The Church knew as Jodi got her Therapist License revoked " Unprofessional Conduct" 18 months due to flagrantly violating HIPPA releasing Patient Files to LDS Church Elders & BYU in the Case of Adam Steed in 2012.They all knew !
You have to know/remember that bishops are lay people. They are not paid, nor trained in any type of social work or family counseling yet they are expected to make decisions that heavily affect lives. They have full time jobs, often businesses and large families. They are given directives and resources on how to handle these issues by the church. The Mormon church has very restrictive rules around sexuality. Masturbating is forbidden and obviously porn. But they also consider women showing knees and shoulders is walking porn.
Because in the way, the people were speaking about her she sounds like she had destroyed a lot of lives you know, and I have seen two counsellors myself and they were both awesome. They were both so so so so, amazing such kind hearted, and caring people you know I never had a problem with any of my counsellors. And I can tell just when I first met them that they would never abuse their power like that they would never use you know like they would never use your counselling session to insult or make people feel bad about what they need help for. So like if somebody was showing kind of some kind of violence, violent behavior, and was getting into fights with people. Like, even if they could use all you have control of their emotions I never had a counsellor who said it was their fault that there a danger to society and that they shouldn’t be out in public on their own, because he might beat somebody up, and everybody might be in danger because of them. No, they point-blank told them that you know they never made it feel like it was their fault. I mean the way they were going about it is that instead of telling them that it’s their fault that they don’t have any friends or you know it’s your fault for going to jail. They just said that you know like they had the choice they have choices in what they do and they gave them other ways of going about it, but they didn’t put them down or make them feel bad for anything that they did. They just said that well with you always have a choice. You know and they said they just ask the person like what would they have done differently you know do usually you get them to answer that to try and see if they can get them to rethink what they did in order to help them.
My counsellors are always helping people with coping skills and how to manage their emotions properly so that they don’t get in trouble you know they are so so so so so wonderful people that they try to help people they don’t insult them or put them down and make it seem like it’s their fault never ever ever. And so when I hear people that do things like this, you know that say they’re a counsellor and insult and hurt people further who deeply are more vulnerable and that are more acceptable to be hurt more because you know of course when you see a counsellor you’re not in your right mind, so anything that they say people would just believe what they said you know And I am very very very disgusted at how a counsellor could do such a horrible thing to people like that, and make it. The husbands are at fault and that they’re the ones who were ruining their marriage. You know because it’s not men the men who go to her I don’t think would ever ever ever say to their wives that it was necessarily their fault for their marriage, being destroyed, you know. Meanwhile, it may be true. The wife/girlfriend could be definitely up fault and Jody is saying to the man that he is at fault when she is the one who is doing the abuse using these tactics to hurt a person to marriage even further make I don’t know what her reasoning is for men to hurt a man, but she is a woman and she is hurting other men you know And she doesn’t have the fucking right to have her license ever again. And I think honestly I think somebody should beat her up in jail. You know for doing that because and I hope for five people beat up on her because that’s what she deserves you know she deserves to know what it’s like to be violated and hurt, and insulted as well.
He is only 22 years old. Oddly scruffy for a Mormon. They are generally required to be clean cut. So that seemed odd to me. I think he’s running propaganda for the church. Either on his own or encouraged by the church. They are running scared for their culpability in this and the fact there’s many like Jodi they continue to refer to.
The church bishop recommends an abusive ex-mother who lost custody of her own children? Is that correct? The Mormon church has culpability. They will lie from behind their religion to escape responsibility.
Jodi hates men. I think thats a recurrent thing here. Thats why she kicked Kevin out of Rubys life. She probably believed that it was easier to manipulate women more than men. She's a sadist.
I love that this guy said not only did he think that she was a bad counselor, but she was twisted too. Too many people are just focusing on the fact that she’s twisted.
@joshuadouglasjackmiller9246 Can you elaborate just a bit, if it isn't too painful to describe? If you're able, you should add your voice to those speaking up. All the best wishes to you.
Who the hell is this bishop, who keeps referring people to her??? Name him!!!! Or them!!! Check out their families. Did these bishops tape their kids mouths shut? How in the world did this go on for so long? The trail of carnage............
It may not suffice for most people, but I have spoken with the bishop who refered me. And luckily, I was the only one refered to jodi by him. He said he almost never made referals and it now super regretful after hearing what had happened.
It's interesting how many Bishops were sending people to her when she has such a history of breaking up couples. Shouldn't they have looked at her track record and decided she was not the best option to help couples thrive?
What do you mean so Many Bishops? It was probably a couple and that was a mistake. The Church does not recommend or vet counselors. There are 17 million members all over the world. Get real.
@@janicesellers3618If the church doesn’t vet the counselor then why would they ever refer someone to an unvetted person? Oh because she is Mormon too. Keep the money in house. 🙄🤡
This church Bishop must be on commission as he has recommended numerous families for "Couples Counselling". Notice that the couples end up divorcing soon afterwards.
It would be called a kick back under the table. People are being naive about the church. Bad things will continue to happen until the people at the top are held accountable.
@@marcio5583 probably more than one bishop. People commenting that it's not the bishops fault. Well they should know any kinds of people they are recommending. As one of those comments said in defense of the bishop why isn't the agency who suspended her license being held accountable. My response to that is all the more reason the bishop/church should have known about her. Not just the bishop though the church as well
How did a counselor and so-called "therapist" afford a 6 million dollar house. Was the LDS church paying her in some way.... It is one of the wealthiest church organizations that exists.
Notice the Church has not made a statement about their vetting of Hildebeast or position on child abuse in the church. Religious exemption must be ended.
The LDS Church does not recommend counselors. There is no betting because it isn't done. I agree the Bishop made a mistake but it was his mistake. The church has 17 million members world wide. Do you really think they have time to vet counselors all over the world. This was an individual mistake, not a church mistake.
Why? The LDS Church is very clear on the fact that ab*se in any way is wrong. Bishops are mandatory reporters. There is no religious exemption in the church about it. There are 17+ million members world wide. The church does not address individuals who do these things. They are simply excommunicated if found to be guilty.
The bishop is just a volunteer, not a LICENSED COUNSELOR like Jodi. They recommended her bc she was a licensed counselor and a church member. Why aren't you angry about the board that gave her a license?
@@CocoAvalon keep protecting the church!!! I'm not angry I don't even care. However the Mormon church is as bad as the catholic church at covering up anything they are responsible for. Oh like BOY SCOUTS OF AMERICA!! Countless people where recommended to that monster from LDS. MAYBE THEY SHOULD KNOW THE PEOPLE THEY'RE RECOMMENDING!! You should probably look into the issues that are happening. Or do you wear blinders like so many members of that organization 🤔?
@@CocoAvalonthe church paid her from tithing. The Bishops did on purpose to Adam Steed. Don't pretend they knew she would emotionally, psychologically and spiritually abuse Adam after his reporting the Mormons in the Boy Scouts of America. BYU also participated with financial abuse and breaking HIPPA laws. It's a corporation that owns a sex cult
@@dellaripamediaplease be aware that her teachings were on line and her videos. I’d want to know if the Bishop watched them and knew what she taught and stood for. It was there for everyone to see.
Bryce, thank you so much for sharing your story. Every story adds weight to the gravity of what Hildebrandt was doing and how evil and manipulative she is. I’m glad you were able to see through her so quickly.
@amysmiles9751 Click on his picture in the comment above yours, and you'll proceed directly to his channel @dellaripamedia. His name is Bryce Dellaripa.
The LDS church should be on the skids IF it's not already. Maximum exposure of the deceptive nature this organization is founded/based on is beyond warranted
Why was she recommended lots of times by bishops..its reported that one bishop's brother had a share in her business alledgedly..they are not qualified to recommend anyone.just a thought!!
They literally just recommended her bc she was a church member and a licensed therapist. Maybe be mad about the board that chose to give Jodi a license to counsel people.
@@CocoAvalon STILL defending your church are you. I bet you believe they weren't to blame for the cover-up of SA that happened with THE BOY SCOUTS OF AMERICA. Yeah the catholic church covered up their crap too.
I don't have the authority to let him off the hook or to condemn him. I am speaking about him for who I know him to be. A good and honest man who made a mistake
Haven't decided what to make of this new mormonism where church authorities are given consideration as regular, fallible people. For 50 yrs I was taught by the church that church authorities (including bishops) could do no wrong and must be obeyed. Once called, a bishop has the gift of special discernment from God. I think this is why so many members and X-LDS are angry at the betrayal of faith.
Jodi and Ruby are both malignant narcissists! The coming together of these two blew up!! Their selfish over inflated egos and real sadism made them a deadly duo! Thank goodness R got out snd saved he and his sister! And I bet the bishop was getting a kickback!! Jodi was all about the money!
This guy is awesome he’s so smart, direct and honest. I wish him the best. There’s not other way to realize that there’s nothing really bad or things aren’t too bad with yourself when you go to a therapy counselor to get your issues resolved but you find out and notice that the therapist is insane and actually has more issues than your own.
So did anybody who used Jodi as a counselor on the recommendation of the LDS church ever give feedback to the church? I don’t understand how this went on as long as it did given the failed outcomes of her style of counseling, especially couples counseling. What responsibility does the church have in all of this?
That’s a massive leap. 🤦♀️ A bishop is a man called to serve and lead a ward unit. They are not paid clergy. They have their own families and outside employment. They are not trained counselors. They wouldn’t necessarily go and watch her videos. They are given a list of possible licensed counselors and members can choose from the list. Yes, someone, somewhere apparently didn’t do enough due diligence to vet the list, but trying to blame a bishop, who was trying to help, isn’t the answer. Jodi is a master manipulator.
I never thought his Bishop, or anyone's Bishop was forcing couples to go to Jodi Hildebrandt. I think that is his way of interpreting things to continue to absolve the church of any responsibility where she is concerned. He is critical of himself for not doing his due diligence, so why not hold the church responsible for a lack of due diligence? The church is recommending her, so why arent they checking her credentials? Because the only thing they care about is that she is a member of the Mormon church. They don't even care if her teachings vary from there's because that gives them plausible deniability when she does something awful. He's in denial.
I’m glad Bryce spoke up and I hope by him doing so, it will encourage others to speak up as well. It’s offensive that someone portraying themselves as a “counselor” and “marriage counselor” would clearly *not respect the sanctity of marriage* itself and would seemingly go in there w the _intention of driving the couple apart, turning them against one another, alienating the husband from his wife and kids, running the marriage into the ground and destroying it!_That’s the __*_exact opposite of what a counselor/marriage counselor is supposed to do!!_* I don’t know Bryce’s story, this is the first I’ve heard him sharing his experience and I’ll be going over to watch his videos after this. But, I was caught off guard and shocked when he said the first couple months of his marriage weren’t going so great and that’s why they ended up in therapy to begin w. I feel bad for Bryce and his ex-wife that they had so much difficultly, even from the beginning of their marriage, and that is unfortunately ended in divorce. Wishing you nothing but the best, Bryce, and hope that _one day you’ll find love and happy a happy marriage, so you get your happily ever after!!_
No im just mad at the child abuse cover ups and the lawyered up church response. Very very sad that money and silence was their response to such crimes. Then we have silence..
Odd howcKevin Frank has a Doctorate in Engineering and couldn't see throught Jodi Hildebrand, yet less educated people have. I guess its common sense. That the police asked a judge for a warrant over concerns of child abuse in the past at the Franke home, and the judge refused to sign the warrant makes me think that judge needs to apologize to these kids.
Nothing wrong with being honest. He is making lemonade out of the lemon-head Jodi Hildebrandt who caused him grief and abuse, when she should have been helping him repair his relationship to his wife.... It's the least he deserves in compensation from my POV. He's also do a service to others by calling her out for what she is. It's a win-win no matter what. I think he's being very charitable to Hildebrandt under the circumstances by stating he doesn't blame her for his divorce. I'm not certain I'd be so kind or conciliatory. I reckon Hildebrandt was a catalyst in the failure of the marriage.
Sir: No offense, but, as the mom of 3 adult sons, I would not count a new)ly-married couple living with the man's MOTHER as a great way to start a marriage. Mothers + sons are pretty close. A married woman deserves her OWN home, away from his mom.
The whole leadership needs to be held accountable. It definitely starts at the top. And Joseph Smith and Brigham Young got all those directives going and following prophets expanded on the cult control.
Lol, not for a counseling referal, but because he is a good man who I still care about. I am wondering how this is affecting him. Take things in context
For all trying to blame a bishop, A bishop is a man called to serve and lead a ward unit (like a parish). They are not paid clergy. They have their own families and outside employment. They are not trained counselors. They wouldn’t likely go and watch any of her videos. They are given a list of possible licensed counselors and members can choose from the list. Yes, someone, somewhere apparently didn’t do enough due diligence to vet the list (presuming she’s still on the list… I read she hadn’t been on the list for sometime) but trying to blame a bishop, who was trying to help, isn’t the answer. Jodi is a master manipulator. Also, the church only pays for counseling for those who cannot afford to pay for the counseling themselves. So, someone like Ruby and Kevin had money to pay for counseling, they would (or should) have paid their own way. Counseling is not forced. It’s by the families’ own desire.
And this is the reasons bishops shouldn’t council anyone. And shouldn’t be giving intimate interviews with children about their sexual practices. Of course, you will also get some bad bishops, too, who manipulate and abuse.
The LDS Bishops who promoted & recommended JH have some explaining to do!
Why they didn't know she was like that. They are human. I'm sure if they knew how she was they wouldn't have recommended her.
Believe me, we all want answers, even faithful members of the church
They had numerous complaints. No excuses!!!
The Church knew as Jodi got her Therapist License revoked " Unprofessional Conduct" 18 months due to flagrantly violating HIPPA releasing Patient Files to LDS Church Elders & BYU in the Case of Adam Steed in 2012.They all knew !
You have to know/remember that bishops are lay people. They are not paid, nor trained in any type of social work or family counseling yet they are expected to make decisions that heavily affect lives. They have full time jobs, often businesses and large families. They are given directives and resources on how to handle these issues by the church.
The Mormon church has very restrictive rules around sexuality. Masturbating is forbidden and obviously porn. But they also consider women showing knees and shoulders is walking porn.
I was a patient of hers with my oldest child's father. She almost destroyed our relationship. We left when we saw the scam.
Do you mean to say? You left when you saw the scam. Or did you mean you left when you saw the scum?
Because in the way, the people were speaking about her she sounds like she had destroyed a lot of lives you know, and I have seen two counsellors myself and they were both awesome. They were both so so so so, amazing such kind hearted, and caring people you know I never had a problem with any of my counsellors. And I can tell just when I first met them that they would never abuse their power like that they would never use you know like they would never use your counselling session to insult or make people feel bad about what they need help for.
So like if somebody was showing kind of some kind of violence, violent behavior, and was getting into fights with people. Like, even if they could use all you have control of their emotions I never had a counsellor who said it was their fault that there a danger to society and that they shouldn’t be out in public on their own, because he might beat somebody up, and everybody might be in danger because of them. No, they point-blank told them that you know they never made it feel like it was their fault.
I mean the way they were going about it is that instead of telling them that it’s their fault that they don’t have any friends or you know it’s your fault for going to jail. They just said that you know like they had the choice they have choices in what they do and they gave them other ways of going about it, but they didn’t put them down or make them feel bad for anything that they did.
They just said that well with you always have a choice. You know and they said they just ask the person like what would they have done differently you know do usually you get them to answer that to try and see if they can get them to rethink what they did in order to help them.
My counsellors are always helping people with coping skills and how to manage their emotions properly so that they don’t get in trouble you know they are so so so so so wonderful people that they try to help people they don’t insult them or put them down and make it seem like it’s their fault never ever ever. And so when I hear people that do things like this, you know that say they’re a counsellor and insult and hurt people further who deeply are more vulnerable and that are more acceptable to be hurt more because you know of course when you see a counsellor you’re not in your right mind, so anything that they say people would just believe what they said you know
And I am very very very disgusted at how a counsellor could do such a horrible thing to people like that, and make it. The husbands are at fault and that they’re the ones who were ruining their marriage. You know because it’s not men the men who go to her I don’t think would ever ever ever say to their wives that it was necessarily their fault for their marriage, being destroyed, you know.
Meanwhile, it may be true. The wife/girlfriend could be definitely up fault and Jody is saying to the man that he is at fault when she is the one who is doing the abuse using these tactics to hurt a person to marriage even further make I don’t know what her reasoning is for men to hurt a man, but she is a woman and she is hurting other men you know
And she doesn’t have the fucking right to have her license ever again. And I think honestly I think somebody should beat her up in jail. You know for doing that because and I hope for five people beat up on her because that’s what she deserves you know she deserves to know what it’s like to be violated and hurt, and insulted as well.
@@leighhoppins9273 I have found amazing therapist as well who were just like the ones you mentioned but Jodi was by far the worst.
How? What was the scam? Please elaborate. Thanks.
Good for him for speaking out.
Thank you
I agree.
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He is only 22 years old. Oddly scruffy for a Mormon. They are generally required to be clean cut. So that seemed odd to me. I think he’s running propaganda for the church. Either on his own or encouraged by the church. They are running scared for their culpability in this and the fact there’s many like Jodi they continue to refer to.
@@JM-pg5rc what does his beard have to do with anything?
This guy is so honest! Such a good person to interview. He isn't hiding behind any bs
Thank you. I try to be sincere
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Your usernames give you away. Just bots for the church.
The church bishop recommends an abusive ex-mother who lost custody of her own children? Is that correct?
The Mormon church has culpability. They will lie from behind their religion to escape responsibility.
Jodi hates men. I think thats a recurrent thing here. Thats why she kicked Kevin out of Rubys life. She probably believed that it was easier to manipulate women more than men. She's a sadist.
She has a weird satisfaction in breaking up families. Bizarre controlling sadistic issues
I get self-loathing homosexual vibes from her. Very Roy Cohn.
She really hates men. It is super strange. I am sure past abuse must play into it
@@gerrymorales🔔 BINGO! 🔔
@@edunlap6594 thank god people know who roy cohn was.
I love that this guy said not only did he think that she was a bad counselor, but she was twisted too. Too many people are just focusing on the fact that she’s twisted.
I was also a patient of her’s when I was a kid. I wasn’t tied up in a basement but she had very inappropriate and cruel ways to treat even children.
@joshuadouglasjackmiller9246 Can you elaborate just a bit, if it isn't too painful to describe? If you're able, you should add your voice to those speaking up. All the best wishes to you.
Glad you spoke up, Bryce. Using descriptors like "creepy" and "weird" for Jodi's style of counseling says it all. Good job. 👍👍👍👍👍
Who the hell is this bishop, who keeps referring people to her??? Name him!!!! Or them!!! Check out their families. Did these bishops tape their kids mouths shut? How in the world did this go on for so long? The trail of carnage............
A lawsuit against the Mormon Church seems appropriate. It’s not just not one bishop.
It may not suffice for most people, but I have spoken with the bishop who refered me. And luckily, I was the only one refered to jodi by him. He said he almost never made referals and it now super regretful after hearing what had happened.
And I know his kids. They are doing totally okay and well adjusted.
No indicators of abuse.
It's interesting how many Bishops were sending people to her when she has such a history of breaking up couples. Shouldn't they have looked at her track record and decided she was not the best option to help couples thrive?
Lawsuit against LDS Church seems appropriate!!
What do you mean so Many Bishops? It was probably a couple and that was a mistake. The Church does not recommend or vet counselors. There are 17 million members all over the world. Get real.
@@janicesellers3618If the church doesn’t vet the counselor then why would they ever refer someone to an unvetted person? Oh because she is Mormon too. Keep the money in house. 🙄🤡
This church Bishop must be on commission as he has recommended numerous families for "Couples Counselling". Notice that the couples end up divorcing soon afterwards.
There is no commission or any money earned by these Bishops, it’s not a paid position.
It would be called a kick back under the table. People are being naive about the church. Bad things will continue to happen until the people at the top are held accountable.
My thoughts exactly...this Bishop keeps coming up.
@@marcio5583 probably more than one bishop. People commenting that it's not the bishops fault. Well they should know any kinds of people they are recommending. As one of those comments said in defense of the bishop why isn't the agency who suspended her license being held accountable. My response to that is all the more reason the bishop/church should have known about her. Not just the bishop though the church as well
How did a counselor and so-called "therapist" afford a 6 million dollar house.
Was the LDS church paying her in some way....
It is one of the wealthiest church organizations that exists.
Notice the Church has not made a statement about their vetting of Hildebeast or position on child abuse in the church. Religious exemption must be ended.
@jenna2431 Hildebeast is perfect. Thanks for some comic relief in these dark times.
The LDS Church does not recommend counselors. There is no betting because it isn't done. I agree the Bishop made a mistake but it was his mistake. The church has 17 million members world wide. Do you really think they have time to vet counselors all over the world. This was an individual mistake, not a church mistake.
@@janicesellers3618she was recommended on a list of LDS therapists, period.
Yeah they should make a statement, there may be loads more hildebrasts out there
Why? The LDS Church is very clear on the fact that ab*se in any way is wrong. Bishops are mandatory reporters. There is no religious exemption in the church about it. There are 17+ million members world wide. The church does not address individuals who do these things. They are simply excommunicated if found to be guilty.
When is the Mormon church going to be held accountable for this monster regarding recommendations to her????
The bishop is just a volunteer, not a LICENSED COUNSELOR like Jodi. They recommended her bc she was a licensed counselor and a church member. Why aren't you angry about the board that gave her a license?
@@CocoAvalon keep protecting the church!!! I'm not angry I don't even care. However the Mormon church is as bad as the catholic church at covering up anything they are responsible for. Oh like BOY SCOUTS OF AMERICA!! Countless people where recommended to that monster from LDS. MAYBE THEY SHOULD KNOW THE PEOPLE THEY'RE RECOMMENDING!! You should probably look into the issues that are happening. Or do you wear blinders like so many members of that organization 🤔?
All of this needs to be investigated. Licensing boards have to follow rules too. She lost her license at one point but did she get it back?
@@MNP208 ALL THE MORE the church should have QUESTIONED her credentials since THEY were recommending her to their parishioners!!!
@@CocoAvalonthe church paid her from tithing. The Bishops did on purpose to Adam Steed. Don't pretend they knew she would emotionally, psychologically and spiritually abuse Adam after his reporting the Mormons in the Boy Scouts of America. BYU also participated with financial abuse and breaking HIPPA laws. It's a corporation that owns a sex cult
9:37 No, it was the bishop's task or the church itself to vet Jodi before he/they recommends her to anyone.
Therapists are licensed by a therapy board. The licensing board would have to revoke this psycho therapist’s license
Clients, bishops, and the board needed to do more vetting. We'll just say that
@@dellaripamediaplease be aware that her teachings were on line and her videos. I’d want to know if the Bishop watched them and knew what she taught and stood for. It was there for everyone to see.
I like this guy. He's refreshingly honest.
Thank you for sharing this video. So grateful for this man and his courage to speak up.
This feels like the most believable interview I’ve seen on this yet.
See the Jessi Hidelbrant (Jodie's niece) interviews if you have not.
Bryce, thank you so much for sharing your story. Every story adds weight to the gravity of what Hildebrandt was doing and how evil and manipulative she is. I’m glad you were able to see through her so quickly.
Thank you for your support. I am glad to be a part of making sure she wont hurt more people
What is his youtube channel?
@amysmiles9751 Click on his picture in the comment above yours, and you'll proceed directly to his channel @dellaripamedia. His name is Bryce Dellaripa.
So glad to you spoke out. It feels really good getting everyone’s perspective. Hopefully this will help
Watched your YT vids yesterday! Keep speaking out!
whats his YT
@@nenej12 his name, Bryce Dellaripa. @brycedellaripa2199
Thank you for the support. The channel name is dellaripamedia
Thank you Bryce for sharing this!
Feel bad for him and all patients of Jodi. What a monster she is.
She is a serial marriage destroyer
This woman says that being sexually attracted to your spouse is a “distortion.” 🙄😂
I appreciate his honesty. It would be helpful to have an actual counselor explain why she is unethical.
Thank You Sir for coming forward!!
The LDS church should be on the skids IF it's not already. Maximum exposure of the deceptive nature this organization is founded/based on is beyond warranted
Thanks for sharing your story.
You're welcome
Why was she recommended lots of times by bishops..its reported that one bishop's brother had a share in her business alledgedly..they are not qualified to recommend anyone.just a thought!!
They literally just recommended her bc she was a church member and a licensed therapist. Maybe be mad about the board that chose to give Jodi a license to counsel people.
@@CocoAvalon STILL defending your church are you. I bet you believe they weren't to blame for the cover-up of SA that happened with THE BOY SCOUTS OF AMERICA. Yeah the catholic church covered up their crap too.
How many marriages has she destroyed!
He is letting the bishop off the hook here.
I don't have the authority to let him off the hook or to condemn him. I am speaking about him for who I know him to be. A good and honest man who made a mistake
@dellaripamedia thank you for being transparent. My heart goes out you and the family affected by her.
Haven't decided what to make of this new mormonism where church authorities are given consideration as regular, fallible people. For 50 yrs I was taught by the church that church authorities (including bishops) could do no wrong and must be obeyed. Once called, a bishop has the gift of special discernment from God. I think this is why so many members and X-LDS are angry at the betrayal of faith.
Your Bishop should of done His due diligence, if recommending her!
Thank you for sharing your story.
I am glad to help the cause
Jodi and Ruby are both malignant narcissists! The coming together of these two blew up!! Their selfish over inflated egos and real sadism made them a deadly duo! Thank goodness R got out snd saved he and his sister! And I bet the bishop was getting a kickback!! Jodi was all about the money!
So Jody is a man hater...makes sense
This guy is awesome he’s so smart, direct and honest. I wish him the best. There’s not other way to realize that there’s nothing really bad or things aren’t too bad with yourself when you go to a therapy counselor to get your issues resolved but you find out and notice that the therapist is insane and actually has more issues than your own.
So did anybody who used Jodi as a counselor on the recommendation of the LDS church ever give feedback to the church? I don’t understand how this went on as long as it did given the failed outcomes of her style of counseling, especially couples counseling. What responsibility does the church have in all of this?
Everyone remember her teaching was on line, the church/Bishop could see her principles and watch her videos! So he must have supported her teaching!
That’s a massive leap. 🤦♀️ A bishop is a man called to serve and lead a ward unit. They are not paid clergy. They have their own families and outside employment. They are not trained counselors. They wouldn’t necessarily go and watch her videos. They are given a list of possible licensed counselors and members can choose from the list. Yes, someone, somewhere apparently didn’t do enough due diligence to vet the list, but trying to blame a bishop, who was trying to help, isn’t the answer. Jodi is a master manipulator.
@@kathykoeven and Bishop referring people to her should know what she teaches! It was easily accessible on line! No pass for the Bishops!
Him plugging his youtube is hilarious, he's ridiculously honest lmao
I never thought his Bishop, or anyone's Bishop was forcing couples to go to Jodi Hildebrandt. I think that is his way of interpreting things to continue to absolve the church of any responsibility where she is concerned. He is critical of himself for not doing his due diligence, so why not hold the church responsible for a lack of due diligence? The church is recommending her, so why arent they checking her credentials? Because the only thing they care about is that she is a member of the Mormon church. They don't even care if her teachings vary from there's because that gives them plausible deniability when she does something awful.
He's in denial.
Hmmm, chirch refers couples to JH and they end up divorced. Almost seems like a pattern.
I’m glad Bryce spoke up and I hope by him doing so, it will encourage others to speak up as well.
It’s offensive that someone portraying themselves as a “counselor” and “marriage counselor” would clearly *not respect the sanctity of marriage* itself and would seemingly go in there w the _intention of driving the couple apart, turning them against one another, alienating the husband from his wife and kids, running the marriage into the ground and destroying it!_That’s the __*_exact opposite of what a counselor/marriage counselor is supposed to do!!_*
I don’t know Bryce’s story, this is the first I’ve heard him sharing his experience and I’ll be going over to watch his videos after this. But, I was caught off guard and shocked when he said the first couple months of his marriage weren’t going so great and that’s why they ended up in therapy to begin w. I feel bad for Bryce and his ex-wife that they had so much difficultly, even from the beginning of their marriage, and that is unfortunately ended in divorce.
Wishing you nothing but the best, Bryce, and hope that _one day you’ll find love and happy a happy marriage, so you get your happily ever after!!_
Thank you so much for the kind words.
No im just mad at the child abuse cover ups and the lawyered up church response. Very very sad that money and silence was their response to such crimes. Then we have silence..
Odd howcKevin Frank has a Doctorate in Engineering and couldn't see throught Jodi Hildebrand, yet less educated people have. I guess its common sense. That the police asked a judge for a warrant over concerns of child abuse in the past at the Franke home, and the judge refused to sign the warrant makes me think that judge needs to apologize to these kids.
Very smart young man, to see Jodi for who she is!😊
She is very tricky and manipulative, but I am glad I got out
He flat out admitted that he’s partly motivated to speak out because he wants to get subscribers for his YT channel. 😅😂😂😂
At least his honest, and I get it.
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Nothing wrong with being honest. He is making lemonade out of the lemon-head Jodi Hildebrandt who caused him grief and abuse, when she should have been helping him repair his relationship to his wife.... It's the least he deserves in compensation from my POV. He's also do a service to others by calling her out for what she is. It's a win-win no matter what. I think he's being very charitable to Hildebrandt under the circumstances by stating he doesn't blame her for his divorce. I'm not certain I'd be so kind or conciliatory. I reckon Hildebrandt was a catalyst in the failure of the marriage.
Sir: No offense, but, as the mom of 3 adult sons, I would not count a new)ly-married couple living with the man's MOTHER as a great way to start a marriage.
Mothers + sons are pretty close. A married woman deserves her OWN home, away from his mom.
I'd really like to hear this from the womans perspective. Not that I dont believe him, just want to hear the other side.
Glad ppl are coming forward. Silence protects abusers.
These bishops need to be held accountable! And sorry, but if a counselor would ask me if I ever watched porn, I would hang up the phone! 😂
The whole leadership needs to be held accountable. It definitely starts at the top. And Joseph Smith and Brigham Young got all those directives going and following prophets expanded on the cult control.
Thanks for giving affected people of Jodi's abuse & fraud scams a platform. Connextions is a monetized Cult. IMO
In your experience, what did she do or say that was creepy? Try to be more specific if you can.
You *still* need to talk to your bishop? lol. Good grief.
Lol, not for a counseling referal, but because he is a good man who I still care about. I am wondering how this is affecting him. Take things in context
Are all of you involved under the same bishop? Different bishops?
@@MNP208no, each ward has there own bishop. A ward is basically a neighborhood worth of memebers that live in the same area.
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned
Well at least he's honest 😂
Omgosh...victims everywhere
Smart guy he quit!😂
Not ok looking at other naked women if married tho dude
I love this dude!😂
For all trying to blame a bishop, A bishop is a man called to serve and lead a ward unit (like a parish). They are not paid clergy. They have their own families and outside employment. They are not trained counselors. They wouldn’t likely go and watch any of her videos. They are given a list of possible licensed counselors and members can choose from the list. Yes, someone, somewhere apparently didn’t do enough due diligence to vet the list (presuming she’s still on the list… I read she hadn’t been on the list for sometime) but trying to blame a bishop, who was trying to help, isn’t the answer. Jodi is a master manipulator.
Also, the church only pays for counseling for those who cannot afford to pay for the counseling themselves. So, someone like Ruby and Kevin had money to pay for counseling, they would (or should) have paid their own way. Counseling is not forced. It’s by the families’ own desire.
And this is the reasons bishops shouldn’t council anyone. And shouldn’t be giving intimate interviews with children about their sexual practices. Of course, you will also get some bad bishops, too, who manipulate and abuse.