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@@drakecarter1780 Since 10,000BC. It is simply biology to prefer the guy who can protect and provide. Not the nice guy who treats her well. Not the nice guy who needs a gf either. Only the one who doesn't need a woman and already has a gf and can provide her with the world with resources. Ouch but it is life and why bad boys are so attractive and why they friendzone their nice guys to run to the bad boys
He's right. Most Women gives zero f*%ks about your struggles. They don't care how hard the race was!! They are all at the finish line waiting to party with the winner..
lol they dont, CEOs are a very VERY small portion of society mr incel, lawyers are as loves as doctors because of prestige and financial security, and musicians are ONLY good if they become successful which is very hard... entrepeneur can be literally anyone lol, there are millions of start ups failed
Yes it harsh and sad. Especially if your struggles are caused by toxic borderline family. And it's more harsh when even psychologists and psychiatrists are shocked how f up situation can be and even they don't want to help. Yep, women don't like men with problems so sometimes being alone is the only way.
This is why some federal governments in Europe and parts of the Middle East actually pay for sex workers for mentally ill and challenge men these women also have a psychology sociology degree of some type but they do know sex therapy does work the United States is the only country that doesn't have such a program so to speak. Matthew United States does have a no-fap program I don't know why.
Makes sense. Men are attracted to feminine women and women are attracted to masculine men. Complaining about your struggles or how hard your life has been isn't going to help her perceive you as a strong, confident and secure man. Whatever problem(s) you're going through, figure out the solution and focus on overcoming your struggle. That said, if you're really struggling with your mental health, then get professional help. That's the role a therapist should be playing, not your girlfriend/wife/etc.
Only one who suffers severe mental health can know how hard it is. Some things stay with people forever. Not be judged or made fun of. Its just how we deal with it.
Well…as a lesbian I am really disturbed that you guys have to go through that. I really like it when men open up and you can have a heartfelt conversation with them. But I kinda see, why some of my male friends had trouble opening up to me.
This one time I cried in front of my ex girlfriend because she brought up some unhealed and undisclosed feelings I never knew existed that I must of locked up inside myself for my deceased grandfather who was one of my best mates. She literally took one look at me and told me she needed to go home. Never did I ever show my true emotions in front of a female ever again. Now I’m up dating a hot as blonde with a smoking body and my ex is fat, lonely and depressed since we broke up hahahaaaaa. Lads don’t let these women fool you they truly do not care about our feelings. Stay up kings 💪🏻👑
Thanks Tripp for still putting out free content that guys need. Single guys need it but also people like myself in a relationship as a reminder cause sometimes we get off track. I love how you said "Stoic", I recently been studying stoicism and love it.
It’s not worth being the best version of yourself for anyone except for yourself. There’s no point being with a woman who just wants to use you as a utility. They’re all built that way. It’s all pointless.
It’s a battle men will likely to win in the long run because women quickly lose their physical attractiveness but men can build up success given enough years.
Even if a guy doesn't understand or empathise with all of women's struggles, they won't condemn them for struggling, which all humans do. It's kinda messed up: the reason why men don't open up, why suicide is so high and why "toxic masculinity" never dies is because women seem to select their mate based on these traits anyways, despite what they "think" they want.
Really? Then what is the whole point of getting into a relationship to begin with? Especially when it comes to the long run once that you become official with someone?
Realtionship is cope lol, they just don't in peer pressure and delude themselves into believing that they are having something deeper, mostly it is just bs 🤡
My answer is there is no reason. If a woman is not there when you’re down, and only around when you’re up, you don’t want that person in your life. Almost all women are like that.
@@veetourfacts modern society basically programs women from a young age to view men in this way. This world is backwards and 9/10 it’s better to stay single and focus on your own well-being than get tangled up with women who operate this way.
I just didn't want to accept this. But basically everything said here, actually reminds of me so much. I got rejected because I thought my gf actually was interested and listened, but in reality she got fed up I think and didn't want to be my teacher or some bad pessimistic energy absorbing being in result making her negative as well. How can somebody be so clueless...
Almost seems unfair because some guys will be supportive to a woman no matter what to show that they care. No every man can be this super high value so called man. We are all only human , but surely if we are one who can be seen as trying to make the best and get the help they need, even if they will struggle always. It's like expecting every man to be a top banker have lots of money, drive a Ferrari etc. Not going to happen obviously. On the outside a person with mental health can be seen as weak but actually on the inside we are stronger than people think. Just many people don't see it that way. Of some one can't be excepted for who they are , then what else can you do.
As long as you need a toxic partner, a toxic relationship and you becoming toxic yourself in order to maintain it, then yes, you should follow this type of "advice". If you need another human being you want to spend your time - or your life - with, then simply be a normal guy and go looking for normal women. There are a lot of them out there, you just need to know what you want and what your criteria are.
I wish somebody had told me this forty years ago but even if they had I might not have believed it then. The injustice is that women expect men to care about their struggles but why should we if they don't care about ours?
That's the fallacy of Western women. I don't want to be in an unequal relationship in which I have to do everything for a woman and she just waits and takes everything but still yells "we need more rights for women!" I want to be in an equal relationship in which I'm respected as a man and I can build things together with a woman. What's the point of being with someone who's cold to you and doesn't care about your feelings? She is not worthy of being anything to you even a friend! That's why I've decided to travel and date foreign women. I'd rather to be single than stay in a toxic relationship.
This isn't the case for a relationship right? I wouldn't want to be with a woman I can't be vulnerable with. I want someone to lean on when times are tough. And I want to be that same strength for her. Much more important to me than looks.
I got over my neeiness and man, was I in for a surprise, not only 20 somethings were chasing me, I had a bunch of married women approaching me too. After all this I kind of lost all respect for them, I sometimes date but now I prefer to spend my time learning stuff.
But how on earth can I fully respect a person like that? All my work, to attract someone that wants to feed off my alpha energy. someone who doesn’t care subconsciously to be with? Isn’t it more rational to just be a player for life?
well, I am woman I disagree with what you just said. I am sorry you felt your feelings don't matter who ever made you feel that way. 😢 and who ever man comes to this page you matter and feelings matter 💓. and her feelings matter to. be each other shoulder to cry on. . its called emotional intelligence . I have son I would never want him to feel his feelings don't matter. if she leaves you she not the one for you. but you have to listen to each other. it's plenty of women who love to hear you talk just to lis to what you think and feel.
Unfortunately, as a man I can confirm what this guy says is 100% true. Your son will not have success with women until he learns to be careful what to share and appear confident. It sounds messed up but you all love those macho confident rich men who are successful while friendzoning the nice guys are getting weirded out when they make a move
Having a mental health insurance you can learn to find me or you continue to fight the only issue is is that an outside are looking in is going to see you struggling and keep climbing and majority of people don't want to be a part of that you're just going to wait at the finish line
You say that we as a man have to the best version of ourselves, but it's not the same with women. Women don't need to become slimmer, don't have to worry if they are too high or too short, too fat, too stupid etc they will always find a boyfriend. Can you explain me that?
Women don't care about your struggles. She cares about her well being. Her gain in life. You gotta take care of you first before you can take care of her. The only time she cares about her mans struggles when it affects her well being.
As a girl I want to say that this is not true for everyone. Sure there are some girls who do that, imo the superficial pretty ones that spend too much time on social media, but I personally wouldn't want a guy who doesn't open up to me. I wouldn't trust him. A relationship is built on mutual trust. A lot of woman also feel good when they can be there emotionally to support you. Sure, for initial attraction or one night stands confidence and assertiveness is great. But for an actual long term relationship I think it is a necessity to open up and share concerns for both sides.
@han thedepressedgerman I'm sorry but I'm having difficulty trying to figure out what you mean. Your english is a bit wonky. Maybe google translate can help us?
Let me ask a question? Your last few bfs? Were they older? Did they make more money than you? Were they taller? Were they stronger mentally/physically? My guess would be yes and those that were not richer got dumped. That proves his point. We got to be superior and get ghosted, rejected, and be disrespected if we are not at that finish line. Every man reading this will agree. FYI my friends who become millionaires do not have these problems anymore
@@timgibney5590 @Tim Gibney Of my last few boyfriends one was a bit older and one a bit younger. The older one earned more (we both worked in IT, he with a few more years experience) and the younger one earned practically nothing as he was a student at the time) One was taller. One about my height but I really dont see how that matters. Mentally all of us had issues but thats why you are there for eachother. Struggling together only strengthens your bond. And the reason we split up was purely because our personalities didnt work well together. They are both happy wit their new girlfriends whom they have had for years now and I am happy for them and we are still really good friends. I think you have an idea of how the world works and only see what contributes to that image while ignoring the rest. The world isnt that black and white, neither are people. Maybe in the nightclub scene or whatever with your millionaire friends but certainly not in an average life.
@@AgonizingDemise Fair enough. I do have one more question if you don't mind answering? Was the older IT guy come into your life after the younger one? The reason I ask is I wonder if at a subcious level the lack of provisioning or maturity in the first made you want the second? I know personal stuff but I do want to learn more about women. My ex-wife was supportive for the first year before she turned and cheated and got abusive. My other gfs told me they stopped dating or turned down relationship labels with previous guys who had problems at work or lost in a fight. The last one I shared how I felt and she lost almost all interest. She was happy I shared but deep down she wondered if I was the best she could do afterwards. Many men share this
@@timgibney5590 The younger one came first and the older one later on but I think it's mainly because I just met him later in my life. I don't really think maturity had much to do with it since the younger guy was actually much more emotionally dependable. When it comes to provisioning (even subconsiously) that also wouldn't make much sense as me and my partners never shared our finances and the second one wasn't the type to buy random gifts or flowers either. I just fell for them cause they were my type (quiet, intellegent and a bit strange in their own unique geeky ways). The first one was super possesive but when I dated the other guy he was ok with it because he felt like it was just him but older XD (I don't think they were very much alike at all though :P). If you want to learn more about woman I'd like to give you one tip. Woman are just as different from eachother as men are. We are just people, 50% of the world population, so we come in ALL sorts like all people :). Guys like the one in the video like to oversimplify things and apply rules but the truth is that there are no real rules for relationships or friendships. Sure, there are things you can do and say to make things run more smoothly initially, but in any relationship people will find out who you really are anyway and they won't appreciate if they find out you put up a facade (plus it will just cost you a lot of effort). My advice is to just be yourself and try to make friends. Then, if you like eachother in a romantic way, it will shine through on both sides. It deffinitely isn't a fast way, but let's face it. If you start dating eachother before actually knowing eachother there is a huge chance it doesn't work out in the long run. If you are just looking for one night stands or a fuckbuddy, THEN you should take advice from these 'relationship' advice youtubers. But never for an actual long term relationship. Personally I though it was a HUGE turnoff when my ex read a pickup artists book and started acting like an actual douche and lost all his actual charm. Luckily he dropped it pretty fast but he really thought it worked for a while XD. I hope you find a nice woman who actually loves you :)
Not only did I not care, But they will be turned off also. Is sad trees for men. They are not nurturing at all in this way. If you have something to say that you're struggling with, only say it in a positive way. And how you're planning to get through it And get short fast.
Yes, Tripp, this video sure is one hell of a "foundation," as you put it at the end. It's a foundation of bedrock. It's a bucket of ice water in the face. You have definitely been there. I think the video changed something in me permanently. I didn't actually learn anything new. But it's just the presentation. Thank you.
Men are just attracted to young and pretty and sexy women, once women lose those traits, men just pursue others with those. That’s just the way it is. It’s harsh but it’s life.
Stop blaming women for any traits. People are who they are. Men have enough superficial qualities too. Just be excited that you know some of these “secrets” and use that to your advantage and be a happier, more fulfilled person.
Yes they're extremely selfish and self-absorbed and you're supposed to be a good man and be a shoulder they can lean on and cry on and listen and care about all their going through yet they don't give two s**** or two squirts of piss about what you're going through. All they care about is what you can do for them today and what they can get out of you and all they care about is themselves and what they want I've seen it proven time and time again.
Never, even under the Penalty of Death tell a women your problems. They can't handle it. If you tell her your problems, over time she will see you as weak and leave you. She will find somebody else, without problems.
Have screwed up is it that we're supposed to care about their struggles and what's bothering them but they couldn't care less about ours. That's just a perfect example of how selfish they are !!!!
And they say they want a good man but they really don't cuz they can have a good man right in front of them and they'll run right back to the last a****** who abused them so that's all they deserve !
Wait till they have a nervous breakdown 😬 wait till they have no one to turn too.... Then they won't have you too turn too.... Best to go get you a Hispanic woman or Asian women....
Yeah and in the process they push away any decent man they have a chance being with and then they'll end up growing old alone which is exactly what they deserve.
And you're still young enough that you believe in this fantasy that some is going to appreciate you and appreciate the fact that you're good to them. I tell you what kid you're in for a real rude awakening !
And really you're a life coach ? Man you get rich off of convincing people they need a life coach right ? What a scam man ! Anybody who needs a life coach is a total loser. You should be your own life coach or here's the thought the only life coach anyone needs is Jesus. And I know that sounds funny coming from a guy who's bitter and angry as I am but an American women have made me very bitter and angry. At this point I would rather be married to the church and married to God in Jesus and be filled with the holy Spirit then to ever waste my effort on American women again. Again I'm 52 years old and you wouldn't believe the experiences I have had with American women and it's enough to make me be done with them completely forever.
There is no point in being in relationship then. Why? I'm not here to babysit a child and cater to her never-ending emotional needs. For richer or for poorer is one of the biggest lies. And happy wife happy life is even more ridiculous.
Happy wife is pleasing beta male behavior. That is correct and will just make her more mad as now you are weak and not alpha. All women are wired to seek that and it is so she can have a baby. The man needs to work and pay for her and her baby for 3 to 5 years and own a house. Of course she will pick the 6 figure salary dudes. Do not be mad or view them as children. They are being smart and picking which man can give her that so she can be a mom.
@@imoretullv243 A woman can love you unconditionally but you have to earn that and it will be temporary if you get into a rut and do not have the confidence to get out. A good woman will stick with her man if he has a plan and he makes it back when the time clock is ticking. A mans version of unconditional love means forever. Hers is unconditional at a time until you show her she can't trust your provisioning and protection toward her kids and her. Yes women are still wired like its 10,00BC with waring tribles. It is why they want the leader and bad boys who were the warriors.. Nice guys got no food when a famine hit and were likely to be killed by an opposing tribe in war. So weird since women are touchy and feely but hate it so much in men?? Maybe in 1000 users from now they will be more rational but it is the nature of the beast
Sort of helpful but for some we do need help from others like support workers to get sort of better. Noone can just be expected to achieve all this by themselves.
Hello Tripp! I watch your videos man and I have to ask you about this video "How to Warm Up a cold women". You have wrote that if a women is look angry etc you must stay there until she rejects you , she must tell you to leave cause if you leave it means you are not having fun. The truth is yes,I go to a women on the pool she knew me I know that she like me ,I stay there 2 minutes I didn't have anything to say.Her answers was short -I believe she was insecure.I didn't like her response cause it was short [ example ,what are you doing? she answer "good" ]. I left and go to another pool near of her pool. After 30 minutes I pass again from her pool and she was there I said to her "good evening " she stares me for about 3-4 second and she didn't answer -she look down I was walking to leave in general the pool. How can you explain this?I beleive she likes me and she is insecure. Should I stay 8 minutes as you said the next time? does she thinks I have confidence or not?
Kind of saying that if your a guy who doesn't have things figured out then you have no chance with any woman. What big your a guy who's trying to get his life in order. Some it can take longer. But often we don't want to be one who waits until their an old man before women will give them a chance. What ever happened to being there for each other to support each other etc.. for some we can just be one who is on the process of figuring things out. But it's damn not easy for some.
You can still be successful, and the demands of her will never end. High paying job and strong muscles translates to her: he can upgrade the house now since he has money and mow the lawn on weekends.
It might be a new thing that women dont care, but I grew up surrounded by women that cared about their kids and husbands. All my grandmothers, aunts, and my own mom really loved there husbands and had only one man entire life, and yes they cared for them to look good, smell good, to be in clean fresh clothes, to be healthy, and also they did the same thing for children, even when children were adults. So it must be this modern age that messes up with peoples values and make people selfish and weak. True women will stand by your side in shitiest days, just like a real man will for his women, so it is equal sacrifice, if its not equal, that someone is a weak link! If there is a real man, the true one with all traditional values, there must be such a women that mirrors those trades on this planet, you just need to find her. I am 30 now, and I know what a red pill is, and have experienced "womans nature", but still I am coming form place of love and Im gonna find me a equal person to share hers love to me and care. I believe!
Just because before your generation female care about their partner,doesnt automatically mean that your generation female will care about their partner.
I agree that's generally true, but there are women who love to fix men's problems - they love the challenge and they gain self-worth from doing so. But certainly, don't be a "poor me".
Get your shit together guys. And if you need to tell your troubles or struggles to someone, make sure it’s not a woman you’re attracted to, and want to get something happening with, or who you’re dating/seeing/in a relationship with. Unless in the case of a last resort, where you have no other option. Tell your dog about this stuff before considering unloading it all on her. It will just turn her off and put her in mommy/therapist mode.
I honestly need to F listen to myself right now no matter how many F times I talk about my struggles no one's gonna give a F I have to transition myself and be the better version of myself and simply have the dont give a F mindset and just do my F thing...
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'That' was a war speech aimed at life. I look forward to listening to it again... When I have time ;)
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They don’t build winners anymore, they just wait at the finish line and pick the winners!
When were women required to do that? That's everyone's personal responsibility.
@@drakecarter1780 Since 10,000BC. It is simply biology to prefer the guy who can protect and provide. Not the nice guy who treats her well. Not the nice guy who needs a gf either. Only the one who doesn't need a woman and already has a gf and can provide her with the world with resources. Ouch but it is life and why bad boys are so attractive and why they friendzone their nice guys to run to the bad boys
They dont build winners "anymore"?
Haha bro they never did. This is how it has been for thousands of years.
And still then they pick the wrong ones.
So true.
They believe in what you show and have for them today.
The video tells something else 🙏🏽
They want men with stability and security to fix THEIR insecurities.
that's the challenge for men.
He's right. Most Women gives zero f*%ks about your struggles. They don't care how hard the race was!! They are all at the finish line waiting to party with the winner..
This is why guys prefer women who are nurses, teachers and therapists.
Yup, married a teacher because she had a great heart and cares deeply about others.
It is also why women prefer CEOs, lawyers, musicians, and entrepreneurs
lol they dont, CEOs are a very VERY small portion of society mr incel, lawyers are as loves as doctors because of prestige and financial security, and musicians are ONLY good if they become successful which is very hard... entrepeneur can be literally anyone lol, there are millions of start ups failed
nurses and teachers also have the highest affair rates statistically.
There’s a lot of cheaters in those professions. Just look at all the news about female teachers sleeping with their students.
They don't care about what happens in the race , they just hang out in the finish line and pick the winner.
Damn. I see why the divorce rate is at 50%
More like 80%
@@gregthompson9434 It’s so wrong
Women don't care about your struggles they hang up at the finish line and pick the winners.
You have been reading Rich Cooper!
@@mikebingham9700 yeah.
Yes it harsh and sad. Especially if your struggles are caused by toxic borderline family. And it's more harsh when even psychologists and psychiatrists are shocked how f up situation can be and even they don't want to help. Yep, women don't like men with problems so sometimes being alone is the only way.
This is why some federal governments in Europe and parts of the Middle East actually pay for sex workers for mentally ill and challenge men these women also have a psychology sociology degree of some type but they do know sex therapy does work the United States is the only country that doesn't have such a program so to speak.
Matthew United States does have a no-fap program I don't know why.
Indeed, and if you want loyal companions, cats or dogs are far better company than most women.
Makes sense. Men are attracted to feminine women and women are attracted to masculine men. Complaining about your struggles or how hard your life has been isn't going to help her perceive you as a strong, confident and secure man. Whatever problem(s) you're going through, figure out the solution and focus on overcoming your struggle. That said, if you're really struggling with your mental health, then get professional help. That's the role a therapist should be playing, not your girlfriend/wife/etc.
Only one who suffers severe mental health can know how hard it is. Some things stay with people forever. Not be judged or made fun of. Its just how we deal with it.
Well…as a lesbian I am really disturbed that you guys have to go through that. I really like it when men open up and you can have a heartfelt conversation with them. But I kinda see, why some of my male friends had trouble opening up to me.
Lol as a lesbian I’ve been thur it lol
I rather avoid all women
The juice aint worth the squeeze
We don't want to open up...we want sex. We want you to listen to our opinions...that's it
That’s why they got pumped and dumped
This one time I cried in front of my ex girlfriend because she brought up some unhealed and undisclosed feelings I never knew existed that I must of locked up inside myself for my deceased grandfather who was one of my best mates. She literally took one look at me and told me she needed to go home. Never did I ever show my true emotions in front of a female ever again. Now I’m up dating a hot as blonde with a smoking body and my ex is fat, lonely and depressed since we broke up hahahaaaaa. Lads don’t let these women fool you they truly do not care about our feelings.
Stay up kings 💪🏻👑
Thanks Tripp for still putting out free content that guys need. Single guys need it but also people like myself in a relationship as a reminder cause sometimes we get off track. I love how you said "Stoic", I recently been studying stoicism and love it.
It’s not worth being the best version of yourself for anyone except for yourself. There’s no point being with a woman who just wants to use you as a utility. They’re all built that way. It’s all pointless.
Yep. People don’t care about all the work you’ve put in “behind the scenes”, they care about RESULTS.
It’s a battle men will likely to win in the long run because women quickly lose their physical attractiveness but men can build up success given enough years.
I hope so
Even if a guy doesn't understand or empathise with all of women's struggles, they won't condemn them for struggling, which all humans do. It's kinda messed up: the reason why men don't open up, why suicide is so high and why "toxic masculinity" never dies is because women seem to select their mate based on these traits anyways, despite what they "think" they want.
Really? Then what is the whole point of getting into a relationship to begin with? Especially when it comes to the long run once that you become official with someone?
Realtionship is cope lol, they just don't in peer pressure and delude themselves into believing that they are having something deeper, mostly it is just bs 🤡
My answer is there is no reason. If a woman is not there when you’re down, and only around when you’re up, you don’t want that person in your life. Almost all women are like that.
@@veetourfacts modern society basically programs women from a young age to view men in this way. This world is backwards and 9/10 it’s better to stay single and focus on your own well-being than get tangled up with women who operate this way.
Thanks, Tripp! This 50 year old needed to hear your advice today!
I just didn't want to accept this. But basically everything said here, actually reminds of me so much. I got rejected because I thought my gf actually was interested and listened, but in reality she got fed up I think and didn't want to be my teacher or some bad pessimistic energy absorbing being in result making her negative as well. How can somebody be so clueless...
Almost seems unfair because some guys will be supportive to a woman no matter what to show that they care. No every man can be this super high value so called man. We are all only human , but surely if we are one who can be seen as trying to make the best and get the help they need, even if they will struggle always. It's like expecting every man to be a top banker have lots of money, drive a Ferrari etc. Not going to happen obviously. On the outside a person with mental health can be seen as weak but actually on the inside we are stronger than people think. Just many people don't see it that way. Of some one can't be excepted for who they are , then what else can you do.
As long as you need a toxic partner, a toxic relationship and you becoming toxic yourself in order to maintain it, then yes, you should follow this type of "advice". If you need another human being you want to spend your time - or your life - with, then simply be a normal guy and go looking for normal women. There are a lot of them out there, you just need to know what you want and what your criteria are.
Thanks, I almost lost my mind
I wish somebody had told me this forty years ago but even if they had I might not have believed it then. The injustice is that women expect men to care about their struggles but why should we if they don't care about ours?
Yet they preach gender “equality” it’s pure hypocrisy
Thanks man. For the motivation. These are tough times
That's the fallacy of Western women. I don't want to be in an unequal relationship in which I have to do everything for a woman and she just waits and takes everything but still yells "we need more rights for women!" I want to be in an equal relationship in which I'm respected as a man and I can build things together with a woman. What's the point of being with someone who's cold to you and doesn't care about your feelings? She is not worthy of being anything to you even a friend! That's why I've decided to travel and date foreign women. I'd rather to be single than stay in a toxic relationship.
Leave these women behind and find better ones. But obviously continue introspection and improving yourself in the meantime.
They’re all wired like that.
This isn't the case for a relationship right? I wouldn't want to be with a woman I can't be vulnerable with. I want someone to lean on when times are tough. And I want to be that same strength for her. Much more important to me than looks.
Have to break it to ya its true. They'll leave i the hardest times and stay when the times are great. Just how they are
Divorce rates went up high when a lot of men lost their due to the 🦠.
@@CrypticDeku then date a man
it´s not only about time and experience, the mindset affects it A LOT, majority of your life is about your attitude
I got over my neeiness and man, was I in for a surprise, not only 20 somethings were chasing me, I had a bunch of married women approaching me too. After all this I kind of lost all respect for them, I sometimes date but now I prefer to spend my time learning stuff.
But how on earth can I fully respect a person like that? All my work, to attract someone that wants to feed off my alpha energy. someone who doesn’t care subconsciously to be with? Isn’t it more rational to just be a player for life?
He just described your perfect fair weather friend. Great for the pump and dump category and nothing else.
Which is why men's hearts turn colder than the event horizon of a black hole towards women.
well, I am woman I disagree with what you just said. I am sorry you felt your feelings don't matter who ever made you feel that way. 😢 and who ever man comes to this page you matter and feelings matter 💓.
and her feelings matter to. be each other shoulder to cry on. . its called emotional intelligence . I have son I would never want him to feel his feelings don't matter. if she leaves you she not the one for you. but you have to listen to each other. it's plenty of women who love to hear you talk just to lis to what you think and feel.
Unfortunately, as a man I can confirm what this guy says is 100% true. Your son will not have success with women until he learns to be careful what to share and appear confident. It sounds messed up but you all love those macho confident rich men who are successful while friendzoning the nice guys are getting weirded out when they make a move
As a man, y'all don't really care
Cap 🧢
In other news: water is wet, bears shit in the woods, and men care even less about women's struggles than they care about ours. 🤣
At the end of the day, it's actually a really good thing. It keeps us strong. It's all about survival.
No. Usery is never a good thing.
Having a mental health insurance you can learn to find me or you continue to fight the only issue is is that an outside are looking in is going to see you struggling and keep climbing and majority of people don't want to be a part of that you're just going to wait at the finish line
Oh yeah I think we all can remember that chick who once we opened up she turned 180
You say that we as a man have to the best version of ourselves, but it's not the same with women.
Women don't need to become slimmer, don't have to worry if they are too high or too short, too fat, too stupid etc they will always find a boyfriend.
Can you explain me that?
If they don't care, then why should you?
Feelings are viewed as weakness=turns them off.
Women don't care about your struggles. She cares about her well being. Her gain in life. You gotta take care of you first before you can take care of her. The only time she cares about her mans struggles when it affects her well being.
They get into relationships for the sake of their own safety and benefit
STAY SINGLE. STAY SANE.
As a girl I want to say that this is not true for everyone. Sure there are some girls who do that, imo the superficial pretty ones that spend too much time on social media, but I personally wouldn't want a guy who doesn't open up to me. I wouldn't trust him. A relationship is built on mutual trust. A lot of woman also feel good when they can be there emotionally to support you. Sure, for initial attraction or one night stands confidence and assertiveness is great. But for an actual long term relationship I think it is a necessity to open up and share concerns for both sides.
@han thedepressedgerman I'm sorry but I'm having difficulty trying to figure out what you mean. Your english is a bit wonky. Maybe google translate can help us?
Let me ask a question? Your last few bfs? Were they older? Did they make more money than you? Were they taller? Were they stronger mentally/physically? My guess would be yes and those that were not richer got dumped. That proves his point. We got to be superior and get ghosted, rejected, and be disrespected if we are not at that finish line. Every man reading this will agree. FYI my friends who become millionaires do not have these problems anymore
@@timgibney5590 @Tim Gibney Of my last few boyfriends one was a bit older and one a bit younger. The older one earned more (we both worked in IT, he with a few more years experience) and the younger one earned practically nothing as he was a student at the time) One was taller. One about my height but I really dont see how that matters. Mentally all of us had issues but thats why you are there for eachother. Struggling together only strengthens your bond. And the reason we split up was purely because our personalities didnt work well together. They are both happy wit their new girlfriends whom they have had for years now and I am happy for them and we are still really good friends. I think you have an idea of how the world works and only see what contributes to that image while ignoring the rest. The world isnt that black and white, neither are people. Maybe in the nightclub scene or whatever with your millionaire friends but certainly not in an average life.
@@AgonizingDemise Fair enough. I do have one more question if you don't mind answering? Was the older IT guy come into your life after the younger one? The reason I ask is I wonder if at a subcious level the lack of provisioning or maturity in the first made you want the second? I know personal stuff but I do want to learn more about women.
My ex-wife was supportive for the first year before she turned and cheated and got abusive. My other gfs told me they stopped dating or turned down relationship labels with previous guys who had problems at work or lost in a fight. The last one I shared how I felt and she lost almost all interest. She was happy I shared but deep down she wondered if I was the best she could do afterwards. Many men share this
@@timgibney5590 The younger one came first and the older one later on but I think it's mainly because I just met him later in my life. I don't really think maturity had much to do with it since the younger guy was actually much more emotionally dependable. When it comes to provisioning (even subconsiously) that also wouldn't make much sense as me and my partners never shared our finances and the second one wasn't the type to buy random gifts or flowers either. I just fell for them cause they were my type (quiet, intellegent and a bit strange in their own unique geeky ways). The first one was super possesive but when I dated the other guy he was ok with it because he felt like it was just him but older XD (I don't think they were very much alike at all though :P).
If you want to learn more about woman I'd like to give you one tip. Woman are just as different from eachother as men are. We are just people, 50% of the world population, so we come in ALL sorts like all people :). Guys like the one in the video like to oversimplify things and apply rules but the truth is that there are no real rules for relationships or friendships. Sure, there are things you can do and say to make things run more smoothly initially, but in any relationship people will find out who you really are anyway and they won't appreciate if they find out you put up a facade (plus it will just cost you a lot of effort). My advice is to just be yourself and try to make friends. Then, if you like eachother in a romantic way, it will shine through on both sides. It deffinitely isn't a fast way, but let's face it. If you start dating eachother before actually knowing eachother there is a huge chance it doesn't work out in the long run. If you are just looking for one night stands or a fuckbuddy, THEN you should take advice from these 'relationship' advice youtubers. But never for an actual long term relationship. Personally I though it was a HUGE turnoff when my ex read a pickup artists book and started acting like an actual douche and lost all his actual charm. Luckily he dropped it pretty fast but he really thought it worked for a while XD.
I hope you find a nice woman who actually loves you :)
Ty bro
Needed to hear this
I learned this lesson the hard way!
What you get in return for caring about some woman’s struggles isn’t worth it.Plenty of simping fools out there still though
Agreed. All this work for woman? What a joke. Hell no. I've got my flaws and am not a never ending todo project being this perfect human being.
Harsh but true. Great advice Tripp.
Amazing, Tripp! Thanks!
Not only did I not care, But they will be turned off also. Is sad trees for men. They are not nurturing at all in this way. If you have something to say that you're struggling with, only say it in a positive way. And how you're planning to get through it And get short fast.
I've never this this fantastic real side of Tripp! Love this real advice
Yes, Tripp, this video sure is one hell of a "foundation," as you put it at the end. It's a foundation of bedrock. It's a bucket of ice water in the face. You have definitely been there. I think the video changed something in me permanently. I didn't actually learn anything new. But it's just the presentation. Thank you.
My problem is, I am that Alpha man. Got my life together etc etc. Women just treat me like a place holder.
Men are just attracted to young and pretty and sexy women, once women lose those traits, men just pursue others with those. That’s just the way it is. It’s harsh but it’s life.
You're sadly mistaken
@@xA18kND1x No he is excately right. Got to love those young women!
@@xA18kND1x NO, he's spot on
The Man! Thank you Tripp!
Stop blaming women for any traits. People are who they are. Men have enough superficial qualities too. Just be excited that you know some of these “secrets” and use that to your advantage and be a happier, more fulfilled person.
Yes they're extremely selfish and self-absorbed and you're supposed to be a good man and be a shoulder they can lean on and cry on and listen and care about all their going through yet they don't give two s**** or two squirts of piss about what you're going through. All they care about is what you can do for them today and what they can get out of you and all they care about is themselves and what they want I've seen it proven time and time again.
Never, even under the Penalty of Death tell a women your problems. They can't handle it. If you tell her your problems, over time she will see
you as weak and leave you. She will find somebody else, without problems.
Oops I meant the last two I dealt with.
@@mikebingham9700 I would never hit a woman but from now on they mean nothing to me emotionally.
They have driven me away with all their b******* and I'll be damned if I'll never let another one put me through it again.
Have screwed up is it that we're supposed to care about their struggles and what's bothering them but they couldn't care less about ours. That's just a perfect example of how selfish they are !!!!
And they say they want a good man but they really don't cuz they can have a good man right in front of them and they'll run right back to the last a****** who abused them so that's all they deserve !
Totally agree. Goes both ways. Get a therapist. Too many people use other people as a “counselor”.
I’m sorry but I’ve never liked telling my secrets to others. My family’s my therapists
Truuuuuu. And now I don't care about theres either. Equality!
Awesome tips!!!!!
Good stuff Trip. Thanks.
Is this okey when you are in relationship???
no
no
I still wouldn't take any of them serious if a billionaire; Wouldn't live with any, no marriage or building her up
Wait till they have a nervous breakdown 😬 wait till they have no one to turn too.... Then they won't have you too turn too.... Best to go get you a Hispanic woman or Asian women....
They wait for the best catch at the finish line
Yeah and in the process they push away any decent man they have a chance being with and then they'll end up growing old alone which is exactly what they deserve.
And you're still young enough that you believe in this fantasy that some is going to appreciate you and appreciate the fact that you're good to them. I tell you what kid you're in for a real rude awakening !
And really you're a life coach ? Man you get rich off of convincing people they need a life coach right ? What a scam man ! Anybody who needs a life coach is a total loser. You should be your own life coach or here's the thought the only life coach anyone needs is Jesus. And I know that sounds funny coming from a guy who's bitter and angry as I am but an American women have made me very bitter and angry. At this point I would rather be married to the church and married to God in Jesus and be filled with the holy Spirit then to ever waste my effort on American women again. Again I'm 52 years old and you wouldn't believe the experiences I have had with American women and it's enough to make me be done with them completely forever.
And what the hell is this certified life coach stuff, what did you certify yourself
Real cute clever little scam though dude maybe you and Tony Robbins should hang out.
Thx a lot Tripp.
This is a very tough pill for me to swallow
There is no point in being in relationship then. Why? I'm not here to babysit a child and cater to her never-ending emotional needs. For richer or for poorer is one of the biggest lies. And happy wife happy life is even more ridiculous.
Happy wife is pleasing beta male behavior. That is correct and will just make her more mad as now you are weak and not alpha. All women are wired to seek that and it is so she can have a baby. The man needs to work and pay for her and her baby for 3 to 5 years and own a house. Of course she will pick the 6 figure salary dudes. Do not be mad or view them as children. They are being smart and picking which man can give her that so she can be a mom.
@@timgibney5590 Agreed. It's evolution and best interests for the kids. Actually, woman will only have unconditional love toward one thing: her kids.
@@imoretullv243 A woman can love you unconditionally but you have to earn that and it will be temporary if you get into a rut and do not have the confidence to get out. A good woman will stick with her man if he has a plan and he makes it back when the time clock is ticking. A mans version of unconditional love means forever. Hers is unconditional at a time until you show her she can't trust your provisioning and protection toward her kids and her.
Yes women are still wired like its 10,00BC with waring tribles. It is why they want the leader and bad boys who were the warriors.. Nice guys got no food when a famine hit and were likely to be killed by an opposing tribe in war. So weird since women are touchy and feely but hate it so much in men?? Maybe in 1000 users from now they will be more rational but it is the nature of the beast
So you have to close your heart
close your emotions
the real you
so you can get "love" lol
Yeah what a joke, society makes us Live backwards as you might say - 🔄 eviL
That's the sad reality gentlemen.
They don't give a rat's ass about your struggles
Sort of helpful but for some we do need help from others like support workers to get sort of better. Noone can just be expected to achieve all this by themselves.
Hello Tripp! I watch your videos man and I have to ask you about this video "How to Warm Up a cold women". You have wrote that if a women is look angry etc you must stay there until she rejects you , she must tell you to leave cause if you leave it means you are not having fun. The truth is yes,I go to a women on the pool she knew me I know that she like me ,I stay there 2 minutes I didn't have anything to say.Her answers was short -I believe she was insecure.I didn't like her response cause it was short [ example ,what are you doing? she answer "good" ]. I left and go to another pool near of her pool. After 30 minutes I pass again from her pool and she was there I said to her "good evening " she stares me for about 3-4 second and she didn't answer -she look down I was walking to leave in general the pool. How can you explain this?I beleive she likes me and she is insecure. Should I stay 8 minutes as you said the next time? does she thinks I have confidence or not?
Kind of saying that if your a guy who doesn't have things figured out then you have no chance with any woman. What big your a guy who's trying to get his life in order. Some it can take longer. But often we don't want to be one who waits until their an old man before women will give them a chance. What ever happened to being there for each other to support each other etc.. for some we can just be one who is on the process of figuring things out. But it's damn not easy for some.
You can still be successful, and the demands of her will never end. High paying job and strong muscles translates to her: he can upgrade the house now since he has money and mow the lawn on weekends.
Your statement is nonsense
Well i didn't know that but now i do realy appreciated
Thanks 💯
And we don’t give a fly’n #*+_ about theirs either!
Bro, we can't give a fuck because they don't have any to begin with 😂
Oh, love… it’s the other way around.
only youtuber i agree with, they dont care but they want you too care like huh
Yeah but they expect you to be there for them . Screw this crap
It might be a new thing that women dont care, but I grew up surrounded by women that cared about their kids and husbands. All my grandmothers, aunts, and my own mom really loved there husbands and had only one man entire life, and yes they cared for them to look good, smell good, to be in clean fresh clothes, to be healthy, and also they did the same thing for children, even when children were adults. So it must be this modern age that messes up with peoples values and make people selfish and weak. True women will stand by your side in shitiest days, just like a real man will for his women, so it is equal sacrifice, if its not equal, that someone is a weak link! If there is a real man, the true one with all traditional values, there must be such a women that mirrors those trades on this planet, you just need to find her.
I am 30 now, and I know what a red pill is, and have experienced "womans nature", but still I am coming form place of love and Im gonna find me a equal person to share hers love to me and care. I believe!
Just because before your generation female care about their partner,doesnt automatically mean that your generation female will care about their partner.
Yes modern age women have different set of values. Self absorbed and selfish
I agree that's generally true, but there are women who love to fix men's problems - they love the challenge and they gain self-worth from doing so. But certainly, don't be a "poor me".
Women can't fix anything
Thanks for advice 👍 I am still trying get new girlfriend but sometime though
Richard Cooper brought me here
How can you can a future woman if they don't care.
Get your shit together guys. And if you need to tell your troubles or struggles to someone, make sure it’s not a woman you’re attracted to, and want to get something happening with, or who you’re dating/seeing/in a relationship with. Unless in the case of a last resort, where you have no other option.
Tell your dog about this stuff before considering unloading it all on her. It will just turn her off and put her in mommy/therapist mode.
What struggles they go through?? Putting makeup. Is what you’re talking about it ??
I honestly need to F listen to myself right now no matter how many F times I talk about my struggles no one's gonna give a F I have to transition myself and be the better version of myself and simply have the dont give a F mindset and just do my F thing...
Hope you good now bro
This is the truest shit Tripp ever said. Been there done that.
some extend it's true but not all the time ..coz "Evry successfull man behind a women". To get understand women pschycology is impossible ..
I can vouch for this
Let them go and go find some Hispanic or Asian women.... The women who don't care have the most charming men...
One day they will be they won't have any one too turn to eschew these women
True 100%
And she's doing what for you important?
So this guy discovered that water is wet?
What an achievement
No, he discovered your low iq but decided to remain quiet about it.
You don't say I'm gonna be confident, you just do it, the walk saves you the time explaining only when you choose to talk what you done.
You can’t have things figured out 24/7/365
Good gladly let's them walk serves them right to get the same old tired people who are addicts, abusers and people who are dumb enough to make threats