For real though. With my 'short term memory loss' combined with my fear of confrontation AND lack of argumenting skills, I could never pull off what she just did. Not to mention the fact that she was lecturing her own father! The balls this kid must have. She's totally in the right though.
My thoughts exactly. Poor thing is all work and no play. My heart goes out to her. There's a reason why they put suicide nets around work building windows in china.
What else can you expect from a Country like China? This is why America and all western countries are the best places to live in. Period!! People here who complain all the time about how difficult it is 😂 should be sent to China or Korea. To make them realise how lucky they are to be Americans.
I am Chinese. My life is really easy at the same time as being tough bc I don’t have chores (YAYAYAYAY) 4hrs screen time (even mor yay) brain cell-destroying 20 pages of math workbook problems (FROM SINGAPORE which is the most educationally efficient country) My parents don’t go that stiff on my stuff
Great vocab can be succeeded by many young people like me I’m 11, like one thing I would argue about is like why do we have to do homework in holidays, it’s a holiday for a reason, to spent time with family, socialise with friends, go on holiday, and most importantly, have a good rest after having to fight through tons of homework thrown at you every single day. Like yeah, it’s vital and beneficial for when your older and blah blah blah, but having to deal with stress at this age is pretty unfortunate for your mental well-being.
She’s that intelligent because of how her parents raised her: always learning and talking to adults such as teachers. That’s why many Asians use this technique to raise their children, even if it seems abusive to western people. But that’s how you create well taught children. The father in this clip probably wanted her to do something else than gaming such as playing outside, a hobby or sports etc. Or he was a jerk and wanted her to study 24/7… which is abusive
That'll eventually bleed into adulthood too, my mother still thinks she's superior to the kids in our family and it's a big reason why I don't speak to her anymore. There's no equal with her.
yuh got a point bc of the dad doesnt the child would basically just abandon her dad then the dad be like why you leave me. the the child would say what the dad did in her childhood days
@@Zeratsu that's what a gamer would say and I am a gamer. I finished Skyrim. Cyberpunk. GtaV. I know what iam talking about. The eye strain and brain that has no sleep is not a joke. This kids need someone to stop them. You know it. Don't deny truth
@@BikanoNavratnai have been doing that and i assure you most of us will go to degenerate path (for entertainment purpose) which will bring us deeper into the rabbit hole
Simple mind people would have missed this, but all the studying from everyday has made her this awesome with her rebuttals. A regular kid won't know how to respond this well. Congrats to the father. 😂
@@condorX2 you can congratulation him, but when she's able she will leave and never talk to him again. This is abusive. Chinese parents are finding their kids immigrate and never return because of THIS behaviour
Just asian parents yk, sometimes parents just want us to be healthy and focus more on study to get better job, they just want us to have better life in future
@@Jeregolnumber9 yea but not when you are 10 years old, come on bro, the real important knowledge for your life begings in the high school and university, not in the elementary
Woah. This child is more self aware than even most of the adults. She knows when she has put good amount efforts and when it's time to say no and take a break. Something most of us need but lack.
how do you know anything about the effort she has done, and how long has she been already playing? how can you distinguish that from emotional manipulation (i.e. crying in order to get what she wants). The dad does not seem to shout at her or anything... and going to bed at 9pm at her age isn't an unreasonable demand from him at all...
@@deathtunessthe girl in the video aside, you don't believe children do this? I've watched one of my best friend's young son manipulate his parents into letting him take a bath in their bathroom after they moved into a nice house where he and his sister had their own to share. They tried reasoning and he did the scream cry tantrum resist stubborn thing until they finally let him have his way, and then all was peaceful. Some children will do that crap if you let them. Totally.
The clarity in her thought process and the articulation of the same at that age is a skill that most people can’t learn even by the time they’re 30. This girl is going places.
What’s funny is like you guys are looking at her ask for help and laughing and saying more homework for you because you need it because it helps your bright mind
@@MexicanRhino-e5z I mean, I’m not familiar with American kids but sure. Not just adults yk. I specifically said adults cuz heck, nowadays very few of them know how to communicate.
Few can communicate because their heads are always down texting to someone. They don’t have conversations using their mouths anymore and many have penmanship of a small child.
@@MsSuperww there are some things we didn't like that our parents did but later in life became thankful for because we learned some skills that others didn't, just enough to get ahead in life. Why is it that often Asians in Europe or in the West excel in different fields?
but it’s easier to study hard younger than to struggle as an adult. the kid has a point but 9pm IMO at 7 or 8 yo is already much. my parents would never let me play till midnight and make me do extra but it was still fine
"You can play, but not for too long." To me this is much worse, associating hard work with stress and deprivation. People work hard in the first place only to make their lives more prosperous. Maybe less strain and more instilling of fundamental life values would take these children farther by their own efforts and aspirations.
@@grossarl1 China is different than ur country, for example "propagan" always spread that kids work there, but in reality family put all the resources and pressure on 1 kid to carry all the family, they will not "waste" a kid on working labour (specially when the 1 child law was vigent).
So sad, she lost her childhood mind. Always work without play it is impossible She's not a robot. Later she will have good situation but happyness not sure
@@lemurianchick You need help! Grow tf up.. and while you’re telling me to fuck off.. do it yourself and your own mother, I’m sure she does it better! Maybe that’s why you’re so upset! It’s not my fault or anyone else’s that you were abused! Go to therapy and get off TH-cam!
It is called reality. Many people dont know how to be a proper parent. You dont learn that at school. I also get blamed and punished for doing chores for 30 years, let alone childhood. And threatened being kicked out if I didnt, regardless how unreasonable.
Meanwhile in the west kids don’t know there are two genders and they are at a 2nd grade reading level in middle school. You because of the patriarch of white men or something like that
@@childoftime9964 yeah okay. Good thing I homeschool because the Current educational system in America is beyond extreme. Girls can’t be girls became we have to make space for boys that make pretend they are girls. It’s pathetic.
My husband worked at an after school Korean school. The children would arrive an hour after school let out (3:30 pm) and study debate until 8 pm. These poor children were under a tremendous amount of pressure from their parents and were on the verge of a mental breakdown. My husband gave all the students full credit just for attending class. He would schedule one day a week to just have fun but it was extremely important that neither the school nor the parents didn’t find out. These children were between the ages of 10 and 13. We decided that all we wanted of his children was to behave and be happy. Raising a happy adult was more important to us than his children getting good grades as long as they gave education their best effort.
Because it's scripted, her parents film and release many of such scripted videos of her and her brother that will resonate with people and get the most views.
@@EYESEEYOURN Chinese tiktoks are notorious for being fake, and this girl and her brother have other such videos filmed by their parents. The gaming chair is a giveaway, in some other videos you can see she has a pretty fancy gaming setup and her family's home is pretty affluent.
“Please treasure our childhood days.” “Not even a robot could do it!” This kid really tells words of wisdom, words so wise you’d expect them coming from an adult. This really is so emotional is hurts. I hope the father gave her more free time after how she explained herself to the fullest.
The internet has a lot of information for people to find quotes. It isn’t wisdom but learnt knowledge. Wisdom is something deeply developed through overcoming their own ordeals through the many steps of griefs with in the end accepting those mistakes. But the little girl is still too young to be called wise. Knowledge, intelligence, and Self Empathy is all it takes to develop her own understanding towards her needs to convince or convey. Like intelligence, wisdom itself can vary even for geniuses. It’s unique to all people as it has their own perspectives.
@@nightfallnoir I felt that those were words of wisdom. You didn't say that the child was wise, what she said was wise irrespective of how she acquired the knowledge, her words were still wise. I thought that you made a fair comment. Even if English isn't your first language, you expressed yourself more clearly than so many native English speakers. Respects and blessings to you.
@@errebusaether Internet may be full of such quotes but it takes wisdom and understanding to use those quotes at the appropriate moment She proves she has the wisdom by choosing her words at the exact time it is required. She is not just blurting stuff out. She understands those words well herself. Hence the admiration for her apparent maturity despite her young age
@@texz000 True, indeed. She used it at the right time. But that is based on her ability to retain knowledge and understand the situation. She truly understands the meaning of those words through gaining the information through internet sources, but wisdom is gained through experience in living with a deeper understanding. While intelligence is accumulated information through the mind. It is practically intelligence that she is displaying which is fundamental to every living organism especially when she is human. In short, it’s intelligence that is the main factor for her knowledge whilst wisdom at a fundamental level is another factor for her understanding. In an ordinary person’s dictionary, she’s a wise child but to us she’s not too extraordinary in terms of wisdom. She still has a lot to live for before she’s even free from those desires. The desire causes conflict to wisdom. It’s too farfetched to call a child wise when their full of desire. I wouldn’t call myself wise either way as I am still conflicted in this life. Maybe in the far future everyone will achieve that wisdom depending on how they perceive their own pain to walk forward in fulfilling their desires. Perhaps, fulfilling your lesser desires, and your ultimate desire is the key to freeing oneself from samsara. Life is still a mystery, it doesn’t matter whether we judge others or not. In the end, we’re all the same seeking for the truth, subconsciously. My apologizes for my off topic. Hahaha.😅
@@jessicaT12345 I (respectfully) disagree. There are subtleties in his responses like "You've been good LATELY." "It'll be great if you can keep it up." That's not encouragement. That's a threat. "I don't expect you to do much." Uh, yeah, you do. Maybe there's a part in the back of her mind when she tells him to treasure her childhood days because she wonders whether he will be a part of her life when she's grown up. No child should need to express these sorts of pains this early... There's so much praise for her articulate responses in the comments, but it makes me so sad for her. To need to use such words at that age... Poor girl.
@@iknowwhatiknow3176 Or he wants to show everryone what a "good" parent he is and thinks his responses are "correct". I wonder what happens after the camera goes down.
She’s speaking like an adult that is so burnt out. More than play time, I think she wants her efforts to be acknowledged. I hope her parents praise her more. 😢
No she just needs play time lmao, her parents can't go beyond a certain limit when it comes to understanding, just letting her be herself would make her her best, understanding is not her parent's cup of tea
No, chinese believe that you should not praise your child too much because they will grow up expecting that they will get the same praise from the society
Her communication skills are amazing. And it also seemed like her dad was actually listening which I think is even better. Too many times kids try to stand up for themselves and are crushed right away
right. most people including me grow up with deep insecurity issues because we are always being told to shut up for being a child, incapable of thinking maturely and cannot defend ourselves and worst is that we only have to listen to the adults counting our daily mistakes... their idea of trying to discipline us is to count and slap us our mistakes and barely praised for our good deeds.. that good actions are expected but mistakes are being badly criticized. however, this girl in the video are able to express herself clearly i can tell that the dad is giving her enough confidence to be able to speak up.
@@persona5305 that's about right they think we have to deal the same things they deal with as kids is like if I suffer this as a child well you will too... I grow in a house where the oldest one not matter who is it will always be right ... My 8 year self was like .. that's down right stupid and I say it to them but I wasn't polite I have always been and angry kid. this girl is in another level.
U r right, and now I feel Iam blessed to have such parents who only encourage me to stand up for myself and even when it can be towards them once or twice..🙏🏼
“You’re asking me things even a robot couldn’t do, even if I had 8 hands I couldn’t do it” she’s so well spoken wow, and she articulate her feelings so well
It's what happens when one reads higher levels of reading at a young age. I was like that, but, my parents didn't really listen much, nor was I allowed to speak much, but I digress, she will absolutely do amazing things one
@@s0fa274if the parents don't raise her well do you think she'll be respectful despite there is something that makes her feel uncomfortable. If the parents usually use violent approach when the kid disagrees, do you think she'll even ask in the first place?
She’s right though, the status quo in this country is that most of the kids are treated as study machines, they live a harsh life while not knowing why they have to go through it. A lot of the teenagers in China are depressed and the number is going up, while most of the parents think mental illness is nonexistent, most of the time they either ignore it or punish the kids for being ungrateful. This is a complete nightmare… so guys, those jokes are true.
This girl is so articulate with her reasoning. She shows such discipline and intelligence at her age. I hope she gets her well-deserved free time. The fact that she recognises she needs free time and that she should cherish her childhood is so mature.
If you feel that you are not good enough and must exhaust your emotional energy well-being, beyond a child's capacity you overwhelm the ego into despair and retreat. Childhood is short lived. Allow children their realm in freedom. Good enough is just fine.
Simple mind people would have missed this, but all the studying from everyday has made her this awesome with her rebuttals. A regular kid won't know how to respond this well. Congrats to the father. 👍
@@condorX2 Totally agree with you but I also empathize with the girl because that was my experience. It is hard being a Chinese kid, we are not given a lot of play time. I hope I can have a childhood when I retire.
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I'm almost crying watching this... Poor girl is so stressed and exhausted, it's obvious. She's not crying like a kid with tantrum, she's crying like she's in a deep mental pain. I hope her dad will listen and give her less duties and more playtime.
@imechko_familia: Probably not, it's not long ago that girls like her wore bandages on their feet to make their toes curl this is crippling them. Probably still do that in the mountains. Civilisation is centuries behind everything that is West of them. A masoginistic enslavement attitude prevails and if you see in her speech, she is appealing to the loved Father side of him, unfortunately it's not there. Simply, the sooner she gets out of that hell hole the better. I wonder what their mental hospitals are like? They probably douse them up with meds and send them back to the universal slave camp called "home" There is no balance this is extreme non-civilisation which is still today thousands of years old, meaning they are thousands of years behind. Sure, they can build stuff and are brainy but not brainy enough to have any empathy - see China? See North Korea, it's basically the same dictatorship with zero understanding or human tolerance . That's is why they worship Chairman Mao, and are fed such icons as: "for the people" "for China" that's why they bomb (even today) Taiwan, which is the real and true Republic of China. Supposedly. Taiwan is a successful country with consolidated production and supply of tech and white goods and their lives and children enjoy a healthy and civilised normality compared to the red Chinese. Why do you think there are so many Chinese in the West ? Because they wanted to get the f- out off there...!!🤯 They bomb Taiwan, they fire on Tibet, and nobody knows what they are doing, they just feed their Chinese people like mushrooms. Kept in the dark and fed on bs. I feel sorry for children like this young lady and I hope she manages to get away sometime soon. Her father is so not worthy of such an admirable daughter. .........And, his daughter does not deserve such an ao of a crapola Father, which he is. And the saddest thing of all is that she actually loves her dad and tries to reason with him with respect that he does not deserve. I hope she finds friends and happiness and manages to get the hell out of there as soon as possible. I wonder what the suicide rate for kids of her age is in China today. I bet you a hundred quid - they would always blame the child. It's a sick, sick society over there. Look at The Tiananmen Square protests, massive army tanks against unarmed students, who were no doubt protesting against all of this crap themselves. But, hey, that's a Dictatorship ☮️ No wonder they are backward, they stifle natural growth.
Abused kids wont talk openly like this to her/his abuser due to trauma and fear, trust me. This is just a one smart, brilliant girl trying to talk down her daddy with her smart-ass words and superb acting off course. When you got kids, who always got excuses in thier mind, you'll know 😂
The best and the greatet way to argue with parents.. I dont know why , maybe seeing her crying made my tears fall from my eyes♡.. Happy a great life sister..God bless you and your family.. >
It’s sad that she is already burnt out at such a young age. Smart, articulate and precocious, but unhappy. I hope her parents really take what she said to heart.
Normal Asian parents or more or less chinese parents.They always get some random excuse that makes no sense to get you working or make you have no free time
I am saddened by the distress of this child. She is clearly & politely spoken & deserves to be heard. I hope the parents get it, or they will ultimately lose her as an adult.
Oh my God she is cutest Smartest little girl I've ever seen. How can you not love her. Father please continue to do such a good job but please award her with playtime enough to wear her feelings are not this hurt. Everyone gets emotional but these are real tears and her heart is hurting and she is actually crying to you for help. Yet she is being so respectful and having such an intelligent conversation you should be so proud. And I like the way you responded to her and let her State her case and defend herself and stand up for herself. How proud you must be and how blessed you are to have such a daughter in your life. Remember so many people will never have that in their life and it is a miracle and a blessing. And how intelligent and smart does a little girl have to be to say something about cherishing her childhood. I know you must be proud of her and I can just tell you as a total stranger I'm so impressed with that little human being. It just proves how great God is and how great people can be. Even young children. Please take care of her and find a way to continue to raise her so well without letting her get so upset. I don't think that's probably good for her but obviously it is very good for her to have discipline and structure and responsibility and direction. But as she so eloquently argues it's important that it's balanced with time to rest and recharge and play. Play is enjoying the real world and the real life and the things in this life that are the most important. And you can never enjoy them as much as you can as a child. Thank you for speaking to her with respect. You have done such a great job that is obvious. She will grow up to be a great woman with Great accomplishments I predict.
@@farzana6676no, it's not. I am from India only and not from any other country like America but I can assure u, if u think pressure always brings success, then I feel sorry to say that your parents are either illiterate or mildly abusive. Even a smart person can be illiterate if they don't understand what someone else feels and have old time thinking. Yes I kind of agree with you too because my cousin have been very very pressurised and beaten or scolded for small things and that is why they achieved excellence in things and now one of them is doing engineering and constantly is traveling foreign and other one is still in studying but is genius and doing something like IIT or maybe IIT only(I don't remember correctly but he is doing that or something like that) but still my mom doesn't pressurise us because she also is against this pressuring type of system and she is a govt working officer who lives away from us because of her job transfer
Holy smokes she is articulate, respectful, reasonable and logical in her explanation whilst also holding back her emotion, if my daughter put forward a case like this I would be so proud but also very upset that I haven't let her enjoy her childhood that she REALIZES she is missing out on. Bless her.
@@Player_468Alright, well, since you're clearly a robot or something, I feel like I should let you know, as a human, we experience emotions and sometimes they even appear outwardly! Wow, crazy concept, I know.
Great job standing up for yourself! It takes confidence and self-respect to assert your needs clearly. You handled the situation with maturity, and that kind of assertiveness is inspiring!
She sure has straightened matters out between her and her Dad without being disrespectful. A very successful and respectful woman she’s going to be in the future.
You know, even when highly emotional, it's incredible how coherent, articulate and respectful this child is. Such level of communication is rare, even in adults
That’s heartbreaking to see her cry like that. It should not get to the point that the child has a breakdown like this. This cannot be the first time that she has expressed her need for a break and time to play.
I grew up the same. In China you cannot play for too long. If you do, you get left behind. We are too many, the competition is too strong. If you rest and play for too long, somebody else who doesn't and has greater resilience towards studying will get ahead, while you'll be left behind. As much as I remember feeling the same like this little girl during my childhood, I would not allow my children to play for too long either if I was still living in China. There the gov doesn't help you, one doesn't have the security felt in the westen countries, you are basically on your own. It better be a well trained "your own", otherwise you don't stand a chance in chinese society. Most people in the west will not educate their children like that. I'm not doing it either since my kids are growing in the west. But if I was living in China, no matter how much my kids would cry for free time, they will only have the free time that I allow, and that will be very little by my own understanding of what constitutes success in China. I know that later on my kids will not get ahead in life because of the free time they've had, but because of the work they had to do. It's a rigged system, you can't rest for too long, if you don't play the game, work and excell, you will get nowhere in China. Outside of China there is more freedom and one can do what one wants, inside of China there is no freedom and you will do as you're told, regardless of how much you cry. This is what my dad told me when I was little. So then I reasoned I wanted no longer to live in China. Now I enjoy more freedom and my children do too! People from the west who see this clip must understand that this girl's situation is common place for almost every child educated in Chinese society. The way the gov rules the country is the same way we rule over our children. They scrictly must obey, or else... A sad system I would say, now that I know any different.
@@wangxiaoming8989it's quite sad to hear that, but at least it gives some context to the video. We don't know much about the Chinese society, after all so we can't really judge the parents for being strict when we live in a different country.
@@mynameiseden6127I’m a Chinese student. While the person above is right about the education system in China, I just want to say that the parents are still strict. But sadly it’s normalised because people are forced to be this way so their children can survive in our society. But just because we live in a different environment doesn’t mean that things always have to be this way and are right to be this way. You can have free time, what truly matters is the time management. And I believe a good mind comes with a balance between work and rest. The parents are still strict, but yes, there is a good reason to it, and I don’t see that things would change in the next few decades…
I am AWESTRUCK by this little girl's profound understanding of her situation and her ability to articulate her ordeal so well. Kids should be allowed MORE PLAYTIME, let them enjoy their childhood! Her story is a reminder that even the youngest voices can spark change and inspire greatness.
@Linogewillkillallofy lmao she clearly knows what she's going through wtf are you talking about and she's very articulate as well. I doubt her mom asks for more time to play instead of doing homework. No clue what them being Chinese has to do with her talking to her dad about this, you don't know what you're talking about
@@platinumdynamiteat first I was gonna say you were misinformed. But these are exactly the type of contents Chinese consume regularly in their own country. There's some truth to your statement; they may be faking these interactions. Since the younger generation is very capable of expressing their words and actions, and talented (as the little girl we saw here in this video)
@@platinumdynamite it is true content and not a set up. If it was a set up you can give that 9 year old girl or however old she is an oscar to be able to act like that at her age. But me knowing how strict chinese parents are i understand their education is very high too
She’s that wise BECAUSE of the restrictions her father has put on her and implements in her life. It may be seen as cruel but it’s what will save her from most of the dumb mistakes her peers will make in their future.
She is so stressed. As a teacher myself I think you should take it easy on her. All work and no play makes her dull. She’s so brave for speaking boldly and sternly.
Females are born great at complaining, nothing surprising. If she was a boy, this video wouldn't have been made, the father wouldn't risk evidence being found of his abuse.
@@robertnoble7554 Females might be as you believe but not all females would speak up about how they feel so give this little girl some attention she did greatly.
@@zizi-yo Majority of women would or girls or children to be accurate, I wish it wasn't so but it's nature (Self defense mechanism), only a few would wouldn't so why would I want to praise them when they are the outliers? If there's someone I'm praising here is the teacher/parents they trained her well, she learned logic really well.
@@robertnoble7554 where I come from.. majority of these girls won’t speak up because of fear of being scolded. They suffer in silence and build hate towards the parent in return. It goes two ways. So allow me to shower this girl with praises for her bravery.
This little girl broke my heart with her brilliant negotiating skills, impressive respect and emotional honesty. She will be a force for good as an adult.
This comment is pretty naive. I would make a pretty big bet with you she will end up emotionally broken and NOT a good person because of her overly strict upbringing. (If what she says is true)
This is not negotiating. She is pleading, begging for some time for herself. If this continues, as somebody says above, it will end up very badly for her
Girl says it right "Whatever you are asking of me, even a robot couldn't do it. Even if I had 8 hands, I couldn't do it. And you still say you don't put much pressure on me." - class act from this young lady
The way she said it I can tell she picked up from her mother. 😃 The phrase "Even if I had 8 hands I couldn't do it" is popularily used to express the unrealistic expectation.
This is no class act. A lot of children in China are forced to uphold very very strict routines, especially if you are a girl there. They say in china you earn your parents love when you are done university, and then they cling to you forever, but it's already too late by then
Oh yeah... Because she could speak... I doubt 70% of adults had this "Free speech" to a father, without making things worse. It's not because of one action that makes her the miss perfection, the goddess of speech... The humiliator of bad parenthood. You're too weak to understand general minds, in a vast way of topics. Box minded i should say it. Its like people who are deficient... They cant do what majority "can" so why some of them reach great goal? Because of the STRONG support, parents, people donating, school students that respect, schools that also support them with guaranteed colleges, monetary help... Now a non deficient person? Who parents doesn't care, who doesn't have much friends or cant even make friends duo to personality difficulties, who were born in a poor city, who get bullied or lonely at school, who ideas are always dismissed. It's not one, it is most of them... Have a good day Box minded
@@jwag301 Low standards? Says the person with couple hundred views on their pathetic TH-cam channel. And you think you are any more superior than her? Judging by your TH-cam channel, you spend and awful lot of time on games. You don't know what it's like to have your free time restricted. You don't know what other people are going through, and certainly have no right to label her speaking skills as ideocracy.
@@blckknight117 how is that child logic tho. She was right, she completed her responsibilities, why can’t she play? She’s a child, they’re supposed to play. I bet you’re one of those parents that say shit like “cause I said so” when you don’t have a valid answer. Children are people too and they are allowed to want things. I’m saying this as a former child, current adult, that wasn’t allowed to have fun because my mom “said so”. Couldn’t even ride my bike around the block without the miserable fuck making up some bs for me to do just to keep me in the house and unhappy.
She's a sweetheart. She speaks up for herself very well, even whilst emotional. She's a great kid. Her father is extremely lucky to have her as a daughter. She deserves her playtime!
Just the way she speaks tells us a lot about the type of education and raising she's receiving. She is probably a brilliant kid, playing a little after her school work and basic chores are done should be a given. She's earned it! How is she supposed to know she's doing good if there are no rewards?
@@vivekthakur9505 i agree with you. Its a different culture and they have different views on how to raise their children and people should respect that and trust the process.
@@basilkhalili9312 yes because us as a society raising our children to be future slaves to work for money and for the government to collect such money. We are slaves to our government and taxes is how they are paid
@@sir3668 you haven't seen the ground reality of China and their job culture , so with due respect STFU. Either you accomodate as per the situation or you change the environment of the country (which evryone knows isn't that possible in china, as they kill you). I can't do anything to change China's economy system or job culture. Their people have to fight on their own. & You should understand that people of China know the job culture there that's why they are forcing their children like that even when they didn't want to. I bet you, that her father isn't too happy about it either. Everyone loves their offspring , you aren't a special kind hearted person. ,😮💨. I don't understand why people like you think , you are better than others.
Chinese culture parenting style on education is another level. It's not for the faint-hearted. I've witnessed it firsthand. Every time you see Chinese kids excelling on any subjects especially maths, it's this level of discipline. This girl . . . 😥
Not all.. my parents just give me good genes and now I’m good at math while having to do almost nothing. My parents are always caring and kind. 😅 although I know some Chinese parents are really rude and strict, I believe that just because of one girl doesn’t mean every kid that’s Asian or Chinese is treated that way.
It's so convenient! Like you don't even have to raise her! Just focus on work, study, and discipline. If she jumps off a roof or something just make another one! So convenient!
although she can only talk and reason like that because of how she was raised (ironically). the issue is the father went overboard. the detriment is stress/overwork.
This little girl is so mature, my heart breaks for her. People stop putting too much pressure on your kids, you will lose them when they are older. Build a relationship of trust, love, and respect
@@mylaw7337 again, no one mentioned too much freedom. She just wants to play after finishing all her responsibilities. You can tell she definitely does not even have "basic freedom", let alone "too much" freedom
This girl is wise beyond her years. "Treasure the childhood years." Like what adult says that, let alone child. And the whole time she's very respectful. Dad, please appreciate this gift of a child you have.
Lmao the commentor knows what yoy meant and doesn't agree there is anything funny here. That girl is going to end up lying flat or whatever it will be called by then.
how do you know how much stress she is under? how can you distinguish that from emotional manipulation (i.e. crying in order to get what she wants). The dad does not seem to shout at her... and going to bed at 9pm at her age isn't an unreasonable demand from him at all...
@@panda4247she’s not crying to get her way. I can understand her frustration, that’s what made her cry. She isn’t complaining about going to bed at 9, she wants to have more play time and a little less work time and I think that’s totally okay!
@@I_YELL_ALOTShe was not asking for less work, but the ability to spend more of her free time playing. Her father wanted to control the number of hours she spent playing. Even her father admitted that she has been a good girl. Her father wanted her to be the perfect girl. This girl would make me a very proud father.
She really put a lot of thought into this and probably waited for the right time and to get up the nerve to finally say it, and she made sure to say it all. She didn't attack him personally, she didn't resort to name calling or demands. She simply stated her case, in a clear, concise and eloquent way. I can't see any other outcome than father granting daughter more time for play.
An Intelligent smart kid. Don’t understand why the parents don’t see it. A good n responsible also sensible girl. Bravo for speaking up!!!! Dad should apologize for making her cry n giving her stress!!!
For someone from a very strict CHINESE PARENTS, the bravery it takes to stand ground and articulate is extremely exceptional. She is already better than half the wolrd
Ok bitch I lived in china for 6 fucking years and what did we do? Most of the kids would go fucking play outside like FOR LIKE 5h ON A WEEK DAY I think she is a spoiled shit head yes they do over work there kids but USA does the same fucking thing yk so you don’t know nothing
No, it's wrong. She will get in trouble if she continues being outspoken like that. Dissidents are dangerous entities in China so they'll either end in jail or die before their time. Parents don't want that and children don't know any better
Well, she has mastered communication. She has a bright future. How to communicate with people is the most underrated part of your life when you're in your adult age. Congratulations to her parents on raising such a good daughter. I hope they give their daughter some free-time she deserves it.
Not to mention she is explaining her feelings in the right way that doesn’t demonize the other person! Not even every adult knows that. She is telling how SHE feels and why it's not right. "I have studied, I do well, I feel like I've earned free time, I should have free time as a kid" instead of blaming the other person.
Yeah she's a brilliant kid and I wish her all the best, potentially she has a bright future from my own exp it won't happen unless the parents change their behaviours.
This is why I tell people to stop reproducing. Life is tough, be compassionate towards your unborn children and let them be free in a state of non-existence.
WHOA HOLD UP! SLOW DOWN!! That child clearly is 100% aware of what’s going on! Most kids her age don’t even know knowledge like this. It’s ridiculous and sad that the dad doesn’t even realize how much stress she can no longer take. He has no clue at all bro
And now these parents call them self “parenting”😅 in China most parents are disappear in mental Health they don’t care about their kids feelings so this girl is very strong, I’m Chinese and I could tell you all the shitty craps I seen in Chinese media post bro. That’s why I hate some people in my community it’s such a burden to take
she’s well aware of the unrealistic expectations her parents and society have on her. she’s reasoning so logically with her dad despite sobbing that not only has she completed all her work, but that she’s a good girl ALL the time. she knows her worth and the effort she puts in. i wish for her to never allow herself to get treated badly. she’s a bright one.
She is totally right. The parents should cherish their childhood the only thing wrong here she should also cherish her parents because they won’t be there anymore when she needs them.
@@artix444 the parents can’t cherish “their” childhood any longer because they have grown out of their childhood! They can only cherish their daughter’s childhood while still being a child!
I’m heartbroken that she’s been brought to this in the first place. “What you’re asking of me, even a robot couldn’t do!” Man ran his daughter into the ground like a machine until it broke down in tears. Poor little sweetling. 💔
Fortunately this child is capable of expressing herself…I think she will be fine if their parents work a bit more on themselves. But unfortunately, How many kids because of how shitty the parents are and/or the shitty job the parents do in raising their kids turn out to be either shit scared to share their feelings and keep bottling it up OR become rebellious and start turning violent…just look at society..it shows up in so many ugly ways in their teenage and adulthood. If you one to become a parent, be a 1st class human being. Get a PHD with 1st class honours in that. Not even 2nd class upper. If not, don’t mess up lives.
nowadays kids' lives are basically school, tuition, homework, repeat. sure there are some parents who are lenient but even then i don't think it's enough bc one worksheet for homework is what, 15 pages? for math in my country at least. this girl deserves to rest :((
I think. she is not crying because of pressure. she is crying because he stopped him from playing games. I used to do same like her hahah. these days Chinese schools focus completely of children's wellbeing. they probably have one child. parents and grandparents. totally six people caring and spoiling. where do you think, she get the reasoning and courage in first place?
@@arjunc4759I am an autistic person who really struggled with communication and my aunt and uncle who raised me in the place of my dead parents were narcissists who never listened to me and insisted they were always right and the one time I proved them wrong they threw me away like a piece of trash and left me to die without the slightest remorse
@@aguirainternational8289you think she spoiled? I think it's pretty obvious both from the father and the little girl that her breakdown is very genuine and not just a tantrum
She’s really brave for confronting her father, and was so expressive with her words. She made him understand how distressed she is. I hope she got the rest she needs.
@@sriharshavarma3891 yep. Don't wanna turn this into a pity party for men, but when we're younger we just gotta suck it all up; suffer in silence. Crocodile tears don't work. Before the age of 23 I was disrespected by any & everyone because I was easy-going. Parents, siblings, cousins, coaches, teachers, driving instructors, managers, bus drivers, customers. Nobody cared because I was a boy, I had to tough it out. I guess it's worked out in the end because I'm extremely resilient, but I developed it from trauma.
I'm surprised how competently this child speaks. She expresses her thoughts so well and clearly and makes strong arguments that even her father cannot answer normally.
Prob has very high IQ. Genius IQ babies for example can read textbooks by age 1, so puts things into perspective of how smart brains can present itself as maturity in children
@@michaelu8474 Nah I meant IQ. IQ is a measure of basically learning rate. People with higher IQ will learn things quicker. Doesn't mean they are better but it is what it is. Genius Babies which have very high IQ learn speech and even reading at a very quick rate. Imagine being able to retain a piece of information the first time you've read it, or remember exactly how to pronounce a word after only hearing it a few times or even once. This girl probably doesn't have genius IQ, but the fact that she can articulate and form these types of arguments at her age shows that she is probably higher intelligence than the average of her age... which is how they actually measure IQ. It is based on the average of your age group.
eq is a bullshit metric, iq is real, predicts outcomes when controlling for everything else, proven across the planet, improves with better nutrition and after that 80%+ of the difference among people is due to difference in genes, unfortunately this cuts across ethnicities too. asians have larger brains than whites who have larger brains than blacks, predictable results@@michaelu8474
It’s because of the translation between English and Chinese, there has to be 0 grammatical errors for an output to be used for captions, even if you have to rephrase sentences.
The idyllic childhood is a myth. Nobody actually has a childhood like the ones portrayed in media, same for relationships. It's all lies. I have NEVER ever met anyone who had the "perfect" childhoods or relationships that exist in the fantasy world of the media. I'm saying this as a person over 50. Life is all struggle against adversity for everyone. You get what you get, and you struggle and fight to try to get the rest of what you want. Some are lucky, most are not. In the end the only way to be happy is to be satisfied with what you have and what you were able to achieve/acquire.
@@Anacaona4 and then grow to be fucked up and alone in the end. It takes proper education and self discipline to be a caring and patient parent. Lest your kids end up in the gutter or worse.
@@thn4296 im not as eloquent as that girl but i did that too. I even speak about my mental illness and they thought i was doing a stand up comedy lmao. You, you must be live in a 1st world country, aren't you? Either that or you have been granted by a ridiculously easy going parent.
I teared listening to this. They both did very well listening to each other. Both are enduring societal constraints and a work-centered culture. Her Dad is only trying his best and lost sight of the openness, imagination, and curiosity that is abundant in childhood. Perhaps he had a rigid upbringing too. I hope they both remain close ❤
Her dad was terrible, no way can defending that. Even when she cried and reason with him for his wrong, he still arrogant and said something like "don't play too long" or "its better if you keep it up" instead of just fucking admit his mistake like someone with maturity.
That little girl has it spot on. "How about you try it?" The one that got me was "please treasure our childhood days". I know that one from experience, once that time has passed, it is gone forever. Kudos to that brilliant little child. I hope Dad is listening, and hearing what she is saying. 👍👍👏👏👏👏👏👏
That father is extremely nice and patient. If I said these words, my parents would definitely come up with “treasure your childhood and waste your time playing will make you a failure as an adult”
@@fvnt0miix953 yeah, strongly support your parents' statement, with 1.4 billion Chinese competing for a high end job, they wont allow people who dont study hard in young age to excel when they are grown up. Honestly speaking, even Hong Kong high end job is now being occupied by a certain portion of mainland china elite graduates from the western university.
She's got a bright future ahead ... says nothing about the fact that she is literally balling her eyes out crying... I'm pretty sure that's exactly what her dad's thinking
@@joshuaradloff1070 And you should keep your mouth shut on this topic because you dont punish your own children enough. Its the reason why America or its people are no match for China and better learn to kiss Chinese ass very quickly. lol
It's so heartbreaking to see little children being forced to do things beyond their capabilities. I'm so glad she was able to voice her concerns, and how she was feeling to her dad.
the thing is it's precisely the parents and their pressure that made it possible for her to be so articulate. It's like children of single parents, they often tend to be more mature, not because they are so, but they just kinda have to be so because of the situation. I am assuming her parents probably often use this reasonings to when telling her she couldn't do this or that, so she picked up that you have to have a good reason to be able to do what you want.
how do you know how much stress she is under? how can you distinguish that from emotional manipulation (i.e. crying in order to get what she wants). The dad does not seem to shout at her... and going to bed at 9pm at her age isn't an unreasonable demand from him at all...
I think many people don't even understand the layers of how big a deal this is for a child in China, at that age, to express herself so articulately - WHILE going against her parents. This child is exceptional and I hope society does not crush that out of her.
@@rockyjohnson9243Them being CEO is more of a luck thing, and how are you to tell if your kids WANT to be CEO, they can want to be anything they want. Please stop dictating your kids and let them free to learn new things.
@@backtobackcosmicflash well when my kid is your boss or your kids boss which is quite likely since they both received scholarship to university in the USA. Don't say I didn't tell you so. They also finished HS 1 year early thx to the hard work.
Wow. Natural born leader. It’s great seeing she can reasonably and respectfully speak her mind and her needs while in distress, at her young age. She didn’t even throw a tantrum, she used her words. I’m also glad the father allowed her to speak her mind and he listened and gave his feedback. That’s great parenting as well.
Great parenting r u out of your mind u must be deluded she needs a flipping rest and playtime she needs her childhood or she will be mentally affected when she grows up and have problems. And as she said she’s not a robot and not even a robot can do that and doesn’t have 8 hands
Sorry, no. This is the life of a Chinese. Just be glad she's not slaving away for pennies to make the iPhone you posted this on. Feel bad for now but don't worry, once you click away you won't have to feel bad anymore but she and her countryfolk will continue to make your "made in china" goods 😀
Lmao. Her parents are exactly the reason she’s acting so mature. I’d rather have her parents than some parents giving the kid an iPad and not caring about and not giving a fuck about the child. She surely will be grateful to them, when she’ll be the one studying in a good university and having lots of skills.
The argument skills depicted by the girl are simply results of harsh parenting. Every child learns it when raised strictly. I relate to this girl so much. I'm from India and if I dare argue like this with my parents, well, you could say it wouldn't end up well for me. I'm not criticizing my parents, they truly are wonderful, but sometimes I feel like they never understand me.
If she continues this way, she will raise good parents.
lol
You sir made me laugh like crazy in office 😂
where is the laugh button?
@@rishabhsrivastava1241 stop watching yt in the office!
lmaoo
I can't even argue like that at 32,what a talented kid
True! Same here.
Said the same thing lol. When i do my brain farts then i say forget it. 😂
@@yolpie20 lol bro you made my day 🤣
For real though. With my 'short term memory loss' combined with my fear of confrontation AND lack of argumenting skills, I could never pull off what she just did. Not to mention the fact that she was lecturing her own father! The balls this kid must have. She's totally in the right though.
😂
Poor kid. How hard as she worked to enable someone at that age to express her pain so succinctly.
She's stressed already: poor thing.
My thoughts exactly. Poor thing is all work and no play. My heart goes out to her. There's a reason why they put suicide nets around work building windows in china.
What else can you expect from a Country like China? This is why America and all western countries are the best places to live in. Period!! People here who complain all the time about how difficult it is 😂 should be sent to China or Korea. To make them realise how lucky they are to be Americans.
Nope thats a linient asian parent, if thats typical asian family, that kid would not even continie to speak for 10 seconds.... SLAP!
@@Ranger-ly5qf no
That girl could speak in such high words and great vocabulary
Ikr,Chinese doesn’t live for fun
They have a purpose in life
@@Blocblox_12 yeah
I am Chinese. My life is really easy at the same time as being tough bc I don’t have chores (YAYAYAYAY)
4hrs screen time (even mor yay)
brain cell-destroying 20 pages of math workbook problems (FROM SINGAPORE which is the most educationally efficient country)
My parents don’t go that stiff on my stuff
@@YT_Blitzshorts how many hours of school im in grade 9 and i have 10-hour school
Great vocab can be succeeded by many young people like me I’m 11, like one thing I would argue about is like why do we have to do homework in holidays, it’s a holiday for a reason, to spent time with family, socialise with friends, go on holiday, and most importantly, have a good rest after having to fight through tons of homework thrown at you every single day. Like yeah, it’s vital and beneficial for when your older and blah blah blah, but having to deal with stress at this age is pretty unfortunate for your mental well-being.
Good lord, that is one aware, intelligent, assertive, wise, articulate, tactful, creative little girl!
How amazing!!!
U too
Idk why the focus is on her smartness rather than the situation of hers and majority of the children
She’s that intelligent because of how her parents raised her: always learning and talking to adults such as teachers. That’s why many Asians use this technique to raise their children, even if it seems abusive to western people. But that’s how you create well taught children. The father in this clip probably wanted her to do something else than gaming such as playing outside, a hobby or sports etc. Or he was a jerk and wanted her to study 24/7… which is abusive
@@truehappiness4Uhe wanted to give her extra homework
Sadly not every parents will understand this. Some parents will always think they are right and ignore the kids feelings just cuz they are kids
-written by a kid
seriously tho it actually sucks to not have alot of fun, even with the pandemic fun still exists
I hate that this is true
I did not expect mayrushart to comment on this video, but yeah happy new year for those reading this, and may 2023 be a good one
That'll eventually bleed into adulthood too, my mother still thinks she's superior to the kids in our family and it's a big reason why I don't speak to her anymore. There's no equal with her.
Bro stfu ? How many kids do you have ?
“Please treasure our childhood days”. That says it all.
Very profound. And as adults, we become so cynical. I wish we could keep the innocence of kids, man.
By 18, you already know she’s going no contact pronto stat
Then go out and play.
OUR .
That broke my heart
"Please treasure our childhood days......" (we won't be children forever)....Purest words on marble❤❤❤
west = too much treasure = alot of brats
east = too much pressure = alot of emptiness
tropical = too much free time = alot of retards
yuh got a point bc of the dad doesnt the child would basically just abandon her dad then the dad be like why you leave me. the the child would say what the dad did in her childhood days
"In order to study at all, I also need my rest." the girl has a point there
Girl has a point everywhere.
You want to rest? then turn off the pc and go to bed. Or I will cut the house electricity until morning. Playing on a pc is not resting. LoL.
@@ShadowlordDiodepends on which kinda games too, don't be so stiff.
@@Zeratsu that's what a gamer would say and I am a gamer. I finished Skyrim. Cyberpunk. GtaV. I know what iam talking about. The eye strain and brain that has no sleep is not a joke. This kids need someone to stop them. You know it. Don't deny truth
@@ShadowlordDioshe isn’t being treated well at all. No girl that young should be able to sound that mature. That’s a kid being pushed way too hard
What a mature kid. More articulate than most adults.
That's what happens when you are online most of the time and learning internet shit.
@@BikanoNavratna calm down lol it's a comment the top comment has a point though
@@BikanoNavratnanahhh
@@BikanoNavratnai have been doing that and i assure you most of us will go to degenerate path (for entertainment purpose) which will bring us deeper into the rabbit hole
@@BikanoNavratnaif you are below 30 you will understand what i mean
She feels like an adult who goes back in time and relives her childhood
For real, almost made me think I might be an NPC in an OI/isekai novel... 😆
@@rukiakuchiki5136 dang, i just think the same
Fr
I had the same thought!
What a nice description!
my heart goes out to her, she’s very passionate, and seems like she’s telling the truth. kids should be allowed to be kids, and not robots!
“Treasure our childhood days”. What a great quote from a kid. Love her.
Simple mind people would have missed this, but all the studying from everyday has made her this awesome with her rebuttals. A regular kid won't know how to respond this well.
Congrats to the father.
😂
It means that when she gets the chance, she's going to leave the house...
@@condorX2 you can congratulation him, but when she's able she will leave and never talk to him again. This is abusive. Chinese parents are finding their kids immigrate and never return because of THIS behaviour
@@lifeasrini Is this your opinion or your inner predator priest opinion? I'm with ok with both 😉
@@condorX2 lol this is more .."my parents were like that and I don't speak to them ever" foreshadowing 😁😉
I almost cried when her dad said "you've been good lately" and she said "lately?". She was so hurt by that.
Burnout after burnout after burnout with no relief. Mental illness in the end
This is most Chinese parents do to kids .shame!
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i actually did.
I did
This broke my heart. Glad she stood up for herself. Kids need to play. You're only a child once.
I agree
And waste your life away on doing stupid shit? Yeah no
Just asian parents yk, sometimes parents just want us to be healthy and focus more on study to get better job, they just want us to have better life in future
@@Jeregolnumber9 yea but not when you are 10 years old, come on bro, the real important knowledge for your life begings in the high school and university, not in the elementary
To play outside with friends but not on the computer
She is combination of innocence and inteligent..May God always make her Happy
Woah. This child is more self aware than even most of the adults. She knows when she has put good amount efforts and when it's time to say no and take a break. Something most of us need but lack.
She's awesome!
how do you know anything about the effort she has done, and how long has she been already playing?
how can you distinguish that from emotional manipulation (i.e. crying in order to get what she wants). The dad does not seem to shout at her or anything... and going to bed at 9pm at her age isn't an unreasonable demand from him at all...
@@panda4247no way you just called a child crying “emotional manipulation”
@@deathtunessthe girl in the video aside, you don't believe children do this? I've watched one of my best friend's young son manipulate his parents into letting him take a bath in their bathroom after they moved into a nice house where he and his sister had their own to share. They tried reasoning and he did the scream cry tantrum resist stubborn thing until they finally let him have his way, and then all was peaceful. Some children will do that crap if you let them. Totally.
@@panda4247Kids are terrible liars. You could tell a mile away when they lie. I doubt this is "emotional manipulation"
"Lately? I've been a good girl every day". That sums up her rightful, rational argument, presented respectfully. BRAVO ❤
But one day she has been a bad girl for sure, I can tell because my “angle” sister has been terrible but only ever so rarely
My 小妹妹 came with FACTS! I felt her indignation!
I thought her best argument was "How about you try it"
@@rhys1564好可爱😂
That part had me clapping for her, don't let the tears fool you....She'll make a great litigator TODAY🫶🏾🥰🫶🏾
The clarity in her thought process and the articulation of the same at that age is a skill that most people can’t learn even by the time they’re 30. This girl is going places.
It's the facial expressions and passion in her voice for me 😅
It's called force maturity. Is when kids are forced to grow up to fast and mature as she has. Leaving childhood behind very early
Yeah well... If she doesn't burn out by the age of 12, that is...
What’s funny is like you guys are looking at her ask for help and laughing and saying more homework for you because you need it because it helps your bright mind
Meanwhile in the west a man can get pregnant. 🤣 🤣 🤣
You are a good girl! Proud of you for standing up and asking for a well deserved playtime. :) God bless you! ❤️❤️❤️
She’s so self-aware and polite. I wish grown adults were like this
Don't you mean american kids ??
@@MexicanRhino-e5zboth
Chinese kids sound so annoying like adult
@@MexicanRhino-e5z I mean, I’m not familiar with American kids but sure. Not just adults yk. I specifically said adults cuz heck, nowadays very few of them know how to communicate.
Few can communicate because their heads are always down texting to someone. They don’t have conversations using their mouths anymore and many have penmanship of a small child.
This kid can go far in life. She's so polite and at her age she's so aware and knows the gap of her responsibilities
Provided her dad don’t screw her up
Has to be
@@darren1966her dad is what made her this good.
@@ambitiousmuslimrecordings3451Apparently he's the one who's making her life that bad and that miserable.
@@MsSuperww there are some things we didn't like that our parents did but later in life became thankful for because we learned some skills that others didn't, just enough to get ahead in life.
Why is it that often Asians in Europe or in the West excel in different fields?
the fact she did this in clear emotional distress is absolutely incredible to me. I'd barely be coherent in that state.
Hahahahahahah same same
@@yeshacroe9354 hl
Same.
@@tiagomoraes1510 Don't be a clown. You can't say addition when she's done all of her chores and homework
@@tiagomoraes1510 lol bullshit, as if an abortion like you can argue like that 😂
"it's for your own good"
The line which ruined our childhood 😔😔
but it’s easier to study hard younger than to struggle as an adult. the kid has a point but 9pm IMO at 7 or 8 yo is already much. my parents would never let me play till midnight and make me do extra but it was still fine
I mean it is true
hate it or not that's just the way it is. its for your own good.
"You can play, but not for too long." To me this is much worse, associating hard work with stress and deprivation. People work hard in the first place only to make their lives more prosperous. Maybe less strain and more instilling of fundamental life values would take these children farther by their own efforts and aspirations.
@@booo8042 "its for your own good"
The line spoken by every political Commissar in every Communist country.
You sir, are gross.
@@grossarl1 China is different than ur country, for example "propagan" always spread that kids work there, but in reality family put all the resources and pressure on 1 kid to carry all the family, they will not "waste" a kid on working labour (specially when the 1 child law was vigent).
She’s like a woman with years of experience and struggle pouring her heart out!
So sad, she lost her childhood mind. Always work without play it is impossible
She's not a robot. Later she will have good situation but happyness not sure
@@Pilote78 this is one of the things i hate about china... they treat people like heartless robots...
Right??? I legit teared up a little. This girl is losing her childhood!!!
YES...INDEED.
level`s ahead of the average american kid
How can any parent argue with such an intelligent articulate little girl? I loved the part where she pointed out to cherish the years of her childhood
Pretty sure she got her extra playtime. Poor thing is exhausted lol
@@MamiTT237Not really a laughing matter... 🖕😑🖕
@@lemurianchick You need help! Grow tf up.. and while you’re telling me to fuck off.. do it yourself and your own mother, I’m sure she does it better! Maybe that’s why you’re so upset! It’s not my fault or anyone else’s that you were abused! Go to therapy and get off TH-cam!
It is called reality.
Many people dont know how to be a proper parent. You dont learn that at school.
I also get blamed and punished for doing chores for 30 years, let alone childhood. And threatened being kicked out if I didnt, regardless how unreasonable.
That little girl is amazing! She put forth some great arguments. She has better communication skills than I do! Lol
It's heartbreaking the stress and pressure she is under at such a young age. Her life is already painful and she's just a kid.
Sucks to be forced to live up to parents desires. Knowing that true success isn't even from working.
Meanwhile in the west kids don’t know there are two genders and they are at a 2nd grade reading level in middle school.
You because of the patriarch of white men or something like that
@@williamobando9967 it doesn't have to be that extreme for a kid to be able to be a kid
@@childoftime9964 yeah okay. Good thing I homeschool because the Current educational system in America is beyond extreme.
Girls can’t be girls became we have to make space for boys that make pretend they are girls. It’s pathetic.
My husband worked at an after school Korean school. The children would arrive an hour after school let out (3:30 pm) and study debate until 8 pm. These poor children were under a tremendous amount of pressure from their parents and were on the verge of a mental breakdown. My husband gave all the students full credit just for attending class. He would schedule one day a week to just have fun but it was extremely important that neither the school nor the parents didn’t find out. These children were between the ages of 10 and 13. We decided that all we wanted of his children was to behave and be happy. Raising a happy adult was more important to us than his children getting good grades as long as they gave education their best effort.
she spoke with her heart and not her mouth. god bless her
Damn. How profoundly and eloquently she can express herself while in such an emotional state is something to aspire to even for an adult.
Because it's scripted, her parents film and release many of such scripted videos of her and her brother that will resonate with people and get the most views.
@@KoalaChinguOddI don't think this looks scripted at all.
@@EYESEEYOURN Chinese tiktoks are notorious for being fake, and this girl and her brother have other such videos filmed by their parents. The gaming chair is a giveaway, in some other videos you can see she has a pretty fancy gaming setup and her family's home is pretty affluent.
Probably from all the studying.
@@KoalaChinguOddso are others, not just chinese, just sayin
I love how she have the courage to say out her feelings, and her father listened.
Golden
Father didn't actually say he agreed with what his child said.
@@tessalister1226 still listened calmly unlike most parents
father answered but at the same time.. he dont give a shit..
@@black5029 true tho
“Please treasure our childhood days.”
“Not even a robot could do it!”
This kid really tells words of wisdom, words so wise you’d expect them coming from an adult. This really is so emotional is hurts. I hope the father gave her more free time after how she explained herself to the fullest.
The internet has a lot of information for people to find quotes. It isn’t wisdom but learnt knowledge. Wisdom is something deeply developed through overcoming their own ordeals through the many steps of griefs with in the end accepting those mistakes. But the little girl is still too young to be called wise. Knowledge, intelligence, and Self Empathy is all it takes to develop her own understanding towards her needs to convince or convey.
Like intelligence, wisdom itself can vary even for geniuses. It’s unique to all people as it has their own perspectives.
@@errebusaether Well sorry, but english isn’t my mother tongue. Still, thanks for explaining.
@@nightfallnoir I felt that those were words of wisdom. You didn't say that the child was wise, what she said was wise irrespective of how she acquired the knowledge, her words were still wise. I thought that you made a fair comment. Even if English isn't your first language, you expressed yourself more clearly than so many native English speakers. Respects and blessings to you.
@@errebusaether Internet may be full of such quotes but it takes wisdom and understanding to use those quotes at the appropriate moment
She proves she has the wisdom by choosing her words at the exact time it is required. She is not just blurting stuff out. She understands those words well herself. Hence the admiration for her apparent maturity despite her young age
@@texz000 True, indeed. She used it at the right time. But that is based on her ability to retain knowledge and understand the situation. She truly understands the meaning of those words through gaining the information through internet sources, but wisdom is gained through experience in living with a deeper understanding. While intelligence is accumulated information through the mind. It is practically intelligence that she is displaying which is fundamental to every living organism especially when she is human.
In short, it’s intelligence that is the main factor for her knowledge whilst wisdom at a fundamental level is another factor for her understanding. In an ordinary person’s dictionary, she’s a wise child but to us she’s not too extraordinary in terms of wisdom.
She still has a lot to live for before she’s even free from those desires. The desire causes conflict to wisdom. It’s too farfetched to call a child wise when their full of desire. I wouldn’t call myself wise either way as I am still conflicted in this life. Maybe in the far future everyone will achieve that wisdom depending on how they perceive their own pain to walk forward in fulfilling their desires.
Perhaps, fulfilling your lesser desires, and your ultimate desire is the key to freeing oneself from samsara. Life is still a mystery, it doesn’t matter whether we judge others or not. In the end, we’re all the same seeking for the truth, subconsciously. My apologizes for my off topic. Hahaha.😅
"How about you try it???"
"Please treasure our childhood days."
Bro that sent chills down my spine. She's so mature with crappy parents.
Based on the father's response, I would not call him crappy. It seems like he's learning to parent well and is open to feedback.
@@jessicaT12345 I (respectfully) disagree. There are subtleties in his responses like "You've been good LATELY." "It'll be great if you can keep it up." That's not encouragement. That's a threat. "I don't expect you to do much." Uh, yeah, you do. Maybe there's a part in the back of her mind when she tells him to treasure her childhood days because she wonders whether he will be a part of her life when she's grown up. No child should need to express these sorts of pains this early... There's so much praise for her articulate responses in the comments, but it makes me so sad for her. To need to use such words at that age... Poor girl.
If he was not aware of her intelligence ,he wouldn't share this video with you.
@@iknowwhatiknow3176 Or he wants to show everryone what a "good" parent he is and thinks his responses are "correct". I wonder what happens after the camera goes down.
She’s speaking like an adult that is so burnt out. More than play time, I think she wants her efforts to be acknowledged. I hope her parents praise her more. 😢
No she just needs play time lmao, her parents can't go beyond a certain limit when it comes to understanding, just letting her be herself would make her her best, understanding is not her parent's cup of tea
This is China parents are cruel
This
No, chinese believe that you should not praise your child too much because they will grow up expecting that they will get the same praise from the society
@@amitabha629 my Partner is from China and she's not like that at all
No voice raised, No disrespect served, She's obviously very emotional but still she manages to convey her feelings freely & eloquently, What a kid🎉
@@了了了 Yup but it was not like disrespectful, It was like she wanted her father to take hi seriously.
chill@@pianist-yx6ot
@@pianist-yx6ot she's still a kid
@@pianist-yx6ot And why shouldn't she talk about it when her dad is always forcing her to study not giving her some free time?
you don't know anything about her life, lol. Stop write an entire history from a clip of 1m30sec@@angeloalexandertomas5089
Her communication skills are amazing. And it also seemed like her dad was actually listening which I think is even better. Too many times kids try to stand up for themselves and are crushed right away
right. most people including me grow up with deep insecurity issues because we are always being told to shut up for being a child, incapable of thinking maturely and cannot defend ourselves and worst is that we only have to listen to the adults counting our daily mistakes... their idea of trying to discipline us is to count and slap us our mistakes and barely praised for our good deeds.. that good actions are expected but mistakes are being badly criticized. however, this girl in the video are able to express herself clearly i can tell that the dad is giving her enough confidence to be able to speak up.
@@persona5305 that's about right they think we have to deal the same things they deal with as kids is like if I suffer this as a child well you will too... I grow in a house where the oldest one not matter who is it will always be right ... My 8 year self was like .. that's down right stupid and I say it to them but I wasn't polite I have always been and angry kid. this girl is in another level.
U r right, and now I feel Iam blessed to have such parents who only encourage me to stand up for myself and even when it can be towards them once or twice..🙏🏼
Thats bcoz his dad listens and shes brave enuff to voice her mind.
And they'll tell you that you're being disrespectful 💀💀💀😭😭
Wow!!!! How blessed her parents are to have a good child. Cherish the treasure of having her in your life.
“You’re asking me things even a robot couldn’t do, even if I had 8 hands I couldn’t do it” she’s so well spoken wow, and she articulate her feelings so well
It's what happens when one reads higher levels of reading at a young age. I was like that, but, my parents didn't really listen much, nor was I allowed to speak much, but I digress, she will absolutely do amazing things one
I was scared for her when she said that bc a lot of Chinese parents would have resorted to cursing or smacking her.
@@s0fa274if the parents don't raise her well do you think she'll be respectful despite there is something that makes her feel uncomfortable. If the parents usually use violent approach when the kid disagrees, do you think she'll even ask in the first place?
@@s0fa274 yeah right??? growing up with a strict chinese mum, my mum wouldve totally beaten my ass
She’s right though, the status quo in this country is that most of the kids are treated as study machines, they live a harsh life while not knowing why they have to go through it. A lot of the teenagers in China are depressed and the number is going up, while most of the parents think mental illness is nonexistent, most of the time they either ignore it or punish the kids for being ungrateful. This is a complete nightmare… so guys, those jokes are true.
This girl is so articulate with her reasoning. She shows such discipline and intelligence at her age. I hope she gets her well-deserved free time. The fact that she recognises she needs free time and that she should cherish her childhood is so mature.
I just hope she feels better and stops crying.
@@tonytravels2494she needs hugs
Yeah because she's not some American spoilt brat lol
You get free time when you doctor now 😂😂😂😂😂
She has already been targeted by comunist goverment
Cherish this child, to have that kind of determination and to question authority with respect is a gift
Agree! 😊
Not there lol
@@skullfucker6064sad but true. Maybe she'll make it out. A lot of them seem to be able to.
Pressure from parents, I can relate a bit, but the courage of this girl is amazing! She seems very intelligent.
Damn... This little one is beyond her years. She articulates her feelings far better than most I know, myself included.
I truly felt her pain 🥺💔
dude what pain 💀
😢sweet girl and wise..and has tremendous stress at her age..not good
@@ninja.saywhatif thats scripted then this girl should get a job in Hollywood cause thats some convincing crying.
@@Umm_FLIPyou must have some serious issues if you saw that clip and not seeing that shes in pain 💀
It's the kind of education they receive.
I'm blown away by her maturity and heartbroken for her at the same time. She has so much potential, it's crazy.
If you feel that you are not good enough and must exhaust your emotional energy well-being, beyond a child's capacity you overwhelm the ego into despair and retreat. Childhood is short lived. Allow children their realm in freedom. Good enough is just fine.
Simple mind people would have missed this, but all the studying from everyday has made her this awesome with her rebuttals. A regular kid won't know how to respond this well.
Congrats to the father.
👍
@@condorX2 Totally agree with you but I also empathize with the girl because that was my experience. It is hard being a Chinese kid, we are not given a lot of play time. I hope I can have a childhood when I retire.
@@guguendeavours2521 😎👍
This is why staying single is the best in this difficult time.
No nagging, no cheating, no domestic violence, no baby cries, no diaper changes, no sleepless night, no working 3 jobs, no STD, no migraines, no upkeeps, no arguments, no child support, no custody battle, no court battle, no divorce, & no expensive one day wedding.
Just get yourself a sex toy and focus on your career.
🐨
@@condorX2 The life choices you recommend are so sterile and lonely. I hope that isn’t the road you take. Family and children will bring you much joy.
I'm almost crying watching this... Poor girl is so stressed and exhausted, it's obvious. She's not crying like a kid with tantrum, she's crying like she's in a deep mental pain. I hope her dad will listen and give her less duties and more playtime.
….China…. She probably has 3 full time jobs too
@imechko_familia: Probably not, it's not long ago that girls like her wore bandages on their feet to make their toes curl this is crippling them. Probably still do that in the mountains. Civilisation is centuries behind everything that is West of them. A masoginistic enslavement attitude prevails and if you see in her speech, she is appealing to the loved Father side of him, unfortunately it's not there.
Simply, the sooner she gets out of that hell hole the better. I wonder what their mental hospitals are like? They probably douse them up with meds and send them back to the universal slave camp called "home"
There is no balance this is extreme non-civilisation which is still today thousands of years old, meaning they are thousands of years behind.
Sure, they can build stuff and are brainy but not brainy enough to have any empathy - see China? See North Korea, it's basically the same dictatorship with zero understanding or human tolerance .
That's is why they worship Chairman Mao, and are fed such icons as: "for the people" "for China" that's why they bomb (even today) Taiwan, which is the real and true Republic of China. Supposedly.
Taiwan is a successful country with consolidated production and supply of tech and white goods and their lives and children enjoy a healthy and civilised normality compared to the red Chinese. Why do you think there are so many Chinese in the West ? Because they wanted to get the f- out off there...!!🤯
They bomb Taiwan, they fire on Tibet, and nobody knows what they are doing, they just feed their Chinese people like mushrooms.
Kept in the dark and fed on bs. I feel sorry for children like this young lady and I hope she manages to get away sometime soon.
Her father is so not worthy of such an admirable daughter. .........And, his daughter does not deserve such an ao of a crapola Father, which he is. And the saddest thing of all is that she actually loves her dad and tries to reason with him with respect that he does not deserve. I hope she finds friends and happiness and manages to get the hell out of there as soon as possible.
I wonder what the suicide rate for kids of her age is in China today. I bet you a hundred quid - they would always blame the child.
It's a sick, sick society over there. Look at The Tiananmen Square protests, massive army tanks against unarmed students, who were no doubt protesting against all of this crap themselves. But, hey, that's a Dictatorship ☮️
No wonder they are backward, they stifle natural growth.
Abused kids wont talk openly like this to her/his abuser due to trauma and fear, trust me. This is just a one smart, brilliant girl trying to talk down her daddy with her smart-ass words and superb acting off course. When you got kids, who always got excuses in thier mind, you'll know 😂
@@rmzbro2766 they do, they'll just get punished later. I hope you don't have kids
@@imechko_familia only stupid abusive parent recorded their abused kids crying and posted it online. Maybe your type of parenting.😂
The best and the greatet way to argue with parents.. I dont know why , maybe seeing her crying made my tears fall from my eyes♡.. Happy a great life sister..God bless you and your family.. >
It’s sad that she is already burnt out at such a young age. Smart, articulate and precocious, but unhappy. I hope her parents really take what she said to heart.
Very well said, you put into words what I felt while watching.
@waitingforapril nah, kids know how to send their parents on guilt trips to get what they want.
@@steve8803No, this is not the case.
Normal Asian parents or more or less chinese parents.They always get some random excuse that makes no sense to get you working or make you have no free time
dude shut up. thery arent burned out. cmon
and she's still respectful to her dad. what a gem.
goes two ways usually
Asian ☺
Yeah because she's not some American spoilt brat lol
My dad would say the way she is talking is disrespectuful just because she is talking back and arguing/argumenting.
Chinese... if she disrespect him he is gonna smack her! Absolutely common in China.
I am saddened by the distress of this child. She is clearly & politely spoken & deserves to be heard. I hope the parents get it, or they will ultimately lose her as an adult.
The last thing she said kind of could be translated to what you ended with in your comment.
Cherish my childhood or lose me as an adult
You are legally required to take care of your parents when they're old as an adult.
It will pay off in the future when she invents something that will bring glory to mother China…😂😂😂,
Thats a good father thoigh because he’s simply listening to his daughter. I give him
Props for that.
I bet if her parents understand if freedom of speech and democracy meant , in that part of the world.
Oh my God she is cutest Smartest little girl I've ever seen. How can you not love her. Father please continue to do such a good job but please award her with playtime enough to wear her feelings are not this hurt. Everyone gets emotional but these are real tears and her heart is hurting and she is actually crying to you for help. Yet she is being so respectful and having such an intelligent conversation you should be so proud. And I like the way you responded to her and let her State her case and defend herself and stand up for herself. How proud you must be and how blessed you are to have such a daughter in your life. Remember so many people will never have that in their life and it is a miracle and a blessing. And how intelligent and smart does a little girl have to be to say something about cherishing her childhood. I know you must be proud of her and I can just tell you as a total stranger I'm so impressed with that little human being. It just proves how great God is and how great people can be. Even young children. Please take care of her and find a way to continue to raise her so well without letting her get so upset. I don't think that's probably good for her but obviously it is very good for her to have discipline and structure and responsibility and direction. But as she so eloquently argues it's important that it's balanced with time to rest and recharge and play. Play is enjoying the real world and the real life and the things in this life that are the most important. And you can never enjoy them as much as you can as a child. Thank you for speaking to her with respect. You have done such a great job that is obvious. She will grow up to be a great woman with Great accomplishments I predict.
Bruh, as an Indian, I UNDERSTAND THIS GIRL...we have all gone through this. You can't bring your childhood back...let the kid play
Did you notice the chair she's sitting in?
@@davidm9618 girlie's into e sports. That's normal for a child
@@valley-girl You are from the Valley. You're an Americanized Indian.
Pressure is how success is created.
@@farzana6676not really
@@farzana6676no, it's not. I am from India only and not from any other country like America but I can assure u, if u think pressure always brings success, then I feel sorry to say that your parents are either illiterate or mildly abusive. Even a smart person can be illiterate if they don't understand what someone else feels and have old time thinking. Yes I kind of agree with you too because my cousin have been very very pressurised and beaten or scolded for small things and that is why they achieved excellence in things and now one of them is doing engineering and constantly is traveling foreign and other one is still in studying but is genius and doing something like IIT or maybe IIT only(I don't remember correctly but he is doing that or something like that) but still my mom doesn't pressurise us because she also is against this pressuring type of system and she is a govt working officer who lives away from us because of her job transfer
Holy smokes she is articulate, respectful, reasonable and logical in her explanation whilst also holding back her emotion, if my daughter put forward a case like this I would be so proud but also very upset that I haven't let her enjoy her childhood that she REALIZES she is missing out on. Bless her.
She doesn't 'holding his emotion' she is cry actually, wich is her primary weapon to get what she wants
Tu és uma cínica desgraçada.@@Player_468
@@Player_468Shes still very logical than like most kids
sure, she is an intelligent kid for sure@@natedebate3926
@@Player_468Alright, well, since you're clearly a robot or something, I feel like I should let you know, as a human, we experience emotions and sometimes they even appear outwardly! Wow, crazy concept, I know.
She’s better than most adults at self awareness and communication 😅
Great job standing up for yourself! It takes confidence and self-respect to assert your needs clearly. You handled the situation with maturity, and that kind of assertiveness is inspiring!
She sure has straightened matters out between her and her Dad without being disrespectful. A very successful and respectful woman she’s going to be in the future.
MEN ALWAYS LIKE TO CRUSH THE SPIRIT OF A WOMAN, IF IT WAS A GUY YOU WOULD NEVER WRITE THIS COMMENT
Only if he listens otherwise she will not survive puberty as a normal person or even with her life...
@@bshrfulwhy do you think that men like to crush spirit of a woman?
Her Dad will continue to disrespect her and she will leave home as soon as she can.
@@dharmachile999you don’t know that do u?
You know, even when highly emotional, it's incredible how coherent, articulate and respectful this child is. Such level of communication is rare, even in adults
Prob because of all of the studying she has to do
@@haengihorsetheonewhocancoo8855😂
Bro i would Just lost it a billion times , that kid is golden. For fuck sake it hurts.😢
Look how calm the dad is. She's probably so we'll spoken and respectful even when frustrated because she never got spanked or beat by her parents
@@CocoaPuffssbut they still feel the need to pressure her and say that they don't
That’s heartbreaking to see her cry like that. It should not get to the point that the child has a breakdown like this. This cannot be the first time that she has expressed her need for a break and time to play.
Exactly, the girl needs a hug
Heartbreaking it's to lose a childs for this crazy world, she's amazing because their parents it's amazing as well.
I grew up the same. In China you cannot play for too long. If you do, you get left behind. We are too many, the competition is too strong. If you rest and play for too long, somebody else who doesn't and has greater resilience towards studying will get ahead, while you'll be left behind. As much as I remember feeling the same like this little girl during my childhood, I would not allow my children to play for too long either if I was still living in China. There the gov doesn't help you, one doesn't have the security felt in the westen countries, you are basically on your own. It better be a well trained "your own", otherwise you don't stand a chance in chinese society. Most people in the west will not educate their children like that. I'm not doing it either since my kids are growing in the west. But if I was living in China, no matter how much my kids would cry for free time, they will only have the free time that I allow, and that will be very little by my own understanding of what constitutes success in China. I know that later on my kids will not get ahead in life because of the free time they've had, but because of the work they had to do. It's a rigged system, you can't rest for too long, if you don't play the game, work and excell, you will get nowhere in China. Outside of China there is more freedom and one can do what one wants, inside of China there is no freedom and you will do as you're told, regardless of how much you cry. This is what my dad told me when I was little. So then I reasoned I wanted no longer to live in China. Now I enjoy more freedom and my children do too! People from the west who see this clip must understand that this girl's situation is common place for almost every child educated in Chinese society. The way the gov rules the country is the same way we rule over our children. They scrictly must obey, or else... A sad system I would say, now that I know any different.
@@wangxiaoming8989it's quite sad to hear that, but at least it gives some context to the video. We don't know much about the Chinese society, after all so we can't really judge the parents for being strict when we live in a different country.
@@mynameiseden6127I’m a Chinese student. While the person above is right about the education system in China, I just want to say that the parents are still strict. But sadly it’s normalised because people are forced to be this way so their children can survive in our society. But just because we live in a different environment doesn’t mean that things always have to be this way and are right to be this way. You can have free time, what truly matters is the time management. And I believe a good mind comes with a balance between work and rest. The parents are still strict, but yes, there is a good reason to it, and I don’t see that things would change in the next few decades…
Love it! I hope she continues to have that fighting spirit throughout her life.
I am AWESTRUCK by this little girl's profound understanding of her situation and her ability to articulate her ordeal so well. Kids should be allowed MORE PLAYTIME, let them enjoy their childhood!
Her story is a reminder that even the youngest voices can spark change and inspire greatness.
No not really, she is just copying her mother. Its a chinese family after all.
@Linogewillkillallofy lmao she clearly knows what she's going through wtf are you talking about and she's very articulate as well. I doubt her mom asks for more time to play instead of doing homework. No clue what them being Chinese has to do with her talking to her dad about this, you don't know what you're talking about
@@Linogewillkillallofy Ok whitey....
@@Linogewillkillallofywhy would articulating her ordeal well have to do with copying her mom, and what does a chinese family have to do with that..?
@@Linogewillkillallofy Lol, actually you do not even know if she has a mother and just assume, retards.
“Please treasure our childhood days” what a very mature girl for her age.
This is absolutely not a genuine dialogue. The attention seeking is getting out of hand for parents to be making their kids act like this.
As a 42 year old that hit hard
@@platinumdynamiteat first I was gonna say you were misinformed. But these are exactly the type of contents Chinese consume regularly in their own country. There's some truth to your statement; they may be faking these interactions. Since the younger generation is very capable of expressing their words and actions, and talented (as the little girl we saw here in this video)
'Treasure the childhood days' she says, more better to just go play outside and make friends, that's how you treasure your real life childhood days
@@platinumdynamite it is true content and not a set up. If it was a set up you can give that 9 year old girl or however old she is an oscar to be able to act like that at her age. But me knowing how strict chinese parents are i understand their education is very high too
What a wise child. I'm sorry she has to go through that pressure. "Not even a robot could do it".
It's staged
@@francy3643 How is it staged? Not even a Hollywood actor can pull that off. Wtf are you talking about about
@@francy3643 🤓
@@Godhead111 😂 right
She’s that wise BECAUSE of the restrictions her father has put on her and implements in her life. It may be seen as cruel but it’s what will save her from most of the dumb mistakes her peers will make in their future.
She is absolute right
Give her time to be a kid
She keeps up with everything
She deserves to be a kid
I cry every time I see this
She is so stressed. As a teacher myself I think you should take it easy on her. All work and no play makes her dull. She’s so brave for speaking boldly and sternly.
Females are born great at complaining, nothing surprising. If she was a boy, this video wouldn't have been made, the father wouldn't risk evidence being found of his abuse.
@@robertnoble7554 Females might be as you believe but not all females would speak up about how they feel so give this little girl some attention she did greatly.
@@zizi-yo Majority of women would or girls or children to be accurate, I wish it wasn't so but it's nature (Self defense mechanism), only a few would wouldn't so why would I want to praise them when they are the outliers?
If there's someone I'm praising here is the teacher/parents they trained her well, she learned logic really well.
Ngl I need u in my school
@@robertnoble7554 where I come from.. majority of these girls won’t speak up because of fear of being scolded. They suffer in silence and build hate towards the parent in return. It goes two ways. So allow me to shower this girl with praises for her bravery.
This little girl broke my heart with her brilliant negotiating skills, impressive respect and emotional honesty. She will be a force for good as an adult.
Not in China she won't. It's a Communist dictatorship. She's screwed, that's all they want is robots.
Not in that country.
This comment is pretty naive. I would make a pretty big bet with you she will end up emotionally broken and NOT a good person because of her overly strict upbringing. (If what she says is true)
This is not negotiating. She is pleading, begging for some time for herself. If this continues, as somebody says above, it will end up very badly for her
She knows what is important.
Girl says it right "Whatever you are asking of me, even a robot couldn't do it. Even if I had 8 hands, I couldn't do it. And you still say you don't put much pressure on me." - class act from this young lady
The way she said it I can tell she picked up from her mother. 😃 The phrase "Even if I had 8 hands I couldn't do it" is popularily used to express the unrealistic expectation.
Kids in China are just mentally different fr
This translated is wrong 😂
@@Blocblox_12They are
This is no class act. A lot of children in China are forced to uphold very very strict routines, especially if you are a girl there. They say in china you earn your parents love when you are done university, and then they cling to you forever, but it's already too late by then
This girl is a treasure and very responsible already i hope her parents understand her ❤
What an emotionally intelligent girl , made her point better than most adults
Oh yeah... Because she could speak... I doubt 70% of adults had this "Free speech" to a father, without making things worse.
It's not because of one action that makes her the miss perfection, the goddess of speech... The humiliator of bad parenthood.
You're too weak to understand general minds, in a vast way of topics. Box minded i should say it.
Its like people who are deficient... They cant do what majority "can" so why some of them reach great goal? Because of the STRONG support, parents, people donating, school students that respect, schools that also support them with guaranteed colleges, monetary help...
Now a non deficient person? Who parents doesn't care, who doesn't have much friends or cant even make friends duo to personality difficulties, who were born in a poor city, who get bullied or lonely at school, who ideas are always dismissed.
It's not one, it is most of them... Have a good day Box minded
Meantime in USA and EU , parents beg children not to curse them , spit them , and do whatever the fuck they want ! -
@@jwag301 Finally, someone sensible in the comments. Imagine buckling to child logic as a responsible, competent adult.
@@jwag301 Low standards? Says the person with couple hundred views on their pathetic TH-cam channel. And you think you are any more superior than her? Judging by your TH-cam channel, you spend and awful lot of time on games. You don't know what it's like to have your free time restricted. You don't know what other people are going through, and certainly have no right to label her speaking skills as ideocracy.
@@blckknight117 how is that child logic tho. She was right, she completed her responsibilities, why can’t she play? She’s a child, they’re supposed to play. I bet you’re one of those parents that say shit like “cause I said so” when you don’t have a valid answer. Children are people too and they are allowed to want things.
I’m saying this as a former child, current adult, that wasn’t allowed to have fun because my mom “said so”. Couldn’t even ride my bike around the block without the miserable fuck making up some bs for me to do just to keep me in the house and unhappy.
She's a sweetheart. She speaks up for herself very well, even whilst emotional. She's a great kid. Her father is extremely lucky to have her as a daughter. She deserves her playtime!
She is lucky to have him as a father. She will be thankful later.
Where do you think she got her manners and way of thinking from? I bet the parents taught her well.
She already got her playtime. But she wanted more.
@@RapidReveal541 exactly
@@dudelonyshe’s lucky not having you as father or brother
Just the way she speaks tells us a lot about the type of education and raising she's receiving. She is probably a brilliant kid, playing a little after her school work and basic chores are done should be a given. She's earned it! How is she supposed to know she's doing good if there are no rewards?
@@vivekthakur9505 here it is, another disrespectful person who can't pay respects and pretend to know everything
@@vivekthakur9505 lmao😭
@@vivekthakur9505 i agree with you. Its a different culture and they have different views on how to raise their children and people should respect that and trust the process.
@@basilkhalili9312 yes because us as a society raising our children to be future slaves to work for money and for the government to collect such money. We are slaves to our government and taxes is how they are paid
@@sir3668 you haven't seen the ground reality of China and their job culture , so with due respect STFU. Either you accomodate as per the situation or you change the environment of the country (which evryone knows isn't that possible in china, as they kill you). I can't do anything to change China's economy system or job culture. Their people have to fight on their own. & You should understand that people of China know the job culture there that's why they are forcing their children like that even when they didn't want to. I bet you, that her father isn't too happy about it either. Everyone loves their offspring , you aren't a special kind hearted person. ,😮💨. I don't understand why people like you think , you are better than others.
Chinese culture parenting style on education is another level. It's not for the faint-hearted. I've witnessed it firsthand. Every time you see Chinese kids excelling on any subjects especially maths, it's this level of discipline. This girl . . . 😥
Not all.. my parents just give me good genes and now I’m good at math while having to do almost nothing. My parents are always caring and kind. 😅 although I know some Chinese parents are really rude and strict, I believe that just because of one girl doesn’t mean every kid that’s Asian or Chinese is treated that way.
@@flamespeng48Asian parents are famous for pushing their kids too much.
You are the exception maybe
I just love how this girl is talking like an adult, and respectfully tryna sort the situation🤌😭
She does not talk like an adult, because adults who talk like that are rare, very rare.
It's so convenient! Like you don't even have to raise her! Just focus on work, study, and discipline. If she jumps off a roof or something just make another one! So convenient!
although she can only talk and reason like that because of how she was raised (ironically). the issue is the father went overboard. the detriment is stress/overwork.
@@JuliaBl chill no need to get mad over a comment😭
This kid spoke for all kids all over the world , she deserves an own movement.
Not for the ones in usa, they really control their parents.
Sorry to say that but please no more movements, they are actually doing nothing (good).
@@userbunny Maybe true.
Not one listen to chinese kids. They are brainwashed by Red Chinese communist fake news
The ones in the west can learn from this. They get way to much free time.
This little girl is so mature, my heart breaks for her. People stop putting too much pressure on your kids, you will lose them when they are older. Build a relationship of trust, love, and respect
Pre-mature. She should enjoy childhood instead
@@martinepeters9891 that is literally what she is asking to do. She wants to play...
Problem is that, when real life struck you(depression) might get you when you are given too much freedom
@@mylaw7337 again, no one mentioned too much freedom. She just wants to play after finishing all her responsibilities. You can tell she definitely does not even have "basic freedom", let alone "too much" freedom
American kids needs better parenting and education! They don't talk like this wonderful girl.
This girl is wise beyond her years. "Treasure the childhood years." Like what adult says that, let alone child. And the whole time she's very respectful. Dad, please appreciate this gift of a child you have.
She's doing a good job raising those parents
Hurrr hurrr durr durr.
This is sad buddy. Not funny.
@@ct-gt2dthe meant that if the girl grew up she'll be a great parent
faming old comment?
@@Communistsfsplayer no he meant that the girl is raising her parents
Lmao the commentor knows what yoy meant and doesn't agree there is anything funny here. That girl is going to end up lying flat or whatever it will be called by then.
The stress this beautiful girl is under isn't fair and she made very valid points. Completely heartbreaking 💔
Hard times make strong people
how do you know how much stress she is under?
how can you distinguish that from emotional manipulation (i.e. crying in order to get what she wants). The dad does not seem to shout at her... and going to bed at 9pm at her age isn't an unreasonable demand from him at all...
@@panda4247she’s not crying to get her way. I can understand her frustration, that’s what made her cry. She isn’t complaining about going to bed at 9, she wants to have more play time and a little less work time and I think that’s totally okay!
@@I_YELL_ALOTShe was not asking for less work, but the ability to spend more of her free time playing. Her father wanted to control the number of hours she spent playing.
Even her father admitted that she has been a good girl. Her father wanted her to be the perfect girl.
This girl would make me a very proud father.
@@panda4247 1 answer: she is ASIAN
She really put a lot of thought into this and probably waited for the right time and to get up the nerve to finally say it, and she made sure to say it all. She didn't attack him personally, she didn't resort to name calling or demands. She simply stated her case, in a clear, concise and eloquent way. I can't see any other outcome than father granting daughter more time for play.
You should meet Chinese parents.....
"And they all lived happily ever after." 💀
You said it right! That is so true. . . Wonder if she just went to bed after this.. warm bed welcome after a resounding argument victory!
@@mercipolitely1634 This wasn't abut bed time
She did ask very manipulative questions
An Intelligent smart kid. Don’t understand why the parents don’t see it. A good n responsible also sensible girl. Bravo for speaking up!!!! Dad should apologize for making her cry n giving her stress!!!
For someone from a very strict CHINESE PARENTS, the bravery it takes to stand ground and articulate is extremely exceptional. She is already better than half the wolrd
Ok bitch I lived in china for 6 fucking years and what did we do? Most of the kids would go fucking play outside like FOR LIKE 5h ON A WEEK DAY I think she is a spoiled shit head yes they do over work there kids but USA does the same fucking thing yk so you don’t know nothing
she obviously has an amazing dad. he's listening and finds pride and amusement in her articulate plea for more video game time.
@humanbean3 it's also very evident with her too
No, it's wrong. She will get in trouble if she continues being outspoken like that. Dissidents are dangerous entities in China so they'll either end in jail or die before their time. Parents don't want that and children don't know any better
I’m grateful I’m not Chinese
Well, she has mastered communication.
She has a bright future.
How to communicate with people is the most underrated part of your life when you're in your adult age.
Congratulations to her parents on raising such a good daughter. I hope they give their daughter some free-time she deserves it.
Not to mention she is explaining her feelings in the right way that doesn’t demonize the other person! Not even every adult knows that. She is telling how SHE feels and why it's not right.
"I have studied, I do well, I feel like I've earned free time, I should have free time as a kid" instead of blaming the other person.
Yeah she's a brilliant kid and I wish her all the best, potentially she has a bright future from my own exp it won't happen unless the parents change their behaviours.
@Darbin unfortunately she will most likely be dead by the time she is 16.
This is why I tell people to stop reproducing. Life is tough, be compassionate towards your unborn children and let them be free in a state of non-existence.
Well, the father do not look very impressed.
Even when she feels bad or sad, she is still respectful.
WHOA HOLD UP! SLOW DOWN!! That child clearly is 100% aware of what’s going on! Most kids her age don’t even know knowledge like this. It’s ridiculous and sad that the dad doesn’t even realize how much stress she can no longer take. He has no clue at all bro
And now these parents call them self “parenting”😅 in China most parents are disappear in mental
Health they don’t care about their kids feelings so this girl is very strong, I’m Chinese and I could tell you all the shitty craps I seen in Chinese media post bro. That’s why I hate some people in my community it’s such a burden to take
she’s well aware of the unrealistic expectations her parents and society have on her. she’s reasoning so logically with her dad despite sobbing that not only has she completed all her work, but that she’s a good girl ALL the time. she knows her worth and the effort she puts in. i wish for her to never allow herself to get treated badly. she’s a bright one.
For real and for sure.
Yep, kids in china have it very hard.
For the whole asian kids
Why share on the internet and not keep in privacy
She's more mature than her dad could ever be.
When she said, "Please treasure our childhood days." That hit hard
she only said that because shes beyond her childhood in responsibility and just wants to play a game.
She is totally right. The parents should cherish their childhood the only thing wrong here she should also cherish her parents because they won’t be there anymore when she needs them.
@@artix444 the parents can’t cherish “their” childhood any longer because they have grown out of their childhood! They can only cherish their daughter’s childhood while still being a child!
@@rpach3023 and how would you know?
@@vortex162 yeah i meant the daughter.
I’m heartbroken that she’s been brought to this in the first place. “What you’re asking of me, even a robot couldn’t do!” Man ran his daughter into the ground like a machine until it broke down in tears. Poor little sweetling. 💔
Fortunately this child is capable of expressing herself…I think she will be fine if their parents work a bit more on themselves.
But unfortunately, How many kids because of how shitty the parents are and/or the shitty job the parents do in raising their kids turn out to be either shit scared to share their feelings and keep bottling it up OR become rebellious and start turning violent…just look at society..it shows up in so many ugly ways in their teenage and adulthood.
If you one to become a parent, be a 1st class human being. Get a PHD with 1st class honours in that. Not even 2nd class upper. If not, don’t mess up lives.
nowadays kids' lives are basically school, tuition, homework, repeat. sure there are some parents who are lenient but even then i don't think it's enough bc one worksheet for homework is what, 15 pages? for math in my country at least.
this girl deserves to rest :((
I think. she is not crying because of pressure. she is crying because he stopped him from playing games. I used to do same like her hahah.
these days Chinese schools focus completely of children's wellbeing. they probably have one child. parents and grandparents. totally six people caring and spoiling. where do you think, she get the reasoning and courage in first place?
@@arjunc4759I am an autistic person who really struggled with communication and my aunt and uncle who raised me in the place of my dead parents were narcissists who never listened to me and insisted they were always right and the one time I proved them wrong they threw me away like a piece of trash and left me to die without the slightest remorse
@@aguirainternational8289you think she spoiled? I think it's pretty obvious both from the father and the little girl that her breakdown is very genuine and not just a tantrum
She has courage to stand up for herself. So do us
She’s really brave for confronting her father, and was so expressive with her words. She made him understand how distressed she is. I hope she got the rest she needs.
Its a meltdown... Sometime kids nowadays more struggle in studies.. im also studying rn, the pressure is no joke as asian
I'd be interested to see a boy react this way to his father. I don't think the father would have as much compassion.
@@michael43567 Iam sure he'll send him(his son)to God.😅
@@sriharshavarma3891 yep. Don't wanna turn this into a pity party for men, but when we're younger we just gotta suck it all up; suffer in silence. Crocodile tears don't work.
Before the age of 23 I was disrespected by any & everyone because I was easy-going. Parents, siblings, cousins, coaches, teachers, driving instructors, managers, bus drivers, customers.
Nobody cared because I was a boy, I had to tough it out. I guess it's worked out in the end because I'm extremely resilient, but I developed it from trauma.
@@michael43567yeah man,it's unfortunate in some cases.
Hope you're having a purposeful and happy Life.
I'm surprised how competently this child speaks. She expresses her thoughts so well and clearly and makes strong arguments that even her father cannot answer normally.
Prob has very high IQ. Genius IQ babies for example can read textbooks by age 1, so puts things into perspective of how smart brains can present itself as maturity in children
@@babynugget706 you mean high EQ?
@@michaelu8474 Nah I meant IQ. IQ is a measure of basically learning rate. People with higher IQ will learn things quicker. Doesn't mean they are better but it is what it is.
Genius Babies which have very high IQ learn speech and even reading at a very quick rate. Imagine being able to retain a piece of information the first time you've read it, or remember exactly how to pronounce a word after only hearing it a few times or even once.
This girl probably doesn't have genius IQ, but the fact that she can articulate and form these types of arguments at her age shows that she is probably higher intelligence than the average of her age... which is how they actually measure IQ. It is based on the average of your age group.
eq is a bullshit metric, iq is real, predicts outcomes when controlling for everything else, proven across the planet, improves with better nutrition and after that 80%+ of the difference among people is due to difference in genes, unfortunately this cuts across ethnicities too. asians have larger brains than whites who have larger brains than blacks, predictable results@@michaelu8474
It’s because of the translation between English and Chinese, there has to be 0 grammatical errors for an output to be used for captions, even if you have to rephrase sentences.
“Please, treasure our childhood days!” Wow!! I can take lessons from her on how to express my feelings without argument.
The idyllic childhood is a myth. Nobody actually has a childhood like the ones portrayed in media, same for relationships. It's all lies. I have NEVER ever met anyone who had the "perfect" childhoods or relationships that exist in the fantasy world of the media. I'm saying this as a person over 50. Life is all struggle against adversity for everyone. You get what you get, and you struggle and fight to try to get the rest of what you want. Some are lucky, most are not. In the end the only way to be happy is to be satisfied with what you have and what you were able to achieve/acquire.
No kids will say that, this is staged
@@Anacaona4 and then grow to be fucked up and alone in the end. It takes proper education and self discipline to be a caring and patient parent. Lest your kids end up in the gutter or worse.
@@thn4296 im not as eloquent as that girl but i did that too. I even speak about my mental illness and they thought i was doing a stand up comedy lmao. You, you must be live in a 1st world country, aren't you? Either that or you have been granted by a ridiculously easy going parent.
@@thn4296 if this is stage she deserves an Oscar to be able to act so well and remember so much
Bless this darling child
I teared listening to this. They both did very well listening to each other. Both are enduring societal constraints and a work-centered culture. Her Dad is only trying his best and lost sight of the openness, imagination, and curiosity that is abundant in childhood. Perhaps he had a rigid upbringing too. I hope they both remain close ❤
her dad literally took out his fucking phone and recorded his kid crying. what an amazing dad and hes trying his best!! /s
@@rirism. and ur point??
@@abubakaralidahir1430 the point is bad parenting, omg learn to read.
@Phoebe's Convenience I second this
Her dad was terrible, no way can defending that. Even when she cried and reason with him for his wrong, he still arrogant and said something like "don't play too long" or "its better if you keep it up" instead of just fucking admit his mistake like someone with maturity.
That little girl has it spot on. "How about you try it?" The one that got me was "please treasure our childhood days". I know that one from experience, once that time has passed, it is gone forever. Kudos to that brilliant little child. I hope Dad is listening, and hearing what she is saying. 👍👍👏👏👏👏👏👏
well his dad too has gone from that stage so
How did she learn that? Her Dad.
Why do you think they do it they clearly have
That father is extremely nice and patient. If I said these words, my parents would definitely come up with “treasure your childhood and waste your time playing will make you a failure as an adult”
@@fvnt0miix953 yeah, strongly support your parents' statement, with 1.4 billion Chinese competing for a high end job, they wont allow people who dont study hard in young age to excel when they are grown up. Honestly speaking, even Hong Kong high end job is now being occupied by a certain portion of mainland china elite graduates from the western university.
This little girl's logic, reasoning and discipline are all incredible. Shes got a bright future ahead.
No. She is very smart. It's hard to be happy when you are so smart
@@zhaw4821 I agree with you. But I think she still has a bright future ahead.
@@percyvolnar8010
I hope so. She may reach the next step up and be a philosopher. Then, she can find contentment, no matter what
She's got a bright future ahead ... says nothing about the fact that she is literally balling her eyes out crying... I'm pretty sure that's exactly what her dad's thinking
@@joshuaradloff1070 And you should keep your mouth shut on this topic because you dont punish your own children enough. Its the reason why America or its people are no match for China and better learn to kiss Chinese ass very quickly. lol
I hope to raise a girl child this smart and assertive. She's the most intelligent child I've ever seen.
It's so heartbreaking to see little children being forced to do things beyond their capabilities. I'm so glad she was able to voice her concerns, and how she was feeling to her dad.
The father ain’t gonna care
the thing is it's precisely the parents and their pressure that made it possible for her to be so articulate. It's like children of single parents, they often tend to be more mature, not because they are so, but they just kinda have to be so because of the situation. I am assuming her parents probably often use this reasonings to when telling her she couldn't do this or that, so she picked up that you have to have a good reason to be able to do what you want.
Looool, this is Asian parenting. Now when you're finished crying, get back to studying.
how do you know how much stress she is under?
how can you distinguish that from emotional manipulation (i.e. crying in order to get what she wants). The dad does not seem to shout at her... and going to bed at 9pm at her age isn't an unreasonable demand from him at all...
Bro is annoyed 💀💀💀
She seems like she’s 9-10 and is still mature as ever, I’m stunned that she had confidence to say all this
girls get maturity way before than their actual age
I know right! EQ off the charts for her age!
Parents stole her childhood -like in most chinese families with high expectations for their children's future-@@BetaPhish
She wasn’t mature enough to check the laws obviously. She’s doing something illegal
@@SauceageKing the parents wouldn’t have let her to play even a little bit more, she probably only had like 30 mins
I think many people don't even understand the layers of how big a deal this is for a child in China, at that age, to express herself so articulately - WHILE going against her parents. This child is exceptional and I hope society does not crush that out of her.
She will be a CEO someday and making massive cash due to her strict loving parents. The people in Europe and the West could learn lots from this.
man, I wish your kids still contact with you when they grow up, you better prey for that miracle.
@@johnvader8458 who really cares My job is to make them successful after that my job is done how they feel about that I don't really care.
@@rockyjohnson9243Them being CEO is more of a luck thing, and how are you to tell if your kids WANT to be CEO, they can want to be anything they want. Please stop dictating your kids and let them free to learn new things.
@@backtobackcosmicflash well when my kid is your boss or your kids boss which is quite likely since they both received scholarship to university in the USA. Don't say I didn't tell you so. They also finished HS 1 year early thx to the hard work.
Omg... It broke my hard... How much this innocent kid is pressurised 😢😢😢
Wow. Natural born leader. It’s great seeing she can reasonably and respectfully speak her mind and her needs while in distress, at her young age. She didn’t even throw a tantrum, she used her words. I’m also glad the father allowed her to speak her mind and he listened and gave his feedback. That’s great parenting as well.
I agree with you, except for the "great" parenting. The whole reason for her monologue....
This child is in distress and in pain.
I hope she becomes the president in China and then make China a better place
Great parenting r u out of your mind u must be deluded she needs a flipping rest and playtime she needs her childhood or she will be mentally affected when she grows up and have problems. And as she said she’s not a robot and not even a robot can do that and doesn’t have 8 hands
This is heartbreaking and she’s so articulate, let the poor girl be a kid.
She wont be a kid forever ... and winter is commin ...
@@terminaldeity damn son, that’s a sad life you have there 🙏🏼 chin up
Sorry, no. This is the life of a Chinese. Just be glad she's not slaving away for pennies to make the iPhone you posted this on.
Feel bad for now but don't worry, once you click away you won't have to feel bad anymore but she and her countryfolk will continue to make your "made in china" goods 😀
Damn some parents are soft
Lmao. Her parents are exactly the reason she’s acting so mature. I’d rather have her parents than some parents giving the kid an iPad and not caring about and not giving a fuck about the child. She surely will be grateful to them, when she’ll be the one studying in a good university and having lots of skills.
The kid definitely put up a good case and argued with very valid reasons. Hope the father gives her some space.
A flawless argument presented with such passion, I am sure the father is more than convinced to come to some kind of a compromise.
But the father wants her to be a scientist. Not a stupid lawyer!
@@BSnicksLawyers make HUGE BANK. I dont see why he wouldnt want that
@@iforgortheassignment4574 Names of scientists go into the history books. Names of lawyers never do.
She would never be like that if she wasn`t treated as a person with its own duties and obligations.
The argument skills depicted by the girl are simply results of harsh parenting. Every child learns it when raised strictly. I relate to this girl so much. I'm from India and if I dare argue like this with my parents, well, you could say it wouldn't end up well for me. I'm not criticizing my parents, they truly are wonderful, but sometimes I feel like they never understand me.