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  • @ConnorFranta
    @ConnorFranta  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1461

    Let's lean into how truly odd this year has been, and answer many of the
    questions I always tend to avoid... kick back & have a peaceful day 🤲🏻❤️

  • @mayajoy7248
    @mayajoy7248 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4979

    Ah, the holy trinity: undiagnosed depression, undiagnosed anxiety, and undiagnosed Gay

    • @notroe2237
      @notroe2237 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      love that

    • @ConnorFranta
      @ConnorFranta  3 ปีที่แล้ว +570

      ✌🏻😌

    • @biravijnya
      @biravijnya 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      name a better trio

    • @followtheflorence
      @followtheflorence 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Omg why is this so relatable

    • @shiroi201
      @shiroi201 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      More like an UNholy trinity 😆

  • @rickydillon
    @rickydillon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4073

    i love you legend

  • @inetapoliscenko6048
    @inetapoliscenko6048 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1574

    About successful. Watch what Harry Styles said about it. "As long as you are happy doing what you are doing- nobody can say you aren't successful "

    • @ConnorFranta
      @ConnorFranta  3 ปีที่แล้ว +544

      smart man

    • @inetapoliscenko6048
      @inetapoliscenko6048 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@ConnorFranta while you are here. Any more books we can expect from you? Not to sound cheesy,but I been long time supporter. And "Note to self " was so amazing.

    • @adamsmith4787
      @adamsmith4787 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You're your own judge of success.

  • @NurChrisi
    @NurChrisi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1081

    I love how you just confirmed that relationship without naming him. And I love how everyone is so respectful and funny in the comments being like "he who must not be named". I love this community!

    • @jeanneseguineau6922
      @jeanneseguineau6922 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      that's what I thought!!! so lovely to see

    • @benwilson9793
      @benwilson9793 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I'm so put out of the loop that I genuinely have no idea who he's talking about 🤣

    • @jeanneseguineau6922
      @jeanneseguineau6922 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@benwilson9793 i Guess you'll never know then ahahaah

    • @benwilson9793
      @benwilson9793 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@jeanneseguineau6922 Honestly its part of the fun ahaha

    • @ragnarok6799
      @ragnarok6799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Honestly he probably blacklisted the name because i can't find it anywhere hahaha

  • @lxnnsophie9842
    @lxnnsophie9842 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4913

    Connor is my comfort human. Is that a thing?

    • @ConnorFranta
      @ConnorFranta  3 ปีที่แล้ว +897

      it is now!

    • @niibinaba
      @niibinaba 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      Omg YES, finally we have a term for it

    • @julie9204
      @julie9204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      He always puts a smile on my face and tbh I come to watch him again everytime I'm feeling sad, so yeah, comfort human for me too!

    • @coolasian21
      @coolasian21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      YES!!!!! I have thought this for a while! He's just so calming and comforting!

    • @grits427
      @grits427 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That's defiantly a thing because he's mine too

  • @GabbingandWoolgathering
    @GabbingandWoolgathering 3 ปีที่แล้ว +485

    Omg I literally thought he would never address the whole 2014/2015 relationship. He is so graceful about it as well.

    • @showmoke
      @showmoke 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Really? - I wouldn't say ' get away from me scum' about TS was particularly graceful.

    • @andrewfraser.6529
      @andrewfraser.6529 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@showmoke that’s a stretch

    • @ErmolchikKsusha
      @ErmolchikKsusha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      @@showmoke I don’t think he was talking about T. I’m sure he meant people like Shane Dawson

    • @showmoke
      @showmoke 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ErmolchikKsusha - ok, that would make sense.

    • @redheadvixen1013
      @redheadvixen1013 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@showmoke I highly doubt he was talking about him when he said that because he follows T on instagram so I doubt he thinks that he is scum. He's probably talking about the problematic youtubers - *cough cough* Trisha Paytas, Shane Dawson, Jeffree Star *cough cough*

  • @intimatetronnor1
    @intimatetronnor1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1174

    thanks for confirming that the thing i obsessed over for a year when i was 14 was not a lie. i cringe at my behaviour now as I’m 19, but i was so invested in it at one point, so its good to know now :)

    • @reinacastanon7462
      @reinacastanon7462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +137

      i totally felt this, my younger self was so invested in it and now that it’s confirmed I feel so complete

    • @lovehumanity5172
      @lovehumanity5172 3 ปีที่แล้ว +145

      your username makes this comment so much funnier tbh

    • @zoewilson9783
      @zoewilson9783 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      i too had a fan account for this pairing when i was 14 and am now 19 hahahaha

    • @intimatetronnor1
      @intimatetronnor1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@lovehumanity5172 i never got rid of or changed the account so i still use it lollll

    • @rebeccam2578
      @rebeccam2578 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      wait i thought he confirmed he didnt date anyone. What am i missing lol

  • @BlueKneesAudios
    @BlueKneesAudios 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2415

    Are you telling me you've never hooked up with miranda sings???

    • @ConnorFranta
      @ConnorFranta  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1950

      CAUGHT IN THE MIDDLE OF A LIE

    • @princessangel4evr
      @princessangel4evr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@ConnorFranta also stans colleen.

    • @sure_3717
      @sure_3717 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      His collab with Miranda sings is my first time seeing him

    • @parthvimodi6815
      @parthvimodi6815 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ConnorFranta wait whaaat

    • @neehaa
      @neehaa 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😬

  • @callieross5507
    @callieross5507 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3556

    my 13 year old self is very satisfied with u confirming the relationship with u know who

    • @nxreu
      @nxreu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      same

    • @holliebrooke7327
      @holliebrooke7327 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      omg same i was 13 too

    • @henrique_pais
      @henrique_pais 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      riiiight same

    • @sergio-yf9ro
      @sergio-yf9ro 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      wait who are we all thinking about bc i went to see if he had collabed with my guess and he hasnt omg

    • @henrique_pais
      @henrique_pais 3 ปีที่แล้ว +819

      @@sergio-yf9ro the one who lived in a Blue Neighbourhood

  • @RaheemD
    @RaheemD 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3039

    I'll be honest, when I saw the title I was thinking "Ok, he's gonna clickbait us and give us some cute tea and say stuff like "Yes I've accidentally stolen a bagel before" or something irrelevant" but you actually answered the questions people have wondered for years 🥴😂

    • @marwane5647
      @marwane5647 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Do ya kow who's the TH-camrs that he was talking ab ??! Bc I'm guinuly confused

    • @strawlemonade
      @strawlemonade 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      @@marwane5647 it's best if you do your own research if you really want to know... he's made it very clear that he wants to keep his relationships private !!^^

    • @kassidysorel4631
      @kassidysorel4631 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      marwan e the one everyone knows has initials of t.s. and he enjoys singing

    • @marwane5647
      @marwane5647 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@strawlemonade fair enough

    • @ConnorFranta
      @ConnorFranta  3 ปีที่แล้ว +435

      only the truth here ✨

  • @reinacastanon7462
    @reinacastanon7462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1261

    “one of which you definitely know, let’s be real. “
    okay hi my past self is screaming

    • @marwane5647
      @marwane5647 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Y'all can't be fr I think that I'm beyond stupid for still not realizing

    • @samybelbe4563
      @samybelbe4563 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      who is it ?

    • @VoveriuxD
      @VoveriuxD 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Who's he talking about?

    • @ethanlivemere1162
      @ethanlivemere1162 3 ปีที่แล้ว +124

      @@samybelbe4563 The guy who played young Wolverine in X-Men Origins: Wolverine

    • @ethanlivemere1162
      @ethanlivemere1162 3 ปีที่แล้ว +205

      @@VoveriuxD The guy whose first name is like a famous city in Greek mythology where they did a thing with a horse, but with an E added at the end

  • @205863729
    @205863729 3 ปีที่แล้ว +534

    kinda off topic but you're literally the only youtuber i still watch from my youtube era lol i'll just never get tired of your funny but chill videos, you really have a unique vibe

    • @HristoGeorgievTV
      @HristoGeorgievTV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Same here. Also, Dan and Phil...well, just Phil :(

    • @rotemnisan354
      @rotemnisan354 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@HristoGeorgievTV sameeee

    • @HristoGeorgievTV
      @HristoGeorgievTV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@CH--. I don't know. But if Dan ever returns, I'm sure we'll be here for him and continue to support him.

    • @caitlyntaylor
      @caitlyntaylor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@CH--. I think he stopped because he wanted to work on other projects (like his book that’s coming out in May) but he said he has plans for his channel next year so he’ll be back :D

  • @NS-jk1dt
    @NS-jk1dt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +195

    It warms my that TS and Connor still follow each other on instagram. I know that they are aware and proud of each other's achievements and that is just so precious 😭

    • @luz2833
      @luz2833 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did they actually date?

    • @okaypearl
      @okaypearl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@luz2833 yes but neither of them have explicitly confirmed it by using each others' names. although they don't really need to even do that anymore because there's so much proof that they were a thing... like i think the fact that connor has blocked the use of TS' name as well as their ship name in his comments section says enough lol

  • @itsblanche8209
    @itsblanche8209 3 ปีที่แล้ว +763

    it's great to see that you and other youtubers from your "youtube generation" ( like tyler oakley, dan howell, phil lester and others ) give less importance to numbers and more importance to their personal lives (and keeping it private), to growing as people, and it's amazing to see you be generally happy with yourselves and at peace in a way? you just do your things, talk about what matters to you and don't really try to please the algorithm
    i think we all felt a bit lonely this year, i moved out from my parents in September to start my first year of uni but it ended up being fully online so i am away from home but also didn't meet anyone so it's a bit tough, but vaccines are coming so who knows :)
    your videos always relax me and it's great to see that you're doing well

    • @ashes6924
      @ashes6924 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      best generation.

    • @notroe2237
      @notroe2237 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      best generation 💙
      i feel so ridiculously nostalgic rn

    • @FileCode1459
      @FileCode1459 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      absolutely yes!!! also i feel like not having so many ppl wondering about your personal life feels way better, at least as far as the phandom (dan and phil fandom) is concerned, i feel like ppl are so much more respectful nowadays and we can all just vibe together with the boys

    • @itsblanche8209
      @itsblanche8209 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@FileCode1459 yeah and with dan's book coming up and phil doing his stuff they're both just happy and living their best gay life and it makes me happy

    • @KlTKATKAY
      @KlTKATKAY 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      true! we don't see that much of them anymore but there's this warm feeling to knowing that they're doing well and better.
      but also i hope everything goes well for you (and the world, actually) but for you especially! i know being alone in the pandemic AND away from home makes you lonely and feel things. i started uni a year ago and i fell into a really bad place when the whole covid thing happened. i genuinely hope you're doing well too. anyway i agree with you completely! stay safe :-)

  • @shreyanshi1341
    @shreyanshi1341 3 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    "People grow up, people change, people drift apart and that is not a bad thing, that's a normal thing. I think people get really obsessed with nostalgia and they want things to always be one way but that's just not the nature of life." I really needed to hear this. Thank you Connor you make it all better

  • @jaybehkay2438
    @jaybehkay2438 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    “One of which you definitely know, let’s be real” thanks Connor 😂😂

  • @tatumtatum
    @tatumtatum 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    “he was a kind, lovely, intelligent, man. so naturally, i had to ruin it and break up with” okay me

  • @aledrosser2874
    @aledrosser2874 3 ปีที่แล้ว +388

    Probably the nicest thing I've watched whilst eating a bowl of pasta, butter and parmesan....

    • @ConnorFranta
      @ConnorFranta  3 ปีที่แล้ว +155

      wait, that sounds divine

    • @katiekatie12341
      @katiekatie12341 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Literally same but pasta bolognese

    • @klandies3
      @klandies3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Literally same but mac & cheese

  • @damondominique
    @damondominique 3 ปีที่แล้ว +956

    You seem like you're a good place ConCon! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 and send some of that LA sun this way...(this was the most dad comment I think I've ever written)

    • @ConnorFranta
      @ConnorFranta  3 ปีที่แล้ว +240

      Thanks friend! Once we're able, I need to head over to your part of the world and have you show me around :)

    • @serat4919
      @serat4919 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      @@ConnorFranta a Connor and Damon video would make me so happy!! 😁

    • @El-wx6vp
      @El-wx6vp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      We need this collab ASAP omg. Red wine talks with Connor?!

    • @jackiereyes8573
      @jackiereyes8573 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@El-wx6vp I would scream with glee

    • @emili2188
      @emili2188 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ConnorFranta kings the two of you

  • @stephaniegrace7562
    @stephaniegrace7562 3 ปีที่แล้ว +610

    First of all, the vibes are IMMACULATE
    Second, can people please stop asking gay men if they're a top or bottom lol

    • @genericname8727
      @genericname8727 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Yeah I feel like it’s often asked as another way of asking “so who’s the man and who’s the woman” because that’s how a lot of straight people still see it weirdly

    • @KlTKATKAY
      @KlTKATKAY 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      IKR i mean most of us gay people put it on our tinder/grindr bios just for the sake of it but when straight people ask us about it it's like they're bringing over the heteronormativity into our system and it's just. pls stop

    • @redheadvixen1013
      @redheadvixen1013 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Yes exactly, any wlw or mlm person really though. Whenever I watch a Q&A video from a wlw or mlm person, I expect that question to come up somewhere and yet I cringe every time I hear it because when I see a Q&A video from a straight person, I never see any questions about their sex lives... funny that.

    • @michellemontas5756
      @michellemontas5756 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@KlTKATKAY as a straight person, i do not claim the people who ask gay people these heteronormative questions. :]

  • @MoMo-pz2bb
    @MoMo-pz2bb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    You know Connor, I've watched you for years now. Never in those years, I felt like you were as happy as you seem to be lately. I wish you all the best. You're a good human.

    • @ConnorFranta
      @ConnorFranta  3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      I've put a lot of work into finding and grounding myself over the years. I'm glad it shows! :)

    • @MoMo-pz2bb
      @MoMo-pz2bb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@ConnorFranta it really does! Also, I'm kinda of freaking out here lol

  • @naomibonello
    @naomibonello 3 ปีที่แล้ว +546

    connor, we miss being called chickpeas:(((

  • @maike5527
    @maike5527 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Not enough people talk about that the good side is about this man. It makes me cry! That must have been tough on you Con, glad you seem so happy now :')

  • @ellarhys8984
    @ellarhys8984 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    i love that even when it’s a question video, it’s pleasant and aesthetically pleasing. i love distressing with these videos

  • @reinacastanon7462
    @reinacastanon7462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +306

    I love how we all know who “one of which you definitely know, let’s be real” is without him actually having to say who it is 🥺

    • @mariogomez1412
      @mariogomez1412 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i need to know who it is 😭

    • @idamomme52
      @idamomme52 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@mariogomez1412 Starts with a T and has an amazing voice

    • @mariogomez1412
      @mariogomez1412 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@idamomme52 T***r??

    • @idamomme52
      @idamomme52 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@mariogomez1412 T***e

    • @mariogomez1412
      @mariogomez1412 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@idamomme52 s***n? lol

  • @ito3192
    @ito3192 3 ปีที่แล้ว +428

    Connor: ... And I'll answer it in a way that's respectful to ev-
    Wish Ad: *plays*
    Edit: 🎵 I know I'm not the only one... 🎵

    • @RaheemD
      @RaheemD 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      SKIP SKIP SKIP SKIP SKI-

    • @cynthiacollins2643
      @cynthiacollins2643 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I WAS SOOO FLUSTERED OMGG

    • @mzeomg
      @mzeomg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i was about to run to YTHQ to sue bc thIS IS IMPORTANT

    • @NichaelaSF
      @NichaelaSF 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      SAME I WAS ABT TO SCREAM

    • @horsecrazy2266
      @horsecrazy2266 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I HAD THAT HAPPEN TOO for some reason i think he did it on purpose

  • @stephaneschmalen2742
    @stephaneschmalen2742 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Can we appreciate how unproblamtic of a youtuber Connor is? Like finally a youtuber who isn‘t involved in drama and just lives an asthetic life and is the most adorable person on this planet🥰

  • @iamvise
    @iamvise 3 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    Just wanna said that your videos are always helping me to calm when I’m anxious for more than 6 years now. Thank you!

  • @kyronliu5190
    @kyronliu5190 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    the little voiceover bits are so wholesome

  • @zoeade6829
    @zoeade6829 3 ปีที่แล้ว +469

    If cinnamon sugar was a human, they would be Connor Franta

    • @lulubelle3924
      @lulubelle3924 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yeah this is gonna be living in my brain rent free thank you. That’s so very accurate

    • @lostanguishbladelord2461
      @lostanguishbladelord2461 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Connor is a cinnamon spice , honey glazed muffin

    • @lbohren2485
      @lbohren2485 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is so accurate

  • @yoyo-yp8kn
    @yoyo-yp8kn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    you prolly won’t see this but still- 2012 i took a year off school preparing for the exam of transferring to an art university. i was so confused and frustrated with life, the only thing i can do is keep drawing and painting. that’s when i found you on youtube. whenever i feel bad your smile makes me so happy and inspired. lately, there’s lots of shit going on with my life. i’ve been depressed for months. i cant pass a day without thinking of suicide. but with help, i’m still here. trying my best self to face every single day.
    long story short. seeing you getting better and BETTER by every coming video REALLY makes me feel so happy & proud. seeing you become so comfortable and genuinely happy in yourself has been beautiful journey. most of all, you giving me the strength to continue.
    thanks a lot connor’ keep it up. ily Xx

  • @SebbArgo
    @SebbArgo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +566

    Literally started youtube because of you king so glad you’re still genuine af 👏👏😭😭 we love to see it

  • @Thimes123
    @Thimes123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +963

    "One of them you guys definetly know let's be real"
    Me: *chokes on spit*

    • @reinacastanon7462
      @reinacastanon7462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      meeeee ! I screamed 😭

    • @kayabooks2780
      @kayabooks2780 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      we know 👀

    • @marwane5647
      @marwane5647 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Whatttt ??! Wait plz I'm confused asf rn

    • @marwane5647
      @marwane5647 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kayabooks2780 confusion

    • @ethanlivemere1162
      @ethanlivemere1162 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      @@marwane5647 Listen to a song called "The Good Side"

  • @lovehumanity5172
    @lovehumanity5172 3 ปีที่แล้ว +346

    those glasses look so good on you

  • @Sara-vn2kz
    @Sara-vn2kz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +386

    Question: Religion?
    Connor: Spooky ooky

    • @ConnorFranta
      @ConnorFranta  3 ปีที่แล้ว +150

      organized religion? spooky ooky OOKY

    • @hugowych3768
      @hugowych3768 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ConnorFranta omg organised religion is terrifying that’s the real halloween 🎃 👻

  • @sofiapcna
    @sofiapcna 3 ปีที่แล้ว +713

    Omg I’m early but the color grading tho *chef’s kiss*

    • @ConnorFranta
      @ConnorFranta  3 ปีที่แล้ว +158

      thank you 😌

    • @mayajoy7248
      @mayajoy7248 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Connor's entire aesthetic is how I aspire to see the world

    • @sofiapcna
      @sofiapcna 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ConnorFranta ughhh love you 🤍

  • @__leeoalmeida
    @__leeoalmeida 3 ปีที่แล้ว +303

    FINALLY THE 16 YEAR OLD ME CAN REST IN PEACE, NOW THAT ONE OF THEM CLARIFIED AND FINISHED THE BUSINESS!
    at least ONE of my teenager ships was real.

    • @cocoowen8691
      @cocoowen8691 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Probably 2 of u shipped phan too back in the day

    • @barbaracarvalho235
      @barbaracarvalho235 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@cocoowen8691 omg yes

    • @irmacommentsalot7380
      @irmacommentsalot7380 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@cocoowen8691 destiel too lmao

    • @cocoowen8691
      @cocoowen8691 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@irmacommentsalot7380 this has transported me back to 2015/16,, simpler times

    • @a1eyaaaaaaaaa
      @a1eyaaaaaaaaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@cocoowen8691 helll yeaah

  • @thelibragamine
    @thelibragamine 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I hope his DMs don't get flooded with the wrong questions now trying to peer further into his privacy. I really love this man for being honest when HE feels it's right too, even though he has no obligation to share anything of the sort: please, whoever you are respect that.

  • @jeffamunoz
    @jeffamunoz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    *Getting this out of the way now - the lighting is IMMACULATE and you look especially stunning here* 😳🥰

  • @WHATTHEBUCKSHOW
    @WHATTHEBUCKSHOW 3 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    Ya boy is fine! Yassss! I had my best financial year since 2013 this year! Brag/Celebrate/Be Proud away!!!

    • @ConnorFranta
      @ConnorFranta  3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Well done, Michael! ♥️

  • @meredithwallace4043
    @meredithwallace4043 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    the "how are you, really" question is really all i cared about

  • @DavidTriangle
    @DavidTriangle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +320

    i love these little cute chill vids

  • @rachelhewlett8782
    @rachelhewlett8782 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    man there’s not many people i can happily sit through a whole video like this from anymore, but your videos always make my day. i wanna be friends with u

  • @alyonaalyona7531
    @alyonaalyona7531 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    "People in general give me anxiety"
    Yes.

    • @ConnorFranta
      @ConnorFranta  3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      still trying to work on that... *laughs nervously*

    • @alyonaalyona7531
      @alyonaalyona7531 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ConnorFranta me too 😅

  • @yessismiles
    @yessismiles 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    You are the only "old" youtuber I've stuck around with and I will always support you, chickpea! 🤸‍♀️💛

    • @ConnorFranta
      @ConnorFranta  3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      thanks for always being here 💛

    • @yessismiles
      @yessismiles 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ConnorFranta omg thank you for always being here for us too 😭💛💛

  • @lindsayandrus3162
    @lindsayandrus3162 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    i don’t know why... but the, “thank you very much” at 8:44 just radiated julie andrew’s vibes and i love it

  • @adrielyse3440
    @adrielyse3440 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    i love how real this is. i feel like a lot of them time even when influencers are answering these questions/doing these videos they are still dramatizing this, and this video just feels so real and made me happy. it was refreshing to watch🤍.

    • @ConnorFranta
      @ConnorFranta  3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      i'm glad you enjoyed it!

  • @baileykrause14
    @baileykrause14 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    the relationship he was talking about made my heart happy, i never rooted for it at the time but just taking me back to then warmed my soul

  • @tove8719
    @tove8719 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Connor you have such a calm, warm, old soul energy and I love listening to you talk, feel like I'm absorbing a little bit of that energy through the screen.

  • @sarahbiernat3630
    @sarahbiernat3630 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    born and raised in illinois. connor will always have this homie, midwestern vibe to him that I will always adore. iykyk. hard to explain; he just radiates it.

  • @jessicawarble6750
    @jessicawarble6750 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    8 years later and i’m still here baby!

    • @ConnorFranta
      @ConnorFranta  3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      thanks for continuing to watch!! ❤️

  • @alondraanaya5124
    @alondraanaya5124 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    i feel like your the human version of a golden retriever i’m obsessed

  • @mariannek6735
    @mariannek6735 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The word "cute" pops upp in my head every so often whenever I watch Connors videos. Like really, how many people out there have cute personalities without being super loud and bubbly (which is a little overwhelming to me as an introvert)? I just feel happy and at ease when watching Connor. Good vibe, mind, heart, humor and general personality.

  • @tallactordude
    @tallactordude 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very real, very honest, and totally relatable. It’s no wonder you’ve stayed around. People put all sorts of things on you that say more about them than about you, but you simply tell the truth, and I admire that.

  • @Cantrona
    @Cantrona 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I love that this is a trend going on with the creators I entered adulthood with. None of these answers are ever unexpected or anything crazy. It's nice to know that ya'll are finally in a place where you're settled enough into yourselves where these things aren't as stressful to talk about anymore.
    Gives me hope that me feeling more settled into myself as an adult too isn't just some house of mirrors thing. Like, I am actually getting some (just some) of my shit together.
    Glad to hear you're doing well Connor! Don't forget to drink water :)

  • @audrey575
    @audrey575 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    you’re the only person i could listen to talk for hours. if you had a podcast i would sooo listen to it, your voice is just so soothing.

  • @coolyokia34
    @coolyokia34 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    If you ever get overwhelmed with LA you should try San Diego.
    1. More grounded gay scene but still alot of fun. Gayborhood called hilcrest. ALOT of hot people.
    2. 2.5 hours away from LA
    3. Beautiful weather. Free beach parking. Way better street parking. Cheaper rent. Less traffic. Hour away from snow. Tourist destinations close by (zoo. SeaWorld. Balboa park. Nature destinations)
    4. Way nicer people than LA.
    5. Great urban environment downtown
    6. Great hipster/boho/culture neighborhood called North Park.
    7. Respectful city towards environment
    8. Easier to make friends in SD.
    Go visit. I personally love it.

  • @tinaguo3128
    @tinaguo3128 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Connor you are such a kind soul. Every time I hear or read something about your breakup, my heart still breaks up for you. Idk it's been so long but I still do. It brings back memories of things in my past and it's so relatable. I love poetry. I hope when the pandemic is over i could come to a signing tour for your next book.

  • @juandharma
    @juandharma 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    Thank you for your kind sharing, it was fun and moving at the same time (no shames time either) 🤗🤗

  • @ashleynicole8367
    @ashleynicole8367 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    I miss the times where even popular influencers and TH-camrs took their own pics and even uses Instagram filters made everyone seem more relatable and normal

  • @malin434
    @malin434 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think that with numbers ( likes and views), i’m glad that you’re still you, right now there’s a lot of og TH-camrs who are attention seeking, doing crazy and over the top videos just to have the fame that they once did and it’s embarrassing and sad because they’ve strayed away from the good content that they use to make and strayed away from themselves.

  • @booksflavia
    @booksflavia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I stopped watching most TH-camrs around the time you're talking about. It stopped being real, and the reality was what was beautiful about this as a platform in the first place. This year I've come back to a lot of the old faces, and it's so nice to see that what was once here seems to be returning. You always gave me peace. Much love. I'm glad you're doing better

  • @sharkf1nny
    @sharkf1nny 3 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    HOW IS HIS SKIN SO PERFECT?? I LOOK LIKE A PIECE OF SWISS CHEESE COMPARED TO HIM

    • @showmoke
      @showmoke 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Let's hope that his face doesn't smell like swiss cheese! :)

    • @Rachel-li3ip
      @Rachel-li3ip 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And Swiss cheese is still amazing 😉

  • @wyltyler5330
    @wyltyler5330 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ive been here for like ten years now i am crying connor how have you just glown up?? HE NEVER STOPS the PERSONALITY the VIDEOS the COLOURS... no i am not okay

  • @uynchwee
    @uynchwee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    "i'm so excited genuinely" escalated to "that's a bit of a fckin lie"
    that's me right there

  • @hcbaker90
    @hcbaker90 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Connor Franta. You have been a bright light in my world since I was in high school, helping me to laugh or smile on days that neither feels possible. I am SO thankful that you have found your self worth outside of numbers or what others consider "success" and that you are happy and healthy. I really look up to you and hope that I can be a bright light in my circle of influence like you are for so many.

  • @inetapoliscenko6048
    @inetapoliscenko6048 3 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    When he uploads on Monday's. Anyone else having wonderful throwback feeling? Or should I say "frantastic feeling "?

    • @byn1234
      @byn1234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ow my nostalgic heart

    • @jaytoutcourt662
      @jaytoutcourt662 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      We all miss Frantastic Mondays :(

    • @sunlightheaded
      @sunlightheaded 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      internet kids never sleep 😭

  • @creativecredence850
    @creativecredence850 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am _VALIDATED!!_ I had always suspected that relationship, but you know, plausible deniability. You confirming it is an odd sort of comfort. Glad to see you're still chugging along.

  • @caro7ineee
    @caro7ineee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    this really felt like a catch up with an old friend, pure comfort. thank you connor!

  • @theabruun1028
    @theabruun1028 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I used to follow Connor around 4-5-ish years ago. I recently rediscovered the channel, and can I just say, this is the most calming, down to earth, comfortable place on TH-cam. No toxicity, no hate, no drama, just warmth and happiness and cozyness. I’m glad I found my way back here, and I hope to stick around ^_^

  • @TheLittleTamTam
    @TheLittleTamTam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I've been watching you for so long and in that time me, you and the community, it feels like, grew up along each other. I enjoyed your content years ago when I was a teen and I enjoy your current content as a *ahm* adult. Thanks for being a part of this wild ride

    • @ConnorFranta
      @ConnorFranta  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thanks for sticking around all theses years!

  • @judymiao1
    @judymiao1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have been watching your video before you came out and I was a high school student, I can't believe how much you have grown since then, and how much I have too. at some level, I feel like I grow with you, and I think that's the beauty of the internet, you don't know me but I definitely feel like I know you for the longest time and I just wanted to say thank you for how much clarity you bring me.

  • @ST-dz4jh
    @ST-dz4jh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Awww he said it. He was in a relationship with another youtuber. I'm guessing he was talking about him. I was in my teens during that time and I was kinda sad after the rumor that they already broke up. Anyway I'm so happy they are still both very successful after all these years. I'm also getting there. My life is has improved since then. I'm not just a teenager who is on social media 16 hours a day. But they will always be apart of who I am. So no matter what happen between them, I will always support them no matter what.

  • @SamFlintHere
    @SamFlintHere 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    what i’ve realized from watching many of these videos from different ytbers is that while being a yt fan years ago was fun i kinda perfer everyone being a lil more grown up and chill ☺️this is just a fun lil corner of the internet now and i love it !!

  • @AdamG_
    @AdamG_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm so glad that among everything else that you answered, you mentioned the numbers ≠ success. Just because people don't see numbers they used to, doesn't mean that sponsors, other platforms, residuals and anything else can't also equate to the "clout and flexing what they had" like you said. And also that money isn't the purpose of having a genuine platform like you have.
    I've watched you for years and have so much respect for you. (I also hope to see a return of Common Culture next year btw.)

  • @ellekawe
    @ellekawe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ahhh you’ve truly never seemed more contented to me and hearing you say that you are fully emotional stable, although a little lonely makes me feel very very happy for you, it gives me all the good gooey warm emotions ya know. i’ve been following u for quite some time now but i realised i never really consciously treasured the small but certain happiness i get from watching your videos and seeing you grow and all that sappy shit, so i just wanna thank u for that and say that i’m very proud of you and i hope you are too!! you may not be as ‘successful’ as you once were but to me you’ve never been a bigger source of comfort and joy and i’m so glad you’ve been staying true to yourself throughout all this time

  • @SkittlesJos
    @SkittlesJos 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    it is genuinely so refreshing to see such an honest and open video. I loved every single second & thank you for talking about things you definitely did not need to talk about but still put it out there for all of us. Thank you for being such an incredibly role-model to me growing up all those years ago (and still being an incredible human bean)

  • @Rurubynaii
    @Rurubynaii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Honestly, I rarely watch your videos, but when I do it feels very genuine and refreshing. It's nice to see positivity in this hole of millennial depression and genZ angst. Not that it matters, but to me your videos are more interesting now than "back when you were super popular", they feel more honest and healing. Hope you have a good day and take care!!

  • @mtaylor6910
    @mtaylor6910 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When you said “ I love you” I swear I felt the tension in my shoulders alleviate.
    Thank you for being a positive influence on my mental health since like 2013 haha

  • @charlie04291
    @charlie04291 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    as someone who was into TH-cam culture and following TH-camrs closely back in the day (6-8 years ago), this is probably the first video of yours I’ve watched in years and it’s so appreciated that you’ve always remained so authentic - ty

  • @nelsonnieves818
    @nelsonnieves818 3 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    remember when you ended ur videos with the “dododododododododo byeeeeeeee”

    • @ConnorFranta
      @ConnorFranta  3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      some things are best kept in the past lol

    • @raspberrytaegi
      @raspberrytaegi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      OMG I REMEMBER NOW HELPSSKHF

    • @raspberrytaegi
      @raspberrytaegi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ConnorFranta it was cute

  • @h._.n44
    @h._.n44 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Connor is my comfort person. I rarely ever use TH-cam anymore, it has been years but coming back here just calms me so much I love it.

  • @moonji7876
    @moonji7876 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    *cooky ookie*
    pls thats so cute im ASCENDING

  • @oktovria
    @oktovria 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    not trying to be dramatic or anything, but this gives me the closure i never thought id get, this is a really strange feeling for me, obviously about you confirming that relationship, thanks for letting me (especially my teenager self) know

  • @The_Logan_D
    @The_Logan_D 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    “... So naturally I had to ruin things“ 😂😂 I feel this in my ancient joints😂

  • @caryntonh1037
    @caryntonh1037 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So happy you’re in a good place. What I find wild is how many of the TH-camrs I watched during “The Golden Era of TH-cam” are still uploading videos regularly. You guys could have fully pivoted but you’re still here and we’re all growing up together now. I think it’s something we take for granted a lot, especially because the platform has changed so much. We would have never expected you to, but thanks for staying

  • @MichaelRuger
    @MichaelRuger 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Always good to see one of your videos. I agree that success shouldn't be defined based on fame, money, or subscriber counts; it's about enjoying what you are doing and the experience along the way.

  • @dianaayt
    @dianaayt 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I finished your book for the 2nd time. it was so hard to get it since I'm from Portugal. Some friends send me it as a gift from the UK and I love how honest you show yourself there and that really helped me. I think you are an amazing person and thanks for being more genuine every day. It has been a pleasure to know you for almost 6 years now. I hope you still safe and happy!

  • @voltaireavendanoiii4946
    @voltaireavendanoiii4946 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    ohmygod all this tea is giving me early to mid 2010's war flashbacks

  • @eILEENonyou13
    @eILEENonyou13 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree with social media. It all went to shit when all anyone was interested in was getting famous. Bc they used to make content bc they genuinely enjoyed it. Now people make content to be the most attention grabbing and give click bait titles just to have shit content. I’ve really enjoyed your journey Connor! I’m happy to have stuck by you through it all and I find you are way more relatable in a good way exactly who you are now.

  • @argi_a
    @argi_a 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love how gracious you are even when answering the nosiest questions and how genuine you are instead of putting on a mask for the sake of views. You're truly a wonderful human being, Connor❤️

  • @surayablissett5742
    @surayablissett5742 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ngl haven't watched your videos in a hot minute .. okay since I was like 14 so like 6yrs..(ew I'm old) but this was such a heartwarming video to come back to, glad to see you happy and thriving!!

  • @oktovria
    @oktovria 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    bro you have such a good community with how everyone is respecting you by not mentioning that name

  • @bajetkiut
    @bajetkiut 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i've the same sentiment like connor when it comes to things on social media right now thats why i love to keep mine private and close to people who mattered to me only. i used to love getting big numbers and whatnot but now i feel like everyone was chasing mora fantasies than gripping on something real and that's really sad. i love this sharing! connor always has something wise to share and i'm here all for it!

  • @henrique_pais
    @henrique_pais 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    for a second there i felt like i was back in 2015 with all the rumours and theories about who he was dating

    • @showmoke
      @showmoke 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      There's only one ex that followers seem to be interested in!

    • @henrique_pais
      @henrique_pais 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@showmoke yup, the one that made us act like detectives

    • @showmoke
      @showmoke 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@henrique_pais - the one question that most fans would love to know is what caused the breakup in the first place. That's one question that we'll never know the answer to unless it's answered in a future biography maybe 40 years from now!

    • @okaypearl
      @okaypearl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@showmoke i know it's kinda invasive to speculate about a relationship that had nothing to do with me but i have a few theories:
      - their relationship was unhealthy and TS was over it (bl*e n*ighbourhood pretty much says it all)
      - TS felt like he had 'outgrown' connor or felt like they weren't compatible anymore and simply fell out of love with him (his song plum)
      - a combination of both of the above, i think this the most plausible one
      - they were both insanely busy and TS was blowing up around the time they broke up in feb 2016, he had just started his world tour at that point and they just couldn't prioritise their relationship with all that going on

    • @showmoke
      @showmoke 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@okaypearl - yes, your analysis of the situation sounds totally logical. I felt SO sorry for Connor though as it was obvious from his videos that the breakup was completely and utterly devastating for him. My view on the Jacob situation is slightly different in that I’m pretty sure that it was Jacob that left TS. Looking at T’s videos at that time showed that T was on his own for ever longer periods of time (apart from the dog). When T realised that the relationship wasn’t a thing anymore and with COVID just about to hit, T packed up his stuff and moved back to Australia with his family for a while until he got himself his own place near his parents. Again, I think the relationship just sort of fizzled out, with Jacob needing to travel a lot for his modelling work.

  • @hoperose2
    @hoperose2 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    As someone who watched your channel grow from the beginning, it's been so nice seeing you settle into yourself. I don't watch TH-cam much anymore, but I'm glad I spent my teenage years looking up to someone who leans into change, honesty, and creating for the sake of creating. Thank you for being there, Connor.

  • @kayabooks2780
    @kayabooks2780 3 ปีที่แล้ว +385

    not him basically confirming a very popular ship👀

    • @ariannaraquel7502
      @ariannaraquel7502 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      tr0nn3r😳 cause like they’ve never had a video with JUST them two. There’s always been another person

    • @florgasto
      @florgasto 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      He kinda confirmed it in the past in his book tho, and then The Good Side aswell.

    • @GabbingandWoolgathering
      @GabbingandWoolgathering 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @@florgasto Yeah but he never outright said "hey, who everyone thinks it is, it is" and now he has. But also I will never get over how obvious The Good Side was.

    • @florgasto
      @florgasto 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@GabbingandWoolgathering same! Cried my heart out to it a lot lol

    • @GabbingandWoolgathering
      @GabbingandWoolgathering 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@florgasto Yeah! I watched a pre-interview T did about it like a day before it was released so I knew it was about them and because I had spent so long dedicated to that ship, I literally just saw the whole string of events flash through my brain as I was listening to the song and I got really really emotional every time I listened to it for like a year.

  • @raspberrytaegi
    @raspberrytaegi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    your character development is just... *chef's kiss* i'm super happy to know that you're happy

  • @laurenm9014
    @laurenm9014 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    love that you value your privacy, respect that massively