Everybody is going through a tough time.
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- It costs nothing to be kind.
To be authentically concerned.
To be giving.
To be open.
To be courteous.
To be HUMAN.
I have long maintained that Social media is not the problem. People use social media with the wrong intent. And our societies have made it cool to be an asshole.
Society has taken bullying, change its wardrobe, and called it “dragging”.
Society has taken abuse, put red lipstick on it, and then called it being “woke”.
I was raised to believe:
You can raise your voice without being unkind.
You can correct someone without being rude.
You can teach someone without reducing them & stripping of their humanity.
Before you comment on how important mental health is (and to be clear, it absolutely is important), just check your own timeline & make sure you’re not the one attacking, ridiculing, or insulting people.
Some of you are the reason somebody right now is on their knees praying for strength.
Again, don’t be an asshole.
Just. Be. Kind.
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"Every time you enter the room, leave it better than you found it. Every time you enter a conversation, leave it lighter than you found it." Such a great message thank you 🙏🏿 No one knows tomorrow'
Wow very profound 👌👌🌻🌼💐🇿🇦🇿🇦
This got to me....
Yes it spoke to my ❤ and no one is promised tomorrow I have a moto simplicity is essence of life
Still packs the same punch as if it's live.
I just texted a person whom i had a grudge on and made things right. Powerful message
CHIEF
I was driving around DELFT township when a TH-cam notification popped by titled " What it means to be a human" . My jaw dropped and my eyes popped out and i immediately pulled over and parked the car aside, and i made sure that i I'm listening through my aux cable for maximum attention. I listened to every word, every punchline, every joke...I even know that Mavusana mentioned shit twice consecutively right, but never mind that...I relate about Hlayi's untimely death as well. I also lost a friend in high school with a similar personality as Hlayi. So yeah i relate. So i can confidently confirm to my self after listening to this ... I know what it means to be human...😭😭😭😭😭😭
I love you man
“Get right with the Lord and get right with yourself” 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
This is very deep Vusi. I battled mental health in 2020 and when I met with the Lord Jesus, I was completely renewed. One of the things I realised was that it is often easier to tear down something than to build it up.
Building up takes alot. It's no wonder it could take you months to build a house and only a day to tear it down.
We need to be people that build others up.
Thank you and God bless you @Vusi Thembwekwayo
So so true and people needs to know that help is out there. Please lets shout 🙏🙏🌻🌼💐💕🇿🇦🇿🇦
Thanks Vusi, it's Emmanuel from Nigeria. I've been in a very dark place recently... I've felt as though I'm trapped in the loop of addiction for some years, actually for the most of My LIFE... Almost felt like giving Myself over to My addictions and not try to overcome them, but somehow I'm reminded that the story of My journey through addiction to freedom will help someone overcome their addiction one day...
Every one is struggling with something, Our victory gives hope to another... Let's Keep PUSHING... Our future is GREATER and BETTER than We can imagine.
❤️
It honestly felt like u are talking to me😔 ..am currently doing matric year and ever time when am in class I just never feel good enough I same times feel like giving up..every time I get home all I do is cry😭😭.. my future is fading before it could even start
Don't give up, you are the best
Your kindness today could be the reason someone has renewed hope and motivation to carry on.
Be kind, it's the new TREND. 😊
This is such a timely message that hits so hard. Just this week, my childhood friend was found locked up in his room kneeling in a praying position dead, also suicide. So many regrets. But it unlocks a greater desire to just be kind and lend a helping hand, even to those around us who seem the strongest. Thank You Doyen Vusi. From Ghana🙏🏼
My condolences to you, wish you all the strength 🤍
@@stylebybbm6759 thank you🙏🏼
My condolences to you and their family 💔
I'm So sorry for your loss man.
What a sad moment. ❤️🕯️
We do need to get right with ourselves, and it is getting right with our Creator that we get the true North to ourselves. Cultivating the fruit of the Spirit. 🙏
When God created the Word he knew how desperate we would be of it. ❤️🕯️
Woke up overwhelmed this morning n telling myself no self-pity.been battling with mental health on n off for the last 7yrs n this time around its wearing heavy on me,in my late 30's a single parent n knowing I should have been far of in life by now...identity crisis,mid life crisis😔Thank you Vusi🙏🏾
You are precisely where you suppose to be. Don't be hard on yourself, life will always have tribulations irrespective of the level you reach. Start offering yourself, self love, be warm, be kind to yourself and allow compassion to fill you. You only but human and can merely do so much to get by. Pray for yourself, at times its merely a spiritual awakening translated as mental health issues. Hope you find that light at the end of the tunnel. ❤️🕯️To you
My dear, you are where God wants you to be. Seek God's face and fast and pray and ask God to help you. Repent of your sins and always start afresh and cry out to Jesus Christ he does not see you as a failure and does not see you in the way you see yourself. Have faith and ask God to direct your path...💟✝️🤍🙏
Try to not stress about what you cannot control. But push on.
Sending love your way ❤️ I can relate quite well.
Guy Your story is Me!!! I was always the over Achieving person ahead of the curve a few wrong Descisions and life's setbacks compounded, self Condemnation, self resentment & Guilt overwhelmed Me. I turned to Heavy drinking. I thank God for Finding Me it's been a long Turnabout journey but this Year by far I feel the tranquility of inner peace. I am now focused on impacting people's lives because at one point I was the person that needed that support but people always assumed Nick is Ok.
This is life!!!
Lost my husband a year ago...one of the things that keep my mind at peace always is that..I was HUMAN to and with him. My dad passed about 8months after hubby...my solace is that I was HUMAN to and with him. Half the time my thoughts wander and I think of the "what ifs"...but at the end of the day nothing can be undone.
This video just revalidate my line of thought while ousting for me to be the best of me to everyone that comes across me.
Thank you Vusi!!!
It's also important to remember especially for you Vusi who gives alot of themselves, that you also need a break and to have something that recharges you so you can continue giving.
Exactly, I felt like i also wanted to ask if He is ok. He is very exposed, and the pressure is too much on him. But he knows the source of the strength, Christ in him, will strengthen him.
Rest Riky, rest. Thank you Vusi for this piece.
this message cuts really deep, it made me emotional but it was also very therapeutic.
This moved me to tears 🥺.. I felt this in my soul, I can’t thank you enough VT, God bless you ❤️
These words are really help in my situation right now. Dude it is not easy out here and I have tried so much and this is the serious issue, it is hard when everyone departed from me because I never make it as they are, it is not easy to try something that crushes from the beginning, it is hard to live with fear of insult by people I went ask for favors so I could buy some time to live. such is not easy when everything I eat in the room is borrowed and most of all it is not easy to be expected to talk positive staff to people yet I am breaking apart. Thank you Mfethu
Ngethembe Insika Yomlilo.
Powerful 🙏🏼🌏
Thanks for sharing VT
#peaceandlove 🧡
#RBA
As my best friend and my confidant always say, ' whatever happens, I'm always with you.' This phrase has been my mantra and that's all we need. You may have just saved a life Be blessed.
Wish someone could say that to me
Oh Wow….this is so so true, so touching. For a moment there I thought I was listening to a sermon, I felt like I was in church❤️💯😊🙏
I couldn't even finish watching as I felt like you were speaking to me and I broke down into tears😭 Thank you for this video 🙏
GOOSEBUMPS for your words! listening to this, you got me thinking of Proverbs 11:25 - A generous person will prosper;
whoever refreshes others will be refreshed. Thank you FAITHFUL SIR
Thanks Vusi for such a message. It is very encouraging! And for it being given by Vusi, that is another thing! The Lord can work in the heart of any one! Blessed be God.
Truly powerful. At this point in time I think we all needed to hear this. Thanks Vusi!!
😢😢this week i understood the meaning of how are you? My mentor asked after a long time of not communicating but I had a long story to pour out from the depth of my soul but the place was not safe to do so. He promised to visit after 5days then I realized he could find me depressed 😔. I turned to my Bible read scriptures and prayed. Am now feeling better,Trust in the Lord Jesus Christ,He is the ever present help in times of need.
God bless you V.T,even after a number of yrs,this msg is helpful ❤ from Uganda 🇺🇬
This message resonated with me. I could never understand why people go out to be deliberately hurtful on social media platforms. Nevertheless, just BE KIND.
Hey Vusi, it's george from Johannesburg, I'm not suffering from any mental illnesses, atleast I think, your words touched me so much, its as if u were talking to me.
I just got back from this job interview, to which I did not make it to the next round of the interview but I am thankful for the opportunity given to me by our lord Jesus Christ, the opportunity to being alive, Yes, I might've missed this one, but I know that opportunities don't end, someday, some other time I will sure get another opportunity to prove my competency. To everyone out there, let's be kind to one another... Peace
God I preparing you for the next interview and you'll get the job in Jesus Christ's name. 🙏✝️🤍
Hi please be careful with self diagnosing yourself with such serious illnesses.
However I don't believe you made that up from nothing, you probably have some symptoms of a mental issue but it could be less severe.
Now what I wish is to let you know that miracles happen everyday bro and your situation is not as worse as it's gets. Be grateful you still wake up to a new day, in which you can make better choices. If you use your days productively, you will be a step closer to your goal each day.
I hope this helps.
Love & Light ✅
Humbleness, forgiveness, clarity and love are the dynamics of freedom. They are the foundations of authentic power.
I got humiliated at the job offering and this time I didn't shed any tears. For I know who's fighting my battles. He is the God of vengeance himself... So I will still and wait for my Lord Jesus to come for me. And shame them for laughing at me...the ark of life is long
Wow!! Thank you Vusi!!
I got the lesson. To be always authentic with people around you. And I'mma do this even more consciously.
Other than that "Receiving the Lord Jesus in one's is the most primordial decision to make"
Thank you again for the callout!!
You're more than an entrepreneur ✋🏾😊
Cheers
This is so powerful. VT is an incredible story teller and encourager.
Thank you so much Mr Vusi for this reminder.
The best deep and thoughtful message I have heard in a while.
You know one of the scripture reading say "men shall be lovers of themselves" we live in a society where we amused by mockery. I'm very thankful for this talk Vusi it just made my Sabbath whole, you just concluded my Sabbath on that one I will say Maranata masala
The purpose is to be consumed by the word or just daily motivation really. Also understanding the two types of validations which exist being 1. External validation and then 2. Internal validation. As much as we give kindness, respect and love to others we deserve it first from self. Moments of despair will always find us in this journey it is how we react that matters. ❤️🕯️
Being negative is exhausting, I pray, journal l, carry crystals just to work on that side of me, because when I do take part in negativity I am left drained. Also you sleep better at night knowing you were the best person you can be on that day.
am indeed blessed......more grace sir
Vusi I am really happy you're back. We had missed you. Welcome back and our prayers are with you and your family. God bless you man
Thank you Vusi! I also had a friend who died to young! I try and honour his memory every day! I only knew him for about 2 or 3 years but he was a BIG SPIRIT! What a powerful message!
I'm so crying right now but your words just brought life into me....thank you bra Vusi 😭🙏 I needed this
I miss you so badly, Vusi. Thank you for the message ♥. This message is for me.
Sorry for your loss.
This one hit me differently. So powerful.
Thank you Vusi
Such a touching message, my brother...I appreciate that. Thank you.
Thank you for this message Vusi. You said you are not a therapist but you really sound like one, you are gifted in many ways. Sorry for the loss of your friend, may you be completely healed from the pain that it has caused you👏🏻.
Thank you Vusi. We are playing a character, if only we would learn to allow each other to he real and don't judge.
Timely message this is. Thanks Vusi, for always! 🥂
Thanks for this message Vusi. It is something I heard a long time ago from an Ex……BE KIND. It’s shaped my attitude to life till this day. You just put a big smile on your buddy’s face. May he continue to RIP😵🙏🏾
Often, times we are not even sincere to ourselves and only continue to act like superheroes. Even "the man of steel" has a flaw...and it is the acknowledgment of this flaw(s) that makes us stronger. Thanks for sharing, bro..from Cameroon
Everyday take time and invest in filling your cup, for me that means praying (sharing with God my fears, my joy, my insecurities, my dreams, my lows, my high and everything in between). No one else can fill your cup but God. He really does answer prayers, it might not be today or tomorrow but He will answer. ❤️
Great words. I admire you so much Mr Thembekwayo, you are my indirect mentor!
Vusi you always inspire me man . Thanks for taking your time to share your thoughts and knowledge
This honestly touched my soul I'm so emotional, the authenticity ... TH-cam recommended this to me I really needed it ❤
This is really touching.
Thank you so much for the amazing message Vusi. It damn hit me up hard.
May your friend's soul forever rest in eternal peace.
Exactly!
Thanks for sharing the message, it is very timely
Thank you so much for sharing such a personal powerful part of your journey. Your fruit definitely needed to be shared for others to be nurtured through it. My condolences. Blessings my brother. 🙏🏽
Thank you so much grootman for this reminder, it definitely hit home and we need to take care of the ones around us and most importantly ourselves.
Thank you for this, God bless you.
This is powerful Hon. Vusi 🇿🇦🔥.. Big Love and Respect ❤️✊🏾. You are an incredible man!
thank you VT. I needed this, im at a point in my life where im not sure with everything, thoughts of giving up, (NOT suicidal), but just feeling low and not really okay, im not okay shame
Been following you for a long time, but I think this is one of the best pieces I've heard from you. So insightful. Thanks
Yhooo! It hits very hard straight to the heart. That's a voice there. U were born for that Vusi. Thank u
Timely, deep and true. Thank you 💝
Watching this today 03/02/22 and this is an amazing piece, this message will speak to the hearts of thousands.
Your message really touched me Vusi …😭🙏🏾 thank you
Wonderful thank you very much 👍🤝🙏
This is profound, thank you for being genuine in your inhtensions to help us your listeners to become better. Just a simple act of kindness consistently applied will eventually refine our character and make the world a better place. Thank you.
I love watching and listening to you. You incredible ❤️
Thank you sir for sharing the words of wisdom, I think most of us needed to hear this ❤
Love you Vusi....for the truth,for the light, for the deep conversations that flows to our hearts,thanks for the insight as always.
Thank you so much for this, Vusi. Thank you so much🙏
Thank you Vusi. You are an inspiration.
Much respect.
I love your message Vusi, keep on breathing life to the many souls at the other end of the screen listening to you.
I just want to say Thank you, keep up the amazing work you’re doing, We need more people like you, Thank you again, keep spreading the ❤️.
Yass Vuci, thank you for speaking my thoughts and the truth. I felt ALL of this. We don't know what it really true mean to be human. I'm not religious but my spirit is in sinc with these words.
I just came across your channel for the first time, I am truly inspired ❤️
Thank you ☹️. It’s been tough, I’ve been out of my Zone for so long.. I feel no one around me understands the struggles mental health, especially because I’m always the go to person, I’m always the One laughing hard.. but I’m honestly cracking.
Thank you brother🙏.... very inspirational and powerful....
Thank you for everything Vusi
Inspiring as usual. Thank you Vusi🙏🏽 you’re blessed 😇
your message is so live n living thanks Vusi, Richard kakiiza from Uganda
Damn i never thought as a man i would cry again coz i relate soo much man...thnx bhut vusi for this one🌻
Wow thank you for sharing this Vusi. This is deep. What an encouragement
Loved this, this was beautiful. S/O for creating and sharing this.
Always the right space and time to spread kindness thank you for using your platform to spread a message of peace and love. Thank you!
Before i understood my identity ..i thought being validated based on hurting others was strength.....i learnt after a bout of depression during therapy that its a self-defeating belief harmful to myself and others. Kindness is not popular but it brings about peace within self and in others. Thank you sir.
Thank you for the message. I think it is important to remind people that we all go through something whether you young or old poor or rich and we must be thankful if we remain asymptomatic.
All we need is to be kind to each other and before we comment about something to someone lets 1st understand the status of that individual to avoid unnecessary symptoms that could lead to something we wont be able to handle at the end of the day.
Happy life to all.
Thank you.
This message resonates with me. Thank you Vusi, you've saved a brother . I believe things will get better soon. Stay safe and Blessed
Thanks Vusi for your inspiring and uplifting message. May we be kind and compassionate to ourselves and to others ❤️
Thank you for such a beautiful and profound recording, Vusi. It's true we all have those moments of not wanting to talk to anyone, but wants to spend quality time with yourself.
The other thing I need to say when people r not emotionally feeling well, please shout and seek help by approaching a professional people like Psychologist, psychotherapist and social workers. Obviously those professionals would help by giving advises and tools to use, however at the end of the day you have to do the work yourself by being mentally strong.
Remain blessed and safe, God's people 🙏🙏🌻🌼💐💕🇿🇦🇿🇦
Amen Vusi. God bless you. There a verse in the Bible that says we must display the fruit of the Spirit, Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness,goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self control....there is no law against these qualities. God bless every human being for we are created in the image of God
Thank you Vusi for speaking to the heart of the matter; Your relationship with the Lord Who knows us more than we do ourselves or others. Thank you.
In life you are either a solution or part of the problems of this world. Your message says it all.. We all need to be positive
yea bro, i hear you. thank you for recognising the problem. mental health is real and we who suffer from it need help and constant check ins! You are your Brother's KEEPER!
Mr. Vusi, thank you so much for this. I have been meaning to write you an email on the role mental health plays to entrepreneurs and you have answered a lot of the questions I had. So powerful about the part where you admit that for a long time you had been defined as this young success, then suddenly you are not. I would love to hear more about how you redefine yourself after that. Otherwise, thank you so much for this video.
I needed to hear this 😭😭😭
Thank you, may God bless your soul brother man
Amazing as always and life changing-thank you
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Thank you so much for sharing this Mr Thembekwayo. I really enjoy seeing this side of you. You're truly a gift. Please consider making more videos like this.
Message delivered, you shared, I listened beyond understanding and I felt. I thank you 🙏🏾
🥺🥺thank you Vusi, you brighten up my day.....all the way from Cameroon 🇨🇲🇨🇲
He needs millions of subscribers this guy is awesome I'm African from The Gambia keep doing what you do best bro
This is deep and profound, this hit hard and calls for introspection.