James and his father were officers in the British Army. At the time of the making of this video his father was dying of kidney failure (having already donated one himself) and no donor in sight. Following the release of the song a distant cousin came forward and he pulled through thankfully.
A year after losing my father I thought I was doing ok. Then I heard this song about and the emotional dam I had built up just broke. It was what I needed thank you James Blunt.
Lol yeah I finally cried after a year when I first heard this song a couple months ago I didn't cry the day my dad die or on his funeral but this song got me lol that asshole
@@josemadera3138 it took this song to help me as well. And my father passed in 1991, and Jose I reacted the same way as you but much longer before my emotional dam burst. It is very cathartic
@@GhostofSicklesleg yeah I suppose lol it was crazy till then I thought I was fine but this song just hit something when I was driving and I didn't even realize I was crying lol it's still uncomfortable if that makes sense
That was his dad in the video and the first time he had heard the song. They recorded it in one take and at the end everyone in the studio was crying except his father. He asked them why they were crying, that he was still there. His label wanted to do a full production but he said no. He wanted to be real, no auto tune, no cuts, nothing but him singing to his father. After this video was released a distant cousin came forward who was a match. His father got a transplant and is doing well. I cry every time I watch it so don't be sorry for showing emotions. I have seen men and women break down sobbing and have to stop recording in the middle in order to get themselves together before they could finish it.
@@ishbelback7650 i wasn't dissing the song, its message, or the folks listening to it. just wanted to give props to those -- the chorus, the sound mixers, the janitor -- behind the scene. i'm also a bit of a stickler for details. ☺
“Monsters” was a heartfelt tribute to his father. The emotional track reflects the deep bond between them and a touching farewell. In the music video for “Monsters,” James Blunt sings directly to the camera, his eyes welling up with tears...The video is so powerful because sitting beside James Blunt is his real-life dad, Colonel Charles Blount. who was a former cavalry officer, battling stage 4 chronic kidney disease. The song captures the raw emotions of facing mortality and saying the things one wants to say to a loved one before it’s too late 💗 I can never get through this, without crying..........
This song brought me to my knees. My father's relationship with me when I was young was an abusive one. So much so that I spent many years not talking to him. My father spent the last years of his life living as a hermit in the woods of Maine. He was found outside his cabin months after his death. What was left of him at least. In our last conversation he tried to reach out to me to connect as father and son. I told him that I didn't think of him as my father. He replied "But I am your father!" I said "My father is six hundred feet tall and broke bones and walls and mothers. It's best for you that I don't think of you as my father. To me you are an older friend that I share a similar sense of humor with that I speak to once a year (if that) on father's day." Eerily similar to " I'm not your son, you're not my father. We're just two grown men saying goodbye. I knew his mistakes, he knew some of mine. I could not forgive or forget. He was my monster.
Holy crap. I've never heard this song. My dad died from cancer 7 years ago. I wish I had gotten to say goodbye but he didn't tell us he even had cancer. He didn't want to "burden" us, but the pain of not saying goodbye was worse than any pain of watching him due could have been.
Sorry to hear about your dad. My dad died in August from lung cancer. I hadn't spoken with him in years. I also didn't get to say goodbye. I found this poem right after his funeral. It really made me think about what could have been. Stay safe. I NEVER SAID GOOD-BYE I never got the chance to say I Love you, I never got the chance to say I'll miss you. Nobody told me that you were going to die, It hurts, I never said GOOD-BYE. Where are you now, please talk to me, Show yourself and let me see. I know that can't happen no matter how much I try, All I wanted to do is say GOOD-BYE. I hope that you are happy wherever you are, I have you in my heart no matter how far. To the heavens above, I wish I could fly, Only to give you a warm GOOD-BYE. I will remember you each day that I live, You were such a good person with so much to give. Such a privilege to have known you, no one can deny. I think it might be time to say GOOD-BYE. I will keep with me the good times that we shared, I want you to know just how much I really cared. Till we meet again, on God we must rely, I love you, I miss you, and for now, GOOD-BYE.
@@milissaleatherwood6837 I'm sorry for your loss an no comparison or competition my grandpa died on 9/11/2009 he's bday is May 25 so I have two months that suck an no nothing compares to your dad he's was the one that made u an stood by u
James dad was actually dying from kidney disease & this was his tribute & farewell to his dad. Thankfully his dad received a donor kidney & is doing okay now. If this song doesn't get to you emotionally, there is something wrong with you. This song resonates with me as I was my dad's caregiver for 5 years until he passed away 2 years ago.
It doesn't get to me because my father was a monster. When he died I was so angry with him and always will be even though I can say I have a measure of forgiveness...enough to keep me from dissolving into nothingness.
@@cynthiacharpentier662 My father was as well. The song still gets to me because I understand where it came from. I do not miss my father but will always love and miss my mother.
You had a lifetime with your father. While I'm extremely jealous of that fact I think there's lots of mercy in the fact when people die young. My parents died when I was 11 and they died together so I never had to witness one missing the other. I also don't have to worry how they live in this bad world every day. Even the worst situations there's always a silver lining
I have my father in my life. I moved down the road from my parents so I could have my family close to my best friend and my hero. I get to see and talk to him everyday and I know how incredibly lucky I am. I love you dad.
My darling mum (81) died two months ago today. She wasn't in the best of health but I never expected her to pass. I was in the next room. Went into see her and she'd gone.... I'd only been in an hour beforehand she was fine. She slipped away without any fuss, or drama just how she always wanted to go. After the emergency services went I sat next to her and held her arm. This song has become so precious to me. She was 3 months premature in 1939 so she didn't do bad living to 81. But the gap in my life she's left is so huge. I miss her every second of every day. Wonderful reaction xxx
I lost both of my parents in 2022 at the age of 30, while trying to graduate from university. It changes you. Things that used to matter suddenly no longer do, and things you took for granted are suddenly now the most important. What I would not give to see them one more time, to talk to them, to see their smiles, to hug them one more time. I miss them both so much! ;(
I’m so very sorry. It’s a strange thing to encounter abrupt changes in life that totally change your perspective. It may seem like this will change you for the worse, and in some ways, it does when it accompanies that pain but also has a chance to help you grow in character and support for others that will encounter that same path. It doesn’t make it easier, it there will be opportunities for you to help others walk this difficult road. I’m sure both your parents would want you to embrace the future full force and would want you to be happy. It may not feel like it right now since you’re younger, but our lives here are fleeting. It won’t be long before you will get to see them again. It will feel like waking from the longest dream. Blessings my friend.
A very powerful song for anyone, because we are all children of someone, and most of us parents to a child. It's never too late to say I'm sorry....never too late to say I made mistakes...never too late to say I forgive you. Take that first step.
There is so shame in being moved by this incredibly emotional song. While I had no relationship with my father, it translates just as well to the relationship I had with my grandfather. Many years have passed since he died, and I'd give anything to know if he is proud of who I've become.
Don't ever question if he was. I can't imagine as a father not being proud of my child. I lost my dad last year. This was tough right off the bat. He was proud of you.
Came from the emotional Eminem video to this one based on what you said in the video. I'm ready this time with my tissues. This is what TH-cam is all about. Taking a risk with a recommended video and becoming a fan.
I have watched a number of people reacting to this, and for me there is one simple line that stands out and acts as a trigger, its almost a throw away line, amongst those that most people 'hear' I think it got you too, 'Time is gone'
I was right there with you, tears streaming down my face. My grandson lost his father when he was 14. His father did everything with him including coaching him in different sports. In our little community, we have an annual parents/coaches baseball game to raise funds for the ball diamond. His father always played. But during the last stages of his illness, he was unable to play. My grandson made a tee shirt with two stick figures labeled, Me and Dad. He wrote, "I'm playing for my dad." Needless to say, when he took the field, I and many others couldn't hold back the tears through our smiles. I think his dad was the proudest he had ever been of his son. I left out many details and names to keep it short. That young man is now with the 82nd Airborne and has just re-enlisted. Proud? You betcha!
Life is way too short but this Story blew me away, it maybe to his father but for me it was my experience as a wife to my wonderful husband, he with terminal cancer, and by the way I did really have to chase his monster’s/daemons away, but we won.please don’t think there are NO . BECAUSE THEY WILL FOOL YOU TO THINK THEY ARE NOT REAL. .. SORRY BUT There REAL, I feel relief to know that I think I saved my husbands soul with prayer, God bless us all cause we really have no idea what’s out there tempting us. Let’s all start praying cause that’s the only thing that we can actually control. Love and heavenly light to you all. Big BUT WE HAVE TO DO THIS TOGETHER. LOVE AND HEAVENLY LIGHT TI YIU ALL
You mentioned James Blunt monsters in Eminem's "When im gone" video and I havent heard this song before and oh my god did this hit me like a semi-truck.
A great song and a great reaction. When they recorded this both James and all the staff was crying. The producers wanted to fix James shivver in his voice with autotune and he said Dont you dare. He wanted this amazing version💛
Thank you for your honest reaction! We are many who needs thus kind of reaction nowadays, just to show that we aren't alone witholding this kind of pain and the feeling of missing a person, albeit a father, a mother or an another kind of a rolemodel in our lives!
I usually don’t watch reviews of songs… but I have watched reviews on this song …. And it has left each reviewer breathless and almost without words. James blunts distant cousin was a match and gave blunt senior a kidney… back in 2020… and from what I know blunt sr is doing well!!!!!!!! Your emotions are welcoming and endearing. Thank you.
Once again, Larry is the best! Love the true, authentic reaction my man. this song stings. I feel a underlying tone of making the best of what you have before it's too late.
Yes. Thank you for resisting the urge to pause. I know how difficult that was to do. I've watch dozens of reactions to this particular song and I've found mainly the males pause it to regroup themselves from showing their full emotions and I prefer authentic reactions, especially in the case of this song so I personally felt your reaction was 100% authentic and I also DO understand how difficult that this is and I find anyone who can do it even if a million people or 2 people are watching it and you want to show your full authentic reaction is very important to me. So thank you for doing just that. ❤♥️
Anyone who has lost a parent feels this in their soul. It really doesn't matter in the end the mistakes we make it's still your parent. The role reversal is so true. Love this song.
Yeah, I just let my mom go a couple months ago, and yeah, this was a punch in the throat, she struggled with her demons till her final hours, I'm not a fan of his voice, but I'm drunk on the raw emotion and truth of his pain, I can still smell the room, and hear the equipment, and feel her hand in mine...
Wow, I'm so sorry, Ken. I lost my dad a few years back and my father in law a few months ago. Hang in there my friend. It can be really tough. You got this.
You should check out both of Iam Tongi's versions of this song if you haven't already. He was last years American Idol winner. He performed this by himself in his Idol debut and sang it with James Blunt in the finals. It was one of the most touching things I have ever seen when he broke down singing it in the finals.
I love this song. I wish I got to say goodbye to my father, he passed away 3 months ago. Me and my father had a really rocky relationship or whatever its called. My Mother and father divorced when I was like 2. Thanks to his problems with alcohol. He stuggled alot with it and it messed with our relationship. Lately he had been trying to get better and try to be around more. My brother and Sister hungout with him, but last 3-4 times i had said no. Found out after his death, that he knew he would pass away soon, and just wanted a little bit more time with us. Never take your loved ones for granted, because you never know when its the last time. ( sorry for long emotional text )
This song breaks me every single time I hear it. I CAN NOT keep from bawling like a baby, no matter where or when. And I'm lucky enough to still have both my parents. I can't even imagine how hard this hits when you've actually lost a parent. Your reaction was beautiful, strong, emotional, honest. All my love to you! ❤️
In 2004, James Blunt wrote and sang 'You're Beautiful' which I LOVE until now. I've never heard of this 'Monsters' until I'm watching it on this reaction video. Oh wow, I can see the pain and the anger on James Blunt's eyes as soon as he started singing. I couldn't help but teared up as I could feel his pain. Wow, the emotion on his face is so raw.
My father passed away in 2013 .. eight years and this song brings the tears like the day he left me .. There is a special bond between father and son .. If you have lost your father then my heart, thoughts and prayers go out to you now and forever ..
Thanks for your reaction to a difficult song. I lost my mom the beginning of the pandemic and this one has me in tears every time. So sorry about your dad.
I’m in my early 40s with my dad in his early 70s and I had the same reaction (also a father to two girls 10/7) as you. Brilliant song that will make millions all over the world tear up to ball! 🥹😢 The American Idol Iam cover of it is amazing/sad too. They also did a duo that was sad/touching.
Thank you for being real with your emotions. Such a powerful song. There is so little out there for this specific heartbreaking yet inevitable situation of losing a parent.
Thank you for playing it without breaks so that we could get its' full impact. It doesn't matter whether your dad or mum is dying. It's still relevant and loving. I'm so glad his father managed to get his transplant.
Sometimes, looking at things from a different angle can really make you think. One time, I was sitting on my balcony, thinking about the tough times my family was going through. My 5-year-old son came up to me and asked, "Daddy, are you okay?" That question hit me hard. This song really speaks to me. Every now and then, we need situations where we feel humble and vulnerable to remind us that, as fathers, husbands, and men, we're also just humans.
Brought tears to my eyes again... My Dad lost his battle with cancer in 2019. When the time drew near, his fear of dying became so great that I and my son had to sit by his bed with our hand on his chest. We were to wake him if he quit breathing.... In the end I had to chase his monsters away... I called a pastor whom was here in a short time. He was then at peace... I had chased the monsters away and he passed peacefully in his sleep. Very powerful song.
This song is the great leveller. In all the reaction videos you see all the "showbiz" stripped away from the TH-camr. All thats left is the real person behind the bluster. Its not always pretty but its (almost) always real. You showed yourself to be a fine man. A fine human being. Thankyou for this upload.
So hearing this song/your reaction sent me down a rabbit hole. I just learned James Blunt saved us from WWlll.... and I just listened to a bunch of songs. The Greatest about the birth of his son..... I love this. Thank you for sharing.
Me looking for Moondog in the comments 0.0, overall I just want to say that I love your videos, they´re so genuine and emotional damaging haha. Discovered u a few years ago but came back just because you´re fantastic!
I was a blubbering mess...first time for me to hear it too and my dad is on the older side being 81 and I know it's coming and I don't know how I'll fare.
Wonderful reaction to a gut-wrenching song!! Like others who have commented below, I too was the caregiver of both my parents who have passed. I wouldn’t trade it for anything, but the day you become the parent to your parent changes you forever…😪💔Love to all those who have gone through it, are going through it , and will be going through it….❤️🩹
My mum too passed away at the onset of Covid lockdown - it wasn’t attributed to Covid, but like you I thought it was (at that time testing wasn’t so good). This song tore my heart in two. Sending you my virtual 🤗
This song was released a few months after I lost my Dad. My heart breaks again a little each time I listen to it. Such beautiful and moving words. Love to all those who have experienced loss. Grief is the price of love.
I love this song, and have watched many reactions to it. Yours has to be one of the most honest I have seen. Someone would have to have a heart of stone not to react. Such raw emotion. Thank you.
'You're Beautiful' is his most famous & the video has an amazing ending. All his songs range from sad to happy. A real talent & one of the funniest interviews out there.
Phenomenal performance, heard it for the first time yesterday after your (When I’m gone) reaction, tears rolling down my cheeks, I suppose everyone will take a different interpretation of it depending on what’s going on in their lives right now but for me it’s clear. It’s not often you hear a song once that makes an impact like this.
Just heard this song now...TEARS r rolling here too.....every1 needs a GOOD CRY now n again....POWERFULL I lost my Dad at 12...I'm 50 now n have Son n Daughter.....man oh man....Great Song
This resonates with anyone who has taken care of someone who is dying. I took care of my husband before his passing, and it rings true for me. After 36 yrs of marriage, he chased away the monsters many times for me, and I for him.
Yes, this is a good one! Hits you in the heart & you can't help but be emotional! Thank you for not editing that out. My father had Stage 4 prostate cancer & underwent chemo in late 2020. He finished right around Christmas. New Year's 2021 he was given a good report by his Dr. that the treatment had drastically reduced the cancer & he had a positive prognosis of at least 5 more yrs with us. 2-3 weeks later he started having pain in his side & back & became wheelchair-bound. After ER & dr. visits he was hospitalized & it was found the cancer had metastasized into small cell carcinoma & invaded his lungs, bones & and all organs. We lost him on Feb. 18, 2021. Here I am a year later, first hearing this song and I sobbed my heart out because it describes those last couple of days with him. I love your reaction. Stay real! 💓
Thank you so much for your comments. I’m so so sorry to hear about what you had to go through. I lost my father back in 2019 and now my father-in-law which is 91 years old was just taken to a board and care facility. I think he’s going through the dying process as he’s lost like 15 pounds in a week and weighs 140 pounds now. He has a hard time eating so I know that I’m probably gonna be losing him as well in the next few weeks. It could be hard but it’s also kind of healing to talk about it like you have. Blessings to you my friend.
I've been watching men react to this for 3 hours, one because I have 2 grown boys, 2 because my 29 year old can barely speak to me unless he needs something atm, and I need to cry, and see men show emotion 😢 😢💞💙🕊🇦🇺.thank you, subscribed immediately 🤗🥲👍.
@@larryshair blessings to you, I seen the warmth in you before the video started and almost couldn't watch, you should be so proud of the light that shines from you 🙂🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊💞👍.
Just a little aded info for you. James' record company wanted him to use 'Auto-Tune' but he refused because he wanted this recording to be 100% real and genuine and what we see is the first take. It was the first time James had sung this to his dad, who only recently had been diagnosed with stage 4 kidney failure. I don't know how James managed to hold himself together for this but we can all see how emotional he was by the tears in his eyes. It's all quite amazing.
Oh my gosh!😭😭This was beautiful, a truly genuine honest and raw reaction❤️ Thank you so very much for this. I’m so sorry about your dad. I so wish I could jump through the screen and hug you! I’m sobbing too! My dad is very close to the end now
❤️❤️❤️ sorry for your loss😢 James is an incredible singer and emotional writer. He was scared for his Dad... and his tears and emotions, I think resonated with almost all of us! Heart wrenching. 🙏🏻
03:50 Sorry? No, my friend. There's no reason to be sorry. No reason to be sorry for empathy, no reason to be sorry for having feelings. In every single one of our lifes there will be plenty reasons to be sorry... but not this one. Let me tell you something, first time I heard this song I was sitting in front of my computer here in germany and I cried so hard that I wasn't able to see clearly for almost half an hour. To this day I'm not feeling sorry about that.
I'm a 45 year old otr truck driver and I bawl every time I watch this video or someone react to it. I still have both of my parents, but I dread the day this happens to me. Thank you for your real reaction, it's refreshing and moving.
I already knew this song, so I had to wait to watch your reaction until I had the right time as I knew I was going to cry all over again with you…no other option with this one. Truly heartfelt. ❤️🇬🇧
Hi larryshair, This is my first time listening to your channel.... I subscribed . Well I have been a James Blunt fan since his release of "Your Beautiful" in 2004 . I have loved all his songs so much. Thank you for your warm and thoughtful reaction and comments for "Monsters"..... my dad died when I was 25 and this is the first song that I have heard that explains how I feel about my dad . I am sorry for your loss . Much appreciation for the work you put into your channel .
What a beautiful song. This made me tear up 😭 Another powerful song (it is particularly a "man cry" song) is "Hurt" by Johnny Cash - I am sure a lot of people will agree 😌 Many thanks for your videos, all the way from little old Tasmania, Australia 🙌
I heard in an interview that this was the first time James cried in front of his dad. They’re both military men and never showed emotion. Everyone on set was crying and his dad said “why you crying I’m still here!” His dad needed a kidney transplant. James did this song to get a kidney. Luckily he got one and he’s doing ok I believe.
T'is me again....I do not know who "moondog" is but I will say this Larry...Your reaction was one of the best I have seen with this song. I am so happy that you did not come out saying that you were playing the "Man Card"...men cry too...as they should.. let your emotions flow..You would have to be made of stone to not react the way you did. I have seen many reactors to this song and you are the best one...really.....😂😂 Notice that I have entered an "emoji" because you told me how to do it...thank you so very much. I love watching you, as I have said before. But with this particular song, well, it does bring out the authentic person as it is a TRUE song....thanks Larry 👍👍👌👌😉😉💋💋💕💕(you have now created a monster re: emojis.....
James and his father were officers in the British Army. At the time of the making of this video his father was dying of kidney failure (having already donated one himself) and no donor in sight. Following the release of the song a distant cousin came forward and he pulled through thankfully.
This makes me so happy to hear!
Monsters it right song when you see the meeting you understand it’s very emotional moving
Thank you so much for sharing that!!
thats effing intense
Thank you for the deets. I'm so glad he didn't loose his father. What a gift and tribute this song was to his dad. ❤️❤️❤️
A year after losing my father I thought I was doing ok. Then I heard this song about and the emotional dam I had built up just broke. It was what I needed thank you James Blunt.
So sorry to hear about your dad.
Lol yeah I finally cried after a year when I first heard this song a couple months ago I didn't cry the day my dad die or on his funeral but this song got me lol that asshole
I get it x
@@josemadera3138 it took this song to help me as well. And my father passed in 1991, and Jose I reacted the same way as you but much longer before my emotional dam burst. It is very cathartic
@@GhostofSicklesleg yeah I suppose lol it was crazy till then I thought I was fine but this song just hit something when I was driving and I didn't even realize I was crying lol it's still uncomfortable if that makes sense
"it's my turn, to chase the Monsters away!"
So so powerful lyrics!!
That's the line that gets me.
Amen ❤
Especially with James' voice, he transmit raw emotion with it
I managed to hold it together by the skin of my teeth. That was the coup de grâce.
As a son in early 40s with dad in early 70s and dad of two kids 10/7 agree 100%. This was such a tearjerker.
That was his dad in the video and the first time he had heard the song. They recorded it in one take and at the end everyone in the studio was crying except his father. He asked them why they were crying, that he was still there. His label wanted to do a full production but he said no. He wanted to be real, no auto tune, no cuts, nothing but him singing to his father. After this video was released a distant cousin came forward who was a match. His father got a transplant and is doing well. I cry every time I watch it so don't be sorry for showing emotions. I have seen men and women break down sobbing and have to stop recording in the middle in order to get themselves together before they could finish it.
there WAS some post-production -- they laid voices over a few lines, starting with the second repetition of the chorus.
James Blunt said himself it took 5 takes
@@ishbelback7650 i wasn't dissing the song, its message, or the folks listening to it. just wanted to give props to those -- the chorus, the sound mixers, the janitor -- behind the scene. i'm also a bit of a stickler for details. ☺
@@ishbelback7650 same. 😜
@@kimbunchalastnames5357 Y'all do know that the song first comes out before the video is done. Right?
“Monsters” was a heartfelt tribute to his father. The emotional track reflects the deep bond between them and a touching farewell. In the music video for “Monsters,” James Blunt sings directly to the camera, his eyes welling up with tears...The video is so powerful because sitting beside James Blunt is his real-life dad, Colonel Charles Blount. who was a former cavalry officer, battling stage 4 chronic kidney disease. The song captures the raw emotions of facing mortality and saying the things one wants to say to a loved one before it’s too late 💗 I can never get through this, without crying..........
Real man with the real emotions. Bravo
This song brought me to my knees. My father's relationship with me when I was young was an abusive one. So much so that I spent many years not talking to him. My father spent the last years of his life living as a hermit in the woods of Maine. He was found outside his cabin months after his death. What was left of him at least. In our last conversation he tried to reach out to me to connect as father and son. I told him that I didn't think of him as my father. He replied "But I am your father!" I said "My father is six hundred feet tall and broke bones and walls and mothers. It's best for you that I don't think of you as my father. To me you are an older friend that I share a similar sense of humor with that I speak to once a year (if that) on father's day."
Eerily similar to " I'm not your son, you're not my father. We're just two grown men saying goodbye.
I knew his mistakes, he knew some of mine. I could not forgive or forget. He was my monster.
Holy crap. I've never heard this song. My dad died from cancer 7 years ago. I wish I had gotten to say goodbye but he didn't tell us he even had cancer. He didn't want to "burden" us, but the pain of not saying goodbye was worse than any pain of watching him due could have been.
So sorry to hear about your dad 😥
Sorry to hear about your dad. My dad died in August from lung cancer. I hadn't spoken with him in years. I also didn't get to say goodbye. I found this poem right after his funeral. It really made me think about what could have been. Stay safe.
I NEVER SAID
GOOD-BYE
I never got the chance to say I Love you,
I never got the chance to say I'll miss you.
Nobody told me that you were going to die,
It hurts, I never said GOOD-BYE.
Where are you now, please talk to me,
Show yourself and let me see.
I know that can't happen no matter how much I try,
All I wanted to do is say GOOD-BYE.
I hope that you are happy wherever you are,
I have you in my heart no matter how far.
To the heavens above, I wish I could fly,
Only to give you a warm GOOD-BYE.
I will remember you each day that I live,
You were such a good person with so much to give.
Such a privilege to have known you, no one can deny.
I think it might be time to say GOOD-BYE.
I will keep with me the good times that we shared,
I want you to know just how much I really cared.
Till we meet again, on God we must rely,
I love you, I miss you, and for now, GOOD-BYE.
I know how to u feel I never got to say goodbye to my grandpa who passed in 2009 from lung cancer
@@blade12385 the anniversary of my dad's passing is on the 23rd. His birthday was the 10th + father's day... June fucking sucks.
@@milissaleatherwood6837 I'm sorry for your loss an no comparison or competition my grandpa died on 9/11/2009 he's bday is May 25 so I have two months that suck an no nothing compares to your dad he's was the one that made u an stood by u
this is the one song that kicks in to any men. its about our dads, us and how we are, no matter what.........♥
James dad was actually dying from kidney disease & this was his tribute & farewell to his dad. Thankfully his dad received a donor kidney & is doing okay now. If this song doesn't get to you emotionally, there is something wrong with you. This song resonates with me as I was my dad's caregiver for 5 years until he passed away 2 years ago.
It doesn't get to me because my father was a monster. When he died I was so angry with him and always will be even though I can say I have a measure of forgiveness...enough to keep me from dissolving into nothingness.
@@cynthiacharpentier662 Forgiveness is a powerful thing and so worth it.
@@cynthiacharpentier662 My father was as well. The song still gets to me because I understand where it came from. I do not miss my father but will always love and miss my mother.
Xoxo
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Currently taking care of my 91 yr old father.
This ripped me apart!!
Never knew eyes could sweat this much
THANK YOU!!!!
People like you show us younger people the right path sir.
You had a lifetime with your father. While I'm extremely jealous of that fact I think there's lots of mercy in the fact when people die young. My parents died when I was 11 and they died together so I never had to witness one missing the other. I also don't have to worry how they live in this bad world every day. Even the worst situations there's always a silver lining
I have my father in my life. I moved down the road from my parents so I could have my family close to my best friend and my hero. I get to see and talk to him everyday and I know how incredibly lucky I am. I love you dad.
I enjoyed your reaction. You should check out some of James Blunts older songs. They are amazing.
Never apologize for having the courage to share your vulnerability. More men need to embrace their sorrow 🇨🇦♥️🇨🇦
It’s good that you show your emotions, because you are a good man and we are humans! Men should show their emotions and cry more!
Thanks Daniel!
My darling mum (81) died two months ago today. She wasn't in the best of health but I never expected her to pass. I was in the next room. Went into see her and she'd gone.... I'd only been in an hour beforehand she was fine. She slipped away without any fuss, or drama just how she always wanted to go. After the emergency services went I sat next to her and held her arm. This song has become so precious to me. She was 3 months premature in 1939 so she didn't do bad living to 81. But the gap in my life she's left is so huge. I miss her every second of every day. Wonderful reaction xxx
I'm so sorry to hear about your mom, Claire. ***Sending hugs***
Iv found the best channel iv ever seen someone to cry with lol james blunt hits different
I lost both of my parents in 2022 at the age of 30, while trying to graduate from university. It changes you. Things that used to matter suddenly no longer do, and things you took for granted are suddenly now the most important. What I would not give to see them one more time, to talk to them, to see their smiles, to hug them one more time. I miss them both so much! ;(
I’m so very sorry. It’s a strange thing to encounter abrupt changes in life that totally change your perspective. It may seem like this will change you for the worse, and in some ways, it does when it accompanies that pain but also has a chance to help you grow in character and support for others that will encounter that same path. It doesn’t make it easier, it there will be opportunities for you to help others walk this difficult road. I’m sure both your parents would want you to embrace the future full force and would want you to be happy. It may not feel like it right now since you’re younger, but our lives here are fleeting. It won’t be long before you will get to see them again. It will feel like waking from the longest dream. Blessings my friend.
A very powerful song for anyone, because we are all children of someone, and most of us parents to a child. It's never too late to say I'm sorry....never too late to say I made mistakes...never too late to say I forgive you. Take that first step.
There is so shame in being moved by this incredibly emotional song. While I had no relationship with my father, it translates just as well to the relationship I had with my grandfather. Many years have passed since he died, and I'd give anything to know if he is proud of who I've become.
I'm sure he's proud!
Don't ever question if he was. I can't imagine as a father not being proud of my child. I lost my dad last year. This was tough right off the bat. He was proud of you.
Came from the emotional Eminem video to this one based on what you said in the video. I'm ready this time with my tissues. This is what TH-cam is all about. Taking a risk with a recommended video and becoming a fan.
Fathers are so important in life. If you're one be the best one you can...It will last longer than you will. I miss you dad
Well-said. Sorry for the loss of your dad. I'm betting he would want nothing more than for you to be happy.
No worries, I'm crying too. I've never heard this song, WOW..... My father and husband are both gone now so this song hits pretty hard. Beautiful ❤️
I have watched a number of people reacting to this, and for me there is one simple line that stands out and acts as a trigger, its almost a throw away line, amongst those that most people 'hear' I think it got you too, 'Time is gone'
It's amazing how 45 seconds into a song, it can bring a grown man to tears. Music is so powerful
I was right there with you, tears streaming down my face. My grandson lost his father when he was 14. His father did everything with him including coaching him in different sports. In our little community, we have an annual parents/coaches baseball game to raise funds for the ball diamond. His father always played. But during the last stages of his illness, he was unable to play. My grandson made a tee shirt with two stick figures labeled, Me and Dad. He wrote, "I'm playing for my dad." Needless to say, when he took the field, I and many others couldn't hold back the tears through our smiles. I think his dad was the proudest he had ever been of his son. I left out many details and names to keep it short. That young man is now with the 82nd Airborne and has just re-enlisted. Proud? You betcha!
I knew you were going to cry. You have a big heart & you actually listen to the words.Great reactions
I’ve watched a few reactions to this video and I’m yet to see a dry eye. Great song and it gets me every time.
I think this is one of the best songs that has ever been written!!! It’s so beautiful and sad. I love James!!
Life is way too short but this Story blew me away, it maybe to his father but for me it was my experience as a wife to my wonderful husband, he with terminal cancer, and by the way I did really have to chase his monster’s/daemons away, but we won.please don’t think there are NO . BECAUSE THEY WILL FOOL YOU TO THINK THEY ARE NOT REAL. .. SORRY BUT There REAL, I feel relief to know that I think I saved my husbands soul with prayer, God bless us all cause we really have no idea what’s out there tempting us. Let’s all start praying cause that’s the only thing that we can actually control. Love and heavenly light to you all. Big BUT WE HAVE TO DO THIS TOGETHER. LOVE AND HEAVENLY LIGHT TI YIU ALL
Respect to u for putting this out. I cry as a baby every thing aswell
You mentioned James Blunt monsters in Eminem's "When im gone" video and I havent heard this song before and oh my god did this hit me like a semi-truck.
Thank you. Not sure I can manage anything else right now. ✌🏻🙏🏻
Thank you, I have never heard of James Blunt either. I would have never heard this song without you. Very beautiful.
'You're Beautiful' is also one song from Blunt you should listen to.
Same here. How powerful.
A great song and a great reaction.
When they recorded this both James and all the staff was crying. The producers wanted to fix James shivver in his voice with autotune and he said Dont you dare. He wanted this amazing version💛
“I’ll be the last one
So I’ll leave a light on” has to be one of the best written lyric ever. So good
Thank you for your honest reaction! We are many who needs thus kind of reaction nowadays, just to show that we aren't alone witholding this kind of pain and the feeling of missing a person, albeit a father, a mother or an another kind of a rolemodel in our lives!
James sings from the heart his experiences sad and happy.
I usually don’t watch reviews of songs… but I have watched reviews on this song …. And it has left each reviewer breathless and almost without words.
James blunts distant cousin was a match and gave blunt senior a kidney… back in 2020… and from what I know blunt sr is doing well!!!!!!!!
Your emotions are welcoming and endearing. Thank you.
I know my reply is late, but never apologise for showing emotions, this songs get everyone.
Once again, Larry is the best! Love the true, authentic reaction my man. this song stings. I feel a underlying tone of making the best of what you have before it's too late.
Thanks so much for your kind words!
Reversal of roles. No judgement, just acceptance of who his father was and saying goodbye!
Yes. Thank you for resisting the urge to pause. I know how difficult that was to do. I've watch dozens of reactions to this particular song and I've found mainly the males pause it to regroup themselves from showing their full emotions and I prefer authentic reactions, especially in the case of this song so I personally felt your reaction was 100% authentic and I also DO understand how difficult that this is and I find anyone who can do it even if a million people or 2 people are watching it and you want to show your full authentic reaction is very important to me. So thank you for doing just that. ❤♥️
Anyone who has lost a parent feels this in their soul. It really doesn't matter in the end the mistakes we make it's still your parent. The role reversal is so true. Love this song.
Yeah, I just let my mom go a couple months ago, and yeah, this was a punch in the throat, she struggled with her demons till her final hours, I'm not a fan of his voice, but I'm drunk on the raw emotion and truth of his pain, I can still smell the room, and hear the equipment, and feel her hand in mine...
Wow, I'm so sorry, Ken. I lost my dad a few years back and my father in law a few months ago. Hang in there my friend. It can be really tough. You got this.
Thank you for not pausing... Best reaction
You should check out both of Iam Tongi's versions of this song if you haven't already. He was last years American Idol winner. He performed this by himself in his Idol debut and sang it with James Blunt in the finals. It was one of the most touching things I have ever seen when he broke down singing it in the finals.
Better to be a man who can cry, then a man who can't!
Beautiful song. Beautiful, heartfelt reaction. Should come with a warning label...tissues required.
I love this song. I wish I got to say goodbye to my father, he passed away 3 months ago. Me and my father had a really rocky relationship or whatever its called. My Mother and father divorced when I was like 2. Thanks to his problems with alcohol. He stuggled alot with it and it messed with our relationship. Lately he had been trying to get better and try to be around more. My brother and Sister hungout with him, but last 3-4 times i had said no. Found out after his death, that he knew he would pass away soon, and just wanted a little bit more time with us. Never take your loved ones for granted, because you never know when its the last time. ( sorry for long emotional text )
I'm so sorry to hear about your dad.
Your post broke me. 😭
This song breaks me every single time I hear it. I CAN NOT keep from bawling like a baby, no matter where or when. And I'm lucky enough to still have both my parents. I can't even imagine how hard this hits when you've actually lost a parent. Your reaction was beautiful, strong, emotional, honest. All my love to you! ❤️
Thank you so much for your kind words!
In 2004, James Blunt wrote and sang 'You're Beautiful' which I LOVE until now. I've never heard of this 'Monsters' until I'm watching it on this reaction video. Oh wow, I can see the pain and the anger on James Blunt's eyes as soon as he started singing. I couldn't help but teared up as I could feel his pain. Wow, the emotion on his face is so raw.
I never heard of this song until reactions/watching the reactions made the song even more emotional .
Me too
My father passed away in 2013 .. eight years and this song brings the tears like the day he left me .. There is a special bond between father and son .. If you have lost your father then my heart, thoughts and prayers go out to you now and forever ..
Agreed. I lost my father 2 years ago and this one brought it home. Blessings my friend.
Thanks for your reaction to a difficult song. I lost my mom the beginning of the pandemic and this one has me in tears every time. So sorry about your dad.
Thanks so much!
powerful song.. gets me everytime. much love to anyone reading this.
I’m in my early 40s with my dad in his early 70s and I had the same reaction (also a father to two girls 10/7) as you. Brilliant song that will make millions all over the world tear up to ball! 🥹😢
The American Idol Iam cover of it is amazing/sad too. They also did a duo that was sad/touching.
Thank you for being real with your emotions. Such a powerful song. There is so little out there for this specific heartbreaking yet inevitable situation of losing a parent.
Thank you for playing it without breaks so that we could get its' full impact. It doesn't matter whether your dad or mum is dying. It's still relevant and loving. I'm so glad his father managed to get his transplant.
I’ve watched this a lot and still tear up!
Thank you for sharing your time with us. ☮️
Wow, my first time to hear this...thank you for sharing your first reaction. I am there with you. I feel it.
That's the experience! The only bloger who guess the situation about this song!
Sometimes, looking at things from a different angle can really make you think. One time, I was sitting on my balcony, thinking about the tough times my family was going through. My 5-year-old son came up to me and asked, "Daddy, are you okay?" That question hit me hard. This song really speaks to me.
Every now and then, we need situations where we feel humble and vulnerable to remind us that, as fathers, husbands, and men, we're also just humans.
Sir, your reaction was exactly the same as mine, this leaves me in tears. Very highly emotional song, the way James delivers it, is just brilliant!
James Blunt is one of my most favourite singers he's amazing
We all cry listening to this song 🥰🥰
Brought tears to my eyes again... My Dad lost his battle with cancer in 2019. When the time drew near, his fear of dying became so great that I and my son had to sit by his bed with our hand on his chest. We were to wake him if he quit breathing.... In the end I had to chase his monsters away... I called a pastor whom was here in a short time. He was then at peace... I had chased the monsters away and he passed peacefully in his sleep. Very powerful song.
Hi Kathy, so sorry to hear about your dad. It's so touching on how you ushered your dad to the finish line. So touching.
This song is the great leveller. In all the reaction videos you see all the "showbiz" stripped away from the TH-camr. All thats left is the real person behind the bluster. Its not always pretty but its (almost) always real. You showed yourself to be a fine man. A fine human being. Thankyou for this upload.
James you made everyone who listened to your song cry and felt so sad for you what a song for your father love you
So hearing this song/your reaction sent me down a rabbit hole. I just learned James Blunt saved us from WWlll.... and I just listened to a bunch of songs. The Greatest about the birth of his son..... I love this. Thank you for sharing.
Thanks so much!
Me looking for Moondog in the comments 0.0, overall I just want to say that I love your videos, they´re so genuine and emotional damaging haha. Discovered u a few years ago but came back just because you´re fantastic!
You're reaction was genuine and beautiful......
It just doesn't matter how old we are... Love is love. Dad is dad. ❤️
I was a blubbering mess...first time for me to hear it too and my dad is on the older side being 81 and I know it's coming and I don't know how I'll fare.
Hey DS, just try your best to savor each moment. I have the same feeling about my 81 year old mom...
You seem like such a gentle soul. God bless you and your family.
Thanks so much! You are so very kind.
You don't have to be a musician to appreciate this. You just have to be human. If it moves you, you pass. Congrats Bro. You're one of us.
Wonderful reaction to a gut-wrenching song!! Like others who have commented below, I too was the caregiver of both my parents who have passed. I wouldn’t trade it for anything, but the day you become the parent to your parent changes you forever…😪💔Love to all those who have gone through it, are going through it , and will be going through it….❤️🩹
My mum too passed away at the onset of Covid lockdown - it wasn’t attributed to Covid, but like you I thought it was (at that time testing wasn’t so good).
This song tore my heart in two.
Sending you my virtual 🤗
You too, Mary 🤗
This song was released a few months after I lost my Dad. My heart breaks again a little each time I listen to it. Such beautiful and moving words. Love to all those who have experienced loss. Grief is the price of love.
I love this song, and have watched many reactions to it. Yours has to be one of the most honest I have seen. Someone would have to have a heart of stone not to react. Such raw emotion. Thank you.
Thank you so much, Jackie!
When he sings you can feel my hand on your arm, and his dad then places his hand on James arm is touching
'You're Beautiful' is his most famous & the video has an amazing ending. All his songs range from sad to happy. A real talent & one of the funniest interviews out there.
u2 - "Sometimes you can't make it on your own" is a really beautiful song
Phenomenal performance, heard it for the first time yesterday after your (When I’m gone) reaction, tears rolling down my cheeks, I suppose everyone will take a different interpretation of it depending on what’s going on in their lives right now but for me it’s clear.
It’s not often you hear a song once that makes an impact like this.
Just heard this song now...TEARS r rolling here too.....every1 needs a GOOD CRY now n again....POWERFULL I lost my Dad at 12...I'm 50 now n have Son n Daughter.....man oh man....Great Song
This resonates with anyone who has taken care of someone who is dying. I took care of my husband before his passing, and it rings true for me. After 36 yrs of marriage, he chased away the monsters many times for me, and I for him.
Yes, this is a good one! Hits you in the heart & you can't help but be emotional! Thank you for not editing that out. My father had Stage 4 prostate cancer & underwent chemo in late 2020. He finished right around Christmas. New Year's 2021 he was given a good report by his Dr. that the treatment had drastically reduced the cancer & he had a positive prognosis of at least 5 more yrs with us. 2-3 weeks later he started having pain in his side & back & became wheelchair-bound. After ER & dr. visits he was hospitalized & it was found the cancer had metastasized into small cell carcinoma & invaded his lungs, bones & and all organs. We lost him on Feb. 18, 2021. Here I am a year later, first hearing this song and I sobbed my heart out because it describes those last couple of days with him. I love your reaction. Stay real! 💓
Thank you so much for your comments. I’m so so sorry to hear about what you had to go through. I lost my father back in 2019 and now my father-in-law which is 91 years old was just taken to a board and care facility. I think he’s going through the dying process as he’s lost like 15 pounds in a week and weighs 140 pounds now. He has a hard time eating so I know that I’m probably gonna be losing him as well in the next few weeks. It could be hard but it’s also kind of healing to talk about it like you have. Blessings to you my friend.
I've been watching men react to this for 3 hours, one because I have 2 grown boys, 2 because my 29 year old can barely speak to me unless he needs something atm, and I need to cry, and see men show emotion 😢 😢💞💙🕊🇦🇺.thank you, subscribed immediately 🤗🥲👍.
Thanks so much, Megs. Blessings to you my friend. Great to have you along for the ride.
@@larryshair blessings to you, I seen the warmth in you before the video started and almost couldn't watch, you should be so proud of the light that shines from you 🙂🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊💞👍.
You’re human, I love the fact you feel and you show it. You’re most definitely no idiot !!! I’m balling crying too ❤️❤️❤️
Just a little aded info for you. James' record company wanted him to use 'Auto-Tune' but he refused because he wanted this recording to be 100% real and genuine and what we see is the first take. It was the first time James had sung this to his dad, who only recently had been diagnosed with stage 4 kidney failure. I don't know how James managed to hold himself together for this but we can all see how emotional he was by the tears in his eyes. It's all quite amazing.
Oh my gosh!😭😭This was beautiful, a truly genuine honest and raw reaction❤️ Thank you so very much for this. I’m so sorry about your dad. I so wish I could jump through the screen and hug you! I’m sobbing too! My dad is very close to the end now
Oh no. Praying for peace. I'm so sorry Sandra.
I was crying right there with you ....... I lost my mom in middle of covid ..but very thankful I got to be there with her and say goodbye
❤️❤️❤️ sorry for your loss😢 James is an incredible singer and emotional writer. He was scared for his Dad... and his tears and emotions, I think resonated with almost all of us!
Heart wrenching. 🙏🏻
03:50 Sorry? No, my friend. There's no reason to be sorry. No reason to be sorry for empathy, no reason to be sorry for having feelings. In every single one of our lifes there will be plenty reasons to be sorry... but not this one. Let me tell you something, first time I heard this song I was sitting in front of my computer here in germany and I cried so hard that I wasn't able to see clearly for almost half an hour. To this day I'm not feeling sorry about that.
I'm a 45 year old otr truck driver and I bawl every time I watch this video or someone react to it. I still have both of my parents, but I dread the day this happens to me. Thank you for your real reaction, it's refreshing and moving.
I already knew this song, so I had to wait to watch your reaction until I had the right time as I knew I was going to cry all over again with you…no other option with this one. Truly heartfelt. ❤️🇬🇧
Hi larryshair, This is my first time listening to your channel.... I subscribed . Well I have been a James Blunt fan since his release of "Your Beautiful" in 2004 . I have loved all his songs so much. Thank you for your warm and thoughtful reaction and comments for "Monsters"..... my dad died when I was 25 and this is the first song that I have heard that explains how I feel about my dad . I am sorry for your loss . Much appreciation for the work you put into your channel .
Thank you so much and I'm so sorry about your dad. Sounds like you were too young to lose him. So sorry. ***Hugs***
Damn, I wasn't ready for that tearjerking song.
That makes two of us!
What a beautiful song. This made me tear up 😭
Another powerful song (it is particularly a "man cry" song) is "Hurt" by Johnny Cash - I am sure a lot of people will agree 😌
Many thanks for your videos, all the way from little old Tasmania, Australia 🙌
I miss my daddy so much ...thank you so much
I heard in an interview that this was the first time James cried in front of his dad. They’re both military men and never showed emotion. Everyone on set was crying and his dad said “why you crying I’m still here!” His dad needed a kidney transplant. James did this song to get a kidney. Luckily he got one and he’s doing ok I believe.
T'is me again....I do not know who "moondog" is but I will say this Larry...Your reaction was one of the best I have seen with this song. I am so happy that you did not come out saying that you were playing the "Man Card"...men cry too...as they should.. let your emotions flow..You would have to be made of stone to not react the way you did. I have seen many reactors to this song and you are the best one...really.....😂😂 Notice that I have entered an "emoji" because you told me how to do it...thank you so very much. I love watching you, as I have said before. But with this particular song, well, it does bring out the authentic person as it is a TRUE song....thanks Larry 👍👍👌👌😉😉💋💋💕💕(you have now created a monster re: emojis.....
lol, glad to have opened the emoji toy chest for you! Thanks again for your kind words!