The REAL REASON Why You Aren't PAINTING

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  • In this week's video I discuss the benefits of boredom, and why it's more necessary to creativity than most think.
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  • @AllanDavisArt
    @AllanDavisArt ปีที่แล้ว +422

    This certainly resonates with me. I used to love drawing/painting but I put so much unnecessary pressure on myself and often feel paralyzed by perfectionism which often left me giving up before even starting. I think a lot of people, like you said, want instant gratification, that quick dopamine fix and they're not willing to put in the work to obtain their desired goal.

    • @wherethequietbeingsgo
      @wherethequietbeingsgo ปีที่แล้ว +3

      oop I think you cracked the code for my architecture dilemma

    • @victorblackburn6201
      @victorblackburn6201 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You and I have the same problem with being self critical. It can reach the point where I'm fearful of finishing a painting because it isn't going well - rather than buckling down and making drastic changes to correct it.

    • @vickyneville4456
      @vickyneville4456 ปีที่แล้ว

      Self criticism fear of tucking up ain't the same as doom scrolling or boredoms like lady say her not painting because.

    • @margiepoulos1028
      @margiepoulos1028 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very well said.

    • @HigherSelfStudio
      @HigherSelfStudio ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lol as i grow mature i become more perfectionism and i don't have much time to finish my work. And also i wish i still painting but my imagination is not as strong as before. I found painting is boring because my idea won't show up. I wish i never lose my skill and keep practicing but i can't help it. I still watching artist do their work and it motivate me but i lose my taste to feel the flow in my art. Its hard. As you know painting is spending much time especially acrylic , i can't help sit too long and hopeless to finish it.

  • @kaileyparts1289
    @kaileyparts1289 ปีที่แล้ว +331

    I’m not painting because I’m watching this video and eating breakfast but i will get there pahaha

  • @alaska9077
    @alaska9077 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    For me, boredom isn’t my motivator. I must feel alone- I need space. Quiet space, and feel inspired. Ideas come from my environment. When I feel pressured by family or obligations, it sucks up my creativity.

    • @nilsaiivyarts
      @nilsaiivyarts ปีที่แล้ว

      True

    • @artyataol
      @artyataol ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Very true. But can one ever be free? To enter the sea for a swim we can't wait for the waves to stop! I tell myself that this "wanting space" is just an excuse not to paint. I know this, still I don't paint sometimes the block is just a fear of failure?🤔

  • @diegoallcore
    @diegoallcore ปีที่แล้ว +301

    This is what I love about this side of TH-cam. So many intelligent and creative people 🥰

    • @travisnobleart
      @travisnobleart ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I've predominately learned art through TH-cam, like many of us. And since starting, I have never personally encountered a more welcoming and helpful community online.

    • @art_wisdom
      @art_wisdom ปีที่แล้ว

      agree, such a nice video!!

    • @briansullivan5198
      @briansullivan5198 ปีที่แล้ว

      So what happened to me ????

    • @curtkneelove7354
      @curtkneelove7354 ปีที่แล้ว

      At last …a positive vision for our New Year - thank you Chelsea

  • @Alexander-rq9he
    @Alexander-rq9he ปีที่แล้ว +74

    The real reason for most artists is PERFECTIONISM…it’s fatiguing and stalls you out. Not reaching perfection is disheartening and discouraging and turns what you love doing into daunting work..so instead you distract yourself with other “obligations” like zombie scrolling your phone.
    Striving for “excellence” is kinder while keeping in mind the “ten thousand hours rule to master something” which can help you forge ahead. Try making art fun and remember to recharge your creative energy often with images of inspiration..❤

    • @pj218
      @pj218 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🙌🏻 well said!

    • @gnarbeljo8980
      @gnarbeljo8980 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Perfectionism is the enemy of any artist. It's entirely uncreative. It isn't helpful to the work nor is it an artistic goal. All of that is non-artistic square middle class conditioning that may work for other areas but has no place in the realm of art.
      Failure and imperfection is much more productive, helpful and helps you grow artistically. Also "boredom" or actually just letting your mind wander without digital/media stimulus is an absolute necessity.
      Nobody is interested in "perfect" art, it wouldn't sell if you made it, bc it's not a property of fine artistry.

  • @mindyd952
    @mindyd952 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Wow, thank you so much! I've been trying to figure out why I never get anything I want to done, and now realize my youtube addiction is the reason!

    • @NAD33N2.0
      @NAD33N2.0 ปีที่แล้ว

      TH-cam Addiction! That's what I have. It sucks. Well, thank you for helping me put a name on it. 😊

  • @loveandreyev4950
    @loveandreyev4950 ปีที่แล้ว +211

    As someone with diagnosed ADHD, these elements of attention and boredom feel very difficult indeed. It’s an incredible feat to un-addict myself from consuming content and become bored enough to create.
    Still on this mental health journey though…for now I personally chose to not medicate the ADHD and focus on treating anxiety and depression instead. Physically, I have chronic pain and am generally fatigued, so I can’t really look forward to seasonal bursts of energy as much. Still very much figuring out what I need.
    At the moment I know I am addicted to my phone, am avoiding boredom, and am feeling the struggle daily. But I won’t give up.
    Thank you for the helpful commentary on being intentional and kind to ourselves.

    • @yannisdecleene3500
      @yannisdecleene3500 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Do a blood check for good measures. And check your folate levels. Hope you get to feel better.

    • @jackya
      @jackya ปีที่แล้ว +7

      wow. I read this video title and was like "Is it because I have ADHD?" Then saw your response. I haven't even watched this video yet...
      I'm new to understanding ADHD, accidentally discovered it when I had an "episode" and my heart wouldn't regulate (pretty scary) so they gave me a beta blocker, which helped so much...but over time it cured my anxiety which was apparently what motivated me enough to overcome my ADHD. it's kind of a lot..ANYWAY, just saw a lot of similarities in our experience, If on any chance you don't know about these, please check them out, they have both helped me immensely - after 15 years of chronic suffering. I hope you can find relief anywhere. Don't give up. And F the doctors that suck.
      "The body keeps the score." Book.
      and research "Leaky gut syndrome." It's one of those "doctors say it's not real" but when I read about it I was like 100% I HAVE THIS. I went on the "leaky gut diet" and started to noticeable heal within like three weeks. (don't quit everything all at once!) cutting out additives and fillers and preservatives was a HUGE change for me - for the much much much better. (not cured, but MUCH MUCH MUCH better)
      Please ask me anything.

    • @esse3978
      @esse3978 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jackya I took a look at the diet since I have ADHD and I am unmedicated. But I'm Italian, I can't avoid eating pasta or pizza 💀😭

    • @KM-zn3lx
      @KM-zn3lx ปีที่แล้ว

      Yep but that's also How I first learned I can do some semblance of painting from other's tutorials. I also get a lot of Christian content which media has not provided.

    • @finddeniro
      @finddeniro ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Faith over Fear..Anxiety is thinking of the future..Depression is thinking of the Past..
      Simple things..
      Oh ..Early Spring in March 2023..

  • @cmcl5543
    @cmcl5543 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I was addicted to TH-cam during the Covid lockdown. I am still compelled to watch videos. I need to be painting or illustrating. Thanks for this video!

  • @BruhZerk
    @BruhZerk ปีที่แล้ว +45

    This is what painting is for me, I'm a game designer and when I was in school I took a ton of traditional art classes and fell in love with painting. After school I dropped it for a while and just focused on my career but found myself needing an outlet, so I recently got back into painting. I was playing with the idea of making a youtube or trying to monetize the hobby but when I tried I felt like it was just ruining the purity of it. Now I'm just doing it strictly for me, just as a hobby, and it's better than ever. It feels so liberating to just create and not worry about the outcome, over plan everything, etc. It's great to just have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Hope someone else out there can get something out of this, just do the things that bring you lasting joy. It sounds so simple but it took me a while to come to this realization.

    • @constantinos6532
      @constantinos6532 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am not thery good at painting with paint i just don't have a lot of paision, but I am good with penci and making faces.

    • @EKA201-j7f
      @EKA201-j7f ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You have an avocation, a love of painting. Better than a "hobby", a love. )

    • @BruhZerk
      @BruhZerk ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@EKA201-j7f You taught me a new word, and I totally agree. It's more than a hobby for me :)

    • @charlievankesteren8756
      @charlievankesteren8756 ปีที่แล้ว

      nice. thanks

  • @sypherianlp
    @sypherianlp ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I started a painting and hate it. I haven't touched it since September. I started doing a paint by numbers instead and I'm actually enjoying myself. I forgot how to enjoy the process and I think this is actually helping. No pressure, just put paint on the matching number. Some of the paints dried so I have to mix them again and honestly, I'm excited to do so. It's weird. I used to draw so much because I was bored, but now I think I've just put way too much pressure on myself. Maybe I'm just burnt out. Thank you for the video and voicing your own struggles.

  • @kpannabecker
    @kpannabecker ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I walked in my studio this morning, and when I went to my laptop to put music on I saw you had posted a new video. So here I am sitting in my recliner, 8 feet from my easel, watching TH-cam videos. Now, time for music and painting.

  • @mrobillard7553
    @mrobillard7553 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm just returning to drawing, oil & watercolor painting, learning and making music (flute), and making my own instruments once again, after 10 years. And rebuilding a whole new home and life.
    Social media is addictive (meaning that it confuses my senses) and has been robbing me of a life full of enthusiasm and love.
    This means a lot.
    Blessings, peace.☮️

  • @Wassamatta
    @Wassamatta ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I get this feeling so often. seeing people produce things while I sit, “like” and which I was inspired to do the same. it’s crazy to see how being on your phone steals inspiration, rather than provide it. thank you for your perspective. ❤

  • @kimberlyinfante4756
    @kimberlyinfante4756 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Today, I stumbled upon your channel for the first time; The topic hit squarely on target. Thank you for addressing what I imagine is the elephant in the room, for so many of us, these days. Not only are your words golden, your artistic skills are incredible. You’ve gained a new subscriber.

  • @psychic644
    @psychic644 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    What a beautiful message, Chelsea! This is 100% truth! As a writer and YT influencer, this clearly resonates with me. Two years ago, I picked up my paintbrush after a fifteen-year absence. At this point, my life has completely changed. I have always lived the inner journey. Now it's much more enriching. I know I am coming full circle. Thank you so much for your wisdom, wishing you many blessings!

  • @marywebb1138
    @marywebb1138 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is me. Sitting looking at my art table then picking up my iPad and disappearing. Thank you

  • @kristinalovelace7780
    @kristinalovelace7780 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Setting yourself for boredom is great! I read, meditate after reading, pray. I miss painting - stopped a while ago..

  • @MissIdolize
    @MissIdolize ปีที่แล้ว +16

    What an excellent video. I actually shed a tear while watching. It describes me to a T - on a quest for that 'hit' and doom-scrolling - what a spot-on description!
    I never used to be like this. I've always been pretty good at art and very creative. I was always up to something! I really got into painting after getting a W&N Cotman's watercolour pan set, some gouache paints, 2 brushes and an A2 painting pad for a birthday many years ago, long before internet was in every home, and I did some of the best work I have ever done using only these materials, especially when I didn't have a 'real' job and had time on my hands.
    As years passed, I gathered more and more art materials while still enjoying the creative process. For the past 10 years I have been working full-time in a factory, which pays the bills and affords me more art stuff. But I have less time and energy to create. I still managed to fit it in and enjoyed the process.
    It's the past 3 years that have really knocked me for six. I now have quite literally a room full of art & craft supplies, many unused & unopened - it's like a shop! All the art stuff I ever wanted and more! Yet I spend my time online looking for something (?), in and out of rabbit holes, cat videos, doom-scrolling, cat videos, checking out new products, cat videos, watching other people create - people like yourself! I do draw and paint in between but it's getting less and less - seems such a hassle and the challenge & enjoyment seem to be missing.
    While at work I can finish a painting 'in my head'... I go thru a process in my mind and decide Yes! I'll do that when I get home today. This decision makes me feel better, less guilty, less of a failure. But when I get home, the first chance I get I'm back on my pc, checking emails (my initial excuse to log on) and that's me off on my online journey again. My great intentions of making a start to that painting I had 'completed' in my head that day fades as I realise that, in reality, it seems a lot harder & much more hassle than I imagined. So I rarely even start. I actually talk out loud to myself about it, give myself a telling off each night before bed coz I know I just wasted precious time and yet another chance to create! It's really getting me down. It's like I'm caught in a spiral of guilt and self-criticism coz I know it's my own fault! Obviously the cov-flu thing and recent world events are really getting to me too. I often wonder what's the point? Thank goodness for cat videos.
    Anyway, that's enough of my worries.
    Thank you so much Chelsea - for opening my eyes and making me think hard - and for 'listening'!

  • @Biebtan
    @Biebtan ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I’ve been letting my watercolors collect dust over these past few weeks, and this inspired me to draw & paint tomorrow🫶🏽

    • @veronicastewart1112
      @veronicastewart1112 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Uh oh, the critical word is "tomorrow."

    • @Biebtan
      @Biebtan ปีที่แล้ว

      @@veronicastewart1112 you’re right, and I haven’t painted yet, but I DID sketch for the first time in weeks n plan on finishing the sketch & painting on Saturday🤩

  • @garthly
    @garthly ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I recall maybe 55 years ago reading something by Krishnamurti in which he stressed the value of staying with your boredom; just be bored and see where it leads, he wrote.

  • @virginiawright961
    @virginiawright961 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Somewhere I lost me I lost the ability to draw my love for life I don't know how to find her . But on a lighter note love your painting it's fabulous

  • @nehozack
    @nehozack ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This really hit home. I work full time and always feel like I don’t have enough time to paint - but then I get my usage report and I am spending 3 - 5 hours on my devices. I know it’s a time and energy suck… of course it also sucks your creativity away

  • @mist4926
    @mist4926 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    totally agree im so busy looking up things to paint and get hooked into all the cool pictures to paint i end up not painting any

  • @athieliagriffin7957
    @athieliagriffin7957 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    You hit it exactly! Watching someone else is much easier than doing it ourselves. I have been in boarding mode for a while. Hoping getting out in nature will reconnect me to the creative self. Thanks!

    • @yellowpink9962
      @yellowpink9962 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes...nature is a healer , a teacher and so much more. She is waiting for you !!!

  • @janedoe-vn4fs
    @janedoe-vn4fs ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You just described me. It makes my eyes sting with tears. I love watercolor. I have an art room but everything is sucking me away from what I love.

  • @paracoco1761
    @paracoco1761 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Painting was my creative outlet in my childhood and teenage years. Then I went to design school, and had to do a ton of drawing and painting assignments. Now I'm working as a creative director. It's been years since I painted with paints on a canvas. After I get home from work, I simply don't want to do anything related to colors and forms and compositions. It just feels like work; not fun anymore. 🤷‍♀️

  • @martabalahutrak1907
    @martabalahutrak1907 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you for this video. It really made me stop and consider the amount of time I spend on social media rather than on creative work.

  • @eabeloth7035
    @eabeloth7035 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are BY FAR one of the BEST. Im so glad I found your channel eventhough Im more into expressionism, emotionism, impressionism, scifi, realism, experimentalism.

  • @kellyt2018
    @kellyt2018 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you, I need the help. Need to return home, set up and plan to start painting daily. Landscape and portraiture are my focus.
    In northern latitude I miss light, but grown so I love with light.
    Keeping light therefore gorgeous shadows.
    Thank you.

  • @VTun1ng
    @VTun1ng ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Picasso broke that code with his simple but powerful (once one fully understand it) quote: “Every child is an artist. The problem is how to remain an artist once he grows up”. Imagine being in Pablo's shoes, being able to paint like he did at age of 14, getting all that recognition for your mastery, being exposed on every possible way, but still being able to paint like he did 6, 7 decades later. "The problem is how to remain an artist once he grow up."

  • @Mickymoto15
    @Mickymoto15 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is so true! We're so afraid to get bored, or to miss something on the internet (FOMO). When I went to bed I was restless and couldn't sleep. Every day I felt bad and "tired" from life itself, like everything was grey, but I didn't really notice it because it was normal for me. Until I deleted instagram from my phone. I slept better at night and woke up refreshed in the morning. I no longer scroll pointlessly through my cell phone when I'm bored, but grab a book, draw something in my sketchbook or write something. I clean up, I play with the dog. Life is colorful again and I notice so many little things in everyday life. yesterday I painted for the first time in months and it felt so good. I can't wait to continue painting tonight.

  • @juliepederson8468
    @juliepederson8468 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    My god. Your video describes me completely, Chelsea. And yes- I’ve known it. But it helps so much in hearing another artist saying this out loud. This is the first I’ve seen one of your videos! I just now subscribed…❤

  • @carda5967
    @carda5967 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Making me face what I already knew , except when you say it I feel encouraged and motivated, much appreciated

  • @tyarts
    @tyarts ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great video. I suffer more from distraction and discouragement than burnout. I’m a very competitive person and when I’m not the best I can be I get discouraged. I also get distracted by trying to be the best by watching too many tutorials, tips, and lessons. I consume all this info and rarely every remember it all to put it into practice. This year I’m going to try to produce more than I consume. No more wasting time being distracted or discouraged. I’m going to refine my skills and do my best to be my best.

  • @wanowiable
    @wanowiable ปีที่แล้ว +6

    As a struggling beginner, I’m glad I chanced on your site today, and subscribed. Being able to see videos of the process of a painting from start to finish is very helpful for me. As a deaf person who suffers with Complex PTSD, I appreciate your help.

  • @sarahkittelson622
    @sarahkittelson622 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Chelsea for covering this subject. I totally agree, and this isn't just for artists. It's permeating our whole society, and especially our younger generation. It's really a social media problem, as well. It's really sad to see a group of kids walking together, but they don't talk to each other, they are all on their phones! Is that socializing? I don't think so. This is an important point, and many more should hear it and pay attention to something other than the phone! Be creative, read a book, do something outdoors, have a real conversation!! There is life beyond screens, lol!

  • @teosiriosica
    @teosiriosica ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for sharing so authentically. The world becomes better with authenticity. Bless you❤

  • @RobertJonesWightpaint
    @RobertJonesWightpaint ปีที่แล้ว +5

    THAT was extremely useful - it's precisely why I've not painted anything so far this year, two weeks in: I got distracted by so many things - thanks to you, I've just done my first pen and ink sketch of 2023, and that will become a painting when I've killed off the various 'comforting' things that have obsessed me and kept me away from my paint and brushes. It may be simple when you think about it - but I couldn't work out what was wrong at all, and have been getting very frustrated - knowing there was a problem there, but not knowing what it was.

  • @ArtByHazel
    @ArtByHazel ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you for sharing this important reminder.
    I lost my mojo this year and stopped painting.
    I needed to change this dopamine hit and go back to painting again.
    Happy New Creative Year! 🎉

  • @shirleymontano9657
    @shirleymontano9657 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so where I am. Thank you. I'm heading off to be bored.

  • @conradmason87
    @conradmason87 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I stopped painting 3 years ago. Not through boredom but anxiety from the myriad challenges painting threw at me. The frustration over took me and I stopped. I play and teach drums, which I find challenging but not frustrating or angst ridden. Playing drums does, for me, far more than painting ever did.

    • @starvingartistscollective
      @starvingartistscollective ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I love the IDEA of painting but find myself really bored and frustrated by the monotony of the process.
      Weirdly other more complex 'process driven' art like ceramics, printmaking or jewellery keep my mind engaged with scientific problem solving like chemistry or engineering etc. in a way painting does not.....but I do LOVE watching other people's approach to painting!!

    • @gerriekaychurch658
      @gerriekaychurch658 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’m currently struggling with painting process after waiting all these years to paint! Now I may be stopping all together. Giving myself four more months 😢. The internet has me hooked as well and just maybe this is the problem

    • @chrisbender8714
      @chrisbender8714 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      March to the beat of your own drum!

  • @judyheim3949
    @judyheim3949 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was very helpful. Painting is my job as well and it is my financial support. It is critical that I paint every day. I wake up every morning with the plan to have that cup of coffee and watch one gardening TH-cam show I enjoy , then read my Bible followed by getting to work with paint. However lately I find that I watch that first show and then something else and then play some games Watch some tv and so the day goes and all if a sudden it’s 4 PM. Then I start painting. I cannot afford this kind of behavior. I must figure out how to break this pattern. I find that I have to listen to audio books because now when I try to read a literal book - or a kindle book- my old favorites cannot hold my attention any longer. I keep thinking I just can’t find a really good book but I honestly don’t think that is the real problem. Again thank you for your insight.

  • @alexis5350
    @alexis5350 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is me in a nutshell....I am ashamed to think of the time I have wasted by mindlessly scrolling through various sites. I say I'm going to get back to painting every day, and then waste time doing exactly what you talked about instead. I am bored many times and I need to stop filling that boredom with the internet or tv. And the quotation you read from Untamed just makes my heart sad for all the children coming along who will have to fight this battle of not letting the internet take over our minds. The description of the light going out of her son's eyes was heartbreaking and relatable. I am going to think of your video every day and make progress on getting back to painting. I really needed to hear you say this in such a clear way. I look forward to your videos every Saturday! Thank you so much, Chelsea!

  • @Giulia7818
    @Giulia7818 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I completely agree with you! I am constantly switching between painting and embroidery and find it helps me to always feel inspired to create.

  • @cherylhughes2201
    @cherylhughes2201 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have all my paints, etc. from years ago…need this advice to get me back to painting, my true love!

  • @marie-suzannealtzinger2044
    @marie-suzannealtzinger2044 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you for a very thought-provoking video (and I loved watching the portrait come alive with such apparent ease)

  • @Oceandaisey18
    @Oceandaisey18 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I painted non stop for the last 5 years… stopped in June. I watch so many videos of others painting while I tell myself I’ll get back to it. I don’t know what my glitch is… I crave it but I’ve been depressed with empty nest syndrome and having kids that are estranged from me. It consumes me and yet I know painting makes me happy… maybe I’m feeling undeserving of some of my own happiness… I don’t know.
    I appreciate this video and insight very much.

  • @janownes9676
    @janownes9676 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Painting is showing your inside beauty.❤😇

  • @robertakramlich
    @robertakramlich ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Chelsea this book changed my life in 2022 and it is probably because of it that I got out of my comfort zone and applied for the mentorship and art program that has been changing my life even more. I needed to hear all of that today, thank you for this and for so much. I am looking forward to keep working with you and watching you shine and help us shine with all your wisdom and infinite generosity ❤ you are one of a kind ❤

  • @denise2169
    @denise2169 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If addicted to our devices, this is a coping mechanism for dealing with painful emotions that we learned to bury during childhood.

  • @marydeclerck5673
    @marydeclerck5673 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have been doing this. Wow!! I don't just want to be busy. I want to be directed from an inner-place.

  • @denisestover2416
    @denisestover2416 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I work on silk with dyes....when I work. I've been working on a realistic portrait of a beautiful child who is no longer with us. I've never been trained, but I've come this far. I have produced 1 finished art piece in 3 years because of my constant need for my tablet. I have many pieces I've started, but I get sidetracked. Wow. I never truly thought of this as an obstacle. Thank you!
    God spoke to me through you today. Thank you. 🙂

  • @MerinaRael
    @MerinaRael ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very positive in this dark depressing time of year. Thanks so much

  • @CAASi-The-Artist
    @CAASi-The-Artist ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was absolutely amazing, and exactly what I needed to get over this current hump. I have open commissions, I'm in show prep for 2 upcoming exhibitions...and I still have been almost avoiding painting these past few weeks...I thank you so much for your openness and vulnerability, for giving me language and ideas I could not find. I had to subscribe after this video.

  • @myraantoniuk7934
    @myraantoniuk7934 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel as though I was meant to see this today...you took me on a journey this morning of thought and exploration. The opportunity for boredom has been lost and something that in the past has lead me to creativity. ❤

  • @JeffEickhoff
    @JeffEickhoff ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent, Chelsea. So important to just slow down and learn to be in the moment without stimulation. Great message. Cheers from the Netherlands.

  • @karphin1
    @karphin1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Glad I found this informative video. I completely agree, with needing to be bored. And the addictive nature of the technology we all have embraced! Happy New Year to you as well, and thanks!

  • @flayabarile7372
    @flayabarile7372 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have stage 3 dementia. My mental faculties are slipping away and consequently my career as an educator is over. These days I relax by firing up ZBrush and sculpting people, orcs, dragons. Or firing up Corel Painter and painting portraits of my friends. But it's hard to concentrate a lot of the time. So I watch TH-cam videos of people painting or doing video game walkthroughs and that allows me to chill while my mental reserves replenish. And last year I had 7 toes amputated, so learning to walk again is fun. I mean it. It's a challenge and it's a good one.

    • @joanconklin2053
      @joanconklin2053 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow, that's a lot to deal with! Hugs!

    • @flayabarile7372
      @flayabarile7372 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@joanconklin2053 Thank you. 🙂

  • @bonniewood5286
    @bonniewood5286 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this. I never related why I have no desire to paint the last few years and I use to love it and was good at it. I had gotten an iPad and it became all I did. This makes so much sense!💗🇨🇦

  • @smailhamza7251
    @smailhamza7251 ปีที่แล้ว

    You put the finger where it hurts.
    Disconnecting from the net is a great way to reconnect with ourselves, and what's important to know is that before Art is a business, it must first be just our personal pleasure until we get to creativity.
    We need to relearn how to live to feel the beauty that surrounds us and appreciate everything, even the fact of breathing.

  • @reubenisaac702
    @reubenisaac702 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This answered so many questions. Thank you. The most difficult part right now is that I'm in art/ animation school and I'm feeling this way now. I'm bored and constantly re-thinking my life over. I have no choice but to keep drawing, but instead of scrolling half the day away I need to go out and play pool more and keep going to jiu jitsu classes. I usually feel better when I'm done these things. I just didn't know why and didn't see the cycle I was in.

  • @brianstasiulis4285
    @brianstasiulis4285 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In my 65 yrs. I don't think I have ever been bored. Open your eyes, close your eyes it's all for free. You would be amazed at what's out there. The reason you're not painting is YOU! Rembrandt once said have no fear when in doubt pick up the brush and begin. Something like that

  • @1x1pixelstudio
    @1x1pixelstudio ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for sharing advices! That really helped.
    Btw, I love your paintings so much. They are always stunning and gorgeous!

  • @ArtbyL763
    @ArtbyL763 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I stopped painting because I’m a perfectionist and instead of relaxing me, painting made me anxious

  • @lil9784
    @lil9784 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As fellow artist I feel so understood through this video... Thank you for inciting inspiration within me to get that spark of drawing and sketching back.

  • @patrickdeel4283
    @patrickdeel4283 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the kind of advice I need to hear. And the kind of painting technique I want to learn! Thank you. Liked and subscribed. I look forward to watching the rest of your videos.

  • @rebeccasmith2865
    @rebeccasmith2865 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh,I can relate to this so much. I've found myself switching back and forth from writing out my novel to painting to collage art,and back to Journaling. I'm currently doing collage images that pertain to certain scenes in my novel. Im also into my 91st journal book. The collage art and Journaling is helping me to get back into my writing. I just go back and forth as I battle with perfectionism and self doubt. Finally had to convince myself to not worry about what others may think,but to do this for me. Thank you for this video. God bless.

  • @mehere337
    @mehere337 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved watching how you brought her to life with color and your brush strokes. Beautiful!

  • @melaniereeder2349
    @melaniereeder2349 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sounds like me! It’s a compulsion that never fills you up.

  • @lisaramscar
    @lisaramscar ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yes I find using laptops and phones draining me and I feel so drained that I don't want to be creative. There's too much info. Yes good video. Yes great advice. Let the brain defrag and inspiration will come. Thank you

  • @siobhanananda
    @siobhanananda ปีที่แล้ว +1

    First time I’ve seen your video and just wanted to deeply thank you for such a powerful and important message for anyone and everyone! 💐So much gratitude for you! 🙏❤️🤗

  • @franklinlavoie1890
    @franklinlavoie1890 ปีที่แล้ว

    Right message at the right moment. Thank you for sharing; loved watching your painting. The anecdotes about cell phones and tech gadgets numbing and snatching people's attention was spot on. Kudos kiddo.

  • @aypapit
    @aypapit ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is something that truly spoke to me and I really needed to hear this! Thank you for sharing
    this video! It really has hit home! Xxxx

  • @AlJohn001
    @AlJohn001 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great advice. Love your loose style. I will keep practicing. Thank you 🙏

  • @michaeldaugette802
    @michaeldaugette802 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this video , I totally agree it's happened to me as well, I started painting back in 1987 in highschool and decided that's what I wanted to do with my life but I have had this artistic block for the longest now and no matter how I try I can't get that passion back .

  • @MyVictory13
    @MyVictory13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Brilliant - both your painting and insights. Thank you!

  • @EvilAdvisor
    @EvilAdvisor ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for the video, links, and planting the idea of being bored to inspire creativity. It'll be interesting to see what results from it

  • @patrickedwards1378
    @patrickedwards1378 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for sharing the great insights! Always appreciated and helpful.

  • @kairomanladzinski3112
    @kairomanladzinski3112 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this reminder.
    You hit it!
    Boredom can turn into realization.....

  • @gabriellerangerart
    @gabriellerangerart 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was really refreshing to find! It definitely had me reflecting on my own relationship with my technology and the push to create. I can definitely sense my own burnout, and I think by living present and letting myself get bored, I can curb it. Just subscribed!

  • @pedrorocha9722
    @pedrorocha9722 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I thrive on boredom. It's such a a natural state. If I don't have nothing to say, then, yes, I take pause and go do something else. And when I'm happy, or in love, or expose myself to a new context or environement, then it's like clicking the creative turbo and there I go.

  • @Iamnosey
    @Iamnosey ปีที่แล้ว

    You are gifted in more ways than one! Thank you for this video. Keep on keeping on 🎨💕 creative people go thru these things 😊

  • @leonardjames1048
    @leonardjames1048 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so glad you got into this issue and that I found it. Just hearing what you have to say has been very healing and suddenly I got up off my ass to do things... like cleaning.

  • @deborahboller
    @deborahboller ปีที่แล้ว

    You are somehow watching me at night. (And during the day.) Thank you for this, Chelsea ❤️🌹❤️

  • @ledesmastudio6633
    @ledesmastudio6633 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Glad to have caught your video. I can relate totally with what you describe.

  • @mastersemmy59
    @mastersemmy59 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this. I really needed this door to open for my understanding.

  • @JustHoopTV
    @JustHoopTV ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can relate because I am currently in that phase of my life right now... thanks for the idea..I am surely going to try it out

  • @teresastaggs7923
    @teresastaggs7923 ปีที่แล้ว

    New subscriber here! You hit the nail on the head for me. Thank you. I will be looking into your programs. This is the "professional" help Ive been looking for.

  • @minaariel8288
    @minaariel8288 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your creation , and your wisdom ! this was a wonderful discovery , i look forward for more ! Thank you !

  • @TheMagpie123
    @TheMagpie123 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Brilliant video. Thanks for posting. I needed this.

  • @fmj9346
    @fmj9346 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have finally come out the other side of a dark tunnel. I had to give up oils as I developed a serious allergy to solvents and even the mildest chemicals. Back to beautiful watercolour which has been a major challenge. Broken through, I am off to France alone to paint.

  • @antdog6996
    @antdog6996 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this that's the one thing about being a true artist even if you find a medium that you're really happy with and that you liked your outcome I personally find myself always trying to dig deeper. I started with a pencil and I'll probably end with a pencil. But I love how I learn stuff in other mediums and then apply it in other forms of my art. I've been professionally airbrushing for 30 years and tattooing for twenty years . I've been learning digital 2D images doing some amazing really fun tie dyes and doing acrylic pours. I learned all those from TH-cam videos so it definitely is how you watch it most of the stuff that I watch is either DIY art or personal development and business growth. But I know how addictive it can be just scrolling through little videos and I try to avoid it. Thank you for this post

  • @ClaraMelchorBowman
    @ClaraMelchorBowman ปีที่แล้ว

    What a beautiful person you are and a beautiful artist. Thank you for sharing this...I needed to hear these words 💖

  • @barasra8847
    @barasra8847 ปีที่แล้ว

    That is true, lot of distractions like social media taking our time. Also evolving from perfection to impression style gives hope to get into painting. thanks 👍

  • @pjmccord
    @pjmccord ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just what I needed to hear! Thank you.

  • @ChantelleArts
    @ChantelleArts ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You've made some really interesting points here and the painting looks beautiful😄

  • @babs675
    @babs675 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved this video. Thank you for posting. ❤

  • @younun100
    @younun100 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Really needed this. Exactly what my issue is! Nice watching your painting while listening. Thanks. and Happy new year.

  • @lrenm8871
    @lrenm8871 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So so so TRUE! Nailed it on the head. I’ve been in a rut ever since my last art class in college. I focus too much on planning things to perfection, get easily bored, become impatient and then end up just doing nothing. I hear so much advice about just “do it” and “just create and fine tune it later”, but that is just so hard for me to do sometimes. I think it’s worse when I feel like everything I make HAS to be perfect or else it’ll be a “waste”. A waste of supplies, a waste of my time, etc.
    It made me anxious thinking about the whole process too, starting was always so hard but before, I had the motivation to do it because of the environment I was in (usually school art classes where there was an end goal).
    Recently I’ve gotten into drawing (which surprised me because I was more of a painter than a drawer). I start with small sketches and try to learn techniques from very short tutorials that have quick tricks they use. I’m very impatient and easily bored, so these helped a lot. Now that I’ve become a bit more confident with it, I’ve started to just allow myself to just “do it” like the past advice I’ve heard always said. It takes a lot of mental effort to finally give up on trying to be perfect and just try SOMETHING for once.

  • @RobItica-sg2dw
    @RobItica-sg2dw ปีที่แล้ว

    I think you're on point.. boredom increases productivity.. downside is that it doesn't lower acute stress when it pops up..unless there are 'boring' relaxers are in place