Girl in China reasons with dad for more play time
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- A video of a schoolgirl in China pleading with her father for more play time outside of studying has gone viral.
In tears, she lamented about her plight, saying “even a robot” couldn’t handle what is expected of her. Many Chinese social media users praised the girl for speaking eloquently
Here's an excerpt of what transpired between the girl and her father.
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If she continues this way, she will raise good parents.
lol
You sir made me laugh like crazy in office 😂
where is the laugh button?
@@rishabhsrivastava1241 stop watching yt in the office!
lmaoo
I can't even argue like that at 32,what a talented kid
True! Same here.
Said the same thing lol. When i do my brain farts then i say forget it. 😂
@@yolpie20 lol bro you made my day 🤣
For real though. With my 'short term memory loss' combined with my fear of confrontation AND lack of argumenting skills, I could never pull off what she just did. Not to mention the fact that she was lecturing her own father! The balls this kid must have. She's totally in the right though.
😂
“Please treasure our childhood days” what a very mature girl for her age.
This is absolutely not a genuine dialogue. The attention seeking is getting out of hand for parents to be making their kids act like this.
As a 42 year old that hit hard
@@platinumdynamiteat first I was gonna say you were misinformed. But these are exactly the type of contents Chinese consume regularly in their own country. There's some truth to your statement; they may be faking these interactions. Since the younger generation is very capable of expressing their words and actions, and talented (as the little girl we saw here in this video)
'Treasure the childhood days' she says, more better to just go play outside and make friends, that's how you treasure your real life childhood days
@@platinumdynamite it is true content and not a set up. If it was a set up you can give that 9 year old girl or however old she is an oscar to be able to act like that at her age. But me knowing how strict chinese parents are i understand their education is very high too
I almost cried when her dad said "you've been good lately" and she said "lately?". She was so hurt by that.
Burnout after burnout after burnout with no relief. Mental illness in the end
This is most Chinese parents do to kids .shame!
💔🥺
I can feel that she's exhausted. It'a like she've done everything everyday to make her parents happy yet it wasnt enough for them
i actually did.
Good lord, that is one aware, intelligent, assertive, wise, articulate, tactful, creative little girl!
How amazing!!!
U too
Idk why the focus is on her smartness rather than the situation of hers and majority of the children
She’s that intelligent because of how her parents raised her: always learning and talking to adults such as teachers. That’s why many Asians use this technique to raise their children, even if it seems abusive to western people. But that’s how you create well taught children. The father in this clip probably wanted her to do something else than gaming such as playing outside, a hobby or sports etc. Or he was a jerk and wanted her to study 24/7… which is abusive
@@truehappiness4Uhe wanted to give her extra homework
Poor kid. How hard as she worked to enable someone at that age to express her pain so succinctly.
She's stressed already: poor thing.
My thoughts exactly. Poor thing is all work and no play. My heart goes out to her. There's a reason why they put suicide nets around work building windows in china.
What else can you expect from a Country like China? This is why America and all western countries are the best places to live in. Period!! People here who complain all the time about how difficult it is 😂 should be sent to China or Korea. To make them realise how lucky they are to be Americans.
Nope thats a linient asian parent, if thats typical asian family, that kid would not even continie to speak for 10 seconds.... SLAP!
@@Ranger-ly5qf no
She's doing a good job raising those parents
Hurrr hurrr durr durr.
This is sad buddy. Not funny.
@@ct-gt2dthe meant that if the girl grew up she'll be a great parent
Pushing your child past the breaking point to tears is so sad. Let children be children. She’s so wise for her age.💕
That mentality makes you weak. She will thank him when old.
She feels like an adult who goes back in time and relives her childhood
For real, almost made me think I might be an NPC in an OI/isekai novel... 😆
@@rukiakuchiki5136 dang, i just think the same
Fr
I had the same thought!
What a nice description!
“Treasure our childhood days”. What a great quote from a kid. Love her.
Simple mind people would have missed this, but all the studying from everyday has made her this awesome with her rebuttals. A regular kid won't know how to respond this well.
Congrats to the father.
😂
It means that when she gets the chance, she's going to leave the house...
@@condorX2 you can congratulation him, but when she's able she will leave and never talk to him again. This is abusive. Chinese parents are finding their kids immigrate and never return because of THIS behaviour
@@lifeasrini Is this your opinion or your inner predator priest opinion? I'm with ok with both 😉
@@condorX2 lol this is more .."my parents were like that and I don't speak to them ever" foreshadowing 😁😉
"It is all for your own good" is the one phrase that ruined most childhoods...
She made me cry...
Her reasoning is perfect.
Intelligence is exceptional.
Give her a ( little) break.
You got a wonderful child❤❤❤❤.
This girl is so articulate with her reasoning. She shows such discipline and intelligence at her age. I hope she gets her well-deserved free time. The fact that she recognises she needs free time and that she should cherish her childhood is so mature.
I just hope she feels better and stops crying.
@@tonytravels2494she needs hugs
Yeah because she's not some American spoilt brat lol
You get free time when you doctor now 😂😂😂😂😂
She has already been targeted by comunist goverment
“Please treasure our childhood days”. That says it all.
Very profound. And as adults, we become so cynical. I wish we could keep the innocence of kids, man.
By 18, you already know she’s going no contact pronto stat
Then go out and play.
OUR .
That broke my heart
She’s right. Well done for standing up for yourself. I totally understand you are stressed.
Damn. The emotions.... GIVE THAT SWEET BABY GIRL EVERYTHING 😭😭😭🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️❤️
"In order to study at all, I also need my rest." the girl has a point there
Girl has a point everywhere.
You want to rest? then turn off the pc and go to bed. Or I will cut the house electricity until morning. Playing on a pc is not resting. LoL.
@@ShadowlordDiodepends on which kinda games too, don't be so stiff.
@@Zeratsu that's what a gamer would say and I am a gamer. I finished Skyrim. Cyberpunk. GtaV. I know what iam talking about. The eye strain and brain that has no sleep is not a joke. This kids need someone to stop them. You know it. Don't deny truth
@@ShadowlordDioshe isn’t being treated well at all. No girl that young should be able to sound that mature. That’s a kid being pushed way too hard
Bruh, as an Indian, I UNDERSTAND THIS GIRL...we have all gone through this. You can't bring your childhood back...let the kid play
Did you notice the chair she's sitting in?
@@davidm9618 girlie's into e sports. That's normal for a child
@@valley-girl You are from the Valley. You're an Americanized Indian.
Pressure is how success is created.
@@farzana6676not really
@@farzana6676no, it's not. I am from India only and not from any other country like America but I can assure u, if u think pressure always brings success, then I feel sorry to say that your parents are either illiterate or mildly abusive. Even a smart person can be illiterate if they don't understand what someone else feels and have old time thinking. Yes I kind of agree with you too because my cousin have been very very pressurised and beaten or scolded for small things and that is why they achieved excellence in things and now one of them is doing engineering and constantly is traveling foreign and other one is still in studying but is genius and doing something like IIT or maybe IIT only(I don't remember correctly but he is doing that or something like that) but still my mom doesn't pressurise us because she also is against this pressuring type of system and she is a govt working officer who lives away from us because of her job transfer
I think a lot of parents would trade both their children for one like her. She is simply awesome. Parents should be proud of the quality of pushback too!
我觉得父母应该为他们毁了自己孩子而承担责任，他们没资格换任何其它孩子。
This little girl seems to have good points and is asking respectfully, Bless her. I hope she gets some down time for herself .
"Lately? I've been a good girl every day". That sums up her rightful, rational argument, presented respectfully. BRAVO ❤
But one day she has been a bad girl for sure, I can tell because my “angle” sister has been terrible but only ever so rarely
My 小妹妹 came with FACTS! I felt her indignation!
I thought her best argument was "How about you try it"
@@rhys1564好可爱😂
That part had me clapping for her, don't let the tears fool you....She'll make a great litigator TODAY🫶🏾🥰🫶🏾
Sadly not every parents will understand this. Some parents will always think they are right and ignore the kids feelings just cuz they are kids
-written by a kid
seriously tho it actually sucks to not have alot of fun, even with the pandemic fun still exists
I hate that this is true
I did not expect mayrushart to comment on this video, but yeah happy new year for those reading this, and may 2023 be a good one
That'll eventually bleed into adulthood too, my mother still thinks she's superior to the kids in our family and it's a big reason why I don't speak to her anymore. There's no equal with her.
Bro stfu ? How many kids do you have ?
I love her. What a spirited little gem.
I appreciate the dad, she wouldn’t be so wise if he didn’t raise her like this but I also feel a little more play time wouldn’t be so bad.
her father is a b*stard 🤡🤡
mb she was raised by her mother or she herself, considering how much she studies.
She’s so self-aware and polite. I wish grown adults were like this
Don't you mean american kids ??
@@user-tm2uc1pf4iboth
Chinese kids sound so annoying like adult
@@user-tm2uc1pf4i I mean, I’m not familiar with American kids but sure. Not just adults yk. I specifically said adults cuz heck, nowadays very few of them know how to communicate.
Few can communicate because their heads are always down texting to someone. They don’t have conversations using their mouths anymore and many have penmanship of a small child.
It's heartbreaking the stress and pressure she is under at such a young age. Her life is already painful and she's just a kid.
Sucks to be forced to live up to parents desires. Knowing that true success isn't even from working.
Meanwhile in the west kids don’t know there are two genders and they are at a 2nd grade reading level in middle school.
You because of the patriarch of white men or something like that
@@williamobando9967 it doesn't have to be that extreme for a kid to be able to be a kid
@@childoftime9964 yeah okay. Good thing I homeschool because the Current educational system in America is beyond extreme.
Girls can’t be girls became we have to make space for boys that make pretend they are girls. It’s pathetic.
My husband worked at an after school Korean school. The children would arrive an hour after school let out (3:30 pm) and study debate until 8 pm. These poor children were under a tremendous amount of pressure from their parents and were on the verge of a mental breakdown. My husband gave all the students full credit just for attending class. He would schedule one day a week to just have fun but it was extremely important that neither the school nor the parents didn’t find out. These children were between the ages of 10 and 13. We decided that all we wanted of his children was to behave and be happy. Raising a happy adult was more important to us than his children getting good grades as long as they gave education their best effort.
Props to the dad for being respectful and listening... a lot of parents would talk over their children in this situation
I appreciate her Dads gentle way with her, especially while she is expressing herself so emotionally. Her argument was sound. Her obvious efforts require a reward, & it's great that she knows that enough to negotiate for it! A beautiful interaction! 🏆🙏💐
This broke my heart. Glad she stood up for herself. Kids need to play. You're only a child once.
I agree
And waste your life away on doing stupid shit? Yeah no
Just asian parents yk, sometimes parents just want us to be healthy and focus more on study to get better job, they just want us to have better life in future
@@Mastergenius_ yea but not when you are 10 years old, come on bro, the real important knowledge for your life begings in the high school and university, not in the elementary
To play outside with friends but not on the computer
She’s speaking like an adult that is so burnt out. More than play time, I think she wants her efforts to be acknowledged. I hope her parents praise her more. 😢
No she just needs play time lmao, her parents can't go beyond a certain limit when it comes to understanding, just letting her be herself would make her her best, understanding is not her parent's cup of tea
This is China parents are cruel
This
No, chinese believe that you should not praise your child too much because they will grow up expecting that they will get the same praise from the society
@@amitabha629 my Partner is from China and she's not like that at all
With those words and mature tears, her childhood has already passed. Her parents robbed her of childhood.
Poor baby😢
This is the most adorable argument i have ever seen lol what a good kid
Woah. This child is more self aware than even most of the adults. She knows when she has put good amount efforts and when it's time to say no and take a break. Something most of us need but lack.
She's awesome!
how do you know anything about the effort she has done, and how long has she been already playing?
how can you distinguish that from emotional manipulation (i.e. crying in order to get what she wants). The dad does not seem to shout at her or anything... and going to bed at 9pm at her age isn't an unreasonable demand from him at all...
@@panda4247no way you just called a child crying “emotional manipulation”
@@deathtunessthe girl in the video aside, you don't believe children do this? I've watched one of my best friend's young son manipulate his parents into letting him take a bath in their bathroom after they moved into a nice house where he and his sister had their own to share. They tried reasoning and he did the scream cry tantrum resist stubborn thing until they finally let him have his way, and then all was peaceful. Some children will do that crap if you let them. Totally.
@@panda4247Kids are terrible liars. You could tell a mile away when they lie. I doubt this is "emotional manipulation"
What a mature kid. More articulate than most adults.
That's what happens when you are online most of the time and learning internet shit.
@@user-zg3nl4jf2n calm down lol it's a comment the top comment has a point though
@@user-zg3nl4jf2nnahhh
@@user-zg3nl4jf2ni have been doing that and i assure you most of us will go to degenerate path (for entertainment purpose) which will bring us deeper into the rabbit hole
@@user-zg3nl4jf2nif you are below 30 you will understand what i mean
The question is how much time is she already expected to study… you can’t get your childhood back. Brain food is balance as this young lady is negotiating for. Love her battle win!!♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
She said what she meant and she meant what she said. She articulated her feelings very clearly. I am proud that she being raised well. Her dad was listened well and let her speak. Wishing them both well.
I love how she have the courage to say out her feelings, and her father listened.
Golden
Father didn't actually say he agreed with what his child said.
@@tessalister1226 still listened calmly unlike most parents
father answered but at the same time.. he dont give a shit..
@@black5029 true tho
The clarity in her thought process and the articulation of the same at that age is a skill that most people can’t learn even by the time they’re 30. This girl is going places.
It's the facial expressions and passion in her voice for me 😅
It's called force maturity. Is when kids are forced to grow up to fast and mature as she has. Leaving childhood behind very early
Yeah well... If she doesn't burn out by the age of 12, that is...
What’s funny is like you guys are looking at her ask for help and laughing and saying more homework for you because you need it because it helps your bright mind
Meanwhile in the west a man can get pregnant. 🤣 🤣 🤣
she seems like such a sweet girl, i really hope her parents love and treat her like a child and don't push her too hard
The maturity and pure honesty is just beautiful and hope Dad is really listening…
Damn. How profoundly and eloquently she can express herself while in such an emotional state is something to aspire to even for an adult.
Because it's scripted, her parents film and release many of such scripted videos of her and her brother that will resonate with people and get the most views.
@@KoalaChinguOddI don't think this looks scripted at all.
@@EYESEEYOURN Chinese tiktoks are notorious for being fake, and this girl and her brother have other such videos filmed by their parents. The gaming chair is a giveaway, in some other videos you can see she has a pretty fancy gaming setup and her family's home is pretty affluent.
Probably from all the studying.
@@KoalaChinguOddso are others, not just chinese, just sayin
“You’re asking me things even a robot couldn’t do, even if I had 8 hands I couldn’t do it” she’s so well spoken wow, and she articulate her feelings so well
It's what happens when one reads higher levels of reading at a young age. I was like that, but, my parents didn't really listen much, nor was I allowed to speak much, but I digress, she will absolutely do amazing things one
I was scared for her when she said that bc a lot of Chinese parents would have resorted to cursing or smacking her.
@@s0fa274if the parents don't raise her well do you think she'll be respectful despite there is something that makes her feel uncomfortable. If the parents usually use violent approach when the kid disagrees, do you think she'll even ask in the first place?
@@s0fa274 yeah right??? growing up with a strict chinese mum, my mum wouldve totally beaten my ass
She’s right though, the status quo in this country is that most of the kids are treated as study machines, they live a harsh life while not knowing why they have to go through it. A lot of the teenagers in China are depressed and the number is going up, while most of the parents think mental illness is nonexistent, most of the time they either ignore it or punish the kids for being ungrateful. This is a complete nightmare… so guys, those jokes are true.
She is so cute, So respectful and asking for what she wants. Poor little girl, Dad needs to be proud of her, She deserves extra play time.
I'm so happy she got that out and did not stay silent about it. Stay strong 🤍
the fact she did this in clear emotional distress is absolutely incredible to me. I'd barely be coherent in that state.
Hahahahahahah same same
@@yeshacroe9354 hl
Same.
@@tiagomoraes1510 Don't be a clown. You can't say addition when she's done all of her chores and homework
@@tiagomoraes1510 lol bullshit, as if an abortion like you can argue like that 😂
Her communication skills are amazing. And it also seemed like her dad was actually listening which I think is even better. Too many times kids try to stand up for themselves and are crushed right away
right. most people including me grow up with deep insecurity issues because we are always being told to shut up for being a child, incapable of thinking maturely and cannot defend ourselves and worst is that we only have to listen to the adults counting our daily mistakes... their idea of trying to discipline us is to count and slap us our mistakes and barely praised for our good deeds.. that good actions are expected but mistakes are being badly criticized. however, this girl in the video are able to express herself clearly i can tell that the dad is giving her enough confidence to be able to speak up.
@@persona5305 that's about right they think we have to deal the same things they deal with as kids is like if I suffer this as a child well you will too... I grow in a house where the oldest one not matter who is it will always be right ... My 8 year self was like .. that's down right stupid and I say it to them but I wasn't polite I have always been and angry kid. this girl is in another level.
U r right, and now I feel Iam blessed to have such parents who only encourage me to stand up for myself and even when it can be towards them once or twice..🙏🏼
Thats bcoz his dad listens and shes brave enuff to voice her mind.
And they'll tell you that you're being disrespectful 💀💀💀😭😭
She seems like a very articulate, respectful and frankly mature young girl. I hope she was able to get some more playtime.
"Please treasure our childhood days." The most wholesome thing I've heard all day. ❤ Bless this little girl! She IS the treasure, not her childhood.
She’s like a woman with years of experience and struggle pouring her heart out!
So sad, she lost her childhood mind. Always work without play it is impossible
She's not a robot. Later she will have good situation but happyness not sure
@@weshweshdogg this is one of the things i hate about china... they treat people like heartless robots...
Right??? I legit teared up a little. This girl is losing her childhood!!!
YES...INDEED.
level`s ahead of the average american kid
How can any parent argue with such an intelligent articulate little girl? I loved the part where she pointed out to cherish the years of her childhood
Pretty sure she got her extra playtime. Poor thing is exhausted lol
@@MamiTT237Not really a laughing matter... 🖕😑🖕
@@lemurianchick You need help! Grow tf up.. and while you’re telling me to fuck off.. do it yourself and your own mother, I’m sure she does it better! Maybe that’s why you’re so upset! It’s not my fault or anyone else’s that you were abused! Go to therapy and get off TH-cam!
It is called reality.
Many people dont know how to be a proper parent. You dont learn that at school.
I also get blamed and punished for doing chores for 30 years, let alone childhood. And threatened being kicked out if I didnt, regardless how unreasonable.
That little girl is amazing! She put forth some great arguments. She has better communication skills than I do! Lol
Poor child 😢 I want to hug her
She’s the most reasonable kid I ever seen!!!
Damn... This little one is beyond her years. She articulates her feelings far better than most I know, myself included.
I truly felt her pain 🥺💔
dude what pain 💀
😢sweet girl and wise..and has tremendous stress at her age..not good
@@ninja.saywhatif thats scripted then this girl should get a job in Hollywood cause thats some convincing crying.
@@Umm_FLIPyou must have some serious issues if you saw that clip and not seeing that shes in pain 💀
It's the kind of education they receive.
I'm almost crying watching this... Poor girl is so stressed and exhausted, it's obvious. She's not crying like a kid with tantrum, she's crying like she's in a deep mental pain. I hope her dad will listen and give her less duties and more playtime.
….China…. She probably has 3 full time jobs too
@imechko_familia: Probably not, it's not long ago that girls like her wore bandages on their feet to make their toes curl this is crippling them. Probably still do that in the mountains. Civilisation is centuries behind everything that is West of them. A masoginistic enslavement attitude prevails and if you see in her speech, she is appealing to the loved Father side of him, unfortunately it's not there.
Simply, the sooner she gets out of that hell hole the better. I wonder what their mental hospitals are like? They probably douse them up with meds and send them back to the universal slave camp called "home"
There is no balance this is extreme non-civilisation which is still today thousands of years old, meaning they are thousands of years behind.
Sure, they can build stuff and are brainy but not brainy enough to have any empathy - see China? See North Korea, it's basically the same dictatorship with zero understanding or human tolerance .
That's is why they worship Chairman Mao, and are fed such icons as: "for the people" "for China" that's why they bomb (even today) Taiwan, which is the real and true Republic of China. Supposedly.
Taiwan is a successful country with consolidated production and supply of tech and white goods and their lives and children enjoy a healthy and civilised normality compared to the red Chinese. Why do you think there are so many Chinese in the West ? Because they wanted to get the f- out off there...!!🤯
They bomb Taiwan, they fire on Tibet, and nobody knows what they are doing, they just feed their Chinese people like mushrooms.
Kept in the dark and fed on bs. I feel sorry for children like this young lady and I hope she manages to get away sometime soon.
Her father is so not worthy of such an admirable daughter. .........And, his daughter does not deserve such an ao of a crapola Father, which he is. And the saddest thing of all is that she actually loves her dad and tries to reason with him with respect that he does not deserve. I hope she finds friends and happiness and manages to get the hell out of there as soon as possible.
I wonder what the suicide rate for kids of her age is in China today. I bet you a hundred quid - they would always blame the child.
It's a sick, sick society over there. Look at The Tiananmen Square protests, massive army tanks against unarmed students, who were no doubt protesting against all of this crap themselves. But, hey, that's a Dictatorship ☮️
No wonder they are backward, they stifle natural growth.
Abused kids wont talk openly like this to her/his abuser due to trauma and fear, trust me. This is just a one smart, brilliant girl trying to talk down her daddy with her smart-ass words and superb acting off course. When you got kids, who always got excuses in thier mind, you'll know 😂
@@rmzbro2766 they do, they'll just get punished later. I hope you don't have kids
@@imechko_familia only stupid abusive parent recorded their abused kids crying and posted it online. Maybe your type of parenting.😂
That's the voice of a dad who will absolutely not take anything she just said to heart. Nothing will change, I feel so bad for her.
Seeing such a young girl just saying what’s in the wrong and she’s in too much pressure and stress of doing everything breaks my heart. She is totally right
A child telling her parent to treasure her childhood has got to be so messed up.
It's warning that I hope they heed. 😂
It's only messed up if the parent doesn't listen and understand. I'm sure the father recorded this being impressed by his own daughter. We need our kids to correct us at times but they can only do it if they can speak freely and know that we will listen in fairness. Mine have taught me many things
AGREE. IS EMOTIONAL ABUSE BY THE PARENTS!!! THIS IS VERY SAD...IS NOT FUNNY!
Bro is huffing Reagan red scare propagandium too hard 🤡
This is literally a child throwing a tantrum over videogames. Not evidence of china being a 1984 dystopia ☠️. Your kids and teens shoot up schools and churches because they couldn't get laid so don't talk
I mean.....it's China.....they are at the top because they look pass just being a child
No voice raised, No disrespect served, She's obviously very emotional but still she manages to convey her feelings freely & eloquently, What a kid🎉
Kid raised her voice wdym other than that yea
@@了了了 Yup but it was not like disrespectful, It was like she wanted her father to take hi seriously.
chill@@pianist-yx6ot
@@pianist-yx6ot she's still a kid
@@pianist-yx6ot And why shouldn't she talk about it when her dad is always forcing her to study not giving her some free time?
This is a good kid, this is the kid that we always need.
Her parents are genius human beings.
I'm blown away by her maturity and heartbroken for her at the same time. She has so much potential, it's crazy.
If you feel that you are not good enough and must exhaust your emotional energy well-being, beyond a child's capacity you overwhelm the ego into despair and retreat. Childhood is short lived. Allow children their realm in freedom. Good enough is just fine.
Simple mind people would have missed this, but all the studying from everyday has made her this awesome with her rebuttals. A regular kid won't know how to respond this well.
Congrats to the father.
👍
@@condorX2 Totally agree with you but I also empathize with the girl because that was my experience. It is hard being a Chinese kid, we are not given a lot of play time. I hope I can have a childhood when I retire.
@@guguendeavours2521 😎👍
This is why staying single is the best in this difficult time.
No nagging, no cheating, no domestic violence, no baby cries, no diaper changes, no sleepless night, no working 3 jobs, no STD, no migraines, no upkeeps, no arguments, no child support, no custody battle, no court battle, no divorce, & no expensive one day wedding.
Just get yourself a sex toy and focus on your career.
🐨
@@condorX2 The life choices you recommend are so sterile and lonely. I hope that isn’t the road you take. Family and children will bring you much joy.
This girl somehow respectfully scolded her father
his?
Sorry her*@@Byom_e
@@Byom_e english is a foreign language, give us grace
@@zinhlekheswa5237 the commentor wasn't chinese though.
@@Byom_e so?
God bless this precious child... She would not dare confront her parent but she is so tired
Hey Dad.
Be reasonable !!! You have a really great daughter. She deserves to be loved.
It’s sad that she is already burnt out at such a young age. Smart, articulate and precocious, but unhappy. I hope her parents really take what she said to heart.
Very well said, you put into words what I felt while watching.
@waitingforapril nah, kids know how to send their parents on guilt trips to get what they want.
@@steve8803No, this is not the case.
Normal Asian parents or more or less chinese parents.They always get some random excuse that makes no sense to get you working or make you have no free time
dude shut up. thery arent burned out. cmon
I am saddened by the distress of this child. She is clearly & politely spoken & deserves to be heard. I hope the parents get it, or they will ultimately lose her as an adult.
The last thing she said kind of could be translated to what you ended with in your comment.
Cherish my childhood or lose me as an adult
You are legally required to take care of your parents when they're old as an adult.
It will pay off in the future when she invents something that will bring glory to mother China…😂😂😂,
Thats a good father thoigh because he’s simply listening to his daughter. I give him
Props for that.
I bet if her parents understand if freedom of speech and democracy meant , in that part of the world.
What a good girl. She did make me sad too. Dad was a good Dad too
She’s got a point, Dad… can’t argue with good reason! ❤
This kid can go far in life. She's so polite and at her age she's so aware and knows the gap of her responsibilities
Provided her dad don’t screw her up
Has to be
@@darren1966her dad is what made her this good.
@@ambitiousmuslimrecordings3451Apparently he's the one who's making her life that bad and that miserable.
@@MsSuperww there are some things we didn't like that our parents did but later in life became thankful for because we learned some skills that others didn't, just enough to get ahead in life.
Why is it that often Asians in Europe or in the West excel in different fields?
“Please treasure our childhood days.”
“Not even a robot could do it!”
This kid really tells words of wisdom, words so wise you’d expect them coming from an adult. This really is so emotional is hurts. I hope the father gave her more free time after how she explained herself to the fullest.
The internet has a lot of information for people to find quotes. It isn’t wisdom but learnt knowledge. Wisdom is something deeply developed through overcoming their own ordeals through the many steps of griefs with in the end accepting those mistakes. But the little girl is still too young to be called wise. Knowledge, intelligence, and Self Empathy is all it takes to develop her own understanding towards her needs to convince or convey.
Like intelligence, wisdom itself can vary even for geniuses. It’s unique to all people as it has their own perspectives.
@@errebusaether Well sorry, but english isn’t my mother tongue. Still, thanks for explaining.
@@nightfallnoir I felt that those were words of wisdom. You didn't say that the child was wise, what she said was wise irrespective of how she acquired the knowledge, her words were still wise. I thought that you made a fair comment. Even if English isn't your first language, you expressed yourself more clearly than so many native English speakers. Respects and blessings to you.
@@errebusaether Internet may be full of such quotes but it takes wisdom and understanding to use those quotes at the appropriate moment
She proves she has the wisdom by choosing her words at the exact time it is required. She is not just blurting stuff out. She understands those words well herself. Hence the admiration for her apparent maturity despite her young age
@@hrzn202 True, indeed. She used it at the right time. But that is based on her ability to retain knowledge and understand the situation. She truly understands the meaning of those words through gaining the information through internet sources, but wisdom is gained through experience in living with a deeper understanding. While intelligence is accumulated information through the mind. It is practically intelligence that she is displaying which is fundamental to every living organism especially when she is human.
In short, it’s intelligence that is the main factor for her knowledge whilst wisdom at a fundamental level is another factor for her understanding. In an ordinary person’s dictionary, she’s a wise child but to us she’s not too extraordinary in terms of wisdom.
She still has a lot to live for before she’s even free from those desires. The desire causes conflict to wisdom. It’s too farfetched to call a child wise when their full of desire. I wouldn’t call myself wise either way as I am still conflicted in this life. Maybe in the far future everyone will achieve that wisdom depending on how they perceive their own pain to walk forward in fulfilling their desires.
Perhaps, fulfilling your lesser desires, and your ultimate desire is the key to freeing oneself from samsara. Life is still a mystery, it doesn’t matter whether we judge others or not. In the end, we’re all the same seeking for the truth, subconsciously. My apologizes for my off topic. Hahaha.😅
This resonated a lot with me 😭 I am very proud of this girl for politely standing her ground despite her tears
I wish I had the gut to tell my father that during my childhood!
She’s better than most adults at self awareness and communication 😅
Cherish this child, to have that kind of determination and to question authority with respect is a gift
Agree! 😊
Not there lol
@@skullfucker6064sad but true. Maybe she'll make it out. A lot of them seem to be able to.
She argues better than me
Omg, she is the smartest young lady I’ve seen. Lucky dad.
This little girl broke my heart with her brilliant negotiating skills, impressive respect and emotional honesty. She will be a force for good as an adult.
Not in China she won't. It's a Communist dictatorship. She's screwed, that's all they want is robots.
Not in that country.
This comment is pretty naive. I would make a pretty big bet with you she will end up emotionally broken and NOT a good person because of her overly strict upbringing. (If what she says is true)
This is not negotiating. She is pleading, begging for some time for herself. If this continues, as somebody says above, it will end up very badly for her
She knows what is important.
I just love how this girl is talking like an adult, and respectfully tryna sort the situation🤌😭
She does not talk like an adult, because adults who talk like that are rare, very rare.
It's so convenient! Like you don't even have to raise her! Just focus on work, study, and discipline. If she jumps off a roof or something just make another one! So convenient!
although she can only talk and reason like that because of how she was raised (ironically). the issue is the father went overboard. the detriment is stress/overwork.
@@JuliaBl chill no need to get mad over a comment😭
She is too smart to be a little girl. A bright future ahead of you girl. Gob bless.
her father has two personalities one on the internet and one on the real world
@@zebrafinch12 What system are you talking? What has it got to do with having kids???
@@zebrafinch12 System? This is Asian culture. They're being pushed beyond their limits because it's 'normal' there, even though it shouldn't be. My hearts goes out to all children there.
Edit: clearly I have triggered a lot of people with this statement lmao. I stand by what I said though. I love the Asian culture, but this aspect of it is one of the great flaws, just like every other culture has its flaws. I'm not going to sugarcoat it to spare anyone's feelings.
@@sakurafalls2468 I'm Asian. I think pushing the limits just a bit makes the kids work harder. In experience, I've gotten better grades after being pressured (not too harshly) by my parents.
@@drlmyst Then I suppose you're lucky, or you don't realize how hard your parents are pushing you. It's all about perspective. Americans may see the Asian culture as totally result-oriented and that parents push their children way too hard, whereas Asian may think of the western culture as too lazy. I'm very much in love with the Asian culture, there are many wonderful and beautiful things about it, but this aspect is a huge flaw imo. No matter the country or culture, children should always be allowed to be children. They have years ahead of them where they can worry about financials, school and work, don't take away the one period in their life where they can live carefree.
@@sakurafalls2468 there should be a middle ground as someone whose asian but disagrees with most eastern asian teachings to their children. while yes, children should learn about the basics of work life, i also believe that their mental health should also be a priority; this is why schools teach young children very easy lessons first before they gradually build up the lessons to be much harder. because work is a part of life, however so is childhood.
That’s heartbreaking to see her cry like that. It should not get to the point that the child has a breakdown like this. This cannot be the first time that she has expressed her need for a break and time to play.
Exactly, the girl needs a hug
Heartbreaking it's to lose a childs for this crazy world, she's amazing because their parents it's amazing as well.
I grew up the same. In China you cannot play for too long. If you do, you get left behind. We are too many, the competition is too strong. If you rest and play for too long, somebody else who doesn't and has greater resilience towards studying will get ahead, while you'll be left behind. As much as I remember feeling the same like this little girl during my childhood, I would not allow my children to play for too long either if I was still living in China. There the gov doesn't help you, one doesn't have the security felt in the westen countries, you are basically on your own. It better be a well trained "your own", otherwise you don't stand a chance in chinese society. Most people in the west will not educate their children like that. I'm not doing it either since my kids are growing in the west. But if I was living in China, no matter how much my kids would cry for free time, they will only have the free time that I allow, and that will be very little by my own understanding of what constitutes success in China. I know that later on my kids will not get ahead in life because of the free time they've had, but because of the work they had to do. It's a rigged system, you can't rest for too long, if you don't play the game, work and excell, you will get nowhere in China. Outside of China there is more freedom and one can do what one wants, inside of China there is no freedom and you will do as you're told, regardless of how much you cry. This is what my dad told me when I was little. So then I reasoned I wanted no longer to live in China. Now I enjoy more freedom and my children do too! People from the west who see this clip must understand that this girl's situation is common place for almost every child educated in Chinese society. The way the gov rules the country is the same way we rule over our children. They scrictly must obey, or else... A sad system I would say, now that I know any different.
@@wangxiaoming8989it's quite sad to hear that, but at least it gives some context to the video. We don't know much about the Chinese society, after all so we can't really judge the parents for being strict when we live in a different country.
@@mynameiseden6127I’m a Chinese student. While the person above is right about the education system in China, I just want to say that the parents are still strict. But sadly it’s normalised because people are forced to be this way so their children can survive in our society. But just because we live in a different environment doesn’t mean that things always have to be this way and are right to be this way. You can have free time, what truly matters is the time management. And I believe a good mind comes with a balance between work and rest. The parents are still strict, but yes, there is a good reason to it, and I don’t see that things would change in the next few decades…
She ate and left no crumbs. SLAY. PERIOD.
What a great dad for listening and gently speaking to her even in her emotional distress ❤
She sure has straightened matters out between her and her Dad without being disrespectful. A very successful and respectful woman she’s going to be in the future.
MEN ALWAYS LIKE TO CRUSH THE SPIRIT OF A WOMAN, IF IT WAS A GUY YOU WOULD NEVER WRITE THIS COMMENT
Only if he listens otherwise she will not survive puberty as a normal person or even with her life...
@@bshrfulwhy do you think that men like to crush spirit of a woman?
Her Dad will continue to disrespect her and she will leave home as soon as she can.
@@dharmachile999you don’t know that do u?
and she's still respectful to her dad. what a gem.
goes two ways usually
Asian ☺
Yeah because she's not some American spoilt brat lol
My dad would say the way she is talking is disrespectuful just because she is talking back and arguing/argumenting.
Chinese... if she disrespect him he is gonna smack her! Absolutely common in China.
Meanwhile me and my dad
Dad: "Stop playing video games, you are playing this for 8+ hours"
Me: "So what?"
Great respectful, logical, reasonable, articulate and intelligent child ❤❤❤❤ Father also responded calmly and hope she gets some play time everyday
Let’s be fr, she can argue/talk better than most fully grown lawyers.
Ok that’s just an overstatement but she speaks well for a child
@@eli4984 yep, ik its an overstatement. I'm using a literary device called "exaggeration" :)
@@prwtiiest What is that word for?🤓
@@sleepingroach696 idk if you're joking or not but exaggeration is used to emphasize the point that someone wants to get across.
@@prwtiiest goofy ahh
she’s well aware of the unrealistic expectations her parents and society have on her. she’s reasoning so logically with her dad despite sobbing that not only has she completed all her work, but that she’s a good girl ALL the time. she knows her worth and the effort she puts in. i wish for her to never allow herself to get treated badly. she’s a bright one.
For real and for sure.
Yep, kids in china have it very hard.
For the whole asian kids
Why share on the internet and not keep in privacy
She's more mature than her dad could ever be.
Great parents. They brought her up with respect, listen to her with respect and agree with her where appropriate.
You do great job parents.
Beautiful.
She knows what a child needs.
Hope her father understands and respects this incredible insightful being ✨
What a wise child. I'm sorry she has to go through that pressure. "Not even a robot could do it".
It's staged
@@francy3643 How is it staged? Not even a Hollywood actor can pull that off. Wtf are you talking about about
@@francy3643 🤓
@@karimalrawas6185 😂 right
She’s that wise BECAUSE of the restrictions her father has put on her and implements in her life. It may be seen as cruel but it’s what will save her from most of the dumb mistakes her peers will make in their future.
You know, even when highly emotional, it's incredible how coherent, articulate and respectful this child is. Such level of communication is rare, even in adults
Prob because of all of the studying she has to do
@@haengihorsetheonewhocancoo8855😂
Bro i would Just lost it a billion times , that kid is golden. For fuck sake it hurts.😢
Look how calm the dad is. She's probably so we'll spoken and respectful even when frustrated because she never got spanked or beat by her parents
@@old_yeller4251but they still feel the need to pressure her and say that they don't
Fantastic and Remarkable young lady, truly our next generation youth leader.
Her parents should be so proud 👏 She is very intelligent and expresses herself really well. She respects her parents as well as herself. One very matured and mentally healthy person 🥰🫡 👏
I am AWESTRUCK by this little girl's profound understanding of her situation and her ability to articulate her ordeal so well. Kids should be allowed MORE PLAYTIME, let them enjoy their childhood!
Her story is a reminder that even the youngest voices can spark change and inspire greatness.
No not really, she is just copying her mother. Its a chinese family after all.
@Linogewillkillallofy lmao she clearly knows what she's going through wtf are you talking about and she's very articulate as well. I doubt her mom asks for more time to play instead of doing homework. No clue what them being Chinese has to do with her talking to her dad about this, you don't know what you're talking about
@@Linogewillkillallofy Ok whitey....
@@Linogewillkillallofywhy would articulating her ordeal well have to do with copying her mom, and what does a chinese family have to do with that..?
@@Linogewillkillallofy Lol, actually you do not even know if she has a mother and just assume, retards.
What a beautiful majestic girl, my heart goes out to her, may she a happy childhood.
What an emotionally intelligent girl , made her point better than most adults
Oh yeah... Because she could speak... I doubt 70% of adults had this "Free speech" to a father, without making things worse.
It's not because of one action that makes her the miss perfection, the goddess of speech... The humiliator of bad parenthood.
You're too weak to understand general minds, in a vast way of topics. Box minded i should say it.
Its like people who are deficient... They cant do what majority "can" so why some of them reach great goal? Because of the STRONG support, parents, people donating, school students that respect, schools that also support them with guaranteed colleges, monetary help...
Now a non deficient person? Who parents doesn't care, who doesn't have much friends or cant even make friends duo to personality difficulties, who were born in a poor city, who get bullied or lonely at school, who ideas are always dismissed.
It's not one, it is most of them... Have a good day Box minded
Meantime in USA and EU , parents beg children not to curse them , spit them , and do whatever the fuck they want ! -
@@jwag301 Finally, someone sensible in the comments. Imagine buckling to child logic as a responsible, competent adult.
@@jwag301 Low standards? Says the person with couple hundred views on their pathetic TH-cam channel. And you think you are any more superior than her? Judging by your TH-cam channel, you spend and awful lot of time on games. You don't know what it's like to have your free time restricted. You don't know what other people are going through, and certainly have no right to label her speaking skills as ideocracy.
@@blckknight117 how is that child logic tho. She was right, she completed her responsibilities, why can’t she play? She’s a child, they’re supposed to play. I bet you’re one of those parents that say shit like “cause I said so” when you don’t have a valid answer. Children are people too and they are allowed to want things.
I’m saying this as a former child, current adult, that wasn’t allowed to have fun because my mom “said so”. Couldn’t even ride my bike around the block without the miserable fuck making up some bs for me to do just to keep me in the house and unhappy.
If I had a daughter like her, I'd feel I have fulfilled my life.
💯%
me too!
Then you need to bring up your child like her to even stand a chance. Its all not by luck of personality/intelligence, a huge part is upbringing as well.
@@joesr31 And how old are you? 70?
True
This breaks my heart that she has to ask for play time.
She disciplines herself very nicely and needs to be a child and play like a child and have fun.
I’m in tears every time I see this video and she is clearly right.
Let her determine the time she wants as a gift a present from all she accomplishes. Her heart is pure, don’t traumatize her till she disowns you later. 😢
This is generational trauma at its best. This child needs her playtime.
And it should be never scheduled or timed