You want life to stop beating you down brother it all starts with you. For me this speech helped me maybe Itl help you. It’s called not done yet by coach pain. Wish you the best man.
@@BD-1-And-Onlythats not guaranteed. Im a 6'5 muscular dude whose lost over 100 pounds and never have i ever had someone approach me for romantic interest FIRST. That is luck based on who you meet through the day. If you dont meet new people it wont happen and you gotta make it happen yourself. Put some control on your opportunity and all that
If you're super unattractive physically like really obese it will help make you look nicer to women, but I go mainly to improve myself and its good for me mentally
I'm disappointed IN myself as a 19 year old to be going to TH-cam and other places for help about this but thank you for making these so I can learn and actually achieve my goal
00:01 You don't need to focus on looks or money to get a girlfriend. 01:37 You don't need money or fame to get a girlfriend. 03:34 Stand out to attract her attention. 05:35 Attraction is deeper than superficial things 07:25 Attraction is based on familiarity and comfort. 09:15 Attraction is based on familiarity and early experiences. 11:01 Physical fitness is important for attracting a partner 12:53 Develop a general athletic base and competitive nature. 14:43 Put yourself out there and meet new people 16:29 Confidence is the key to getting a girlfriend Crafted by Merlin AI.
ong bro socialize with people more people don’t wanna be around a someone who has their head down and talks to no one. when i talk to people more often like new people in public i can tell it seems like it doesn’t happen often because it doesn’t. people don’t really socialize like that especially with strangers anymore bro. aswell as females being approached in person. guys don’t do that nowadays. having good energy is a big plus. be a positive outgoing person that lights up a room 💯
Some people are very shy and are too afraid to put themselves out there it takes a lot of courage bro for someone who’s very shy do u honestly think it’s easy to push yourself outside your comfort zone
@@adrianchico8886 no it’s definitely not bro. but i did it. you gotta have the fuck it mentality. if i can do you can too bro. anyone can do it. it’s really a battle in your own mind. just start off slow talking to people saying hi and nothing much else. take little steps. as long as your getting better than before that’s what matters
Im gonna try to explain this into my own words for this sugguestion as much as possible but also, can you make a video for youth people who are like 12,13,14,15,16 or under that... about why the hub or something would ruin your life, or think of woman as sexual obejcts or have bad masulinity and what looks you'd have after bursting... I want you to make a video for youth... because your prob one of the only people I trust for these issues or people who are at those youth age or going through puberty to man up to not watch porn or any of that please, thank you.
yeah that shit is tough lol and when he said that i was like nahhh but maybe.... I ran it in 7:33 last week and i'm 250lbs, ima drop another good 25 and then see if i can get in on that 6 minute
My girl of 2-3 years broke up with me. I self sabotaged a little but I regret loosing her. She now has a boyfriend who is not as good looking as me. But she was a genuine girl who falls in love with you for the person you are not looks.
This meet people advice makes me depressed cause I'm stuck in my town for at least the next year and there is nothing except the Gym here that interests me. . . I'm 26 and the last female friend I had was when I was like 10 or something.
Clean, simple, no fluff, straight to The point/facts, authentic. My man you finna go far. But you might get shadow banned 🙄. Also what is it with the black dudes spittin pure facts?
this ain't just helpful for women its helpful for life dawg gracias and thank you very much my man cuz that shit about being real and no fake you ( more or less) is valid af I mean I worried about what might make money instead of what would be most genuine to me
I’ve been saying this for years but I’ve always told “just say you don’t have game” brother I’m giving you the game, you just can’t see it cause you’re not him 🤷♂️
Stay in there man, my lil cuz (16), managed to have a solid ass relationship outta nowhere, and for context this boy’s built like a twig and 5’9, so maybe a lil worse than average. He got that relationship locked in because they vibed with each other, and trust me, the women that’re chasing men for superficial things like height and being in perfect shape are the ones you wanna be the farthest away from. There’s some things you can’t control, but keeping yourself in shape and dressing decently is something that you can control. You don’t have to be crazy in shape looking like an instagram roid head, but fitness is good, and you don’t have to drop a quarter band on a decent fit, jeans and a decent looking hoodie go far. Control whatchu can and hang in there. Gl!
Good video it's very valid and makes a lot of sense. I get a lot of female attention now and It all started when I stopped my extreme self improvement kik, stopped idolizing females and just started being me. I was very stressed depressed and alone when I had a jawline, abs and was trying to force myself to be a "Chad". Just be yourself, stop chasing and relax guys and the women will come to you and be the ones trying to impress you instead.
Damn this video actually woke me up to reality. I always thought attraction worked the way all these major red pillers liked to talk about it but this video tells it how it actually works in this world. Thank u Kam for saving us from delusional ways of thinking about how attraction works
So you suggest become friends with girls platonically first, but how you do that? I haven't encountered women where I work or where I hang out with my friends in years
I think the more you do something is by mastering it. You should interact with women while you’re on your purpose. Where I work I always talk to the women that come through. I work out 4 days a week and read 1 hour a day. Don't just focus on money because you’ll end up like a rich nerdy guy who’s awkward around women. Make the effort to be confident around women. That combined with the money will make you really deadly.
This is all men ever need in order to have a girlfriend. If someone does not understand what I am saying in this comment, or what you are saying in your video, it is not yet time for them to think about having a girlfriend. Great video bro 💪(yeah I hit the gym regularly. sry bout that, but not sry)
You hitting the gym, is solely on interest there are guys that hit the gym only so that they can attract women instead of improving health and fitness.
Kam, I’m fan of your vids. How do I talk to my crush if she sit next to me in class. How do I start a convo with her that can keep going. Some info: we only ever talked once and it was only for a short minute. To me it seemed like she wanted my attention but I just didn’t know what to do.
Best mindset to have: she is only just a human being just like you. She is no different to you so just treat her like a normal person which she is. Don’t complicate it and get lost in your thoughts. As kam said, just be confident in yourself
If there is any girls seeing this comment whats your thoughts on this vid because me personally bro is speaking facts because most men don't know how to talk to women nowadays because they fear that there going to get rejected but if your energetic fun loving and care about your appearance then girls will want to hang about with you
I just go up to my crush in the same mood as anyone else. My (girl)friend, told me that we really match with each other. Same morals, same preferences. I really like her, but I just talk to her. It's really that simple. It's easy. Just relax, go up to her, make mistakes, be silly sometimes but also serious, be human, be yourself.
he knows it's alot of Lonely dudes out here that's why he's always going to talk about how a guy can get women videos with a deeper meaning are boring to most people and he won't get that many views.
You should play the decade game "how i get the correct one as a mother of my kids". When you want to be fiancees each other choose to be the only one, a gf is not a fiancee (so it ain't loyal).
I’m 15 I haven’t had a gf but my best friend is a girl and I FaceTime her every single night for hours i had a crush on her then I told her and she lied to me that she liked me also one question she asked me is how much money u have witch is a red flag but tbh u don’t need a gf they gonna leave u just get a female best friend
From how I see it. It works but personally why would you want someone who is attracted to people that shit on them, it kinda shows their character and lack of maturity. There’s a difference between teasing and straight up negging mind you
First of all, no man should be chasing women for relationship women chase men for relationship so relationship is not what men look for women look for that man look for sex and women look for commitment.
Yeah it’s corny in general to be at the gym with hoodie up corn balls 😂.fellas hit the gym get in amazing shape and make money improve your life 🙌🏿 .But don’t think those are the main things that will get a girl in your life those things just help definitely. Put your big ass ego to the side you gotta be well rounded have an attractive mind set and stand out too.
I dont even want a gf. I just want life to stop beating me down.
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You want life to stop beating you down brother it all starts with you. For me this speech helped me maybe Itl help you. It’s called not done yet by coach pain. Wish you the best man.
Stg...
Life will always beat you down. You need to get used to it.
Fight back
"Don't waste your time chasing butterflies. Mend your garden, and the butterflies will come." -Unknown
That's bs
@@tm_yt496😂bro really thinks a quality women will walk up to him
@@tm_yt496Dumb
@@shadooks4774You’ve never had a girl pursue you, that much is obvious. I’ve had it happen several times lol. Trust me, girls can be just as thirsty.
@@BD-1-And-Onlythats not guaranteed. Im a 6'5 muscular dude whose lost over 100 pounds and never have i ever had someone approach me for romantic interest FIRST. That is luck based on who you meet through the day. If you dont meet new people it wont happen and you gotta make it happen yourself. Put some control on your opportunity and all that
Hitting the gym is good for you and even if it isn't for girls it should be for yourself
If you're super unattractive physically like really obese it will help make you look nicer to women, but I go mainly to improve myself and its good for me mentally
@@lowqualityvideos1492 Fax
Yeah its good but so many people nowadays take it way too serious. Just train normally and realise fitness much beyond gym too.
Fitness is more than just the gym. It can be going for runs, bike rides, hikes, rock climbing, walks even, boxing etc
@@lowqualityvideos1492W
I'm disappointed IN myself as a 19 year old to be going to TH-cam and other places for help about this but thank you for making these so I can learn and actually achieve my goal
Nah don’t feel embarrassed, im 21 and learning the game 😭😭
@@teeceedoc we in this game together then haha
Aye man we in this together fuck it
Same 😢
@@BM-qd9px hell yeah we got this
00:01 You don't need to focus on looks or money to get a girlfriend.
01:37 You don't need money or fame to get a girlfriend.
03:34 Stand out to attract her attention.
05:35 Attraction is deeper than superficial things
07:25 Attraction is based on familiarity and comfort.
09:15 Attraction is based on familiarity and early experiences.
11:01 Physical fitness is important for attracting a partner
12:53 Develop a general athletic base and competitive nature.
14:43 Put yourself out there and meet new people
16:29 Confidence is the key to getting a girlfriend
Crafted by Merlin AI.
Explain the first point and the 7th point please
@@kb1248he explains it in the video
@@kb1248watch the video
watch the video lol@@kb1248
so delusional lol. attraction is almost entirely looks,height, and some personality. brad pitt will always pull more than danny devito
this dude just spoke facts for 17 straight minutes
clearly.
yapper
Don’t delete this please
Is he fr deleting vids?
fr why would he@@Mottherr
Bro you asking him for a lot
he's been deleting videos for a while now@@Mottherr
Screen record and post it on your channel
ong bro socialize with people more people don’t wanna be around a someone who has their head down and talks to no one. when i talk to people more often like new people in public i can tell it seems like it doesn’t happen often because it doesn’t. people don’t really socialize like that especially with strangers anymore bro. aswell as females being approached in person. guys don’t do that nowadays. having good energy is a big plus. be a positive outgoing person that lights up a room 💯
OMD NPC parrot just discovered a new invention OMD nobody knew that.... Like wtf Kam just told us
Some people are very shy and are too afraid to put themselves out there it takes a lot of courage bro for someone who’s very shy do u honestly think it’s easy to push yourself outside your comfort zone
@@adrianchico8886 no it’s definitely not bro. but i did it. you gotta have the fuck it mentality. if i can do you can too bro. anyone can do it. it’s really a battle in your own mind. just start off slow talking to people saying hi and nothing much else. take little steps. as long as your getting better than before that’s what matters
@@GabKk-q9u npc asf 🤣
you right gang cuz right now i am in my hi what majors you in era, so i gotta move in to the what u like to do for fun soon@@tjgotbands
Love how these not edited videos ate trending now. Shows that world is going to be a good place.
I love this style of video where you draw everything out it helps me understand what a good analogy
It isnt about gettin a gf, but just be yourself until you find some one that likes you for the way you is💯
You always teaching us how to get girls but never how to keep and maintain the relationship
Just stay consistent with what attracted her
You have to get her with the good reasons
The best video of yours yet, opened my eyes, unlike other videos
Im gonna try to explain this into my own words for this sugguestion as much as possible but also, can you make a video for youth people who are like 12,13,14,15,16 or under that... about why the hub or something would ruin your life, or think of woman as sexual obejcts or have bad masulinity and what looks you'd have after bursting... I want you to make a video for youth... because your prob one of the only people I trust for these issues or people who are at those youth age or going through puberty to man up to not watch porn or any of that please, thank you.
he already did its why nofap is not good or something like that
Yes, true, buy I find that you have at least put yourself out there and miss sometimes because not every person gels and that's fine😊
It's very hard to run a mile in 6 minutes for the average person
8 mins in my school
yeah that shit is tough lol and when he said that i was like nahhh but maybe.... I ran it in 7:33 last week and i'm 250lbs, ima drop another good 25 and then see if i can get in on that 6 minute
Lowkey advice from the heart yall FOCUS ON GOD FIRST hes yo guide, u can get a good girl but if u aint Got God then was the poiny
yup. God guides you both together as ONE!
W islam
@@raiden6852 it reality i aint even islam but it reality what the point of a girl without God. Gods coming soon
U reminded me about that, tysm.
@@iambaofficial Glad to help, not me it The Lord. Find a girl that will help you seek God, because his coming is soon
U a real one for this ❤️🙏🏾
My girl of 2-3 years broke up with me. I self sabotaged a little but I regret loosing her. She now has a boyfriend who is not as good looking as me. But she was a genuine girl who falls in love with you for the person you are not looks.
This the most realest video cam has ever dropped and I been watching him for like a year now
Videos with a black guy talking to the camera without editing are always the best
U know it’s real when bro brings out illustrations bro even got physiological and scientific 😂
This meet people advice makes me depressed cause I'm stuck in my town for at least the next year and there is nothing except the Gym here that interests me. . .
I'm 26 and the last female friend I had was when I was like 10 or something.
Clean, simple, no fluff, straight to The point/facts, authentic.
My man you finna go far.
But you might get shadow banned 🙄.
Also what is it with the black dudes spittin pure facts?
this ain't just helpful for women its helpful for life dawg gracias and thank you very much my man cuz that shit about being real and no fake you ( more or less) is valid af I mean I worried about what might make money instead of what would be most genuine to me
I’ve been saying this for years but I’ve always told “just say you don’t have game” brother I’m giving you the game, you just can’t see it cause you’re not him 🤷♂️
Me watching this after getting dumped is crazy 😂
Girls mostly date based on looks. But I agree money and fame isn’t what you want for a girl to be genuinely attracted to you
as a 6th grader i can't rlly take away
Don’t worry about stuff like this, you’re too young. Wayyy too young
The wholw point in the video is to have confidence and belief in yourself, thats all you need to get a girl
thanks man now i have a girlfriend
My parents are so good in socializing. They can talk to any random stranger specially my father but I can't.
You only got to be tall, handsome, in shape and nice dressed. I only see women with tall boyfriends on Valentine’s Day stories of people that I know.
Stay in there man, my lil cuz (16), managed to have a solid ass relationship outta nowhere, and for context this boy’s built like a twig and 5’9, so maybe a lil worse than average. He got that relationship locked in because they vibed with each other, and trust me, the women that’re chasing men for superficial things like height and being in perfect shape are the ones you wanna be the farthest away from. There’s some things you can’t control, but keeping yourself in shape and dressing decently is something that you can control. You don’t have to be crazy in shape looking like an instagram roid head, but fitness is good, and you don’t have to drop a quarter band on a decent fit, jeans and a decent looking hoodie go far. Control whatchu can and hang in there. Gl!
Bro my friend is skinny fat and he pulls so many girls wym bro. Same with some kids at my school. They are fat but still date girls.
Good video it's very valid and makes a lot of sense. I get a lot of female attention now and It all started when I stopped my extreme self improvement kik, stopped idolizing females and just started being me. I was very stressed depressed and alone when I had a jawline, abs and was trying to force myself to be a "Chad". Just be yourself, stop chasing and relax guys and the women will come to you and be the ones trying to impress you instead.
All of this is extremely accurate and I won't be surprised if TH-cam decided to take your video down. Nobody can handle the truth.
Idk why this hit my algorithm. I must be that single
1 mile in 6 minutes or less? Dawg u on cocaine? That’s fast as hell🤣🤣
Damn this video actually woke me up to reality. I always thought attraction worked the way all these major red pillers liked to talk about it but this video tells it how it actually works in this world. Thank u Kam for saving us from delusional ways of thinking about how attraction works
dont listen to red pill, they are just trying to make a bag off weak men
low key the most helpful video i have watched yet
I like yo vibe bruuuh.Keep it up bro👊!
God bless you brother❤
So you suggest become friends with girls platonically first, but how you do that? I haven't encountered women where I work or where I hang out with my friends in years
@shaun3713right, and ive seen a majority of women complain about male friends opening up to them
dont chase them, attract them to you like butterflies
This advice has given me a lot of motivation, thank you so much😊
I like the visual analogy makes a lot more sense
Just recently came across this dude, god danm what a good day to live 🔥🔥
6 minute mile is pretty fast for MOST ppl
You need the gol d Roger trilogy, wealth fame and power 💀
Thanks man!! Have been blinded since!! But now am filled with the truth
Bro this was such a perfect explanation Thanks so much bro ❤️🙏🏽
A girl already told me I’m her favorite. What should I do?
where do i meet girls to talk to tho if i’m not in school and there’s not many girls at my job
Join a group: dancing, fitness, cooking etc.
Get your passport and go where its easier
The easiest way to get a girlfriend is if she likes you and tells you up front. Period
This is the most wholesome and genuine video I have ever fuckin seen, deeply appreciated brother👊🏼🤘🏼
I think the more you do something is by mastering it. You should interact with women while you’re on your purpose. Where I work I always talk to the women that come through. I work out 4 days a week and read 1 hour a day. Don't just focus on money because you’ll end up like a rich nerdy guy who’s awkward around women. Make the effort to be confident around women. That combined with the money will make you really deadly.
this real asf, thanks Kam
Once you started talking about cardio, I knew you wasn’t knowing none
nobody needs another video after that masterpiece bro
Outta all languages bro chose to speak ABSOLUTE FAXXXXXXXXXXX🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️
This is all men ever need in order to have a girlfriend. If someone does not understand what I am saying in this comment, or what you are saying in your video, it is not yet time for them to think about having a girlfriend. Great video bro 💪(yeah I hit the gym regularly. sry bout that, but not sry)
You hitting the gym, is solely on interest there are guys that hit the gym only so that they can attract women instead of improving health and fitness.
Kam, I’m fan of your vids. How do I talk to my crush if she sit next to me in class. How do I start a convo with her that can keep going. Some info: we only ever talked once and it was only for a short minute. To me it seemed like she wanted my attention but I just didn’t know what to do.
ask her whwat her plans after high school is after you ask her if she doing good in this class
Best mindset to have: she is only just a human being just like you. She is no different to you so just treat her like a normal person which she is. Don’t complicate it and get lost in your thoughts. As kam said, just be confident in yourself
If there is any girls seeing this comment whats your thoughts on this vid because me personally bro is speaking facts because most men don't know how to talk to women nowadays because they fear that there going to get rejected but if your energetic fun loving and care about your appearance then girls will want to hang about with you
love u man , i needed to hear this .❤
I just go up to my crush in the same mood as anyone else. My (girl)friend, told me that we really match with each other. Same morals, same preferences. I really like her, but I just talk to her. It's really that simple. It's easy. Just relax, go up to her, make mistakes, be silly sometimes but also serious, be human, be yourself.
I am too nice and I can feel it, it's the worst thing ever to be honest..
As a man become the best version of your self
New subscribers love your input and stay 💪 men it’s tough for us right now
Y'all just gonna be like tom and jerry doing a wild goose chase, lol 😆
bruh that carti reference got me dying
6 minute mile or less is insane for someone to be “fit” this is coming from someone who runs track and xc
I was convinced by the metaphor of whole lotta red
I like the videos but can you make more videos that have a deeper meaning not just girls?
Bro needs bread fam
@@radicaledward5701😂😂😂😂😂
He does
he knows it's alot of Lonely dudes out here that's why he's always going to talk about how a guy can get women videos with a deeper meaning are boring to most people and he won't get that many views.
@@bonorton5870 true
Thank you I needed this earned a subscription for me
You should play the decade game "how i get the correct one as a mother of my kids". When you want to be fiancees each other choose to be the only one, a gf is not a fiancee (so it ain't loyal).
He's on to something. Let him COOOK
Lmao if i gota wait for a girl im be waiting forever
so basically if you have good relationship values you get a good one
Ayooo lov your videos man glad u post some new new
This is some of the realest shit I've ever seen.
You should make a vid as to what to do after getting a girls #
Bro changed his pfp to batman
This was a W video 🔥🔥, thanks Kam. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Kam whats the best skin care routine to help my skin. Imma black guy
I dont think this is the easiest way to get a girlfriend but the easiest way to find the right girlfriend
I’m 15 I haven’t had a gf but my best friend is a girl and I FaceTime her every single night for hours i had a crush on her then I told her and she lied to me that she liked me also one question she asked me is how much money u have witch is a red flag but tbh u don’t need a gf they gonna leave u just get a female best friend
Also guys read 48 laws and laws of seduction
The views it going up and up 😮💨💯
It wasn't actually backwards as well 😅
I lowk js saw a baddie and clicked dead ass
Anybody know how to get rid of acne scars?
Thanks kam ❤
what are your thoughts on negging? and can u make a video about it
From how I see it. It works but personally why would you want someone who is attracted to people that shit on them, it kinda shows their character and lack of maturity. There’s a difference between teasing and straight up negging mind you
@@BassoonGoon4Lyfe word
Money only attracts gold diggers because once u go broke they leave. That is why I drive a 2000 ranger truck on purpose to weed out ALL the bad ones.
I feel challenged, when my knee get better, I’m going to am for 6 minutes mile. The close I got to was 8:31.
The thing is... Women don't aprotch.
If you stand out they would
Excellent content especially regarding pheromones .
First of all, no man should be chasing women for relationship women chase men for relationship so relationship is not what men look for women look for that man look for sex and women look for commitment.
Yeah it’s corny in general to be at the gym with hoodie up corn balls 😂.fellas hit the gym get in amazing shape and make money improve your life 🙌🏿 .But don’t think those are the main things that will get a girl in your life those things just help definitely. Put your big ass ego to the side you gotta be well rounded have an attractive mind set and stand out too.
Or they just wanna get through their workout people who make up whole persona's on strangers corniest of em all
beware of the bbl warriors
Came in clutch Frfr