Quiet Luxury Style Essentials (Plus Size Edition)

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  • @karenprinz5987
    @karenprinz5987 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I feel like fit is important to the quiet luxury style too. Love that you addressed this style for a plus size! ❤❤

    • @Oralia_Martinez
      @Oralia_Martinez  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You’re most welcome. We are all worthy of feeling like a million bucks! 😉💕

  • @dori9024
    @dori9024 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I am getting so tired of fast, trendy cheap material made fashion. I would love to see you do a video on old money style for Apple shape petite body. Featuring high end quality fashion in natural fibers of cotton, wool, linen and silk. This would be great in helping to guide one on building a curated closet of only the best.

    • @Oralia_Martinez
      @Oralia_Martinez  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Fantastic idea, Dori. I’ll follow up for sure! 😃💕

    • @indigodande4345
      @indigodande4345 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@Oralia_Martinez love your video. I want to do quiet luxury as well but a lot of these pieces come off as preppy. I personally just don’t look or feel good in preppy clothes. I come from a goth raver background. While I’m not running around in white face paint or neon rave anymore - is it possible to do quiet luxury that has more of an alternative / hard edginess to it ? Thanks 🙏

    • @Oralia_Martinez
      @Oralia_Martinez  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @indigodande4345 Yes! Make sure that what you’re picking up has quality, is minimal but has edge to match your punk/goth style. So maybe accessories with hardware, or that lean more rock/punk mixed with clean, minimal pieces. Also your hair can be an edgy avant- garde style. It’s really all about the contrast between the classic/minimal and hard/edgy in your outfit. And you can have pops of color - a lip, a shoe, a belt, etc.

    • @IAmPhasion
      @IAmPhasion 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@indigodande4345 maybe some doc marten boots, get your edgy look from your accessories a nice red lip and some black jeans, or faded wash black gray even skirts and dresses you can definitely keep your goth look and look like quiet wealth

  • @francinebissonrealtor9485
    @francinebissonrealtor9485 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    you come across as a "class act" yourself - I have put weight on over my menopausal years and somehow lost my previous confidence in my own style - I am on a journey back despite my waist size and you are a phenomenal inspiration - I just subscribed

    • @Oralia_Martinez
      @Oralia_Martinez  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Aww, thank you! 🙈 And welcome! 👋🏼

    • @anilshrivastav7713
      @anilshrivastav7713 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

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  • @mcoknits856
    @mcoknits856 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I love this video. My wardrobe is full of Brooks Brothers casual as well as professional styles. I’m so disappointed that they have discontinued their petites as I have many cotton petite blouses that are still in good shape. This video pretty much typifies my style choices.

    • @Oralia_Martinez
      @Oralia_Martinez  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's a bummer. That's the nice thing about a place like Brooks Brothers, though - they're made to last! 😉

  • @dwandavis3736
    @dwandavis3736 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    If you don't like her opinions, don't listen or subscribe. There is no need to be rude and insulting. Find someone whose ideas align with yours. SMH

  • @marymahl4684
    @marymahl4684 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Love the plaid gray pants with white shirt with blazer! Definitely quiet luxury.

  • @janicebelfiore856
    @janicebelfiore856 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oralia does an excellent job of helping women to take pride and love themselves, no matter your size.
    I myself struggle with weight as an older woman with health issues. Oralia is a breath of fresh air. I dont dress as much like her but have learned some invaluable tips and some self confidence! I cannt afford some of the fashions or accesories but i can shop around for better value and create my own look that i can love!

  • @aleshiaharding4578
    @aleshiaharding4578 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This was a great video! Would love to see you do a video on plus size luxury fashion as well, and thoughts on shopping at luxury designers.

    • @Oralia_Martinez
      @Oralia_Martinez  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That is an excellent idea and one that I will follow up on! 😉💕

  • @LauraGilmoreArt
    @LauraGilmoreArt ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I just found your channel, and am an instant fan. You really know your stuff and present it so well.

  • @amyserna1204
    @amyserna1204 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I absolutely LOVE you in this style. It is SO clean and beautiful. Dress me, Oralia! ❤️

    • @Oralia_Martinez
      @Oralia_Martinez  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much!! I have a little something in the works. 😉

  • @abryant3000
    @abryant3000 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I REALLY enjoyed this video. I've been a bit overwhelmed with this topic popping up on my feed (both IG and YT) but your explanations were succinct and easy to digest - "Old money isn't looking for show what they have, b/c they've had it for a while. It's nothing 'new' and therefore nothing to show off." That is SO true! Whenever you've had something for a while (or grew up with it) it's luster (not value, just luster) tends to lose its gloss with you. That doesn't mean you don't enjoy it as much, but it's gone from something you covet to something that's now apart of your everyday lifestyle. Big aha moment for me - thank you ma'am!

  • @julieschnorenberg5370
    @julieschnorenberg5370 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Wow! That was an excellent video on this subject, Oralia! I love your examples that you wear. Many thanks!

    • @Oralia_Martinez
      @Oralia_Martinez  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So glad you enjoyed it, Julie. I have a capsule wardrobe video coming, too!

  • @oldmama8929
    @oldmama8929 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Old money is not minimalist, it's heritage/tradition driven. Minimalist rarely wear patterns, and can have bold silhouettes. While old money has tweeds, checks, floral and heritage prints in simple, well cut silhouettes. Quiet luxury is new items that are expensive. Old money is having the same items of quality (not necessarily expensive ) that lasts for decades. You can tell quiet luxury from old money by the furniture. If it's new, it's quiet luxury. If it was old and inherited, it's old money.

    • @Oralia_Martinez
      @Oralia_Martinez  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good distinctions, thank you for sharing! 😉💕

    • @s.a.4358
      @s.a.4358 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Also, within Old Money there are also different aesthetics depending on the person, place, season, etc. There is the preppy / academic look, the hunting inspired look, the yachting / boating look for summer especially, what I would call the British colonial look (definitely more colourful as inspired by India), the country lady look, etc.

    • @Oralia_Martinez
      @Oralia_Martinez  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very true!

    • @emerybayblues
      @emerybayblues 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      A lot of these people talking about quiet luxury, old $$ haven't the foggiest idea.

  • @SHANiECEenj
    @SHANiECEenj 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I know alot of view points are shared in this comment section and this is an older video but I appropriate and love this thank you.

  • @AnnWright-jb2dw
    @AnnWright-jb2dw หลายเดือนก่อน

    All very nice looks. A favourite was the white pants. 👍🏻

  • @aliciamullaney6634
    @aliciamullaney6634 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Very impressed with your video

  • @careya
    @careya ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Just found your channel and absolutely love it.

  • @winnysneece694
    @winnysneece694 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ❤❤❤ Great advice. Thank you

  • @moniquefelan556
    @moniquefelan556 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love this thank you ☺️

  • @latashanicoleboudoirphotog218
    @latashanicoleboudoirphotog218 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really enjoyed this video. I learned so much! Thank you!

  • @jchow5966
    @jchow5966 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you.

  • @mcleanroom7997
    @mcleanroom7997 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video!

  • @lisa8990
    @lisa8990 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hello, I found your channel through The Quiet Poet. Loving your style.

  • @LauraGilmoreArt
    @LauraGilmoreArt ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks!

    • @Oralia_Martinez
      @Oralia_Martinez  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much! I am so sorry for the late response! 😳

  • @donnadequire-rios3531
    @donnadequire-rios3531 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am so happy I found your channel. New subbie for sure.

  • @cdanerg9416
    @cdanerg9416 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hi. Would you consider doing a piece on shoes for plus sized wonen?

    • @Oralia_Martinez
      @Oralia_Martinez  ปีที่แล้ว

      With Fall coming, there's going to be a shoe video coming! I do have a summer shoe video, you can watch here: th-cam.com/video/LA8D1IbD3jI/w-d-xo.html 😉

  • @mikebohling4305
    @mikebohling4305 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    love this video Oralia/thank you for all of your ideas XXX

  • @psz1178
    @psz1178 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Oralia, love all of your pictures. I'm planning to buy Gucci belt. Would love to see your Gucci belt in jeans.

  • @tuesdaysbirdseed
    @tuesdaysbirdseed 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this video and the tips you gave. I think the one thing that threw me was throwing in a birkin bag after saying we DIDN'T need the generational wealth hahha

  • @jonispruit8877
    @jonispruit8877 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Agree 💯 ❤

  • @kimhinojosa4707
    @kimhinojosa4707 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love the outfits you are wearing and apprecuate the kinks. Can you let me know which store carries the black trousers

    • @Oralia_Martinez
      @Oralia_Martinez  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They're an older pair from Nordstrom and are no longer available. Here's the link to a similar pair bit.ly/43aRzFv 😉

  • @Racheeeeek
    @Racheeeeek 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Where do you buy belts for larger folk? I've been having a hard time finding belts that fit my waistline.

    • @JustMeB729
      @JustMeB729 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Plus size stores should have them.

    • @ava-ct4ex
      @ava-ct4ex หลายเดือนก่อน

      hey try temu , measure your waist

  • @makeiasmith4955
    @makeiasmith4955 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love the link necklace your wearing.... where from?

    • @Oralia_Martinez
      @Oralia_Martinez  ปีที่แล้ว

      So sorry, it's an older necklace from Express. 🤦🏻‍♀️💕

  • @cr8389
    @cr8389 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What do you recommend for vegan purses and belts, I’m vegan and no longer buy animal products. Thanks

  • @louisejgarcia3387
    @louisejgarcia3387 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My lady, love type long sleeve shirt you're wearing in this post. Long sleeve blue stripe, where does you purchase it?

    • @Oralia_Martinez
      @Oralia_Martinez  ปีที่แล้ว

      I got it from H&M but I thinks it’s sold out. 🙈

  • @stephfrancis7109
    @stephfrancis7109 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Outside of clothes, what do people do now? sell all their designer bags? I love scarves, but I live in Florida and it gets hot. I like the way you explained this. It's very palatable, when others talk about this Quiet Luxury comes across insulting to people who buy logo bags like Channel, LV, Dior, YSL etc. handbags. It's as though you should feel ashamed of owning these bags.

    • @Oralia_Martinez
      @Oralia_Martinez  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah, some bring it across that way. It’s a style choice, really. If you love it, wear it. The joy of how it makes you feel will come through and it’s really all about how you feel about yourself that matters. No one else’s opinion should take that away from you. 😉💕

    • @s.a.4358
      @s.a.4358 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just wait 2-3 years and labels will be in fashion again and all these label designer bags will be far more expensive than they are now 😂

    • @ellenscofield5632
      @ellenscofield5632 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I live in Florida and plan to use my scarves once I receive my Birkin dupe lol. I love colors way too much but I’ll definitely use that aesthetic for my work.

  • @RoseSOak
    @RoseSOak ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just found your channel and I am very open to what your views

  • @oraliaspahn6186
    @oraliaspahn6186 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ha! That’s my name. You and I have the same name!

  • @marygrace9117
    @marygrace9117 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    👏🏽🥰💕😊

  • @mina77ism
    @mina77ism ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Where do you buy those gorjus pants in your video?!?!

  • @Ingrid0410
    @Ingrid0410 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think you would look very pretty in a red dress and dresses and skirts. Just because the classic “old money” style is there, doesn’t mean everyone looks good in it Oralia. Trousers, button downs are not attractive on plus sizes. Beautiful draping pants and tops are.

    • @laulutar
      @laulutar หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Ingrid0410 I think it depends on a person's build, not just their size. I wear a US size 20 or 22, and if the shapes are right (for my frame) trousers and button downs can work.

  • @josephinerimmer6888
    @josephinerimmer6888 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You can never spot an aristocrat in this country by their clothes, particularly men. They tend to wear clothes they’ve had for years ( if they’ve kept their figure ). Very often wearing their father’s blazers and overcoats. Always classic shapes and colours. The ladies of course are a very different thing. Still classic pieces that will not date.

  • @emerybayblues
    @emerybayblues 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That big honking V on your belt at 5:30 is the antitheses of quiet luxury.

    • @Oralia_Martinez
      @Oralia_Martinez  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      True, but I really love the quality of it, and we all should stay true to what makes us happy in our personal style. In essence, I know the rule and have chosen to break it. 😉

  • @janekay2001
    @janekay2001 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    be careful that your stripes dont look like pjs

  • @susandrydenhenderson6234
    @susandrydenhenderson6234 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It’s more difficult for an American to understand quiet luxury or where it is traditionally found.
    British aristocracy have always thought it wrong to waste and foolish to flaunt wealth. They shop once a season largely only for that which needs replaced. They buy very well made clothes of quality fabrics so that they last for decades. They wear neutrals so that they get their wear from them, nobody notices you wore those same few outfits last year. It’s easy to dress and travel and be suitable for all occasions. The saved money accumulates.
    Other intelligent wealthy people and others see the wisdom and visual appeal in this approach.

  • @mjw1111
    @mjw1111 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So whyte people in classic clothes,

    • @Oralia_Martinez
      @Oralia_Martinez  ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Not quite. Classic style suits everyone, regardless of race or ethnic background. 😉💕

  • @nickimillennium
    @nickimillennium 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I say look the best that you can but you will never look chic being overweight, the two just don't go together. Hair, skin, teeth and physique are the basic components of looking high class. As a sidenote (not trying to be rude or funny) but it's important to have impeccable oral hygiene (at least in the US) and you should have your teeth cleaned and tartar removed on your front teeth; then keep up a strict flossing regimen to keep it from coming back. Problematic hygiene/grooming are a tell tale sign of being lower class. Lots of upper class girls have a grunge/coachella aesthetic but their hair, highlights, skin and oral care will still be on point.

    • @Oralia_Martinez
      @Oralia_Martinez  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Wow. I'm glad you at least value good oral hygiene...

    • @christinastephenson356
      @christinastephenson356 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      You know what another tell-tale sign of being lower class is? Being rude and insulting.

    • @ellenscofield5632
      @ellenscofield5632 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ignore the trolls & haters. I think anyone can look chic as long as the fit & proportions match the individual.

    • @juliarodgers5795
      @juliarodgers5795 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@nickimillennium This isn’t your channel…

  • @DaisyChain3339.
    @DaisyChain3339. 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Huh? There hasn't been in the history of this look and the world where this size is shown as 'luxury'. Get a diet, then new clothes.

  • @annamuller51
    @annamuller51 ปีที่แล้ว

    Obesity is considered lower class! Old money is never overweight. So before you judge new money people for being flashy, you might take a look in your fridge.

    • @Oralia_Martinez
      @Oralia_Martinez  ปีที่แล้ว +36

      That’s a bit rough, don’t you think? Everyone deserves to look and feel elegant, beautiful, and expensive, regardless of size.

    • @s.a.4358
      @s.a.4358 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Clearly you do not know history. Obsession with being thin is a modern thing and was not always considered desirable. Just look at painting by the Old Masters.
      Secondly, Oralia is talking about a fashion aesthetic here. Nobody is going to think you are old money just because you wear a blazer. Especially not with that attitude. Rudeness is considered lower class. Old money is never rude or disrespectful

    • @marygrace9117
      @marygrace9117 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your rude, clearly common with no manners.

    • @S0ngsyngr
      @S0ngsyngr ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Also hopefully in these times we recognize that people are individuals who not only can look different but also can have health issues. One’s weight is not always a ‘choice.’ sometimes it is a result of a health condition.

    • @rachela3066
      @rachela3066 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Manners are also far classier than rudeness but here you are…