I try to stay away from coining myself as antisocial or social because I've noticed periods of my life where I swing between the two. If I look back at times where I've had one really good friend, or maybe a girlfriend then I'm super antisocial. I'll avoid hanging out with my friends because I'm just content with whatever I have during that period of my life. I would be totally fine sitting around by myself. And then in times where I've moved to a new place and don't have any friends or didn't have someone I relied to spend some time with, then I'm extremely motivated to be social. I find myself leading my groups of friends to do things. This could be the case with you. You've got your family that keeps you perfectly content so seeing friends can sometimes be overwhelming.
Don't see it as a defect, man. We all have strengths and weaknesses. I'm the same, but I just see it as I got more to work through and it's more outside my comfort zone - just like you were saying, gotta make some moves to put yourself out there. But it's alright as an introvert to take that solo time to heal afterwards. No defects, no flaws, just room to improve and some things come more challenging for us than others. Keep that high frequency, bro!
I can soo relate to this, dude. For some reason I'm soo damn inclined to taking closed ones for granted, therefore being all reserved and awkward, then just wanting to avoid such encounters as much as poosible. I'm sure it's got a lot to do with the 'old self' and ego, and how it's gotten outta hand due to negligence of my spiritual responsibilities.
I feel this so hard. I work as an actress and a model, and I also do vlogging and other things. But the truth is I'm like aghhh when it comes to actual social stuff.Also, I like your end thing there! Pretty neat.
hahah what dude no way!! the tv show is gonna be wild! Man I just cut all my hair too, it feels crazy! I swear its like hitting the reset button on how you think about yourself and your life. Cutting off the old story indeed. I think dealing with people is actually very tiring, and with the amount that you have on your plate now with baby owl, the mini gram and the hologram I can understand why you might want to avoid being overly social. I feel like its about conserving energy!
Hamish this fucking video helped me OUT SO MUCH. THANK YOU IT SAVED MY FRIENDSHIP WITH MY OWN BEST FRIEND. STAY TRUE DUDE AND THANK YOU SO FUCKING MUCH!
I think i'm more comfortable with keeping my distance to people. I guess i just hate the pressure that's on me when i have a relationship where someone "depends" on me
Chill, bra'. So is Peter Maguire ! Surfers have always had that slice of the brooding outsider; misunderstood misanthrope thing going on. It's a veritable prequisite to sustain the da street cred ! Whatever happened to Sugarman ? That guy that ran H2o out of Malibu. Elegant b+w shots...insightful anthro surf pieces.
Dude sooo relatable!!! Not only antisocial but awkward as hell, it just makes you come off as cold and rude when you really just want a damn hug
That hits home, man.
I try to stay away from coining myself as antisocial or social because I've noticed periods of my life where I swing between the two. If I look back at times where I've had one really good friend, or maybe a girlfriend then I'm super antisocial. I'll avoid hanging out with my friends because I'm just content with whatever I have during that period of my life. I would be totally fine sitting around by myself. And then in times where I've moved to a new place and don't have any friends or didn't have someone I relied to spend some time with, then I'm extremely motivated to be social. I find myself leading my groups of friends to do things. This could be the case with you. You've got your family that keeps you perfectly content so seeing friends can sometimes be overwhelming.
Way to keep it real man. I’m so glad you keep making videos. Thanks for making videos my brother.
Dude,I've been watching your videos since the trailer days and i have to say the amount of things in which I can relate to you with is uncanny.
I here you.. Feel I'm in your shoes with this one bro
Don't see it as a defect, man. We all have strengths and weaknesses. I'm the same, but I just see it as I got more to work through and it's more outside my comfort zone - just like you were saying, gotta make some moves to put yourself out there. But it's alright as an introvert to take that solo time to heal afterwards. No defects, no flaws, just room to improve and some things come more challenging for us than others. Keep that high frequency, bro!
dude we are the same
I can soo relate to this, dude. For some reason I'm soo damn inclined to taking closed ones for granted, therefore being all reserved and awkward, then just wanting to avoid such encounters as much as poosible. I'm sure it's got a lot to do with the 'old self' and ego, and how it's gotten outta hand due to negligence of my spiritual responsibilities.
I feel you for sure. Sometimes I’m outgoing and then sometimes I get in little funks where I don’t want to talk to anyone.
i feel you
everybody needs to be selfish and anti-social sometimes. I think you're being too hard on yourself. stay positive!
A lot of construction type guys seem to be a little antisocial. More into getting stuff done.
Facts
love it man I know the vibe just keep it real and keep rockn.
So true sometimes you do push away those you love.
Great name.
I feel this so hard. I work as an actress and a model, and I also do vlogging and other things. But the truth is I'm like aghhh when it comes to actual social stuff.Also, I like your end thing there! Pretty neat.
hahah what dude no way!! the tv show is gonna be wild! Man I just cut all my hair too, it feels crazy! I swear its like hitting the reset button on how you think about yourself and your life. Cutting off the old story indeed. I think dealing with people is actually very tiring, and with the amount that you have on your plate now with baby owl, the mini gram and the hologram I can understand why you might want to avoid being overly social. I feel like its about conserving energy!
Hamish this fucking video helped me OUT SO MUCH. THANK YOU IT SAVED MY FRIENDSHIP WITH MY OWN BEST FRIEND. STAY TRUE DUDE AND THANK YOU SO FUCKING MUCH!
I am EXACTLY the same..
The World is a beehive. it's hard for an artist to connect with all the worker bees. Because none are as interesting as his own mind.
that resonates
plentyplus1
Thanks plentyplus1!
Charlie King its nothing like bee hive ! Bee's communicate by theromoanes and connect with each other with ease ! By smells
BIGFOOT'ED HUNTER UK You really just took that to a literal leval bro. Thats what he was talking about in his original comment.
Awesome promo at the end Hamish!
i feel the same way all the time it kinda sucks ive been trying to step out of my own comfort zone instead of standing by and watching and listening
I think i'm more comfortable with keeping my distance to people. I guess i just hate the pressure that's on me when i have a relationship where someone "depends" on me
That outro is great Hamish, cant wait to see the show :)
i liked the trailer
people are mirrors.. hmm.
Scary aint it. Whats even scarier is we sub-consciously behave the way they expect us to behave...
fully sick mad hectic bro
Chill, bra'. So is Peter Maguire ! Surfers have always had that slice of the brooding outsider; misunderstood misanthrope thing going on. It's a veritable prequisite to sustain the da street cred ! Whatever happened to Sugarman ? That guy that ran H2o out of Malibu. Elegant b+w shots...insightful anthro surf pieces.
Never rub another mans rhubarb.
EJConrad this town needs an enema
I thought I'd been antisocial until I found out what it means.I know what you're sayin' though.
Don't sell out mayne