the enemy is a schemer. As women and men waiting on God for marriage; we have to literally guard our hearts, eyes, ears and minds from our own desires, fantasies and obsessions. Our minds also operate on confirmation bias. I know lots of ppl, myself included, who’ve experienced this and many had nothing to do with prophetic words and the like. Literally, just lack of discernment and delusion based on desire. It’s really about surrender. Whether you believe God brings you a person or gives you wisdom to choose, it goes back to surrender.
Wow this is really something I needed to hear. I’m going through something similar right now and I’m in that crushing season and I believe God will bring a testimony out of my story too! Thank you so much ❤
Those dreams sound soo familiar. I had someone close to me and I thought they were the person. I would dream about them but they will always be “out of reach”. They would always be close but just never available. In 2022 we met after many years of not seeing each other and tlking on the phone and oh boy did things went sooo wrong. After they returned to their country it was on and off and then last year he told me that he found someone … I was soo heartbroken. But I know what God has for me will not pass me by. Thanks for sharing. ❤
It’s so good to be able to admit our own shortcomings in deception and how Godly sorrow brings us to repentance! The glory is His and they will be disciplined for their seduction!
found myself in the same situation thanks to God i’m set free. thank you for speaking on this topic because i thought it was me alone thought it was deceptive. always go to God first before you go to man. trust God and wait upon him and his timing but at the same time seek ye the kingdom of God first and everything else shall be added unto you.
Just reading through these comments it blows my mind on how this is so common amongst alot of women before meeting their kingdom spouse. I too went through a similar situation as this and I’m so glad that God delivered me and so many of us from the counterfeit. I waited a while too and nothing happened and kinda had confusion about it but I’ve been seeing how God used that situation to help me to learn how to be a wife for the person He has for me!! . He works all things together 🩷 thank you for this video!
GREAT TESTIMONY on how God DOES work for the GOOD of those Who LOVES Him! We've got VERY similar stories. After a Marriage of 32 yrs and being a Pastor for longer than that, She walked away and I said at one point in desperation after that, “God, is this what I can expect for the rest of My Life?” 1) - If Someone walks away from Your Life, let Them GO! They weren’t meant to go into where God wants You to go. What GOD joins Together, NOBODY, not even You, can tear apart. For Me, I went in ultra-depression to the point I wanted “out”. God saved Me on an operating table when I said a One Word Prayer (ask Me about that sometime…). Two yrs after that, I asked God to reveal to Me Who He REALLY is - I mean right down to the nuts and bolts of it. He did BIGTIME! I thought I knew Him. I didn’t - not like I do now! Then He did this ‘thing” where He reversed the question and TOLD Me Who I am. Who HE sees as Me. To this Day and probably until I die, I might not see that as HE does, but I’m getting there. Then I asked a BIG question that I wasn’t prepared for. When the divorce went thru, I said, “I will NEVER EVER get Married again. Way too much pain.” But when I asked this One Question, My entire Life changed. I asked, “God, what Is Love? I mean, what is REAL LOVE?” And He answered that He had already answered that when He told Me WHO HE IS. Then He led Me to the Book of Hosea. You don’t hear much about Hosea. God told Hosea to Marry a prostitute, and He did. She cheated again and again, but He constantly took Her back. Eventually, bound on a post as a slave, Hosea was FORCED to “buy Her back”. She was already His Wife (no divorce - even when EVERYONE said She was a hoe), but He had to PAY for Her. You don’t hear anything about those two after that in that Story, but what that REALLY is is a Story of God and Us and how HE paid for Us through Jesus. THAT’S REAL LOVE. REAL UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. And suddenly, the Desire to Marry again felt on not just My Heart, but on My Mind, My Spirit, and even on My actions. Ever since, I’ve been writing “My Future Wife” letters - Love Letters - letting Her in on what’s happening in My Life and how the Man that She is going to Marry One Day (Me) ended up being the Man that will stand before God AND Her One Day at an altar and why He ended up with Her. 2) Words MATTER! Speak to the THING You’re going to! If God said You’re going to do something, then do it! Don’t fret because God is WITH You in the meantime and He will NEVER lead You astray. As of this Day, I have NO idea Who “She” is, but there’s something I did right after studying Hosea. 3) God DOES have a Plan AND a Purpose for Your Life. ASSIGNMENT. I choose because of what I want but GOD Chooses because of what We need. So in short, I told God, “Lord, you know what I like, but YOU only know what I need. YOU choose. And even if You don’t and I am single for the rest of My Days, You Lord are enough.” And I let it go after that. I KNOW deep down inside that One Day I WILL Marry the Greatest Woman on the planet for Me so I PREPARE. 4) Get ready for what God told You! Stop sitting around and GET READY FOR IT because it IS coming. Isaiah 60:22. So I guess at this point My Testimony of the last 12 Yrs is STILL in the making. Some might say I’m waiting for nothing b/c it would be here by now. Let Me say a Name - Caleb. He was 40 when Joshua and He saw the Promised Land, but 85 when He FINALLY entered. Caleb never gave up on The Dream. God definitely gave Me A Dream (and yes I DID have a specific Dream about Meeting and Marrying My Wife). I don’t have a Dream - that Dream has ME! THANK YOU, JESUS! More to come…and I'm only 63.
Wow! This is so beautiful! 🙏🏽🥹 I love how the Lord spoke to you and continues to speak to you and reminding you that His promise STILL stands! Praise the Lord! 😭🙌🏽 thank you for sharing!!
Brother, thank you for sharing this. I've been waiting for my man of God for 28 years. He is surely coming, because God said so. God has a specific purpose for our marriage, and I believe many souls will come into the kingdom because of it. My husband is waiting for me too, and his wife is an intercessor for the Lord!!
You are so brave and a truth speaker. Thank you for letting TMH to use you and set myself and many other sister free from this delusional bondage. Thank you❤️So grateful to be redeemed from a counterfeit life not even just relationships
Yes! It’s in every area of our lives we have to let God lead! Any time we are consumed with marriage and spouses to the point where it’s all we care about..we are making an idol of these things! We must allow God to expose our hearts and have us to surrender our wants and desires to His perfect will! I see many being deceived and it’s just knowing the truth! God bless you sis! Praying for the Lord to continue leading you and using you in Jesus name! 🙏🏽❤️
Thank you SO much for sharing this!!!! Such a similar testimony in this for me too. I think many of us have dealt with that after the whole “kingdom spouse” thing. I was in such a mourning also when it was revealed to me. I also waited close to 2 years. But thank God for the truth because that sets us free. ❤️ the deception and confusion was so heavy at that time for me too!! Thank you, Jeannette!!! God bless you and Andrew ❤️
It was HEAVY! Yup I went through that also! Thank the Lord for redeeming His children! So happy you have been healed as well! God bless you sweet sister ❤
Thank you for sharing this sis, what an amazing testimony! 💕 I feel like this message is exactly what I needed to hear and perfect timing. I went through a similar situation recently, where I thought for sure that person was my husband but was deceived and ghosted. It was a blessing in disguise now looking back but goes to show that being led by the Holy Spirit and not our own feelings is so important! I had noticed something’s that sparked red flags, so I prayed to God to take this person out of my life if they’re not for me and literally the next day, he started to ghost me. I knew right then and there, it was God protecting me. Even though it hurt, I was relieved. It’s taking time to heal, but I know God has something greater in store 🙏🏼 I thank God for you and for being vulnerable to share your testimony, I know your message will touch many people. I pray blessings over you and your husband and everyone in this chat in Jesus name 🙏🏼❤️💕
And you hit it perfectly. Faith is not based on fear or feelings, but on the fact of God’s faithfulness to himself such a powerful revelation if you can receive that thank God that both you and I did in that season of deception because I too have been there. Thank you for sharing.
This video is an answered prayer for me! My story is very very similar to this. There’s a whole lot to unpack and hopefully one day I will be able to share my testimony. This video is such a blessing & made me cry because I’m feeling so many things at once. Thank you Jeanette for your obedience in sharing this even when it was hard to do!! I can’t even express with enough words how grateful I am for this video
Wow the day you uploaded this was the day I went through a turning point of thinking this guy was my husband. I was convinced that he was my husband because of a dream and that dream kept me blinded. Then an apostle gave me a word of letting him go. A month later, I came across something that had confirmed to me that the apostle was right about letting him go.And called it quits. God is GREAT PRAISE JESUS✨❤️🔥
If the dreams were showing you that you’re looking for your spouse and he is nowhere to be found then that’s a clear message there! 😳 These dreams weren’t deceptive but they were showing you the truth which is that there is no kingdom spouse there where you were looking. In other words whoever you thought was your KS wasn’t. Very clear message from such dreams.
In other words I must say it is us, our own selves who deceive us. Not the fake prophets on social media.. it’s not the kingdom spouse movement that deceived us. It is us. That’s why you’re right in saying that we have to surrender our emotions to God and let Him take over in every level.
When you really want something, it’s hard to hear otherwise. Plus if you have ppl around you and are listening to KS messages that describe your exact situation, it further keeps you in hold
When you are in something, it’s hard to see things. Just because it Is clear to you doesn’t mean it was clear to her. She was blind because she wanted something bad. Deception is real . I’m glad she is telling her testimony.
I have just been set free from someone I had thought was my husband too. I was waiting since 2020 smh. I just want what GOD has for me too that's all. Thanks for this video ❤❤❤
I’m having the same issue. I dream about him like every other month but he’s already gave me signs that he’s not interested in me and told me so. Yet idk why he still keeps up with me on social media or why I dream of him. He has a lot of maturing to do. I’m letting go at this point. If he has a change of heart in the future then maybe it can happen. Leaving it to God finally.
I had this same problem but once I fully let go this man and recentered myself in Christ follow by fasting and soaking up Gods word the dreams with him stopped. Also getting prayer from elders or other sister/brothers in Christ helped ALOT it’s hard to do it on your own❤
I wasn't even feeling the need for a spouse which was the craziest part. Yes I noticed him for three years we spoke but not much not knowing I would get caught up to what it is now. Today I see how vulnerable I was from healing from having not such a great dad who I know see as a hot mess distant cousin who made two decisions (getting married and having kids) too young in their twenties. I see my mom in that light too and it has helped a lot with the understanding and forgiveness. As I write this, I remember the progress that I made in the healing. God is my True Parent. But, Here's a twist. Eli was replaced by Samuel even though it happened when he died. But King Saul was replaced by King David oh boy he wasn't happy about it at all and very very jealous. Very interesting isn't it? Both for disobedience of the Lord. There were two outcomes depending on which Saul they chose to be. The other was Saul to Paul. It's not looking good. God does not need to test us for our obedience for Himself because He already knows we will or won't like Peter denying Jesus but He tests us for ourselves so we know He can trust us with His commands regarding a spouse or anything then, now, and in the future. This is what I take from this. Ultimately it is up to God and we will know. Thank You Jesus! ✝️
So encouraging and relatable. “breaking up with someone I was never in a relationship with” especially. Thank you for being a vessel for God to shine His light! Praise the Lord!❤️
Hi! Thank you for your testimony, it's so powerful, and i was really need to hear that, right now!! Because i'm going through the similar story, I'm waiting for the man, that i though, should be my husband. And i waiting, and we didn't talking too for a few month. And two days ago i prayed for my situation, and i accidentally came acrossthis video, and it was my answer! I prayed as you said, to allow God to show me is he the one, or not, should i keep waiting or move forward. And today, this morning i saw the photo in social media, where i saw him with a girl. and it was so hard to see that, but i know it was the aswer from God. Thank you so much for this video, your testimony. And if it's okay, could you please pray for me, I'm heartbreaking now. Thank you!
Thank you for sharing your story! I also fasted and prayed for marriage and after a while I got the same Bible verse through my Bible study app, for 6 days consecutively. It was Ezra 8:23 'so we fasted and implored our God for this, and He listened to our entreaty'. I don't know if this counts as a promise, but this is how I understand it. I trust God for sending me a good husband.
Thank you for sharing this. I won't lie: my pride hates that I deceived myself. I've been feeling so ashamed about mishearing God in this. But thank God for His grace and His patience with me ❤️ Hearing your testimony really cleared up so many of the questions I've been having about this situation. I realise now that I also had many dreams where God had spoken to me and I had completely ignored anything that didn’t fit the narrative I had created in my mind. Also if your spiritual counsel is saying this isn't a good fit - listen! Now I see that I was anxious and confused for most of that season. You are so right that when something is from God, that you will feel clarity and peace. Thank you again for sharing ❤
I just ended a engagement due to this kinna stuff, I was headed down the wrong path with the wrong person, the amount of pain and loss due to pursuing the wrong person is very painful causing a ton of problems and i started deteriorating spiritually believing so much junk that wasn’t God’s will at all, and in the end it all fell apart, so I’m back to square one once again starting all over again
I went thru a similar experience with a lady I waited for four years. The Lord told me to break it off. I obeyed. I completely let go of trying to find a wife. If God wants me to have a wife I asked Him to send the Woman He chooses. I want a Proverbs 31 Woman. And if It never happens that’s ok . I had to learn the hard way. I’m divorced three times because I did not listen to God.😢
OMG wow God recently awakened the desire of marriage in me. The Holy Spirit keeps telling me to pray for my husband. The closer we get to get the more we get to hear and see the Holy Spirit moving in our lives. Let us be careful and always pray for discernment so that we do not end up being unequally yoked. I will marry once and right in The Name of The Father The Son and The Holy Spirit 🙏🏾
Beautiful testimony. God bless that guy for giving you closure and apologizing for creating the soul ties with you. And God bless you and your husband. Congrats on your marriage.
Wow! I had not visited your channel for a couple of years. I had gotten a little caught up with too many voices and honestly was questioning the KS movement. The other day you popped up in my mind but I couldn't remember your name. THIS video popped up on my timeline with a message so confirming! Thanks for sharing your testimony and congrats on your marriage!
Thank you for sharing! God bless you because no one else has coming out and saying this. I literally sharing this with a friend that I felt so deceived. It hurts but I am definitely thankful that I am growing in the Lord.
Jeanette!! Thanks for sharing this. I can relate to those dreams! Calling out his name and searching everywhere for him. I’m still undergoing this journey and I’ve surrendered and been at peace. 🩷 Powerful testimony and proof of God’s faithfulness.
❤thank you so very much!! You sound like me but I’m the very beginning stages of what you went thru Your testimony saved me months or years of waiting for who I think NOW is not the right person Blessings
God always answers prayers about if someone is the one or not, very quickly. Sometimes we dont listen. I finally let go after a series of 4 dreams. 2 of them were of him coming to visit me, but we never spent time together. That was confirmation because the guy was wooing me and flattering me. But God knows best.
Thank you for your transparency that can help so many of us! 🙌 what I took away from this is I need to start praying for god to show me who the one is for me by showing me their fruit which is biblical. Also it makes me feel better about “wasted time”. Thank you for being honest about how deceiving prophecies can be if they aren’t real or for you and to always check with God. Maybe I didn’t wait on someone 2 years without talking but I have held on to something I needed to let go of because of living in fantasy and not reality of what they person offered me .. I kept focusing on what I wanted and ignoring what was. Thank you again for being such a genuine person and making yourself vulnerable to help others.
Thank you so much for having the courage to share this story! It’s setting so many people free❤ It confirmed a lot the Lord has been revealing to me regarding falling into deception & delusion. Thank you for these prayer points. Congratulations on receiving your promise 🥹❤️ God bless you!
Seriously cant thank you enough for sharing. The Lord confronted me through His word about holding onto this particular delusion. Man did it hurt but it is so freeing. Holding onto this delusion had me bound to the spirit of rejection and much more this is not our portion. 1-9-24 I was set free thank you Jesus Christ ❤
Before it all we MUST have a DEFINATE PROMISE FROM GOD and it MUST BE CONFIRMED through the Word OVER AND OVER again....not All dreams are from God...we NEED DISCERNMENT ...these K s marriages will ONLY UNDERLINE what God has ALREADY SHOWN US...we MUST be led by THE HOLY SPIRIT,NOT OUR EMOTIONS!!!
I would watch kingdom spouse videos for monthsss and was expecting my ex to come back , after what felt like MANY confirmations through videos , numbers in the strong concordances , and dreams I still had so much confusion .. I told the Lord to release me in October 23' if I was carrying a false mantle .. and that same exact week I met my actual God ordained spouse , I am now married and live in a big house with him all within 4 months ! What God has is so much better than what you can ask , think , or imagine !!
I think God can allow something like that to happen for a good reason. I don't think there are really “counterfeits,” probably good people, just that some things aren't God's will or not His timing. In a way brought you closer to God and prepared you for your marriage now. God bless you and your husband
My counterfeit was just that. He pretended to be a Christian. Pretended to love me. Pretended to want marriage. He was a lying narc. A witch. For real! Thank God I realized he was manipulating me. However, the experience made me grow and kept me chaste. No dating sites or messing around.
The devil definitely sent me a counterfiet. Signs and wonders too. Seriously held me back so much put suicidal spirit on me. There's demons in him and the devil used him. They exists maybe not everyone has to deal with them. But I fell into the trap. God got me out though praise God
I dealt with a demonic counterfeit. A whole warlock, giving me breadcrumbs, someone who was fully possessed by the devil. It was traumatising. Some of them are actually used by the enemy.
If someone isn’t led by God, they’re led by the enemy. The enemy will use counterfeits to get you to partake in sin (false idols, sex, depression, etc) and to throw people off their God given path. Counterfeits are use to keep people in generational traumas and bondage usually being operated by “familiar spirits”. Check out “Covered by God, year of the bride fast” by Tiphani
Good I watched this because someone who I really desired ghosted Me as well. I’m praying for God to remove this desire of mines. So I can be set free from holding on. It is a recent experience but I know I want to let go and I pray about it. Some days are better than others, I have been watching KS videos too but I recently felt I gotta stop watching this cuz God will lead me and my husband to each other on the lords timing not mines.
Awesome testimony and great confirmation for me. We do not lose anything when we move on as God instructs because his perfect plan is always bigger and better than what we can ask for or imagine. With him we always come out winners. Be encouraged!
If God wants you with someone .Both of you will get the same message, will be both at the same page and the person will not reject you. Same over here: In all of my dreams he ran away that should have been sign
this!!! There’s no confusion when a man of God spots His rib!! He is going to pursue and a daughter in Christ is already made a bride In Jesus!! The courting into marriage will often times happen very quickly because of it! Thank you for sharing!! ❤
I know quite a few sisters whose husband's got cold feet. They were in a relationship, he got fearful and left . Then he heard from God & returned. This is common. Someone gets fearful of the commitment. God eventually settles the matter.
I like this video for so many reasons. #1 is that you reiterate that we must ask God. In my humble opinion, the KS movement was confusing, BUT it caused me to pray more than ever and seek God first like never before. It sharpened my discernment and it reminded me to never idolize anything or anyone. Jesus IS the answer to every question by way of Holy Spirit courtesy of our Father in Heaven. Thank you Sister for your courage and love. 🙏🏽🥰
Thank you very much for being very transparent and sharing your testimony. It takes obedience, courage, and strength from the Lord to do so. Your testimony really resonated with me and it is also very timely. Before watching your video today, I was thinking and saying to myself “Lord all I need is what you need for me”. As He ultimately knows what is best for me in the long run. Surrendering all burdens and emotions unto the Lord is key and it is a daily practice. Our emotions can get us caught up in wanting to hold onto desires we think we need but will not serve us at all or bring to pass His will and purpose for our lives. It’s very real when the Lord says we must mediate on His word day and night (Joshua 1:8) Also to pray without ceasing. (1 Thessalonians 5:17) When doing this it really allows us to push past our own emotions, to have discernment, to be able to hear Him and in turn be obedient to what we have heard from Him. May the Lord continue to guide and use you as a vessel. God bless you Jeannette! 🙏❤️
thank you so much your video was my closure, i already suspected this i just needed someone to confirm it for me, i was previously in a twin flame journey deception and this kingdom spouse felt similar altho not toxic like the twin flame there is a lot of ghosting and mixed signals, thank you for setting me free with your testimony
I was deceived big time and I had multiple confirmations from what I thought was the Lord. Every time I tried to walk away, the deception would get stronger and I ended up thinking this has to be from God. I was waiting on this man even though after the main pastor set us up and this man ghosted me. I felt unloved and unworthy so much that the man God chose for me doesn’t even want to know me in any way. I waited for this man 20 months and I was finally free of it in December. I feel discouraged and my hope for marriage deferred. I wonder if there is even a marriage promise from the Lord at all and it was all from the enemy. I’m a 36 year old woman without any prospects in sight. I think that I will never get married and have a beautiful life at this point. My only hope is that the Lord takes me home early, that would be the only mercy he could give at this point. I am glad that God came through for you and gave you a husband. Blessings on your marriage and may God use it abundantly and get the glory.
I wasn't even feeling the need for a spouse which was the craziest part. Yes I noticed him for three years we spoke but not much not knowing I would get caught up to what it is now. Today I see how vulnerable I was from healing from having not such a great dad who I know see as a hot mess distant cousin who made two decisions (getting married and having kids) too young in their twenties. I see my mom in that light too and it has helped a lot with the understanding and forgiveness. As I write this, I remember the progress that I made in the healing. God is my True Parent. But, Here's a twist. Eli was replaced by Samuel even though it happened when he died. But King Saul was replaced by King David oh boy he wasn't happy about it at all and very very jealous. Very interesting isn't it? Both for disobedience of the Lord. There were two outcomes depending on which Saul they chose to be. The other was Saul to Paul. It's not looking good. God does not need to test us for our obedience for Himself because He already knows we will or won't like Peter denying Jesus but He tests us for ourselves so we know He can trust us with His commands regarding a spouse or anything then, now, and in the future. This is what I take from this. Ultimately it is up to God and we will know. Thank You Jesus! ✝️
What an amazing testimony! So many men and women are going to be set free from this. Thank you for your vulnerability in sharing!
I too was in deception and God delivered me.
So ladies and gentlemen if you're confused about someone, remember God is not the author of confusion but of peace. Seek God, fast and lay the person on the alter. If they are yours, God will raise them back up. If not, you just saved yourself a lifetime of pain.
Oh! And check their fruit. If they are an unbeliever and don't have the fruit of Christ, they are not it! The bible says we are not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers. Test whatever you are believing with the word of God. If it doesn't measure up, toss it!
Also both will get the same message not just one
Check their fruit.if they are unbeliever
Check their fruit.if they are unbeliever
Check their fruit.if they are unbeliever
Check their fruit.if they are unbeliever
I used to listen to all of the kingdom spouse prophecies on TH-cam and slowly started to ignore them. Holy Spirit made me realize that I was idolizing marriage through watching these consistently. I still desire marriage and a family but not in the obsessive way that I have before. Thank you for sharing your testimony ❤️
And sis, that is what I had realized once my eyes were opened! It’s always about desiring a relationship with God and letting Him prepare us and lead us as we walk out in His perfect will! Your time is coming says the Lord! Thank you for sharing! God bless you! ❤
Same
Same here... I'm in that period right now.
Wow me too
I'm supposed to hear this but you said you were set my homeless days I call it my bougie homeless but I want to get out of it too God is so good to me he created me a talented being and he told me to go sell my art for survival as well as my handmade jewelry and it has been working every single day he has come through however I'm thinking he needs me to do it a different way soon and there's somebody who I think is my person but we've been in separation for a few years I'm also reaching out with encouragement they wrote a song about me I ran away because I was afraid it was before the song that I ran away but I was just afraid of people but it was a whole summer he's such a sweet kind person however my fear allowed me to enable the excuse that it was that he insulted my casserole not going to lie it was a pretty shity casserole he didn't have the right ingredients and I was just working with what I had to try to make something and it tasted bad to be honest but I let my pride get in my way at that point and God has shown me some lessons about it I don't know if this person is my future husband however I know and I have known since I was a little girl God had me encouraged to want to be a singer or something and on top of being able to do art make handmade jewelry I feel like he wants me to make mental health wrap that glorifies God also I mean the main basis of it will be in mental health but there will be a lot of messages about putting your strength and God and challenges he's carried me through and the person I think or thought was my future husband he also does wrap and he's a Christian and he helps out in the communal aspects of the community
I will say this for the single sisters -- I recently saw a sister n christ and her husband's testimony.. they said something that will never leave me. It was an "effortless exchange" with them, the moment that they met onward. When you know, you know. Nothing will be forced. We are the Most High God's daughters. He brings surety and clarity. He has HIS very best in mind for us
😊 I've been dreaming of this... There's a feeling of security when I have the dreams as if I know I'm in good hands..I don't know who my spouse is but I woke up a few times very content and thankful to the reassurance. I pray for my spouse IF God has one for me and keep it pushing so that I can be where God wants me to be when the time is right.😊
Amen
Thank you!
Nothing will be forced it will be effortless ♥️
So in other words, if you face hardships then that person is not for you? Where in the Bible does it say if something is Godly, that makes it easy? The Apostles were flogged and even murdered. Does that mean that when they were preaching the Gospel, it was not of God because they were abused? God's wisdom brings peace, not ease.
I have been following you from the beginning! I too fell into the deception of the kingdom spouse! God had been preparing me for marriage and I thought I had to stand for an unbeliever. Y’all I stood for 3 years! This guy seemed to be in love with me but never wanted to take our relationship to the next level. I had dreams, confirmations and saw prophetic numbers the whole shebang! 😂 last May, I decided that God gives us all free will and my so called KS had the choice. I told God I couldn’t stand for this spouse anymore and closed the door! 2 weeks later y’all God sent me my real god ordained spouse! I almost missed it because I couldn’t trust myself after the first guy. I followed God one step at a time and after 4 dates my god ordained spouse proposed. Fast forward to today we got married and I’m 8 mos pregnant with our son! 🙏🏼 The deception is real!
This is beautiful to hear! Congratulations! I needed to hear this video and see your testimony!
Literally SAME!! Wow! Congratulations and praise the Lord for what He has done in your life and thank you for sharing your testimony!! ❤🎉
So many people need to know this truth!!
3 years is too long, dont ever give a man more than 18m to 2y to propose if you want to be married. thats actual game. also, if a man is not actively showing you he is trying to build with you all along the way, run...
The way the blessings of God are straightforward but distractions just keep you obsessed
Wow this story is so beautiful to hear! Congratulations on your bundle of joy and your marriage 💞🥰
Recently set free from a lie I believed for 3 years that someone was my husband. That person never had any interest in me at all, and yet I held on tightly for 3 years. But recently, God set me free from that 🙏 🙌
Amen sis!! Praise God❤️🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Yes, this type of thing is getting quite common. It's a huge deception and yet all things work together...
Amen 🙏🏾 I went through something similar few years ago. I am healed now
Thank God for your deliverance
Amen!!!
I used to teach new age and make divination videos.
The kingdom spouse movement is equivalent to the “twin flame”, “divine masculine/feminine”, karmic partner (equivalent to counterfeits) tarot/witchcraft videos. Don’t drive yourself crazy listening to these divination spirits. Looking into what someone (your “kingdom spouse”) is doing, saying, etc. is a form of divination & idolatry. Just keep chasing the Lord and what He is pruning in you. There is nothing anyone can say or do to you or your God ordained spouse that will keep them away from you. Remember, remember!
Thank you for sharing your testimony!! 💕
Well said
Amen!
My thoughts exactly about the Kingdom Spouse.
I was going to leave a comment about how similar kingdom spouses and twin flames ideals are. They are both deceptive and can do more harm than good.
Agree
More people NEED to talk about this. Mental soul ties, Emotional soul ties, Admiration soul ties/crush soul ties!!!
I agree!!!
Very true! I’m thankful that I went through a strong emotional soul tie as a teen. I never seriously dated the person, I had to literally run the opposite way and block the person in order to heal from the attachment. Now I know how to avoid those type of attachments as an adult.
Soul ties aren’t biblical love, just another “new age” theory. I’d focus on emotional attachments and bringing it back to God for healing and restoration💞
@@aaliyahsymoneeesoul ties are real and are demonic, they cause you to have an unnatural obsession with a person, it falls under the temptation and deception of Satan which is 100% biblical
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That’s key “always go back to God, but *also* look at the *fruit* of this person. I was deceived for 5 years. Remember to forgive yourselves ladies.
Very similar to divination 🤮😭 they deceive a lot
All things work for good my sis! You grew closer to God
Ladies a man that is serious about you will pursue you but also beware, there are some men that will pursue you till the end and even marry you but only want to be with you because they are lusting after you and after getting what they want they will check out of all their duties as a husband. Pray for discernment because these types of men are counterfeits that will make your walk with God harder. You want a man that wants to marry you, but a man that is pushing you and rushing you into marriage.. there’s something wrong there
I do agree!
So very true!
I also thought someone else was my husband and that I heard clearly from God. I ended up running my actual kingdom spouse out the door. Here we are 2 years later, and God brought him back, and we got married last year🙏🏽🙌🏽
Be very careful with these counterfeits. They are so close to acting as the real thing. Seek God always and wait for clear confirmations. That is how my ex came back as if we had never separated for 2 years ❤ all glory be to God🙌🏽
A counterfeit presents confusion as the real thing brings peace from God! So glad you also prayed and allowed God to expose it! God bless you!! ❤
What an amazing testimony! This proves that GOD told you the truth! GOD bless you dear Sister!💯🙏🏾
@@pat1903 Praise the Lord!! 🥹🙏🏽❤️🙌🏽
Thank you for sharing this! I love the part where you’ve seen God REDEEMED your situation, “as tho you were never separated”. PRAISE GOD🙌🏽. So happy for you !
Amen and Amen God will truly confirm his word without any doubt,patience is the key 🙏
Unpopular opinion: I have always found the "kingdom spouse" conversation to be off-putting, but I couldn't quite put my finger on it. I think these conversations make us obsessive and more anxious than at peace. I also am very wary when I hear someone say that God told them that so and so was their husband or wife. I find that we often we ignore incompatibility and wisdom under the pretense of "God told me". I have heard couples say this but unfortunately end up divorced.
Girl yes! And also I had to realize if the other person does not confirm that they are your spouse then that is one sided! God brings His peace between two people coming together! Thank you for sharing sis 🙏🏽
@@beamyourlight Praise Jesus for your obedience in delivering this message!
It reminds me of a few years ago w/ the twin flames thing . These videos are all over my algorithm. I don’t got time
What do you mean. HEARD CLEARLY FROM GOD?? a voice? God doesn’t lie
What do you mean. HEARD CLEARLY FROM GOD?? a voice? God doesn’t lie
This is such a word, I was also deceived by words, dreams and false confirmations. I was so fixated on a man for almost 6 months (who ghosted me) as I so believed he was my kingdom spouse but God delivered me. Just remember that God doesn’t bring confusion, if you are confused then it’s most likely not from him
Amen ❤! I needed this.
I did a similar thing. I prayed regularly for someone who wasn’t even talking to me, I kept asking God for grace so we could get married. One day I got so upset because of the person’s actions and I recognized that it doesn’t make any sense.
Why am I so upset about this person who isn’t even intentional about me? The man who is my husband will be intentional about me and will pursue me. It will be peaceful and any conflict that may come will come from outside and not from within.
I asked God to harden my heart towards the person and He certainly did. I spent a lot of time with them so I miss them, but I won’t go back.
I’ve started to spend my time doing other things and growing in the Lord. I will just continue to wait.
I am happy that the Lord taught me that sometimes the enemy will send a counterfeit in the form of a Christian. That a counterfeit can not only be a non-believer, but a believer who is just not for you, even if they are a good person in general. Blessings, dear
Wow! My testimony is so similar! I thought this dude was my kingdom spouse and I prayed for him and even had dreams . Be careful because the devil can trick you very good and make sure your discernment is on point! I am a living testimony trust me I know!❤😂
Yes that is true friend! Then before you know it we’re thinking the decisions we’re making are from God and it doesn’t even make sense. God is just watching like 🤦🏽♀️…God bless you!
@@beamyourlight LOL! YES! It brought confusion, doubt, depression, and others things that are NOT OF GOD! Please DON'T ignore the red flags and signs! Please don't make excuses! Let go and let GOD! When you let go of what is toxic, GOD will bring in what is pure and true! I'm still in my waiting season, but I know that GOD will come thru and bring me what is rightfully mine!💖✨️ What is for you , will FIND YOU! DON'T GO LOOKING. SIT IN GOD'S PRESENCE AND STAY IN HIS WORD! AND IN DUE TIMING GOD WILL MAKE IT HAPPEN! HE THAT FINDS A WIFE FINDS A GOOD THING! LET YOUR HUSBAND PURSUE YOU! NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND‼️💯❤️🔥
Same 😅
Did you have dreams confirming that he was your husband or was the dream showing that he isn’t your husband?
@@kingLifeWin Confirming dreams. So becareful because the devil can deceive u with dreams as well.. But God also gave dreams too. They were warning dreams. But I went with my spirit (holy spirit) and I felt something wasn't right, because I never had peace and I was always anxious when I believed this person was my KS. I know God is the prince of peace and he is not a God of confusion, so I knew this was sent from the devil.
We are called to advance the Kingdom, not add confusion to it.
I pray that anybody that may stumble upon this video is not discouraged by it. I pray that you continue to seek God for guidance and not man because at times our pride gets in the way.
If God has shown you something no matter how long it takes, stand on that promise. If you need extra evidence, pray, fast, ask God and I promise you He will answer. Do not doubt the answers you receive.
Write everything down and look back at it in those moments you get discouraged!
At times we get discouraged because things aren’t happening how we imagined or in the time we had hoped but Gods thoughts are not ours. Focus on what He has in front of you and don’t get caught up in the how. Surrender and let Him do what He does best.
”For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.“
Jeremiah 29:11 KJV
Thank you
Thank you because I prayed and fasted for 21 days for confirmation if this guy was my husband and he delivered !! So I will stand on that promise because I know what God told me and showed me
@@harmoni_symone3601 Amen! I am happy for you. God is not a man that He should lie and He will never forsake us.
God is doing a new thing in this generation and we will reap the reward if we FAINT NOT💜
Advance the kingdom is code for make the church bigger and stronger, its not really about God. Its a political strategy from the 80s created by conservatives to use religion to gain more voters for political power. its totally fine to live a quiet life, go to church, read you bible and raise your family everyone does not have to concern themselves with all of that . that's why the church is such a mess, people are being fooled into believing they are more important and have callings they don't have simply to increase numbers.
Amen
Thank you for sharing. I never heard of the kingdom spouse until I got on TH-cam. And many of those kingdom messages are keeping people in bondage and intertwined with counterfeits.
Yes yes yes! I pray they are set free and living fully for Christ! God bless you! ❤
Also, praying and fasting for your future husband. This is akin to casting spells. I just watched your latest video! 😁
A man who really wants you, he will pursue you period. Its old school but it pretty much still stands to this day.
True but not every man that pursues us is good. We need discernment
Thank you for sharing. As far as KS is concern, I am hearing God for myself. I got tired with all the YT KS prophecies. The Holy Spirit is my guide and there won't be any confusion.
Thank you
Praise the Lord!
Right!! This is what everyone should do!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
This is a powerful share! Thank you for sharing. I started listening to your channel back in 2021 and that’s when I had left an ex purposely to turn back to God. I ended up joining a group that emphasized on getting married to kingdom spouses and had some insane expectations for the marriages lol. Suffice to say, after less than 2 years of being in that group, I met someone, totally not what I had pictured in my mind, I allowed him to court me, ended up breaking up with him cause the group leader said he wasn’t for me and when God dismantled the group, I got my senses back and asked the guy for forgiveness and a second chance. We got married last summer and me, who even through my wildest of years never got pregnant, became pregnant literally one month into being married 😭. I’m currently 7.5 months preggers and I’m in so much awe of how God has moved through my life regardless of the crazy journey it took to get here. The biggest secret is to get close to Jesus and He will guide you even when you can’t tell He is guiding you. To God be all the glory 🎉
Amen, what a beautiful testimony
Wow praise God! How beautiful! Thank you for sharing this and CONGRATULATIONS TO YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND! 🎉🎉
May the Lord continue to carry your pregnancy and baby to full term blessing your household in Jesus name!! 🥹🫶🏽🙌🏽✨🕊️
“Who am I to make someone want to love me?”
What you said here was very wise. God bless you my sister!💕
God bless you dearest!! 💕
A man God send you to be your spouse will honor and cherish you. God will not send someone who disrespects and neglects you by ghosting you. God only gives His best.
AMEN!!!! 🙏🏽🔥
And you know what, once I let go of what I wanted…God sent me a wonderful Godly husband who pursues my heart and loves me in the way Christ does! 🥹🫶🏽
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“A man of God will pursue you” to add to that, he will make you his girlfriend and not leave you in limbo.
& we can add... that a man of God will not leave you as his girlfriend, but make you his wife!
My counterfeit made me his gf in the first 2 weeks. Forget that. He will make you his WIFE.
Thank you for making this video. I went through a similar situation. I thought this guy was my husband and waited for 2 years, but finally realized he wasn’t my husband and I was confused, in mourning, I was deceived. I wish I had heard this video when I was in the thick of it but it’s still very encouraging to know I’m not alone. God has been healing me since, I had pride in me and it became an idol in my heart. God restores all things and makes beauty out of ashes.
God takes what we go through and uses it for our good! We both needed to walk through it to know what wasn’t from God! I totally understand that mourning part! It was horrible! Thank the Lord He has delivered us and set us free in Him! He is all that we need!! 🥹❤️
A lot of kingdom spouse advice on YT sound almost exactly like the Twin Flame relationships. Praying for us all to go to God first and maintain discernment in these times 🙏🏽
I promise you it reminds me of this now
That’s because it’s actually rooted in that. It’s witchcraft at the end of the day. Part of the clue in is that it plays on the violation of another’s free will which Jesus does not do. How could He properly judge us if He violates our free wills. Yes, He can intervene and such but God gave us free will.
With that, at a base level, why would one want to be with someone who’s clearly ignoring them and snubbing them off? That’s another clue in as a well. I’d want to be with someone who acknowledges my presence and wants me around.
But yeah, totally agree.
Your story sounds so much like mines. I remember one time reaching out to you because I felt like this “man” was my husband. I had dreams and visions, and a lot of supernatural things would happen, but that was NOT my husband. He ghosted me constantly, and had other women 🥴 honestly it’s embarrassing to even talk about that. Waited for two years as well. Finally decided to let go and, and then I met my now husband, we eloped a year after dating. Happily married 🥰
It just goes to show you that we may have gone through it but God took us out of it and still led us into a marriage!
He works all things for our GOOD!! - Romans 8:28💕
Dear @Yamisbel you say you had dreams, visions and supernatural events that was your KS. So who gave you the dreams and visions? Because if it was from GOD according to His word, from HOLY BIBLE, Number 23:19 "GOD is not a man to lie, nor is He a son of man ro repent (that means to change) if He said something will He not fulfill it, and what he had spoken will it not turn for good?"
So what kind of dreams and vision did you recieve? What was the vision?
There are 2 scenarios: 1) you heard from the Devil and it was not true. 2) you heard from GOD but you gave up because you were not willing to wait as a standerer since your KS was living in a prodigal lifestyle".
@@pat1903 I watched prophetic videos that constantly encouraged me to stay connected to a man WHO ghosted me. Later on that man moved on and God brought me my husband! No God isn’t a man that He shall lie. When we obsess over marriage and a person, it becomes an idol (red flag right there which I should’ve known better) and this man was NOT interested. It’s clear as day. A man of God will PURSUE. Once I healed from that situation, the Lord then put me in a Godly marriage, the one He promised! Marriage still stands when you’re willing to give up your own way of it! God bless you!
@@pat1903sometimes out discernment is off, all dreams and visions are not from the Lord
@@beamyourlight Wow this sounds like my story. I’m so scared that who I have believing and standing for is not my husband. I have been fasting and praying for four years and praying for deliverance over him. Nothing has happened and I just feel stressed and overwhelmed. I listen to so many kingdom, marriage videos and it has definitely become an idol. This man has ghosted me and shown no interest at all. I had prayed for something specific and he now lives only 30 minutes away and I thought that was a confirmation from God but now I’m guessing that was just more confusion the enemy sent my way but why? Why would God allow that?! God sent me back home and sent him here so I thought wow God that could only be you. 🥹 Now I feel so disheartened.
I just got out of a relationship with someone I thought was my husband foe 5 years now I think. I fought for him I thought he was a prodigal. Turns out he was a narcissist with demons all over him. Cheating lying and using other people against me. God is showing me why he allowed this. It's all to take in. Healing and God time now. One day when it's God's time he will send me the love I deserve. ❤
Yes He will and that man will pursue you and love you like Christ loves you even through highs and lows! Sending nothing but hugs over to you today! God bless you ❤
Sounds like my ex from 2019. What a sizzling hot mess. OhLawd ....
same. Our stories are almost the same. Thankfully I was only with my “thought to be husband” for only 2 years. It was horrible.
I have gone through this same thing except that I waited for the person for 6 years😂. I didn't know what to do with myself but God came to the rescue. I'm not married though but I'm out of all that. I thank God for this and thank you too!
Praise the LORD!! ❤
I waited for 10 years with the wrong guy bc I thought he was it. Thankfully I found my husband the same year I was free ❤🎉
@@sophies6957 WOW!! Praise the Lord! I believe the Lord is wanting to set many of His daughters and sons free from deception to the wrong spouse!! He’s in the neighborhood to bless with Godly marriages! Thank you for sharing sis!! God bless you! ❤️🔥🕊️
Yup, I went through the same thing. I liked this guy for the past 6 years. We go to the same church, I am moving on, it is a bit hard. BUT, God is helping me. I don't feel so confused anymore, I feel at peace about it. I pray my feelings for him completely go away with time.
@@sophies695710 years for me too!
The #kingdomspouse movement was such a deception. Ofc the Lord has ordain husbands/wives for his children but the enemy is using this concept to discourage ppl with sorrow and to make idols in ppl’s heart.
I def went thru something similar. Held on for about 6 months. Fast forward, God sent a prophet to speak to me about the deception and pride I had in my heart.
Gorlll yes!! You hit the nail on the head! It’s a deception and not ordained by God! God doesn’t bring confusion so that’s how I knew I was deceived! Two months after I received deliverance and healing I met my husband! So it’s all about letting God lead our lives and not watching every prophetic word! ❤
The KS movement is a deception for those who did not hear from GOD, not for those who heard it from GOD. GOD has brought KS together for marriage and for His KS assignement. KS journey is true, and it's ordained by GOD, but only for those GOD has spoken.
The KS movement is not a deception! It's a deception for those who claim GOD spoke to them.
@@pat1903amen cause ik that ikikik God spoke to me about my KS . 😊
Did you check with God before saying the kingdom spouse movement is a deception. No you didn’t. Because he would’ve told you. Coming on here to say kingdom spouses are a deception just because YOU heard wrong & took a word that was not yours is not it. We have to take accountability don’t try put doubt into those actually called for kingdom marriage who those words are ACTUALLY for just because they weren’t for you.
I thought this guy was my husband too I genuinely believed it. I even told him we are going to get married.
I used to wonder if he was my husband why wasn’t he pursuing me, why was he doing XYZ. I had a spiritually discerned person telling me “this guy may look like your husband but he isn’t your husband. He may have traits etc”. I also had someone in my ear throwing me off telling me this is your husband xyz, I had to cut this person off bc it was the enemy throwing me off from what God does have for me.I asked God if he isn’t for me remove my feelings from him. Let him fade away And he did the next few days the guy was gone.
Mannnn God ALWAYS comes through for His children!! So happy the Lord showed up! Thank you for sharing! ❤️🙌🏽
no better way to scare a man off then to hit them with any kind of prophesy or spiritual foreshadowing. Its not attractive or sexy.
This sounds exactly like my own story. Was ghosted for almost 3 years till I discovered the person got married. But these kingdom spouse videos gave me false hope until I discovered he had married. Was so hurt and broken but I felt kinda relieved too. I think that was the closure I needed because I was ghosted, as he never communicated at all.
I know God Almighty will send my own husband
You described a limerant experience. Fantasy relationship with someone who barely knows you're alive. It's a psychological phenomenon that tends to happen to people who were abused as children. CPTSD in adulthood looks like failure to form real evidence based relationships and leaning heavily into fantasy to feel that internal dopamine rush without external provocation. It's like emotional masturbation. Feeling loved by something that isn't real, because traumatized adults tend to not know what it means to receive it from a real person and thus have this idea of perfection in another person.
I believe twin flames, kingdom spouses are real... but the counterfeit is easy to spot. The person you wish it were, due to intense physical attraction and mysterious nature, unknowable and on a pedestal without seeing their flaws. That isn't real. But the real one, is someone whose flaws you see, but you also see their goodness and their improvement, and have the desire to grow together with faith of overcoming any obstacle. Counterfeit loves tend to break once you find out compelling evidence that they aren't what you thought they were. I waited 3 years for mine and he always made me a side chick, and chose not one, not two, but three girlfriends within three years that weren't me. Tired of that side chick energy. A real one might or might not be ready, but they'd make sure you were the primary relationship and that their love confessions and demonstrations were evident.
I know religious dogma helps many, but it isn't necessary to bring God into physical and mental ailments. Even athiests find love... and have these problems. Therapy with trained professionals could probably do more than church at addressing these psychological setbacks that have people confused about how their brain is firing certain chemicals in the presence of someone who is totally wrong for them. Abused children become attracted to neglectful and abusive adults, playing out their parental wounds in matches they seek.
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Kingdom spouses are on the same boat as twin flames and both ideals need to stop. They both lead people into delusion, deception, and loss of faith. I dabbled with both ideals for 8 years and I lost time I can never get back and when I think about it I feel so ashamed. However, I didn’t know how much I needed to heal (from childhood trauma, trauma at that time, anxiety) so I was walking around thinking God forgot about me. He didn’t forget. I wasn’t ready then.
That’s alright, I’ve been really dumb in character and made poor emotional choices before and probably still am in some ways. I was super obsessed with one guy who I thought would end up with me for nearly 3 years, all the while he wasn’t actually showing up as my kingdom spouse. I’m finally with my husband and I couldn’t be more grateful to God for calling me out on my immaturity and impatience.
Wow AMEN!! Thank you for sharing sis!!
I’m a 19 year old man and I’m starting to talk to women (online) and a little bit in person. But pray for me that God will clear the confusion and that he’ll separate those who aren’t for me. I want my first love to be my forever love. I just don’t want to get in relationship with the wrong women as I’m new to dating.
Can your husband maybe do a video of him sharing his testimony on the counterfeit experiences for us men? Us men need guidance too, so that we know who our wife is or if we should marry the women we’re dating. Maybe do a video titled “how to know if this women is the women you should marry according to God” something like that?
Love this idea!!
Love this idea! I will run it by my husband! Thank you for sharing friend 🙏🏽🔥
I went through deception and prayed for 1 year over someone I thought was my husband. It was a hard, sad and lonely process. But at the same time God used this to transform me. Because I was pride and idolized marriage, I wasn’t ready for a serious relationship that God has for me, I wasn’t ready for my purpose. I wasn’t truly in Love with God, I didn’t put HIM first in my life… 🥺🙏🏾. Now I am totally healed, in peace with God, and I am getting prepared for the purpose God has for my life. I am just loving God in my singleness 🥰🙏🏾🔐
Glory to God!!! how did you heal from this?? I fear this is me right now 😩
@@michellei7951 1- I had to repent from my sin of Idolatry.
2- Put God first in your life knowing that even if you don’t marry that person, God is still for you. Pursue God more than you pursue a marriage or a relationship.
3- Find your purpose. What God wants for your life right now?? Is it serving at church? Is it going to college and focusing on a career?! Find it out
4- Enjoy your singleness! Use it to serve God, your family, your friends. Go on a trip. Have fun in a Godly way❤️
5- And wait Patiently. If God has a relationship for you. He will bring it in the right moment. Just have faith and wait.
Hope this helps. I am praying for you 🙏🏾
How did you get through this?
😢😢 Im in tears. I met this Guy 2 years ago through a mutual friend, i was so sure he was my husband as everythinh pointed to him including my dreams. Its been 2 years and i decided in January to say hi so about 2 weeks ago we were catching up. I held on for 2 years, i prayed about it and went about life that i even travelled and moved to the UK and only to find out 2 weeks ago that he got engaged. Its still a fresh wound. watching your testiomony is Gods way of telling me that im not alone and i will be okay. yes the heart is deceiving. thank you for sharing.
I'm not one to comment really, but I always knew there was something off about the whole kingdom spouse thing happening with prophets on youtube. I just recently came back to your channel maybe 2 days ago after years and saw that you were married and I remember thinking to myself, "did she really get married to that kingdom spouse she mentioned back then?". I had pulled myself out of the whole kingdom spouse trend after I met my ACTUAL husband (we're in a very loving relationship for a year and some change now! :)) and the Holy Spirit had given me revelation that these people are being deceived and idolizing the idea of love and marriage over God. It's interesting that right when I come back to your channel, you talk about this. I'm glad the Holy Spirit led you (and I) to the truth ultimately and gave you an awesome testimony to share with the world to save others as well! God bless you, and I pray for happiness in your marriage to glorify God, and I hope this testimony reaches who it needs to reach in Jesus name. Love you sister!
Yes! So grateful that you got out of that deception yourself! It’s crazy when your eyes are opened to God’s truth! God bless you!! Thank you for sharing and sharing your encouragement! 🙏🏽❤️
And thank you for blessing my marriage! God bless you 🙏🏽✨
Wow! This is an amazing testimony! I was believing God for one specific person and whenever I would pray and fast for marriage, he would come back around. I "waited" for a year, and still tried to date and talk to other people, but in my mind I was wondering if he was it. This year, God answered my prayer about us. He wrote me a long message letting me know he wasn't ready to take that next step forward, so now I am continuing in my faith and belief for a special relationship. In the meantime, I am healing and walking in my assignment for this season! I also stand in agreement with you about not worrying about how it will happen and how God will do it.
Could it be he might be the one but it isn't the right time?
@@MAR24300 Yes, that is possible but I am not going to hold my breath. I don't believe in the one and I believe God can bring another prospect on my path at any moment who might be more equally yolked to me. For now, I will grow in Christ and wait patiently.
@@silentlyflourish yes I agree. I am going through the same thing. I have had to continue to live my life and grow and focus on other things. Do not put your life on hold.
I recently went thru the same. I was so obsessed with this man praying and hoping it would be an us because I loved him so much. I think it steamed from being in a marriage were I was cheated on and him getting a woman pregnant and never really getting real love from a man, being molested, and just used and manipulated by men. I wanted to feel valued worthy and loved. This dude made me feel love I never experienced so I just knew he had to be a God sent. It was 3 years for me. I had to pray and ask Hodge to help me get over him because I didn’t want to put nobody before him. I don’t want to idolize anyone. So I’m still healing and I had to stop back up off of YT for a minute because I kept feeling like I was being decieved with all these “KS prophecies”. So it’s just me and God right now. His will and purpose for my life.
Yes we all have Limerence lol it is a shame how the enemy tries so hard to steal time away from us!
Congratulations on your marriage. Thank you for speaking on the deception. So many are being deceived and I pray God will open up their eyes.
Yes sis!! Let’s stand in the gap for many who are being deceived!! God bless you 🙏🏽❤️
Thank you for this testimony. I have been under this deception for 7 months and it is definitely a soul tie. It has been confusing and hellish at times. I think you are correct. I’ve almost exclusively received negative emotions from this man. I need peace.
May the Lord restore your spirit and give you His peace that surpasses your own understanding! I pray for a refreshing joy from the Lord over you today in Jesus name!
God bless you!! ❤
Awesome that you shared this! The Bible says the heart is deceptive sis… the enemy is a schemer.
As women and men waiting on God for marriage; we have to literally guard our hearts, eyes, ears and minds from our own desires, fantasies and obsessions. Our minds also operate on confirmation bias. I know lots of ppl, myself included, who’ve experienced this and many had nothing to do with prophetic words and the like. Literally, just lack of discernment and delusion based on desire. It’s really about surrender. Whether you believe God brings you a person or gives you wisdom to choose, it goes back to surrender.
Wow this is really something I needed to hear. I’m going through something similar right now and I’m in that crushing season and I believe God will bring a testimony out of my story too! Thank you so much ❤
Those dreams sound soo familiar. I had someone close to me and I thought they were the person. I would dream about them but they will always be “out of reach”. They would always be close but just never available. In 2022 we met after many years of not seeing each other and tlking on the phone and oh boy did things went sooo wrong. After they returned to their country it was on and off and then last year he told me that he found someone … I was soo heartbroken. But I know what God has for me will not pass me by. Thanks for sharing. ❤
It’s so good to be able to admit our own shortcomings in deception and how Godly sorrow brings us to repentance! The glory is His and they will be disciplined for their seduction!
Amen!
found myself in the same situation thanks to God i’m set free. thank you for speaking on this topic because i thought it was me alone thought it was deceptive. always go to God first before you go to man. trust God and wait upon him and his timing but at the same time seek ye the kingdom of God first and everything else shall be added unto you.
Just reading through these comments it blows my mind on how this is so common amongst alot of women before meeting their kingdom spouse. I too went through a similar situation as this and I’m so glad that God delivered me and so many of us from the counterfeit. I waited a while too and nothing happened and kinda had confusion about it but I’ve been seeing how God used that situation to help me to learn how to be a wife for the person He has for me!! . He works all things together 🩷 thank you for this video!
GREAT TESTIMONY on how God DOES work for the GOOD of those Who LOVES Him! We've got VERY similar stories. After a Marriage of 32 yrs and being a Pastor for longer than that, She walked away and I said at one point in desperation after that, “God, is this what I can expect for the rest of My Life?” 1) - If Someone walks away from Your Life, let Them GO! They weren’t meant to go into where God wants You to go. What GOD joins Together, NOBODY, not even You, can tear apart. For Me, I went in ultra-depression to the point I wanted “out”. God saved Me on an operating table when I said a One Word Prayer (ask Me about that sometime…). Two yrs after that, I asked God to reveal to Me Who He REALLY is - I mean right down to the nuts and bolts of it. He did BIGTIME! I thought I knew Him. I didn’t - not like I do now! Then He did this ‘thing” where He reversed the question and TOLD Me Who I am. Who HE sees as Me. To this Day and probably until I die, I might not see that as HE does, but I’m getting there. Then I asked a BIG question that I wasn’t prepared for. When the divorce went thru, I said, “I will NEVER EVER get Married again. Way too much pain.” But when I asked this One Question, My entire Life changed. I asked, “God, what Is Love? I mean, what is REAL LOVE?” And He answered that He had already answered that when He told Me WHO HE IS. Then He led Me to the Book of Hosea. You don’t hear much about Hosea. God told Hosea to Marry a prostitute, and He did. She cheated again and again, but He constantly took Her back. Eventually, bound on a post as a slave, Hosea was FORCED to “buy Her back”. She was already His Wife (no divorce - even when EVERYONE said She was a hoe), but He had to PAY for Her. You don’t hear anything about those two after that in that Story, but what that REALLY is is a Story of God and Us and how HE paid for Us through Jesus. THAT’S REAL LOVE. REAL UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. And suddenly, the Desire to Marry again felt on not just My Heart, but on My Mind, My Spirit, and even on My actions. Ever since, I’ve been writing “My Future Wife” letters - Love Letters - letting Her in on what’s happening in My Life and how the Man that She is going to Marry One Day (Me) ended up being the Man that will stand before God AND Her One Day at an altar and why He ended up with Her. 2) Words MATTER! Speak to the THING You’re going to! If God said You’re going to do something, then do it! Don’t fret because God is WITH You in the meantime and He will NEVER lead You astray. As of this Day, I have NO idea Who “She” is, but there’s something I did right after studying Hosea. 3) God DOES have a Plan AND a Purpose for Your Life. ASSIGNMENT. I choose because of what I want but GOD Chooses because of what We need. So in short, I told God, “Lord, you know what I like, but YOU only know what I need. YOU choose. And even if You don’t and I am single for the rest of My Days, You Lord are enough.” And I let it go after that. I KNOW deep down inside that One Day I WILL Marry the Greatest Woman on the planet for Me so I PREPARE. 4) Get ready for what God told You! Stop sitting around and GET READY FOR IT because it IS coming. Isaiah 60:22. So I guess at this point My Testimony of the last 12 Yrs is STILL in the making. Some might say I’m waiting for nothing b/c it would be here by now. Let Me say a Name - Caleb. He was 40 when Joshua and He saw the Promised Land, but 85 when He FINALLY entered. Caleb never gave up on The Dream. God definitely gave Me A Dream (and yes I DID have a specific Dream about Meeting and Marrying My Wife). I don’t have a Dream - that Dream has ME! THANK YOU, JESUS! More to come…and I'm only 63.
Wow! This is so beautiful! 🙏🏽🥹
I love how the Lord spoke to you and continues to speak to you and reminding you that His promise STILL stands! Praise the Lord! 😭🙌🏽 thank you for sharing!!
Brother, thank you for sharing this. I've been waiting for my man of God for 28 years. He is surely coming, because God said so. God has a specific purpose for our marriage, and I believe many souls will come into the kingdom because of it. My husband is waiting for me too, and his wife is an intercessor for the Lord!!
Romans 8:28❤️ 🙌 Love your testimony and happy you found your one🕊️
God bless you!! ❤
You are so brave and a truth speaker. Thank you for letting TMH to use you and set myself and many other sister free from this delusional bondage. Thank you❤️So grateful to be redeemed from a counterfeit life not even just relationships
Yes! It’s in every area of our lives we have to let God lead! Any time we are consumed with marriage and spouses to the point where it’s all we care about..we are making an idol of these things! We must allow God to expose our hearts and have us to surrender our wants and desires to His perfect will! I see many being deceived and it’s just knowing the truth! God bless you sis! Praying for the Lord to continue leading you and using you in Jesus name! 🙏🏽❤️
I love that, a counterfeit life! I am working to be freed from that too
Thank you SO much for sharing this!!!! Such a similar testimony in this for me too. I think many of us have dealt with that after the whole “kingdom spouse” thing. I was in such a mourning also when it was revealed to me. I also waited close to 2 years. But thank God for the truth because that sets us free. ❤️ the deception and confusion was so heavy at that time for me too!! Thank you, Jeannette!!! God bless you and Andrew ❤️
It was HEAVY! Yup I went through that also! Thank the Lord for redeeming His children! So happy you have been healed as well! God bless you sweet sister ❤
Thank you for sharing this sis, what an amazing testimony! 💕 I feel like this message is exactly what I needed to hear and perfect timing. I went through a similar situation recently, where I thought for sure that person was my husband but was deceived and ghosted. It was a blessing in disguise now looking back but goes to show that being led by the Holy Spirit and not our own feelings is so important! I had noticed something’s that sparked red flags, so I prayed to God to take this person out of my life if they’re not for me and literally the next day, he started to ghost me. I knew right then and there, it was God protecting me. Even though it hurt, I was relieved. It’s taking time to heal, but I know God has something greater in store 🙏🏼 I thank God for you and for being vulnerable to share your testimony, I know your message will touch many people. I pray blessings over you and your husband and everyone in this chat in Jesus name 🙏🏼❤️💕
And you hit it perfectly. Faith is not based on fear or feelings, but on the fact of God’s faithfulness to himself such a powerful revelation if you can receive that thank God that both you and I did in that season of deception because I too have been there. Thank you for sharing.
Amen!! So good! This blessed me all over again in the way you wrote it! God bless you 🔥
@@beamyourlight to God be the glory! And May Our God bless you and your Purpose mate. 😎
These are the types of testimonies we need. Thank you for sharing
This video is an answered prayer for me! My story is very very similar to this. There’s a whole lot to unpack and hopefully one day I will be able to share my testimony. This video is such a blessing & made me cry because I’m feeling so many things at once. Thank you Jeanette for your obedience in sharing this even when it was hard to do!! I can’t even express with enough words how grateful I am for this video
I’m so grateful that the Lord used this testimony to bless you sis!! God bless you ❤
Why is this my story VERBATIM timeline and all!?
Gosh your testimony has helped me more than you may ever know ❤
Wow the day you uploaded this was the day I went through a turning point of thinking this guy was my husband. I was convinced that he was my husband because of a dream and that dream kept me blinded. Then an apostle gave me a word of letting him go. A month later, I came across something that had confirmed to me that the apostle was right about letting him go.And called it quits.
God is GREAT
PRAISE JESUS✨❤️🔥
Well done....Brave of you to share...2 years its not a lot Jeannette...comparing to people waiting for more than 7 years...Lord have mercy
I agree!! God bless you!
She woke up on time that is why.Ppl overlook the reality when they invest time and energy on something even when it's not making sense
you have no idea how much God spoke to me through this. I needed this so much . I was so confused
Confusion is not from God because He gives us His peace! May the Lord continue to bless you friend 🩷
Trauma bond - tactic of the enemy/counterfeit
If the dreams were showing you that you’re looking for your spouse and he is nowhere to be found then that’s a clear message there! 😳 These dreams weren’t deceptive but they were showing you the truth which is that there is no kingdom spouse there where you were looking. In other words whoever you thought was your KS wasn’t. Very clear message from such dreams.
In other words I must say it is us, our own selves who deceive us. Not the fake prophets on social media.. it’s not the kingdom spouse movement that deceived us. It is us. That’s why you’re right in saying that we have to surrender our emotions to God and let Him take over in every level.
Ikr.. idk how she missed that ... I just don't know!.. =.(
When you really want something, it’s hard to hear otherwise. Plus if you have ppl around you and are listening to KS messages that describe your exact situation, it further keeps you in hold
When you are in something, it’s hard to see things. Just because it Is clear to you doesn’t mean it was clear to her. She was blind because she wanted something bad. Deception is real . I’m glad she is telling her testimony.
I have just been set free from someone I had thought was my husband too. I was waiting since 2020 smh. I just want what GOD has for me too that's all. Thanks for this video ❤❤❤
I kept avoiding this video but was lead to watch this and cried the whole time. Thank you so much for this. You have no idea how much you helped me
I’m having the same issue. I dream about him like every other month but he’s already gave me signs that he’s not interested in me and told me so. Yet idk why he still keeps up with me on social media or why I dream of him. He has a lot of maturing to do. I’m letting go at this point. If he has a change of heart in the future then maybe it can happen. Leaving it to God finally.
I had this same problem but once I fully let go this man and recentered myself in Christ follow by fasting and soaking up Gods word the dreams with him stopped. Also getting prayer from elders or other sister/brothers in Christ helped ALOT it’s hard to do it on your own❤
I wasn't even feeling the need for a spouse which was the craziest part. Yes I noticed him for three years we spoke but not much not knowing I would get caught up to what it is now. Today I see how vulnerable I was from healing from having not such a great dad who I know see as a hot mess distant cousin who made two decisions (getting married and having kids) too young in their twenties. I see my mom in that light too and it has helped a lot with the understanding and forgiveness. As I write this, I remember the progress that I made in the healing. God is my True Parent. But, Here's a twist. Eli was replaced by Samuel even though it happened when he died. But King Saul was replaced by King David oh boy he wasn't happy about it at all and very very jealous. Very interesting isn't it? Both for disobedience of the Lord. There were two outcomes depending on which Saul they chose to be. The other was Saul to Paul. It's not looking good. God does not need to test us for our obedience for Himself because He already knows we will or won't like Peter denying Jesus but He tests us for ourselves so we know He can trust us with His commands regarding a spouse or anything then, now, and in the future. This is what I take from this. Ultimately it is up to God and we will know. Thank You Jesus! ✝️
So encouraging and relatable. “breaking up with someone I was never in a relationship with” especially. Thank you for being a vessel for God to shine His light! Praise the Lord!❤️
Hi! Thank you for your testimony, it's so powerful, and i was really need to hear that, right now!! Because i'm going through the similar story, I'm waiting for the man, that i though, should be my husband. And i waiting, and we didn't talking too for a few month. And two days ago i prayed for my situation, and i accidentally came acrossthis video, and it was my answer! I prayed as you said, to allow God to show me is he the one, or not, should i keep waiting or move forward. And today, this morning i saw the photo in social media, where i saw him with a girl. and it was so hard to see that, but i know it was the aswer from God. Thank you so much for this video, your testimony. And if it's okay, could you please pray for me, I'm heartbreaking now. Thank you!
Thank you for sharing your story! I also fasted and prayed for marriage and after a while I got the same Bible verse through my Bible study app, for 6 days consecutively. It was Ezra 8:23 'so we fasted and implored our God for this, and He listened to our entreaty'. I don't know if this counts as a promise, but this is how I understand it. I trust God for sending me a good husband.
Thank you for sharing this. I won't lie: my pride hates that I deceived myself. I've been feeling so ashamed about mishearing God in this. But thank God for His grace and His patience with me ❤️
Hearing your testimony really cleared up so many of the questions I've been having about this situation. I realise now that I also had many dreams where God had spoken to me and I had completely ignored anything that didn’t fit the narrative I had created in my mind. Also if your spiritual counsel is saying this isn't a good fit - listen!
Now I see that I was anxious and confused for most of that season. You are so right that when something is from God, that you will feel clarity and peace.
Thank you again for sharing ❤
I just ended a engagement due to this kinna stuff, I was headed down the wrong path with the wrong person, the amount of pain and loss due to pursuing the wrong person is very painful causing a ton of problems and i started deteriorating spiritually believing so much junk that wasn’t God’s will at all, and in the end it all fell apart, so I’m back to square one once again starting all over again
I went thru a similar experience with a lady I waited for four years. The Lord told me to break it off. I obeyed. I completely let go of trying to find a wife. If God wants me to have a wife I asked Him to send the Woman He chooses. I want a Proverbs 31 Woman. And if It never happens that’s ok . I had to learn the hard way. I’m divorced three times because I did not listen to God.😢
Waiting in God is the best way to meet your spouse bcus when it happens it’ll be His perfect timing! Praying the best to come to you in Jesus name!
Maam ur so special and I love you. Im a 11 year old who loves jesus
OMG wow God recently awakened the desire of marriage in me. The Holy Spirit keeps telling me to pray for my husband. The closer we get to get the more we get to hear and see the Holy Spirit moving in our lives.
Let us be careful and always pray for discernment so that we do not end up being unequally yoked.
I will marry once and right in The Name of The Father The Son and The Holy Spirit 🙏🏾
Beautiful testimony. God bless that guy for giving you closure and apologizing for creating the soul ties with you. And God bless you and your husband. Congrats on your marriage.
Thank you friend!! God bless you 🥹🫶🏽
Wow! I had not visited your channel for a couple of years. I had gotten a little caught up with too many voices and honestly was questioning the KS movement. The other day you popped up in my mind but I couldn't remember your name. THIS video popped up on my timeline with a message so confirming! Thanks for sharing your testimony and congrats on your marriage!
Thank you for sharing! God bless you because no one else has coming out and saying this. I literally sharing this with a friend that I felt so deceived. It hurts but I am definitely thankful that I am growing in the Lord.
Amen! And because you have come out of that lie of deception..God will bring you into the right Godly marriage! Your husband will pursue you!
Jeanette!! Thanks for sharing this. I can relate to those dreams! Calling out his name and searching everywhere for him. I’m still undergoing this journey and I’ve surrendered and been at peace. 🩷 Powerful testimony and proof of God’s faithfulness.
Praise the Lord! Amen sis!! Thank you for sharing! God bless you! ❤️🫶🏽
❤thank you so very much!! You sound like me but I’m the very beginning stages of what you went thru
Your testimony saved me months or years of waiting for who I think NOW is not the right person
Blessings
God always answers prayers about if someone is the one or not, very quickly. Sometimes we dont listen. I finally let go after a series of 4 dreams. 2 of them were of him coming to visit me, but we never spent time together. That was confirmation because the guy was wooing me and flattering me. But God knows best.
Agreed! The Lord revealed to me that it’s not that he doesn’t tell us who is who, it’s just that many don’t Listen!!
Thank you for your transparency that can help so many of us! 🙌 what I took away from this is I need to start praying for god to show me who the one is for me by showing me their fruit which is biblical. Also it makes me feel better about “wasted time”. Thank you for being honest about how deceiving prophecies can be if they aren’t real or for you and to always check with God. Maybe I didn’t wait on someone 2 years without talking but I have held on to something I needed to let go of because of living in fantasy and not reality of what they person offered me .. I kept focusing on what I wanted and ignoring what was. Thank you again for being such a genuine person and making yourself vulnerable to help others.
Thank you so much for having the courage to share this story! It’s setting so many people free❤ It confirmed a lot the Lord has been revealing to me regarding falling into deception & delusion. Thank you for these prayer points. Congratulations on receiving your promise 🥹❤️ God bless you!
Amén!!! Thanks so much for sharing 🙏🏽❤️ A relationship from God will reflect the love of Christ, amennnn!!! 🫶🏽🫶🏽
Very courageous and honest. I applaud your honesty.
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Seriously cant thank you enough for sharing. The Lord confronted me through His word about holding onto this particular delusion. Man did it hurt but it is so freeing. Holding onto this delusion had me bound to the spirit of rejection and much more this is not our portion. 1-9-24 I was set free thank you Jesus Christ ❤
Me too! Praise the Lord! And thank you for sharing ❤
Before it all we MUST have a DEFINATE PROMISE FROM GOD and it MUST BE CONFIRMED through the Word OVER AND OVER again....not All dreams are from God...we NEED DISCERNMENT ...these K s marriages will ONLY UNDERLINE what God has ALREADY SHOWN US...we MUST be led by THE HOLY SPIRIT,NOT OUR EMOTIONS!!!
I would watch kingdom spouse videos for monthsss and was expecting my ex to come back , after what felt like MANY confirmations through videos , numbers in the strong concordances , and dreams I still had so much confusion .. I told the Lord to release me in October 23' if I was carrying a false mantle .. and that same exact week I met my actual God ordained spouse , I am now married and live in a big house with him all within 4 months ! What God has is so much better than what you can ask , think , or imagine !!
I think God can allow something like that to happen for a good reason. I don't think there are really “counterfeits,” probably good people, just that some things aren't God's will or not His timing. In a way brought you closer to God and prepared you for your marriage now. God bless you and your husband
My counterfeit was just that. He pretended to be a Christian. Pretended to love me. Pretended to want marriage. He was a lying narc. A witch. For real! Thank God I realized he was manipulating me. However, the experience made me grow and kept me chaste. No dating sites or messing around.
The devil definitely sent me a counterfiet. Signs and wonders too. Seriously held me back so much put suicidal spirit on me. There's demons in him and the devil used him. They exists maybe not everyone has to deal with them. But I fell into the trap. God got me out though praise God
I dealt with a demonic counterfeit. A whole warlock, giving me breadcrumbs, someone who was fully possessed by the devil. It was traumatising. Some of them are actually used by the enemy.
If someone isn’t led by God, they’re led by the enemy. The enemy will use counterfeits to get you to partake in sin (false idols, sex, depression, etc) and to throw people off their God given path. Counterfeits are use to keep people in generational traumas and bondage usually being operated by “familiar spirits”. Check out “Covered by God, year of the bride fast” by Tiphani
Good I watched this because someone who I really desired ghosted Me as well. I’m praying for God to remove this desire of mines. So I can be set free from holding on. It is a recent experience but I know I want to let go and I pray about it. Some days are better than others, I have been watching KS videos too but I recently felt I gotta stop watching this cuz God will lead me and my husband to each other on the lords timing not mines.
Awesome testimony and great confirmation for me. We do not lose anything when we move on as God instructs because his perfect plan is always bigger and better than what we can ask for or imagine. With him we always come out winners. Be encouraged!
If God wants you with someone .Both of you will get the same message, will be both at the same page and the person will not reject you.
Same over here: In all of my dreams he ran away that should have been sign
this!!! There’s no confusion when a man of God spots His rib!! He is going to pursue and a daughter in Christ is already made a bride In Jesus!! The courting into marriage will often times happen very quickly because of it! Thank you for sharing!! ❤
I know quite a few sisters whose husband's got cold feet. They were in a relationship, he got fearful and left . Then he heard from God & returned. This is common. Someone gets fearful of the commitment. God eventually settles the matter.
This is my entire testimony. Thank you for your testimony.
Congratulations for your marriage ! Thank you for your obedience to share this message ... I went through something similar but GOD is good
I like this video for so many reasons. #1 is that you reiterate that we must ask God. In my humble opinion, the KS movement was confusing, BUT it caused me to pray more than ever and seek God first like never before. It sharpened my discernment and it reminded me to never idolize anything or anyone. Jesus IS the answer to every question by way of Holy Spirit courtesy of our Father in Heaven. Thank you Sister for your courage and love. 🙏🏽🥰
Thank you for sharing sister. The Lord has definitely used this to bless and encourage me. May our hearts and minds and souls be set on the Lord ❤
Thank you very much for being very transparent and sharing your testimony. It takes obedience, courage, and strength from the Lord to do so. Your testimony really resonated with me and it is also very timely.
Before watching your video today, I was thinking and saying to myself “Lord all I need is what you need for me”. As He ultimately knows what is best for me in the long run. Surrendering all burdens and emotions unto the Lord is key and it is a daily practice. Our emotions can get us caught up in wanting to hold onto desires we think we need but will not serve us at all or bring to pass His will and purpose for our lives.
It’s very real when the Lord says we must mediate on His word day and night (Joshua 1:8) Also to pray without ceasing. (1 Thessalonians 5:17) When doing this it really allows us to push past our own emotions, to have discernment, to be able to hear Him and in turn be obedient to what we have heard from Him. May the Lord continue to guide and use you as a vessel. God bless you Jeannette! 🙏❤️
Amen!! So good! God bless you!! ❤🙌🏽
Aww thank you I really appreciate it!🙏❤@@beamyourlight
thank you so much your video was my closure, i already suspected this i just needed someone to confirm it for me, i was previously in a twin flame journey deception and this kingdom spouse felt similar altho not toxic like the twin flame there is a lot of ghosting and mixed signals, thank you for setting me free with your testimony
I was deceived big time and I had multiple confirmations from what I thought was the Lord. Every time I tried to walk away, the deception would get stronger and I ended up thinking this has to be from God. I was waiting on this man even though after the main pastor set us up and this man ghosted me. I felt unloved and unworthy so much that the man God chose for me doesn’t even want to know me in any way. I waited for this man 20 months and I was finally free of it in December. I feel discouraged and my hope for marriage deferred. I wonder if there is even a marriage promise from the Lord at all and it was all from the enemy. I’m a 36 year old woman without any prospects in sight. I think that I will never get married and have a beautiful life at this point. My only hope is that the Lord takes me home early, that would be the only mercy he could give at this point. I am glad that God came through for you and gave you a husband. Blessings on your marriage and may God use it abundantly and get the glory.
I wasn't even feeling the need for a spouse which was the craziest part. Yes I noticed him for three years we spoke but not much not knowing I would get caught up to what it is now. Today I see how vulnerable I was from healing from having not such a great dad who I know see as a hot mess distant cousin who made two decisions (getting married and having kids) too young in their twenties. I see my mom in that light too and it has helped a lot with the understanding and forgiveness. As I write this, I remember the progress that I made in the healing. God is my True Parent. But, Here's a twist. Eli was replaced by Samuel even though it happened when he died. But King Saul was replaced by King David oh boy he wasn't happy about it at all and very very jealous. Very interesting isn't it? Both for disobedience of the Lord. There were two outcomes depending on which Saul they chose to be. The other was Saul to Paul. It's not looking good. God does not need to test us for our obedience for Himself because He already knows we will or won't like Peter denying Jesus but He tests us for ourselves so we know He can trust us with His commands regarding a spouse or anything then, now, and in the future. This is what I take from this. Ultimately it is up to God and we will know. Thank You Jesus! ✝️
Thank you for your transparency. This was timely and needed!
I needed this so much this is my exact situation.😩 Thanks for your testimony ♥️🙏🏾