I could be wrong but Aditya seems like he’d be the fun parent and Amit would be the one reinforcing boundaries. But the kid(s) will definitely grow up loved and nurtured- of that I’m sure. All the best! You guys rock!
All options are $$$; having your own, surrogacy, and adoption. After like 4 years, my husband and I decided to have a child together. He's a cute little half Indian and half Thai baby! We wanted to adopt but the process was lengthy and it was so expensive; about $30k to $60k depending on the country. I was super open to having a surrogate but my husband did not feel it was right to "exploit" a woman. After our own pregnancy journey and the many health scares, we decided that if ever we were to have another child, we would definitely adopt. My aunt has adopted two children, who are siblings, through the church. They were 1 and 3 years old. I think what I have learned from their adoption process is the need to really getting to know the family's background and health history. The biological parents were users of drugs and alcohol. The mother denies using alcohol or drugs during her pregnancy but if you're familiar with fetal alcohol syndrome (FAS), you can see the physical defects and see the other issues relating to FAS. Early recognition would be beneficial in ensuring that the child gets all the help they need (e.g. speech therapy, behavioral therapy, etc.). As far as diapers (LOL), if you're starting at the newborn stage you're looking at 10-12 wet/soiled diapers a day. As the baby gets older, they may go days without having a bowel movement. What about feeding the baby? Breastmilk through donors? Or formula? If you're looking for breastmilk, you can find mothers who donate through Human Milk 4 Human Babies on FB (just add your state while searching). I'm a breastmilk donor and I'm so glad I'm able to produce enough to feed another baby. I wish you two love birds the best!! You two will make fantastic parents!!
@@AmitAdityaTV hi my name is chetan from England 🏴 I really love ❤ your videos you both make such a cute 🥰 couple you both are gorgeous I am also gay too I am looking for a nice boy too I really hope I find someone ji hannji parji tuddaa ki Hal chal theek hai ji or tussse daso ji sadda lal gup sup ji really nice to meet you both
Guys, I had a baby boy roughly an year back through surrogacy; my parents have helped immensely and are continuing to do so. I have moved back to India from UK just because of my boy and my parents. I hadn't shifted to India till earlier this year as I went back to UK last year in Jan when Neil (my boy) was a month and half old, to sell my house and wind up things in UK, then Corona happened and lockdowns followed. To cut the long story short, the house didn't sell and finally the house was put on rent, however the beurocarcy and paperwork moved really slowly and though I was supposed to come back in Aug 2020, I have been able to return to India only on 20th Jan this year. Thereafter, it was 7 days mandatory quarantine at a hotel in Delhi, and it was only on Jan 27th when I was with my child, finally. He is a joy to be around as he is such a naughty and active kid. Parenthood does something deep inside you so I would advise that as soon as you work out the hows, just go for it. God bless and good luck to both of you. x
Adopted or through surrogacy, the babies will be very very lucky to have parents who will not not force any gender stereotypes on them and allow them to be themselves without any worries..wishing you lots of luck and waiting for your new journey to begin❤😘
sorry to disrupt the positivity, but i think they're thinking this much because society still doesn't see homosexuality as valid, and they're probably shit scared of the backlash they might receive. again, this is only a speculation, i apologize to amit and aditya if this is not the case. i wish you two the best of luck and loads of love!
You guys know raising a kid and raising a dog is a completely different thing. You will make great dads but you should consider more widely. Good luck with the process! ❤️
i would say adopt because like you said so many kids need families and children get split up and a lot of children are not accepted being gay so they are in foster care because maybe the parents don't want them. I think the biggest reason tho is i think it is weird when the parents don't even know each other and when the kids goes "how was i made" then you go that their bio mom is not their mom and just carried them, but if you adopt a child i think it will be easier for them to accept and comprehend it because they know their parents or something but honestly it doesn't matter whatever you chose you will be great parents & both ways are great ways. :) good luck!
"New Dads On The Block" is a great blog of a gay couple in NYC who documented their entire surrogacy process from beginning to end. Some of the information may be outdated because it is from a while back. But it was so empowering to read and understand their entire journey. Highly recommend checking it out!
I too have the same thought of surrogacy- this is lengthy risky expensive and also it might get failure after some months- we cannot handle this things dr, also adoption will give life and future for the baby who is already present in the world.
Tbh there are many gay couples on youtube but there are these two couples that I like the most 1. Amit and aditya( amit and Aditya tv) 2.Divesh and atulan (honey imm home) Why?? Because these guys have the most beautiful smiles I've ever seen
Adoption.....! guys go for adoption making out a baby and having it in this mortal world is very awesome feeling but there are lots of kis who are orphans and they don't have parents pls lit there worlds with shine I m gay as well M in India if I would get chance I will adopt a baby girl.... Love u guys
I'm the same Divyaraj. I'm in a long-term same sex relationship and though we're not thinking about having kids just yet, we agree adoption is the way to go. It's a great service to humanity, and it also avoids some of the social consequences and potential complications of surrogacy.
Omg😍😍😍... U guys will be a awesome papa & daddu.... But please adopt a kid u guys can give that kid...the parent love that he is longing for , u guys can also provide the kid with great future & lovable family♥♥...all the best
I think documenting the full journey of trying to have a baby is important for others to learn from. The good and the bad, people can learn what expectations to have.
Aditya: "my dad is so carefree, thats a problem " Me : oh man and my dad keeps searching for his glasses which are resting on his forehead Jokes apart, tbh I'm waiting for your baby guys I'm damn sure you are going to be great dads best of luck 🤗
Oh yes! When we have a good metabolism and we eat all healthy food including a lot of fibre, salads, raw veggies etc, we flush toxins via poop a lot. No wonder if he does it 4 times a day. 😁
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My husband & I have through this. Our adopted son is now in his mid-20s. I suspect surrogacy is likely a faster route. Adoption, while enormously moral, is a long process here in USA. Is adopting in India an option? Siblings? A cousin, living in Israel, I believe adopted from India (I think)...the adoption process, is driven ‘locally’ - you guys are in NJ (I think) so reaching out to your local social services/adoption program is best. They will guide you, do home study, training programs.
Great video. You are a beautiful couple and never doubt yourself about parenting. My son and his husband adopted a baby girl and I must say that they are great parents. Wishing you all the best in your journey.❤️❤️
Hi to both of u sir ! Am Saptak from India , west bengal, kolkata, am 19 yr. gay ! I love to watch ur videos a lot! Sir personally i will recommend to adopt two baby boys, coz u both r male, and being a male it's a bit difficult to understand girls problem, as there r many things which we can't understand, whereas as we r male so,it will be easy for u both or both of ur babies to disscus about any problem! And am saying for adoption coz, those babies r unfortunate that there parents left them, to make them happy, that will be the greatest happiness 😊😊 Thank you love for all of u 😘😘😘
No doubt about it, you guys will be GREAT fathers. Any child would be more than blessed to grow up with the love, understanding, and the laughter that you two can offer. I can't wait for that moment to happen and to see your daily experience with raising a child (children). Can't wait for the next post!
Always good to see you guys. as you go down this path the direction that is best for you will become more and more clear, keeping your current and future family in my prayers for complete happiness ! by the way I think you both will be Amazing Parents!
You both are inspiration and living example to be happy even during this time of the pandemic. As the world keeps mourning about everything even way before Covid-19 hit the world. Anyway, I hope you guys will do more video in future and May God bless you both. tc.
I could be wrong but Aditya seems like he’d be the fun parent and Amit would be the one reinforcing boundaries. But the kid(s) will definitely grow up loved and nurtured- of that I’m sure. All the best! You guys rock!
🍼 feeding kon karvayaga?? Reply??
@@hitarthdesai1786baap (both of them are dads)
I think you guys can do adoption. There are so many kids homeless in this world. And parents like you can make there life easy
Not at all necessary they cn hv their own semen child through lesbian or sarrogacy.
@@i.n.chakraborty1245 Semen Child ? WTF 🤣
It's Not Entirely Gay People's Responsibility To Take Care Of All The Orphans In The World , Straight People Can Adopt Too
you are ok with your point but everyone want there own child
@@i.n.chakraborty1245👁️👄👁️ Semen child
All options are $$$; having your own, surrogacy, and adoption. After like 4 years, my husband and I decided to have a child together. He's a cute little half Indian and half Thai baby! We wanted to adopt but the process was lengthy and it was so expensive; about $30k to $60k depending on the country. I was super open to having a surrogate but my husband did not feel it was right to "exploit" a woman. After our own pregnancy journey and the many health scares, we decided that if ever we were to have another child, we would definitely adopt.
My aunt has adopted two children, who are siblings, through the church. They were 1 and 3 years old. I think what I have learned from their adoption process is the need to really getting to know the family's background and health history. The biological parents were users of drugs and alcohol. The mother denies using alcohol or drugs during her pregnancy but if you're familiar with fetal alcohol syndrome (FAS), you can see the physical defects and see the other issues relating to FAS. Early recognition would be beneficial in ensuring that the child gets all the help they need (e.g. speech therapy, behavioral therapy, etc.).
As far as diapers (LOL), if you're starting at the newborn stage you're looking at 10-12 wet/soiled diapers a day. As the baby gets older, they may go days without having a bowel movement. What about feeding the baby? Breastmilk through donors? Or formula? If you're looking for breastmilk, you can find mothers who donate through Human Milk 4 Human Babies on FB (just add your state while searching). I'm a breastmilk donor and I'm so glad I'm able to produce enough to feed another baby.
I wish you two love birds the best!! You two will make fantastic parents!!
Wow! This was so helpful! Thank you for giving us all this info. We are definitely excited about the future. 😊
@@AmitAdityaTV hi my name is chetan from England 🏴 I really love ❤ your videos you both make such a cute 🥰 couple you both are gorgeous I am also gay too I am looking for a nice boy too I really hope I find someone ji hannji parji tuddaa ki Hal chal theek hai ji or tussse daso ji sadda lal gup sup ji really nice to meet you both
@@AmitAdityaTV you will both make such lovely dads I will support you both for that certainly it’s chetan here from England 🏴
@@AmitAdityaTV you will both make such lovely parents certainly ji hannji parji
@@AmitAdityaTV do have any gay friends
Aadi: Like Thokna.. Okay Sorry.. 🤣🤣 i died out of laughter🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂
😅😂
Literally 😂😂😂😂😂
What does that mean btw??
@@lowkeypancake2696 it means to fuck but his reaction
@@allcategoryvideo551 Hello Call Factory Video
I totally agree with Aditya. There are kids out there who need a family.
You guys will make such good parents ❤️
OMG Amazing!! You guys are going to be the coolest parents ever!
@TH-camr ✔️ sure.. will do!
Hello
If you guys have a kid, I am 100% sure Aditya would make that kid learn kick-ass makeup and Amit would teach them floor breaking dance!
Adam doesn't care about his future sis Or bro, 😂😂😂 he only want to sleep💤😴
😂😂🤣
*siblings (enby)
You BOTH will be super great parents and role models for your new addition!!!!
OMG! Please tell me its an actual baby and not another dog lol
🤣🤣
Actual babies.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@seokjinstwerkinghusband3009 heyy... I see u again 😂
Guys, I had a baby boy roughly an year back through surrogacy; my parents have helped immensely and are continuing to do so. I have moved back to India from UK just because of my boy and my parents. I hadn't shifted to India till earlier this year as I went back to UK last year in Jan when Neil (my boy) was a month and half old, to sell my house and wind up things in UK, then Corona happened and lockdowns followed. To cut the long story short, the house didn't sell and finally the house was put on rent, however the beurocarcy and paperwork moved really slowly and though I was supposed to come back in Aug 2020, I have been able to return to India only on 20th Jan this year. Thereafter, it was 7 days mandatory quarantine at a hotel in Delhi, and it was only on Jan 27th when I was with my child, finally. He is a joy to be around as he is such a naughty and active kid. Parenthood does something deep inside you so I would advise that as soon as you work out the hows, just go for it. God bless and good luck to both of you. x
Adopted or through surrogacy, the babies will be very very lucky to have parents who will not not force any gender stereotypes on them and allow them to be themselves without any worries..wishing you lots of luck and waiting for your new journey to begin❤😘
Aditya is soo much like me our thought match , complexion , compassion etc etc❤️
I don't think straight parents even think this much before getting bebi. 😂
Lmao😅😅😅
Actually
Correct
sorry to disrupt the positivity, but i think they're thinking this much because society still doesn't see homosexuality as valid, and they're probably shit scared of the backlash they might receive. again, this is only a speculation, i apologize to amit and aditya if this is not the case. i wish you two the best of luck and loads of love!
Straight couple don't think much about getting babies they just fuck unprotected
Heeeyyyyy... My big brothers are BACKKKKKKK... For sure, you guys will be great and awesome dads...
I feel Aditya would make a good parent like fun or a hiding place because Amit is kind of strict.😬
You both are definitely a great dads, and inspiration to many
Great to see you. Keep the stories of your journey to parenthood coming.
You guys know raising a kid and raising a dog is a completely different thing. You will make great dads but you should consider more widely. Good luck with the process! ❤️
"Mere bete ne chheek maari, kya chheek thi wo" LMAO ironic 😂
FINALLYYY!!!
You Guys Are Back..Much Awaited Video From Amit and Aditya ❤❤
I think Amit is very soft and calm aditya is energetic n naughty but amit is really going to be a great parent...
My two adopted nephews are the lights of my life. I couldn't imagine life without them. I think you should adopt one and have one via surrogate!
Langot, mere betane cheekk maari🤭😂😂 🤭🤭🤭🤭 I totally loved this conversation you both
Prefer adoption than surrogacy this give. A beautiful life to two kids ❤️
Omg! Best thing on TH-cam! All the best guys! I can’t wait to hear more on this!! Im so excited!! 😍♥️
You guys are going to be great dads!
Your children will be very, very lucky to have two such amazing parents!
Adopt me!!! I'm still a kid😂😂😂
😂
LOL 😂
Mee too IMAO 🤣
How doesn't want two rich dad's?😅😅😅😅
😂😂😂
Adi for Papa & Amit for Dad #perfect
that Awrkdness u guys felt in front of cam when aditya said the word thokna 😂😂😂cute🥰❤
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What does thokna means in English
@@dhirajyadavkanpurnagar6869 yes?
@@kcrown364 the contrast in which they are syn means to f**k
i would say adopt because like you said so many kids need families and children get split up and a lot of children are not accepted being gay so they are in foster care because maybe the parents don't want them.
I think the biggest reason tho is i think it is weird when the parents don't even know each other and when the kids goes "how was i made" then you go that their bio mom is not their mom and just carried them, but if you adopt a child i think it will be easier for them to accept and comprehend it because they know their parents or something but honestly it doesn't matter whatever you chose you will be great parents & both ways are great ways. :) good luck!
after long time 😍Miss you guys 😘😘😘please post frequently🥺
"New Dads On The Block" is a great blog of a gay couple in NYC who documented their entire surrogacy process from beginning to end. Some of the information may be outdated because it is from a while back. But it was so empowering to read and understand their entire journey. Highly recommend checking it out!
Good to see you guys after long time 😍
Looking ahead to you as u r a role model for new generation
Ok.... I thnk adoption is a gd idea.. am super excited for u guys.. wish me luck am getting married soon.. ♥️♥️
I too have the same thought of surrogacy- this is lengthy risky expensive and also it might get failure after some months- we cannot handle this things dr, also adoption will give life and future for the baby who is already present in the world.
They say when you're in love with a person u start looking like them 😍😍🥺
"I was born to change diapers" 😂😂
Amit is so cool. He for sure be great father. Love you bro!❤
Tbh there are many gay couples on youtube but there are these two couples that I like the most
1. Amit and aditya( amit and Aditya tv)
2.Divesh and atulan (honey imm home)
Why?? Because these guys have the most beautiful smiles I've ever seen
Me too!
I literally spewed my chai all over my laptop when I heard Amit say "We like the poop"! HAHAHAHAHA!
Adoption.....! guys go for adoption making out a baby and having it in this mortal world is very awesome feeling but there are lots of kis who are orphans and they don't have parents pls lit there worlds with shine
I m gay as well
M in India if I would get chance I will adopt a baby girl....
Love u guys
Kid*
I am soo happy you think like this! ♥️ We are in the process of deciding and will keep you posted !
Thankuui guys
I really wanna meet u guys some day 😇😇😇😘
I think you can adopt 1 babie other wants from surgery
I'm the same Divyaraj. I'm in a long-term same sex relationship and though we're not thinking about having kids just yet, we agree adoption is the way to go. It's a great service to humanity, and it also avoids some of the social consequences and potential complications of surrogacy.
Omg😍😍😍... U guys will be a awesome papa & daddu.... But please adopt a kid u guys can give that kid...the parent love that he is longing for , u guys can also provide the kid with great future & lovable family♥♥...all the best
Love you dear Aditya. Amit's eyes are mesmerising too.
The best I can say is, start with foster parenting for a year or so which will give you experience.
😂😂😂 i really enjoyed this video and the edits, informative though🌻
Ofcoarse you guys will be great parents.. loved the addtion of emoticons through the video. Very entertaining
Hahah Anish!! Thank youuuuuuuu 👶🏻👶🏻👶🏻👶🏻
Hello Anish ji
You guys are going to be the coolest and bestest parents. That's for sure Amit and Aditya. Lots of love to both of you
Finally, Husband's baby 🐥🍼 Grt to hear 👍
I think documenting the full journey of trying to have a baby is important for others to learn from. The good and the bad, people can learn what expectations to have.
Glad to see you after a while! And you will both make great dads!
Islam do not support gays marriage!
Aditya: "my dad is so carefree, thats a problem "
Me : oh man and my dad keeps searching for his glasses which are resting on his forehead
Jokes apart, tbh I'm waiting for your baby guys I'm damn sure you are going to be great dads best of luck 🤗
Been watching your videos for a while. Congrats on choosing to go the family way.
Ahh, you will work it out. Suddenly it will all fall into place... You will be wonderful parents, that I do know 😊❤️
So what happened guys...It's been 2 months now. What have you decided? We look forward to it.
6:50 did this guy really say he poops four times a day??? How is that even possible without being sick?
Oh yes! When we have a good metabolism and we eat all healthy food including a lot of fibre, salads, raw veggies etc, we flush toxins via poop a lot. No wonder if he does it 4 times a day. 😁
@@chetanbehl8928 that's crazy. That's way too much of stinking up a place in one day. No ways!
How are you guys ? Adi elaa unaaru ? No videos yet ... waiting for updates
Oh my God! Thank you for Uploading, I love you guys so so damn Much♥️♥️ pls Pls Pls Upload more Videos On TH-cam!
I wait to Watch you on TH-cam , God Bless you both and Your Family♥️♥️♥️
You guys can adopt me🥰. My mom says I am getting more childish everyday 😑
😂🤣🤣🤣😂🤣
Lol 😂
🤪😜🤪🤦♀️
😂😂😂😂Lol
Cute 😂
😂😂😂😂
You guys are absolutely gorgeous!!! Love what I've seen on your channel so far. Definitely couple goals! 💪🏽❤️
That’s true. They both are controlled, on point, limited and beautiful PDAs, more like a sensible couple. Couple goals, wow.
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I loveeeee it ya! So dreamy 🥺♥️ inspiring 💫
Adoption is a noble idea.
But it's your decision to make.
All the best guys!!
My husband & I have through this. Our adopted son is now in his mid-20s. I suspect surrogacy is likely a faster route. Adoption, while enormously moral, is a long process here in USA. Is adopting in India an option? Siblings? A cousin, living in Israel, I believe adopted from India (I think)...the adoption process, is driven ‘locally’ - you guys are in NJ (I think) so reaching out to your local social services/adoption program is best. They will guide you, do home study, training programs.
Really app dono bahut cute ... Bhagwan kare hamesha khus raho Jai Mahakal 🙏🏼😍
Where r u guys since 5 months??
Great video. You are a beautiful couple and never doubt yourself about parenting. My son and his husband adopted a baby girl and I must say that they are great parents. Wishing you all the best in your journey.❤️❤️
I'm really excited for you guys! A cute dad name suggestion - someone can be called Pops!
So sweet. Go for it. You will be great parents
Yayyy!! also ya'll want two kids so it's perf - one surrogate, one adopted!
I'm so happy to hear 😘😘😘 all the best .
Congrats and all the best for your parenting ....You both are inspirational ❤️❤️
You guys make me laugh so much! 🤣🤣 So glad that I discovered your channel.
Hi to both of u sir ! Am Saptak from India , west bengal, kolkata, am 19 yr. gay ! I love to watch ur videos a lot!
Sir personally i will recommend to adopt two baby boys, coz u both r male, and being a male it's a bit difficult to understand girls problem, as there r many things which we can't understand, whereas as we r male so,it will be easy for u both or both of ur babies to disscus about any problem! And am saying for adoption coz, those babies r unfortunate that there parents left them, to make them happy, that will be the greatest happiness 😊😊
Thank you love for all of u 😘😘😘
Amit n adithya rocks! 🤘 x
Where are you guys 😩😩i am waiting for you guys ...
Woahhhh I thought you have forgotten about your TH-cam channel 😭😭 nevermind lots of love❤️❤️
Best decision for both of you..All the very best for the new beginning which is coming soon..❤❤
I love you guys!!
Happy New Year!!
Side note - what is the colour on the walls behind you? It's gorgeous and I want to paint my bedroom the same shade.
Vintage Vogue - Benjamin Moore
You guys are back! feeling so relaxed to see you guys😍
Good to see you both after a very longg time .Excited for the baby to come
1 kid surrogacy ❤ 1 kid adoption ❤ all the best 4r u cute family🥰😘
Really missing ur videos dears, after long back u people back happy to see you both again.😍
Yours TH-cam videos is very late why ?
Adi : Am gonna put my baby in longot!
Amit : What????
This scene killed me😂😂😂
Your kids are the luckiest.
Both of u will be the best dad's ever.
All the best
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No doubt about it, you guys will be GREAT fathers. Any child would be more than blessed to grow up with the love, understanding, and the laughter that you two can offer. I can't wait for that moment to happen and to see your daily experience with raising a child (children). Can't wait for the next post!
Mere Madhav Hrithik aa gaye 😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏🇮🇳🇮🇳🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
You guys are so adorable together and so well spoken !
I think it's also a super awesome video.can't wait to see
The color of the wall is so cool man 👍👍
Always good to see you guys. as you go down this path the direction that is best for you will become more and more clear, keeping your current and future family in my prayers for complete happiness !
by the way I think you both will be Amazing Parents!
Congratulations in advance ❤❤ nd more love to future baby(ies)
Wow I'm excited,bht dino bad mile yr nice.
Your dog in the back ground is sparko!!! Lol x
Love you both..... Jealous of you both..... Beautiful pair.....Lucky kids. Excited to see your kids.
I have missed you guys. I think you’ll make great parents. It is already in the atmosphere.
You both are inspiration and living example to be happy even during this time of the pandemic. As the world keeps mourning about everything even way before Covid-19 hit the world. Anyway, I hope you guys will do more video in future and May God bless you both. tc.